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I Haven't Lost My Virginity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 595 People

    No Hurry

    No rush in your own time care less about others opinionz and more about what fells right for you
    kinka kinka
    36-40, M
    Jan 27, 2012

    Still A Virgin, Until I Let Him In.

    Alright. The 'virgin' and 'not virgin' contexts have made me extremely confused. Perhaps I'll just go with what people out there describe about this concept. I've never had any penetrative sex with any men. I'm sure I'm physically ready for it, but not mentally. I'm not yet ready...
    oddsters oddsters
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2012

    Still A Virgin And Hating It

    I am 28 and still a virgin because i'm a shy freak that no woman wants to have sex with. Simple as that
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    Feb 26, 2013

    I Need Your Help Seriously

    Hi fellow virgins, I need your help. I have to write a paper about deviant behavior (something that is different than norm, or isn't common) so why not write about virgins because we aren't common, from what we're constantly told. What are some labels that have been set upon us...
    Vconfidence Vconfidence
    26-30, F
    Apr 15, 2013


    If only there were more people in the world who had the guts not to. People have no idea how promiscuity messes up serious relationships later on. Nobody wants used goods, people. If you want respect and a serious relationship, you have to act respectfully, and hold out for one...
    Yoshimine Yoshimine
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2007

    I Am

    I'm a virgin, and most people that know me do not know. I guess they just guess I've lost it. I never lie about losing it, but it has never been asked directly. I'm not waiting for marriage, I'm just waiting for a girl that I want to lose it to that wants to take it from me.
    shadow1013 shadow1013
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Nov 20, 2010

    20 And Still A Virgin

    I sometimes fear that I'll be the last virgin on earth... I'm 20 and I would like to lose my virginity but I don't want to regret it. I want to be in a steady relationship with a bf who i trust. There was a point where I was proud to be a virgin but I'm not sure if I should...
    tinaelin27 tinaelin27
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Jan 16, 2010

    My Virginity 2.0 An Update

    from the time i last posted my story in this group about me being a virgin i have gotten my first kiss. although im still a virgin i have become more acceptable with people who are not virgins who are younger or a few years older than me. i have a gf that i can meet in person...
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    Nov 24, 2012

    I Am Looking To Teach!

    I Am Looking To Teach A Virgin Asian Girl, The Positive Aspects Of Sex! I Wish To Share My Insight With Those Who Are Open Minded! Books, Magazines, Videos, And People's Input, Are One Of My Many Methods Of Teaching! Hear Things Out From A Man And Woman's Point Of View! I Guess...
    Cy83rDra90n Cy83rDra90n
    26-30, M
    Sep 13, 2011

    Would Like To Talk To Uk Virgins For Tv Programme

    Waiting until marriage? Wonderful. But what if being shy & awkward around the opposite sex is keeping you a virgin? Is a lack of confidence making it difficult to take that next crucial step? If this sounds like you, and you’ve always wanted to overcome your sexual fears but...
    ZigZagTV ZigZagTV
    Apr 16, 2012

    Kind Of An Incoherent Post; Don't Really Know What I'm Getting At

    Not really sure where I'm going here! I'm a 20 year old virgin who has only dated one guy, which lasted for a year. During the time we were together I had pretty much no feelings for him, either romantically or sexually. We were 19. We did "other things" that didn't involve err...
    CakenCuddles CakenCuddles
    18-21, F
    Jul 12, 2012

    Want To Wait

    I want to wait until i get married. 23,still a vergin and proud of that fact!
    GlitzyGirl22 GlitzyGirl22
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Nov 4, 2010

    I Think I Have Found 'the One'

    ...but i am still waiting till we get married :)
    anonymous182 anonymous182
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jun 1, 2010
    sg1989 sg1989
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2014

    My Virginity

    well im 20 and a virgin, have not had my first kiss or seen a girl naked. never have had a gf that i could meet in person. i have been hurt alot and giving up hope that i will find a female virgin. the reason for that is i want my first time with her to be special for her too. i...
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    20 Responses Jan 28, 2011

