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    My Parents Are Strict.

    Hi, My name is Bekka. I'm 16 years old. My little cousin is Skyyler who is floating around here on EP. I actually joined EP to keep an eye out for her!!! I am home schooled. My mother is the one who teaches my brothers, sister and cousins. Church, family, school, friends are...
    Bekka16 Bekka16 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    hey. I'm Sophia.: my parents are strict.

    and they expect me to be elegant and graceful, have high EQ and IQ. I have to be a good role model to my sister and I cannot go back home after 7.30pm. I had to do all the chores(as expected). I have to take care of my sister and help her whenever she asked for help. If I...
    SophiaKeil SophiaKeil 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I am almost 20 years old.

    I grew up with strict muslim parents who always had my under their thumb. I wasn't allowed to go on sleepovers because "that was against the religion". I wasn't allowed to make plans with friends, and most of my days were spent just doing schoolwork and being at home. When I...
    chemluv chemluv 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    annikamom annikamom 41-45, F 9 Responses May 9

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    I love my mom but sometimes she can be really

    clingy and over protective. I just recently moved back home from after graduating college and she gives me the 9th degree whenever I want to go out to do something fun. I'm almost 23 and it's super embarrassing. For example, I went on a date today. It was a lunch date and I...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 7

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    I had strict parents.

    I would often get physical discipline with a cane. They were rather old fashioned. They died in a car accident when I was 10. I never really had any love for them nor them me. They brought me up in a way that was always going to get me bullied. I miss them but I promise that's...
    tombrokenbones tombrokenbones 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    well they are dictators basically.

    if i break a rule they always punish me. how can i be perfect??
    kathykathy13 kathykathy13 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I hate living under their control.

    It annoys me to no end where all I do is please them and they don't care about my needs. I just wish that they would look at things from my view at once.
    icanonlydeterminemyhappiness icanonlydeterminemyhappiness 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I got in trouble! I am staying at my uncles

    place now because my parents are on their own trip. My uncle is an army veteran. He was captain of a special forces team in Afghanistan. He had to patrol through the mountains there. He is very nice but he really believes in discipline. Soooo the other day it was 10 pm and he...
    taylorcollison taylorcollison 18-21, F 16 Responses Jul 26

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    e very strict parents.

    I am Taylor and I am 15 years old. My parent believe in strict discipline, and clear authority and obedience.My parents say they are the adults and I should obey them I they tell me something to do. I have to speak with Yes Sir, Yes Ma'am at all times, even on holidays, during...
    taylorcollison taylorcollison 18-21, F 29 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Hi, my name is Taylor

    and I am new here on EP. I found the website on accident and found out that people (actually fellow teens) talk about their spankings here.. Well, it is and was hard for me to confess, but I still do get spanked. I just turned 15 a couple of days ago, and I am a Freshman in...
    taylorcollison taylorcollison 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    Just horrible embarrassing

    and horrible. I'm still not really over it - but a few days ago I was in huge trouble for getting into an argument and swearing at school. One of the teachers caught me and I got a detention - letter home etc... when mum got the letter (my normal job at intercepting it failed...
    Anna1997 Anna1997 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 22

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    I dont want to focus on guys

    or dating. this guy seems to have a thing for me, but i dont think i'm ever gonna let it happen. he would chat with me and wants to watch a movie with me but my parents will not allow that at all. any advice on what i should do?
    anonymousjuly anonymousjuly 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    my parents are strict

    for sure, but i dunno. half my friends are "grounded" all the time for something or other that it makes me think my parents are pretty fair most times. Plus when my friends do get grounded "for a week", and 2 days later they are texting me to go do something...it makes me wonder...
    trish95 trish95 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    My mom is from Germany

    and she is super strict about rules and everything. It is like "Rebecca your room is untidy, Rebecca don't be home late for dinner, Rebecca finish your homework now, Rebecca it is time for you to go to bed" all the time :( My dad is from the US and he gets out his belt when I...
    ohbecca ohbecca 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    lorenzaann lorenzaann 13-15, F 7 Responses May 9

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    My parents actually disciplined me

    when I was a child, but as a result, I now suffer from a psychological disorder called "respect" for others.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 10 Responses May 6

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    Okay so this guy, wants to go to a movie

    marathon with me. Thing is- my parents don't allow me to hang with just one guy. Like legit no changing that. What do I do?
    anonymousjuly anonymousjuly 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    I love my parents with all honesty.

    I really do. Whenever I want something, it has to be exactly my dads way. Then, my mom pushes me to do certain things that I'm not comfortable with... This is one of the reasons why I don't have you... My mom saw you look at me last year and started making a big deal as soon...
    Hippodippo257 Hippodippo257 16-17, F May 2

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    I am the little girl

    but my youngest brother is 12 and younger but he is allowed more and I hate that. some of my rules are my bedtime is 8:30 I am not allowed to go somewhere without my parents allow it I have to stay in my school uniform until dinner and then take a bath and dress in my PJ I have...
    jiangtan jiangtan 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    I love my parents but man come on why

    so strict, last night I went with a group of friends to the movies and we stopped at mcdonalds after I know I should have called to let them know what was up, I missed curfew totally my fault now dad says because of not being responsible i am being punished with corner time and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I guess when I grew up the relative

    that was strict was my aunt. She was the one who used to discipline me by smacking my always exposed bare legs. I recall the stinging slaps to the inside of my thighs. She used to slap my thighs from just below my panties to just above my knees. She believed in being very...
    littlegreyshorts littlegreyshorts 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    Hahaha its really funny

    when my mom turns off the internet when she is mad at me. Doesnt she remember i have internet on my phone too? 😂😂
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 3 Responses Jan 14

