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I Haven't Had Sex In a Very Long Time

For who had sex experience but haven't had sex in a very long time 74 People

    It Will Be A Year In A Few Weeks

    I have a boyfriend that I don't live with and share a beautiful baby girl. I guess that's where the problem started. About the time I started to show he wasn't comfortable having sex with me anymore. He promised it would get better after she was born. She just turned six months...
    notinMIanymore notinMIanymore 31-35, F Jul 25, 2010

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    I Can't Remember What It Feels Like,lol!

    This August, I will have been sex free for 2 years, thats right 2 years and people seem to presume that I am a sexually active person for my age and depending on the circumstance, I politely correct them. How do I feel? I'm bloody gaggin for it! Nah, actually I kinda like being...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    2 Year and Counting Also

    About 2 years ago I broke up with Ryan.  I had a lot of things going on at the time, mainly school and an entirely new lifestyle. I guess I just kept busy no time for a relationship plus I really couldn’t found anyone who really made my head spin..I would love to...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 5, 2009

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    Holiday Sex

    Since giving birth to our lovely 2 children my wife confessed that she didn't like sex. Sex has ocurred since, but not often. Last time we had sex was during holiday this summer. I was rubbing after sun cream on her back & we knew that it had to happen . . . . . well it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2009

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    One Year

    I last had sex in May of 2010. That was a one time thing when I was drunk. In the woods. With a friend. Before that, it was another year. So I have had sex once in two years. I am frustrated, constantly aroused even when I shouldn't be, and honestly my self esteem sucks because...
    ghuntersfan ghuntersfan 22-25 Jun 10, 2011

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    Been About a Year

    Quite a few of my last relationships were short and disapointing, the last time I had sex was last august sometime. My dad left home not long after for a better life somewhere else so my faith in men has really plummeted. I can get quite lonely, like sometimes I really want a...
    ahcrap ahcrap 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Ronald Reagan

    Ronald Reagan was in the White House the last time I had sex.I could legally have sex with someone who wasn't born the last time I had sex.I guess it depends on what your definition of sex is,I mean if you don't count oral sex,just intercourse.well if I said intercourse with a...
    pavlovscat pavlovscat 56-60, M Oct 2, 2009

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    Try 7 Years

    imma loser... i can't seem to get laid.... i'm not really ugly...  **** just seem to go tha wrong way when i talk to girlz.... i'm not really a shy person... at that first two years of not getting laid" i was like imma find sum1" but then as time goes on i kinda...
    ill2illest ill2illest 22-25 Jul 15, 2009

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    It's Been Two And Counting For Me Too

    Ive had afew girlfriends..andeach one we were constantly having sex..I don't get out much anymore cuz lost touch of most of my friends.im turning 30 next year and I'm worried that I'm gon be alone forever ...the feeling realllyyy sucks..just the thought of just two yrs ago I was...
    Thegifted1 Thegifted1 26-30, M Sep 5, 2012

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    Nearly A Decade

    I haven't had sex in 7 years. I just don't get out much enough to find anyone. I do miss it, though i ********** 1-10 times a day.
    SlalomPickup324 SlalomPickup324 26-30, M Oct 27, 2013

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    Had A Taste

    I am thankful that I have had sex.  I just don't know when/if I ever will again.  I meet people online who seem like very nice people, people that I would have sex with if the opportunity arose, but I don't know anymore.  Maybe I shouldn't get my hopes up, or maybe I would...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    I Can't Believe It

    Its been 3 years for me. Im 19, a full time college student, and somewhat good looking. The last girl i had sex with was my high school girlfriend. The very same night I had sex with this girl for the last time she cheated on me with another guy. She told me this the next day and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2009

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    It's Really Not That Big of a Deal

    Usually when I tell people I haven't had sex in nearly three years, their eyes bulge and they can't help but gape at me.  They always ask similar questions, too.  "Do you ever get urges?"  "How do you stand it?" etc.  The truth is that I...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2009

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    Been Way Too Long...

    I dated a girl seriously in high school, almost two years. She said she wanted to wait to have sex and I respected that, trying to be the understanding boyfriend. We never had sex the entire relationship. She eventually dumped me and started dating someone else and gave up her...
    anonymous747 anonymous747 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    It's Been About 3 Years...

