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I Have Slept With An Ex

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My ex always comes back to me cuz I'm better in

    bed then her current boyfriend as she claims. At first I liked it to get back at him now I just like using her for the extra sex every once in a while. Can't complain about getting to put in her as* every time we bang out.
    billybobber99 billybobber99 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero 36–, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Mar 25, 2007

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    My best friends ex. I don't

    even know how to feel, Horrible because I did this,but I can't stop thinking about it,how hot it was how he knew exactly what to do The way he felt inside of me,his tongue on mine, even the way his ***** tasted. I never expected to be able to **** someone that's my friend, Even...
    KristenJoye KristenJoye 18-21, F Jul 16

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    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    Work had sent me cross country

    for a week of training and it just happened to be the same city where an ex had moved for a job. We hadn't seen each other in over 5 years and had both since married, but I thought I'd call her office just to see if she wanted to meet for a coffee or something just to catch up...
    box4play box4play 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Why Not

    I think I have slept with a few exes before. It’s just safer when your horny to go to an ex rather than find some stranger in a club. As long as you both know where you stand then it’s not a problem. There was one ex who I wanted to but didn’t. It was only...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 15, 2011

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    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22 18-21, F Feb 22

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    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel 18-21 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 16

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    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

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    What the hell was I thinking?

    Blame it on the alcohol
    femketje femketje 22-25 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    I slept with my ex today

    and im so confused. She left me a week ago because she wanted "alone time". Yet then when she comes over to talk she sleeps with me? Doesn't that mean she still wants to be with me? Ive told her we can work on giving her more space but still be together. Yet thats not enough for...
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    He's my husband, and I wouldn't trade him for the world.
    katherinehudson katherinehudson 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    hi i am from new delhi india i want to have sex with a sexy girl i will pay her gd bt i dnt hv ma prsnal place to **** plz help me out wht to do
    sexyboy034 sexyboy034 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    Even though we don't have a label on our relationship, I still want to have sex with him and kiss him and hug him and cuddle . I like the way he feels inside of me . I don't know...
    neuroticgal neuroticgal 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to have sex with a female teacher in my school teaches maths,she's not attached and is only a mere 22 years old she has an a body like an hourglass,all the curves in the...
    TheGamechanger TheGamechanger 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Only cause mommy yelled at him .. And daddy told her to leave and dont come back until she's sober... I didn't think men cried until that night when I went up stairs to see if...
    rosey20 rosey20 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I feel i should share my experince with other people who might be curious about Transsexuals/Crossdressers. From the age of 18 i came across a website and it had a picture of a...
    james23452345 james23452345 18-21, M Aug 24

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    I made a horrible decision(s) He was my friend He was my older sister's friend too He was my affair I was his affair He was 18 And it happened 3 times If the worst situations came...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Honestly need help, mature experienced parents needed. Here's the issue: My family lives with my in-laws for the time being, we are unable to leave at the moment so it is not a...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Went out with Pete (My FWB) and his two roommates. grabbed pizza. Ryan commented on my nail polish again.
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 20

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    Hi I found out you're willing to help. I recently found out that my 27-year-old wife had affairs with at least two men. Very furious I traced her and installed a GPS and a recorder...
    Babak1357 Babak1357 36-40, M Aug 21

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    I was diagnosed with OCD last year because of my intrusive thoughts. It didn't make sense to me because I don't have rituals, like everyone else with OCD in my family. I've...
    gatsbygirl88 gatsbygirl88 22-25, F Aug 21

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    okay so my computer has a virus, and I have software that doesnt let me on an **** sites. Its saying that EVERY story is somehow connected to ****... I can't read or comment on any...
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F Aug 21

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    My mom used to smoke when she was pregnant with me but she stopped. Now 16 years later I found a lighter and a pack of cigarettes in her purse when I was looking for her car keys...
    Beatrice327 Beatrice327 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    My mother has slapped me, called me numerous, belittling names, and abusive curses. When she is angry, she will hit me and she will have that look in her eye that will make you...
    sienabrowns sienabrowns 16-17 5 Responses Aug 22

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    My dad is being secretive all of a sudden; he keeps leaving the house and won't tell me where he's been. I'm worried sick because he drinks and smoke(d/s) pot. I want to believe he...
    DD213 DD213 13-15, F Aug 23

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    yeah, horrible. That's how it used to be. They were unhappy with their men, because those guys cheated on them. They wanted revenge. I was more than happy to oblige them. We both...
    winterkill66 winterkill66 46-50, M Aug 23

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    I lose weight. I gain weight. I completely restrict myself. I binge....but in a matter of weeks not days. I'm so hard on myself but I've been overweight forever!!!! Why can't I...
    Jackiebh Jackiebh 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now! One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    My mother in law is so uptight,she only calls to my husband on mobile then house phone,she treats my older son different to my other two son's never really bothers with them...And...
    ladybirdkew82 ladybirdkew82 31-35, F Aug 27

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    Or cyber with :) the older the Better come and get me
    Happiness412 Happiness412 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    Ha typical right? Pretty girl with daddy issues.
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    It was my birthday a few weeks ago. Three days after my birthday,i received a call on am unknown number. I let the call go to voice Mail and it was my birth mother calling to wish...
    holloway64 holloway64 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I have had many women I have dated and especially two that became friends with benefits. I was more serious on my end with these two and was contemplating initiating the "L" &"M...
    xmannos xmannos 36-40, M Aug 29

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    Today she asked me if I thought I needed to see a therapist. I said yes and she reacted by saying, "ha you think you have problems if you go to therapy with people who have REAL...
    FalseAdulation FalseAdulation 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I have. It was awesome she was blonde
    lotsoflove12 lotsoflove12 31-35, M Aug 31

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