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    We never lose by loving.

    We always lose by holding back. But there are times when holding back is the better choice, don't you think?
    CandyxCane CandyxCane 36-40, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    How Can You Tell If A Love Is Lasting And True?

    Have you ever had feelings for someone-- feelings of love and then asked yourself if the feelings are real or true?  Many of us have fallen in love at sometime in our lives and then found later that, in spite of the love and the confidence it gave us, the relationship did not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 34 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    Have you ever met the right person at the wrong

    time? He's everything you've been looking for, she's all you've ever wanted in a woman, only he's in a relationship, she's married, one or both isn't available and the timing seems off. But what if it isn't? What if, on the contrary, the timing is actually perfect? Think about...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 45 Responses Apr 14

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    hajelove19 hajelove19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Is it just me, or does it seem like people

    under 21 years are starting to take this site over?
    TazmanianAngel TazmanianAngel 18-21, F 53 Responses Jun 19

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    ILYmykakis ILYmykakis 31-35, F 15 Responses May 19

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    Five deadly terms used by a woman.

    . Yup, couldn't agree more :P (see pic for details)
    fusoya fusoya 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Grammar: the difference between knowing your

    **** and knowing you're ****.
    RiceBunny55 RiceBunny55 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 15

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    I sometimes look at those religious zealots

    who are heartless, murderers and can do about anything in this world ... and wonder, were they ever little innocent children? It is very difficult for me to imagine that they were once kids, that innocence has touched them just for once .... and then I look at kids around me...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    So I have prescription glasses

    that I can't stand and wear rarely. I hate contacts even more uhh >_< I've noticed that I'm getting more and more attached to my glasses now and I need them for pretty much everything :'(.
    jeyy90 jeyy90 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Every girl wants a guy who's a polite ****.

    .. Someone to hold the door open for her but still smacks that *** as she walks in.
    RiceBunny55 RiceBunny55 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    When Im sad I just sing

    and then I realize my voice is worse than my problems😂😂
    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 23

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    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Wish I could wet the bed

    and wear diapers at night someday I will get there
    Johntruck17 Johntruck17 18-21, M 15 hrs ago

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    We are at a day and age

    where information flows so freely that no one respects copyright.
    thelonewood thelonewood 26-30 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Teenager post.. 12 yrs old girls crying

    because they broke up with their boyfriends. When I was 12 I cried when I missed the morning cartoons.:🙊😛
    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 14 Responses Jul 9

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    I have random thoughts

    and some not so random. Relationships: Relationships are difficult at best. It couldn’t be any other way. You take two unique sovereign individuals, each with their own lives and try to force them into one existence. It doesn’t matter how much love there is, most every...
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    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    There comes a point in every relationship

    where we know we need to walk away. Even when every instinct in us is screaming to hang on for just a little bit longer, we don't have it in us to do it anymore. There comes a point when the pain of their words/silence/indifference becomes too hard to bear. There comes a point...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 21 Responses Jul 1

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    Some days I wake up and I feel numb.

    I wonder how I ended up here. It gets so hard being strong every damn day. I know that I chose to help others and in my heart I can't imagine doing anything else. From childhood I knew I wanted to live a meaningful life. But most days I feel meaningless, despite being surrounded...
    akmackg akmackg 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I was having dinner with a friend last week,

    enjoying good conversation and sharing laughs, when out of the blue she asked what was the secret to my constant good cheer. Her question gave me pause. I have a pretty good life in general. I do have my moments of darkness and loneliness like everyone else, but they don't...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 15 Responses Mar 22

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    Lucky Duck

    I was experiencing a lot of pain several weeks ago, not sure what it was and being a weekend, I couldn't book an appointment with my doctor. At the urging of my husband I finally decided to go into emergency at our local hospital. It was discovered that I had a kidney stone...
    Sungirl3 Sungirl3 46-50, F 36 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Ten Facts About You!

    1.) You are reading this. 2.) You're thinking that's a pretty stupid fact. 4.) You didn't notice that I skipped number three. 5.) You just checked it now. See! Told ya I did! 6.) You're smiling. Admit it, you totally are. 7.) You're still reading these facts. 9.) You didn't...
    Hongruilin Hongruilin 31-35, F 27 Responses May 12, 2013

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    She Is Adorable In The Morning..

    She walked lazily into the room where I was sitting this morning. I was at my kitchen table enjoying a glass of tea as I answered my morning emails.  She stopped and looked at me.  We made eye contact and I smiled.  She, still groggy from a restful sleep, did not smile back...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I must be a forgotten light.

