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I Haven't Had Sex In a Very Long Time

For who had sex experience but haven't had sex in a very long time 74 People

    Nearly A Decade

    I haven't had sex in 7 years. I just don't get out much enough to find anyone. I do miss it, though i ********** 1-10 times a day.
    SlalomPickup324 SlalomPickup324 26-30, M Oct 27, 2013

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    Been About a Year

    Quite a few of my last relationships were short and disapointing, the last time I had sex was last august sometime. My dad left home not long after for a better life somewhere else so my faith in men has really plummeted. I can get quite lonely, like sometimes I really want a...
    ahcrap ahcrap 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Since I Became a Christian

    I miss sex. On the other hand, sex is really no big deal because society puts to much hype into it. Although I get depressed about my past sexual relationships, I'm also sorry about losing my virginity before marriage. I just have a lot of mixed feelings about my secondary...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2009

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    It's Been About 3 Years...

    Although I don't feel like I'm missing much at all, that's probably because my first experience with sex was so dreadful. I lost my virginity at 18, and I felt awful after it, and just cried when I got home. I didn't have a boyfriend at the time, but he was a close friend of...
    Faerdie Faerdie 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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    It Will Be A Year In A Few Weeks

    I have a boyfriend that I don't live with and share a beautiful baby girl. I guess that's where the problem started. About the time I started to show he wasn't comfortable having sex with me anymore. He promised it would get better after she was born. She just turned six months...
    notinMIanymore notinMIanymore 31-35, F Jul 25, 2010

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    It's Been Two And Counting For Me Too

    Ive had afew girlfriends..andeach one we were constantly having sex..I don't get out much anymore cuz lost touch of most of my friends.im turning 30 next year and I'm worried that I'm gon be alone forever ...the feeling realllyyy sucks..just the thought of just two yrs ago I was...
    Thegifted1 Thegifted1 26-30, M Sep 5, 2012

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    I Even Forgot How It Smells

    The last time that I had sex was in 93, I believe. The girl I did it with told me that she didn't know how many people she screwed. We ended up in a hotel and ended up doing it without a condom. I was terrified. I already had erection probems, and after that, I never tried...
    dagclarinet dagclarinet 36-40 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    Ronald Reagan

    Ronald Reagan was in the White House the last time I had sex.I could legally have sex with someone who wasn't born the last time I had sex.I guess it depends on what your definition of sex is,I mean if you don't count oral sex,just intercourse.well if I said intercourse with a...
    pavlovscat pavlovscat 56-60, M Oct 2, 2009

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    6 Or 7 Years

    its been about 6 or 7 years since i had sex with a woman.  i get lonely or restless so i drink then go to an adult store a give bjs.  like i will tonight    
    davidhurst davidhurst 41-45 Aug 22, 2009

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    2 Year and Counting Also

    About 2 years ago I broke up with Ryan.  I had a lot of things going on at the time, mainly school and an entirely new lifestyle. I guess I just kept busy no time for a relationship plus I really couldn’t found anyone who really made my head spin..I would love to...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 5, 2009

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    Had A Taste

    I am thankful that I have had sex.  I just don't know when/if I ever will again.  I meet people online who seem like very nice people, people that I would have sex with if the opportunity arose, but I don't know anymore.  Maybe I shouldn't get my hopes up, or maybe I would...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    I Can't Remember What It Feels Like,lol!

    This August, I will have been sex free for 2 years, thats right 2 years and people seem to presume that I am a sexually active person for my age and depending on the circumstance, I politely correct them. How do I feel? I'm bloody gaggin for it! Nah, actually I kinda like being...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Seven Years And One Month To Be Exact

    I miss it.  Terribly.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2009

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    Its 3 Years since I had Sex.

    Its simple really. My wife died 3 years. There was nothing wrong with my experiences to stop me wanting any more, the difficulty is getting it.
    odfood odfood 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Try 7 Years

    imma loser... i can't seem to get laid.... i'm not really ugly...  **** just seem to go tha wrong way when i talk to girlz.... i'm not really a shy person... at that first two years of not getting laid" i was like imma find sum1" but then as time goes on i kinda...
    ill2illest ill2illest 22-25 Jul 15, 2009

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    One Year

    I last had sex in May of 2010. That was a one time thing when I was drunk. In the woods. With a friend. Before that, it was another year. So I have had sex once in two years. I am frustrated, constantly aroused even when I shouldn't be, and honestly my self esteem sucks because...
    ghuntersfan ghuntersfan 22-25 Jun 10, 2011

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    2 Years Still Counting

    Upon the request of a friend, I am writing this. I lost my virginity when I was 22, the last year of my college. It was reletively late comparing to the average. Because it was my last year in that city, country, then I came to US, therefore we ended our relationship...
    dashen dashen 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    This Sux

    I haven't had sex in going on 4 years now. Just because of work I guess, and I don't know what else I ********** once or twice a day because of the fact that it has been almost 4 years.
    ALdiaperboy ALdiaperboy 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    Been Way Too Long...