    Although I don't feel like I'm missing much at all, that's probably because my first experience with sex was so dreadful. I lost my virginity at 18, and I felt awful after it, and just cried when I got home. I didn't have a boyfriend at the time, but he was a close friend of...
    Faerdie Faerdie 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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    Since I Became a Christian

    I miss sex. On the other hand, sex is really no big deal because society puts to much hype into it. Although I get depressed about my past sexual relationships, I'm also sorry about losing my virginity before marriage. I just have a lot of mixed feelings about my secondary...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2009

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    This Sux

    I haven't had sex in going on 4 years now. Just because of work I guess, and I don't know what else I ********** once or twice a day because of the fact that it has been almost 4 years.
    ALdiaperboy ALdiaperboy 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    6 Or 7 Years

    its been about 6 or 7 years since i had sex with a woman.  i get lonely or restless so i drink then go to an adult store a give bjs.  like i will tonight    
    davidhurst davidhurst 41-45 Aug 22, 2009

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    Seven Years And One Month To Be Exact

    I miss it.  Terribly.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2009

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    2 Years Still Counting

    Upon the request of a friend, I am writing this. I lost my virginity when I was 22, the last year of my college. It was reletively late comparing to the average. Because it was my last year in that city, country, then I came to US, therefore we ended our relationship...
    dashen dashen 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Its 3 Years since I had Sex.

    Its simple really. My wife died 3 years. There was nothing wrong with my experiences to stop me wanting any more, the difficulty is getting it.
    odfood odfood 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I Even Forgot How It Smells

    The last time that I had sex was in 93, I believe. The girl I did it with told me that she didn't know how many people she screwed. We ended up in a hotel and ended up doing it without a condom. I was terrified. I already had erection probems, and after that, I never tried...
    dagclarinet dagclarinet 36-40 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Most people haven't seen? I can't think of a single person who's seen my true dark side. 98% of the time, my good side shows, and I am able to express that part of myself to others...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    idk why I haven't, or why I'm so scared I could be gone in a matter of seconds/ minutes ;'(
    sophieirwinnxo sophieirwinnxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I am sorry I haven't been on in a while because I totally forgot some how. I don't know how but I did but I will try n be on here as much as I can now so thanks n speak to u guys n...
    Beckywolf Beckywolf 13-15 Aug 22

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    I have no idea why I haven't killed myself yet but the other day I waited at some Train tracks for an hour waiting for the train to run me over
    barefootlover7890 barefootlover7890 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I haven't been here on EP for ages. My life is so full right now. What's happening?......lol. Is there any topic that anyone would like too tackle. I'm up for "new discussions...
    Music4Dance Music4Dance 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was talking to someone on here about living in a sexless marraige, as I have many times since I joined, but wow I have never felt like this about anyone. I have been in this...
    forensicfox forensicfox 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    In this weird way, I find it hilarious. Maybe its just the situation surrounding it, and my coping mechanism? Who knows... But, I moved out it August... I had to. I had originally...
    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It had been a while... a long while.. way too long that my husband didnt kiss me properly... but these past 2 weeks we have made out more times than the past few yrs!!! The "bite...
    jewel76 jewel76 36-40, F Aug 16

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    Ugh i literally fear kissing now,the last time it was like i was drowning and i just cringe at the thought.
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I feel like I am such a good kisser but to be honest, my husband sucks at it. He just try's to shove his tongue in my mouth and wiggle it around. Umm no. That isn't right. Ugh...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F Aug 16

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    I'm becoming a licensed professional counselor. I question this role because I do not enjoy my life. I dread my life. Each day. Waking up to see the sun is like torching my eyes...
    rainty98 rainty98 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 29

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    Survival of the Fittest - Most of the time I am steen as a reserved friendly smart kid. But when I feel in danger to myself in any form; I react with swiftly and brutally. This...
    ThatSn1perGuy ThatSn1perGuy 16-17, M Aug 16

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    The other day I almost got into a car crash and I kinda wonder why I told her that the light was red because if I hadn't she would have crashed
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F Aug 29

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    So I have this problem I've grown up in a strongly catholic family. I never questioned my religion until a year ago when I got very interested in philosophy and stuff... Now I...
    marsbars30 marsbars30 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I see much hasn't changed. It's interesting to see where this program is going, and what people write into it. I imagine there's some algorithm which organizes data based with a...
    Aguynamedbill Aguynamedbill 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F Aug 29

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    just logged on, like 20 notifications XD damn you school
    Apezz Apezz 16-17, F Sep 2

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    I hurt with the words that people say bad about me and sometimes wonder am I even worth the air I breathe but there's always a song to make me smile
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F Aug 16

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    But for now that is okay. I'll figure it out eventually.
    cutsy cutsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Anyone else feel like that?
    Lovelyone1284 Lovelyone1284 26-30, F Aug 29

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    death seems like such a great option
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Aug 29

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    death seems like such a great option
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    ^maybe because you're worth something. And so many other people have much more to worry about than you do. ( btw no hate I'm just answering the question, and stating how people...
    Swagaliciousk Swagaliciousk 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I know it's good to be my age but sometimes the technical side of life simply baffles me! Blumming PDFs!
    Flutterbingers Flutterbingers 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I have a 400 page Word document of my life 2 weeks before freshman year of high school to graduating senior year of high school. I would like to write a book on my experiences and...
    Sgm51ngc5194 Sgm51ngc5194 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Here I am again. We haven't had sex in months. We actually aren't married, but engaged, and I post on here because the feedback is better than the other groups. He never wants...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 21

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