I Haven't Been Properly Kissed In Way Too Long

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    3rd October

    When he came round to give me my 'sorry' present and we ended up having really good sex, that was too long ago
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2008

    Remember the movie Total Recall,

    where people could take a "vacation" by just laying back in a chair and having a memory implant? It was sort of like being able to have a dream; you could see, hear, smell, touch...only you'd choose the dream you wanted to have on purpose. I wish we could do that. I'd have a...
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 2, 2014

    You Know Those Kisses....

    The ones that just start as a little kiss, but than it leads to so much more, where, it leads to your hands through my hair, wresting with my tongue and roaming your hands all over my body, and the only time we take our lips away from each other, is long enough to take a breath...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2010

    It's been 4 weeks since his lips met mine.

    ..a kiss that lasts an hour or more. The softness of his lips against mine, the story we tell one another. How much we need this moment. Spreading the healing to one another, the love and lust spoken without a single word.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 28

    It's been ten months.

    I think it's time. The last time was very good but not good enough to last this long. The thing is there's really just one set of lips I want but they no longer want mine. I think I just need to plunge in and kiss a bunch of different frogs. The prince really let me down. At...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 14

    Just A Kiss?

    I bite when I feel naughty,I run my hands though his hair and pull him closer when im exited,I bite your tongue when I feel like you're not connected to me.A kiss is important.To have the one you want right there near and to be close enough that you can breathe their air, is a...
    makesmewonder02 makesmewonder02
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2011

    Try "Never"

    One boyfriend. Sexually abusive. No tact. Apart from him, nothing. :o(   I look to the future with hope though.
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2009

    Connects To My Heart

    Kissing has always been connected to my heart. I love long passionate kisses and its been so long. My x that I was with for ten years rarely kissed me in that manner.
    ihavevalue ihavevalue
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

    Ihave Not Been Properly Kissed In a Long Time

    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2009

    Frigid Wife

    It's been years since we kissed properly. Just a peck on the lips now. A few years ago some fling rekindled the passion. Thats gone too. This is so empty, just weekly sex and no passion.
    ryksteman ryksteman
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    I Should Set Up My Own Kissing Booth

    It's been so bloody long since I've been kissed, properly or otherwise, that I foresee a serious problem on the horizon, when the time comes for me to pucker up once again.  Oh, sure, kissing is like riding a bike, you say?  So, I go about my days, weeks, and months not...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2009

    So I broke up with my bf 3 months ago today my

    guy bff kissed me and it made everything weird. "Close your eyes" he told me, I stood in a section of the liberary that was empty of people and his dry lips touched mine I opened my eyes wide and looked at him with confusion with a desperate wish of disappearing.
    Ennah Ennah
    22-25, F
    Oct 21, 2015

    I Love His Kiss

    One day without a proper kiss is too long, especially if you're married or have a partner.  
    Myonis108 Myonis108
    56-60, F
    23 Responses May 16, 2009

    Whats Happening To Me?

    I have been able to see, speak, feel and cominicate to the dead people scince i was little and now, its just the same. But, over the past few months iv been craving blood and biting into my own lip to stop me grabing someone at school and my mood is always changing. i really need...
    iscarbeneaththesoul iscarbeneaththesoul
    16-17, F
    Feb 1, 2011

    Not All Are Able

    It's a huge disappointment! It's not just sticking our tongues in each others mouth! It's the way we look at each other before the kiss. The eye contact and the soft kisses that happen before the tongues get involved are so important. It's me running my hands down the side of...
    Mrbignasty Mrbignasty
    41-45, M
    Jan 27, 2012

    God Yes

    It's almost a struggle for me to try and remember a proper kiss. My last boyfriend didn't know how to kiss at all, and he didn't want any pointers either, so I had to suffer in slober. He basically ate my face and smothered me in saliva. I couldn't stand to kiss him for more than...
    Melody08 Melody08
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

    Passion Departs.

    The love may not leave, But the passion does, And with the passion goes the kiss. And yes it's passion that I miss. The wanting to be near, Sweet sentiments in my ear, Your breathless kiss, And strong embrace, Whilst kisses linger on your face.
    deleted deleted
    Aug 17, 2013

    A Heart-Pounding Kiss

    It's been so long, I can't even remember the last time! I really long for the day I meet a man who will make my heart pound and my knees buckle with a deep and passionate kiss.
    slowsurrender slowsurrender
    46-50, F
    Nov 5, 2013

    Those Kisses That Makes You Lose Your Mind.