    You turn me on whenever you come into the EP room, but never turn me off when you leave
    GJOFJ3 GJOFJ3 56-60, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Not really random so much

    as relevant. You walked in. I walked out. You stepped up. I stepped down. You made promises you couldn't keep. You said things so mean I couldn't sleep. You told me you loved me. Really! How do you love someone that you want to completely change. I'm sorry I said yes when you...
    akmackg akmackg 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've come to the conclusion

    that there is no such thing as a good girl. A good girl is just a bad girl who hasn't been caught yet. P.s. For the people that can't take a joke and actually take this post personally or seriously, do me a favor and block me. Yah, just go ahead and block me; that's like the...
    RiceBunny55 RiceBunny55 31-35, F 27 Responses Jun 29

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    Hey, can you get your friend.

    He's scaring everyone. Thanks.
    soweird530 soweird530 22-25, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    marvelherogirl marvelherogirl 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not fat I'm just

    so freakin sexy it over flows..xD.... Just kidding..lol
    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    What if I was a waitress in Miami?

    What if I went to live at a buddhist temple? What if I went to be homeless? What if I just leave all and chased the world to meet new people and get envolved in another life miles away? Be part of another realities...what if...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I dont understand why people ask

    if they can use the bathroom. No, I'm terribly sorry you have to crap in the back yard. ❤️
    lexifaith435 lexifaith435 13-15, F 15 Responses Jun 18

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    You can send a PM to somebody whose little

    green light is not on. In fact, you can PM someone any time. Who knew?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Graceful Exit, Or So I Hope

    I struggled with myself as I questioned the wisdom of sharing this. In the end, I realized that I have shared other things openly on EP and so, I feel this can be shared too. EP is a place of openness for many, including me. So I will share something with you all. I am struggling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Middle of da summer got jackets on em Dey not

    anemic Juss got ratchets on em
    DreadHeadNino DreadHeadNino 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Playing 'Scrabble' with yourself is actually

    fun.You don't keep score. You somehow come up with better words. Eh, not too bad I guess!
    atikin atikin 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Sometimes in the wee hours of the morning,

    I wake up and have the urge to run. Run while it's dark and it's just my music in my ears and my running shoes on my feet. And when I run I just want to keep on running like Forrest Gump. Run forward and don't ever look back.
    akmackg akmackg 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Another One To Ponder...

    I wonder if Woody and Buzz have ever met any of Andy's mom's toys....they probably have the same names....
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 18 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    So today at my new job we were doing physical

    training. Like learning to safely engage and restrain escalated residents. Now after that I am so sore but so happy! That soreness is motivating me to really just work on my outer appearance a bit more, just for the health benefits! Because despite my physical size I think I'm...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 3

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    undecided1129 undecided1129 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Did you ever meet someone you felt an instant

    connection with? You just seem to click, conversation flows, laughter is never far, you joke, you tease, you talk. Message after message the bond strengthens and feelings develop, insidiously at first. By the time you realize what's happening, it's already too late, you're...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 14 Responses May 9

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    When I was younger I used to try to sing around

    birds to see if they would sing back ... Thanks Disney 😂
    519M 519M 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Friendship at first sight...

    Do you ever wonder what it is that draws us to people? Why do we connect with some and not with others? Some people you can meet, spend a couple of hours with and feel as though you've known them your whole life. There's an immediate and almost instantaneous familiarity with...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I Have Questions

    Somedays I wonder: Are you truly real? Or, did I dream you into existence? And what I mean by that is this: What else could possibly explain you, other than my having dreamt you? How else could you conceivably have the effect on me that you do? It's as if you somehow found the...
    Hongruilin Hongruilin 31-35, F 18 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Isn't it weird to think

    that most people you know had sex? Like that cute little old lady sitting next to you on the bus probably choked on a d*ck at one point in her life. Anyways lol.
    nhammoud nhammoud 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 23

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    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I'm 19, barely out of high school,

    and I just sent an email for a possible 75k job. Aha WTF will I do with that money? Oh wait, that's right I'd have to relocate, and pay all my bills. Yes please hire me dammit!
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's pretty amazing how aggressive some men can

    be when it comes to girls who like girls. Like I just had a dude message me after I said I like flirting with girls, and he said "don't you love rough hands on your body?" Well, no. I don't like callouses and rough skin. That's my preference. I love guys and girls who are more...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Wild Afternoon Musings..

    We were both standing by my workplace desk, chatting about work..he casually bent down to retrieve something out of my desk drawer. I'm sure he was clueless to the fact that having him this close...bending down, dangerously close to my...navel, sent my brain cells into a tailspin...
    Sungirl3 Sungirl3 46-50, F 38 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    "I'm fairly certain YOLO is just Carpe Diem

    for stupid people." - Jack Black