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I Have Some Insecurity Issues

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    Need To Ease My Mind

    I'm new to this... But hopefWell, I'm 19 years old and I have a boyfriend/fiancé, whom I care a lot about. When I'm in public with him, I get VERY insecure. I know it's normal for girls and all, but I don't think it's normal to get as bad as I do... We go to the mall, and when I...
    KennaRae KennaRae 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    Sometimes when I talk I mess up my words

    and sound like a dumb ***. I say the same word like twice or something when I'm flustered. Or I just lose my train of thought. I stutter too sometimes. Or say like three words at once and it sounds like some foriegn word lol. I try to avoid talking cause I try to talk so fast...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    Be Patient With Me, Please.

    I'm a jealous person, honestly. I keep those at arm's length... I don't ask for much... But give what I can... I'm... in a way, better at making friends than keeping friends. Sobotage before the enemy steals me... I'm just nasty. I throw fits of anger at those I adore and adore...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Dec 17, 2012

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    I'm so insecure about everything.

    I hate everything about me. But I play it off like I'm not. If someone looks at me for more than 6 seconds I get Insecure.
    princessMxo princessMxo 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2014

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    Ah Yes...

    ...I have a lot of insecurity issues. I have had them for what seems like forever. Hopefully one day I will overcome them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2010

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    On the internet people say things about beauty,

    and I honestly don't believe them. Since I was 13 I had issues with my chest and that's about it. As I grew older I kept hoping, wishing that someday they'd finally grow and I could look the way a woman should in order for guys to TRULY be attracted to them. I sit here now at 23...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Insecure Soul

    what makes a person special? is it their face? their personality? what about their soul? do you ever think about how beautiful a human's soul is? mine is an insecure mess. i admit, i have a dark soul. if my soul were a short story it would be written by Edgar Allan Poe. if you...
    ImMalificent ImMalificent 18-21, F Jul 17, 2013

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    Who Don't?

    All my life I have made the same repeated mistake... Having unconditional love for men... The bible say, put not your confidence in man in whom there is no help... I have learn well that this was a BIG weakness....I claim in the Name of Jesus complete healing and restroration...I...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Insecurity

    I know am im not pretty or anything.People like to call me cute and adorable but who wants to be called that espeacially only coming from girls not guys.I have braces.I have to wear glasses just to see the board in class.Let's not forget my quiet voice that forces me to...
    justbreathe99 justbreathe99 16-17, F Nov 2, 2013

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    everyone has insecurity issues.

    The difference is the way we show our insicurity that become our defects. Someone talks a lot, someone is shy, someone is arrogant but every defect is an espression of our insicurity
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    if you're the kind of girl

    who purposely points out another girls insecurities in front of a boy please disappear off this earth
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    They Say That I'm Beautiful

    And I say the oposite, I just don't feel good about myself, I need some help..
    MaiteDominican MaiteDominican 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    My Insecurities

    First off, i am very insecure about my weight. I am 5'1 and 113 pounds. I feel as if I am 200 though. I have a very tiny waist but my boobs are very large making me feel overweight. I have curves and that makes me feel even fatter. It didn't help that my dad used to joke around...
    Wolfchick9439 Wolfchick9439 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Guess What?

    Everybody has some insecurity issues.I do too.The important thing is to not allow them to cripple you.When I performed my first "solo" surgery as head surgeon, I was a little insecure but knew that what I was doing was for the betterment of my patient. I could have "elected" to...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Letting Go Of My Nerous Nellies

    I spent a couple minutes looking through the categories I still hadn't contributed a story to before beginning this. There were a few options available to what I want to say, but this one may well address a key underlying issue about why I find myself stuck. My last job ended at...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M Jul 14, 2013

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    lzaman lzaman 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    So Insecure About Him

    My live in boyfriend of three years is moving to a different province for the financial opportunities there, he could end up making a lot of money and he really wants to be financially successful. I would love him even if he was dirt poor. but he wants a "better" life for us...
    Lithriel Lithriel 26-30, F Apr 28, 2013

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    But none are really physical .

    I don't need a man( or female) to tell me that I'm beautiful . I know that . I also know that that's not enough so I have to prove that I'm more than that but I might not be .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    My Flaws And Insecurities.

