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I Hit My Husband

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    I have never done this before,

    my last night I just lost it. My husband and I were having a argument, and I started taunting him (tapping my nails on the wall) when he started to ignore me. He turned around and pushed me into a wall when he walked past. This is not the first time he's done that. He's a...
    orchid2300 orchid2300 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    I hit my husband last Sunday night.

    He works away and he came home for the first time in a month. Stopped at his local hangout and got drunk before coming home. I've never hit anyone. Not even a slap. I asked him what was going on what had changed why he wouldn't talk to me. He told me just to go to bed. I mean it...
    lostwife1018 lostwife1018 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2014

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    With The Kids Around, Oh Gosh!

    I love my husband to death but he gets on my nerves. One time he was going on and on and I lost it! Totally lost it. I slapped him across the face. In front of the kids!!! They and him were shocked!!!!!! After that he shut up (YAY! lol) When we put the kids to bed I tucked my...
    taylorelisemcrome taylorelisemcrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I aLways hit my Husband.

    We have been together 5 years and sometimes I hate him. I have an older son from a previous relationship and two kids with him. I have bad back problems. He grew up in a really abusive home. All he knows is to hit. We argue how discIpline kids all the time. He only...
    jenniferjuice jenniferjuice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    I Hit My Husband

    I have been married for 5 years now. We met in November 2004 and by Feb. 2005 we were married. Everything was great. He treated me like I was a queen. He was so sweet and fun and we laughed and played all of the time. About a year in the marriage he begin to change. He got...
    bigb9777 bigb9777 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2010

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    Help

    Hey guys, not been on anything like this before but i need some help. When my husband and i row he shouts so much that i feel that i cant get what i want to say across. I have only lashed out twice but the last time my husband left. We felt that we needed to do the right thing as...
    jude544 jude544 31-35 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    I Hit My Hubby

    My husband left me apprx 3 weeks ago. He first left me about 3 years ago for only about 4 days I forgave him and let him back into my life. things were going pretty good, then he became distant, 4 months ago i found out hed been cheating on me for 12 months, one day a week...
    medicare medicare 51-55 3 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    Mrs

    I'm distraught, I've just punched my husband repeatedly in the face, until I cut his eye and there's blood everywhere. My 9 year old heard everything, and I've had to change the bed. We haven't had an argument in ages and he was being really generous in sharing some stuff that he...
    Leciacarr Leciacarr 41-45 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Can't Stop....

    I never thought that I would ever physically hit anyone, especially my husband of just under 6 months of marriage. We've known each other for over 15 years but have just recently been together, leading up to us eloping. Neither one of us were the type to follow the lead of...
    flychaa flychaa 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    I've been married 10 years

    and we have 2 kids. I'm a stay at home mom, and we've moved around a lot, so I don't have many close friends and I'm far from my family. I'm very isolated and dependent on him. Lately we've been fighting a lot because I don't trust him. About 7 years ago when I was pregnant with...
    aiyahs aiyahs 26-30, F Dec 1, 2014

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    I'd like to hit him right now.

    I won't. I'm writing here instead. He did HIS laundry today whilst sitting on the couch watching football all day and took all damn day to oversee our 3 year old cleaning up toys....that 9 hours later is still not done. I deep cleaned the kitchen, grocery shopped and made...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2014

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    I Just Slapped My Husband

    I am still sitting here crying! My husband can be the sweetest person and the biggest ******* at times! We just got into an argument and he just would not shut up. He kept pushing my buttons and kept going on and on and so I lost it and slapped him! I hate it when I feel this way...
    Jellymama Jellymama 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I don't do this, but somehow I got

    so angry I hit my husband yesterday! l love him soo much but we ate going through a very difficult time in our life! I think we might drink too much, my husband gets himself into a state, where he barely stands! he promissed me he will change, but on fri and sunday he drunk...
    lovethesummer lovethesummer 26-30, F May 26, 2014

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    Old Shoe

    I once hit my husband with a shoe. It  didn't phase him he was just like WTF?! I didn't mean to be a husband beater lol but he was being a real jerk. We were arguing and I wanted to leave the room but he blocked the doorway and wouldn't let me pass. So I saw an old dirty shoe...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 17, 2011

