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I Have Some Insecurity Issues

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    I'm honestly not sure

    if this is insecurity. Maybe jealousy? Maybe it's simply just saddening for obvious reasons. Anyway, my friend and I both started doing something around the same time. (I say something because I do to feel like people will know what Il talking about and I feel it's not...
    KayJayHoeBum KayJayHoeBum 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    So Insecure About Him

    My live in boyfriend of three years is moving to a different province for the financial opportunities there, he could end up making a lot of money and he really wants to be financially successful. I would love him even if he was dirt poor. but he wants a "better" life for us...
    Lithriel Lithriel 26-30, F Apr 28, 2013

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    I've Noticed For Quite Some Time,

    It seems these issues interfere with m everyday life. I really hate it. I've been like this for a while now, I just like to keep to myself. I'm never good enough for myself.
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    On the internet people say things about beauty,

    and I honestly don't believe them. Since I was 13 I had issues with my chest and that's about it. As I grew older I kept hoping, wishing that someday they'd finally grow and I could look the way a woman should in order for guys to TRULY be attracted to them. I sit here now at 23...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    I've had insecurity issues

    for as long as I can remember. I very rarely felt confident in myself
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Nov 18

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    I'm so insecure about everything.

    I hate everything about me. But I play it off like I'm not. If someone looks at me for more than 6 seconds I get Insecure.
    princessMxo princessMxo 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Who Don't?

    All my life I have made the same repeated mistake... Having unconditional love for men... The bible say, put not your confidence in man in whom there is no help... I have learn well that this was a BIG weakness....I claim in the Name of Jesus complete healing and restroration...I...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    lzaman lzaman 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    Need To Ease My Mind

    I'm new to this... But hopefWell, I'm 19 years old and I have a boyfriend/fiancé, whom I care a lot about. When I'm in public with him, I get VERY insecure. I know it's normal for girls and all, but I don't think it's normal to get as bad as I do... We go to the mall, and when I...
    KennaRae KennaRae 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Jealousy

    i am jealous. my fiance talks to alot of people on Ep . i have almost no friends and we don't talk as much as we used to . i am afraid of losing her . i think everytime someone texts her iti s a girl or guy trying to get with her. every look or converstation from someone is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    I'm Jealous..

    ...of those people that walk around feeling so good about themselves. I want to know their secret because there just has to be one. How about those people that have learned to be secure in their own skin, how did they do that?! There's got to be a trick because I know I'm a...
    notholdingback notholdingback 36-40, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Getting Made Fun Of Is Not Fun

    With my immediate and extended family I always get taunts about my weight and am made to feel all the negative feelings associated with being a fat girl because I'm overweight. But I was always considered smart and intelligent by my family. In highschool, my 'friends' would...
    SpringlesAndStars SpringlesAndStars 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    But none are really physical .

    I don't need a man( or female) to tell me that I'm beautiful . I know that . I also know that that's not enough so I have to prove that I'm more than that but I might not be .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    Guess What?

    Everybody has some insecurity issues.I do too.The important thing is to not allow them to cripple you.When I performed my first "solo" surgery as head surgeon, I was a little insecure but knew that what I was doing was for the betterment of my patient. I could have "elected" to...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    My Insecurities

    First off, i am very insecure about my weight. I am 5'1 and 113 pounds. I feel as if I am 200 though. I have a very tiny waist but my boobs are very large making me feel overweight. I have curves and that makes me feel even fatter. It didn't help that my dad used to joke around...
    Wolfchick9439 Wolfchick9439 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Sometimes when I talk I mess up my words

    and sound like a dumb ***. I say the same word like twice or something when I'm flustered. Or I just lose my train of thought. I stutter too sometimes. Or say like three words at once and it sounds like some foriegn word lol. I try to avoid talking cause I try to talk so fast...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    everyone has insecurity issues.

    The difference is the way we show our insicurity that become our defects. Someone talks a lot, someone is shy, someone is arrogant but every defect is an espression of our insicurity
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    if you're the kind of girl

    who purposely points out another girls insecurities in front of a boy please disappear off this earth
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    They Say That I'm Beautiful

    And I say the oposite, I just don't feel good about myself, I need some help..
    MaiteDominican MaiteDominican 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    My Flaws And Insecurities.

    Hello! I know there are people on here with bigger problems, but I would just like to share something that has been on my heart for quite some time. First off, I will admit that I have some insecurities. I don't know... when I was younger & people would get mad at me. They would...
    IDK1994 IDK1994 18-21 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Be Patient With Me, Please.

    I'm a jealous person, honestly. I keep those at arm's length... I don't ask for much... But give what I can... I'm... in a way, better at making friends than keeping friends. Sobotage before the enemy steals me... I'm just nasty. I throw fits of anger at those I adore and adore...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Ah Yes...