    The last time I got kissed properly was with the boy in completly inlove with. We'd always start of slow and soft and it would turn into something so passionate It'd make you feel like you loosing your mind. Hahah yeahh amazing kisses are always the best.
    laughwhilecrying laughwhilecrying
    Sep 1, 2013

    It's Been Way Too Long

    It has been over two years since I have had a passionate kiss. I so long for a kiss that will bring me to my knees. It doesnt matter to me if I kiss a man or a woman I just want it slow, long and deep. I want to be able to taste it for a long time.
    wannabhm25 wannabhm25
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Jul 22, 2012

    Missin' the Kissin'

    Aside from living in sexless marital purgatory, I miss making out. Feels kind of teenager-ly (not a real word I know) but man I'd love to just get down to business and make out for a real long time. It's been too long.
    lonelyinmontreal lonelyinmontreal
    36-40, F
    6 Responses May 6, 2009

    As sad as it is, it's been over a year

    since I've been kissed proper and it wasn't by my husband. That's a whole other experience in itself. I live for a real deep kiss but can't imagine when I'll be kissed like that again. I'm terribly good at it, I must say...kissing is one of my absolute favorite things in life.
    ShebrewRed ShebrewRed
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    I Want Passion In A Kiss

    I haven't been properly kissed in a long...and I mean long..time! I mostly get the quick peck on the lips on the way out the door in the morning! I want someone to take my face in their hands, pull me to them and give me a long passionate kiss....one that you have to reapeat...
    leslie25 leslie25
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2012
    bd693 bd693
    22-25, M
    Jun 21, 2014

    Do People Still Kiss?

    To  say it has been awhile since being kissed is an understatement. I feel ugly just for feeling lonely; as if it is a weakness for desiring the touch of a woman. why do they have that power over us? I have never been loved but instead used and yet I still am attracted to...
    cheesecowboy cheesecowboy
    41-45, M
    11 Responses Jan 16, 2009

    I Remember The Spark.

    Have you ever kissed someone and actually felt a spark - like on the metaphysical level? Where your lips vibrate with energy even before you touch? Time slows down. You swoon. Those kinds of kisses are real. I still remember them a decade later. My husband could and likely would...
    S74rxed S74rxed
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    I'm a passionate kisser

    and it's been a very long time since I've engaged into a deep, long-kissing session. I find it as one of my best intimate moments to lock down on some good lip action. Losing track of time and the levels of intensity as it fluctuates while fighting and challenging one another...
    kevvy832 kevvy832
    31-35, M
    Jul 5, 2015


    well im 19 and i have not been kissed ever not even on the cheek or even my first kiss. i really feel unattractive cuz of that
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    Feb 1, 2011

    I need more passion,more connection,

    more deepness... Or else kissing becomes superficial and meaningless.
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    Oct 5, 2014

    I Hear Ya !!!!!

    Nothing has been "PROPER" FOR WAY WAY TOO LONG !!!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks
    46-50, M
    May 4, 2012

    What Do You Expect...?

    He's been in the US since January 13 this year while I'm here in Asia (a little red dot). And we probably won't see each other till August. So you see, I haven't been kissed since he left! Enough said. :-(
    juicyme juicyme
    46-50, F
    Apr 11, 2011

    I Haven't Been Properly Kissed In 5 Years

    When I met my current bf of 5 years I thought it was cute that he had never really properly kissed. That it was something I could teach him, since he was more experienced at other things than me. But....It's really impossible :( He's not even willing to be instructed anymore and...
    ShesAmazing ShesAmazing
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2012


    i havent had a passionate kiss since 2006. damn that depressing lol!! oh well i guess maybe one day someone will want to.
    drippy72 drippy72
    41-45, M
    Jun 1, 2012

    At All Really

    Its been a long 2 years since I've had a single kiss. :(  I just hope I can remember how. LOL    I can't wait though.  I have someone I have my eye on just waiting on him for now.
    shuttermagic shuttermagic
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2009

    Nothing Like Doing It Right For The First Time

    Nothing like being kissed like you never had before. I used to be with someone who made me shake all over whenever he kissed me. I really miss that and haven't found anyone with such a powerful kiss like his.
    angelique422 angelique422
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2012

    I actually really miss kissing

    so much. I've only kissed women, and have yet to experience this with a man, but I can't wait. I want to be kissed so much.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    Take It Slow

    In this day and age of $5 venti crappucinos and other instant gratifications, one thing that I enjoy taking my time with is a kiss. I think we've all had our share of bad kissers and that is a huge turnoff for me. I want to be pursued and kissed like she freaking means it! I...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 9, 2012

    I'm Waiting...

    I'm waiting for my kiss...  Holding out and won't kiss another...  Yes the perfect kiss would be wonderful, especially now, but I'll wait...  I'm waiting for the one...  It's been a while, but that's ok...  I'm longing and hurting, but for once in my life...
    CaliGirl3 CaliGirl3
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 18, 2009

    Passionate Love

    It's been months since I've last been kissed at all.  But, properly kissed?  It's been years.  I'm desperate for those kisses that start with smaller ones on the neck, the ears, a little nibbling, then tracing each other's lips with our tongues.  You...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    24 Responses Nov 21, 2008

    Ugh i literally fear kissing now,

    the last time it was like i was drowning and i just cringe at the thought.
    jesikahluv jesikahluv
    18-21, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    It's Been Fun ...

    But I may have to leave this group now ...  =D
    Mayavadi Mayavadi
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 6, 2011

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