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    Trusting guys is such a hard task

    for me due to the betrayals I have experienced in my life by men, especially family members. I worry I would never be comfortable with someone due to the fear of being hurt mentally, physically and sexually. I always think guys have bitter intentions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21

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    I know I do. I am not a forgiving person.

    Once you lost my trust, you are out of my life and you will never get it back. My husband has done many dumb things. Some of which caused me to loose trust in him. But I love him dearly, and we are working on it. But I have been the way I am my entire life. So I would go...
    Hannahmikel Hannahmikel 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Specially while chatting,

    i'm afraid that the other person would use me for god knows what and lie to me. I have a good conscience but still foolishly believe people that turns out to be a fraud. These types scares me alot.
    ExtraSour ExtraSour 13-15, F 11 Responses Jun 6

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    You don't really have a crush on me,

    you're pranking me. You don't really wanna be my friend, you're trying to set me up for humiliation or betrayal. You don't really care, you're just nosey. Everyone is against me.
    akaShaun akaShaun 18-21, M 12 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    i feel i cant trust anyone

    but myself...people are ****** up and have done me wrong in the past.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 14

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is

    exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a relationship you two get to know each other you bond and spend time next thing you know they just become a regular in your life and you like...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I hate how people judge me

    and don't look at there self before they start judging me. I'm proud of the lips I have at least I don't got your lips And like my real friend say if they make fun of u they want something you have. So haters I don't care what u guys have to say☺️💘
    annierys20 annierys20 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Constantly i have been feeling like my

    boyfriend is cheating on me. I mean so much adds up to make it seem that way. He always has his phone or has to be on it, he was never like that. His habits have changed, i notice them. He always seems in a rush, he says things that make it sound like ive accused him of being...
    whenyourheartwonders whenyourheartwonders 18-21, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a problem. Actually,

    I have many, but let's just go with one for now. I have a HUGE problem with people screeenshotting conversations. Not just conversations with me, but those that they have with other people. They send them to shock me or to prove a point or simply to gossip. The only thing it...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    I've been hurt so much in my past relationships

    that I feel like I may never be able to trust someone with my heart again.
    BrittBratz BrittBratz 31-35, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everybody Lies

    That's my philosophy in life taken from the great show House. Basically because of a family member badly breaking my trust I have trust issues and so always go with this philosophy because it's so true about everyone. Trust can take forever to build but seconds to destroy
    NathanJD NathanJD 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    If some guy I met on the internet wants to date

    me, I insult him and block him everywhere... so sorry. But I always think they want to see if I am really as fat as I tell them.. and I am!
    MutedVoice MutedVoice 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 7 Responses Aug 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    TicToxic TicToxic 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 8

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    I have such a hard time believing guys actually

    want something serious with me. I always think that everything they're doing such as sweet talking & spoiling me is to only get in my pants & leave.
    rangek rangek 18-21, F 31 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    the reason i have trust issues is,

    because of my time in Iraq in 04-05 there was a lot it **** that i seen while i was there. i also lost a good friend while i was there. he was riding in the same truck that i rode in about a week before he was KIA, so i guess you could say that i was lucky. i he to go and look...
    jsmith19941978 jsmith19941978 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Because the people who I'm supposed to depend

    on to be there for me have let me down.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 26

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    * Cue the Drake song.

    ........... *
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i wondered why i don't trust people i felt very

    low 'cause i always expected the worst of them but it's not my fault i became like that i grew up with no dad around even when he showed up he never played the role he supposed to play i looked at my mom like she's my mother and father i was naive little girl i had my hopes up...
    nina1195 nina1195 18-21, F Aug 16

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    my bf is weird with his phone!

    he will not let me look at it! we have been on and off for five yrs.. once last year after he slept allll weekend( and I mean all weekend ) , Monday am came and got up with him as he got ready for work, I realized I needed $40 bux for rent, so he told me he was going to walk...
    LoV3KiLlSsLoWLy LoV3KiLlSsLoWLy 56-60, F 9 Responses Aug 16

