I Have Relationship Issues

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 226 People

    I can't tell if my bf is emotionally abusive.

    .. He's never physically abusive, but makes me feel like his anger is my fault- will never do the things I want to do or go out, wants to sleep all day, and when I ask him about important things like how he did on big exams I supported him through, or finding a job, or our future...
    Butterfly1128 Butterfly1128
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2014

    Anyone want yo be venting buds.

    Message me and we can text. I just need someone I can vent to and vice versa :)
    Thundross Thundross
    22-25, M
    Apr 29, 2015

    Wow I'm even more ****** up

    than I thought. I went over to my boyfriends house and we started making out. Let's just say that we got down to business. We were doing stuff for about 2 hours and I couldn't get hard. He shot twice and was still semi when I left. Like what the ****? I hate that I couldn't get...
    Imjustdone Imjustdone
    18-21, M
    May 25, 2014

    story time: the fight I had with my boyfriend

    tonight; I'm just so exhausted and tired of all this fighting. I'm completely lost. He firsts gets upset with me & calls me disrespectful for hanging out with other guys alone & I should respect that I'm in a relationship & I say I'm not disrespectful & that I just want to hang...
    xxseekingserenityxx xxseekingserenityxx
    18-21, F
    May 24, 2015

    I Don'T Want To Break Up, But Also Don'T Want To Live With My Boyfriend Anymore.

    We are both in our twenties and we've been living together for two years now. My boyfriend owns the house we live in; he owned it before I moved in - and was able to live comfortably financially. My issue is mainly financial. I just recently graduated college. My student loan...
    everythingchanges0033 everythingchanges0033
    26-30, F
    Oct 16, 2013

    Are We Still Datng Or What

    i have not being talking to my boyfriend for the past 1 month! but i see him every day at school,and i feel a connection between us,he always stares at me and i stare back !i just dont understand if w are stll in a relationship
    babejj babejj
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 27, 2013

    I'm in love with my best friend.

    .. but I have a boyfriend... idk what to do I'm so confused...
    kleopard88 kleopard88
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    Brief Encounter

    I have relationship issues . first of all i am a great believer in astrology/numerology and i live by them that as being i use them as guide lines to what my future holds for me. I have not been with a guy for 2yrs purely by choice in order to sort myself out , as foretold in...
    samibabe samibabe
    1 Response Aug 4, 2009

    Forgotten Girlfriend

    My BF has started a new job where he works 7am til 9pm but doesnt get home til around almost 10:40pm...when he gets home he eats and goes straight to sleep...that leaves me all day w the kids and i no longer get any me time or even any "us" time...ive been feeling very lonely and...
    More2Luv More2Luv
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 30, 2013

    My Love Life Over The Past Years

    It all started out last summer, I had just gotten back home from the hospital. There had been a guy who asked me to kik him a while back (message him). So I got around to it. We were fast friends, laughing, telling jokes, teasing eachother. I think we both had a bit of a crush at...
    DontFallAsleep DontFallAsleep
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2013

    I feel like my gf is pushing me away

    and i really dont want things to end. I love this girl to the moon and back and would do anything to make her happy.
    Thundross Thundross
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2015
    Thundross Thundross
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 26, 2015

    Knowing Ur Love Is Stronger Than Rough Times

    Hello, I have relationship issues with husband.  In few words, the main problem is how do I search myself to determine if my love for him is strong enough to continue through these rough times.  We have had different external factors disrupt our relationship and...
    angela8 angela8
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2009

    What Are The Odds?

    Every time I start to get close to a girl, they back off. Call me insane, but this is not the first time it happened. I have no idea what I was doing wrong. I am always nice to them and make them feel comfortable. There is this girl in my school, we are both into each other...
    sadf2343 sadf2343
    Dec 13, 2012

    So there's this ex of mine

    and we've always been the back and forth couple.. We've been in a back and forth relationship for the past 4 years and I'm pretty tired of it .. So a very eye opening thing happened and he ended up in the hospital and it hit me that I never want to experience life without him...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 24, 2015

    Comunication Issues

    I'm feeling alone and sad right now, I don't any friends I can talk to and well family is out of the question. I have a bf who I just don't feel comfortable enough to talk to we have only been together for a year but I just don't feel capable of sharing all my thought's and...
    DoraJuarez21 DoraJuarez21
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    he is upset for something

    that I said about him...it was very very bad on my part to say such..and now our little world shattered once again. .I don't know how do I make up for it...he just shut himself with all the pain inside him..he wouldn't talk to me..nor does he talk to anyone else..he doesn't like...
    BrokenSB BrokenSB
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2016

    Ok, so I have no one to talk to about this

    so I turned to this. I'm having issues in my relationship. I was a single mom and he was a single father and we met at work. I was a sales manager and he was a lead tech for my company. We both had our children full time and worked hard for them. So for 2 years we talked at...
    chrisjustme chrisjustme
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

    We're in an LDR and recently,

    its been getting more and more difficult since ive started getting busy. Both of us are busy now. Its not easy. Really, its not. I wish i could see him everyday. I wish that i could hug him when I'm sad, stressed, and tired. I wish i could see him and really look at his facial...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 28, 2015

    My boyfriend and I live together in my aunt's

    house. He got pulled over a couple months ago, and hasn't been allowed to drive his vehicle since. I have been very supportive. I have shared my truck, which is my prized possession. I haven't made him pay for gas or anything else to do with my truck. I have ferried him too and...
    KoreProctor KoreProctor
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2014

    Am I the only one who just want to scream

    sometimes??? I just want to scream HE IS SO CONFUSING SOMETIMES! I dont know i dont get it I have no idea i cant understand him sometimes and normally I can read people pretty well and understand them but him i have no idea sometimes! Like right now i was to both cry but at the...
    iloveyou2014 iloveyou2014
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    Well Im Stupid...

