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I Have Trust Problems

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    I think I trust some people too much when I shouldn't and then I don't trust most people at all...Basically I just need to learn who and when to trust...But it's hard to do..
    MollyxxEloise MollyxxEloise 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    I Have Trust Problems

    I have never really been able to trust someone with my heart and soul. I haven't had a boyfriend because I distance myself when it comes to getting a little personal like getting close to someone or just hugging. I've been this way eversince I was three and since then I never...
    Belova Belova 16-17 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    I Trust People Too Easily!

    I tend to trust people too easily and it ends up biting me in the a**. I want to believe they're telling me the truth and they're trustworthy until they break my trust. Once my trust is broken it's real hard or impossible (depending on what they did) for me to trust them...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    I have always said I have no trust issues

    when it comes to men. Benefit of the doubt but as I come across guys I've realized Im repeatedly skeptical about there intentions. I know it all depends on you in the situation like there can be innocents in everything if you look for it to be but I don't know, I'm afraid. I'm...
    Trillionbased Trillionbased 18-21, F Aug 31, 2014

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    Faith In God

    The only one I don't have any trouble with trusting is Jesus Christ.
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    I never thought I did have any issues until my current relationship
    Lana3278 Lana3278 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    If anyone would like to talk just message me if we have things In common! I like role play!
    melissa225 melissa225 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    It is one of the banes of my life.. trusting people. A good lot of times my instincts prove to be right
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo 41-45, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Im gonna show somebody that they can trust again cuz i want to learn to trust again. lead by example! life hurts when u open up and get hurt so bad but i have to try to trust again...
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Because I've been lied to an Cheated on so many times! I wouldn't say that I have totally Trust issues..Naw sum that's all but hey I will give u a chance to prove yourself, Unlike...
    yvettemae48 yvettemae48 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I don't trust any one..I'm very cautious and guarded with new people and even when Ive let some one in and have talked to them for a while the slightest contradiction in something...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It has been ever since my old best friend don't what she done... Since then it has been a climb to build my trust up with people.
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    its hard for me to trust people
    tigradoll tigradoll 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I have trust issues and I know that. I'm working on it, but it's up to the world to stop helping to **** it up.
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've had these issues for a long time. Now, unfortunately after having the same experience over and over and over again, I've come to understand. I tend to date the same man...
    boompowsplat boompowsplat 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Dont trust a man that calls you beautiful when everything is fine and dandy but ugly when he's mad at you. It means he's projecting his ugliness onto you.
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm huge on trust. If I no longer trust you or you give me the slightest reason not to trust you, you're pretty much dead to me. It'll be hard to gain my friendship, trust and...
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I Have Trust Issues Because My Family Talks To Me And Then Tell My Business I Try To Tell Everyone That I Think I Can Trust Whats Going On And They Just Think Im A Liar They Hate...
    Clarial Clarial 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I really wish this wasn't an issue for me! I used to be so naive- when people would tell me about hard times in their lives- I would be so thankful that I was so blessed and didn't...
    trying2hard trying2hard 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 26

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    I'm not really sure what to believe I've been lied to so many times and it just causes issues in my relationships cuz they just can't understand why I don't fully trust
    BlairGrace BlairGrace 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    I have been betrayed by many people in the past even by my own parents so I find it extremely hard to trust anyone nowadays.
    StephBlakeIsInfinite StephBlakeIsInfinite 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I have been lied to and let down by many people, so to trust, is to be hurt. Do I think everyone is untrustworthy? No! However, I do believe that some of us either attract or...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F Jul 25

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    I don't trust anyone completely,including myself.
    comfi comfi 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I can't believe how **** my trust is for people, it brings me down and ruins relationships!
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I find it so hard to trust my husband even though he shows me and tells me regularly that he loves me. I still think he's going to go out and cheat or leave me for another woman at...
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Is everyone perfect or not? I have NEVER met a person who confess their faults up front. I believe this is why the world is in this terrible condition today. A woman can meet a man...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jul 24

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    this should not be a surprise because how the world is now. You cannot trust anyone really. It all depends on what you are trusting them for. As far as my experiences most really...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jul 23

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    my trust issues aren't just paranoia, my trust issues are because so many people have proven time and time again that they can't be trusted.
    SilverSpiritWolf32 SilverSpiritWolf32 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I've started experiencing regular chest pains but my diet is good and I do get moderate exercise every week.At the doctors office, my vital signs were normal though, with somewhat...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I read on here about someone having trust issues. And thought I would write to see if anyone could offer me some advice. I have fallen deeply in love with my best friend whom I...
    Jacqualiner Jacqualiner 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    The sole reason I'm writing this is because of my father. Don't get me wrong, he is a talented man and skilled as a chef, an engineer, a philosopher, a housewife -yes, indeed. He...
    aliasewayne aliasewayne 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I am tired of being alone. The last 2 guys I was with really hurt my faith and trust in others. One traded me in for someone younger and prettier. The other said so many lies and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 19

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    trust issues come from being f*cked over.
    raiee raiee 26-30 Jul 19

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    I am trying to trust someone. It's extremely difficult. I play out all the scenarios in my head of ways he could be lying to me. It's put me into a ball of anxiety. I realize this...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    For me it's not so much about personal relationships as it is about the world at large. I have trouble trusting myself to make the "right" decisions, and I have trouble trusting in...
    AluraDawn AluraDawn 22-25, F Jul 18

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    When people ask why it's so hard for me to trust people, I ask them why is it so hard to keep a promise?
    nobody62442 nobody62442 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    So me and this guy have dated before and talked periodically two times .. before something screwed that up all within a year. Well recently we were talking and its was amazing...
    drinkingc0ke drinkingc0ke 13-15, F Jul 18

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    Trust issues every since i became a non virgin, which has everything to do with my "I loved someone who didnt love me back" experience (my heartbreak).. I think everyone is out to...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 Jul 18

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    I don't think my trust issues are too bad, I just have this problem with letting people in and on the rare occasion that I do they are their forever, I guess that's why I only...
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I have always been a caring and giving person. Despite this I had several early relationships where the woman was unfaithful to me. So now I find it difficult to trust in a...
    ScottyB3389 ScottyB3389 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I get anxious over so many things and my parents don't understand that it's not just me not being independent or me not doing something because I don't want to do it. I get so...
    Ilovelarry8 Ilovelarry8 22-25, T Jul 15

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    So this "British guy" from school went to my job today and even tho we hang out we different crowds we've had conversations before and he told me he was British and all this type...
    ImTheQueenFYM ImTheQueenFYM 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15