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I Have Slept With An Ex

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    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 15, 2011

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    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero 36–, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Work had sent me cross country

    for a week of training and it just happened to be the same city where an ex had moved for a job. We hadn't seen each other in over 5 years and had both since married, but I thought I'd call her office just to see if she wanted to meet for a coffee or something just to catch up...
    box4play box4play 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 16

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    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Mar 25, 2007

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    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Why Not

    I think I have slept with a few exes before. It’s just safer when your horny to go to an ex rather than find some stranger in a club. As long as you both know where you stand then it’s not a problem. There was one ex who I wanted to but didn’t. It was only...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    My best friends ex. I don't

    even know how to feel, Horrible because I did this,but I can't stop thinking about it,how hot it was how he knew exactly what to do The way he felt inside of me,his tongue on mine, even the way his ***** tasted. I never expected to be able to **** someone that's my friend, Even...
    KristenJoye KristenJoye 18-21, F Jul 16

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    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel 18-21 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

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    I slept with my ex today

    and im so confused. She left me a week ago because she wanted "alone time". Yet then when she comes over to talk she sleeps with me? Doesn't that mean she still wants to be with me? Ive told her we can work on giving her more space but still be together. Yet thats not enough for...
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    MikaT MikaT 18-21, F Jul 6

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    loveandfeels55 loveandfeels55 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I've been distance for a while and not trusting anyone around me. I know I am missing out on life because of this and I need to start putting myself out there. Even writing this...
    carolpam carolpam 22-25, F Jul 8

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    Looking for transsexual to **** me I have look every where and I'm so horny for it I just want you now :)
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    So in addition to a being a alcoholic by definition, I've also struggled with OCD my entire life, though much worse as an adult. It's exacerbated by my drinking and has led to...
    slowyourroll slowyourroll 31-35, M Jul 14

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    I don't know what's caused it.. But I used to desperately want friends, when I didn't have any and had no chance of getting any I wanted friends so so badly and now, that I could...
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