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I Have Trust Problems

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    I Trust People Too Easily!

    I tend to trust people too easily and it ends up biting me in the a**. I want to believe they're telling me the truth and they're trustworthy until they break my trust. Once my trust is broken it's real hard or impossible (depending on what they did) for me to trust them...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Trust

    I think I trust some people too much when I shouldn't and then I don't trust most people at all...Basically I just need to learn who and when to trust...But it's hard to do..
    MollyxxEloise MollyxxEloise 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    I have always said I have no trust issues

    when it comes to men. Benefit of the doubt but as I come across guys I've realized Im repeatedly skeptical about there intentions. I know it all depends on you in the situation like there can be innocents in everything if you look for it to be but I don't know, I'm afraid. I'm...
    Trillionbased Trillionbased 18-21, F Aug 31

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    The amount of times people have lied,

    used, or ditched me. I find it very hard to trust ANYONE including my own family.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I Have Trust Problems

    I have never really been able to trust someone with my heart and soul. I haven't had a boyfriend because I distance myself when it comes to getting a little personal like getting close to someone or just hugging. I've been this way eversince I was three and since then I never...
    Belova Belova 16-17 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Faith In God

    The only one I don't have any trouble with trusting is Jesus Christ.
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    My trust issues began when I was 13. My mom was my hero as a kid. I could talk to her about anything. Then one day she reviled a secret to me. My mom was cheating on my dad with...
    BFRM BFRM 18-21, F Dec 3

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    I 'HAD' TRUST ISSUES thought I'd write a little something in here before I leave this group.. for a long time now I have had trust issues, I have been betrayed an lied to left...
    J41LBIRD93 J41LBIRD93 18-21, F Dec 1

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    I have trust issues, and honestly I don't think that's such a bad thing. The base instinct for humans is our impulse to protect ourselves. Think about it. Every time you lie, cheat...
    TheBlasphemousOptimist TheBlasphemousOptimist 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    People brag about having trust issues but that's how I can tell who does or does not have them because those of us who really have trust issues are at war with it. We don't like it...
    SheIsHealing SheIsHealing 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 24

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    - course I do and the smart people always have trust issues. Only fools, naive and gullible people tend to fall for everything. Obviously since it's the net fooling and messing...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Wonder if anyone can help. Ive been in a relationship with a Romanian man for just over 7 months now. I myself am british and although at first there were language barriers its...
    beckalem beckalem 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 21

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    I have trust issues when people message on here, no I don't want to see any nudity!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    free Wi-Fi that Makes you pay after it has said its free,is the reason i have trust issues.
    Woudziniska Woudziniska 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I have major trust issues. There were 2 men I truly trusted and both were not faithful and said awful things. It not only broke my spirit, but also my pride & my confidence. I can...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Should I continue a relationship with my mom? Growing up, my mom and I had an amazing relationship. My parents divorced when I was 3, and even though they were separated, I was...
    annamarie1 annamarie1 18-21, F Nov 29

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    My trust go back to childhood. I haven't always been one to trust people. I had a lot of friends growing up that back stabbed me. Growing up I would say I was a little depressed...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    My experiences growing up haven't been good ones I was befriended a lot and didn't have anyone to take care of me I came from a broken family and didn't care much about myself. My...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    hi guys so my mom have been talking to this one australian guy for 3 months now they have already exchanged numbers and now theyre talking on whatsapp ((its a messanging app if u...
    patheticlilgirl patheticlilgirl 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm anxious a lot cause I feel like I can't trust any of the people I know and they're judging. And it puzzles me how the people who claim to have social anxiety are the ones being...
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My husband works away for usually just over a month so we kinda have a honeymoon effect when he is home for the first day or so. However it hasn't been the same lately, he isn't...
    TheCoitalQueen TheCoitalQueen 31-35, F 23 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I feel like I need to say something. Ever since a child, I've had severe trust issues. I was put through foster care, which was really hard. My approve mother was abusive and I...
    iwuvmusic iwuvmusic 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    It sucks but not trusting people is very much apart of me. I have notice every time I open up to someone I hear myself say "Shut up, Don't trust them! You know what happened last...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I don't know when it happened in my life, but I have some serious trust issues when it comes to relationships! The first time I was ever asked out was when I was little, and I...
    bluespoon bluespoon 18-21 5 days ago

