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I Have Slept With An Ex

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    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    My best friends ex. I don't

    even know how to feel, Horrible because I did this,but I can't stop thinking about it,how hot it was how he knew exactly what to do The way he felt inside of me,his tongue on mine, even the way his ***** tasted. I never expected to be able to **** someone that's my friend, Even...
    KristenJoye KristenJoye 18-21, F Jul 16, 2014

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    Work had sent me cross country

    for a week of training and it just happened to be the same city where an ex had moved for a job. We hadn't seen each other in over 5 years and had both since married, but I thought I'd call her office just to see if she wanted to meet for a coffee or something just to catch up...
    wifesaysno wifesaysno 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22 22-25, F Feb 22, 2014

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    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero 36–, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2014

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    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2014

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    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    What the hell was I thinking?

    Blame it on the alcohol
    femketje femketje 26-30 3 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    My ex always comes back to me cuz I'm better in

    bed then her current boyfriend as she claims. At first I liked it to get back at him now I just like using her for the extra sex every once in a while. Can't complain about getting to put in her as* every time we bang out.
    billybobber99 billybobber99 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 16, 2014

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    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel 18-21 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    I slept with my ex today

    and im so confused. She left me a week ago because she wanted "alone time". Yet then when she comes over to talk she sleeps with me? Doesn't that mean she still wants to be with me? Ive told her we can work on giving her more space but still be together. Yet thats not enough for...
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    Why Not

    I think I have slept with a few exes before. It’s just safer when your horny to go to an ex rather than find some stranger in a club. As long as you both know where you stand then it’s not a problem. There was one ex who I wanted to but didn’t. It was only...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 15, 2011

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    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Mar 25, 2007

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    She was my greatest love.

    But to permanently belong to each other would never have worked out. And, every summer since we parted ways, she has always returned to me and my bed for a week's visit. For 7 days every year, time stands still for us. Even now I am with someone, this will not prevent our...
    DesiredEmily DesiredEmily 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 24

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    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

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    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2007

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    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    The youngest person since I was over 18 to present day was 19 she was blond and very hot . She made all the play my ego loved it and couldnt say no .
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 3

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    Slept with my best friends husband not once but 2wice, they are not together anymore and weren't when it happened. I feel guilty should i tell her?
    vlynn21 vlynn21 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I slept with four people in a week. I'm so mentally unstable.... completing my thesis, dealing with other issues. I'm ruining myself.
    Adam4u Adam4u 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am this way with most people I have sex with
    BetweenFlames BetweenFlames 18-21, F 12 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I am a 1 on 1 type of girl although I have been with 2 or more men at once a few times. I usually spend a few hours with 1 guy then proceed to another guy later on in the day. My...
    ashley090972 ashley090972 41-45, F 15 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I want to have sex with my best friend, but I have a boyfriend, and one of my friends likes him. I guess you could say it's pretty impossible.
    justlivingitup justlivingitup 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I have had sex with five people at the same time,3 girlfriends at different times on the same day, my wife, my ex and a hooker on the one day. Then when I was working, I would...
    whoreshusband whoreshusband 36-40, M 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have problem with my step son... He is 17 yrs old and he will be 18 yrs old next month... He moved out because of me actually if he don't give me hard time, there's no problem...
    zenwahs8 zenwahs8 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This was a few months ago. I started talking to this girl on a website called "tagged" and we hit it off, she passes herself as a tranny but I kept talking to her anyway. Soon...
    Iamconfused1 Iamconfused1 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    Not my prouder moments. Life lesson for whomever reads this: sex is pointless if you don't like the person and the best is with someone you love.
    omutsukimi omutsukimi 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's better afterward, because you don't have to commit to anything long-term.
    TGBman TGBman 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I went to bed last night. My wife turns to me and says - baby can you do me a favor? I said - what? She says- I have something in my ***, can you take it out. Got caught...
    MarriedMann MarriedMann 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I went to a party when I was about 17 and the guy throwing the party had only invited his brother me and twin sisters. The guy and his wife were doing all the hosting so we four...
    peefun2528 peefun2528 56-60, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Its hard to get around it but yeah I am having issues with my fiance's mother. Or should I say she's having issues with me, right along with the baby mama. Alright to began with...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I just got off the phone with my dad, after not talking for nearly three months. He hasn't called me, so I haven't called him. He was excited to hear that I got a job this past...
    babyllove21 babyllove21 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    My mom wants to control everything, and she does't respect my privacy or my reasons. We live with a little niece and I LOVE her, we hang out to places where she can have fun, but...
    Starinthedeath Starinthedeath 26-30, F Apr 3

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    My mother raised me alone since i was 10 because my father left us,i have no siblings and i understand raising a child alone is difficult but i dont think she really understands me...
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F Apr 4

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    Nothing is more fun then four wheeling with your friends.
    sabresfan2010 sabresfan2010 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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