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I Have Slept With An Ex

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    What the hell was I thinking?

    Blame it on the alcohol
    femketje femketje 26-30 3 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Work had sent me cross country

    for a week of training and it just happened to be the same city where an ex had moved for a job. We hadn't seen each other in over 5 years and had both since married, but I thought I'd call her office just to see if she wanted to meet for a coffee or something just to catch up...
    wifesaysno wifesaysno 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero 36–, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 16, 2014

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    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 15, 2011

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    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Mar 25, 2007

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    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2014

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    She was my greatest love.

    But to permanently belong to each other would never have worked out. And, every summer since we parted ways, she has always returned to me and my bed for a week's visit. For 7 days every year, time stands still for us. Even now I am with someone, this will not prevent our...
    DesiredEmily DesiredEmily 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2014

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    I slept with my ex today

    and im so confused. She left me a week ago because she wanted "alone time". Yet then when she comes over to talk she sleeps with me? Doesn't that mean she still wants to be with me? Ive told her we can work on giving her more space but still be together. Yet thats not enough for...
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2007

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    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22 22-25, F Feb 22, 2014

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    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel 18-21 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    My best friends ex. I don't

    even know how to feel, Horrible because I did this,but I can't stop thinking about it,how hot it was how he knew exactly what to do The way he felt inside of me,his tongue on mine, even the way his ***** tasted. I never expected to be able to **** someone that's my friend, Even...
    KristenJoye KristenJoye 18-21, F Jul 16, 2014

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    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

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    My ex always comes back to me cuz I'm better in

    bed then her current boyfriend as she claims. At first I liked it to get back at him now I just like using her for the extra sex every once in a while. Can't complain about getting to put in her as* every time we bang out.
    billybobber99 billybobber99 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    Why Not

    I think I have slept with a few exes before. It’s just safer when your horny to go to an ex rather than find some stranger in a club. As long as you both know where you stand then it’s not a problem. There was one ex who I wanted to but didn’t. It was only...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    so this morning whilst crossing the road to the tube station I noticed this guy, as I got closer I recognized him as being someone I slept with a while back. how awkward I noticed...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 5

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    But your snooping on my computer has made you sad today. Now you see how it feels. You actually SLEPT WITH these dudes and all I did was look at some women's profile. You...
    bigsarge6996 bigsarge6996 41-45, M Mar 16

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    Yes, I Finally Slept with Carol – It was a Nightmare. It turns out that she likes making love, but doesn't want to be touched while she is sleeping. WTF? - Half the fun is...
    JacobJastrow JacobJastrow 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    when I was 17 I slept with my friends mom. till this day only the two of us know. she was divorced and living alone. she had her two sons living with her every other weekend.
    peppit peppit 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I just started to have fun with one of my girlfriends in a van full of people :) girls message me for details
    youngtaylor youngtaylor 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    I want to have sex with another girl licking, rubbing, tribbing everything really
    rubylew79 rubylew79 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I have worked with a slightly older guy for a few years. More just in passing but lately a lot closer as we both have been managing the same projects lately. Always nothing but...
    gonegirl7575 gonegirl7575 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I'm married in a sexless marriage, very smart with discreet phone apps and just out of a year long affair with a woman that wanted to get married & have kids with me, but I'm...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    A lot if people would not agree to this. I on the other hand think that sex is a natural thing. Everyone has needs and those needs can be satisfied by anyone, not just me. We are...
    brocktimus brocktimus 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I consider myself straight. I prefer women. I cannot even imagine a relationship with a man. I am currently in a relationship with a truly remarkable woman. But I have been with...
    FruitSlice FruitSlice 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    My friend Jason's little sister was having a party for her birthday, and invited all of Jason's friends over to hang out. After having a few too many beers I went upstairs to find...
    AALAXER AALAXER 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I've been dealing with a guy for a year now "friends with benefits" and I caught feelings for him and I let it be known...but he does not feel the same. how can you not catch...
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    So, how long do you think a FWB should last? I've been fwb with a guy for almost 3 years now. We hang out, we talk all the time. But he always says that he doesn't think any girl...
    Dearrobynn Dearrobynn 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    My bf has a friend who I know would love to get with me..... Secretly I'd be fine with the two of them in bed wit me but I think my bf is too possessive
    warmwetdeep warmwetdeep 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I told the guy I fell for with friends w benifits I just wanted to be friends and no sex at all because my feelings were getting attached and he doesn't feel the same . and he...
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    I can't do this anymore> i'm done. I'm suffocating in my own room. Sometimes I am really tempted to just snap their necks. I am confined, confined in my own room, in my own body...
    sienabrowns sienabrowns 16-17 Mar 1

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    I can't do this anymore> i'm done. I'm suffocating in my own room. Sometimes I am really tempted to just snap their necks. I am confined, confined in my own room, in my own body...
    sienabrowns sienabrowns 16-17 Mar 1

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    I can't do this anymore> i'm done. I'm suffocating in my own room. Sometimes I am really tempted to just snap their necks. I am confined, confined in my own room, in my own body...
    sienabrowns sienabrowns 16-17 Mar 1

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