    Almost 17

    Yup almost 17 and I still really don't give a F what people say. I actually value something as personal as that.  Means I have more brains and morals than all the other two faced skanky **** bag girls at our school who **** anything that moves. Sorry, I'm very bitter about the...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 11, 2011

    Still A Virgin

    I don't want to still be a virgin but because of the size of my penis I am scared of trying it on with a girl in case they laugh at the size of my penis. This may sound stupid to some people but I really don't like my penis size and I wonder if I ever will lose my virginity due...
    apr153 apr153
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2012

    I Don't Know How to Lose My Virginity

    I’m 27 and I’ve never even held hands with or kissed a girl.  I know something must be wrong with me, but I can’t figure out what.  I am shy, but I really want to have sex.  I’m decent at conversation, I’m good looking, I’m...
    robert2r robert2r
    5 Responses Sep 4, 2008

    And I Don't Need To, Thank You Very Much.

    I'm sick of being pitied for being a virgin. In what way am I inferior because I haven't given it up yet? 12 months ago, me and a group of my close friends were all virgins. Now, I am the only one left who hasn't gone too far one drunken night. In the society where I live...
    cocacolanicky cocacolanicky
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2008

    So, Yeah

    As ridiculous as it may sound I am a 39 year old virgin. It's not like I planned it that way. I was raised with good old fashioned values and as a teen I thought I would wait for marriage, but it wasn't a hard and fast rule. It wasn't really an issue at the time anyway, my time...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 4, 2013

    I Am Glad That I'm Still A Virgin Until I Met My Husband-To-Be

    i am going to get married, and i am glad that i am still a virgin, because i only want to do "it"with my husband-to-be. I don't have any memories about some other men that had been inside of me. so , the only memory of getting intimate is only with my man. I don't say that women...
    susanachandra susanachandra
    36-40, F
    Sep 8, 2013

    I'm A 20 Year Old Virgin, And I Never Had A Girlfriend :( And I Feel Pathetic.

    I'm a 20 year old male and I am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend. I never kissed or help hands with a girl. I feel like a pathetic loser who wasted his teenage years away. I have social anxiety disorder which makes it difficult for me to make friends and virtually...
    jamesbrown510 jamesbrown510
    18-21, M
    Sep 26, 2012

    I Hate Being Fake Number'd

    Yesterday I told a lass that I really fancied that I liked her, she said that she liked me to and I asked her out. She agreed than I asked for her number so we can arrange a time and place to meet up. She happily gave me the number. Only for me to find out that it's a fake, If...
    sicklife sicklife
    31-35, M
    Nov 27, 2012

    I Never Want To Lose My Virginity

    I don't ever want to lose my virginity. I would rather not have to have sex at all, which sounds a little bit weird saying that since I am a male. Usually the guys I hang around with all want sex and more sex. But that is not me at all. So let me explain my situation for everyone...
    tyc113 tyc113
    19 Responses Jan 5, 2011

    so i am the world oldest living male virgin at 60 years old and still proud

     i will be the worlds oldest living male virgin at 60 years old, i have done story's on being a virgin and i am proud and happy to be one as i am being true to my word and true to my honour,there can only be one and only ,that is the way it must be, i have not found her ,so be...
    danielm85948 danielm85948
    61-65, M
    Aug 2, 2012

    Proud of It.._x

    i intend not to for a long time too.. at least till i meet someone who means something to me.. if thats possible..
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 27, 2007

    Keep It!!!

    Dont rush into thins. keep it for that special person! DONT feel under pressure to lose it early on... Keep it until you feel comfortable and happy with losing it!-From a non virgin...I lost it, i was comfortable and happy to lose it when i did with the person i did. But i cant...
    JustKeepFighting JustKeepFighting
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

    I Used To Be Ashamed. . .

