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I Haven't Had Sex In a Very Long Time

For who had sex experience but haven't had sex in a very long time 73 People

    It's Really Not That Big of a Deal

    Usually when I tell people I haven't had sex in nearly three years, their eyes bulge and they can't help but gape at me.  They always ask similar questions, too.  "Do you ever get urges?"  "How do you stand it?" etc.  The truth is that I...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2009

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    Holiday Sex

    Since giving birth to our lovely 2 children my wife confessed that she didn't like sex. Sex has ocurred since, but not often. Last time we had sex was during holiday this summer. I was rubbing after sun cream on her back & we knew that it had to happen . . . . . well it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2009

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    Been About a Year

    Quite a few of my last relationships were short and disapointing, the last time I had sex was last august sometime. My dad left home not long after for a better life somewhere else so my faith in men has really plummeted. I can get quite lonely, like sometimes I really want a...
    ahcrap ahcrap 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Try 7 Years

    imma loser... i can't seem to get laid.... i'm not really ugly...  **** just seem to go tha wrong way when i talk to girlz.... i'm not really a shy person... at that first two years of not getting laid" i was like imma find sum1" but then as time goes on i kinda...
    ill2illest ill2illest 22-25 Jul 15, 2009

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    This Sux

    I haven't had sex in going on 4 years now. Just because of work I guess, and I don't know what else I ********** once or twice a day because of the fact that it has been almost 4 years.
    ALdiaperboy ALdiaperboy 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Ronald Reagan

    Ronald Reagan was in the White House the last time I had sex.I could legally have sex with someone who wasn't born the last time I had sex.I guess it depends on what your definition of sex is,I mean if you don't count oral sex,just intercourse.well if I said intercourse with a...
    pavlovscat pavlovscat 56-60, M Oct 2, 2009

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    Its 3 Years since I had Sex.

    Its simple really. My wife died 3 years. There was nothing wrong with my experiences to stop me wanting any more, the difficulty is getting it.
    odfood odfood 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Since I Became a Christian

    I miss sex. On the other hand, sex is really no big deal because society puts to much hype into it. Although I get depressed about my past sexual relationships, I'm also sorry about losing my virginity before marriage. I just have a lot of mixed feelings about my secondary...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2009

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    I Even Forgot How It Smells

    The last time that I had sex was in 93, I believe. The girl I did it with told me that she didn't know how many people she screwed. We ended up in a hotel and ended up doing it without a condom. I was terrified. I already had erection probems, and after that, I never tried...
    dagclarinet dagclarinet 36-40 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    I Can't Remember What It Feels Like,lol!

    This August, I will have been sex free for 2 years, thats right 2 years and people seem to presume that I am a sexually active person for my age and depending on the circumstance, I politely correct them. How do I feel? I'm bloody gaggin for it! Nah, actually I kinda like being...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Had A Taste

    I am thankful that I have had sex.  I just don't know when/if I ever will again.  I meet people online who seem like very nice people, people that I would have sex with if the opportunity arose, but I don't know anymore.  Maybe I shouldn't get my hopes up, or maybe I would...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    Seven Years And One Month To Be Exact

    I miss it.  Terribly.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2009

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    It's Been About 3 Years...

    Although I don't feel like I'm missing much at all, that's probably because my first experience with sex was so dreadful. I lost my virginity at 18, and I felt awful after it, and just cried when I got home. I didn't have a boyfriend at the time, but he was a close friend of...
    Faerdie Faerdie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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    2 Years Still Counting

    Upon the request of a friend, I am writing this. I lost my virginity when I was 22, the last year of my college. It was reletively late comparing to the average. Because it was my last year in that city, country, then I came to US, therefore we ended our relationship...
    dashen dashen 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    2 Year and Counting Also

    About 2 years ago I broke up with Ryan.  I had a lot of things going on at the time, mainly school and an entirely new lifestyle. I guess I just kept busy no time for a relationship plus I really couldn’t found anyone who really made my head spin..I would love to...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 5, 2009

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    One Year

    I last had sex in May of 2010. That was a one time thing when I was drunk. In the woods. With a friend. Before that, it was another year. So I have had sex once in two years. I am frustrated, constantly aroused even when I shouldn't be, and honestly my self esteem sucks because...
    ghuntersfan ghuntersfan 22-25 Jun 10, 2011

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    It's Been Two And Counting For Me Too

    Ive had afew girlfriends..andeach one we were constantly having sex..I don't get out much anymore cuz lost touch of most of my friends.im turning 30 next year and I'm worried that I'm gon be alone forever ...the feeling realllyyy sucks..just the thought of just two yrs ago I was...
    Thegifted1 Thegifted1 26-30, M Sep 5, 2012

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    6 Or 7 Years

    its been about 6 or 7 years since i had sex with a woman.  i get lonely or restless so i drink then go to an adult store a give bjs.  like i will tonight    
    davidhurst davidhurst 41-45 Aug 22, 2009

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    Nearly A Decade

    I haven't had sex in 7 years. I just don't get out much enough to find anyone. I do miss it, though i ********** 1-10 times a day.
    SlalomPickup324 SlalomPickup324 26-30, M Oct 27, 2013

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    Been Way Too Long...

