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I Hit My Husband

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F Jan 12, 2013

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2012

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I am looking for help from wives/girlfriends/partners for how to discipline my husband and how to make him become a better husband. He very much wants to learn to become the...
    kclement kclement 46-50, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I am a 29 year old mother of two who is married to a man who has been self destructing for almost the entire last decade. When we met we were only 19 & I was too naive to see how...
    yogibird85 yogibird85 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband is really mean and keeps Threatening to harm me. He hasn't laid a hand on me except one time in the last 2 yrs before then it was very frequent. It's Easter and in front...
    summer705 summer705 36-40, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My husband was diagnosed a year ago at Cleveland Clinic with SFN from sarcoidosis. He has fluid shifts at times, where he feels fluid building in his joints and his known sarcoids...
    SFNwife SFNwife 46-50, F 2 hrs ago

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    To start I got married at 19 and let me say we were so infatuated with each other it was perfect. Shortly after being married his temper sky rocketed, his job was killing him, he...
    cassielee44 cassielee44 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm new to this but decided to go ahead and post my experience. I met my husband when I was 12 years old and at age 15 he took my virginity away. I hung out with him in my early 2...
    Nerilynn Nerilynn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Aside from verbal, emotional and psychological abuse my dad hit my mom. I always ask why would a husband hurt someone they vowed to love for the rest of their lives, someone who's...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It's like....why do it? :o I mean, I don't like it when anyone gets hit, but when I hear stories of husbands beating on their wives, it just.....Grrrrr! It makes my blood boil...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 24

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    I can't believe I'm in this position. He seemed to be the antithesis of the things that worried me most about my father. They say you tend to marry your father and my father was...
    TennesseeTina TennesseeTina 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I hit my boyfriend and now he is my ex boyfriend. We have been dating for 7 months and I was really in love with him. Something about him started not to seem right with me. He...
    brownbluelips26 brownbluelips26 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    For The Love of Sage- All troubles in my 17 year marriage begin with a little girl called Sage. She is the mixed race child my husband fathered during his 1st year in America...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    This was the first topic I clicked on after I signed up. I thought it was odd, that a woman claiming to dislike being hit on by creepy men, should post a body shot of herself...
    warp9pnt9 warp9pnt9 36-40, M Mar 30

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    I have a distaste for people who say things like "I was hit as a child and I turned out fine" or "Children need to be disciplined". There are so many ways to have discipline...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M Apr 9

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    It amazes me how much the pain of hitting yourself can mask the stress and turmoil of everything else around you. At least that's how it is for me. I mean, hitting myself hurts but...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love a man who is not my husband. This does not diminish the love I have for my husband. It is a different entity all together. But it still makes me feel guilty that I even...
    lyssabee0215 lyssabee0215 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Dear Tech Support, Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slowdown in overall system performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry...
    SinglesAdvice SinglesAdvice 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    As usual I don't know where to start this, but I have to find relief somehow and writing always seems like the best solution. My husband and I have been married for 7 years (it'll...
    factsarefacts factsarefacts 26-30 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Reading all these stories has opened my eyes to how many of us are struggling with such similar problems. I've been married for 4 years. with no kids as i couldn't possibly bare...
    Nutmeg11 Nutmeg11 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I hit a truck to avoid hitting a guy on bike which suddenly changed lane. Now i have a fractured hand and a bike that needs repair.
    nik18 nik18 18-21, M Mar 28

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    This is just how old I am. (This story, btw, is nothing about Naziism or the Holocaust) and only about the event outlined by its name, nothing more. His name was Siegfried Knappe...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M Mar 28

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    Tonight I went a liit further than normal. I wanted to full on abuse myself. I tied my ankles together and then I put a belt snug around my neck, sat on the floor and tied it to...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 Apr 4

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband cheated on me with prostitutes. Two a month ago, and once in 2012, when we were separated. He had that one come to our house while our kids were sleeping upstairs. These...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Where do I even start? Since the day my husband and I got together, she has been non stop at trying to get him back. she used to send him texts saying she was in the shower and...
    Jwatson89 Jwatson89 22-25 Mar 20

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I want to start out saying that I love and care about my husband, but he has been driving me crazy with what I consider selfishness lately. We have been together for 7 years and...
    cmsjay cmsjay 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Your husband doing you are out cheating on him,, Is he cheating on you to? Some husband go to the bar,, some just go on a fishing or hunting trip,, Did you every wondering he...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I'm a 24 year old married, full time student and full time employee. I'm going to school to become a music teacher and am fortunate enough to have a job that works around my school...
    birdyhouse birdyhouse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I am newly married (6 months) and feel I was completely fooled by my husband. My husband and I went to high school together and back then I always knew him and his friends fooled...
    scretsmiles91 scretsmiles91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    My husband childhood wasn't as loving as mine and how I treat my son with love. He has a son and I love him very much but my family always showed love and no difference between...
    richellew richellew 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    My husband isn't dead and he hasn't gone overseas or left for some other adventure. He's simply left. I have had to accept that he is no longer the same person I fell in love with...
    instinctivepurity instinctivepurity 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I have been with my husband for seven years and married for almost six. I'm basically done right now and making a plan to leave. I'll go into his history another time, but the...
    fragmentofthegirl fragmentofthegirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I will never have respect for a man who hits and disrespects his significant other. You're a poor excuse for a man. Men who hit women should undergo castration.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 26

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