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I Have To Be Careful Not To Fall In Love

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    Love...

    True love, I hide from it... Run away from it... Avoid it.. Fear it, hate it... am mesmerized by it. Am jealous of those who have it. Why, after so many years, am I not capable of feeling "love" anymore? I hate him somedays, and miss you during that time... and then other...
    MyPerpetualPerdition MyPerpetualPerdition 26-30, F Dec 5, 2011

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    The Plague

    ...is what I avoid it like.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2012

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    Especially Online

    I have a secret soft-spot for words. Something about the flow of language, the way words can conjure up beautiful imagery and stir up myriad feelings, the things a person can express via an expansive vocabulary can blow my mind. The delicate dance of playful banter... Sitting...
    bellacaduta bellacaduta 31-35, F Dec 2, 2011

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    I suffer for years now! My love is so strong and I can't let it go!! But I don't want to go to hell!! If I believe strong enough! If my faith was strong enough! I won't go to hell...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I was part of this program that allowed us to watch school plays and critique them( write reviews) I honestly just signed up for it because it would mean another good thing on my...
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    I'm scared to fall in love, I'm scared of it.
    chelsean16 chelsean16 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Love is so many thing that not even a million words could make it easier. Love is a natural feeling you can't force or reject but accept it.
    sam0117 sam0117 13-15, F Jun 24

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    He is the light of my life. He makes my life worth living. We've never met , but I'm sure it will happen one day because we both want it. We are not just lovers. We are good...
    ascentofawoman67 ascentofawoman67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I still love my ex that I haven't been with for 7 months, I don't know how to move on, I try I just can't .. I remember him:(
    chelsean16 chelsean16 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I think I might be in love with my best friend. We are both girls, and I don't have feelings for any other girls. I have a boyfriend... But my best friend is always there and I...
    LoveYouGuys LoveYouGuys 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I have lost the most important woman in my life, my mother, 5 years ago. It's still the most painful event in my life. Losing her unexpectedly, when everything seems okay after...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I have finally accepted that i have lost what i had for my husband a long time ago, maybe i have held on for so long because i have been scared to be on my own. I know my mental...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 3

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    I know I'm still at a young age and will probably find someone again blah blah, but it hurts to have heart broken by someone you thought loved you. My first relationship was awful...
    anyoneoutthere1 anyoneoutthere1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    You know I can be labeled as a heartbreaker. I've had only 2 boyfriends who I broke up with for the same reason, yet I find myself to be the apple in multiple eyes internationally...
    thesassiestamerican thesassiestamerican 13-15, M Jul 7

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    Latest news about my boyfriend. Apparently he has no thyroid problems, the doctors said he has anxiety. From previous episodes, I told you how agressive he was in our fights, both...
    alegz alegz 26-30, F a week ago

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    I want the type of relationship that starts like a movie and lasts forever. I would be glad to put the time and work in, but such a thing would not work with just anyone. So i sit...
    xxxCL4Yxxx xxxCL4Yxxx 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi everyone :) No I haven't done the deed, do I want to? Yes. Its just I cant get myself to unless I know Im marrying the person or spending a good part of my life with them. I...
    Larutan Larutan 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    i posted a personal ad on craigslist for a long term relationship. the next morning i got 25 responses from guys that sent their pics and some without it. so i looked at all their...
    starship33 starship33 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    It seems like something I should do.
    Ava1one Ava1one 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Sometimes I wake up at night and just start crying and screaming
    Frankineedles Frankineedles 13-15, F Jun 27

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    Me and my ex broke up because of his agressivity, especially verbal. I slapped him and I said I'm leaving him for calling me names and getting angry out of nothing, and he slapped...
    alegz alegz 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Seeing bae crying💔💔😭😭
    love4allquotes love4allquotes 13-15, F Jun 29

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    I think this is something very special. Not many people can admit to this, but I'm proud to say that I've only ever been intimate with my fiancé. I intend to keep it that way.
    astralucia astralucia 22-25, F Jul 4

