I Have Relationship Problems

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    My wife and I love each other

    but in the bedroom is bad. I am in no way huge or big but she complains it's too painful for her. Dont ever do it longer than 20 mins. How do I address her with this?
    frankr68 frankr68
    31-35, M
    Sep 13, 2015

    I've been with my girlfriend

    for over a year now and i'm not sure whats wrong. I have lived most of my life alone, and this is my first girlfriend despite being 18. Most of my peers have already been with over a dozen women and have lost their virginity at age 15, and i'm still a virgin. i dont have a...
    tvanbus17 tvanbus17
    18-21, M
    Sep 21, 2015

    my wife and i dont have sex much

    because she doesnt want it but i do quiet alot i have even tried to buy things i would like her to dominate me a little i bought bed restraints arm restraints male chastity cages which she says she likes but wont take control of it she leaves keys where i can get at them or i...
    poohamock poohamock
    41-45, M
    Mar 5, 2016

    Hello, I'm new to experience project

    so help me out here :). So I need serious advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. We've been together for about five months, and to be honest he was so sweet and considerate for the first three and a half months. Then things changed... he practically ignored me at school...
    scutayyy scutayyy
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 9, 2015

    Dumped Out Of The Blue, Could I Get Him Back?

    Hi my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago. We had been going out for 3 years and before that we were very close friends for around 4 years. His reasoning for the break up was that we argued too much and although we did have a lot of arguments I personally feel they are things...
    geegee123 geegee123
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

    Relationship Serious Problem

    Hi all, I'm in a relationship that has started 4 years ago, maybe I should mention that this is my first relationship ever and now I'm 23 years old and she is 22. At the moment we have serious problems that we deal with everyday but we just cannot break up. I think I am the...
    Braddi Braddi
    26-30, M
    Sep 1, 2013

    I accidentally knocked my boyfriends upright

    bass over and the top part broke off and the strings and bridge fell off. When I showed him I said it was all my fault and that I was sorry and it was an accident. He proceeded to scream at me and tell me he hates me and wants me to move out. He then smashed his bass into pieces...
    neglectedgirl76 neglectedgirl76
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    Ok not the kind of response most people would

    expect on this topic...but I struggle with my relationship with my mother. I have started texting her a little bit lately, but she never wants to bother me unless I have something to tell her about what's going on in my house (she likes to be nosy since we don't live together...
    lovedownunder lovedownunder
    18-21, F
    Nov 18, 2014

    we've made eye contact at least twice this

    month just date me already
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 6, 2015

    I have a relationship problem

    and it's due to the fact that I can't start one
    deleted deleted
    Dec 11, 2015

    The girl I liked I asked her out she never

    replied then she said she did not think she was ready the next time a year later I ask her to prom and out she says she is not emotionally ready for any relationship at the moment now I ask her if she only sees me as a friend and her reaction was honestly only see you as a...
    Poisonmyst Poisonmyst
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    I don't know if yall can relate.

    .. But here it goes Before my guy deployed I had a lot going on, I lost my grandmother, my little sister was leaving for boot camp, my other sister and her husband and children were having money problems, I was job searching, I'm heavily in debt with school loans... Plus his...
    Bambieye Bambieye
    26-30, F
    Apr 14, 2015

    Hi dolla, I'm new here

    and just need to vent so I've been with my boyfriend for a year now everything is going good we just came back off our first holiday 3 weeks ago which was perfect. So one day while I was on his twitter some girl had posted that she needed information from him about there...
    Malika16 Malika16
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2016
    Zodiacsociety23 Zodiacsociety23
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2015

    So me and this guy have dated before

    and talked periodically two times .. before something screwed that up all within a year. Well recently we were talking and its was amazing, well unfortunately I'm retarded and started over thinking. We met up one night and. The next few days he was a bit light on the text...
    drinkingc0ke drinkingc0ke
    16-17, F
    Jul 18, 2015


    This is the kind of problems we argue about so much... (me) Eli: you invited friends and don want me there y.y i can hear it in your voice : ( why.... (her) Ska: Stop it eli! Go back to ur fkn friend! Factors to consider: I have no social life, not one friend whatsoever. I am...
    UnSick UnSick
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

    If you can't handle me at my worst,

    I don't blame you because that **** is ridiculous.
    concedead concedead
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    The past couple of weeks have been a nightmare!