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    The moment I realize my parents are those crazy

    Christians.... And hate that I'm not like them.... Whoops to bad -_-
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    My parents as members of Opus Dei seek holiness

    at all times, and they practice self flagellation. Whipping is an aspect of their idea of child discipline. I rebelled too much and they sent me to live here in Paris with my aunt.
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I love my mom to death

    but sometimes I can't stand her.. she's typical Asian parents you heard, only care about their child's grades.. I have a job so I don't have to be depending on her always, that's why I have less time to study! she loves comparing me to other brilliant kids.. it hurts.. why she...
    Ikimoem0 Ikimoem0 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    They say having strict parents will discipline

    your kids for the better. But despite what my parents said I still went on with my life doing horrible and regretful things behind their backs. Now, I feel miserable because I betrayed my parents in so many ways and I am nowhere near in a close relationship with them. I always...
    Ennevi Ennevi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    tonyaoneal18 tonyaoneal18 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    My parents were pretty mad at me today.

    I was at friends to have some fun over there. I had to be home at 5 PM, because I had to prepare dinner since both my dad and mom would be home late. So I totally forgot time and when I realized I had to go home it was already 6:30 PM.. I was like noooooo! I rushed to home and...
    JacyTexasGirl JacyTexasGirl 18-21, F 17 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    they are super strict.

    I got spanked twice today. first cos I was late for dinner from hanging with my best friend. and then we had dinner and daddeh warned me not to squirm and I tried but it hurt so much and then he told me to stand in the corner and I would get another one for squirming after they...
    lorenzaann lorenzaann 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    (PART I) Hello. I am new here.

    I've read a lot of bad experiences in this group, so I hope this isn't lame compared to everyone else. I consider my parents to be strict, but of course I know it is tough love and they do love me for certain. But sometimes they take it too far. They took my electronic...
    bradfordbadboi1 bradfordbadboi1 16-17, F 1 Response May 23

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    My parents are a pain in the ***.

    I am so ready for college so I can be on my own and live life. I'm not allowed to date. I can't have a boyfriend, where would I even meet one. I'm only allowed out on chaperoned outings with friends after mabitch has talked to parents and approved the itinerary. She has spyware...
    Randi97 Randi97 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I'm 14 but will be 15 in May.

    We live on a farm here in Montana and my dad is super strict. I am not allowed to leave the property without permission.
    tabikat tabikat 16-17, F 10 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Well I guess they are

    but I don't feel like being threaten unfair or so. They are very cool and give us girls a lot of freedom for us. Still of course we have rules, bounderies, duties ect. I have a curfew and even a bedtime. When I go out I need to tell where I go with who and what we do and of...
    Julia1600 Julia1600 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    My mom has such high expectations

    for my brother and I. Every chore she makes us do comes off as an order. Then, she wants me to be more involved even though I'm near the top of my class at my school, participate in school activities, and go to youth group outside of school.
    Hippodippo257 Hippodippo257 16-17, F 4 Responses May 2

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    (PART II) So I was really mad

    that night, because the hitting was so unnecessary. I was crying excessively, because we have been starting to fight more often and the anger builds up. It makes me more mad when they purposely talk about "how such a bad child I am" in front of me, where I am expected to keep...
    bradfordbadboi1 bradfordbadboi1 16-17, F 3 Responses May 23

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    Mine are really strict.

    Message me if you want to share experience.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 29

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    My friends need to realize

    that I do have strict parents, I do have rules.. And I can't get up and go out of town whenever i feel like it.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    when I was growing up,

    there wasn't a "sorry, she's a kid" excuse, it was "You do that again, and I'll knock you into next week" sorta thing.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 19

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    Estelle2000 Estelle2000 18-21, F 23 Responses Feb 4

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    tinklover tinklover 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    I have strict parents.

    My parents have rules about grades and friends and attitude. They say I have to be a good image for the Lord and to respect the rules of everyone.
    AshlynT AshlynT 13-15, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    We are on vacation in Europe

    and should have fun. But I get in trouble all the time either I get spanked or corner time or have to write essays about stuff. I love it here and Europe is beautiful but it is more annoying than school. Why can't my parents just have fun
    lorenzaann lorenzaann 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    New Here

    Hello. I am new here. Not sure what to write. Mum and step dad are quite stict. I am not allowed out in the week, must stay in and do homework. Mum and dad are quite strict on my clothes. Usually stay in school uniform at night. Have to wear a dress when we go to church one...
    beckyprice beckyprice 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    My dad is super strict,

    he won't let me do anything.. My mom is a little more.. Fun I guess, but she doesn't let me hang out with certain people, she won't let me go to parties, she won't let me go to school which is why I'm homeschooled, and she won't let me go onto ANY social media without her...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 36 Responses Jan 30

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    My mom always tells me

    and also makes me feel worthless. She always tells me that I've done nothing to help her or our family with something. I always help her with her work stuff and I always do what she tells me to do. I have to wake up early in the morning on summer just to help her with some...
    valeyc valeyc 13-15, F Jul 22

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