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    Just found out my girlfriends neighbor (which

    she also finds attractive and he's been over her house a lot) is going over there for movie night. Can I snap his neck yet or do I need even more reasons to
    thedon21 thedon21 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sorry this is a big fault of mine Ive been hurt

    lied too cheated on and ripped off to many times plus add my PTSD from combat Yes I have trust issues. Im trying the best I can though why I vent on here in hopes it helps for I talk to no one in society just online Granted love online talks but its hard for its online, Im...
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    Its hard to trust someone,

    especially when the ones you trusted the most were the ones that betrayed you.
    hopeless220 hopeless220 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I have real deep trust issues

    because of past experiences. I was raised to trust no one but God. Unless you know my pain no one can change my mind about how I really feel.
    CHOCOLATEBELLYBUTTONPRINCESS83 CHOCOLATEBELLYBUTTONPRINCESS83 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    I never told anyone I know.

    . but I have trust issues. My hole life i had never trusted anyone. I never said my secrets to ANYONE. I really don't know what's wrong with me.
    unseeen unseeen 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip

    cookies are the main reason I have trust issues.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    be careful who you share your weakness with,

    some people can't wait for the opportunity too use them against you
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    trust gets you killed,

    love gets you hurt and being real gets you hated
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    i don't trust men. my dad deserted me

    and never looked back and my mums ex partner was an abusive alcoholic drug user, my first real boyfriend cheated on me, controlled me and made me do things I didn't want to do and the boyfriend after that took advantage of me when he had caused me to become inebriated. so is it...
    shannonjade shannonjade 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 13

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    Okay , so this goes to all the people single

    out there. When people say that they aren't gonna **** you over and they promise you and they give you and tell you everything and then **** you over any way? After everything that you told them could be about your family or anything private... how do you trust them? they could...
    malibubabi malibubabi 18-21, F 4 Responses May 28

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    I really wish I didn't.

    They're a big problem when it comes to relationships, as well as other stuff about me...
    Naty73 Naty73 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So my ex boyfriend is "in a relationship" with

    a new girl we literally broke up 2 weeks ago..obviously there has been an overlap
    Sunshineandshowers89 Sunshineandshowers89 26-30, F 28 Responses Jul 7

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 16

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    I have a lot of trust issues

    because I was abused in my early life. I was adopted and not all adoption agencies nor foster parents are great and meet the needs of the child. As I said, I had been abused as a child, so I do not trust a lot of people; male and female. You have to earn my trust with respect...
    momworkingout momworkingout 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    Considering how trustworthy I am,

    along with how open and honest I am...it surprises people when they realise that I find it immensely difficult to trust people in fact it'd be more accurate to say that I find it almost impossible to trust anyone. This is something that I manage to hide very well...it's easy...
    AlreadyOwned7379 AlreadyOwned7379 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I have major trust issues.

    I can't trust my very own floor anymore. IT MADE ME SLIP. so I decided to attack it backwards. (never trusted the floor again) and that's how people... I started to fly. c:
    aliveness aliveness 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    i'm really used to guys pretending to like me

    and using me so if a guy shows interest me i have a hard time believing him and it sucks
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    When you lose my trust.

    ..I dont think that I could trust you again. I'm really guarded with my feelings and I surely trust my gut/instinct.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    Do ever look at someone

    and think "you're the reason I don't trust", because they screwed you over so many times?
    aDesperado aDesperado 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 23

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    Hello. i need help. I got married 6 months ago

    to my wonderful, loving, and kind husband. He is amazing. The problem is me. in the past i had 2 long relationships and both ended in me being cheated on. Now i have a difficult time trusting my husband. More exactly i trust him now. I don't trust the future him because i saw...
    Zigzy Zigzy 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip

    cookies are the reason I have trust issues
    puggy64 puggy64 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 28

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    Stop asking me to trust you

    when I am still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown.
    JustSomeTeenagerr JustSomeTeenagerr 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    Okay, be honest! Looks matter!

    But if you're confident and your personality's great then it matters less. But even if you're good looking, if you follow me quietly into my apartment to get my number, that's just creepy! I really try to be nice, but please understand that the stuff on the news and the sexual...
    PsychMarshmallow PsychMarshmallow 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Everybody leaves eventually.

    It's just a sad thought to think that at the end of the day, you are the only person you have to fall back on.
    wasabilola wasabilola 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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