    Hello! I know there are people on here with bigger problems, but I would just like to share something that has been on my heart for quite some time. First off, I will admit that I have some insecurities. I don't know... when I was younger & people would get mad at me. They would...
    IDK1994 IDK1994 18-21 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Jealousy

    i am jealous. my fiance talks to alot of people on Ep . i have almost no friends and we don't talk as much as we used to . i am afraid of losing her . i think everytime someone texts her iti s a girl or guy trying to get with her. every look or converstation from someone is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    I'm Jealous..

    ...of those people that walk around feeling so good about themselves. I want to know their secret because there just has to be one. How about those people that have learned to be secure in their own skin, how did they do that?! There's got to be a trick because I know I'm a...
    notholdingback notholdingback 36-40, F Aug 29, 2012

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    I've had insecurity issues

    for as long as I can remember. I very rarely felt confident in myself
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Nov 18, 2014

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    I've Noticed For Quite Some Time,

    It seems these issues interfere with m everyday life. I really hate it. I've been like this for a while now, I just like to keep to myself. I'm never good enough for myself.
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    Getting Made Fun Of Is Not Fun

    With my immediate and extended family I always get taunts about my weight and am made to feel all the negative feelings associated with being a fat girl because I'm overweight. But I was always considered smart and intelligent by my family. In highschool, my 'friends' would...
    SpringlesAndStars SpringlesAndStars 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Who Is She?

    When I look in the mirror, I see this chubby faced, red skinned, crappy haired girl. I look down and I see awkward legs, weird feet and a big gut. But when I sit down and look at myself, I really just think I'm hideous. Overall. I thank those who say other wise, but what happens...
    KennaRae KennaRae 22-25, F Jul 10, 2013

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    I was wondering is there any others on this site with same issues lets talk
    feelgirjy feelgirjy 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    "Come Right Out And Say It" I'd better rest my eyes 'Cause I'm growing weary of This point you've been trying to make So rather than imply Why don't you just verbalize All...
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    Found this on yahoo answers. When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to take it out on someone, don't take it out on someone you know, take it out on...
    Lonerthestoner Lonerthestoner 18-21 1 Response Apr 14

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    When I'm angry I ball up my fists and twitch and i just feel the never ending urge to break something.
    LessOne LessOne 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    I snap so easily enough to destroy my day and someone else's and I hate it
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    This is probably why I'm attracted to girls more than boys because most guys I've Ive dated always end up being fukboys😒. I'm not saying all guys are the same but I just don't...
    GoddessKaiya GoddessKaiya 16-17, F Apr 7

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    a lot of ppl I cared about in my life have screwed me over and it hurts. my supposed best friend " Megan" didn't invite me to her wedding. I felt do unwanted. I have and will never...
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F Apr 8

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    Been a strange week, been really restless lately and feeling weird… I don’t know what it is or why… it’s hard to explain its not a anxiety feeling, not stress nor a depress...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I was never cheated on and I am not the jealous type. Well, I only had one relationship and that's by choice. My ex is a well known guy and everyone likes him, he's a sweet and...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Now I respect other people's belief & I don't want to make anyone upset but how can some people not believe in God. Now he's I can understand that it's probably how you were raised...
    Coldheartedgirl456 Coldheartedgirl456 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Isn't it funny we tend to notice something when its another person doing it rather than ourselves? Case in point.. some time ago a friend of mine texted me.She asks me if...
    RafaReu RafaReu 22-25, M Mar 31

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    what is wrong with some people why they so judgmental just because ur behind a mouse dosnt mean u no it all or ur all bad etc what is with all he fake ahhh she fake **** just be...
    XDHyperGirlXD1 XDHyperGirlXD1 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    On Easter I was very hurt by some of my family members. I always seem to want to justify their behaviors. My sons who are in the military and live in another state didn't even call...
    Bluetangerine Bluetangerine 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Me and my husband want so bad to go to a swingers club but we know we have to be invited by someone who is already a member. I wish we knew someone.
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    Ok, I stopped what I was doing just now, to put this down. I had taken notes on this a very long while ago. Now I'm at a point where I fully grasp what it means and how differently...
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