    I don't think I can take the constant arguing much longer...
    biologynerd91 biologynerd91
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2014

    Good Guys Finish Last

    They always say the typical girl leaves the good guy. Like the expression, good guys finish last. Well, I found the perfect guy, he's nice and cute and thinks I'm perfect. I can tell when he compliments me he truly means it, he's the only guy that actually makes me feel beautiful...
    ThatGirlAhtumn ThatGirlAhtumn
    18-21, F
    Nov 5, 2013


    on the person involved, so I am not going to discuss it in public, which kinda defeats the object of writing something that others may see, but I just felt I needed to put something down.
    mizzen123 mizzen123
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2013

    Not Enough For Him

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and half. I am 5 months pregnant with his first kid. I am 100% loyal to him and love him with all I have. I am always thinking of him and don't want anyone else. Heres the problem: I opened his computer the other day and he had...
    jmorgan180 jmorgan180
    7 Responses Apr 15, 2013

    I am in a situation and I do not know how I

    feel about anymore. I met this guy and when we met we end up talking for hours before he exchange his number to me . he's a lot older than me , I'm 20 and hes 27 . We end up talking to each other all the time . Sometimes our conversations would go from 9pm-5am. We would talk...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo
    22-25, F
    Nov 21, 2015

    Should I go or try and work this out?

    I don't really know at this point. My ex and I recently broke up and we talk everyday like we're together. Now we have broken up so many times it's ridiculous, but this time is really different. He calls me by my first name more. When we are separated he'd slip and call me bae a...
    zy7a zy7a
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    I like to drink and my boyfriend likes to smoke.

    He hates that I drink so I haven't in months because he asked me not to. I asked him to stop smoking (weed) and he won't stop. I feel like this is a double standard and I shouldn't have to stop drinking of he doesn't stop smoking. He thinks that if I drink I will cheat on him (I...
    kd126 kd126
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    so my boyfriend gave me his phone to use

    and I saw a Facebook message from awhile ago from a blocked person saying baby baby and him sweet talking them... I immediately flipped out because like we were dating at the time and started asking him about it and I was crying really hard because I assumed he was cheating on...
    emlindsay emlindsay
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 6, 2015

    Dealing With A Wicked Baby Mama

    my boyfriend n i r wanting to get married i love him so friggin much n he loves me but its so friggin hard to be with him cuz his ex is about to have his baby n he has to constantly call n text her n take her to the hospital becuz if he doesnt act like hes with her shes...
    snwwhite snwwhite
    Mar 24, 2010

    Idk how I feel about this my boyfriend took a

    girl with him to LA that's a 2 hour drive from here to there and he didn't even tell me he was taking a girl up there by there selfs, he didn't answer my calls or text I had to find out he was with her threw Instagram & I look threw her page and she has pics with them two...
    marviemeow marviemeow
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    I'm realizing that I hate being emotionally

    invested in people because I'm so used to being disappointed. I rather would be alone than deal with it or maybe I could work on my communication but I dk what's wrong with me and why it's so hard for me to communicate my feelings now. I have such a hard time opening up to...
    ladysapio ladysapio
    26-30, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    I wouldn't say that I have an obvious problem.

    My problem is all in my head. Kind of. My boyfriend has so many good qualities; he is communicative, generous, supporting, and loving, to name the top ones in my mind. However, I seem to be obsessing over the few incongruities between us. I am a person who likes to have deep...
    megatron2000 megatron2000
    26-30, F
    Dec 4, 2015

    So ive been with my bf

    for four years ...at first he was sweet and caring but then he changed ...he doesn't seem to care about me ..I've try everything he doesn't tells me what's on his mind or nothing... When I crack a joke he doesn't laugh nor smile but he laugh and smile with other people... When I...
    Christina010692 Christina010692
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 12, 2015

    It's so hard. It's my first serious relationship

    and we've almost been together for 4 years. And all I feel about him is...contentment. Not really happiness. Not really love. He's just safe. Boring. It doesn't really matter. That's what I tell myself when I think of all the things couples do that we never do. But can't it...
    LonelySnake LonelySnake
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    My ex boyfriend (we were long term ,

    very intimate and each others first loves) kissed two lads when we were on a break. We stayed away from each other for a month and he said he was loving being single, etc. He has recently said it was all his fault, he wrecked the relationship, he wants me back soo bad but he...
    Goon1996 Goon1996
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2015
    karma2015 karma2015
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    Need Attention

    I need someone to talk to when my "boyfriend " acts like a ***. I need all kind of attention. Wouldnt mind a texting buddy to talk to about anything
    curiosity1221 curiosity1221
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Sep 14, 2013
    cascadesky cascadesky
    22-25, F
    Sep 12, 2015

    My Boyfriend Problem..

