I Have Very Strict Parents

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    My parents have always been very strict.

    As a teen, they were pretty strict about curfew and hanging out with friends and I was never allowed to date or anything. I still live at home now and they're still pretty strict. They're also pretty health-obsessed which makes it even more annoying sometimes, but for the most...
    tjaraujo2 tjaraujo2
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    My Dad more than my Mam.

    I'm no alowed to do anything,i can't wear make up,i can't stay out late,i can't have a boyfriend.The list just goes on & on.I'm 14 & i just want to do what me friends do but me Dad says i'm still a child not an adult so i'm not doing adult things. Its so unfair. I have a lot...
    smackedagain smackedagain
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    they still use a naughty chair

    for us. its so stupid cos we are no toddlers any more
    lorenzaann lorenzaann
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 12, 2015

    I think my parents are like the typical

    somewhat strict parents, but I think their discipline is strict! I don't think any of my friends get spanked at my age, but it's still pretty common for me! :(
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    I am 16. I have a younger sister who's 13,

    a younger brother who's 9,and an older sister who's 19. My mom is strict on things like grades and chores,etc. When we don't obey her,we get our bottoms smacked. It teaches us obedience and respect,but she also makes sure we know she's loves us as well. I would love to add some...
    TeenageGirl164 TeenageGirl164
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    Today was pretty bad.

    My parents require me to say "yes sir and no sir" and "yrs ma'am and no ma'am" when addressing them. Earlier today after school I was really tired so I was laying on the couch about to rest and my dad told me to come put my dish in the dishwasher and I responded "ok." My parents...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses May 21, 2015

    Super Strict, But Super Cool!

    My mum works away a lot, so my dad is the only one he spanks me and my 6 siblings, I have got 2 younger sisters, Rosie (5) and Scarlett (7) and 3 older brothers, Henry (14) Charlie (15) and Freddy (18), and then I have a twin sister, Charlotte. We all get spanked if we break any...
    Amanda9000 Amanda9000
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jul 7, 2013

    At 18, my parents were very strict with me - I

    wasn't allowed to go to parties, or they would pick me up early, I couldn't stay with my then boyfriend and when I argued the point, they said, "if you stay there then don't bother coming home." They would go through my laptop, read my messages, threatened to not be a guarantor...
    jaj1231 jaj1231
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    Soccergal plz unblock

    and reply... :/
    Bjoern1997 Bjoern1997
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 22, 2015

    I have very strict mom (my dad died already)

    but I'm very PROUD and THANKFUL to GOD because we have a mommy like her ❤ If I would given a chance to pick a mommy again I would chose my mom.. ILOVEYOUSOOOMUCH MA!! Ps. If you have a Complete Family now Treasure them and Love them as how to love yourself...
    IlovePistachios IlovePistachios
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2014

    So today I needed to vacume the upstairs

    but the vacume was down stairs. I tried to get the vacume upstairs but I wasn't strong enough because our stairs are really steep and the vacume is heavy. My parents said that I was a worthless piece of **** and they should have aborted me. Then they spanked me with the belt 50...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses May 20, 2015

    I haven't posted in a while.

    My parents still hit me a ton. They make fun of me and call me names like "fat f***" "worthless b****" and "two but wh**". They had to go across the state last week for a wedding and they didn't want me to come so they locked me in my room with a jug of water and a box of...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I hate being told i'm 'lucky'

    because of stuff in my past. Like it REALLY gets on my nerves. Oh sure, my mum let me do whatever i wanted, cool right? My school didn't have strict rules, great?! I could wear what i wanted and do what i wanted and now i tell people that and they're like 'you're lucky'. Lucky...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    My mom has a new man

    and he is very strict. He always looks for mistakes we make to punish us. And when we don't make mistakes he makes new rules.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 24

    I know i still live at home

    but im in college a lil freedom would be nice but i still have chores like im 13. why cant i be treated like an adult
    lynnabbie lynnabbie
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    I got spanked yesterday

    for make-up.. I was allowed to go to a party on Friday night, with a curfew at 9 PM. So I was preparing myself for the party, doing my make-up. My parents do not allow too much make up as I am only 14. So when I came into the living room my parents said it was too much make-up...
    HaileyTexas14 HaileyTexas14
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Apr 2

    Is This Strict,Or Do I Just Think It Is?

