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    Going No Where With My Bf Of 8 Yrs.

    I been with my boyfriend for 8 years...like everyone else id like to say the first 3-4 years were awesome. We were in our early 20s. Now it just seems like we can stand eachother less and less. There is no doubt that we love eachother...but Im constantly unhappy. Starting with...
    xedout1985 xedout1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2013

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    Relationship Serious Problem

    Hi all, I'm in a relationship that has started 4 years ago, maybe I should mention that this is my first relationship ever and now I'm 23 years old and she is 22. At the moment we have serious problems that we deal with everyday but we just cannot break up. I think I am the...
    Braddi Braddi 22-25, M Sep 1, 2013

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    Confused With A Girl

    Sorry for the long story but please read, a lot of information. I need to get as much help os possible. So a year ago in October 2012 we went to this trade school thing for a two week tryout.Met this girl there and we became very good friends for the time there, I kinda liked...
    apple1993 apple1993 18-21, M Sep 15, 2013

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    Caught In Between Him and His Mama

    I have a beautiful relationship with my man of a 1 year and a half. I am very much in love with him and everything is going great. We have a son on the way, that's due on new year's day. See, the thing is, it's his mama. See, she's really sweet, caring, and has never shown...
    friendly101 friendly101 22-25 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    His Family Is Getting In The Way

    I really need some advice, I have no one I can talk to that wont look at my situation unbiased. Let me tell you first, I am a mother of 2.5 children. I'm expecting my 3rd in May. Back in April I met a man(Steve), a wonderful man ( I thought). He is 39, Im 29. Things started out...
    needs2talkwsome1 needs2talkwsome1 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Wants Friends With Benefits Type Relationship

    Well today me and my boyfriend got in an argument and he says ive been stressing him out with like everything like always wanting to talk to him and what not well basically he was saying he wants a break from everything and i dont really believe in breaks cause wants you leave...
    KRA789 KRA789 16-17 7 Responses May 21, 2011

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    Another Sleepless Night So Might As Well Write

    This is much too complicated for anyone to understand and not as if anyone actually cares so I suppose I'm just writing this for myself. Hmm well it all started back in January during interim term. Katie took classes off campus. When a person leaves apparently rumors just...
    Nic00l Nic00l 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Unappreciated...

    My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now and we've had problems literally from the start. Since realizing things wouldn't be perfect, it's been on and off with things getting a little more extreme every time. Recently, I've realized that things have gotten...
    justkaramel920 justkaramel920 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    Relationship

    I have been with my girlfriend for 5.5 years and there was a terrible situation that accrued. She doesn't want to talk to me at all. But i feel very lonely and i keep caller her because i miss her so much. every time i keep calling, she keeps telling me to stop calling her and to...
    AJdoom AJdoom 26-30, M Aug 12, 2013

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    Having Some Issues

    ok, so my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now and lately we have been going through a rough patch sexually. so she asked me to go to the sex store and pick up a few things to try and spice things up. so i picked up three things rope, tape and one of those pocket vagina...
    vanboven13 vanboven13 18-21 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    Soo I need help me and this boy willy were

    dating we had been dating for 3 weeks then this stupid girl who likes willy told him I was breaking up with him then told me what she did when I tried to explain it to him it dident work so I had some of my friends talk to him but he still dident Belive them well then I talked...
    Ilovewilly Ilovewilly 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    His Spoilt Daughter

    Ok B/F of 5 years has 16 year old Daughter who will not see him because she does not like me, but when she wants him to do something for her he JUMPS to it!! She is very spoilt and he is afraid to say NO to her. The latest scenario: I am going away for a few days with my Family...
    lillyanna lillyanna 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Is Going Through A Divorce

    My boyfriend and i met at work about 1 and half years ago. we atarted dating and he confided in me he was going through a divorce. normally this would ward me off but i had already come to lvoe him and he was promising me 3 months before itw as over. then i got really sick and...
    rONNIKAY rONNIKAY 18-21, F Sep 13, 2013

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    He Wants To Start Over

    I met this guy we fell for eachother right away he told me he loved me he said he wanted to spend forever with me. He would call me when i woke up first thing to say goodmorning and at night to say goodnight. he always said such sweet things to me. Then we had sex and afterward i...
    beachsweetie851 beachsweetie851 22-25, F Jan 8, 2010

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    Me & my boyfriend of two years are having

    problems & i just need someone to talk to about it
    miklyber miklyber 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Dealing With A Wicked Baby Mama

    my boyfriend n i r wanting to get married i love him so friggin much n he loves me but its so friggin hard to be with him cuz his ex is about to have his baby n he has to constantly call n text her n take her to the hospital becuz if he doesnt act like hes with her shes...
    snwwhite snwwhite 18-21 Mar 24, 2010

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    Living In The "Past"

    My girlfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, she's broken up with me for stupid things 3 times in a span of 2 months. She's hung out with her ex before me, he tried kissing her and telling her he still loved her BEFORE they hung out at his house, she didn't think it was a...
    DMTLibra DMTLibra 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Is My Boyfriend Obsessed Or Controlling Of Me?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for three months but have been seeing eachother since July. He is sweet, gentle and has a heart of gold. He treats me ridiculously well and like a princess. When I stay over at his, he takes off my make-up for me, and he sometimes brushes my...
    garfunkleaj garfunkleaj 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    My boyfriend is an atheist

    and I'm catholic . Sometimes I feel like we weren't work in the future because of that . But we've talked aboutt everything under the stars when it comes to religion to kinda see if it would work for us in the future (for example : getting married in a Catholic Church , or how...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F Mar 22

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    Decision Making

    Hello all, Well I've never joined a blog before however it looks pretty interesting especially when many times you think think someone could be going through a situation like yours. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 years of course on and off. It has always been a rocky...
    MN206 MN206 22-25 3 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    Should I go or try and work this out?

