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I Have Some Insecurity Issues

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    My Insecurities

    First off, i am very insecure about my weight. I am 5'1 and 113 pounds. I feel as if I am 200 though. I have a very tiny waist but my boobs are very large making me feel overweight. I have curves and that makes me feel even fatter. It didn't help that my dad used to joke around...
    Wolfchick9439 Wolfchick9439 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Guess What?

    Everybody has some insecurity issues.I do too.The important thing is to not allow them to cripple you.When I performed my first "solo" surgery as head surgeon, I was a little insecure but knew that what I was doing was for the betterment of my patient. I could have "elected" to...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I'm honestly not sure

    if this is insecurity. Maybe jealousy? Maybe it's simply just saddening for obvious reasons. Anyway, my friend and I both started doing something around the same time. (I say something because I do to feel like people will know what Il talking about and I feel it's not...
    KayJayHoeBum KayJayHoeBum 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Be Patient With Me, Please.

    I'm a jealous person, honestly. I keep those at arm's length... I don't ask for much... But give what I can... I'm... in a way, better at making friends than keeping friends. Sobotage before the enemy steals me... I'm just nasty. I throw fits of anger at those I adore and adore...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Dec 17, 2012

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    I'm so insecure about everything.

    I hate everything about me. But I play it off like I'm not. If someone looks at me for more than 6 seconds I get Insecure.
    princessMxo princessMxo 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Insecurity

    I know am im not pretty or anything.People like to call me cute and adorable but who wants to be called that espeacially only coming from girls not guys.I have braces.I have to wear glasses just to see the board in class.Let's not forget my quiet voice that forces me to...
    justbreathe99 justbreathe99 13-15, F Nov 2, 2013

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    Getting Made Fun Of Is Not Fun

    With my immediate and extended family I always get taunts about my weight and am made to feel all the negative feelings associated with being a fat girl because I'm overweight. But I was always considered smart and intelligent by my family. In highschool, my 'friends' would...
    SpringlesAndStars SpringlesAndStars 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Need To Ease My Mind

    I'm new to this... But hopefWell, I'm 19 years old and I have a boyfriend/fiancé, whom I care a lot about. When I'm in public with him, I get VERY insecure. I know it's normal for girls and all, but I don't think it's normal to get as bad as I do... We go to the mall, and when I...
    KennaRae KennaRae 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    My Flaws And Insecurities.

    Hello! I know there are people on here with bigger problems, but I would just like to share something that has been on my heart for quite some time. First off, I will admit that I have some insecurities. I don't know... when I was younger & people would get mad at me. They would...
    IDK1994 IDK1994 18-21 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Letting Go Of My Nerous Nellies

    I spent a couple minutes looking through the categories I still hadn't contributed a story to before beginning this. There were a few options available to what I want to say, but this one may well address a key underlying issue about why I find myself stuck. My last job ended at...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M Jul 14, 2013

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    Insecure Soul

    what makes a person special? is it their face? their personality? what about their soul? do you ever think about how beautiful a human's soul is? mine is an insecure mess. i admit, i have a dark soul. if my soul were a short story it would be written by Edgar Allan Poe. if you...
    ImMalificent ImMalificent 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Sometimes when I talk I mess up my words

    and sound like a dumb ***. I say the same word like twice or something when I'm flustered. Or I just lose my train of thought. I stutter too sometimes. Or say like three words at once and it sounds like some foriegn word lol. I try to avoid talking cause I try to talk so fast...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    They Say That I'm Beautiful

    And I say the oposite, I just don't feel good about myself, I need some help..
    MaiteDominican MaiteDominican 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    So Insecure About Him

    My live in boyfriend of three years is moving to a different province for the financial opportunities there, he could end up making a lot of money and he really wants to be financially successful. I would love him even if he was dirt poor. but he wants a "better" life for us...
    Lithriel Lithriel 26-30, F Apr 28, 2013

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    Jealousy

    i am jealous. my fiance talks to alot of people on Ep . i have almost no friends and we don't talk as much as we used to . i am afraid of losing her . i think everytime someone texts her iti s a girl or guy trying to get with her. every look or converstation from someone is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    I've Noticed For Quite Some Time,

    It seems these issues interfere with m everyday life. I really hate it. I've been like this for a while now, I just like to keep to myself. I'm never good enough for myself.
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    I'm Jealous..

    ...of those people that walk around feeling so good about themselves. I want to know their secret because there just has to be one. How about those people that have learned to be secure in their own skin, how did they do that?! There's got to be a trick because I know I'm a...
    notholdingback notholdingback 36-40, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Ah Yes...

    ...I have a lot of insecurity issues. I have had them for what seems like forever. Hopefully one day I will overcome them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2010

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    Who Is She?

