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I Have Slept With An Ex

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    Big Mistake

    Broke up with my ex but decided to stay friends with him (even though he ****** me up majorly.)(probably the reason I stayed friends with him..) Anyway, he used to come and see me over the weekend from uni. It was cool. We'd go for a movie or just go for coffee. But one weekend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    Work had sent me cross country

    for a week of training and it just happened to be the same city where an ex had moved for a job. We hadn't seen each other in over 5 years and had both since married, but I thought I'd call her office just to see if she wanted to meet for a coffee or something just to catch up...
    box4play box4play 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    Job Corps Relationship

    Back in 1998 I was dating this girl Andrea. Well she was one of those girls who constantly call or show up and is always under foot. Well because im essentially an ******* i broke up with her on christmas because she just wouldn't leave me alone. Well i saw her a few weeks later...
    Coren Coren 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Yes I Did It Too!

      I was crazy about my ex. Wanted to marry him the whole nine yards. When I found out he has dating someone else and made my move and told him I wanted him back. We meet & ended up at a hotel. I thought the sex would be great since I was craving for at. It was good but...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    Curiousity

    I lost my virginity at 15 to this lad, he was 6ft 3 with big blonde curly locks, gorgeous. We were only together for a few months, and never saw each other again, for the past 3 years I've always thought about him, never can and never will know whether i was truly in love with...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    I slept with my ex today

    and im so confused. She left me a week ago because she wanted "alone time". Yet then when she comes over to talk she sleeps with me? Doesn't that mean she still wants to be with me? Ive told her we can work on giving her more space but still be together. Yet thats not enough for...
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    Well, That Won't Happen Again.

    My last ex happened to have been the best sex I ever had, so when we broke up, I kind of went through withdraw.  A few months after we broke up, I went to visit him and his family because I absolutely loved his family.  Plus, his nephews were wandering around asking...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    I've Slept With All the Ex's I Was Sexually Active With.

    I mean after we broke up. All my ex's except one of my ex girlfriends (she was a bit stalkerish). I kinda of made a bit of a game out of it. Sleep with the ex after we break up, if he was an ******* about the whole break-up I would usually sleep with the best friend as well. I...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

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    I Did It Last Weekend

     and i felt so guilty !!! i cried afterwards and i told him on the phone it shouldnt have happened and  it will never happen again guess i should get used to being a singleton because no male is gonna  settle for that when they could get it else where !!!  oh...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Mar 25, 2007

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    I just got this new boyfriend a few months

    or so ago, and my ex, whom I had lost my virginity to asked me to come over so I did and emphasizing on the fact that I only want to be friends, he invited me in and I went to his room while he stop their I hugged him really tightly, and we started playing truth or or dare and...
    cutie4lifE710344 cutie4lifE710344 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Yeah, we were bored and it happened

    and we just walked away the next day like normal.
    kaokao000 kaokao000 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    Couple nights ago I slept with my ex,

    it was supposed to be like a one off last time thing but he is constantly calling and texting me. His clingyness just reminded me of why we were done on the first place.
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2014

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    I'm Notorious For This.

    I don't know, and can't understand, why I do this, well, maybe I do:   Psychologically, it's got a be a control thing, some kind of ego boost, knowing that even though I am no longer romantically involved with someone, I can still have that intimacy, even when they are...
    ADisposableHero ADisposableHero 36–, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Why Not

    I think I have slept with a few exes before. It’s just safer when your horny to go to an ex rather than find some stranger in a club. As long as you both know where you stand then it’s not a problem. There was one ex who I wanted to but didn’t. It was only...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Usually When I'm Single

    The most recent ex is the target I've shot for in the past. Hopefully, I won't be doing *that* anymore!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 15, 2011

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    What the hell was I thinking?

    Blame it on the alcohol
    femketje femketje 22-25 3 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I Have Slept With An Ex & I'd Do It Again

    There are times when you realize that people you date are great lovers and great friends, but nothing more and that's when they become exes you sleep with. I see no reason if you're still on friendly terms with an ex and it's amenable to both parties why it can't be a friends...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    My best friends ex. I don't

    even know how to feel, Horrible because I did this,but I can't stop thinking about it,how hot it was how he knew exactly what to do The way he felt inside of me,his tongue on mine, even the way his ***** tasted. I never expected to be able to **** someone that's my friend, Even...
    KristenJoye KristenJoye 18-21, F Jul 16, 2014

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    SOME Say the Ex Make the Sex Wet

    IM IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I SLEPT WIT MY EX TWO WEEKS AGO AND IT WAS GREAT. I DON'T FEEL BAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE MY EX EVEN THOUGH WE ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE IT FEELS LIKE WE ARE ONE I ENJOY THIS AFFAIR AND BESIDES WHAT MY MAN DON'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM
    WETCAT87 WETCAT87 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2007

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    I did once a long time ago.

