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    I Have Questions

    Somedays I wonder: Are you truly real? Or, did I dream you into existence? And what I mean by that is this: What else could possibly explain you, other than my having dreamt you? How else could you conceivably have the effect on me that you do? It's as if you somehow found the...
    Hongruilin Hongruilin 31-35, F 15 Responses May 9, 2013

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    I don't understand why men are obsessed with

    their penis size and why the assume if they have a large penis, they suddenly know how to have sex. And then they have the gall to tell a woman that her man isn't pleasing her because her lover's penis isn't as big as his. I mean seriously.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Just because I like this.

    .... The Type Sarah Kay If you grow up the type of woman men want to look at, you can let them look at you. But do not mistake eyes for hands. Or windows. Or mirrors. Let them see what a woman looks like. They may not have ever seen one before. If you grow up the type of...
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok, Really...

    I think it's a simpler and much more believable theory that all the dinosaurs got married, and just stopped having sex altogether.
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 13 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    How Can You Tell If A Love Is Lasting And True?

    Have you ever had feelings for someone-- feelings of love and then asked yourself if the feelings are real or true?  Many of us have fallen in love at sometime in our lives and then found later that, in spite of the love and the confidence it gave us, the relationship did not...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 35 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    The Mondays: 10 Random Thoughts For the Week of August 24, 2009

     I spent this last weekend in Los Angeles.  My close friends were having a baby shower which suddenly got canceled as they up and had the baby.  My other friend had a birthday party happy hour thing.  It was a bit of a whirlwind weekend, but as always, my mind...
    EPjake EPjake 26-30, M 37 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Another One To Ponder...

    I wonder if Woody and Buzz have ever met any of Andy's mom's toys....they probably have the same names....
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 20 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    Ya ever wonder why someone

    that just seems so damn plain Jane and very ordinary has so many followers who drool and slobber over her? What am I missing.
    BeastFlame BeastFlame 46-50, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey, you aren't all that honey.

    Nor are you dude. Just saying.
    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    She Is Adorable In The Morning..

    She walked lazily into the room where I was sitting this morning. I was at my kitchen table enjoying a glass of tea as I answered my morning emails.  She stopped and looked at me.  We made eye contact and I smiled.  She, still groggy from a restful sleep, did not smile back...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 14 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I stopped a truck one day full of guy's ,

    big and burley ones ! I asked them "aren't you the least bit embarrassed ?" They said " for what ?" I said What do you mean for what? I said "for stepping out of a truck that says Semens Company? " I would be embarrassed to cash my checks! Hahaha True story.
    Sweetchick5 Sweetchick5 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 16

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    Ten Facts About You!

    1.) You are reading this. 2.) You're thinking that's a pretty stupid fact. 4.) You didn't notice that I skipped number three. 5.) You just checked it now. See! Told ya I did! 6.) You're smiling. Admit it, you totally are. 7.) You're still reading these facts. 9.) You didn't...
    Hongruilin Hongruilin 31-35, F 26 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Who Is Against Plastic Surgery It makes more

    impact when a person not considered as superficially beautiful by general society standards declares that she does not need plastic surgery even if she can. This shows a true realization that superficial beauty does not make a person happy. Declarations of the same nature but...
    thelonewood thelonewood 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel like drowning in sap with an ironic

    smile on my face. "Don't make that face, it'll get stuck like that" (: (: (: :(
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Dear God I'm so bored

    and am craving interesting conversation.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The Mondays: 10 Random Thoughts For the Week of September 14, 2009 (sort Of...)

    Monday. Why do I always feel like it is the most dramatic of all the days of the week.  If Mondays could be personified in a character... I think they would be the over-the-top, bitter Queen.  Always in need of making an entrance.  Something we all hope to avoid...
    EPjake EPjake 26-30, M 27 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    Do You Like Jada More Than Me?

    Every other Friday, I usually go to lunch with my 8 year old daughter at her school.  It is a fun time and she is at an age where she still wants to be around me so I take advantage.  lol.  I was there at school with her yesterday, enjoying the best cuisine the school had to...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 9 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I drove through the edge of a storm this

    morning, a chaotic rain to calm dry in an instant. It was a rare experience for me. I can't remember seeing that before. Though, it seems in a metaphoric sense I pass through those points a lot.
    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why our AVATARS are so darn Small?

