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I Have Some Boundary Issues

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    What I Want Vs What They Want

    When I am on my own (as in single or with no friends about) I am quite good at looking after myself...ie, taking the steps to eating well, resting, exercising, etc.  But when there is someone getting close to me I notice that I sort of forget what I want and get distracted...
    thegirlwiththepinkhair thegirlwiththepinkhair 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2009

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    I hate it when i post something on this app and then people who dont know me say that I'm too young and stuff like that i post stuff to get advice from people not for them to tell...
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    You interpret it as you wish. I met Mutato. And I liked it. And I will never be able to admit to anyone my secret. He does not look like a monster. He is no monster. There...
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    Sometimes I heart my own experiences just so I get the thrill of a new notification
    rocketman84 rocketman84 26-30, M Apr 6

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    All my friends left me and forgot about me... I just need someone to talk to .-.
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    I have many things to say, but I don't say them. Things that would make some happy, some mad, mark me as a communist, mark me as a terrorist, things that would make me seem...
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    I do, not gonna say names but it's been awhile since I ever had a real convo with someone that just didn't talk to me like there ordering some juicy meat at the market every time...
    zigster86 zigster86 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    #2 on my list of "Things I am proud of about me": 2. I’m not lazy/selfish/spoiled. I guess I’m not exactly sure what I would call this, but basically when I see people doing...
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    hornyles69 hornyles69 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    i know we can be happy on our own.. we got life, work, hobbies, friends.. sometimes we even choose to be solitude to get happiness.. but having someone who love and care for you is...
    Tella84 Tella84 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    #3 of "Things I am proud of about me": 3. I love to challenge myself and push myself further. Everyone has their own personal struggles in life that they can either face and fight...
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    please excuse my poorly chosen words. i love you. but i'm scared. scared of what i will do to my son. i am scared of what the future may hold. we are so similar but so...
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    I have a lot of them, in fact. :) My friends are great.
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    Is it worse to have parents who don't even acknowledge your experience or to have parents who shoot you down with hurtful words with anything you do?
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    My mom drank through my entire childhood and would take me to house parties and lock me in the bathroom or get anyone she could to babysit me. Including disgusting men. I was...
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