I Having An Affair With a Married Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 298 People

    I love my MM so much.

    .. I'm off tonight and wish I can be with him. We're together all the time during the day but not much after hours. How do you guys deal? I'm usually great but tonight I'm wanting him so bad.
    SoMarvelous SoMarvelous
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2015

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    kerenccaa kerenccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    I told MM I was going to a Halloween party on

    Saturday of course, with a friend who happens to be male. He flipped out on me. Saying he couldn't do this anymore, if I'm going to be going on "dates" is what he called it. He also said I could do whatever I want and he won't call or message me anymore. I was in disbelief. I...
    syllie7519 syllie7519
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    I'm obviously messing up their marriage.

    He is obviously messing up mine .. So to me it seems clear we need to throw some water on this fire but neither of us seem motivated to do that. I'm going to see if we can have a dry August... I think we both need it to start thinking straight.
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

    Im in love with a married man

    that is 19 years older than me. I am also married. We both have children, not together. It started out as a fwb fling. Than we both admitted to eachother that we had feelings and wanted to be "exclusive." Ive been in a loveless marriage for the past 6 years. My marriage has...
    taurus561989 taurus561989
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    I've been seeing my mm

    for 14 months now. What started as a no strings added extra for both of us has turned into something more complex than I ever imagined. I honestly don't think I will ever find someone else I feel this way about. He makes me feel alive, he does things to me I never thought...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    He Did It To Her (again And Again..). Of Course He Can Do It To Me Too...!!!

    In short, he is such a big fat liar in a relationship. He pretended so well, our relationship went unnoticed for years. We work for the same organisation. And had been having the most beautiful romantic relationship you can imagine. We did almost everything any couples would do...
    IdaLuv IdaLuv
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2012
    Specificity Specificity
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2014

    yeap, dats me currently in experience now.

    .i met him a year ago..he such a good guy n soft. he got no problems with his wife, but he got involves with me now.. he has one cute daughter and another one is coming this christmas. see, he has no problem with his wife. i dunno why he involves with me. i love him so much.. the...
    keysec keysec
    26-30, F
    Dec 11, 2015

    How Can This Be?

    Its been 8 months since we started to email each other. 7 months since we had met. 6 months since we added sex into our relationship. 1 week since we have said that we love each other. From the 1st email to today, we have had a connection. Like we have always been part of each...
    Teeliner Teeliner
    1 Response Sep 28, 2013

    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2014

    I'm in love and even

    when I hear her speak badly of him it's like I'm blinded by how I feel.. I love him flaws and all. Wouldn't want him to change. I miss you. I'm glad to hear it. I suspected he did but isn't it good to hear it. I feel content at the moment but I'm pretty emotional lately. I want...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    I think it might be time to end things.

    He isn't available for me (obviously) and I think maybe the thrill is fading. Our weekly trysts are almost like a chore. If I don't feel like having sex on Wednesdays at 5:00, that's too bad, because it's scheduled. No spontaneity. It's like a job now.
    Specificity Specificity
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    Do I Give Up Or Try Harder? Confession! At My Breaking Point

    Okayy so to start of just like many people on here, I am not the type to to post things online or go on forums but I really dont know what else to do. This will probably end up being a long confession so If you are able to spend some time reading it I would really appreciate it...
    LiveLaughLove59 LiveLaughLove59
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    I had an affair with a married man

    for 2 years. He said there were already problems before I came in the picture. To make a long story short he moved in with his brother she moved in with her brother. 7 months later he tells me he got a place and they moved back in together for his kids who are both in high...
    syllie7519 syllie7519
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    My man and I got to spend most of yesterday

    afternoon together and just before he left he asked me a question that made me nauseous. He said his W of 25 years is very suspicious about every little thing. She made some interesting remarks over the weekend about me, about where we work, and a random hair she found on the...
    WickedVagabond WickedVagabond
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    It's this guy I work with likes me

    and I have a little for him too. This has been going on for a while now but haven't completely gave in because he is married. Last weekend he celebrated my birthday with my friends and I, later on tht night we ended up kissing. I didn't think abt it until the next day because I...
    sweetbee221 sweetbee221
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    So how weird is it I feel worse

    for what I'm doing to my friend by sleeping with her husband than I do my husband, who I'm cheating on? My husband treats me like ****. But only half the time. He's not a bad guy he just needs help with his anger and refuses it, thinks he's perfect. That shouldn't excuse...
    LanaRae LanaRae
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2014

    Just got a text from him: "I wish I didn't have

    to avoid knowing you in my world. It makes for a tough friendship. I would talk and text more."
    Asheera123 Asheera123
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2014

    I don't know what to do.

    I don't want to stop but sometimes I feel bad.
    jepc jepc
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2013

    So we're back to this again!

    My MM's living situation with his family has been a little shaky for the past couple of months. For me it was great because we have been spending everyday together. Now they are moving in to their new place. I am he found something for his Kids' sake, but now he is going to be...
    button3 button3
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    It's a year on Monday

    since it started...not your typical rant as he is leaving. His office is a mini house with new iron, microwave, cutlery set, Hoover etc all in boxes ready to go to his new home he gets in a few weeks. I'm so happy for him to be free of his broken marriage and excited for his...
    myownbox myownbox
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    I met this guy at a Fashion show,

    we never really spoke much but exchanged business cards. he later added me on skype and we'd converse daily ever since. When we had our first date after a month of chatting online ;it was pretty casual, we really enjoyed each others company, one thing led to another and i slept...
    mwichkins mwichkins
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014

    Being The X Other Woman

    He is such a Liar ! and a such a Coward ! His wife found out about our 2 year affair last week, he asked me to get a house for us so we would finally be together properly but now i've found out he's lied to me even more and hes going to sort it out with her without a word to me...
    Mow64 Mow64
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2012

    I'm a single parent having an affair with a

    married man, he has asked me about us living together!! He has told his wife he wants to get a divorce and he is going to move out once he has sorted things with work, belongings etc but I think he's waiting for me to accept. I don't know what to say! I love him and he really is...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 20, 2015

    I'm 26, he's 41, he's married

    and my boss. I find him captivating and intellectually stimulating, and our relationship has transitioned from mentor-mentee to something more. I have been hesitant to allow myself to enjoy him because in the back of my mind, I won't allow myself to believe that it's anything...
    littlelawyer05 littlelawyer05
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    So Confused!

