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I Have Trust Problems

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    I Trust People Too Easily!

    I tend to trust people too easily and it ends up biting me in the a**. I want to believe they're telling me the truth and they're trustworthy until they break my trust. Once my trust is broken it's real hard or impossible (depending on what they did) for me to trust them...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Trust

    I think I trust some people too much when I shouldn't and then I don't trust most people at all...Basically I just need to learn who and when to trust...But it's hard to do..
    MollyxxEloise MollyxxEloise 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    Faith In God

    The only one I don't have any trouble with trusting is Jesus Christ.
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    The amount of times people have lied,

    used, or ditched me. I find it very hard to trust ANYONE including my own family.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I Have Trust Problems

    I have never really been able to trust someone with my heart and soul. I haven't had a boyfriend because I distance myself when it comes to getting a little personal like getting close to someone or just hugging. I've been this way eversince I was three and since then I never...
    Belova Belova 16-17 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Anyone will say anything to get you to believe them. Everyone lies . They will say anything to make themselves look good or to make they look less suspicious. So I think it is okay...
    Amerson20 Amerson20 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I have trust issues but I don't consider it a problem because I am usually safer by not trusting. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
    laxprincess laxprincess 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I used to have trust issues with guys because my whole life I have dated the biggest ********. But then I dated my best friend and he was the sweetest guy ever. However, since all...
    thequ3enpree thequ3enpree 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I have trust issues. I haven't ways had them, in my younger years I trusted without fear of pain or betrayals but I can't function like that anymore. When I was 19 I started...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I have trust issues, mainly because my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend, and I kept forgiving him an I finally broke up with him like the 100th time they hooked up. It...
    katie4399 katie4399 18-21, F Jul 26

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    The guys that I've known in my life have always asked me why I have trust issues. And here's why: well because, my first heartbreak lead me to that. I was used by the guy I liked...
    LaBrenditaa LaBrenditaa 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have trust issues with people period. I don't care if it's my family (Who don't care about ******* you over) friends, or boyfriend. I want to change, but it's hard.
    NicoleMeagan NicoleMeagan 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    There is a reason I have trust issues
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm going to be 20 tomorrow. My current boyfriend is 23 and has had plenty of girlfriends, and is friends with lots of girls. I have trust issues because for a long time I was...
    GoogleMaps GoogleMaps 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip cookies are the main reason I have trust issues.
    acidblue02 acidblue02 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip cookies are the main reason I have trust issues.
    tami1330 tami1330 51-55, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Of course I have trust issues. My ex didn't really like me, but the fact that I had a job and a car. She used me, draining my bank account, and I was too stupid to believe it, even...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    "always go to a trusted adult" how can I go to an adult when an adult was the one to hurt me.
    foreverandalwaysgoodbye foreverandalwaysgoodbye 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't put anything past anybody . I've been lied to , cheated on , my secrets that i thought were "safe" with people somehow made it out into the streets and were turned into...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend doesnt deal with our personal problems with me, he talks horribly about me to his friends to vent out his frustration and I only found out last week. He apologised and...
    idealorious idealorious 18-21, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I used to be so naive. Sometimes I wish I could have that innocence back...to be able to see the world through the eyes of a girl who only knew of sheltered happiness. Of course...
    SupernovaxGirl SupernovaxGirl 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12

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    You have one chance to earn my trust, but if I catch you in a lie then I will never trust you again. Everyone I've ever been with has cheated on me. Not just some, all of them...
    pastelstars pastelstars 18-21, F Jul 23

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    Like a quote in Italian Job, "I do trust people, its the devil inside them that i don't. " I frustrated them cause i tend to have lots of doubt.. Trust need to be earned.. No...
    geezzo geezzo 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know, all my life i have found it hard to trust anyone , the first time i tell someone a secret i made sure it was the smallest one i could possibly think of , and next...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I've never really been able to trust anyone ever since my best friend betrayed me by telling my biggest secret to everyone else. And because I've never gotten over my trust issues...
    NekoAnya NekoAnya 16-17, F Jul 25

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    Its a pain to trust people...especially if you're someone like me who only trusts a person after knowing them for many years.The worst part of telling someone something is probably...
    ZnikiZ ZnikiZ 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Trust has always been a struggle for me. Money and gambling was the main thing in my family. God is the only one I truly trust in this world. I'm working on trusting my man with...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    well ever since we moved from Chatham to here we always had problems from my dad and mom going off and on to my dad cheating on my mom to me getting into trouble with the police we...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 7

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    It will take alot for me to trust people because I've got trust issues, it's not as bad as it use to be but it's still bad enough to make a difference.
    Matchitehew Matchitehew 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Why should I trust people when all they do is hurt me, I don't know who to trust anymore. I hate feeling this pain and depressment, sometimes it's just easier to shut people out...
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't really trust anybody........ I've been called fat so many times and I believe it. I've been called a ***** so many times, that's why I'm going to just stop talking. I've...
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't trust anyone. I just don't put myself in a position to get f*cked over. I know this might seem irrational but if you don't set yourself to get taken advantage of then you...
    blake000048 blake000048 18-21, M Aug 7

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    I trust people too easily and I just get stabed in the back
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 9

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    Can't trust to save my life, probably the reason I'm always losing people. Then again, I like to play it safe
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Yeah, I trust people too easily!
    MatthewWolf MatthewWolf 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I dislike the idea of being physically and emotionally close to someone. The idea makes me panic. I actually had a panic attack when someone asked me out once because I was...
    Avotica Avotica 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Trusting people can be the hardest thing for me especially the people that's close to me.
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    i don't even trust myself kyaha ahlalala~ (:
    yayforKay yayforKay 22-25, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I don't want to expose my vulnerabilities. I don't want to show my insecurities, fears, and emotions in real life. I have always felt like I was never good enough and I still have...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    It seems that I cannot really trust anyone worthy. I use to be so naive.. In an odd way this was a very good thing. But now I have horrible nightmares and a deep feeling of sadness...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Rightfully so...I have a hard time trusting anyone. Been there- done that...I even have a souvenir ~ my broken heart. Just wish ppl would tell the truth and stop with all the...
    innocentlyshy101 innocentlyshy101 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I have lost my faith in true love. It doesn't exist actually, not among the humans. They're all so shallow inside. If you look deep down, they're way too selfish. Everyone is with...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 13

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    With all the people that have hurt me in my life i don't trust anyone. I don't need to feel any worse than what already do and i don't need to be falsely happy again.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I constantly have fights with my mother. Full-on screaming fights. She is almost 50 years old and yet chooses to go for the "I guess I'm a bad mother whoops" line at the first sign...
    HexTek HexTek 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm scared of how cynical I have become. I can't look at somebody and not think of every possible way they could hurt me. I have turned even the nicest people that everybody loves...
    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I had a boyfriend behind my parents back at the age of 19. Three times they found out, and each time they would beat me multiple times using their hands, a belt and a hanger...
    hanon93 hanon93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I'm actually a guy but I really need help learning to deal with my wonderful wife each month. It's bad. Very. Very. Baaaad. I don't know how to say it strongly enough. We have a...
    gman1616 gman1616 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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