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I Have Stepchildren

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    Awwww...kiddos

    I would very much like to get to know my step children, but the evil ex makes it difficult.  She convinced my hubby(her ex) to move out of state when they got together.  STUPID.  Then they had kids.  Got married briefly.  And got divorced.  He...
    pbandjalways pbandjalways 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Advice Anyone???

    I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. We practically live together.  We spend everynight either at his place or mine.  He has a 9 year old son that he has full custody of.  The little boy, who I love dearly, goes to his mom's every other weekend.  My...
    helpless86 helpless86 22-25 4 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Stepchildren Hate Us

    Let me start by saying that my husband is a wonderful husband and father.  He had custody of one of his daughters before we were married (she lived with him) and still was paying child support to his ex-wife.  This same daughter called me mom and was one of my daughter...
    tiredofthestruggle tiredofthestruggle 46-50 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    How Come No Fairy Tales About Wicked Stepchildren?

    How come there aren’t any fairy tales about  wicked stepchildren?   In my Bus Dwivah’s uniform of jeans, flannel shirt and sneakers, I’d run the afternoon route as usual. I noticed that I had that “pre-sick” feeling – nothing...
    mamapolo mamapolo 56-60, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2008

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    Dealing

    I have stepchildren.  I have a loving husband whom I love with all my heart.  We have one son together.  When we first got married the ex left us alone.  We decided to have a baby and the hell started.  At first the kids were excited then jealousy reared...
    flowerlover flowerlover 31-35 2 Responses Sep 4, 2008

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    2 Stepdaughters Love & Hate

    When I married my wife Becky, she already had 2 daughters. Heather was 13 and Jenn was 11. I had been a stepfather once before with my first wife and her son, so this was really nothing new for me. One of the first things I did was to sit down with both of them and give them the...
    xj287 xj287 41-45, M Sep 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I have been married for 20 years to someone I love very much. When we met my stepsons were 17 and 15. My daughter's were 4 and 7. The boys lived with their mother and I never...
    pshick pshick 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I am so happy to have found this web site. I thought I was an evil b****. People don't seem to understand why you may hate your step kids. I feel so guilty over hating the...
    nrg917 nrg917 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    WOLF The wolf has been much misunderstood and maligned in history and is not the vicious intruder of western fairy tales. The wolf is a shy, yet very sociable creature with...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 6 hrs ago

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    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    I met him almost 18 months ago, it was lightening.. incredible chemistry immediately. I had never experienced anything like it in my life... I remember the day, I remember...
    Scorpionchild Scorpionchild 46-50, F 3 hrs ago