    Ive been seeing a MM for the past 3yrs. The other night we were in the same place where we had our first date. It was kinda funny thinking back on the first time we met there and here we are 3yrs later, still sneaking around to be together. I joked on how I should give him a...
    gjvargas gjvargas
    1 Response Apr 22, 2012

    I'm not quite sure if posting here will help me

    or not, and I realize that some responses will judge me, but I am sitting alone crying and not sure where to turn because as others have said, it's not something I can discuss with friends or family, so if nothing else this will help me get things off my chest. My husband and I...
    Julianne2222 Julianne2222
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    It's true... I know people will judge.

    .. But I am at a point in my life where I have realized that my happiness is just as important as anyone else's! I am married too... Our situations are fairly similar and I feel like we give each other what we are missing in our at home relationships. He is a great guy and...
    curioussoutherngirl38 curioussoutherngirl38
    41-45, F
    Mar 23, 2016

    We connected at a business convention.

    I was crushed to find out he was married and just avoided him when I could until that night when we were drinking. We got very friendly and there was an unexpected spark. However, I thought it would just be a one nighter and that's it. To my surprise, nope. He wants to keep...
    kathleen05 kathleen05
    41-45, F
    Mar 8, 2014

    I am a college student

    who is currently having an affair with married man. It began as a way for me to cope with the lack of intimacy and general attention that I was getting in college. Prior to the start of my affair, I had a long-term, long-distance boyfriend who was neglecting me almost entirely...
    yellowfever1 yellowfever1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2014

    I'd like to meet someone

    who has had a long term affair with a mm that had a child, and that the ending is he left the wife and the two affair partners got a relationship and happily ever after...
    sethlw sethlw
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    Well my affair took a strange twist .

    I used to be inlove with him , now I'm not sure If I'm . I want to end it soon and I did tell him that, but he has fallen in love with me and doesn't want to let go .I used to get annoyed that he was with his wife , now I'm ok with it and I actually hope he sorts his marriage. I...
    liveforever1 liveforever1
    22-25, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    I have been in this affair with my MM

    for 6 months now. it's been a whirlwind of emotions of course. when we first met, I did not know he was married. about 4 months in and I figure out he is married. I could not believe it but it was true. By this time I was too in to him to just stop talking altogether. We had...
    button3 button3
    26-30, F
    Mar 29, 2015

    I love him and he loves me.

    It was supposed to be a fling. I would never be involved with a married man... I was turned off when I first met him then he became my boss and I had to spend time with him: I experienced him to be so smart and caring and in control.. His marriage is miserable but he wants to...
    EssAyyRrr EssAyyRrr
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jul 16, 2014

    If people are going to post comments

    that are hateful or sarcastic then you can go to hell. This is our choice. For centuries men have had multiple wives and even the bible says it. Leave us alone if you tare not going to give us support.
    Asheera123 Asheera123
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Aug 10, 2014

    So I finally caved and told someone in real

    life about the affair!!! I'm still in shock that I got to talk out loud to someone about it.. The craaaziest thing about this is the girl who now knows.. Is the same girl this married man had a one night stand with 6 years ago. It was outed to the entire town. I work with this...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2014
    Asheera123 Asheera123
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    Ok here goes probably going to condemned here,

    and I've never shared this info. I met my guy 12 yrs ago I was his PA. We hit off straight away, the chemistry was just there and still is, i fell for him instantly but was in a relationship with kids and he had a girlfriend. Over these 12 years we have gone through hell and...
    Mandy65 Mandy65
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    I asked mm if he sees me

    as his girlfriend today and he didn't reply.. guess it may be the answer. Maybe I'm being stupid.
    Zbabe Zbabe
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2015

    I am having an affair with my friend's husband.

    We have known each other for almost 20 years. We hooked up at another friend's wedding and have talked every day since, even have had a few rendezvous. He says his relationship with his wife is just companionship, they are only friends, does not even have sex with her, Says he...
    anavay anavay
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    I DID IT!! I ended the affair with the married

    man who asked to move in with me. It was only ever an emotional affair never sexual. I told him I didn't want a relationship and that I was just lonely as it does get lonely being a full time single mum xx he argued with me and told me I'd hear from him but I haven't I just hope...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    I've only been having an affair with a mm

    for a month now. I'm in a horrible marriage but feel trapped at the moment. He however is happy with his marriage he just likes the thrill of the affair. I pursued him. I grew up with him and bumped into him one night. He looked so hot I couldn't stop thinking about him and...
    goawaymia goawaymia
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 3, 2014

    Hi I'm new to the group.

    I comment a bit on another group but haven't felt like opening up yet. I should start by saying I am also married. In a way I feel like it's easier because we both keep our expectations in check. Neither of us wants to leave our current marriage because we both have young kids...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    After 2 months of dating

    and falling in love with I'll call him Mr Komo.. I'm going to end things.. We are having a break up vacation.. Lots of sex and just saying everything we want or need to each other.. October 7-12 . I met him on a dating app. I didn't know he was married. We both swiped to the...
    jandj08102015 jandj08102015
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2015
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