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I Have Some Insecurity Issues

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    Need To Ease My Mind

    I'm new to this... But hopefWell, I'm 19 years old and I have a boyfriend/fiancé, whom I care a lot about. When I'm in public with him, I get VERY insecure. I know it's normal for girls and all, but I don't think it's normal to get as bad as I do... We go to the mall, and when I...
    KennaRae KennaRae 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    My Flaws And Insecurities.

    Hello! I know there are people on here with bigger problems, but I would just like to share something that has been on my heart for quite some time. First off, I will admit that I have some insecurities. I don't know... when I was younger & people would get mad at me. They would...
    IDK1994 IDK1994 18-21 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Insecure Soul

    what makes a person special? is it their face? their personality? what about their soul? do you ever think about how beautiful a human's soul is? mine is an insecure mess. i admit, i have a dark soul. if my soul were a short story it would be written by Edgar Allan Poe. if you...
    ImMalificent ImMalificent 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Jealousy

    i am jealous. my fiance talks to alot of people on Ep . i have almost no friends and we don't talk as much as we used to . i am afraid of losing her . i think everytime someone texts her iti s a girl or guy trying to get with her. every look or converstation from someone is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    Ah Yes...

    ...I have a lot of insecurity issues. I have had them for what seems like forever. Hopefully one day I will overcome them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2010

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    I'm honestly not sure

    if this is insecurity. Maybe jealousy? Maybe it's simply just saddening for obvious reasons. Anyway, my friend and I both started doing something around the same time. (I say something because I do to feel like people will know what Il talking about and I feel it's not...
    KayJayHoeBum KayJayHoeBum 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Letting Go Of My Nerous Nellies

    I spent a couple minutes looking through the categories I still hadn't contributed a story to before beginning this. There were a few options available to what I want to say, but this one may well address a key underlying issue about why I find myself stuck. My last job ended at...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M Jul 14, 2013

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    I'm so insecure about everything.

    I hate everything about me. But I play it off like I'm not. If someone looks at me for more than 6 seconds I get Insecure.
    princessMxo princessMxo 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    They Say That I'm Beautiful

    And I say the oposite, I just don't feel good about myself, I need some help..
    MaiteDominican MaiteDominican 18-21, F Jul 14, 2013

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    I've Noticed For Quite Some Time,

    It seems these issues interfere with m everyday life. I really hate it. I've been like this for a while now, I just like to keep to myself. I'm never good enough for myself.
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    Insecurity

    I know am im not pretty or anything.People like to call me cute and adorable but who wants to be called that espeacially only coming from girls not guys.I have braces.I have to wear glasses just to see the board in class.Let's not forget my quiet voice that forces me to...
    justbreathe99 justbreathe99 13-15, F Nov 2, 2013

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    So Insecure About Him

    My live in boyfriend of three years is moving to a different province for the financial opportunities there, he could end up making a lot of money and he really wants to be financially successful. I would love him even if he was dirt poor. but he wants a "better" life for us...
    Lithriel Lithriel 26-30, F Apr 28, 2013

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    I'm Jealous..

    ...of those people that walk around feeling so good about themselves. I want to know their secret because there just has to be one. How about those people that have learned to be secure in their own skin, how did they do that?! There's got to be a trick because I know I'm a...
    notholdingback notholdingback 36-40, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Getting Made Fun Of Is Not Fun

    With my immediate and extended family I always get taunts about my weight and am made to feel all the negative feelings associated with being a fat girl because I'm overweight. But I was always considered smart and intelligent by my family. In highschool, my 'friends' would...
    SpringlesAndStars SpringlesAndStars 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Sometimes when I talk I mess up my words

    and sound like a dumb ***. I say the same word like twice or something when I'm flustered. Or I just lose my train of thought. I stutter too sometimes. Or say like three words at once and it sounds like some foriegn word lol. I try to avoid talking cause I try to talk so fast...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Who Is She?

    When I look in the mirror, I see this chubby faced, red skinned, crappy haired girl. I look down and I see awkward legs, weird feet and a big gut. But when I sit down and look at myself, I really just think I'm hideous. Overall. I thank those who say other wise, but what happens...
    KennaRae KennaRae 18-21, F Jul 10, 2013

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    Guess What?

    Everybody has some insecurity issues.I do too.The important thing is to not allow them to cripple you.When I performed my first "solo" surgery as head surgeon, I was a little insecure but knew that what I was doing was for the betterment of my patient. I could have "elected" to...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Be Patient With Me, Please.

    I'm a jealous person, honestly. I keep those at arm's length... I don't ask for much... But give what I can... I'm... in a way, better at making friends than keeping friends. Sobotage before the enemy steals me... I'm just nasty. I throw fits of anger at those I adore and adore...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Dec 17, 2012

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    My Insecurities

    First off, i am very insecure about my weight. I am 5'1 and 113 pounds. I feel as if I am 200 though. I have a very tiny waist but my boobs are very large making me feel overweight. I have curves and that makes me feel even fatter. It didn't help that my dad used to joke around...
    Wolfchick9439 Wolfchick9439 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Who Don't?