    It's bothers me big time!
    StarSphere StarSphere 51-55, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I remember when being "a sex addict" was just

    called being "a man". Imagine having so much sex that it becomes a PROBLEM!!! What a bizarre universe that would be...
    rocketman84 rocketman84 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's awful to put your heart

    and soul into something and have someone tell you it's ****.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    The Mondays: 10 Random Thoughts For the Week of August 31, 2009

    This weekend I decided to stay close to home.  It was a rare hot weekend in San Francisco... unbearably warm on Friday and Saturday.  Honestly, I am not a fan of sweating just because I am living.  Sweating is something that should be reserved for intense physical...
    EPjake EPjake 26-30, M 32 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    A Homeless Man Sharing With A Homeless Kitten

    There is a restaurant I sometimes stop at in the morning to pick up a quick bite to eat before work. I have to walk in past a few benches where people sometimes sit and dine if the weather is fair.  This morning, sitting on the bench closest to the walkway, there was a...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    I've been on EP since spring of 2012

    and one thing that I've noticed is so many people on here are affected/ defined by public opinion. F*** public opinion. Stand alone and don't be a sheep. Be an original.
    SapioT SapioT 36-40, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    The Mondays: 10 Random Thoughts For the Week of September 28, 2009

    As get our start out of the gates racing towards another Friday... yes, that's right, it is Monday again... I have to say this weekend was much less eventful. It started off with a rather fantastic EP Meetup that EPArsineh planned at a local San Francisco institution.  I...
    EPjake EPjake 26-30, M 27 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    when I run out of hope,

    something's in my head all the time, I picture a situation, with no strings, with no worries, with no policy, exploring the basics in life, with a few true friends,... I could say I'd given up long time ago if I could't rest my mind in my imagination. currently, every thing...
    The8ob The8ob 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A Conversation

    Head: OK, Heart. Time to get it together. You've been living in fantasy too long, and it's time to snap out of it and embrace reality again.Heart: But... but... but... but... but...Head: See, that's what I mean. You're all muddled.Heart: What I was trying to say is that I like...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 14 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Two wrongs don't make a right.

    But, two Wrights made an airplane.
    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ex-Love This explains

    why some people get confused with their ex and the current one. First, there was no closure. Second, you still love your ex. But it's a different kind of love now. Third, you are no longer the same people as before. I got this from a movie. :D
    thelonewood thelonewood 26-30 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why is it that death gives meaning to

    someone’s life? Lately all that’s been on the news is the death of a certain politician. While he was alive, his integrity was questioned and he was attacked on a personal level. Now that he’s gone, no one has a single negative thing to say about him. He was a saint...
    juniper12 juniper12 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love TWD and I'm going to the C2E2 Comic con

    in Chicago on Friday to see Chandelier Riggs! (Carl)
    vksoccergoalie vksoccergoalie 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    A Graceful Exit, Or So I Hope

    I struggled with myself as I questioned the wisdom of sharing this. In the end, I realized that I have shared other things openly on EP and so, I feel this can be shared too. EP is a place of openness for many, including me. So I will share something with you all. I am struggling...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Wild Afternoon Musings..

    We were both standing by my workplace desk, chatting about work..he casually bent down to retrieve something out of my desk drawer. I'm sure he was clueless to the fact that having him this close...bending down, dangerously close to my...navel, sent my brain cells into a tailspin...
    Sungirl3 Sungirl3 46-50, F 41 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    When I'm angry about something ,

    and you try to calm me down, all you're doing is making me madder. You're giving me something else to be mad about ! When I'm mad, I need to be mad... why can't you just be mad with me ? LOL
    happinesswinsxx happinesswinsxx 41-45, F 19 Responses Feb 21

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    Have you ever met the right person at the wrong

    time? He's everything you've been looking for, she's all you've ever wanted in a woman, only he's in a relationship, she's married, one or both isn't available and the timing seems off. But what if it isn't? What if, on the contrary, the timing is actually perfect? Think about...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 37 Responses 6 days ago