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    When I was about 16 years old I ran away from home, I could not take the physical abuse anymore. Unfortunately a cop found me and returned me to my abusive home, once we were away...
    nephthysbaby nephthysbaby 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I'm not usually one to have massive regrets about choices I have made. I usually come to the conclusion that the choices I made were the right ones for me at that time, and just...
    jemimalonglegs jemimalonglegs 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I have been looking up dream signs and when I woke up this morning, i realized I have been having a recurring one. It was my boyfriend, he seemed to always be in my dream, but he...
    Georgiakh Georgiakh 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Wow, heart break sucks. This isn't the first time I've had my heart broken. The guys I was with before hurt me, broke my heart into a thousand piece, but as cliche as this sounds...
    Via70 Via70 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Monday night I wound up in the hospital..Tuesday I went to see my PCP who put me on medical leave until yesterday..I went back yesterday and was told to stay off today and have an...
    katelynchildress katelynchildress 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I love my kitty cat. I used to shave my cat because it's what I saw on the media and what I heard was preferred by most people. But then I started thinking, why should I, just to...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    the good thing about internet anonymity is that we can be honest hiding behind our profiles, groups , etc. i have two questions i always wanted to ask but in my real life i dont...
    just22 just22 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Ghana, West Africa had held my heart since the day i stepped foot on their soil. Its so hard to put into words how much of an impact going to an African country will have on your...
    amandakleveland amandakleveland 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm not good enough never have been and never will be I wish people understood how bad im struggling right now going out tonight to a bar with friends sucks enough since I don't...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm sitting here wondering what if done to deserve this,If in a relationship I'm faithful,if needed I'm there,if I have it it's yours,I'm so nice even when I'm down, I try so hard...
    mommywithdecisions mommywithdecisions 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Anxiety disorder has ruined so many things in my life, and sucked the joy out of things and people I used to love. I had a psychologist I used to see, but I haven't gone in...
    jonicole jonicole 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Ive had friends in the past. I had lots of friends and its not that im socialy aqward or just dont want to its that, people just avoid me like a virus. All ive ever done is tried...
    pandasize pandasize 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I don't understand what I did wrong . he would come home angry from a long day at work and take it out on me . every little thing I did set him off , and he would hold me up...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    When I graduated HS in 2000 I was a care free stoner who just floated through life on cloud 9. Just about everything I had was provided by my parents. I wouldn't have admitted it...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    He's scared to try again and that ****** me off! I guess I have to respect his wishes. I just hate that you always say, "you're tired of hurting me". I forgave you why can't you...
    NoContactRule NoContactRule 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Well, recently I've been looking into dream signs and stuff and looking into my dreams. And during this I have realized something that happens in every dream. My boyfriend is...
    Georgiakh Georgiakh 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I feel like this is a tricky experience to share. Sure, there are people that are going to think poorly of me just because of the title of the experience, but the truth is, I...
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I love having fun over the phone! Women tell me I have a sexy voice and I don't mind. I am a sucker for a woman with a sexy voice also. If you want to. Have fun let's chat first I...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    I have no friends .. yeah .. no friends .. during my 21 years on this Earth .. I moved a lot .. different schools and different countries .. I found it really hard to communicate...
    AdnanSam93 AdnanSam93 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I really want to have this experience
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    Super unhappy with my life. I've been lacking motivation to make any good changes. It feels like every decision I've ever made was a bad one. I obviously lack the ability to make...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    I always end up attracting men with many similarities....I guess you could say they're my "type". We all have one. What is your "type"?
    Mollydolly25 Mollydolly25 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    i have to go to a new school in September and im worried now tht because my body looks a lot older thn i am ill get a lot of teasing or bullying from other girls. it didn't bother...
    saradancer saradancer 13-15, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I don't know whether dreams are just a mish-mash of stuff your sub-conscious dredges up when you sleep, or whether they actually mean something. There are so many books explaining...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    5:30 AM still haven't fallen asleep.
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm one of then people that had landed into the role of councillor among my friends... I don't mind, looking out for everyone, listening to there problems all the time...
    Charcaine Charcaine 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    My situation? I have 3 internet friends, lets call them A, B, and C. So i met B and C first then A. I really got along with B but then he grew distant when we met in real life. C...
    MysteriousAddiction MysteriousAddiction 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    For many years I lost two to five days a month to painful swelling of my skin, hands, feet and digestive tract. I was often sick, weak and felt very ill. Getting to the toilet was...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Actually, I have several: 1. How old would you be if you didn't know? 2. Are you holding onto something that you need to let go of? 3. Do you ask enough questions - or...
    whatyathinkaboutthat whatyathinkaboutthat 36-40, F 7 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    In one of my dreams that really hit me emotionally... It started off with me in a black room that was covered in blood everywhere. I turn around I see a scale that weighs small...
    maliciousMartyr maliciousMartyr 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I have been screwed over by lies one too many times to waste time with liars. In a second, it destroys a friendship with me. I'm not rash. I make sure I know the truth and if it's...
    littlechief79 littlechief79 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    We have 6 busted computers the scumbags are from ep Stellario
    cammer4646 cammer4646 46-50, F 7 hrs ago

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    After being in a gay relationship and it ending badly and in a **** way I have no one that understands what I'm going through :( cause only a few people know I'm gay! I just want...
    crazyminds crazyminds 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I have an Instagram :) someone from here should go follow me :) I'd really appreciate it. My insta is Debonaireash and my goal is 300 followers 😊
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 6 hrs ago

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    Couldn't sleep tonight :( Found this app. I feel like talking to someone but feel like I should ignore all thoughts I have at this hour. You know? :P ah well. Hope everyone on...
    Protosan Protosan 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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