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I Hit My Husband

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I hit my husband last Sunday night.

    He works away and he came home for the first time in a month. Stopped at his local hangout and got drunk before coming home. I've never hit anyone. Not even a slap. I asked him what was going on what had changed why he wouldn't talk to me. He told me just to go to bed. I mean it...
    lostwife1018 lostwife1018 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer 26-30, F May 26

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    I wonder if others have this experience. At the time I met my now husband, I had a drug problem, an abundant sexual appetite, and I drank too much. In general I was frying my brain...
    birdlover9 birdlover9 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    It was our anniversary and I planned a sexy surprise for my husband. The moment he reached home he rang the door bell, I was inside but didn't opened the door. He tried to call me...
    priyankapatel131089 priyankapatel131089 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    My friends had a meeting earlier for their trip next month and they invited me to join them. I had nothing to do in the morning so I went with them to their meeting. They had a...
    Sasori08 Sasori08 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    My husband has a had a best femal friend since before we got married. After we got married, we had problems in the first year and he went to her about it! I soon found out and not...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    My husband put anything and everything before me. He would rather talk to anyone else but me. I repeatedly tell him how I feel and he doesn't make any changes. I feel like he just...
    Tcallen Tcallen 31-35 5 hrs ago

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    This experience site cracks me up. I literally laugh out loud at all the women who hate their husbands. Not because I think their situations are funny. The opposite. I can't...
    cleophoenix cleophoenix 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I wish i could say my father was a stupid man. but hes not. hes incredibly intelligent and controlling. In front of people hes charming and sweet, and he seems very open minded...
    n706 n706 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I got hit by a car on Halloween. Hit me right in the hip when I was crossing a parking lot into another parking lot. I live in a small town so I was close to a stop sign or two...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F Nov 2

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    like seriously it doesn't make you any more of a man to hit a lady that is a #1 rule for me i don't f****** care what the girl did i don't care if she hits you it doesn't give...
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    History always repeats itself for me. After the horrible Thanksgiving I had last year My husband has invited his dysfunctional alcoholic family again I've had enough bring yelled...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know it didn't come on suddenly, but my realization that it was true did. It was the moment another lie came spilling out of his mouth as freely as water through a hole. It wasn...
    PoisonedApplePrincess PoisonedApplePrincess 26-30, F Nov 7

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    I have been with my husband for more than 5 years. His ex wife is the epitome of drama & so are his children. He & his ex divorced more than 12 years ago. The kids are all over the...
    fedupwithallofthem fedupwithallofthem 36-40, F Nov 11

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My bestfriend a rottweiler got hit by a car on 10/24/14 finding my dog outside my house, after he got hit by a car already passed away eyes still open. he wanted to come back and...
    theyellowlambo theyellowlambo 18-21, M Oct 26

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    After since Chris brown hit Rihanna. I'm not a fan of him. I don't care about him at all. He doesn't deserve to be a artist anymore. He a women beater. I can't believe women are...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 13

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    Help please. I have come to this place where I have made an appointment with a lawyer. I'm just tired. I wanted so badly to keep our family together so that I could see my babies...
    Regrets1230 Regrets1230 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When my husband and I first met, it was unlike anything I've experienced. He was incredibly sweet, attentive, caring, funny and exciting. He swept me off my feet with his sense of...
    survas79 survas79 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I had an emotional affair two years ago, and my husband has yet to forgive me. He throws it in my face all the time; even on good days he has thrown it in my face. I really put...
    fatgirl17 fatgirl17 31-35, F Oct 24

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    My husband has aspergers and bipolar disorder. I have bipolar disorder and suffer abandonment issues from my childhood due to losing both my parents very young. We have a one year...
    BriMcD BriMcD 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    Unless she hits first, it's never acceptable to hit a woman
    Oscar89 Oscar89 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 27

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    I am a working mom and working overseas for the past 8 years. I tried to bring my daughter with me but she did not like the country where I work that's why she went back to our...
    Lovingtoomuch Lovingtoomuch 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I've been married for 3 years. Two years ago my husband quit his job to study a master's degree, at first everything was good. He was getting some money from the school and we were...
    LenaT4 LenaT4 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 2

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    It is bad that a guy hits a girl, but... It is also bad if a guy is hit too, especially when he did not deserve it because he is a nice guy or the gal is a b***h. I don't hate...
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M Nov 4

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    If a female hits a man,(like really tries to hurt him) then they better be damn well prepared to be hit back.
    Conspiracys Conspiracys 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    The last few nights have been really pretty restless and even though he was laying next to me, he's all I could think about. What he has done for me and for us, what he has done...
    Blessedlyloved Blessedlyloved 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    I'm a guy myself and I hate guys who hit women. Guys are meant to take car of women. Like women give birth to guys, without women guys wouldn't have kids and all. Women must be...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    In my case the experience should read " my husband IS having an emotional affair " With half a dozen women on line! And doesn't feel that it has and will keep having a negative...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    Worse still are how many men succeed in covering up they are abusers. Through intimidation. Or big talk of how they hate men that do. Usually talking with violence toward the...
    GivaCafeMatin GivaCafeMatin 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    Is it my turn yet? My name is Shannon ,I am forty years old and I have been married for 20 years, I have 3 beautiful children; ages 19, 17 and 15. My children have been my number...
    star1301 star1301 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22

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    I have been with my husband for 13 years and married for 9. We have 3 boys. Our oldest is from a previous relationship of my husbands. Recently I found out he has been using meth...
    karalicious karalicious 26-30, F Oct 22

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