    My name is Elizabeth Towen. I come from a strict family. There is 5 kids. Andrew is 16,I am 14,Kailyn is 9,Luke is 5 and Shaley is 2. My parents don't let anything slide. Our rooms have to be basically perfect. And our parents have parental controls on our phone and computers...
    ElizabethTowen44 ElizabethTowen44
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jun 20, 2013

    If you would like to stay in contact

    now that EP is shutting down inbox me for my contact information and please leave me yours.
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 28

    My parents are extremely strict

    because they are Arabic and Muslim. for example, I'm not allowed to wear anything above my knee, anything showing my back, armpits or cleavage. I'm also not allowed to date, and hang out with guys. I can't of course drink or do drugs. My mom is more strict then my dad, for...
    sarahxo19 sarahxo19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    My parents are really old fashioned

    and strict. I am often thinking, which is better or worse: to have strict parents and always face the painful consequences of misbehaving or cool parents and maybe getting off the right was and smoke and drink and do drugs.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 17

    I learned in school that parents

    who are overly strict with their teenage daughters may be sexually abusing the daughters. The strictness is to guard against the daughter having an opportunity to tell someone. It is also possessive jealousy in that they object to the daughter having age appropriate sexuality...
    contrarymary2000 contrarymary2000
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    I've been doing really well

    since school started again but got my first spanking of the term last night and so will be going 2 school with a sore bottom today under my skirt. I got into a silly argument with mum last night and my mouth ran away with me so I got the belt from daddy. It's so sore.
    emilyr2001 emilyr2001
    13-15, F
    8 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    I Had Very Strict Parents. . . . .

    . . . . and when I became an adult I felt very grateful for such parents. When in elementary school I had aways to do my home work before I went sleep. My mom always asked whether I did my home work, I answered yes mom. I had to be on time in my school and came back home, was...
    beltspank beltspank
    66-70, M
    5 Responses Jan 13, 2012

    My Parents' Standards. Part 2 - Adolescence.

    My teenaged years growing up in a small town in New Jersey were the early to mid 1960's. My Bible-believing family was rather strict and "old fashioned" even by the standards of those times, and far more so by today's more permissive standards. I was not permitted to wear...
    margaret3 margaret3
    66-70, F
    4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    I am 17 and I still get spanked by my parents.

    My dad mostly spanks me. My spankings are Bare Butt, Over the Knee or bending over the Chair. I sometimes get it in public also. If you guys want to chat message me 13-20 only.
    ChrisM98 ChrisM98
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 18

    I made a Google plus group

    if anyone wants to join for when this site goes dark. https://plus.google.com/communities/105616629529781994021
    typhoidmary typhoidmary
    26-30, F
    Apr 9

    Hello everyone so as most of you no i still get

    spanked and my parents are extremely strict well my mom is as my dad is away at work a lot so my mom does not put up with nothing so today she asked me to do the dishes and take out the trash that's too simple things to do but in stead of just agreeing and doing it i argued with...
    Rebecca0313 Rebecca0313
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Dec 27, 2014
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    16-17, M
    4 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    Many people say that my parents are abusive.

