I Have Slept With An Ex

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Sep 6, 2007

    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22
    22-25, F
    Feb 22, 2014

    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren
    31-35, M
    Sep 24, 2011

    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel
    18-21
    1 Response Aug 17, 2009

    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero
    36–, M
    1 Response Nov 15, 2008

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    chavacc11 chavacc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    She was my greatest love.

    But to permanently belong to each other would never have worked out. And, every summer since we parted ways, she has always returned to me and my bed for a week's visit. For 7 days every year, time stands still for us. Even now I am with someone, this will not prevent our...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2014

    i have been out the closet about 2 years

    now i was with women before well i have a daughter 28th a girl i finally told her i was gay and she suprised me by saying two men turned her on she asked if she could get a strap on and use it on me i agreed well wen she showed up she had a guy with her she asked if he could...
    charlottechavez charlottechavez
    31-35, T
    Oct 17, 2015

    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    Aug 15, 2011

    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2009

    Bad mistake, but I was lonely at the time,

    I never wanted to get back with him just sex.
    daisychain33 daisychain33
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015

    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices
    18-21, F
    Jul 9, 2012

    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2014

    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2007

    My ex always comes back to me cuz I'm better in

    bed then her current boyfriend as she claims. At first I liked it to get back at him now I just like using her for the extra sex every once in a while. Can't complain about getting to put in her as* every time we bang out.
    billybobber99 billybobber99
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777
    31-35, F
    Jul 16, 2014

    some mistakes are necessary to move on.

    still the dumbest thing I've done, well one of them.
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    Feb 23

    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2014

    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 2, 2008

    What the hell was I thinking?

    Blame it on the alcohol
    femketje femketje
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 16, 2007

    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    Mar 25, 2007

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