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    i'm really used to guys pretending to like me

    and using me so if a guy shows interest me i have a hard time believing him and it sucks
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I don't trust any one.

    .I'm very cautious and guarded with new people and even when Ive let some one in and have talked to them for a while the slightest contradiction in something they say or do makes my guard go up again.
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't believe how **** my trust is

    for people, it brings me down and ruins relationships!
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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      I just opened this bag of chips

    and this is all I get?!
    Violetlolla2 Violetlolla2 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Its hard to trust someone,

    especially when the ones you trusted the most were the ones that betrayed you.
    hopeless220 hopeless220 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Everybody Lies

    That's my philosophy in life taken from the great show House. Basically because of a family member badly breaking my trust I have trust issues and so always go with this philosophy because it's so true about everyone. Trust can take forever to build but seconds to destroy
    NathanJD NathanJD 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    Specially while chatting,

    i'm afraid that the other person would use me for god knows what and lie to me. I have a good conscience but still foolishly believe people that turns out to be a fraud. These types scares me alot.
    ExtraSour ExtraSour 13-15, F 13 Responses Jun 6

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    I find it so hard to trust my husband

    even though he shows me and tells me regularly that he loves me. I still think he's going to go out and cheat or leave me for another woman at some point. I know this is tied into my previous relationships but that isn't his fault.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Is everyone perfect or not?

    I have NEVER met a person who confess their faults up front. I believe this is why the world is in this terrible condition today. A woman can meet a man she never seen before he could be a murderer or a horrible person. Some do not even try to cover up their issue the act like a...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jul 24

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    I'm huge on trust. If I no longer trust you

    or you give me the slightest reason not to trust you, you're pretty much dead to me. It'll be hard to gain my friendship, trust and loyalty again. By then, I'm completely turned off. I'm a Taurus so know when I'm loyal, I'm loyal. When I'm not, good luck.
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Im gonna show somebody

    that they can trust again cuz i want to learn to trust again. lead by example! life hurts when u open up and get hurt so bad but i have to try to trust again
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Stop asking for forgiveness

    and telling me to trust you when I'm still coughing up water from the last time you let go and let me drown.
    ambermills ambermills 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    is it bad that no matter what anyone says

    or does to make me believe something I don't fully believe bc i feel like that always how I get hurt? I'm the type of girl that u can see say one word but wishes to say 100. I've been thought so much pain and tears that if I don't push u away u know ur special bc I push everyone...
    katieeva725 katieeva725 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    How does one fix this?

    I'll take any suggestions
    s3gur0 s3gur0 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    be careful who you share your weakness with,

    some people can't wait for the opportunity too use them against you
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    comfi comfi 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Do ever look at someone

    and think "you're the reason I don't trust", because they screwed you over so many times?
    aDesperado aDesperado 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 23

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    When you lose my trust.

    ..I dont think that I could trust you again. I'm really guarded with my feelings and I surely trust my gut/instinct.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    i don't trust men. my dad deserted me

    and never looked back and my mums ex partner was an abusive alcoholic drug user, my first real boyfriend cheated on me, controlled me and made me do things I didn't want to do and the boyfriend after that took advantage of me when he had caused me to become inebriated. so is it...
    shannonjade shannonjade 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 13

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    I Have Trust Issues Because My Family Talks To

    Me And Then Tell My Business I Try To Tell Everyone That I Think I Can Trust Whats Going On And They Just Think Im A Liar They Hate The Fact That Im Gay And Ive Lied About It But It Was For A Reason Now My Aunt Is Being Evil And Its Like She Out To Get Me She Dont Want Me Happy...
    Clarial Clarial 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I really wish this wasn't an issue

    for me! I used to be so naive- when people would tell me about hard times in their lives- I would be so thankful that I was so blessed and didn't have many issues- then things fell apart. And instead of turning to those that cared for me- I basically ran from them. I was burned...
    trying2hard trying2hard 36-40, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    gabrielle03 gabrielle03 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 29

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Because I've been lied to an Cheated on

    so many times! I wouldn't say that I have totally Trust issues..Naw sum that's all but hey I will give u a chance to prove yourself, Unlike in the past u would be History lmbo
    yvettemae48 yvettemae48 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    I honestly don't really expect a response to

    this. I just need to vent. I have been really paranoid with my boyfriend lately. He is always so worried about me cheating on him or finding someone better which leads me to think that he has done exactly what he is afraid I will do. He currently works for my dad's company...
    dance40415 dance40415 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I have trust issues and I know that.

    I'm working on it, but it's up to the world to stop helping to **** it up.
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    tigradoll tigradoll 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip

    cookies are the reason I have trust issues
    puggy64 puggy64 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 28

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    Girls logic: I like you But I'm talking to 4

    different guys But I like you Trust me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jan 3

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    I always put too much effort in to people in

    general and they never live up to my expectations... Over the years I just stopped caring about certain things and I feel it's really going to affect any future relationships with anyone that I meet.
    Kayleenamy Kayleenamy 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    No one has really ever lied to me

    that badly, I just find it really hard to believe things. Things like compliments are hard to take because I'm scared of being seen as a fool. I'm scared of believing in a compliment and then finding out that it was really just a sick joke or an act of pity. I've subconsciously...
    probablyjessica probablyjessica 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not really sure what to believe I've been

    lied to so many times and it just causes issues in my relationships cuz they just can't understand why I don't fully trust
    BlairGrace BlairGrace 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    trust gets you killed,

    love gets you hurt and being real gets you hated
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    So my ex boyfriend is "in a relationship" with

    a new girl we literally broke up 2 weeks ago..obviously there has been an overlap
    Lani89 Lani89 26-30, F 29 Responses Jul 7

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    TicToxic TicToxic 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 8

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    I have a lot of trust issues

    because I was abused in my early life. I was adopted and not all adoption agencies nor foster parents are great and meet the needs of the child. As I said, I had been abused as a child, so I do not trust a lot of people; male and female. You have to earn my trust with respect...
    momworkingout momworkingout 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    I have such a hard time believing guys actually

    want something serious with me. I always think that everything they're doing such as sweet talking & spoiling me is to only get in my pants & leave.
    rangek rangek 18-21, F 31 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    People lie to much.. I'm the type of

    who can handle the truth but everybody look out for them self and don't care about others....
    unratedpoet unratedpoet 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I have a problem. Actually,

    I have many, but let's just go with one for now. I have a HUGE problem with people screeenshotting conversations. Not just conversations with me, but those that they have with other people. They send them to shock me or to prove a point or simply to gossip. The only thing it...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is

    exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a relationship you two get to know each other you bond and spend time next thing you know they just become a regular in your life and you like...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Stop asking me to trust you

    when I am still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown.
    JustSomeTeenagerr JustSomeTeenagerr 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    Okay , so this goes to all the people single

    out there. When people say that they aren't gonna **** you over and they promise you and they give you and tell you everything and then **** you over any way? After everything that you told them could be about your family or anything private... how do you trust them? they could...
    malibubabi malibubabi 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    I have been lied to and let down by many people,

    so to trust, is to be hurt. Do I think everyone is untrustworthy? No! However, I do believe that some of us either attract or inadvertently let people into our lives who aren't trustworthy. Maybe the "bad boy" or "wild woman" types? Maybe in this society where it's all about "ME...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F a week ago

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    my trust issues aren't just paranoia,

    my trust issues are because so many people have proven time and time again that they can't be trusted.
    SilverSpiritWolf32 SilverSpiritWolf32 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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