    All my life I have made the same repeated mistake... Having unconditional love for men... The bible say, put not your confidence in man in whom there is no help... I have learn well that this was a BIG weakness....I claim in the Name of Jesus complete healing and restroration...I...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Other people who populate this planet are the reason why I have body image issues. This happened about two years ago at my old job where I did customer service at a grocery store...
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    It's so hard to forgive and open up again. I can't keep healthy relationships, I'm not close to any family and I don't consider anyone to be a friend, only an acquaintance. I'm...
    lonelylonerr lonelylonerr 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    If you are feeling jealous - or someone close to you is - Don't feel ashamed (if you are the jealous person), or try to make them feel ashamed. Two reasons: 1) Feelings walk in...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Excuse me for a moment but yes I have something to say! Don't ever come questioning me about a man that's not yours! Ok so here's the story... I'm leaving work and this girl...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    So I've had thread worms 3 times now, they just keep coming back. I don't know if it's because of the back brace I wear, and the body suits (scoliosis) Or if its because of my...
    hannahzclasicz hannahzclasicz 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I actually took a screenshot of a message someone sent me because he had paid me a lovely compliment. I know that is a little sad but it meant a lot to me!
    HaightStreet HaightStreet 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Ever since I was 14/15, I've always felt like I am not supposed to be male. I feel almost as if my body and mind are out of sync, like my mind is closer to female than male, but my...
    spartanlord1014 spartanlord1014 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I really need some female foot play i need to smell them and rub them :]
    Bbailey84 Bbailey84 26-30 3 hrs ago

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    You may disagree, but you know it's true. It is okay for a man to hit a women-IF SHE COMMITTED IT FIRST. It's not okay to abuse her because you feel like it or want to. If she...
    DestreyTheAntiChrist DestreyTheAntiChrist 18-21, F 2 Responses 43 mins ago

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    Ok so is it just me or when a guy talks to you and thinks ur attractive on ep they type something like hello how are you Andrea?im mark would you like to talk to me? I mean you...
    GIRLYGIRL894 GIRLYGIRL894 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Two girls – one British, one German – were strolling along the beach when they came across two young men playing with a stick. They paused at the water’s edge, marveling at...
    bethturner bethturner 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    I hate it when people think I am a lier when really I'm telling the truth I just buckle sometimes when someone puts me on the spot and when someone thinks I'm lieing it's hard for...
    amou1a amou1a 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I want to say thank you to a certain friend of mine that I met on here. You may constantly stalk my profile, but that's good, because you're always the first to message me when...
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Yesterday I ended up doing something that I didn't think would ever happen but I done it for that persons happiness even if its killing me inside I'll stay strong and help that...
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    “We hate some persons because we do not know them; and we will not know them because we hate them,” observed the English writer Charles Caleb Colton
    Tuesdaygone Tuesdaygone 41-45, F Aug 31

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    I've met alot of different people on experience project...its amazing. I've met alot of people...kind, funny, intelligent people. With some its like I've known them all my life and...
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    This is something I say with my friends at work. People Are always eating peanuts there and thought this would be funny. "Do you want some peanuts?" "Do I want some what...
    Tigerlily53 Tigerlily53 18-21, F Sep 2

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    This goes out to the Islamic State in the East. You know how to avoid problems. You know how to expand and how to inject terror. However, there is one little bit you left out on...
    Fortiplex Fortiplex 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I got jungle fever jus something about......
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    A few. Got discriminated against. By a club. That i starved to join. For being poor. And gimped. Came online to cope. Found ep. And peers. Cared for too...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 5

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    No seriously. Like how did i end up drawing a picture of a humanoid bird while listening to Screeching Weasels and all the while my mind's distracted by some story involving Vin...
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    "Please, WAKE UP, Mommy!!!" My older brother just turned 11 pleaded pulling on our motionless mother's arm. "Please, Mommy?!?!" A few weeks earlier following a very traumatic event...
    happyinND happyinND 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hmm next week I might be going kickboxing seriously I can't wait but im a bit nervous aswell :) Well I'll post something about it if I go
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    You'd never (at least I think...) guess that I think some of the things I do :/ I feel trapped by them sometimes, as I don't know how to talk/vent and get them off my chest without...
    jdgsui7 jdgsui7 22-25, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wanted to say this because I want people to know something about me. For as long as I can remember I have been alone. I have been treated like a mutant and feel like one...
    cloudycarnage cloudycarnage 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    When I want to sleep I can't, when I don't want to sleep that's all I can do. When I'm hungry I feel sick, when I'm not hungry I'm fine, I want to cry at the simplest things even...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey I'm in the mood for some hard kinky dares to do, message me or comment down below with you ideas please
    mastersmith mastersmith 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    It's beautiful how, some people we meet have amazing souls. Even those who are distance away from us, how we connect with them, the amazing understanding and exchange of thoughts...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Okay, I haven’t written much lately but I have to air my views about how I see our headlines in the world these days. I sometimes feel we are in the end times of humanity. Every...
    HikingGuy HikingGuy 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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