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I Hit My Husband

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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer 26-30, F May 26

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I don't think the title of this group is specific enough. Nobody should hit anybody, but if a woman started attacking me for no good reason, I would definitely hit back. Should I...
    annoyedagnostic annoyedagnostic 18-21, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    For about three years my husband and I have been working with a neighbor (44 year old male) who is a drug addict and alcoholic to try and get him some help. Last night the neighbor...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 13 Responses Jul 12

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    I read all of the stories and I can relate to them my husband was the sort of man that women adore beautiful in everyway but he is a functioning alcoholic .So I did it I left my...
    sunshineonarainyday sunshineonarainyday 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm trying to do the right thing not only for myself, but for my family, especially for my beautiful baby daughter, to whom I might never apologize enough for not choosing well her...
    mery81 mery81 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I post this for a friend who as we speak is locked inside for a 5th consecutive day being subjected to emotional torment after telling her abusive husband she wants to leave the...
    PerseveringMark PerseveringMark 31-35 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ok, warning this is going to be long! I am at a loss in life. I have been married for almost 10 yrs, with him for almost 15. Things between us were always good,( not perfect of...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer (stage 4), 18 months ago. It has been so hard to watch the love of my life slowly dying over these past months. He is fighting for his...
    Catnipp Catnipp 46-50, F 14 hrs ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful man last night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I just...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful man last night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I just...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    UGH... So this really upset me cause this guy used to be a really close friend in High school. I will admit I had a bit of a crush on him at first then, he had a a few quirks I...
    kyla1098 kyla1098 22-25, F Jul 4

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    I found out today, his 4 day fling 2 years ago was actually a year long ordeal. I got cursed bc of her, hit, held at gunpoint bc I wouldn't let him leave in my car, abandoned...
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F Jul 8

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    Any man that lays his hand on a woman should be punished. No I'm not saying it's okay for a woman to hit a guy either, because that's not right. But when a guy says a woman puts...
    Getcrunk12 Getcrunk12 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 25

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    I don't know what to do anymore. I have a boyfriend. He.s 4 years younger than me (I.m 22 and he.s 18). We.ve been dating for 6 months now. My parents don.t like him cause he.s...
    PoisonCherry PoisonCherry 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I don't even know where to begin. First of all me and my husband have 21 grandchildren and he is only partial to a few of them...the rest he is indifferent but to this one...
    LavondaCausey LavondaCausey 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Well I flew to California to visit my parents. My mom threw me a baby shower. It was lovely . We didnt talk much about my husband...I didn't blame her. She wanted to keep the mood...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I can't stand being apart from him, mostly when we are away from home. Him being at work doesn't bother me if I'm in the comfort of my own home. I don't particularly like going to...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This happened several years ago. We were driving from Saint-Petersburg (the one, which is in northwest Russia) to our county house, which is some 150 miles away. We picked up a...
    acce55den1ed acce55den1ed 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm a guy & I've NEVER hit a girl. & I never will. The man who hits a girl is a coward & should be shot. I don't care if he's had a rough upbringing. That's no excuse to hit one...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    My husband is such a jerk .I I hate his sisters husband and so does everyone that I know this jerk is very disrepectful to me disrepectful twords my family , this thing is the...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My mother-in-law recently became incapacitated. She is elderly and was just hospitalized. I spent three days with my husband and other family members at the hospital. I get along...
    kt65 kt65 46-50 1 Response Jul 7

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My husbands affair last year has been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Even the loss of my dear lovely mum couldn't compare to his affair. You see he was the perfect husband...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I hate getting Hit on. I know i'm pretty, thanks. But i'm more than that, also. I'm not a Piece of meat to be drooled over, im not The Girl That needs your attention. (I get that...
    MissViciousDelicious MissViciousDelicious 26-30, F Jun 25

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    Why Did You Do It?? ​ Growing up i see my mum go through so much pain mentally and physically and it seemed what ever direction she went she went the wrong way and just could't...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jun 30

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    Ugh I can't say how many times I've had a guy stare at me creepily or a guy twice my age talk to me, trying to get to know me and be my 'friend'. Like find women your own age to...
    erika514 erika514 16-17, F 60 Responses Jul 15

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    Like y r u hitting on me if u r way older then me.....that's weird I probably had every 3 people there is 1 person older then me that's hitting on me.....like ew
    darecassy darecassy 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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