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I Hit My Husband

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2014

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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    I hit my husband last Sunday night.

    He works away and he came home for the first time in a month. Stopped at his local hangout and got drunk before coming home. I've never hit anyone. Not even a slap. I asked him what was going on what had changed why he wouldn't talk to me. He told me just to go to bed. I mean it...
    lostwife1018 lostwife1018 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2014

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    I've been married 10 years

    and we have 2 kids. I'm a stay at home mom, and we've moved around a lot, so I don't have many close friends and I'm far from my family. I'm very isolated and dependent on him. Lately we've been fighting a lot because I don't trust him. About 7 years ago when I was pregnant with...
    aiyahs aiyahs 26-30, F Dec 1, 2014

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer 26-30, F May 26, 2014

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    i just witnessed my aunty being hit by her husband. i dont know whats the reason between them,but really...guys shouldnt hit woman. i'd like to stop her husband badly..but what can...
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    For those of you who, like me, followed Christopher Hitchens and of course miss him dearly, I presume you enjoy reading his work and watching YouTube videos of him. Here is a...
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    When my lovely but strict husband is displeased with my bahviour, I have to bare my behind and bend over for the cane. I do not like the pain, but I like to be put in my place and...
    Helle31 Helle31 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I love and adore my wonderful husband who is also on EP from time to time as PeterTheTherapist.
    Helle31 Helle31 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    Finally made the decision to leave my husband. I wish that better days are ahead.
    blythe19 blythe19 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    Every three years there has been a family tradition of going on a family vacation trip in my husbands family, this was supposed to be the eleventh such trip since my husbands...
    isis55 isis55 51-55, F Mar 22

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    Hi everyone..my husband is an alcoholic.We have three children.Two years ago i left my husband and moved into my parents home with my three children.My husband is a director of a...
    pinkstar8 pinkstar8 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My husband is the dumbest most childish person I have ever met! When people ask how long we've been married, I respond with way too long. Really though, we've only been married...
    dixielanddelight dixielanddelight 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F Apr 4

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My husband is abusive... Physically, emotionally and in every way possible. We've been married for 2 years. I went against my whole family to be with him, and just months into our...
    Faith89 Faith89 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I met my husband 9 years ago. We hit it off as friends immediately and although for him it was love at first sight it took me a couple months to agree to date him....mainly because...
    Sarmo84 Sarmo84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    my x husband raped and beat me. i know this pain. im glad to be free from him today but you never really get free. from the past just heal some
    DeAnnsharon DeAnnsharon 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Well...to be truthful he is not grumpy all of the time... But today has really hit a nerve with me!!!! Sometimes he acts like a little kid if he doesn't get his way.... I asked...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    here's what I think: if a woman hits a man first, he deserves to hit her back. if she thinks she's strong enough to dish it, then she better be strong enough to take it. but if a...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 16-17, T 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I agree that no man should hit a lady, but, we are living in the age where everyone deserves equal rights. so real ladies shouldn't hit men either. there are ladies that will take...
    ramvan ramvan 36-40, M Mar 25

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    I just think it's stupid that people think it's ok for women to hit men but it's unacceptable for men to hit women. I think that if a woman's gonna hit a guy she better expect to...
    dysfnkshnal dysfnkshnal 13-15, F 9 Responses Apr 4

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    So yesterday we were talking about movies and their sequels. My husband: So the fast and the furious sequels just keep getting better. Me: that's such a typical guy film, it...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F Apr 2

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    There are exceptions for a woman hitting a man, and exceptions for a man hitting a woman. Like self defense. Obviously you should hit someone who's endangering you. Whether it's a...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I was driving home from work some years back before cell phones and came upon a kid who was striking his girlfriend while driving the car. He was hitting her so hard that his car...
    bowchickawowow bowchickawowow 41-45, F Apr 5

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    Give Me Back My Children!-In November 1999 I arrived back in the United States after 10 years abroad first in the Army then married. I was back for my father's funeral but I didn't...
    Cherokeebelle Cherokeebelle 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I mean, yes, he is known for his evil acts. Though, I can't help but think Hitler is the only reason for the Jews being tortured. I mean, just because he didn't get into art school...
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband and I have not had sex for the last 5 years. We have been married for 10 years now. Initially I used to make an effort. Now I am just disinterested. Yes, it does get...
    tycoonbabe tycoonbabe 36-40, F Mar 23

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    Well, let me introduce myself. I am a thirty-something year old wife and mother. Roughly 3 years ago, I discovered that my husband of over 10 years was and had been in an actual...
    Aworkingprogression Aworkingprogression 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I have been married to my husband for a year 1 1/2. we have known each other for 3 years...he is the love of my life and a great man he would give the shirt off his back to anyone...
    alwayslove8387 alwayslove8387 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was hit by a car while ago, while picking up pizza with my sister and a friend, we were crossing the street and the guy tried to run the red light and go through a crossing sign...
    anonymus000 anonymus000 16-17, F Mar 19

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    A shirtless blind kid was on the roof of the car and after the car hit me he slid down and hit me with his walking stick a few times then climbed back onto the car and it drove...
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 19