I Have Problems Making Friends

My social skills are dead! 216 People

    How to get people to become friends with me?

    ??? Even though I've hurt them in the past.
    imsoshady10 imsoshady10
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    I feel like if someone were to approach me,

    I'd either stumble over my own words trying to be polite or be a complete *******. Whichever happened, I'd end up without a friend .3. Oh wellps
    RealisticSmile RealisticSmile
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    It's Hard

    I find when I first meet someone, I have to work hard to find things in common with them because my interests are a little non-mainstream. If I do find something in common, I tend to put up a wall so they can't get too close. I guess I'm afraid of how they'd treat me if they...
    aislersan aislersan
    31-35, M
    Aug 14, 2010

    Heyy, I'm posting one of the most horrible

    and traumatic experiences in my life here because I have literally no one I could tell this story to, so I was hoping some of you guys might help me with advice or maybe suggestions for improvement or even pity. So my story goes a little something like this: (I'm struggling...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015

    hi there, I've had a problem

    for a long time. I don't really have common topics with general people. I like to know and talk the knowledges of history, politics, economics, arts, sciences, music and literature. but most of the people I know they just like stars, gossips, and scandals. so I really had...
    chiyu716 chiyu716
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    Am I Good Enough?

    I don't know if it's because im not good enough or if im too shy or if i look weird.. What is it? Jocks and preps make fun of me and people think im all around strange... Do I dress weird Or do i have a bad haircut?? what is it?? Why can't i have friends like everyone else?
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2013

    How to get people to become friends with me?

    ?? Even though I've gutted them in the past....
    imsoshady10 imsoshady10
    18-21, M
    Apr 24, 2014

    When I try to make a new friend,

    I don't really know what to say or how to start, and that is a problem that I always had. I have a few friends, but I think they don't really appreciate me. Any advice?
    Josue1277 Josue1277
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 30, 2014


    I really want to make more friends, but I never know what to say to people I don't know. It takes a few weeks for me to fully open up to someone, but not that many people are patient. Or they think I don't wanna be friends with them by then. I wish it was easier to talk to people...
    jule100 jule100
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2013

    I used to be the type of girl

    who walks to the beach with music blasting and then I get there and I sit there for two hours reading a book and listening to the waves. But recently things have changed and I've been volunteering at this haunted house thing and I get to scare people and I've met some great...
    sarahellie9088 sarahellie9088
    18-21, F
    Oct 23, 2014

    Not As Easy As It Looks ...

    Sometimes I ask people the question - How do I make a friend ? and they look at me with a blank expression on their face. They might be wondering what kind of question is this. It might be easy for some but it's not for me. I have been attempting to make friends since 1st grade...
    Tien101 Tien101
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2012

    I Have Problems Making Friends

    Try this sites http://TapHi.com  you try this chance for meeting some peolple inside or outside of your country. i hope that you get some of your self confidence back and everything :)
    taphiconnect taphiconnect
    Jan 16, 2011

    Self Conscious

    Late one night I was sitting in a small study area at college and while I was ignoring my studies, I noticed him for the first time, he was sitting in a reclining chair with his laptop on his knees. It was just the two of us, and suddenly I felt a little awkward because I had...
    Rinata Rinata
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 14, 2013

    I'm a Magnet For the Bad.

    I always attract the wrong sort of people. Not bad people necessarily, just people who I usually don't talk to after meeting them for the first time because we just don't get along. Maybe I give off the wrong first impression or something? It usually takes me a while to...
    immaheidi immaheidi
    18-21, F
    Aug 18, 2009

    I'm am in a poor school

    and I feel like my classes are very slow and it's hard to make friends when everybody around you does not understand the words you use and just treats you like a geeky freak and btw I just turned 13 and I'm in the 8th grade can anybody relate or give me advice
    Paternator Paternator
    13-15, M
    Aug 25, 2014

    I'm Shy And Introverted, And I Need Some Help...

    So I'm a sophomore in high school, and I already have a good amount of friends. However, I do want to make new friends, but this is sometimes quite hard for me. I'm just pretty introverted and not very talkative with people I don't know (although with my good friends I'm fine...
    ThreePatchProblem ThreePatchProblem
    13-15, F
    Oct 17, 2012


    I've realized that for the past years, I had made friends with my classmates, colleagues ad workmates but other than that I've never go out with someones whose not related with my work and school.. I don't know how to socialize with other.. I always run out of words.. WHat should...
    blueskyoutthere blueskyoutthere
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

    it's like no matter what i do

    and how i act but people always leave ...
    elimousey elimousey
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2015

    So I had a really bad day last Fri night

    and it was like every thing was coming to a point. Point of frustration I guess you could say. I work in an assisted living overnight with one other person each shift. Last time it was one of my fave coworkers and I was horrible company. He wasn't helping with being in a...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2014
    imsoshady10 imsoshady10
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    I Want to Attract More Positive People to Me

    I want to connect, it's just so difficult. I have plenty of acquaintances, and while that's nice, I wish I knew people I could talk to, learn from and laugh with. I wish I had a friend I could trust and rely on. To me acquaintances are different than friends. They are people you...
    4vrUnique 4vrUnique
    7 Responses Aug 17, 2009
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