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I Haven't Had Sex In a Very Long Time

For who had sex experience but haven't had sex in a very long time 73 People

    Nearly A Decade

    I haven't had sex in 7 years. I just don't get out much enough to find anyone. I do miss it, though i ********** 1-10 times a day.
    SlalomPickup324 SlalomPickup324 26-30, M Oct 27, 2013

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    One Year

    I last had sex in May of 2010. That was a one time thing when I was drunk. In the woods. With a friend. Before that, it was another year. So I have had sex once in two years. I am frustrated, constantly aroused even when I shouldn't be, and honestly my self esteem sucks because...
    ghuntersfan ghuntersfan 22-25 Jun 10, 2011

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    Had A Taste

    I am thankful that I have had sex.  I just don't know when/if I ever will again.  I meet people online who seem like very nice people, people that I would have sex with if the opportunity arose, but I don't know anymore.  Maybe I shouldn't get my hopes up, or maybe I would...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    Since I Became a Christian

    I miss sex. On the other hand, sex is really no big deal because society puts to much hype into it. Although I get depressed about my past sexual relationships, I'm also sorry about losing my virginity before marriage. I just have a lot of mixed feelings about my secondary...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2009

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    I Can't Believe It

    Its been 3 years for me. Im 19, a full time college student, and somewhat good looking. The last girl i had sex with was my high school girlfriend. The very same night I had sex with this girl for the last time she cheated on me with another guy. She told me this the next day and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2009

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    Holiday Sex

    Since giving birth to our lovely 2 children my wife confessed that she didn't like sex. Sex has ocurred since, but not often. Last time we had sex was during holiday this summer. I was rubbing after sun cream on her back & we knew that it had to happen . . . . . well it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2009

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    2 Years Still Counting

    Upon the request of a friend, I am writing this. I lost my virginity when I was 22, the last year of my college. It was reletively late comparing to the average. Because it was my last year in that city, country, then I came to US, therefore we ended our relationship...
    dashen dashen 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Ronald Reagan

    Ronald Reagan was in the White House the last time I had sex.I could legally have sex with someone who wasn't born the last time I had sex.I guess it depends on what your definition of sex is,I mean if you don't count oral sex,just intercourse.well if I said intercourse with a...
    pavlovscat pavlovscat 56-60, M Oct 2, 2009

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    It Will Be A Year In A Few Weeks

    I have a boyfriend that I don't live with and share a beautiful baby girl. I guess that's where the problem started. About the time I started to show he wasn't comfortable having sex with me anymore. He promised it would get better after she was born. She just turned six months...
    notinMIanymore notinMIanymore 31-35, F Jul 25, 2010

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    This Sux

    I haven't had sex in going on 4 years now. Just because of work I guess, and I don't know what else I ********** once or twice a day because of the fact that it has been almost 4 years.
    ALdiaperboy ALdiaperboy 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    I Even Forgot How It Smells

    The last time that I had sex was in 93, I believe. The girl I did it with told me that she didn't know how many people she screwed. We ended up in a hotel and ended up doing it without a condom. I was terrified. I already had erection probems, and after that, I never tried...
    dagclarinet dagclarinet 36-40 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    It's Really Not That Big of a Deal

    Usually when I tell people I haven't had sex in nearly three years, their eyes bulge and they can't help but gape at me.  They always ask similar questions, too.  "Do you ever get urges?"  "How do you stand it?" etc.  The truth is that I...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2009

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    It's Been About 3 Years...

    Although I don't feel like I'm missing much at all, that's probably because my first experience with sex was so dreadful. I lost my virginity at 18, and I felt awful after it, and just cried when I got home. I didn't have a boyfriend at the time, but he was a close friend of...
    Faerdie Faerdie 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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    6 Or 7 Years

    its been about 6 or 7 years since i had sex with a woman.  i get lonely or restless so i drink then go to an adult store a give bjs.  like i will tonight    
    davidhurst davidhurst 41-45 Aug 22, 2009

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    Been About a Year

    Quite a few of my last relationships were short and disapointing, the last time I had sex was last august sometime. My dad left home not long after for a better life somewhere else so my faith in men has really plummeted. I can get quite lonely, like sometimes I really want a...
    ahcrap ahcrap 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Try 7 Years

    imma loser... i can't seem to get laid.... i'm not really ugly...  **** just seem to go tha wrong way when i talk to girlz.... i'm not really a shy person... at that first two years of not getting laid" i was like imma find sum1" but then as time goes on i kinda...
    ill2illest ill2illest 22-25 Jul 15, 2009

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    I Can't Remember What It Feels Like,lol!

