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I Have Problems With Self Esteem

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    Kindergarden

     i dont know when it started or how to end it but  when i was in kinder there was this girl who would always make fun of me or say that im dumb or other  mean things. she would always call me fat or say that i was ugly and such well after that nobody would...
    trying247 trying247 13-15, F Sep 21, 2009

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    It's A Constant War

    It's gotten better lately, but it's still a real struggle to think any thoughts towards myself.  I tend to overreact a lot about things that I do wrong or incorrectly, according to me.  If I get a bad grade, I beat myself up about it, call myself stupid and horrible and...
    Wraith16 Wraith16 18-21, F Feb 15, 2012

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    Kind Of...

    I'm a very shy person. Not because I'm that way by choice but because of how I see myself. There are days where I feel like I am completely useless. I feel like people would have been better off without me entering into their lives. I have this problem where I believe that...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2011

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    My Problem

    My problem with self esteem is that I don't have any. None - Zilch. I feel like I am worth nothing. I look hideous, repulsive and any other derogatory words you wanna throw in there. I do get little bout of self confidence but it's never long until someone knocks that out of me...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2007

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    Self Image

    Honestly, I get really disgusted when I look at myself in the mirror when I don't wear makeup. I am very much exposed to a culture where you are not considered beautiful unless you are skinny, busty, have big eyes, a perfectly shaped nose, and flawless skin. I haven't left my...
    ASGKPFG ASGKPFG 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    (sorry about all the grammar and language mistakes, my english is not perfect but i'm trying to improve)   I wanted to tell you about my relationship with my brother...It was...
    Macaronz Macaronz 22-25, F Aug 19

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    I know for a fact that I could never have someone who I believe is extremely beautiful. So, I settled for just anyone who could make me happy. I just wish she knew that if I do...
    heisjessica4372 heisjessica4372 31-35, M Sep 4

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    I stayed home today, got my father yelling at me and curled up inside with a hot cup of hot cocoa all because I couldn't bear letting people see my acne-covered face. Ugh.
    mdgermshi mdgermshi 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    okay so my computer has a virus, and I have software that doesnt let me on an **** sites. Its saying that EVERY story is somehow connected to ****... I can't read or comment on any...
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F Aug 21

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    My mom used to smoke when she was pregnant with me but she stopped. Now 16 years later I found a lighter and a pack of cigarettes in her purse when I was looking for her car keys...
    Beatrice327 Beatrice327 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I lose weight. I gain weight. I completely restrict myself. I binge....but in a matter of weeks not days. I'm so hard on myself but I've been overweight forever!!!! Why can't I...
    Jackiebh Jackiebh 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    My entire life is spent thinking "how can I improve the way I look". "If only I could lose a few pounds". "If only my nose was shorter, my hair longer, my teeth whiter" I feel...
    xxlouisebaby xxlouisebaby 22-25, F Aug 30

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    I always feel like I have to compare myself to other people. It gets under my skin all the time. It eats away at me everyday. It kills me and I have no remedy to get rid of it or...
    thesorrybumblebee thesorrybumblebee 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    every time I trust someone it blows up in my face. I trust fairly easily tho. plus I have such low self esteem I think I'm fat.... ugly.... a mistake..... hurt everyone I meet
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I have discovered that this is my biggest flaw and challenge in life. Low self-esteem truly affects me and causes me both physical and mental distress that is unbearable much of...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    i dont really have much self esteem anymore. i used to be really fat but even then, I was happy and I felt pretty. nowdays, i dont. it's like, everyone tells me im pretty and that...
    TrueLondon TrueLondon 18-21, F Sep 3

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    Ive been battling self-conscious and low self esteem for sometime now.. Hav u ever experienced asking ur seatmate or friends for answers for exams or seatwork? And soon finds out...
    Chiscuit Chiscuit 26-30, F Aug 25

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    There was a small time in my life that my confidence started to bloom. I modeled for a few photographers, I was happy with the way I looked minus a few things if course. I...
    MarKri MarKri 22-25, F Sep 7