    I dated a girl seriously in high school, almost two years. She said she wanted to wait to have sex and I respected that, trying to be the understanding boyfriend. We never had sex the entire relationship. She eventually dumped me and started dating someone else and gave up her...
    anonymous747 anonymous747 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I Can't Believe It

    Its been 3 years for me. Im 19, a full time college student, and somewhat good looking. The last girl i had sex with was my high school girlfriend. The very same night I had sex with this girl for the last time she cheated on me with another guy. She told me this the next day and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2009

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    It's Really Not That Big of a Deal

    Usually when I tell people I haven't had sex in nearly three years, their eyes bulge and they can't help but gape at me.  They always ask similar questions, too.  "Do you ever get urges?"  "How do you stand it?" etc.  The truth is that I...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2009

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    Holiday Sex

    Since giving birth to our lovely 2 children my wife confessed that she didn't like sex. Sex has ocurred since, but not often. Last time we had sex was during holiday this summer. I was rubbing after sun cream on her back & we knew that it had to happen . . . . . well it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I been n some bad relationship but all when I was younger n not as wiser...so I haven't given up on men just want a really good 1 that love me for me n respect me...point blank
    longlegs32 longlegs32 31-35 Jul 4

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    I've only had sex with one girl. And it was amazing!!!! I like boys and I'm sure one day I'll find the right one
    Randi97 Randi97 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    i am a virign and am desperate to have sex. but i want to do it with a beautiful girl. HELP
    swapnilbawa swapnilbawa 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My mom and best friend would tell me that when I was a kid. And my first boyfriend would tell me that. For years though, I haven't had anyone say that to me. I also haven't been...
    Blue8181 Blue8181 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Yep true. I wonder how it's like. It's just swapping spit. Kinda gross. But then again maybe it's not. Lol. I'd rather save my first kiss for when I'm older. These days lots of...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm going into the 10th grade and still no first kiss 😔 When was you're first kiss? Should I be as scared and stressed over it as I am? Thanks
    ashlea345 ashlea345 13-15, F 13 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm only 14 though, so it's probably a good thing. Sad part is, I've done so much more. But I've never been kissed. Or hugged.
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just haven't had much interest in kissing anyone really. I like to think that if and when do I kiss someone, I'll be pretty good at it because like all skills, its all about...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T Jul 9

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    It's weird, I've been happier than usual lately, but I haven't eaten much at all lately. I go to the gym, and usually after the gym I'm starving, but I haven't been lately. Could...
    Guuuu Guuuu 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    Norman, i just want to write you a letter today. i think of our old school days together so much fun en sweet thoughts. i hope that you are ok , i know you have a child and are...
    natashatjie natashatjie 26-30, F Jul 17

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    Am Sure If You'Re Polite I Haven'T Blocked You
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hello there, something you might want to know about me is that I love thrill rides. Especially large roller coasters like Nitro and Bizarro at Six Flags Great Adventure. A few...
    GSquared2 GSquared2 18-21, M Jul 16

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    Remember the movie Total Recall, where people could take a "vacation" by just laying back in a chair and having a memory implant? It was sort of like being able to have a dream...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    Wow, sorta weird. I got an email this morning notifying that someone had responded to my account. hmm, I checked in, yes, I STILL have the same email. oddly, it was some woman...
    lilysmamaw lilysmamaw 51-55, F Jul 11

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    You think you're through it all when suddenly the walls start crashing down on you all over again. I'm not going to sleep tonight ; I can't. My plan? Plug in earphones and sit in...
    BurnMySoul BurnMySoul 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hi, everyone. Everything started a year ago when I started thinking about death and what there was after life, which frightened me so much I could hardly sleep. I could't tell...
    Racz106 Racz106 16-17, M Jun 29

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    I lost track of time with my new Club officer position, Rping, getting a summer assignment done, and all sorts of stuff. I wonder of any of my old friends would like to get in...
    MNightlySnow MNightlySnow 16-17, F Jun 27

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    Just remembered about this website.... Used to be on 24/7 the good old times....
    bigbacon12 bigbacon12 70+ Jul 6

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    I pull back the brown clip and bite off the ends, I just need to zone out just for a little while. I need to punish myself, I am not a good person and I need to be punished. My...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jun 30

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    I think I woke up at 6 am yesterday..oh God I don't feel so good
    Promzee Promzee 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I don't think I'm going to be on that fequently anyway. It's a good place to stalk people though ;)
    Avotica Avotica 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I can't force myself out of bed. I missed out on going to the movies and hanging out with friends. FU anxiety!
    ElephantCozmo ElephantCozmo 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I been with my boy friend for 1 year and not even one kiss 😥
    ninaziebarth02 ninaziebarth02 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I was over a friends house a couple of years ago and we were playing with her foam sword when she fell on the bed and looked in my eyes. I was so blind from what was happening that...
    blackoctober10 blackoctober10 22-25, M Jun 27

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    I told my husband that I want a divorce. I have known for a little over a week now that I need to leave him. I care about him: he is the father of my children and a good man, but I...
    ladyintricate ladyintricate 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 30

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    Read and weep or read and vow to take the steps under your control to make your life better. "Don't believe us? A Reddit thread popped up this week asking married folks to weigh...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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