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I Having An Affair With a Married Man

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    I Dont Know What To Do - we met at work 4 yrs ago, i didnt trust he loved me enough. He decided to get married two yrs ago but gave me the choice of stopping it if i loved him but...
    Inlove76 Inlove76 31-35 4 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    Do I Give Up Or Try Harder? Confession! At My Breaking Point - Okayy so to start of just like many people on here, I am not the type to to post things online or go on forums but I...
    LiveLaughLove59 LiveLaughLove59 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Unthinkable - I did not think I would have an affair with a married man. It started a couple of months ago at work. I told him I liked him but I did not expect it to develop into...
    TashaNash TashaNash 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Both Married , Found Each Other Again, He Was My First Love - I never forgot him, he was my first love. he crossed my mind constantly for 25 years. Started looking for him, found...
    alyssa67 alyssa67 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    I've just started having an affair with a married man, twice my age and who happens to be my best friends dad. He isn't married to my friends mum he is married to another woman...
    Beckio Beckio 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    So I tried going on a date with someone else. What a disaster. All I kept thinking was how my mm wouldn't do it like that etc. I left after an hour. I just couldn't carry on, there...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    So Confused! - Ive been seeing a MM for the past 3yrs. The other night we were in the same place where we had our first date. It was kinda funny thinking back on the first time we...
    gjvargas gjvargas 31-35 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    Being The X Other Woman - He is such a Liar ! and a such a Coward ! His wife found out about our 2 year affair last week, he asked me to get a house for us so we would finally be...
    Mow64 Mow64 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    Struggling With Being The Other Woman And Married - I am having an affair with a married man that I previously worked with. I too am married. I have had this affair for 3 years. I...
    fireball0830 fireball0830 36-40, F 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Uk based Research... Please Read. - NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jan 2, 2011

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    How Can This Be? - Its been 8 months since we started to email each other. 7 months since we had met. 6 months since we added sex into our relationship. 1 week since we have said...
    Teeliner Teeliner 41-45 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    Finding It Hard - I was happy in my relationship with C and devastated when he was sent to prison.  About 3 months into his sentence i started having an affair with M who is...
    Memoriesofyou Memoriesofyou 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I Want To Hear From A Mm That Has A Mistress. - I would love to chat or get any insight to what you MM deal with on a daily basis when you are living at home with your wife and...
    gjvargas gjvargas 31-35 3 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    I've been seeing my mm for 14 months now. What started as a no strings added extra for both of us has turned into something more complex than I ever imagined. I honestly don't...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    He Did It To Her (again And Again..). Of Course He Can Do It To Me Too...!!! - In short, he is such a big fat liar in a relationship. He pretended so well, our relationship went...
    IdaLuv IdaLuv 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    So, after 18 years of trying and her finally getting him she now doesn't want kids she is pregnant. He came over so we could chat. She is nearly 4 months so fell in October which...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    We met on a website, honest from the beginning what he wanted. It suited me, I had just split with my husband and wanted no strings sex, a married man was the only option for me...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F Jan 25

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    I don't know what to do. I don't want to stop but sometimes I feel bad.
    jepc jepc 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    We connected at a business convention. I was crushed to find out he was married and just avoided him when I could until that night when we were drinking. We got very friendly and...
    kathleen05 kathleen05 36-40, F Mar 8

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    Decided not to talk to mm in a few days and he's upset. Leaving voice mails and text messages...the relationship is strictly platonic and he's acting as if I should be available to...
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F Feb 28

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    Im in love with a married man that is 19 years older than me. I am also married. We both have children, not together. It started out as a fwb fling. Than we both admitted to...
    taurus561989 taurus561989 22-25, F Feb 27

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    I am a college student who is currently having an affair with married man. It began as a way for me to cope with the lack of intimacy and general attention that I was getting in...
    yellowfever1 yellowfever1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I need to bring you up to speed so you can understand where my mind is right now. So we met online. Our first meet was in a pub, I fancied him from the word go, we shared tapas and...
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F Jan 26

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    London based Research... Are You Interested? - NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 2, 2011

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    London based Research... Are You Interested? - NB: I am carrying out some London, UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 2 Responses Sep 2, 2011

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    Internal Battle With This Affair - I'm having an affair with a married man, who is also an alcoholic. I'm been with him for over 3 years, i tried so many times to leave him and...
    sunshine55 sunshine55 51-55 2 Responses Jan 30, 2009

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    Affair - I am divorced. I have known this guy for over 20 years, we used to work together and we were attracted to each other all those years ago but never acted on our feelings...
    KYsunshine KYsunshine 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    *update* London based Research... Are You Interested? - Following my previous posts about research regarding the other woman I am now conducting a quick survey which i would be...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 14, 2012

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    We met in a 3 month long nursing class & work together. He knew dad & came to His funeral. He surprisingly kissed me out of the blue at a bar after some drinks & told me about his...
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    I have a bf, he has a wife. My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
    redautumnleaves redautumnleaves 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I get so aroused by the fact that my wife is having an online affair with another man. They exchange pics and chat every day. I get so turned in by it. Anyone want to chat about...
    Sportybhoy Sportybhoy 46-50, M 8 Responses Apr 6

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F 6 days ago

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    I probably shouldn't be admitting this, but I need to express it. So mostly everyone that knows me on here knows that I cheated on my fiancé and I've been pretty torn up about...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I have been married for 5 years, together almost 10. I am 29 and met my husband the second day of college. I broke up with him several times before we got married but always went...
    zkjk1112 zkjk1112 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    DENIAL. ANGER. BARGAINING. DEPRESSION. ACCEPTANCE. High School Sophomore Year Health Class. The 5 stages of loss. "It doesn't necessarily always happen in this order, nor does it...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Apr 1

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    BALANCE. TRANQUILITY. DOOM. A long time ago, I was told that my mentality of "Balance" was self-proclaimed. I believe that something good happens to me, something just as equally...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 Apr 6

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Ending my relationship With a married man. Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man, who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm seeing a married man that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1