I Have Unresolved Issues With My Father

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    When I was a freshman in high school my dad

    became an alcoholic and began to argue with me and my mom and then over time began to cheat and the fights between my parents heated up where he was beating her and well I was there chasing him pulling him back by his sweat shirt sleeve and sometimes my mom would leave for hours...
    PoetryGirl101 PoetryGirl101
    18-21, F
    Apr 6, 2014

    Love Vs. Hate

    Sitting back and looking through old photo albums, I was so surprised at the way things looked in the past. Everyone was happy, proud and enjoying life. I was born to extremely proud parents. Being the first born, I received everything my little heart could desire &ndash...
    Vix3n Vix3n
    26-30, F
    Jul 21, 2010

    Mental Disorder

    3 years ago my father lost his job where made very decent money.. At this time he cared for my teenage brother. My dad managed his money well enough, but soon ran out and began collections unemployment.. Which also eventually ran out. Flash forward to now, My dad is beyond poor...
    mixtapeshuffle mixtapeshuffle
    26-30, F
    Jul 25, 2013

    My Father..

    My father lives ten minutes away but he won't talk to me or see me. He won't answer my calls and he plays like a victim. If someone were to ask why he doesn't speak to me he says I don't return his calls but he never calls. My dad hates me. I was raped when I was 11 and have had...
    DianaXxX DianaXxX
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2011

    It is almost 5 years

    now that I am struggling with my father. He is has been causing me pain several times. He caused me pain when I needed an emotional support, he causes me pain with I struggled with school. He was just never available for a son in need for his father. Not only that, he would...
    dejay10 dejay10
    26-30, M
    Dec 27, 2013

    It is hard to believe it has taken me this long

    to realize the source of some of my issues go back to when I was a boy and my father was present but emotionally unavailable. I do not think he ever asked me about my school work, did not come to sporting events. The only thing we did together was work in his business. I was a...
    in2mec in2mec
    56-60, M
    Dec 12, 2013

    If I Ever See My Dad I'm Kicking Him In The Nuts

    I had a father when I was younger, but then once we all had to move he didnt go with my mother and I. And his phone calls started coming less and less often, he practically abondoned me. When my parents got divorced he didnt want any custody of me since he didnt want to pay child...
    anonymouscutie anonymouscutie
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2011

    Where Do I Go From Here?

    I have tried for so long to just have a normal, healthy relationship with him, but it's proving impossible being as he has no idea what normal or healthy means! It's not like I hate him, but there's definately a lot of built up resentment and guilt that I feel every single day...
    plasticinedreams plasticinedreams
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    It Is Long But It Is Worht It To Read

    Thoughts like this make me wish there was something urgent I needed to do in order to distract me from them. Denial is strange to me one day it is your loyal companion and the next morning you wake up and it is no longer by your side. I love how self aware I am but despise it at...
    Lenina1 Lenina1
    18-21, F
    Aug 7, 2012

    I Have Unresolved Isses With My Dad...

    It all began when I was a young girl there was a terrible accident. And ever since then I could never trust my Dad. I was also too frighten to even be alone with him. He never physically or sexually abused me. It was more like accidentally hurting me when he broke my leg which he...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 26, 2013

    I Want To Believe That He Loves Me...

    I'll start at the very beginning.My mother knew he was married. He didn't care. He had cheated before. She didn't care. She just knew that she loved him. She was 17 when they started seeing each other and he was 33. At the time, his son, my brother, was 3. Dad was a cop.She tells...
    babybunnyblah babybunnyblah
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2013


    my father has abused me til this day i was raped by him when i was 12 it has been 3 years from that. the last thing he has done to me was push me down the stairs. we fight constintly and everything is always my fault in his eyes. i'll never be good enough.
    gothicromantic gothicromantic
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2009

    Short Story

    I have unsolved issues with my father.I can stand in front of him.Even i feel when i talk with him .He will down my confident .He will ruin my mood etc
    love346 love346
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2013

    Don'T Bother Me With Religion

    I grew up in a relatively religious home, (although I am an atheist) and believe that religion can change a person for the better. My mother and father were never married, but they tried to stay together for me when I was born. They only managed to stay together for a year, but I...
    ofmiceandhope ofmiceandhope
    22-25, F
    Nov 26, 2013

    The Flying Kite

    My father and I have had a strange relationship. Im a male and a father and son relationship is a mystery. The problem I have with my father is I realized when I was little he would buy me stuff to have me be his best friend so that I wouldn't like my mother i suppose. Many...
    garuga garuga
    Sep 21, 2012

    Daddy's Girl.

    As a child I was a daddy's girl. My stories for school always had daddy in them. Then I started to grow up and realized what an ******* he is. He's fine while he's sober but the second he gets some alcohol in him he becomes the nastiest son-of-a-***** you could imagine. First it...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2010
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