I Hit My Boyfriend When I Was Drunk

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 69 People

    After a few months of chasing me around

    and basically trying to win my heart I started dating a wonderful man who then moved me to Europe to live with him and meet his family. I had had one reservation about the relationship which was that he was still very close to an ex g/f who is sick with a degenerative disease. I...
    LAlove7 LAlove7
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    Hit Boyfriend When Drunk

    A few weeks ago I got so drunk, i punched my boyfriend in the face. He eventually forgave me after much persuasion but then it happened again last night. We had gone out for a meal with his friends and got back to his flat and I made a total fool of myself in front of...
    lynds260 lynds260
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2009

    Me and my boyfriend have been going out

    for 15 months and on April fools day he cheated on me! Out of all days! I have been abit of a pickle lately to him, I do take part responsibility as I haven't been the best gf to him due to I'm very stressed because of work & health problems. I have said things I regret, but...
    tigerlilyy25 tigerlilyy25
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 6, 2014

    He Called Me Ugly

    I hit him when he came back from a long nites work at 3 AM and found me trying to throw a brick threw the window of his mom's house. he told me i was ugly when we were fighting, throwing each other to the curb. i was BEING ugly and he said that later, but i feel like that is how...
    lilyholic lilyholic
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 8, 2013

    I Am So Ashamed Of Myself

    I hit my boyfriend 2 nights ago, I am so ashamed of myself, this has happened twice before in the last few months, each time I am been really drunk. This didnt happen before. I know why I do it, you wouldnt have to have a psycology degree - my dad hit my mum, grew up...
    athiest athiest
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 15, 2009

    Flashbacks

    My past to me seems like one long nightmare, and through meditation and the different life I'm living now, with a bright future, it fades away for the most part when I'm sober. I admit to drinking too much however, especially this summer, and I've begun to realize that I...
    bluecheezeish bluecheezeish
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2013

    I Can't Understand Why I Do The Things I Do When I Drink.

    On the 4th of July I hit my boyfriend. We haven't been dating for long but we're crazy about eachother. I have absolutely no reason at all to hit him. The day leading up to the incident was great. We went to the springs had a ton of laughs and watched fireworks. The whole day I'd...
    Anonymousicepick Anonymousicepick
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2012

    I Feel Awful... :(

    This past Saturday night, me and my BF of over a year went to my friends bday party. Everyone was drunk and having a good time. Right before she wanted to cut the cake, someone my bf is friends with came up to me and said he had danced with this slutty girl that was there twice...
    Kaywier92 Kaywier92
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2012

    Hit My Boyfriend and Kicked Him Out Of The House We Shared

    So i wasnt drunk, but i did it none the less. Here's the story- i had been dating this guy for just under a year and we lived together, we had also been best non sexual friends for 6 years previous to that. the relationship was  fair to ok with just a bit of extra...
    bunnycaufield bunnycaufield
    22-25
    Apr 8, 2010

    This story is not about hitting my boyfriend,

    it's about hitting my girlfriend. But since I am also a girl, it seemed somehow more appropriate to place it with the hitting my boyfriend stories. About three and a half weeks ago I got blakcout drunk, my girlfriend was also out drinking, but seperately. I hadn't gotten this...
    coolplate coolplate
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 31, 2013

    I hit my boyfriend when I was drunk about two

    weeks ago. I completely regret it and would do anything to take it back. I'm in high school, I know I shouldn't be drinking, clearly from this experience, but I truly am not like hitting someone at all, it terrified me that I did that and I can't stop reliving that moment. I can...
    jelly4849 jelly4849
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2014

    Bad Joke

    Last night me and my boyfriend were at a party with about ten of his friends. We had a great time, but I guess I had a bit too much to drink. Suddenly one of our mutual friends started talking about how my boyfriend had gotten a bit too close with a couple of female twins at a...
    Ureshii Ureshii
    18-21
    Mar 5, 2012

    His Pain And Mine

    My bf and I have been together for one year, one year. He's a beautiful person on the inside and out. From the moment we met, we have been the best of friends. Always joined at the hip. The other day, I invited him to come have a few drinks together after work, and before we...
    Kylekirkland Kylekirkland
    22-25
    Aug 24, 2011

    Hurt My Boyfriend

    Last week my boyfriend dumped me after a disagreement got a bit physical. Neither of us seem to be innocent here, but I feel like I took the aggression to a higher level that maybe was not necessary. We went to dinner and met up with some friends at a bar. We were pretty...
    tomorrows tomorrows
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

    I have a problem where

    when I drink too much sometimes I get aggressive. I've done it to my parents and an ex before but nothing like I do to my current love. In the year we've been together its happened 3 times- I'll get wasted and then start whaling on him. The last time scarred me the most because...
    laurendimitra laurendimitra
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    I Hit My Boyfriend When I Was Drunk

    Yesterday my boyfriend and I were at a rugby match separately- he was with his friends and I was with mine. He tried to call me and I missed the call so rang him back. At this point my friends were leaving so I was going to let him know I was going home and see if wanted to join...
    dooberry88 dooberry88
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 12, 2013

    If I Love Him, Why Do I Hit Him?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and during that time we've had a few really big fights - each time I had been drinking and he had not been. I end up hitting him on the arm or legs, throwing something at him (pillows/my phone), saying hurtful things or all...
    shoppjc shoppjc
    26-30
    2 Responses May 23, 2013

    I Drunk To Much And Pyshically Abused My Boyfriend

    On saturday night my boyfirned and i went out.... we had a wonderful time until it all went very wrong! my boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months, he is super busy and we of recent do not get to spend as much time as we used to olus he moved back in with his parents...
    klc787 klc787
    22-25, F
    Mar 12, 2012

    A Year Later

    i went back to college last fall planning for another good year with my boyfriend. within three weeks in it turned quite different. i was walking back drunk with my roommate and he was there. i dont remember why but i was beyond drunk and i just started hitting him on his...
    rustygurl288 rustygurl288
    18-21
    1 Response Aug 23, 2010

    Could Things Really Get Worse?

