I Having An Affair

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    I have an affair with a man twice my age

    and I think I'm falling for him. Both of us are partnered, which makes it complicated. I enjoyed spending time with him whenever he's in town. Sex was always good, credits wend to him. He's a successful person, but while I respected him a lot because of what he achieved, I was...
    patronus90 patronus90
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 2, 2014

    I'm engaged now to my bf n we were totally in

    love and I was very happy with him . But, about 3 or 4 months ago I met a guy online who happens to be married but he lives in a very far country than me . We started to talk n he was so nice to me he shared everything with me n so did I . One day he came up to me saying I'm...
    itsme14 itsme14
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    Married...But Not To Each Other...

    I posted my story of how we started under my old profile, so I'm not going to post the whole thing again...Basically, I met a man while waiting in line for over an hour for lunch. We had great conversation, gave him my card & kept talking once back @ work. The first time we met...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    With my neighbor, and her husband don't

    even know, best oral ever and she swolloes
    SoccerStar69 SoccerStar69
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 30, 2014


    After 17 years of marriage and having real crappy sex, I have crossed the line. I feel like a teenager again.
    gulliblejoe gulliblejoe
    46-50, M
    Sep 1, 2013

    I love him so much, it's hard to explain.

    I shouldn't but I do! I hold on to dreams and hopes with the love of my life. One day.... Maybe it's his dreams and hope too :)
    dsuzy dsuzy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2014

    Do long distance relationships really work?

    I just want to be someone's someone not just someone to someone !
    dsuzy dsuzy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    I've been married for 9 years

    and living in sexless marriage for 7 years. For a better job opportunity, my husband moved back to his country 5 years ago while I stay back in my home country looking after my business. I've had multiple affairs (with 3 different men, not at the same time) since he left...
    toxicwoman toxicwoman
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    Not Sure What To Make Of It???

    I happen to stumble on this site & the stories & people writing their feelings are inspiring. I thought I could share a situation I am dealing with presently & perhaps get some good advice. A little background to bring you all to present situation. I am 52, married 27 years, 2...
    gurlzgotglitterinherveins gurlzgotglitterinherveins
    56-60, F
    11 Responses Sep 24, 2013

    I am married, 40 yo with 2 young kids I love

    more than life itself. I have a great relationship with my wife, but have had a girlfriend for 7 years. She's much younger than me, and has dated a few others during our time together. I absolutely love her. But cannot get myself to leave my family. My wife is a great mother...
    wiredtens wiredtens
    36-40, M
    Jan 4, 2014

    Q: Why does there have to be an "end game"?

    If you're both married and enjoying the occasional-ness of your contact, why can't life roll on as is? Or am I wearing rose colored glasses?
    Italianshore Italianshore
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    My MM's birthday is this Sunday,

    but he's taking this Friday off so we can spend it together. Any suggestions on what I can do for him? What have you done with your lovers before on their birthdays?
    4bdnluv 4bdnluv
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2014

    Thinking about stepping back some.

    MM and I have been together two years this October. I even moved to the same town a year ago .... But yesterday I found out he may be moving back to Tennessee because his wife loss her job. He says we'll still see each other somehow. I just don't know how. We've lived 15 mins...
    dsuzy dsuzy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2014

    I'm feeling some sorta way tonight.

    My mm was moving today to a different state. Had no choice really his wife lost her job and they needed to move back home. I can't help but feel like he left me although he says this will work out better for us. I'll even get to spend the night with him like I've always wanted...
    dsuzy dsuzy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

    Having My Cake And Eating It...

    Oh yes I am one of those women. For several years I have had affairs. I don't look for it they always find me. I am very happy with my partner and love him so much. There is nothing wrong in our relationship. My new affair is only a few months old. He is single so I know it won...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    Dating A Married Man

    Dating a married man Hello, Finally a place where I can talk about my experience, and get feedback from people that are in my same position. I am single, divorced with children. I have been divorced for about 10 years now, dated here and there, never meeting anyone I was...
    1l6e1u6pjo 1l6e1u6pjo
    5 Responses May 27, 2010

    Marriage must be joke to everyone.

    I mean in country where people still fight to get married people treated like it some sort of joke out. While for some reason it's in hands of Supreme Court. Cause they need to "protect sanctuary of marriage" but they wanna ban my rights. So wanna keep breaking hearts!
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    Considering Leaving Your Wife For The Other Woman? The BIG Risk !

    I have a friend who actually left his wife and family to be with the OW. He said that for about 3 Months he was still in "affair mode" and everything was perfect . . he was sooo happy (and I remember this stage with him), then the rot set in. He suddenly saw major faults in...
    JayBee23 JayBee23
    Nov 6, 2013

    Today It Comes Out

    I have been having an affair with a black man for almost 6 months now. I love it and him and want to leave my husband. I feel young again and free.
    Sexylizbeth Sexylizbeth
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    I feel like I should let go of my married man

    because it might be getting in the way of finding an actual healthy relationship I could be having with someone that isn't married. Idk. He called this morning wanting to come over. It's just sex, really. I didn't answer. Idk how I feel abt this right now.
    skittles1982 skittles1982
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2014

    I find myself lost unsure how to proceed.

    Here's my story... I dated a guy when I was 18 he was 28 we dated 2 years and had a super strong connections (soul mates) we ended things because he was living the rock star life he was a lead singer in a band and he went away on tour I was young and stupid and gave up...never...
    mom2dotnjr mom2dotnjr
    31-35, F
    Jan 2, 2016

    I Am Having An Affair With Someone Much Younger

    I have been married for almost 20 years and was only 19 when I got married. I grew up in a strict religious culture that pretty much forbids everything and you are encouraged to marry young and start a family. I did everything I was taught hoping/believing that it was the only...
    conflictedchick conflictedchick
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2013

    Never Had An Affair

    Not sure if I really want an affair or a casual relationship with a trusted friend
    deleted deleted
    Oct 10, 2013

    OMG!!! I can't believe what happened to me last

    night with my MM.. He told me he wants me to leave my H. He said he wants to also leave his W and not only that he also said he wants us to have a baby. I'm in shock. He said he knows this won't happen overnight, but that he wants us to think about it and contemplate this. I...
    4bdnluv 4bdnluv
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2015

    I want more than our bubble.

    ... I want a lifetime.
    dsuzy dsuzy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2014
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