    I used to be ashamed, but now I'm glad, because I'll be able to make it special. I know guys don't usually care about that, lol, but I do. I don't take it lightly. I'm not interested in loose sex. I believe that sex is more than just physical; it's also emotional intimacy. For me...
    RandomErr RandomErr
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    Too Much, Too Young.

    My school is full of girls who put it about. It sounds horrible, but they have no dignity at all and give themselves completely to boys they haven't known for that long. I know for a fact, I don't want to be like them. Sex isn't just about fun and having it with anyone. For me...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 10, 2011

    Important Choices

      I feel pretty strongly about this topic, and about sexual education in general, so hopefully sharing my story will help somebody in their own choices :)   I knew that I didn't want to be a pregnant teenager, period. My parents always drilled into me that I WOULD be...
    emilyreallyexists emilyreallyexists
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2008


    I haven't lost it, and i don't plan to for a long while. i'm a believer in waiting untill marriage, and any man who can't wait that long, or love me that much, is not the right man for me. Those who lose it early, often have the most trouble later on, as it soon becomes habit...
    Pheonix Pheonix
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2007

    I'm Almost Homeless, Need Your Help...please.

    I'm on the brink of being homeless and so I started trying to make money on youtube, but the things is I've been having trouble with the video recording on my computer, and so not very many people like watching my videos.. and I just recently started so I'm not sure of what...
    WeAreEverything WeAreEverything
    26-30, M
    Mar 6, 2012

    Thrown In The Towel.

    Well after a lifetime of social isolation, bullying, denied opportunity's and overall discrimination. I've decided to throw in the towel. I spent the last two years tying to make some friends, at first I thought that I had. But it turns out that I surrounded my self with...
    sicklife sicklife
    31-35, M
    Aug 31, 2013

    Not Yet

    That is my story and i am sticking to it!
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Nov 20, 2007

    Hesitation Only Led To Regret

    I'm at the point now where I kick myself for every time I came close and didn't take it further. I'm going to be 36. I've always had a hard time connecting with people ... enough so that I start to ask myself if something is wrong with me. On the rare occasions that I have hit it...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77
    36-40, M
    Jun 21, 2013

    Virgn Guy 23, Sick And Lonley

    Let's start from the beginning, I'm a 23 year old virgin living in a small town in the UK. As a kid I was really really fat, and at the age of 18 I was diagnosed with diabetes. This made me change my lifestyle quite drastically, I had to change my diet and I have to eat regularly...
    christian90z christian90z
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2012


    i am more than proud to say that unlike many girls my age, i am still a virgin. it sucks that many of my friends are already so damaged and old because of sex. not saying its a bad thing, im pretty sure sex if ******* amazing, but that doesn't mean that starting to have sex at...
    monigoes monigoes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2011

    Still a Virgin At 44...

    I may win the prize for the oldest person in this group that hasn't lost the V card yet. I grew up painfully shy and in a strict, slightly dysfunctional household. Developed health problems though my 20s and 30s that prevented me from being as social as others. Sex? Haven't...
    endorphin18 endorphin18
    13 Responses May 10, 2008

    Intelligent Brain, Instead Of T.V. Brain

    It Sucks being a man, because we have way too much daily stress to deal with... then again I wouldn't want to be a woman, because I would end up killing myself, because women are to blame for all the suffering of people.... Think about it, I know how this sounds, you might think...
    WeAreEverything WeAreEverything
    26-30, M
    Oct 13, 2011

    Please Stop Asking.

    I don't know about anyone else, but I'm tired of being asked if I'm still a virgin. I hope this clarifies things.
    starsoffire starsoffire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2011

    First Time For An Arab Virgin

    I am an arab and a syrian specifically. in addition to that i am a muslim. Both arabic and islamic traditions are so much implemented in our society. a women who loose her virginity will not be able to marry. Simply no one will accept to marry her. it is totally prohibited. That...
    joudimas joudimas
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2011

    Very Lonely.

