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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer 26-30, F May 26, 2014

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2014

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    I've been married 10 years

    and we have 2 kids. I'm a stay at home mom, and we've moved around a lot, so I don't have many close friends and I'm far from my family. I'm very isolated and dependent on him. Lately we've been fighting a lot because I don't trust him. About 7 years ago when I was pregnant with...
    aiyahs aiyahs 26-30, F Dec 1, 2014

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I hit my husband last Sunday night.

    He works away and he came home for the first time in a month. Stopped at his local hangout and got drunk before coming home. I've never hit anyone. Not even a slap. I asked him what was going on what had changed why he wouldn't talk to me. He told me just to go to bed. I mean it...
    lostwife1018 lostwife1018 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2014

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    Ugh! I have been married with an amazing man for a few years but can't kick the ex wife thing! How do you deal with a greedy manipulative, no boundaries, talks about herself and is...
    steny steny 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Now let's be honest dont u IMAGNE a great loving husband and amazing kids. And that U are not gAnna fight. Well your Wrong sure U can say BUT WE LOVE EACH OTHER. Look at UR parents...
    stelliester stelliester 13-15, F Feb 13

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    I really do not know where to begin. I know hate is a strong word but I really hate the person he is fits better. We have been married almost 7 years and the last 2 have been...
    triedofit triedofit 41-45 Feb 15

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    I am 20 years old, and my husband is almost 26. Neither of us have been raised in a domestic discipline household, and we have alot of arguments and fights over me not listening to...
    LovedByNoOne LovedByNoOne 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We got pregnant and then terminated due to medical reasons at 22weeks gestation. It was so hard. The worse thing we've ever been through. He couldn't make a decision so I made the...
    aussiegirl2014 aussiegirl2014 26-30, F Feb 4

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    It's frustrating, because the married man wants to talk to me and get to know me and talk about sex to me, but all the while he is still "in love" with his wife. I don't...
    giggletree giggletree 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years now. We have no kids together, and he has 1 son from a previous marriage. When I moved in to my husbands house (8 years ago...
    bbstorm bbstorm 26-30, F Feb 13

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    Hitchens vs. McGrath, Georgetown University Q & A AUDIENCE MEMBER 13: Hi. So it turns out if you follow the money trail back for a lot of these things, this whole creationism...
    findmeholdmehasbeenfound findmeholdmehasbeenfound 18-21 5 days ago

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    I do everything I can to make my husband pleased with me, and proud of me, and I respect and honor him as my husband and as head of our home. It is a choice I freely make, every...
    candichest candichest 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Leaving your spouse once you have children together. Once you've been a stay at home Mom even with a degree working part time but taking care of all my expenses and my daughters...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F Feb 18

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    I feel bad that I do but I do. My husband and I have been together for 8 years and married for 5 months so I feel that it's wrong for me to resent him for his ways when I've known...
    Javail5 Javail5 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    The way I see it, any woman a guy hits is another guy's daughter. I may not be a father, but I am an uncle. I know it's not the same as being a father, but I still love my niece...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M Feb 21

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    Beware the irrational, however seductive. Shun the ‘transcendent’ and all who invite you to subordinate or annihilate yourself. Distrust compassion; prefer dignity for yourself...
    findmeholdmehasbeenfound findmeholdmehasbeenfound 18-21 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    If you are the douchebag who cut ME off and then hit your breaks, then get over like I almost hit you then flip me off with your big old nasty hot dog finger, then proceed to try...
    lezbihonest93 lezbihonest93 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't only think it...I did it...with someone "I've always wondered about.."sexually" that is. I love my husband to bits....we have a great relationship, friends first then...
    jackedup1 jackedup1 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    so my husband's ex girlfriend just facebooked my husband and said I wish you and your wife could come and visit. my husband has to work overnight and he told her that. and she was...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    This maybe a bit lengthy so I'll apologize in advance.. My husband and I married in October 2013, found out I was pregnant in February 2014, "separated" due to his drug addiction...
    southernstylist southernstylist 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I believe that wives should follow the teachings of the Bible. Ephesians 5: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord...
    RuthT RuthT 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a first time mom and also having issues with my husband. My beautiful 3 month old baby boy is what's keeping me somewhat sane nowadays. My husband want things done his way and...
    apolita apolita 31-35, F Feb 1

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    Open to my husband I miss you so damn much it hurts every day. Why did you have to love her more then us? What did she give you that we couldn't it would have been easier to...
    shaylademps shaylademps 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    my husband has been having an emotional affair with his co-worker for a few months now. He met her last summer and told me he wanted to be friends with her. Thinking it would just...
    brvnx brvnx 26-30, F Feb 4

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    I love and adore my wonderful husband. We have been married for 18 years and we have 4 girls and two boys. Our kids are ages 11, 12, 15, 17, 18, and 21. I was a teenage mom and...
    momalldressedup momalldressedup 36-40, F Feb 5

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    my husband was 20 and I was 24 when we met. I had 3 boys with me ex husband and he had no kids. of course everyone thought he was crazy for wanting to be with me. he got a lawyer...
    cly4life82 cly4life82 31-35, F Feb 7

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    My husband just got the first of many of his bags.. He just came in, got some stuff and left. We haven't been together that long. Married only a few months. Dating two years. I...
    nikkionelove nikkionelove 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    The sister of my wife used my laptop to check her Facebook account, and she kept her session open, I know it's bad, but I was curious who she's talking to, then I found that she's...
    goog987 goog987 26-30, M Feb 9

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    Omg, I am so happy I found this site I literally hate husband. He is a no good, drunk, who can't stay with a job for more than a week. He is a lousy husband, terrible father, and...
    kel619 kel619 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    I love my husband with all my heart but I honestly think he resents me as we hardly have sex anymore. After the birth of my daughter (18 months ago) I was diagnosed with...
    sarahjess15 sarahjess15 26-30, F Feb 13

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