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    My story is one of a normal life gone horribly wrong. It all began back in 2006 when I was a soldier stationed in Germany. At that time I was going through a horibble divorce...
    jdr6385 jdr6385 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My stepbrother is blackmailing me to screw him . My bf doesn't know.
    sue1994 sue1994 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just wish for a long lasting happy and a trustworthy relationship :) the rest will come automatically I believe 😊 good luck everyone !!
    queenbeebella queenbeebella 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    please make it stop, why just why ? he hurts me a lot, love is fucken stupid and it burns but why? why did i have to fall hard for him?? i dont want to be in love ever !! why cant...
    SuicidalBrokenHeart SuicidalBrokenHeart 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm sorry. It's my fault that I fall for you. I did not mean it. I want to talk to you but I don't know how to approach you. I miss you so much. I miss talking to you all the...
    Prince0507 Prince0507 22-25, F Jul 13

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    It was an accident, really. Nobody plans to fall in love with their physics teacher. I met my second year physics teacher (we'll call him Mr. K) last year, before he taught me...
    MaiChan MaiChan 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate falling love because it hurts like hell when you get dumped, rejected. On top of that, you'll get seriously low self esteem because you kept thinking it's your own problem...
    KywenM1997 KywenM1997 16-17, F Jul 6

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    I have no problem falling love. It's just that no one seems to fall back.
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F Jun 29

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    I have no problem falling love. It's just that no one seems to fall back.
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Its Like Every Day my love for him grows a little more. After Three -Four years here we are, planning a wedding, moving in together and planning our own little family. Things weren...
    BrightStarKali BrightStarKali 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I am falling love with an asian woman . Her names is Yoyo and she's Chinese , I'm African American . I'm not hopeful that this'll work at all but I really like her , i think about...
    DNA7 DNA7 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Life is tough...but sure I am living unforgettable moments wich makes all wide worth. Speak to someone who was only in your wildest dreams,see her again on videochat and make that...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 16

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    It's hard for me to fall asleep sometimes and I ended being up half the night and it's awful when I have school fall asleep around 12 or 2 wake up at 5 or 6
    Jasminehi Jasminehi 13-15, F Jun 25

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    It's 4:25 a.m. And I haven't fallen asleep yet. I have a math test tomorrow and I'm super nervous because my parents always want me to have good grades and I haven't been trying...
    ScarlettVictoria ScarlettVictoria 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Well I have crushes all the time but have actually fall in love only twice. So the story of my first love goes like this: I just started high school, first time away from home (I...
    HannibalQ HannibalQ 16-17, F Jun 24

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    Well I have crushes all the time but have actually fall in love only twice. So the story of my first love goes like this: I just started high school, first time away from home (I...
    HannibalQ HannibalQ 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I have tried finding love all my life. I compromise so much of myself, my eccentricity, my sarcastic attitude, my weirdness, and it did nothing for me. I tried finding a balance...
    mehxx mehxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    My Mom's Death I remember it clearly as though it happened yesterday. She was an amazing woman. Very independent yet not. My dad really held her together. I remember the...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Just under a year ago I revelled in believing I had discovered the equation of the meaning of life: 1 + (2+2) = 2 which I believed would cure cancer. I also believed I had found...
    rewindme rewindme 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I miss being in love. I want to be there so badly again. I just LOVE the jump in my heart, when I look into her eyes - and I can see that she's looking at me with love too... The...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm still with my abuser. Some of the things he's done to me caused me to have nightmares. I love him dearly and even though I know he is poisonous to my life I can't leave. Iv...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just wondering if oldies have more pure love than young ppl?
    angelicboy2005 angelicboy2005 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I have had 5 miscarriages over the past 2 years but my boyfriend does not want to ttc. We are not using any prevantive measures such as condoms or hormonal birth control as we have...
    amore1993 amore1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I could really need some help.. So please look at this. I have friends that i can talk to, but it doesn't really help me. I met this guy about 3 months ago. He started writing to...
    MsLouise MsLouise 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2