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    I once in a while find someone I feel trust with. Someone I begin to open up to. I never open up completely, but I start. Then when I am away from them I begin to question why...
    cocanola cocanola 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    im always leary of ppl. im always watching listening and observing to see if I can trust someone. keeping a tally of truths lies and oddities. I have never trusted anyone in my...
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    When you lose my trust...I dont think that I could trust you again. I'm really guarded with my feelings and I surely trust my gut/instinct.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 29

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    I find it hard to trust people because of some experiences I've had. At the same time, sometimes I feel like I'm punishing a good person by not trusting them. I find myself very...
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    Everyone I trust betrays me. I'm not sure if everyone is like that, or do I just suck at choosing who to trust. Either way, having no trust in anyone is really hard. I'm the kind...
    xthefallenx xthefallenx 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 9

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    I've never trusted anyone in my entire life. not even the people I love the most in my life. I mean you have to have basic trust in people to do simple things but trusting...
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 1 Response Nov 21

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    So, I have this friend, he's my best friend, and I like to believe that he is someone I can trust. Every time I tell him something personal, that I've even hesitated to tell him...
    Skuggington Skuggington 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    My husband often comes off friendly, often far too friendly that it appears flirtatious. He has so many other girls as friends and all who I've seen have no boundaries with him...
    Neverbackaway Neverbackaway 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    Trust is earned. It's like a rubber, the more it's used the less it becomes. I've completely lost my trust in people. Some people who I am so close to I still don't trust them...
    TylerOakleyIsBae TylerOakleyIsBae 13-15, F Dec 3

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    All my relationships - dating, family and friends. I've been lied to and cheated it, made feel unimportant, verbally and mentally abused to the point where i have a hard time...
    bestofme85 bestofme85 26-30, F Dec 4

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    I have had trust issues for a long time but I can trust all my friends now but I'm having some difficulties trusting my friends boyfriend. He smokes, he's only 10 and my friend is...
    nomorelies13 nomorelies13 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So today I Ruined things more. I have long standing issue with trust with my boyfriend,recently i kept thinking he is trying to hide his 'side girl' from me and was shouting at...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had my fair share of being betrayed in person and online. Once a trust has been damage and broken, it is most impossible to regain and build it again. This is probably the...
    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    It's funny when someone pushes you so far, lies to you so much and for so long you can't trust them. And then they are shocked when you don't trust them! Maybe do what you say your...
    maggiemae89 maggiemae89 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    I've never been cheated on. I rarely get lied to (face to face). And people say they can trust me. But still I find it hard to trust people back. I don't want them to know my...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    Trusting other people is the stupidest (and most recurring) mistake that I make. I am 17 and in high school, so the people that I am around are not exactly trustworthy to begin...
    askanon askanon 16-17, M Dec 3

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    I have severe trust issues since I have been raped twice. I am not here to date any male. If you guys do not understand that then I will block you. I do not trust others easily...
    joanwilliams joanwilliams 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    i get hurt everytime I trust. Everytime. and yet I so want to believe in the good in people that I always give third and fourth chances for people to earn my trust back. that's...
    cocanola cocanola 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 8

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    Hate is not the first enemy of love. fear is. it destroy your ability to trust.
    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Can I trust you? Be honest
    JustMeWuuuut JustMeWuuuut 26-30, M 12 Responses Nov 18

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    i have truth issues. it's really hard for me to trust people, because i've been hurt so many times. but i know that i'm not alone. i wouldn't wish heart break on my worst enemy. it...
    courtneythepizzaqueen courtneythepizzaqueen 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    Am I the only one who hates that we HAVE to rely on people to live. We have to rely on doctors to help when sick, same with surgeons. We have to rely on farmers to get us our food...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 5 Responses Nov 21

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