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    Lucky Duck

    I was experiencing a lot of pain several weeks ago, not sure what it was and being a weekend, I couldn't book an appointment with my doctor. At the urging of my husband I finally decided to go into emergency at our local hospital. It was discovered that I had a kidney stone...
    Sungirl3 Sungirl3 46-50, F 36 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    owlabyss owlabyss 13-15, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    So......the Oscars last night,

    huh? If I ever gave an acceptance speech, I think it would have to go something like this: I want to apologize to any people out there with real crises.....right now, we are too busy picking the humans who are best at pretending to be other humans.
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 3

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    How To (maybe) Keep The Man You Fell In Love With

    I was having a conversation with a very close friend today and it got me to thinking about men and how we are perceived and treated by women whom we love. I began thinking about what it is that a typical woman wants in a man. More importantly, if she gets a man like she wants...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 13 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    I could stare at clouds all day.

    There like big fluffy lava lamps in the sky
    rocketman84 rocketman84 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Neighbors And The Etiquette Of Mowing The Lawn

    The recent rain has caused my grass to grow a bit higher than normal so I spent part of my Sunday mowing my lawn. While I was mowing, I noticed that my neighbor, Nicholas, had recently mowed deep into my property line out of courtesy to me. You see, that is what men do to show...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 27 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    What If You Made A Choice?

    What if you woke up tomorrow morning with no memories, not a clue as to who you were or what type of life you've lived? What if you had know it was going to happen, and you also knew it was going to happen again every night for the rest of your life? And what if, knowing...
    Hongruilin Hongruilin 31-35, F 20 Responses Mar 30

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    Am I the only one who wonders what "emo" hair

    looks like before it's straightened n ****?
    Firechiic Firechiic 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Friendship at first sight...

    Do you ever wonder what it is that draws us to people? Why do we connect with some and not with others? Some people you can meet, spend a couple of hours with and feel as though you've known them your whole life. There's an immediate and almost instantaneous familiarity with...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 18 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Inexperience isn't attractive.

    I never understood why being a virgin was the ultimate turn on. It was awkward and it hurt. I would never tell someone they should lose it as soon as they can. Wait until you're ready. But don't be used as some f*tish for someone. Random thought of the day.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Disappearing Dudes; An EP Phenomenon?

    One of the good things about EP is that I have been able to meet many people from varying backgrounds who hail from all over the world.  One interesting aspect of this is that I have met some cool guys on EP who I get along well with and with whom I have become friends with...
    thatguy1970 thatguy1970 41-45, M 12 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    You know how they say timing is everything?

    What if, somehow, you were able to re arrange everything that happened in your life to different times. Do you think you would be able to live without punishment of any kind?
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    About beauty Beauty isn't about having a

    pretty nose and pretty lips, it isn't about a nice body and gorgeous hair. Beauty is in the way we try to infuse kindness and caring into our words, beauty is in the way we smile, it is in extending a helping hand, offering a shoulder, a loving word, beauty is in being there for...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 9 Responses Apr 11

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    I was having dinner with a friend last week,

    enjoying good conversation and sharing laughs, when out of the blue she asked what was the secret to my constant good cheer. Her question gave me pause. I have a pretty good life in general. I do have my moments of darkness and loneliness like everyone else, but they don't...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 19 Responses Mar 22

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    My emotions are everywhere.

    I can't handle criticism, I can't handle keeping my head clear, I can't handle opposition right now. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    A box full of happiness at hand

    for one moment, only for it to be plucked by disappointment, and be gone the next.
    SinisterSmile SinisterSmile 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Irregularactivities Irregularactivities 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    : )

    Sungirl3 Sungirl3 46-50, F 12 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    It's so odd how much fat on your body dictates

    how you're treated. We all have the same basic parts. Organs, skin, and bones. Yet the amount of fat dictates who's attracted to you, how you're respected, what's healthy, what other's think of your health, the amount of judgement you will receive, the amount of negative and...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am at the point in life

    where I have "disposable income" and I can buy nice stuff. I hate it when I walk into nice stores / specialty shops and I am ignored. I am looking for a particular item and have been ignored in two of three specialty shops. I am going to buy the thing on the internet now...
    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I think we remember most

    if what was important to us, even if they were little things like scents or movies, or even a persons laugh or a view of a cool place.
    lysschris lysschris 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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