    When I look in the mirror, I see this chubby faced, red skinned, crappy haired girl. I look down and I see awkward legs, weird feet and a big gut. But when I sit down and look at myself, I really just think I'm hideous. Overall. I thank those who say other wise, but what happens...
    KennaRae KennaRae 18-21, F Jul 10, 2013

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    Who Don't?

    All my life I have made the same repeated mistake... Having unconditional love for men... The bible say, put not your confidence in man in whom there is no help... I have learn well that this was a BIG weakness....I claim in the Name of Jesus complete healing and restroration...I...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I just graduated! I graduated from "I Have Random Thoughts" to "I Have Some Seriously Random Thought"!!
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    I was out with some of my girl friends this evening, and had the thought mulling around in my brain on the drive back to my place, that we all have dichotomies in us that we all...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I remember when I was little and I didn't care about how I looked, but then again we were all like like that when we were little, right? I've always been thin, I still am. I'm sick...
    secretsleftuntold secretsleftuntold 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    So i have always been a small 110, I have small boobs and i had a small tummy. But then i turned 18 and put on 20 lbs and it keeps adding up and its just in my stomach area, My...
    Shiro96 Shiro96 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I just don't know what to do some days. I want to learn to love myself again. How hard can it be?
    Shiro96 Shiro96 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    All my life. I have struggled with my weight. I come from a line of many curvy woman. But a lot of my life my Father, and kids I'd gone to school with teased me. I suffered from...
    Mj13ahestrella Mj13ahestrella 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    I hate balancing on the tightrope between body conscious and obsessed. I realize that there is some crossover and if I neglect it all together I become to relaxed
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    My childhood was great fun up until about the age of 10, I loved it and was proud of the good old days, and still to this day I enjoy reminiscing about them, probobly because they...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    All my life, every single friend I've ever had growing up has eventually told me that they were just hanging out with me because they felt sorry for me, or for whatever reason they...
    VeteranSoulSeeker VeteranSoulSeeker 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    I'm 4'10. I weigh anywhere from 100-104lbs. I know I'm at a healthy weight, but I still feel gross. My boobs are small and my legs are short. I'm pale, with messed up teeth and...
    tinywoman tinywoman 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I have an. 'EDNOS'-eating disorder not otherwise specified-anorexia with any food eaten to bulimia-not a binge eater-eat such a small, crappy amount-HAVE to throw it up....
    cherryjar cherryjar 26-30, F Oct 3

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    I probably have lots, but often words prove inadequate. sometimes when I have the words, my audience is apathetic. Its how I know true friends. they care and seem to...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M Sep 23

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    Men watch it in private... Women read it in private... some even read among their friends and laugh and some with their spouses and boyfie's... its not fifty shades of grey...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F Sep 24

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    First marriages are like first cars. Chances are you are going to crash it. You might as well find someone willing to marry you and get it out of the way as soon as possible. You...
    RandomUniverse RandomUniverse 61-65, M 4 Responses Sep 25

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    Happy or sad. There's always something.
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    And when someone I know is around, something coming out of my mouth. xD My mind is the harborer of endless thoughts and my mouth loves to let them out.
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Sep 28

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    Everyone always has something on their mind be it good or bad. There's always something there.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F Sep 28

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    You know who I am talking to and I have unblocked you for a time because unlike the friends you are deceiving, I will spare you from being the last to know what is going on. After...
    Joseph84 Joseph84 31-35, M 21 Responses Sep 28

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    I wish I could just not have my feelings sometimes
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Sep 30

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    I want to say I've met wonderful people on EP. But I have to say I've met someone on EP that makes me smile like something silly when I see a message from him!!!
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I am near sighted. Sometimes I wear red glasses. I love poetry and jazz. I enjoy watching track and field. I prefer long hot baths over showers. I prefer the country over the city...
    bridgeoverwater bridgeoverwater 26-30, F Oct 2

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    There's this girl, I met her 3 years ago, she entered my class, and finally entered my mind through my heart, I know, I know, it's too cheesy, but it's the truth. After all those...
    UnknownGuyAround UnknownGuyAround 13-15, M Oct 3

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    I don't care how this makes me sound yeah i a vary angry person who offen wants to crack a few heads i dont give a hell but I have feelings i dont give a hell want others think...
    Wolf267 Wolf267 13-15, M Oct 4

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    this is a follow up story. please read part one first..... only later i was thinking, is this maybe for pouple i dont know???? well after the nice holiday life just past by.. i...
    MeAndAProblem MeAndAProblem 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 7

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    My mom and I are sitting here watching Smallville wishing someone would just kill Lana already xD She's ruining everything!
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Oct 9

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    I used to like to hang out with my brother, but he didn't want his little sister tagging along so he left me at his friends house to play with his sister. She wanted to play house...
    lalalagirl40 lalalagirl40 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    I swear I felt as if I were entering a portal to another dimension. It was just an old gravel road in some long forgotten Illinois town...not even the garden of the gods. My...
    joecell joecell 46-50, M Oct 10

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