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I Haven't Had Sex In 10 Years

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    No Sex In 10 Years...?

    I was married for 14 years and had a sexless marriage. I haven't had sex in ten years and I one of those people that I find it hard to meet people. I am not sure what to do. There is no one that I know in the town that I live in. I know people from church, but they are eat her...
    Kerry2013 Kerry2013 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    17 Years Actually...

    It's been so long my partner and I don't even find each other sexually attractive anymore.  Mind you, it was never very exciting and I certainly don't miss all that gloop.
    NikkiNorris NikkiNorris 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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    I wonder mostly about the friends I had in school and college and how they are now.
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    I'm only 14 though, so it's probably a good thing. Sad part is, I've done so much more. But I've never been kissed. Or hugged.
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    I haven't, but I'm asking because my uncles girlfriend has been asking me to sleep with her. This weekend is a BBQ at her parents house, and she wants to kiss me and listen I love...
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    I dated with nearly 10 guys but haven't found my lover. My dating stopped after one or second meeting because sometimes both sides were not interested in each others or sometime...
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    Hi, EP! I haven't posted in a while. How's life for everyone out there? Life's been harsh lately, but I know I have a wonderful family an amazing boyfriend to count on :D
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    It's been such a long time since I've used this I kinda forgot about it but now I'm back bitchezz!! Oh and by the way sorry if you messaged me and I never answered but like I said...
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    Hello whoever actually reads what I write. I actually haven't been on in a long while, due to a ****** phone, ****** app and my computer actually broke a couple months back...
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    Most people haven't seen? I can't think of a single person who's seen my true dark side. 98% of the time, my good side shows, and I am able to express that part of myself to others...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    idk why I haven't, or why I'm so scared I could be gone in a matter of seconds/ minutes ;'(
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    I really love my boyfriend, we've been dating for 2 years this fall. And I don't want to hurt him, that's why I've tried to rationally explain that I think we should break up and...
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    I have been distant even from myself. Almost as if giving up. Which is hardly the case. I just feel distant and cannot get to grips with cacomorphobia. Got intimate with my wife...
    funnyface2014 funnyface2014 41-45 Aug 1

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    It had been a while... a long while.. way too long that my husband didnt kiss me properly... but these past 2 weeks we have made out more times than the past few yrs!!! The "bite...
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    Atraxiella Atraxiella 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I can't force myself out of bed. I missed out on going to the movies and hanging out with friends. FU anxiety!
    ElephantCozmo ElephantCozmo 16-17, F Jul 25

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    I was staying at my cousins' house the past week and yes they have wifi. But the whole Internet is blocked. Like wth. Can't go on much except the odd Wikipedia page. Wohoo.
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    Movingthroughtime Movingthroughtime 31-35, M 8 hrs ago

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    Most people have seen the light not the dark
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I hurt with the words that people say bad about me and sometimes wonder am I even worth the air I breathe but there's always a song to make me smile
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Ugh i literally fear kissing now,the last time it was like i was drowning and i just cringe at the thought.
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    Yep. I hate to admit it because it seems so crazy. Nothing I am feeling makes much sense
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    Unless you count this as one, but it's pretty lame to count it as such.
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    But for now that is okay. I'll figure it out eventually.
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