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I Hit My Husband

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer 26-30, F May 26

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I hit my husband last Sunday night.

    He works away and he came home for the first time in a month. Stopped at his local hangout and got drunk before coming home. I've never hit anyone. Not even a slap. I asked him what was going on what had changed why he wouldn't talk to me. He told me just to go to bed. I mean it...
    lostwife1018 lostwife1018 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I have given my very best and its never good enough.i know what a wife should be and i am more than that.i have no one to talk to.when i talk to him about personal things during a...
    rece1117 rece1117 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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    because my brother just came into my room and said f you then hit me on the head so I hit him back and it got really out of hand he slammed my head I kicked his balls then he just...
    averagegirl993 averagegirl993 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nobody should hit anybody! I hate it when women hit men. They usually hit back and there comes the fight. Don't hit anyone, especially, if it's someone weaker than you.
    ReadyToDieMothafucka ReadyToDieMothafucka 70+, T 1 Response Aug 8

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 Aug 17

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    I can’t tell if I am dreaming or not. One moment I am in a room full of people. The next I feel my body being moved around on a bed and the blurred images and voices are back. I...
    perilousindenvers perilousindenvers 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Earlier today between the hours of 9:00a.m. and 10:30a.m. my sister, cousin, mom, and I were heading to see my brother. My mom was going to give him some money to buy some stuff...
    Djb645 Djb645 18-21, F Jul 29

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    There is NO such thing as a man who hits women because a real man would never hit a woman... If you see or know a man who hits women, you are not looking at a man. You are looking...
    MikjallFimbultyr MikjallFimbultyr 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    December 2012, both my husband and I were questioned for child abuse after we took our child in for a check up and petechiae and bruises were found, but the Department of Family...
    minilule minilule 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Ive only been hit once but my brothers get the belt all the time. Im bipolar and before we knew I was manic and was freaking out and I threw something at my wall and it made a hole...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Hitting is not love. If a man hits a woman once, he doesn't deserve a second chance. His "I'm sorry" and cry baby tears, are bull ****. Don't fall for it ladies. A man leaving...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 11

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    My mother would hit me or my sister with the belt. Like really hard. I remember this one time, my sister and I were fighting with brooms, and I guessed my mother got so annoyed she...
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F Aug 17

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm honestly not the type of person who wants to be alone all the time but I've become somewhat of a hermit lately. My husband is an alcoholic and it seems to keep getting worse...
    nikkib3809 nikkib3809 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    People are always pointing out how much they hate men who hit women (as do I) so I thought I'd remind people that women hit men too...
    OpenMindedGirl1 OpenMindedGirl1 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I used to get beatings with a belt a lot, almost every day by my mother. It would always come down to screaming and crying, but it all stopped the day where she hit me and instead...
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    When I was younger my mom dated several people who hit her, even though I act like it hasn't affected me it does. I keep having flashbacks and nightmares. If your reading this and...
    mjp3898 mjp3898 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 16

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    A couple years ago I was playing softball with my family when my dad hit me a pop up and it hit the ground which was kind of a hill and went to scoop it and it popped up and split...
    erikapaige97 erikapaige97 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    This is fairly long. And true as I can recall. As I wrote it many of the things I lived connected with this bit of autobiography reminded me of other material I need to make time...
    givuperedy givuperedy 56-60, M 1 day ago

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F Aug 17

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I have been with my husband since 9th grade. Friends often ask me what's or secret for a long happy relationship. All I can tell them is that my husband is my best friend, we have...
    Blondeblueyegirl Blondeblueyegirl 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Hello Everyone, I have been a widow now,since November, 2013,and I still miss my husband as much as I did,the day he died. I can't listen to live songs,watch love scenes on TV or...
    missyr1970 missyr1970 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I recently caught my husband chatting on FB inappropriately with a woman. Today I found texts about meeting up with ANOTHER woman. These are both women he knows in real life. I...
    justapalebluedot justapalebluedot 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I would feel a lot more secure if I had a child with my husband. In a basic relationship, even the tiniest things can shake the whole foundation. While in a marriage, it would be...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1