    I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him to pieces. When were good, were really good, but when were bad, were just awful. weve always been arguing a lot but we try to work through it. We stopped getting into arguments recently, but we started again last week...
    heeyy heeyy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2012

    I Attacked My Boyfriend While I Was Blackout Drunk

    My boyfriend treats me with the utmost respect and gives me one of the purest forms of love I've ever received in my life. I never thought I would find someone that would treat me so nice. I'm absolutely devastated, I attacked him last night when I was blackout drunk. I even...
    RainbowLaura RainbowLaura
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

    Had Too Much to Drink, and Hit Him.

    Last week, I was entirely immature and drank way more than I could handle.  I don't rememer what happened, but from what my boyfriend told me I got so angry he couldn't control me.  I ended up punching him in the face twice.  I don't remember this at all.  He...
    hockeyfan08 hockeyfan08
    22-25
    6 Responses May 28, 2009

    I Hit My Boyfriend When I Was Drunk

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years, and i tell you the 1st year and a half was the worst but greatest. Our love was fresh, we loved each others company and we loved loved making love. And we both loved to drink....which is not a very great mix. so we find out...
    mizzJess mizzJess
    26-30, F
    Aug 1, 2012

    Anger, Depressed And Scared For Myself

    Hi everyone, I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for 2 years now and I have hit my boyfriend twice after arguing with him while I was blackout drunk. I seriously don't remember doing it both times and it has been killing me that I have done this to him. What's also scaring...
    ilaguila824 ilaguila824
    18-21
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

    It was New Years eve my bf

    and i were at my family's house, we were all drinking and having a good time, after the countdown we gave each other our new years kiss. i went upstairs with my bf i told him he was being distant he started to raise his voice, and we argued for a bit i just walked away after...
    vs26 vs26
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    Im An Awful Girlfriend

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i know that he's the one for me and i definitely want to spend the rest of my life with him.  a year ago he started college and moved 200 miles away. It changed our relationship  because i was so upset he left. Anyway last...
    princesscm princesscm
    18-21
    Oct 24, 2010

    We've been dating going on 3 years

    and last year was a real emotional train wreck for me. My family at one point was physically abusive to me and it progressed into emotional abuse on a regular basis so I'm already a bit of a loose cannon. Some days where I've drank way past my limit, I've blacked out and can't...
    sandragee333 sandragee333
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 20, 2015

    I Hit My Boyfriend Last Night.

    I don't know what happened. I was drunk (I normally drink a lot and can handle it fine, I don't know what was different last night). He told me that I grabbed him, ripped his tshirt, threw him to the floor in the street, and in the house I punched him in the face and somehow...
    Ripley123 Ripley123
    31-35
    5 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    Drunken Mistake

    I'm looking for woman who have had a similar experience and can give me some advice. I've been seing my partner for one year and we are verry happy. We went out saturday night and i got so drunk i cant remember the end of the night. My partner came the next day for his things and...
    twinslouise twinslouise
    31-35
    4 Responses Aug 2, 2012

    A Sorry Story

    A long time ago my boyfriend told me that once in our relationship he had cheated on me and that we had to break up because he wasn't sure I could or would ever really forgive him. It broke my heart that he was leaving me, so much that I hardly cared what had happened. He was...
    arizonaspecialt arizonaspecialt
    18-21
    Feb 8, 2011

    Had Too Much to Drink, and Hit Him.

    Last week, I was entirely immature and drank way more than I could handle.  I don't rememer what happened, but from what my boyfriend told me I got so angry he couldn't control me.  I ended up punching him in the face twice.  I don't remember this at all.  He...
    hockeyfan08 hockeyfan08
    22-25
    1 Response May 28, 2009

    I'm going out with my boyfriend nearly two years

    and we get on great, have had few issues but have gotten on with it. He is the most gentle caring loving person I have ever met. Anyway when I drink I can be okay have fun, until something changes and I become a nasty *****. I slapped my boyfriend bout something that I got my...
    drew0102 drew0102
    26-30, F
    Jun 30, 2015

    We had an amazing time together

    that whole day. We went out to eat, played games together, watched a show he hated (and ended up making fun of the whole thing) and laughing! It was a perfect day to start out with. He was my best friend who couldn't stop making me laugh and the man I fell I love with when we...
    HurtingLover HurtingLover
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    There's No Excuse

    I hit my boyfriend three times in the face on Saturday while I was extremely drunk. I don't used that as an excuse, just adding it as a fact.My boyfriend would never hit me back and was really upset. He finished with me on the spot but, after hours of me basically pleading with...
    spursbird spursbird
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    Lashed Out...

    This past Sunday my boyfriend and I went out for some drinks to a local bar and had a great time. We played pool and enjoyed ourselves but I drank a little too much. As he was dropping me off at my house I do not remember how it started but I do remember hitting and kicking him...
    eddgee eddgee
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2011

    I have been dating my boyfriend

    for a little over 2 years and this was my 3rd time hitting him, all times were when I was drinking heavily. We both love each other, and love to party together and drink together which I now realize is a problem for me. I have never done this before to anyone and I love him, and...
    AnaRose716 AnaRose716
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

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