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    I Cant Believe It Went That Way

    me and my man have a beautiful son together we have been together for almost four years in the past we where wild fun party people when we had our son things changed we got on our grind bought a house we both have a lot on our shoulders well this is were it goes bad a couple...
    auperslady auperslady 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2010

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    I'm Not Proud Of This

    But he was being a real jerk! So I hit him with a shoe! LOL! Didn't phase him at all!  He was like WTF?
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    My husband, literally, will tell me that I am the best wife in the world, he can't live without me, and that he is the luckiest man alive one day & two hours later start telling me...
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    Once my husband hit me so hard with a ball while playing basketball that I was crying because of the pain and he was crying because he realized he hit me hahaha :')
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I have been with my husband for 5 years and we have been together a total of 13 years. I have been physically, emotionally, and verbally abused for the greater part of the...
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    My son, his wife and two preschool children came to visit from out of state, arriving Christmas Eve. I only see them about 6 times a year so I was looking forward to the visit...
    Seriouslysickofhim Seriouslysickofhim 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I don't know if this is the right group to post in but I do miss my husband very much. This is the first time I am posting about this so this is a difficult and scary post for me...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I don't hate my husbands dog, he just annoys me so much. He's a lab and he is so needy. He follows me every where I go, is very jealous and always needs attention. My husband is...
    morgp14 morgp14 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    My husband I have been together since highschool and we knew we wanted to be together forever. After 3 years of marriage we decided we wanted to try new things on the bedroom and...
    nikkigabber22 nikkigabber22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I absolutely hate men who hit women, come on guys! Remember open palm, slap not hit. I repeat, slap not hit. Lol.
    EffervescantBabe11 EffervescantBabe11 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I saw a guy hit a woman once. Actually he pushed. Didn't even hit. But I hit him regardless because that's just not right.
    justthatxxxguy justthatxxxguy 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    So for anyone who has never been hurt by your husband, you are lying to yourself and if you say you have never hurt them, you are also lying to yourself. No one is perfect and...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband is like a baby I may as well call him one of my children. We have three children, a 6, 5 and 3 year old. It's a miracle we are still together close to 9 years and I can...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I've been married for 5 years , but been with him since i was 16. we've been happy all these years ,i would let him go out with friends i trusted him he wouldn't do nothing dumb...
    armani88 armani88 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    When my husband cheated, it ended in a pregnancy. My husband is pro-life and she had strong feelings for him so wanted to keep the baby. Two years later and I still harbor deep...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F Jan 15

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    I'm so used to putting my hands over my face and head. It's just something that I do automatically even if I know I'm not going to get hit. I just try to play it cool by running...
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    If a guy hits me I'll hit him twice as hard and break his nose.
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    No reason to hit a woman guys.. No reason.....Stop the hitting..
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I came out of an abusive relationship a month ago i loved him so much but he kept hitting me when he was angry. It is never the woman's fault no matter how much they say it is, no...
    Annika1986 Annika1986 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why is it that whenever my husband feels like having sex I have to give it to him, but when it comes to me he's always like "I'm tired" or "You can't force someone if they don't...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I love my husband. Hes super mad at me right now. He works weird hours so i only see him a few hours in the morning then about 30 at night. Everynight he stays with his grandma...
    princessjess32 princessjess32 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I was really sick the other day, in pain. Guess I have diverticulitis. I drove myself to the doctor, which was fine. That night it hurt really bad and I just wanted to take a...
    OnlyMySideOfTheStory OnlyMySideOfTheStory 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Can someone help me understand .... I need translation from husband into the language of wife ..... "Sweetheart, I'll put the kids to bed for you tonight while you clean the...
    sunshinegirl76 sunshinegirl76 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    My husband and I have been married 3 years. We have a 2 year old child. My husband puts me down all the time, even in front of our child. He does everything that he wants to and...
    Confused24x7 Confused24x7 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I have been married for almost 11 years. My father in law used to live with us when he was alive. He was a good man. My husband was not allowed to drink because of his issues with...
    hopelesswoman hopelesswoman 41-45, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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