I have boundaries.
Haven't always had.
Now I do.
Matter of self-protection.
They aren't going to hurt me again.
My boundaries are very strong. They are well-defined.
I can explain them, for hours.
Then, I am surprised - completely - when I find my very firm boundary - has...
iam pulling my wecome mat up . iam so sick of but headed people running over me
just beclase i smile and iam most of the nice . i dont want to be run over any more
i want to know these people like the bill kellys and the adas how do t hey sleep at night ? some body tell...
For me setting boundaries was very difficult. I was a people pleaser. Always wanted to make everyone else happy at the expense of my own happiness. I am not "there" yet. It is a work in progress. But I am a lot better than I used to be. I can say no without guilt...
When I think boundaries, I think how important it is to set boundaries for childern.
For instancen over indulging them in allowing them to do what they want to do.by allowing them to watch tv to much, eating non healthy foods etc and so on in my opionion child shoul d