    ... Ugh never a good idea! Haha
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 16, 2014

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    I regularly sleep with 2 of my ex boyfriends!

    Both times we split on mutual terms but have remained friends
    gleemadmum gleemadmum 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2014

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    To Make Him Be Nice

    So why do I sleep w/ my X husband... if not he gets kinda mean about it. I rely on him to help pick up the kids sometimes, pay daycare and help w/ bills/food. When I say no he gets very upset and will keep asking until I do. Funny thing is after, for the first week, he becomes a...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My ex always comes back to me cuz I'm better in

    bed then her current boyfriend as she claims. At first I liked it to get back at him now I just like using her for the extra sex every once in a while. Can't complain about getting to put in her as* every time we bang out.
    billybobber99 billybobber99 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    Yeah, unfortunately I did.

    We were just so cool before that and I feel like that incident just brought our friendship downhill. So never again lol
    missdaize22 missdaize22 22-25, F Feb 22, 2014

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    Always the Same Guy, Always Regret It

    we broke up officially two years ago, and then almost immediately started sleeping together "just as friends so it'd be safer than sleeping with someone random".  we ended basically dating for a while (admitting we still had feelings for each other), but he then...
    pinkkennel pinkkennel 18-21 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    I recently ended a 4 1/2 year relationship, but have been talking about being fwb's with two of my friends for a couple of months. Now that the relationship is over though, I get...
    Cephaloria Cephaloria 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    Met him in August at band camp. Tom. He was attractive to me from the start. Around the end of September I got blackout drunk at a band party and said that I'd "do" Tom the TA...
    FluteMastah FluteMastah 18-21, F Jan 3

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    The other day I was talking to my dad about a friend of mine who supposedly almost took her own life and he began to tell me about one of his friends who passed on a few years ago...
    HypoallergenicUnicorn HypoallergenicUnicorn 13-15, F Dec 29, 2014

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    It happened not so long ago. We were at a party when she called me one side saying she needed me to go with her to the car. He was busy. Awesome sex it was..
    AdamCum4Fun AdamCum4Fun 26-30, M Jan 1

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    I found it on sale - like most of the vast collection of female items I wear. "It" is a one piece female swimsuit made of a delightfully stretching material that hugs without...
    cdsubalice cdsubalice 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Deprived Me of My Mother-When I was 9 my mother who was a Black American unilaterally relocated my younger sister and self to her homeland the United States. A short time later our...
    DayDayEdwards DayDayEdwards 22-25, M Jan 13

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    I had an affair with my sister inlaw. It started out as online flirtations and online chat, but it became more. The experience was great. We couldn't get enough of each other
    rphmaster rphmaster 36-40, M Jan 18

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    Last night I had sex with an 18 year old dude. I was so drunk and stupid. I just didn't think. He lives in the neighborhood across the street from me. Idk what happened. We were...
    Annamania1 Annamania1 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was 15 I went to SeaWorld And I swam with a dolphin at Discovery Cove, I remember the trainer, she said 'A dolphin feels like a boiled egg' When I touched and caressed that...
    beanabus beanabus 22-25, F Dec 29, 2014

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    It won't let me post my experience! I have a super good one with my cousin who is hot lol!
    jakekendall1988 jakekendall1988 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Text me and we could have sex
    stevenissexy stevenissexy 22-25, M Dec 30, 2014

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    Since I was 18(now 22) I have had problems with telling guys I don't want to have sex. Granted just of the men were boyfriends or dating but I felt as if I was letting them down if...
    Mickey993 Mickey993 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Let's get one thing straight. I don't work FOR you. I work WITH you to get to your goals. I work FOR my family and my personal well being. Your goals and aspirations are not my own...
    mirogran mirogran 31-35, M Jan 1

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    My brother doesn't want me talking to his ex girlfriend that he got pregnant. I don't like his new girlfriend she jealous and mean stuck up type untrustworthy just no Morals she's...
    peaceintruelove peaceintruelove 18-21, F Jan 2

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    Well my family is not being very supportive and have not been in my life for long time. I have raise my kids alone without my family help and my family have disown me because of...
    Kelbug Kelbug 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    I decided to make these vacations constructive and studied a bit about the field I want to master in later. (two years to go actually) I kind of take more time to understand the...
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad 18-21, F Jan 3

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    Interesting. I live alone, no wonder, and don't get company. I have a few rolls of toilet paper ready if needed by in scheduled callers. But generally I never use toilet paper...
    Philie Philie 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    My family is sorta broken, I was adopted so I don't feel connections with my parent. so I only have one father and no mother and my sister isn't the best example in life. so...
    shur09 shur09 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I am dying inside. I know it's dumb and kind of a very little thing but my best friend is going to the hospidal. She is in bad condition the hospidal said she has three months to...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I have an issue with the fact that there's only 347 people in this group.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    My father omitted me from his will. My mother told me once, if I changed, I could receive money after she died. My son, adored the power of money since his boyhood, from my parents...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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