    ...I have a lot of insecurity issues. I have had them for what seems like forever. Hopefully one day I will overcome them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2010

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    Insecure Soul

    what makes a person special? is it their face? their personality? what about their soul? do you ever think about how beautiful a human's soul is? mine is an insecure mess. i admit, i have a dark soul. if my soul were a short story it would be written by Edgar Allan Poe. if you...
    ImMalificent ImMalificent 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Who Is She?

    When I look in the mirror, I see this chubby faced, red skinned, crappy haired girl. I look down and I see awkward legs, weird feet and a big gut. But when I sit down and look at myself, I really just think I'm hideous. Overall. I thank those who say other wise, but what happens...
    KennaRae KennaRae 18-21, F Jul 10, 2013

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    Insecurity

    I know am im not pretty or anything.People like to call me cute and adorable but who wants to be called that espeacially only coming from girls not guys.I have braces.I have to wear glasses just to see the board in class.Let's not forget my quiet voice that forces me to...
    justbreathe99 justbreathe99 13-15, F Nov 2, 2013

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    Letting Go Of My Nerous Nellies

    I spent a couple minutes looking through the categories I still hadn't contributed a story to before beginning this. There were a few options available to what I want to say, but this one may well address a key underlying issue about why I find myself stuck. My last job ended at...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M Jul 14, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Since I haven't been on here much in almost 2 years, but I want to start being on here consistently again, I figure I should give an update of how the last 2 years have gone so any...
    skyhook2612 skyhook2612 18-21, F Dec 1

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    I was in 8th grade when I first had the feeling for a certain boy. I saw him at the park and talked to him all night. I then started talking to him on Facebook since he was a grade...
    arianagrande14 arianagrande14 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I most definitely always have something on my mind. More specifically someone :P My girlfriend is always on my mind. I'm always thinking about her. What she could be doing, What...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I am a Muslim. I am proud to be a Muslim. And I think that the idea that some people have about Islam is really twisted. Even many Muslims have got it all wrong. For example, the...
    ashfaaqb ashfaaqb 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    So Many Shades of Gray - in a world that demands black and white. I spent most of the first 30 years of my life totally confused about my gender and sexual preference. I was...
    AlbertSAT AlbertSAT 66-70, M 4 Responses Nov 21

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    I'd love to be a successful artist someday, that is if my feelings didn't stop kicking me down and making me feel this way; unable to leave home and pursue an education, whole days...
    luneelfe luneelfe 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    Even though it was just a dream... I felt your hands in mine. And it felt so good. It felt so peaceful. I never wanted to stop playing with them. Interlocking them in my fingers...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 5 Responses Nov 29

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    I feel so angry right now! Its almost 4am and my companion and his kin are in the next room falling down drunk, blasting the radio so loud the cops should have been called by the...
    blad3runn3r blad3runn3r 31-35 1 Response Nov 19

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    I have come out of my country looking for a job and fortunately i got one after arond 4 days. Presently Iam working in this Company from last 1.7 years. I have been selected as...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    Most of times I don't know what's going to happen but nowadays after meeting April, I just do it not caring about what result is going to be. The problem is the things started to...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I had someone that said she loved me but her actions didn't show it. Had a daughter together and bought a house a year ago, she had secrets with her phone and was avoiding me more...
    needbetter needbetter 31-35, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I suck at being a human being. There. I've said it. I don't know how to be someone's friend. I don't know how to talk to people. Whatever normal humans use to connect with others...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    So I should start by saying that sometimes we put so much effort into one issue trying to solve it, not to realize that much focus might let you see the big picture. Had to paint...
    madhatter22 madhatter22 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    The best feeling in the world is knowing that you actually mean something to someone.
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Send me a message if you want to hear some of them.
    TheSensi7 TheSensi7 16-17, M Nov 20

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    I'm tired of seeing discrimination against homosexuals Or transgender Or straight people. What's the difference?!? We are all human beings and should be treated equally. Some girls...
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 12 Responses Nov 20

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    Some people say love is hard. Some say true love is even harder. Is it true? I'm not the one to answer that question. When it comes to love I'm a three time loser. Can I say I was...
    Leeza1964 Leeza1964 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 21

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    OK well this is directed to one person you know who you are if you bother to look at this. Goodbye for now you dont care anymore. Goodbye until we shall meet again. Goodbye until...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    "Hmm...let me see...I'll take one of those, and one of those and, oh, I'll have 2 of them at least...(them being a blonde, brunette and 2 redheads...'just won't let them know...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Coming out is ridiculous I think it should not matter..why do u have to tell someone your gay...you shouldn't have to...like yea sure society sux an there's still the issue of kids...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    Well right now I am staying with my mom, and I have two friends, which includes others within their family. One friend lives just down the street from me. Her life is in turmoil...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    To be something bigger then myself. I want it to where when people say my name they discuss how i constantly tried to make a difference. Someone who will stand even if its all by...
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 26

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