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I Have Some Boundary Issues

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    What I Want Vs What They Want

    When I am on my own (as in single or with no friends about) I am quite good at looking after myself...ie, taking the steps to eating well, resting, exercising, etc.  But when there is someone getting close to me I notice that I sort of forget what I want and get distracted...
    thegirlwiththepinkhair thegirlwiththepinkhair 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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