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I Have Slept With An Ex

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    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    My best friends ex. I don't

    even know how to feel, Horrible because I did this,but I can't stop thinking about it,how hot it was how he knew exactly what to do The way he felt inside of me,his tongue on mine, even the way his ***** tasted. I never expected to be able to **** someone that's my friend, Even...
    KristenJoye KristenJoye 18-21, F Jul 16

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    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    I slept with my ex today

    and im so confused. She left me a week ago because she wanted "alone time". Yet then when she comes over to talk she sleeps with me? Doesn't that mean she still wants to be with me? Ive told her we can work on giving her more space but still be together. Yet thats not enough for...
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero 36–, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel 18-21 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    Work had sent me cross country

    for a week of training and it just happened to be the same city where an ex had moved for a job. We hadn't seen each other in over 5 years and had both since married, but I thought I'd call her office just to see if she wanted to meet for a coffee or something just to catch up...
    box4play box4play 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 16

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    My ex always comes back to me cuz I'm better in

    bed then her current boyfriend as she claims. At first I liked it to get back at him now I just like using her for the extra sex every once in a while. Can't complain about getting to put in her as* every time we bang out.
    billybobber99 billybobber99 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Mar 25, 2007

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    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 15, 2011

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    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

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    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Why Not

    I think I have slept with a few exes before. It’s just safer when your horny to go to an ex rather than find some stranger in a club. As long as you both know where you stand then it’s not a problem. There was one ex who I wanted to but didn’t. It was only...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I've slept with a guy twice my age and honestly I would do it again given the chance.
    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I have slept with many women that I felt nothing for except for the ones that were friends. It was just sex for the fun of it.
    lonewolf2060 lonewolf2060 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    It's not a habit of mine but at least I have noticed the people I've slept with I didn't have feels for them after I slept with them... Well some of the people I've slept with, I...
    floences floences 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I am not sorry to say that I regret nothing for doing it!! He was there when I needed him. Pretty much all he wanted was to have sex with me because he like my body. I needed a...
    lifeschallenge lifeschallenge 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    This year, I had a extremely attractive chemistry teacher. He's sweet, and has vibrant blue eyes, short blonde hair and a perfect body. Every time that I would look at him, I...
    Jeanpocket Jeanpocket 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I think i would be great to have sex with a trans women. They are really gorgeous but also independent in a sense. I'm not gay but I definitely want to go for a transvestite woman...
    lolzmeplz lolzmeplz 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I would have been with you forever, with you I didn't need anybody else ... more importantly I didn't want anybody else, but finding out that you were unfaithful in our...
    qbanbb85 qbanbb85 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I want to have sex with woman while my boyfriend partipates however he wouldn't **** her or lick her. She would lick me while my boyfriend ***** me and I would return the favour to...
    Readingaddict Readingaddict 18-21, F Aug 9

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    When I was really young there was a teenage girl with dwarfism in my neighborhood that I saw regularly. I don't think I was even old enough to like girls yet but there was...
    thatguythereoverhere thatguythereoverhere 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I ended things. We are now friends only. The events leading up to that were convoluted and confusing as usual. So a few days ago we went over to some friends of ours. Our...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    There was many drinks involved and me and my four friends were all chilling in my room and they all started going at it and I almost joined them (cause booze brain was like "what a...
    redridinghood32 redridinghood32 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Kinda deciding to go to sleep. But no...I am a bit tired but will stay awake since I have a lot of things to do today. Hooray for no sleep ^^/
    Ermacz Ermacz 18-21, M Aug 9

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    Yea, I once had a sleep over with a old fake friend...
    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    What a blatant idiot I am. This girl was into me. You wonder how I could tell she was into me and not that it was perhaps my imagination? Well, first of all: I suggested after us...
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    So my mom and dad got divorced when I was in third grade. I live with my mom and always have since then but I used to visit my dad way more than I do now like every other weekend...
    littlesister5 littlesister5 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I just turned 19 & I think it would be so sexy to be with a guy like 30-40. Experience is such a turn on and I bet someone that age would have a lot. That's like my biggest fantasy...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F 16 Responses Jul 26

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    I don't know how interact with women. I want to sleep with everyone I meet. I feel awkward. The only place I feel "normal" is in bed. What's wrong with me?
    TheScorpio1966 TheScorpio1966 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    He has been busy. I've been cooking for him and our other room mate a lot. He's been eating everything and going back for seconds. He's normally very picky and not a big eater...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F Jul 30

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    I so badly crave my friends boyfriend he's hot and possessive and dominant and I love everything about him and my friend is a ***** to me anyways and they have only been dating for...
    cootyboo cootyboo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I really want to have crazy sex with my sister
    hornyharry123 hornyharry123 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 30

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    No nothing like drugs or anything like that Firefighters say they dance with devil or dance where the devil plays, I've fought everything from small trash piles to raging wild...
    fire1019 fire1019 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    To my ep friends due to unforeseen circumstances I am currently and have been for a while using my phone. As such it means I have been unable to look at any new pics that have been...
    Mauricen1 Mauricen1 31-35, M Jul 30

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    In the bedroom and out of it. Life is too short - you just never know, you could get hit by a truck and die next week. So you've got to squeeze every last bit of fun out of life...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    I once told myself that if I'm gonna have a family of my own, I will never be like my mother. I must admit, I envy mothers who are close to their children. In my case, my mother...
    SweetEclair SweetEclair 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    So as everyone knows I have a friend called Abby and we was close, we'll we fell out and drifted apart. But lately we've become close again and she said she will no longer talk to...
    Mollylovespussy Mollylovespussy 13-15, F Aug 2

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    I ADORE my cousins cuz theyre like sisters to me<3 i love them and NOTHING can bring us apart! We do EVERYTHING together<3 we go to the same hotels, and we have sleep overs...
    ayanak ayanak 13-15, F Aug 2