    Question: Okay so i need help with this problem i am having.. I've got a boyfriend that I've been with for about 7 months, We new each other longer then that.We only have s e x or any s e x u a l contact when i see him which is every two weeks as he lives a while away from me. I...
    freyarose freyarose
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jul 25, 2013

    My boyfriend is 35 and he's French,

    and I'm 27 and I'm English... we met in Belgium as we were both working there. My boyfriend has been having a lot of financial issues over the last year due to high tax rates in Belgium plus his own financial responsibilities (as well as his own lack of financial management) so...
    Nikolala Nikolala
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2016

    So my boyfriend and I have been together

    for a year now and I am glad that he is in my life, I consider him my bestfriend, but so much has changed since when we first started dating. Well ofcourse, everyone seems to know about the "honeymoon phase" he would always call me and stay on the phone with me for hours, take...
    dfe213 dfe213
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    I've been in a relationship

    for 3 weeks and I feel so wierd. I have to start a communication on Facebook if I want to go out with her. I don't even know if she wants to be with me or if she likes me. Please write your opinions and help me.
    Racer19872 Racer19872
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 28, 2016

    Why do I constantly push

    and care about people to the extreme. And they make a run for it ?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 25, 2015

    My Very Unfortunate Life....

    My boyfriend’s family has never seemed to approve of me. There’s a couple of reasons for this: we’re living in the same house and they've competed with me for my boyfriend since I've met them. Weird , I know. His grandmother even said she wanted his junk while she was drunk...
    sodopesavannah sodopesavannah
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    I Have A Cheating Problem Well I havent

    cheated yet, I would call it a cheating problem. SO me and my boyfriend has been together for about over a year now, and our sexual drive is so different. I am used to have sex to times a day when im in a relationship, and he can go days without sex. Its been so hard for me...
    Aviila Aviila
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015

    Something I wrote to him,

    although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank you for teaching me the difference in both being treated with love and respect verses object like. Thank you for showing me...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness
    22-25, F
    Oct 2, 2014

    When I'm upset with my life

    or angry at my boyfriend I have sex with someone else. It just makes me feel better and I have no guilt.
    sunkissedxo00 sunkissedxo00
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    constantly torn between 'if it's meant to be it

    will be' and 'if you want it go and get it'
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    This may not mean anything to you.

    ..but I offer it in good faith to think about. " If you keep doing what you have been doing, you'll get the response you have been getting" I suggest doing something totally out of character. Not once but ten times so your significant other knows it's not a trick, but a different...
    hancockian hancockian
    70+, M
    1 Response Jan 7, 2015

    it all goes back 7 year

    when i was studying. i met a girl online. i never had success in having relationship in real world funny but i fail where it matters most. however. i made many mistake. alot. in starting i was always adamant on not admitting or making excuse for it. but now i accept my mistake...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 26, 2015

    Need Advice On My Relationship

    Quite sad to ask here but I currently don't know who to ask, mainly because my family and friends basically say just finish her if your that unhappy but I'd prefer some opinions and advice off people who don't know me. I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with my...
    yakkkkky yakkkkky
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2012

    Myself I am a gay guy

    and I love a bi guy.. we met through fake Facebook account.. on the first day of chat itself I liked him and asked him for his real name..he was not interested in sharing his real details.. but due to my repeated request he agreed and reveals himself to me.. He was one of my...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 12, 2015

    well this isn't a super serious problem to most

    people, but it does make me feel extremely bad about myself. my boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. I do believe we were meant to be together and we always have a great time when we're out and we never fight or argue. the problem is when we're in the bedroom...
    BeautifulSoul09 BeautifulSoul09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    Hate him/Love him at the same time I have to

    do something about it. its driving up a ******* wall, gives me headaches to when I think about our relationship thing or was, Idk anymore How can I end this or What in the world can I do about it
    breezybabybug breezybabybug
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016

    His Spoilt Daughter

    Ok B/F of 5 years has 16 year old Daughter who will not see him because she does not like me, but when she wants him to do something for her he JUMPS to it!! She is very spoilt and he is afraid to say NO to her. The latest scenario: I am going away for a few days with my Family...
    lillyanna lillyanna
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2012

    i am the reason why i can never be in a

    relationship i am too neurotic and too passive at the same time
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    My guy bestfriend said to me that

    if I take my ex back he's never going to talk to me again... I don't understand why he'd do this!!
    WonderlandOfAlice WonderlandOfAlice
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2014

    When he says your acting stupid all

    because you want to stay in with him tonight... Wtf.
    22-25, F
    Jan 14, 2015
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