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    I've been having some thoughts about this for a few days now, which I might have partly reflected in comments I've made here and there, can't remember... What I've been thinking...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    My self-esteem is like a rock. The higher you bring it up, the harder it comes down .-.
    FluffyTheCerealKiller FluffyTheCerealKiller 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Everyone who is a little bit closer to me knows how low self esteem i have. It is unbelievable actually. There's no part on me that I'm satisfied with. I mean physically. And...
    anrim654 anrim654 18-21, F Aug 27

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    My self esteem is lower than ever now.......
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    My self esteem is lower than ever now.......
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    my self esteem is so low that i cry in public when i see someone pretty and wish i were them. never tell yourself that you are ugly. never, ever, compare yourself to someone. not...
    xenababy7 xenababy7 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    This all started when I was in middle school because I had and still struggle with my weight because back in middle school I was pretty much overweight my entire life. In middle...
    Jordanbeautiful Jordanbeautiful 18-21, F Aug 18

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    So this is all probably tied together. I used to have serious problems with my self image. Like so bad I dropped from 200 to 160 lbs in two months one year by walking everywhere...
    shintoangel226 shintoangel226 26-30, T Aug 26

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    If someone shot me, I would thank the person who pulled the trigger. If I got ran over, I would thank the person who was the driver. If I got pushed off a roof, I would thank the...
    xTorix xTorix 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    We all have problems, it's life. I suffer from depression. I have a miserable home life. Im sexually confused But I stay positive, because that's what a reall woman does. I am...
    Tilou420 Tilou420 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I don't have a lot of problems with talking to people. I'm only making this post because I just had a realization. When I meet someone for the first time, I will always struggle...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Today she asked me if I thought I needed to see a therapist. I said yes and she reacted by saying, "ha you think you have problems if you go to therapy with people who have REAL...
    FalseAdulation FalseAdulation 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I have problem with girls and they suck am a butch lesbian and when the conversations gets more going they just go offline it really sucks and makes me sick
    natashae natashae 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    hi i am from new delhi india i want to have sex with a sexy girl i will pay her gd bt i dnt hv ma prsnal place to **** plz help me out wht to do
    sexyboy034 sexyboy034 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    17 year old boy looking for a older man of any age to have sex with me! I'd do anything you want so message me?
    benw19 benw19 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Even though we don't have a label on our relationship, I still want to have sex with him and kiss him and hug him and cuddle . I like the way he feels inside of me . I don't know...
    neuroticgal neuroticgal 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My goal: to be the person I want to be with in more ways then one... With this in mind I find myself getting anxiety from a place of self perfectionism, but then I take a step...
    mzwhat mzwhat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I really do. Growing up being told that you're a failure and never going to amount to anything tends to have that effect on someone. On a side note since my esteem is so low it...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't need to live my life waiting or trying to be "good enough" because I am already "good enough" right now, right now I am perfect and I will always be perfect for me. -self...
    mzwhat mzwhat 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I view myself as having low worth so I automatically think people are judging me as low in worth, weird, freakish, complex,?so much stuff. I wish I had more self confidence.
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I have had them since I was very young and I been hurt so many times. It's hard for me to trust almost anyone. So don't take it personal it's just the way that I am. The low self...
    Wolfy14 Wolfy14 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I've grown up being bullied because I was always overweight. I wasn't the perfect size, I didn't wear a boat load of makeup. I didn't wear the popular brand name clothing. every...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    With all the people that have hurt me in my life i don't trust anyone. I don't need to feel any worse than what already do and i don't need to be falsely happy again.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M Aug 21

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    I really don't like myself at all. I have dreams and goals of becoming something I don't believe I can be. I'm not even going to make to start my senior year considering I was a...
    onlyme313 onlyme313 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I feel that I have less of everything. I'm not pretty, smart, talented and no boy wants to date me. I have acne, uncooperative hair and my smile is crooked. My body is not that of...
    sunsetcountdown sunsetcountdown 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I dislike the way I look along with many others.
    onlyme313 onlyme313 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    There is literally nothing attractive about me. Physically or personality wise. Don't worry if you're reading this, you don't have to try to make me feel better. It doesn't work.
    ModernJob ModernJob 16-17, M Aug 31

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    Olga No matter how many times I punch the mirror it still reflects still projects still renders that horrid reality all too clearly I don't look at myself and think “cute” I...
    JaneBloodyAusten JaneBloodyAusten 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 3

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    I feel like I'll never have a relationship because I will never believe someone likes me.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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