    We started talking he's been wanting to date someone in his area, he's in Texas in I'm in Minnesota he cheated on me at 3 months and 6 months...were pushing 10 months know...I don't know what to do I love him and I do t want to leave him I told him if still be his...is anyone...
    lilwiggles22 lilwiggles22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    Fights that have me in tears.

    . He gets uber pissed off, then takes his anger out on me. When I finally can't take I anymore, he won't talk to me for days on end. I litterally can't do these tears anymore. I cry near everyday anymore..
    BladexDancer BladexDancer
    18-21, M
    Nov 15, 2014

    My boyfriend just told me he keeps his family

    and me separate. He said it's to avoid conflict because they have issues with how close we are. That's why he doesn't kiss me in front of them, or say he loves me. Isn't this wrong? Why should he hide his feelings in front of his family? It makes me feel like he doesn't really...
    Greengurl22 Greengurl22
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2015

    So my relationship may end.

    I do not know what I feel though. Not sadness. I still feel a little hope but my mind does not care either way. What kind of face does a person make at a time this.
    Thundross Thundross
    22-25, M
    Mar 24, 2015

    I don't weather to stay with this guy

    that I've been with for a year
    justAteen99 justAteen99
    18-21, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    It's not really so much

    as a relationship issue. But I don't get when one person in a relationship expects so much out of you when they don't even have it all together themselves. Why is it so important to constantly say the same thing over again every single day, every hour or minute? Is it...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf
    22-25, F
    Oct 9, 2014

    Okay, so, I've been with my boyfriend

    for 7 months. I'm one of those girls who... basically really don't think I'm good enough for him, or anyone else really. Just kinda timid that I'm going g to mess things up with him. I'm also the type of girl who has that constant fear that he's just playing this huge joke, or...
    redpanda1997 redpanda1997
    18-21, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    So I hung out with a guy friend of mine

    yesterday & that extremely pissed my boyfriend off. we've been together 3 & a half years & obviously he's a very jealous person. he doesn't like my guy friends and doesn't want me to hang out with them because that upsets him. he told me that his friends & their gfs don't hang...
    xxseekingserenityxx xxseekingserenityxx
    18-21, F
    May 15, 2015

    Ditched And Falling Apart

    I was left alone by my partner tonight. This is the first time it's ever happened and I'm not sure what to do. We've been at odds this week and I can't figure out why, but I'm terrified. We leave for college in a month and I don't think he gets how hard it will be. We will be 5 1...
    Owlineedislove Owlineedislove
    18-21, F
    Jul 6, 2012

    My husband and I have barely spoken in over a

    week. I think I'm trying to be a good person. He tells me I'm mean, unsupportive, and constantly negative. I do get upset and yell. Not at him always, could be the kid left something on the steps that's broken, or the dog chewed another thing. I end up apologizing a lot because...
    teapotcrazy teapotcrazy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2015

    I am in a situation and I do not know how I

    feel about anymore. I met this guy and when we met we end up talking for hours before he exchange his number to me . he's a lot older than me , I'm 20 and hes 27 . We end up talking to each other all the time . Sometimes our conversations would go from 9pm-5am. We would talk...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo
    22-25, F
    Nov 21, 2015

    What Should I Do About This Situation

    I been dating this guy for 3 months, we talked all the time and we always have a good time when we are together and always laughing. He even said so himself that we have a great chemistry. The day before valentines day we were texting and the last text i receieved from him is wyd...
    thalia321 thalia321
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

    I just can't imagine being with someone

    and not being terrified that they're going to find someone better. Literally throughout all my relationships I've just been waiting for the day they leave me because I'm too much. I'm such a **** person and it sucks. Being like that made me jealous, paranoid, overly dramatic...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    I feel like ****. Me

    and my boyfriend were making out and it kinda got a lil crazy and I ended up giving him a hickey. I'm scared because I don't want his mom to see it. She would flip(she's not accepting of the fact that he's gay). also he said he normally tries to not get them. It's actually the...
    Imjustdone Imjustdone
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 21, 2014

    I Think I Must Be Crazy...

    Hello all, Okay so this is my story... I started dating this guy 3 years ago. Everything was great we seem to get along so great. we had the same intrests, felt the same way about life and the things we wanted out of life. The only issues was that he keeping me a secret...
    Chelle143 Chelle143
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2010

    I Think He Is Cheating:'(

    PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! I love him when we are together we are so so so happy. He tells me that he loves me. He told me he is settling that any girl he is with he is settling with because nobody is like him. Everybody says I deserve better that I could get better but I don't think I...
    AnonymousssNeedsHope AnonymousssNeedsHope
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

    Relationship Issues. Can Someone Help?

    So let me explain the details first. 3 and half years ago I met a girl(Elle) at school. She was a freshman an do was in my second year. We hit it off and started talking and we started a sexual relationship. We never got together and it came down to a booty call relationship...
    Chrisbrown2388 Chrisbrown2388
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

    I Cant Keep A Relationship For Longer Then 2 Weeks

    About 4 years ago I started dating this guy and it is to this day the longest relationship I was ever in. (three months). I know its pretty pathetic but anyways I was so happy with this guy. At the time I was anti social and super quiet. I didn't have any real friends and I didn...
    MiahhLuvssYuh MiahhLuvssYuh
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2013
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