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I Having An Affair With a Married Man

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    How Can This Be?

    Its been 8 months since we started to email each other. 7 months since we had met. 6 months since we added sex into our relationship. 1 week since we have said that we love each other. From the 1st email to today, we have had a connection. Like we have always been part of each...
    Teeliner Teeliner 41-45 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    So, after 18 years of trying

    and her finally getting him she now doesn't want kids she is pregnant. He came over so we could chat. She is nearly 4 months so fell in October which is when he said he last slept with her. Ironically a month after I lost his baby. I asked him if he was happy - this isn't how I...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate at City...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 2, 2011

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    Affair

    I am divorced. I have known this guy for over 20 years, we used to work together and we were attracted to each other all those years ago but never acted on our feelings. We ran into each other and he ask me for my number. He and his wife have been separated for over a year, she...
    KYsunshine KYsunshine 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Decided not to talk to mm in a few days

    and he's upset. Leaving voice mails and text messages...the relationship is strictly platonic and he's acting as if I should be available to him when he needs me...no way...I see the pain it causes and if had known he was married I would not have wasted my time on him...I'm...
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F Feb 28

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    Unthinkable

    I did not think I would have an affair with a married man. It started a couple of months ago at work. I told him I liked him but I did not expect it to develop into an affair. It was the excitement of getting caught which turned me on. We would do it in the office, we would do it...
    TashaNash TashaNash 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Internal Battle With This Affair

    I'm having an affair with a married man, who is also an alcoholic. I'm been with him for over 3 years, i tried so many times to leave him and after a few days, he calls and fall back in to his charming ways to get me back. Since the affair, i don't feel like myself anymore, i...
    sunshine55 sunshine55 51-55 2 Responses Jan 30, 2009

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    Im in love with a married man

    that is 19 years older than me. I am also married. We both have children, not together. It started out as a fwb fling. Than we both admitted to eachother that we had feelings and wanted to be "exclusive." Ive been in a loveless marriage for the past 6 years. My marriage has...
    taurus561989 taurus561989 22-25, F Feb 27

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    Both Married , Found Each Other Again, He Was My First Love

    I never forgot him, he was my first love. he crossed my mind constantly for 25 years. Started looking for him, found him. He was excited too. First phone conversation was two hours. He told me he always loved me and would leave his wife for me. That was eleven months ago. We have...
    alyssa67 alyssa67 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Being The X Other Woman

    He is such a Liar ! and a such a Coward ! His wife found out about our 2 year affair last week, he asked me to get a house for us so we would finally be together properly but now i've found out he's lied to me even more and hes going to sort it out with her without a word to me...
    Mow64 Mow64 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    I've just started having an affair with a

    married man, twice my age and who happens to be my best friends dad. He isn't married to my friends mum he is married to another woman and they've been together for 2 years... I can feel myself falling more and more for him each day and I know it's wrong but that is making me...
    Beckio Beckio 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    *update* London based Research... Are You Interested?

    Following my previous posts about research regarding the other woman I am now conducting a quick survey which i would be grateful if you could take a few minutes to complete: Survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/BHLJ52X Also, for any other women/men who were or are interested...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 14, 2012

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    Uk based Research... Please Read.

    NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate at...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jan 2, 2011

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    So Confused!

    Ive been seeing a MM for the past 3yrs. The other night we were in the same place where we had our first date. It was kinda funny thinking back on the first time we met there and here we are 3yrs later, still sneaking around to be together. I joked on how I should give him a...
    gjvargas gjvargas 31-35 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    He Did It To Her (again And Again..). Of Course He Can Do It To Me Too...!!!

    In short, he is such a big fat liar in a relationship. He pretended so well, our relationship went unnoticed for years. We work for the same organisation. And had been having the most beautiful romantic relationship you can imagine. We did almost everything any couples would do...
    IdaLuv IdaLuv 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Do I Give Up Or Try Harder? Confession! At My Breaking Point

    Okayy so to start of just like many people on here, I am not the type to to post things online or go on forums but I really dont know what else to do. This will probably end up being a long confession so If you are able to spend some time reading it I would really appreciate it...
    LiveLaughLove59 LiveLaughLove59 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Want To Hear From A Mm That Has A Mistress.

