I Hit My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 6, 2010

    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544
    31-35
    1 Response Sep 30, 2011

    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2014

    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2014

    my man kept calling me his ex's name.

    some recent night ago on a night out he did so again and as I should have and did, I decided to give him a cold shoulder. He left and went home. after an hour or two I went home and he tried to block my way to the bathroom. I pushed him to get my way and that's when things...
    liferm liferm
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 17, 2015

    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab
    31-35, F
    Jun 17, 2011

    We have been together

    for 4 years. I hit him a lot when I'm angry. I have punched holes in the wall and broke a windsheild. I have so much angry built up in me from sexual abuse as a child and have never seemed to get rid of it. I have tried therapy and counseling for years with no luck. I learned to...
    chococataccino chococataccino
    22-25, F
    Nov 24, 2015

    I've been married 10 years

    and we have 2 kids. I'm a stay at home mom, and we've moved around a lot, so I don't have many close friends and I'm far from my family. I'm very isolated and dependent on him. Lately we've been fighting a lot because I don't trust him. About 7 years ago when I was pregnant with...
    aiyahs aiyahs
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2010

    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr
    41-45
    1 Response Dec 13, 2011

    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare
    51-55
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2013

    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 2, 2010

    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer
    26-30, F
    May 26, 2014

    I hit my husband last Sunday night.

    He works away and he came home for the first time in a month. Stopped at his local hangout and got drunk before coming home. I've never hit anyone. Not even a slap. I asked him what was going on what had changed why he wouldn't talk to me. He told me just to go to bed. I mean it...
    lostwife1018 lostwife1018
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2014

    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady
    22-25
    1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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