    So very lonely, I think it's time to go away from this place. To another world perhaps, cause there is nothing here for me in this life. God I'm so lonely, the thought of living for the next 30 - 40 years does not sit well with me. Been on my own in this world for far to long...
    sicklife sicklife
    31-35, M
    Nov 21, 2012

    Holding On

    I'm beginning to become a little I'm beginning to become a little doubtful that my wedding night will doubtful that my wedding night will be my first time of intercourse. be my first time of intercourse. I've always been so determined that I've always been so determined that it...
    Vconfidence Vconfidence
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2013

    Im a Conflicted 'V'

    Sometimes i want to lose it then at other times i don't think i want to have sex.  The times when i want to lose it, i think it's do to hormones and the "enemy" is making it's visit.  LOL. I also don't really like men, although i am straight.  I just don...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 21, 2009

    Hold On. You Can Do It

    There's no better feeling than to be called VIRGIN MARY. It really is an honor to be compared to a women who carried the most powerful, amazing man who would Sacrifice his own life for me. Doesn't get any better than that
    Vconfidence Vconfidence
    26-30, F
    May 5, 2013

    Is Being A Virgin Really That Overrated?

    So many of my friends are not a virgin. I feel like I'm the only one and I'm nineteen. I mean I feel like I am ready some days but there are some where I'm too scared to even think about it. What drives me more is my curiosity. Everyone thinks about it quite often. I don't think...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 2, 2010

    Am I A Virgin?

    What is considered "sex" in modern society? A virgin is perceived as an angelic being, an innocent soul. If "sex" is strictly penetration, I'm living proof that virgins aren't saints. At 18, I've done stuff. "Stuff" being mostly everything except penetration. I've never had a...
    russianwhore russianwhore
    22-25, F
    Sep 9, 2013

    There Is Nothing Wrong With It

    I'm proud to be a virgin. To me, it shows I'm not easy, It shows that I won't just fall for any guy, that I have to know they will stay at least. That I don't fall for temptation as easily as some women do. Plus I don't have to worry about whether a condom has broken while...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Jul 10, 2010
    lookket lookket
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    There Needs To Be More Black Women Dating White Men, And Black Female Rappers Rapping About White Guys :)

    All you seem to hear about or see, in movies, music magazines, is interracial relationships, but where are all the beautiful black women? why don't they like white men, the same as black men like white women.. can't be penis size, I used to think so.. but I now know alot about my...
    WeAreEverything WeAreEverything
    26-30, M
    Feb 16, 2011

    Actually, I Did

    But I do know where I left it.  I was 15 and it cost $5, and it wasn't very much fun.
    Firetech Firetech
    56-60, M
    48 Responses Jul 26, 2008


    I'm not sure how I feel about it. I'm definitely not ashamed of being a virgin, but I'm not exactly proud of it and going around advertising it either. I hesitated for a little bit before joining this group. But I hate how virginity is treated as a disease in our culture (for men...
    deleted deleted
    23 Responses Jan 22, 2008

    Truth to the Self.

    I never was one of those who succumbed in many ways to peer pressure. While I didn't have any girlfriends through my teenage years, if I did I would not have felt pressure to sex them for man points. I've had a couple of girlfriends, who I was close enough with that sex would...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 6, 2008

    Radical Feminist Quotes.. Clinically Insane People...

    :Radical Feminist Quotes: "The nuclear family must be destroyed... Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process." -- Linda Gordon "I feel that 'man-hating' is an honorable and viable political act, that the oppressed have a...
    WeAreEverything WeAreEverything
    26-30, M
    11 Responses Nov 13, 2010


    I'm 32 and in the same boat as the rest of you. I never in my wildest dreams would have believed that I still would be at this age. For a long time over the years I felt bad about it. I had even considered getting rid of it. But then at the same time didn't want it to be...
    strawberries strawberries
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 31, 2008

    Not An "Incel"

    My story is already here.  And I had one judgmental comment that I allowed to chase me away from this website.  I admitted something here that I don't even admit to my friends.  It's just too much hassle, and so many people feel compelled to judge.  And...
    Metria Metria
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 11, 2008
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