    I think they are not, only very strict, even too strict. But when think of some stories of my life, I am not sure if they are not.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    I'm a dad of two boys

    and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too. What does other think about this or can help me to be a better role model.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Aug 21, 2015

    My parents are never happy with me

    and always find me bad and never happy with the things I am doing. They always get angry and then take the belt and punish me. I hate it.
    gretamokroc gretamokroc
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    I meant to post this yesterday

    but never got the chance. Yesterday morning I spilled a glass of water on the carpet in our living room. My parents got super mad at me. My dad punched me in my arm and my mom went to go get a wooden spoon to spank me with. They hit me with that really hard until the spoon...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jun 15, 2015
    meiwa meiwa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2014

    my parents are too strict like im 16

    and they won't let me have an Instagram or Twitter and I can't go out with friends with out an adult. I always have to lie to them. Also they make me hang out with my pastors daughter and she is super sensitive like she cries if i laugh at her when she loses on Mario kart
    TaylorsierraWilson TaylorsierraWilson
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2014

    Hi again, I made a new account

    because my age on my old one made it to where I couldn't really talk to anyone, so I will retell my story: My name is Jenny. I'm 17 and a junior in high school. I'm an only child so my parents are extra strict with me. I get spanked very often. 2-3 times a month and I HATE it...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 25

    They are. I have to hand in my phone

    when I get home and sometimes they check it. I can use a computer but I am not allowed to have any secrets or make accounts without asking them. The only place I am allowed to have secrets is my diary they promised to never look at it.
    bananasandapples bananasandapples
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Mar 19

    My parents are really strict

    as they want the best for me! And I really appreciate it. I don't know why but they think that if their child fear them, they will then be discipline so my main punishment would involve a hairbrush or < Belt, paddle ,'cane , etc) and my bottom. In my spankings, I must call...
    VannessaWilliam VannessaWilliam
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    They were sorda strict

    but not too strict I wasn't allowed to do anything, like I wasn't allowed to go to any party's besides church parties and I wasn't allowed to date anyone till I was 16 and I had to be above a C in all my classes, and they also limited the time I spent with ny freinds till I was...
    XxmadyyXX XxmadyyXX
    22-25, T
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    I don't let my kids get away with anything they

    back talk they get their *** whooped disrespect get their *** whooped then. Walk straight line
    strictdad2213 strictdad2213
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I know that they do that

    for my own good. I love them but I hate their punishments, no doubt do they work, but as a child, who would like punishments? Main punishments would be spanking after telling me why I was wrong, and I appreciate their patience and work. I know they love me. I remember the...
    SuetLam SuetLam
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    I'm in so much trouble I've just got my school

    report and my teacher has told me I've got two Ds for effort. My parents are going to be so cross when they find out cos my last report wasnt good enough either.
    emilyr2001 emilyr2001
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2015

    I have a friend who is an adult

    and a parent himself, and who had to move back in with his parents. His parents were so strict he began to wet his bed again, and also wet his pants during the day. He is back in diapers now despite his age because his parents insist on it. I'm fascinated by their level of...
    wetelfboy wetelfboy
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 9

    I just joined www.answermug.

    com What a nice site. Over 200 fellow EP members are already there. This is me over there ... http://answermug.com/profile/Bob248
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    Mar 31
    claralorte claralorte
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 6, 2015

    I don't know if they are very strict

    or not. My friends think they are. My dad is in the military so he's sort of strict in that way. My mum is just my mum, she's picky sometimes and she goes on but I love them both most of the time. Don't know what else to say.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 5, 2015

    I have very strict rents,

    particularly my dad. If I do anything wrong I get smacked.
    emilyr2001 emilyr2001
    13-15, F
    Mar 8, 2015

    I wouldn't even call it strict anymore.

    It's controlling. I am 18 years old turning 19 this year. Every single thing I do is monitored by my parents. My phone is taken away by them every night and am tracked by them on gps on my phone everywhere I go. The only places I'm allowed to be are at school and at home, and...
    Lani822 Lani822
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 10

    - family of seven - mom,

    stepdad, me 15, sister 13, step sister 15, step brother 17, half brother 6 - chores done everyday by 6 even on school days when we get home at 5 - we walk two miles home from school everyday no matter what the weather is like - during summer, every single day before my parents...
    ItsAllASecret ItsAllASecret
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    Cant bear when my mother shouts without knowing

    that what is the actual problem !
    awlaa awlaa
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015
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