    I don't really know at this point. My ex and I recently broke up and we talk everyday like we're together. Now we have broken up so many times it's ridiculous, but this time is really different. He calls me by my first name more. When we are separated he'd slip and call me bae a...
    zy7a zy7a 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for 7 yrs and thing where great he's always been consistent in our relationship and still is, about 6 months ago he found my stash and didn't say any thing then a couple of day later in found some again and ask me to stop or I had to leave which I understand totally. So we...
    crosali32 crosali32 46-50, F Jan 11

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    Two years ago I got with my best friend

    and started a relationship. All was going well and we live together in the same house but have separate rooms (we are in university halls and sleeping on a single bed together is really uncomfortable so we have our separate spaces). In the last two weeks he has refused any...
    StarkidAlex StarkidAlex 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Confused. Advice?

    I am a couple days out from dating my boyfriend for six months. We don't fight. We have a lot in common. The problem lays in the very fact he has no idea to show me he loves me. Even though I know he does. All I want is simple things, like him starting sex for once, reminding me...
    Forgottenalongtheway Forgottenalongtheway 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I love each other,

    but it's like when ever we don't see each other after a few days we start fighting. I don't know what to do and I need some advice please?
    17JustBeingMe17 17JustBeingMe17 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Confusing Relationship

    i with my g/f of 2+ year have rocking relationship. we stays seperately, bt we see each other frequelty. the problem starts when she comes to see me and dont wana kiss, or touch me, she complains about her being tiered, painful nibles and blader. yet the previous day she has been...
    sicel0 sicel0 26-30, M Sep 19, 2013

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    Issues

    This is the kind of problems we argue about so much... (me) Eli: you invited friends and don want me there y.y i can hear it in your voice : ( why.... (her) Ska: Stop it eli! Go back to ur fkn friend! Factors to consider: I have no social life, not one friend whatsoever. I am...
    UnSick UnSick 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    Need Your Help Analyzing My Ex Boyfriend

    Maybe you have a good heart and wanna help me... or maybe you're bored and thought it might be fun to read some stranger's story. In any case, I really appreciate that you dropped by. :) OK, here's the story. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. I made a big mistake...
    whoiswithme whoiswithme 31-35 4 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    Good Guys Finish Last

    They always say the typical girl leaves the good guy. Like the expression, good guys finish last. Well, I found the perfect guy, he's nice and cute and thinks I'm perfect. I can tell when he compliments me he truly means it, he's the only guy that actually makes me feel beautiful...
    ThatGirlAhtumn ThatGirlAhtumn 13-15, F Nov 5, 2013

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    Someone Help Me Figure Out What Im In

    I think im blinded by love, if i think hard enough i start to see the horrible, horrible things my boyfriend has done. I think i need to write it out, i dont want to have it bottled up inside anymore. I love him, so much. i became attached to him. he was my first time and the...
    somegirl117 somegirl117 18-21 Nov 7, 2013

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    Is It Paranoia?

    So I have this friend (shes actually my cousin) and I'm pretty sure she is trying to break my boyfriend and I up so she can get with him. The reason I think this is because when im with him, she is always hanging around us trying to talk to him, but when its just me and I'm not...
    sarahbethtaylo1 sarahbethtaylo1 18-21 Nov 5, 2013

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    Anyone on here have an open marriage

    that would be willing to provide insight?
    bub1982 bub1982 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 20

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    Me and this girl have been speaking

    for a long time now but when we first started speaking i didn't treat her right but now i realised how much she means to me im always trying to make her happy but she has changed now shes turned into what i was like with her before. How can i get her to be the nice caring girl i...
    pipkin15 pipkin15 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Unfair

    on the person involved, so I am not going to discuss it in public, which kinda defeats the object of writing something that others may see, but I just felt I needed to put something down.
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    I'm About The Tear Myself To Pieces.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. It's not long, but it's the kind of relationship you keep holding on to, even when everything tells you that you're wrong, that you should just walk away. For some reason, I just can't. I'd admit that the 2 of us are very...
    schs2403 schs2403 18-21 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    My Very Unfortunate Life....