    I dated a girl seriously in high school, almost two years. She said she wanted to wait to have sex and I respected that, trying to be the understanding boyfriend. We never had sex the entire relationship. She eventually dumped me and started dating someone else and gave up her...
    anonymous747 anonymous747 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I Can't Believe It

    Its been 3 years for me. Im 19, a full time college student, and somewhat good looking. The last girl i had sex with was my high school girlfriend. The very same night I had sex with this girl for the last time she cheated on me with another guy. She told me this the next day and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2009

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    It Will Be A Year In A Few Weeks

    I have a boyfriend that I don't live with and share a beautiful baby girl. I guess that's where the problem started. About the time I started to show he wasn't comfortable having sex with me anymore. He promised it would get better after she was born. She just turned six months...
    notinMIanymore notinMIanymore 31-35, F Jul 25, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and a half now, I am 23 and he is 24, he stays over and we have done stuff (sexually speaking) BUT we haven't had intercourse...
    Scar29 Scar29 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I already have an experience on this but I thought I might post this for the younger people who want to so bad. Don't rush into it and loss your virginity just because you want to...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M Mar 22

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    I want sex I just have not found someone to have it with in the Cleveland TN area and it's not from the lack of trying. Any one out there who can help?
    onomaine onomaine 22-25, M Mar 27

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    i've been lonely for the past five years and i try to meet girls but noone seems to be in to relationships anymore because there is to much unfaithfulness. im really lonely and...
    peartreebud peartreebud 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I went to this party with my friend but i didn't know anyone there, so i was kind of shy. The more i drank the more out going i became (because that's what alcohol does to you) and...
    JordanElaine JordanElaine 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 20

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    I have been dating this boy for 4 months..we haven't kissed yet but we see each other every day. He pecked me on the lips once but it wasn't terribly good or passionate. Mm..hurry...
    4Ana 4Ana 16-17, F Mar 31

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    Firmly believe strangers are just friends we haven't met yet.. So with that said. Where are are ladies with great vibes and conversation?! Don't be shy
    MrMan90210 MrMan90210 22-25, M Apr 10

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    Been here for almost a month, I think. Still haven't found people I can really relate to. It seemed like a great site, but people only like to say that they want to meet someone to...
    DoctorSoto DoctorSoto 31-35, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I haven't taken the exam yet as I am waiting on my voucher.
    soulofawiccanflower soulofawiccanflower 41-45 Mar 26

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    I want to feel that love that makes your toes curl! I want urgent kisses that morph into want, to need, then to frenzy. I want to be woke early in the morning by kisses on my skin...
    NatureLovvver NatureLovvver 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I Can't take this feeling, lately it's very strong. I look around, I see the reasons to live for but at the same time I don't want to live. Everything annoys, inside there's pain...
    Demeterdreaming Demeterdreaming 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I once read an interesting perspective about the people you will encounter in your life, it states: "25% of people you meet: will never like you; 25% of people you meet: won't...
    FussBox FussBox 26-30, F Apr 7

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    This is really weird. I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
    Beachball9 Beachball9 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think I am beginning to understand how to act & take responsibility for myself like a real man would. (21 M). Since moving in with roommates I always used to feel "below" them...
    Mcgregor117 Mcgregor117 18-21, M Mar 22

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    Dearest One, I just wanted to let you know I'm healed and ready to meet you. There is so much to look forward to! I'm ready for you to walk into my life now. Take me by the...
    todayalways todayalways 46-50, F Apr 5

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    It doesn't take meeting someone to make a difference , it takes being real honest and down to earth . It takes being human and respectful enough to care about someone else's...
    Brunettechic1004 Brunettechic1004 18-21, F Apr 11

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    I have the normal, semi-girly side that I don't have to try, and then the therian, dark and complex side that most people don't see because they don't care an I have no room to...
    PteMatriarch PteMatriarch 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    And it's starting to worry the heck out of me
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M Apr 2

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    i,m sick of men and i want to have a lesbian friend 45 or older that lives in Taylor Mi or somewhere close to that must be able to meet up talk and maybe more ,white only so if you...
    seekingalady68 seekingalady68 41-45, F Mar 26

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    This is probably my greatest accomplishment so far.
    THEINSIDER20 THEINSIDER20 31-35, M Mar 27

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    Have you ever saw someone from primary school that went to different high school then yourself then you run in to her at the shops and think to yourself man she's gorgeous.
    arronwashington arronwashington 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    all my get up & go has got up & gone ! bloody depresion
    translesbian translesbian 41-45, T 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Send me a message or something
    LadyKerr LadyKerr 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I live in a body with another personality he try's to destroy so i lock him in a cage in the back of my head I call him shaggy
    frogboom frogboom 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Apr 10

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    I haven't had sex in so longgg:(
    LilJ19 LilJ19 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I have been living in this sexless marriage for several years. I haven't had sex in about 8 or 9 months. My husband refuses to admit there is an issue. Well, I finally had sex but...
    nurse594 nurse594 41-45, F 19 Responses 4 days ago

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    We haven't had sex in almost a mint and if we have sex it's only twice a month if Im lucky! I'm 24 I have needs!
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 20 Responses Apr 11

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    I haven't had sex in a week this is terrible
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    Totally true. I haven't had sex since June.
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 30

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