    I would love to chat or get any insight to what you MM deal with on a daily basis when you are living at home with your wife and seeing another woman on the side. Are there real feelings for the other woman at all? can you have an affair for 3 yrs and have no love for the other...
    gjvargas gjvargas 31-35 3 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    We met on a website, honest from the beginning

    what he wanted. It suited me, I had just split with my husband and wanted no strings sex, a married man was the only option for me - no chance of becoming attached or so I thought !
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F Jan 25

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    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some London, UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 2 Responses Sep 2, 2011

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    I need to bring you up to speed

    so you can understand where my mind is right now. So we met online. Our first meet was in a pub, I fancied him from the word go, we shared tapas and wine and found out how much we had in common. He grew up in the area I live in, we both enjoy the same things. Our night ended in...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F Jan 26

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    I am a college student

    who is currently having an affair with married man. It began as a way for me to cope with the lack of intimacy and general attention that I was getting in college. Prior to the start of my affair, I had a long-term, long-distance boyfriend who was neglecting me almost entirely...
    yellowfever1 yellowfever1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Struggling With Being The Other Woman And Married

    I am having an affair with a married man that I previously worked with. I too am married. I have had this affair for 3 years. I am struggling dearly with not seeing this man on a regulary basis as I did when we worked together. However, I am also struggling with really knowing if...
    fireball0830 fireball0830 36-40, F 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    So I tried going on a date with someone else.

    What a disaster. All I kept thinking was how my mm wouldn't do it like that etc. I left after an hour. I just couldn't carry on, there was no spark. Guess as long as I'm with him, it's only him.
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I Dont Know What To Do

    we met at work 4 yrs ago, i didnt trust he loved me enough. He decided to get married two yrs ago but gave me the choice of stopping it if i loved him but i didnt. We have been dating for 18 months now & i'm friends with his only teenage son. It kills me to be unable to wake...
    Inlove76 Inlove76 31-35 4 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    I don't know what to do.

    I don't want to stop but sometimes I feel bad.
    jepc jepc 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Finding It Hard

    I was happy in my relationship with C and devastated when he was sent to prison.  About 3 months into his sentence i started having an affair with M who is married.  I still cant believe I did it, because I have never cheated on anyone before and its not normally...
    Memoriesofyou Memoriesofyou 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    We connected at a business convention.

    I was crushed to find out he was married and just avoided him when I could until that night when we were drinking. We got very friendly and there was an unexpected spark. However, I thought it would just be a one nighter and that's it. To my surprise, nope. He wants to keep...
    kathleen05 kathleen05 36-40, F Mar 8

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    I've been seeing my mm

    for 14 months now. What started as a no strings added extra for both of us has turned into something more complex than I ever imagined. I honestly don't think I will ever find someone else I feel this way about. He makes me feel alive, he does things to me I never thought...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I need some one to spoil me rotten and spend some loving time with me. Any body in Cape Town over 50?
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    This would be hot, him sneaking around to get his end away in me ;)
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    I have a bf, he has a wife. My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I get so aroused by the fact that my wife is having an online affair with another man. They exchange pics and chat every day. I get so turned in by it. Anyone want to chat about...
    Sportybhoy Sportybhoy 46-50, M 8 Responses Apr 6

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    ...and he is not my husband! I fell out of love with my husband 5 years(?) into the marriage. He traveled a lot with his job and we were in the middle of building our home,leaving...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 hr ago

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F Apr 10

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    I probably shouldn't be admitting this, but I need to express it. So mostly everyone that knows me on here knows that I cheated on my fiancé and I've been pretty torn up about...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    My fiancé of 30yrs ago I never stopped loving. I'm leaving my husband because he is an alcoholic .. Married 25yrs. I am worried once I move out my affair with my lover will...
    Neelloc Neelloc 51-55 8 hrs ago

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    DENIAL. ANGER. BARGAINING. DEPRESSION. ACCEPTANCE. High School Sophomore Year Health Class. The 5 stages of loss. "It doesn't necessarily always happen in this order, nor does it...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Apr 1

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    BALANCE. TRANQUILITY. DOOM. A long time ago, I was told that my mentality of "Balance" was self-proclaimed. I believe that something good happens to me, something just as equally...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 Apr 6

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Ending my relationship With a married man. Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong...
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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the...
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