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I Haven't Had Sex In 10 Years

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    17 Years Actually...

    It's been so long my partner and I don't even find each other sexually attractive anymore.  Mind you, it was never very exciting and I certainly don't miss all that gloop.
    NikkiNorris NikkiNorris 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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    No Sex In 10 Years...?

    I was married for 14 years and had a sexless marriage. I haven't had sex in ten years and I one of those people that I find it hard to meet people. I am not sure what to do. There is no one that I know in the town that I live in. I know people from church, but they are eat her...
    Kerry2013 Kerry2013 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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