    This August, I will have been sex free for 2 years, thats right 2 years and people seem to presume that I am a sexually active person for my age and depending on the circumstance, I politely correct them. How do I feel? I'm bloody gaggin for it! Nah, actually I kinda like being...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    2 Year and Counting Also

    About 2 years ago I broke up with Ryan.  I had a lot of things going on at the time, mainly school and an entirely new lifestyle. I guess I just kept busy no time for a relationship plus I really couldn’t found anyone who really made my head spin..I would love to...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 5, 2009

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    It's Been Two And Counting For Me Too

    Ive had afew girlfriends..andeach one we were constantly having sex..I don't get out much anymore cuz lost touch of most of my friends.im turning 30 next year and I'm worried that I'm gon be alone forever ...the feeling realllyyy sucks..just the thought of just two yrs ago I was...
    Thegifted1 Thegifted1 26-30, M Sep 5, 2012

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    Seven Years And One Month To Be Exact

    I miss it.  Terribly.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2009

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    Its 3 Years since I had Sex.

    Its simple really. My wife died 3 years. There was nothing wrong with my experiences to stop me wanting any more, the difficulty is getting it.
    odfood odfood 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Been Way Too Long...

    I dated a girl seriously in high school, almost two years. She said she wanted to wait to have sex and I respected that, trying to be the understanding boyfriend. We never had sex the entire relationship. She eventually dumped me and started dating someone else and gave up her...
    anonymous747 anonymous747 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    Wow! It's been super long. Sorry all! Updates--> My boyfriend and I are doing a lot better, and my parents are not fighting as much anymore. Also, I came out to my dad and stepmom...
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    The reason why I haven't found it is because I'm wasting time on line instead of actually looking for it.
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    I have written about my dad and my step mother on here, and now I feel like I should start writing about my mother. The ***** that caused all my problems. She was 17 when I was...
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    I actually really miss kissing so much. I've only kissed women, and have yet to experience this with a man, but I can't wait. I want to be kissed so much.
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    When I was 14 I joined youth group and stayed in until a year or two after high school. It ended because no one went anymore so my leader cancelled it. That was my home. That was...
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    I'm sorry guys my phone was taken away by my daddy because I wasn't doing well in school if you want to know what happened with that then message me I can't get into graphics due...
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    The've seen everything about me but I'm hiding that certain side I know they would judge. They think I have a happy relationship with my family, that doesn't mean I'm not depressed...
    PureLies PureLies 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    These days it's hard to know who to trust. But you should never try and hide who you are, For instance most people seem to believe I am some angry rugby playing behemoth But what...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M a week ago

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    I need more passion,more connection,more deepness... Or else kissing becomes superficial and meaningless.
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Oct 5

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    If some ones kills them self because you left them does that mean you killed them? Hypothetical
    Gabriella20xx Gabriella20xx 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    nothing I'm doing right now is evening out my life. I feel like I'm tipping the scales in one extreme or the other. That's not a healthy way to live.
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F Sep 28

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    I joined this to have conversations and say anything I want with honesty and anonymity.
    lookingfornice lookingfornice 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    And that side of me is my angry side
    Kerri123456 Kerri123456 16-17, F a week ago

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    There is he happy bubbly side I show and the person who is slowly dying inside
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have the respectful side that everybody sees. But, i have a dark side too... I have showed that side sometimes. But i'm VERY careful with showing it... That dark side is full of...
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    Some days, I really want to.
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 26-30 5 days ago

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    I will never grow up I like my life where it is at right now
    mrloweco mrloweco 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I try talking to my husband about my loneliness and despair without attacking him, but his response if anything is, "I'm sorry you feel that way." Which really means your stuff...
    thruwithblue thruwithblue 41-45, F Oct 13

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    Haven't had sex in a long while. Really craving some hot older ****.
    wetkittyforoldmen wetkittyforoldmen 18-21, F 23 Responses 1 day ago

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    I haven't had sex in over a year. Gosh I feel so weird saying this but it frustrates the hell out of me. I feel like I'm going to explode.
    downer12 downer12 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    Day 11 - I haven't looked at ****, I haven't had physical contact with any women, and I haven't ***********. I did book a non-sexual massage but cancelled, as my real reason for...
    JamesPople JamesPople 51-55, M 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I don't know how much longer i can make it. I want to leave but can't bear the thought of not putting my kids to bed at night. I love my wife dearly. In fact, i adore her. She is...
    98fxstc1 98fxstc1 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 3

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    I've been feeling stronger and stronger over the last few weeks as I've been focusing less on her abusive behavior and more in my own reactions to it. The only way we can coexist...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 14 Responses Oct 2

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