I Have Random Questions For Alters Or People With Did

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    Smells

    i know as a child and growing up i had a problem with certain smell and there trigering flashbacks and it took a long time for my girl friend and hermother working with me to sort it all out but we also knew we had to get a hand on it even at age 12 or it would be an issue inout...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Are They Scared Of The Dark?

    For those of you with littles, are any of them afraid of the dark? Or do you wake up with the lights on? Just Wondering, mine seem to handle darkness just fine.
    darkdestiny921 darkdestiny921
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Multiplicity

    HI I WAS 27 WHEN I WOKE UP IN REALITY.   THE WORLD, PEOPLE, ENVIRONMENT I ONCE LOVED, I NOW HATED.   WHY,  THAT WAS SOON TO COME.  I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH DID LATER ON THAT YEAR.  ME, OF ALL PEOPLE!  I WAS THE SOBER, OVERACHIEVER, GOOD CHILD.  IN REALITY, I WAS THE ONLY...
    COPINGFRIENDS COPINGFRIENDS
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2011

    I Get So Tired...

    I am quite healthy considering all of the abuse (mentally and physically) I have endured and all of the self-medicating I did throughout my life. I am athletic and try to eat healthy and all that kind of stuff- HOWEVER -my alters tire me out. All of the different voices, the...
    Leena26 Leena26
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2012

    Life Use To Never Be Dull

    mine are pretty much fused most of the time i know certain time of the years is is hard for some then others and this year seen to be veryhard for some reason as on is missing the friend her grew up with and we lived with each all thought highschool with her mothers and we were...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Favorite Foods/desserts?

    Ok so here's one, with DID myself we have 31 favorite foods, including cake, lobster, pie, burgers, steak, pie, fruit, veggies, oatmeal, brownies, rice, oreos, yogurt, lasagna, tacos, enchiladas, hot dogs, cereal, salad, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, ham sandwiches, bologna...
    darkdestiny921 darkdestiny921
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Mar 14, 2011

    How Do You...?

    1. Handle interpersonal relationships? What do you do when there is a spat? How do you prevent fighting? How do you any your group manage relationships? 2. Keep track of everyone? Make everyone feel included and special? How many do you have to keep track of? How do you allow...
    EmoDragonfly EmoDragonfly
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2011

    Religion Or Beliefs

    Having D.I.D. and 8 defined alters, its a confusing question when people ask what religion we are. Lynn is something close to Buddhist, Selindra is Wicca, Kandy and I are agnostic, Oliya is atheist, Kyra is little but she believes in Jesus, and The Three Me's really don't care...
    Saebriel13 Saebriel13
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Mar 25, 2011

    How Sick Can You Really Be?

    Does anyone else have alters who have other  psychological disorders? Being really into psychology myself, I've noticed that there are several of my body-mates who seemed "bothered" by other problems. Like there are several who suffer from depression, and anxiety. One for sure...
    EmoDragonfly EmoDragonfly
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    Timing

    did your Others show up all at once or a few at a time? and how old were you when you first recognized them?
    spidersmalls spidersmalls
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

    Alters Helping Alters

    Saw this:".... [an alter] she (another alter) knew inside was flashing back and they needed her and keeping things under control INSIDE to keep the outside safe is top priority...you know? if the front needs me (Precious) and im helping my sister inside...to bad im gonna help my...
    1greywolf 1greywolf
    46-50
    1 Response Oct 15, 2012

    For Alters: Past Lives?

    In my system, it is said that every alter has a past life. It is unusual though if they remember it because after an alter is born, they go to judgement day to determine what area they are to live in. After that area is decided, their memory is wiped and they start fresh, right...
    chococat159 chococat159
    18-21
    7 Responses Dec 8, 2011

    Are You Able To Work?

    This is a question I ask because I can't work-I have tried to many times throughout my life but I have never been able keep a job. Not only am I DID but  am also Bipolar Type 1 and I have severe anxiety. I have frequent flashbacks of childhood trauma that can occur at any time...
    Leena26 Leena26
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 7, 2012

    When you want to ask questions about alters please...

    I (we) may edit this story to help others to understand about alters. Additionally, while trying to keep others that experience DID in mind as we write this, we are speaking from our own experience or perceived experience.First - Please don't ask us questions "What triggers your...
    1greywolf 1greywolf
    46-50
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    How Did Your Alters Act When They Frist Meet Your Friends?

    Title says it all. How did your alter react to meeting your friends? How did your alters act when they first came out? I really hope y'all comment!!!!!!
    Alters3 Alters3
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Nov 24, 2011

    How Do You Share Your Memories?

    Do you see/hear/feel what the alter in the 'outer position' does? Or do you get to know it afterwards? Don't you know at all what the other alters do while they're controlling the body? Do you have some memory gaps sometimes, but not regularly? ...?
    SystemOfSadists SystemOfSadists
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 15, 2011

    K.. Is DID a text book disorder?

    Can the way it 'works' vary? I have it, I just don't sound like what I'm seeing here
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    Sup. So, we're new here.

    I never heard of this place until Calypso's girlfriend mentioned she had one. Calypso wants to stay anonymous, but I wanted to ask other alters how I can help Calypso when things get bad. He just stopped eating, and while I'll eat and Jeslynn will eat, Calypso throws a fit. His...
    CNT283 CNT283
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014
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