    My boyfriend’s family has never seemed to approve of me. There’s a couple of reasons for this: we’re living in the same house and they've competed with me for my boyfriend since I've met them. Weird , I know. His grandmother even said she wanted his junk while she was drunk...
    sodopesavannah sodopesavannah 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Relationship And Friends

    Okay..well a few months ago I was goibg out with this guy. I broke up with him and I started to go a new guy. It was his bestfriend. He said he didnt care but then his friends got them to hit him. I was really upset because I couldnt have done anything about it so I just had to...
    hayleighcurran hayleighcurran 13-15, M Jul 31, 2013

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    Feeling Voiceless

    I do not know when it came to this feeling of hopelessness in my relationship. I always blame myself, but in reality...I am empty. When you give a person everything you love, sacrifice every feeling, doubt, insecurity you have to make them happy...and in return...you get...
    bagelsforever bagelsforever 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    Confused And Miserable?

    I am 10 yrs married with 2 beautiful children.  I am just wondering how could someone hurt the one they love.   I recently found out that my husband is having conversation with his ex-girlfriend.  But what's wrong about it is that he's saying that he still...
    c2528 c2528 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Every time I get into a relationship they

    usually break up with me in the next few months .. Because they ask me to do things with them and I tell them no that I'm not ready .. And than they get mad and a few days later they just leave ..
    asdfghjklyelda asdfghjklyelda 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    Why My Feelings Constantly Hurt?? Help Please!

    What to do, someone help me please...I've been with my girl for about 2 years and half, and now we are arguing more than ever! The issues start with her doing something that hurts my feelings, no matter how small it is, i let her know or sometimes complain, then she gets upset...
    UnSick UnSick 22-25, M 12 Responses May 22, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Problem..

    Question: Okay so i need help with this problem i am having.. I've got a boyfriend that I've been with for about 7 months, We new each other longer then that.We only have s e x or any s e x u a l contact when i see him which is every two weeks as he lives a while away from me. I...
    freyarose freyarose 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Need Advice On My Relationship

    Quite sad to ask here but I currently don't know who to ask, mainly because my family and friends basically say just finish her if your that unhappy but I'd prefer some opinions and advice off people who don't know me. I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with my...
    yakkkkky yakkkkky 18-21 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Girlfriend Thinks I'm Spying/Hacking On Her

    So I met my current g/f online and we have been going on and off for almost 3 years. I share with her some of my darkest secrets and one of those secrets was that I used to be able to "crack" passwords back in the day (when computers and technology was still in its infancy). We...
    ninjew ninjew 26-30, M Oct 27, 2013

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    Idk how I feel about this my boyfriend took a

    girl with him to LA that's a 2 hour drive from here to there and he didn't even tell me he was taking a girl up there by there selfs, he didn't answer my calls or text I had to find out he was with her threw Instagram & I look threw her page and she has pics with them two...
    marviemeow marviemeow 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 9

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    Not Enough For Him

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and half. I am 5 months pregnant with his first kid. I am 100% loyal to him and love him with all I have. I am always thinking of him and don't want anyone else. Heres the problem: I opened his computer the other day and he had...
    jmorgan180 jmorgan180 22-25 7 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    It Is Never Anyone's Issue At All!

    I am suffering from a lot when see that i am caring much about someone or even get pretty much like involved with someone, as when you get stabbs and heart broken a lot. You start to build walls and walls that everyone build. Mine is much higher and tougher and longer than anyone...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Nov 10, 2013

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    Not Sure What To Do About Husband

    I have been married for 14 years and over than time we have had relationship problems just like every other couple.  About two months ago my husband said that he wanted to be sinlge.  I was shocked and heart-broken!  We have four children and I quit my job last...
    confusedwife2 confusedwife2 31-35, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Need Attention

    I need someone to talk to when my "boyfriend " acts like a ***. I need all kind of attention. Wouldnt mind a texting buddy to talk to about anything
    curiosity1221 curiosity1221 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Dumped Out Of The Blue, Could I Get Him Back?

    Hi my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago. We had been going out for 3 years and before that we were very close friends for around 4 years. His reasoning for the break up was that we argued too much and although we did have a lot of arguments I personally feel they are things...
    geegee123 geegee123 18-21 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    A Girlfriend And A Girl Friend

    I have know this girl for about 4 years, lets call her Rebeca, and I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 years (Yes about the same time I know Rebeca), there was no problem until a few months back when Rebeca started to show affection sings towards Me. A few days back...
    ThatFDude ThatFDude 18-21 Sep 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    This has been going on for way too long that I don't even remember when it began anymore. It just seems that no matter who I'm speaking to, they all have one thing in common...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I'm new here and I just really wanna let this out, and maybe get some advice. So, my mom and I are extremely close, she is my bestfriend. I live with my mom and my dad lives in...
    xoxocs xoxocs 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I feel like every time I go out with my boyfriend, he's always staring at other women. I asked him, and he sincerely told me that the only women he looks at is me. I just can't...
    sarakmyers23 sarakmyers23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I was In a relationship with a guy, we got sexual then he stopped talking to me when we go to church together!!!! Turns out he's in love with my best friend?!!! And she lives him...
    Purpleroses75 Purpleroses75 13-15, F Apr 4

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    I have been married for 10 years and have three children with my wife. The last 2-3 years have not been enjoyable. I can't say that is due to any one incident or event, so my...
    canadiankid26 canadiankid26 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago