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I Hold a Grudge Forever

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    Can't Forgive

    I just can't forgive people, ever. I remember things from way back that I just can't get over. I don't know why I do this. Maybe I don't have a forgiveness gene in my body.
    ThornsHaveRoses ThornsHaveRoses 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I. Can't. Forgive. You.

    I forgave most people that have done something wrong and never brought up the incident again... Except my parents. My father sexually abused me at the age of six. So from that day onwards, my soul was already shattered, broken, never to be completely fixed back again. I...
    Kaslyne Kaslyne 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I Will Never Forgive My Father

    I think my father has been a huge contributing factor towards my general downfall. I never related to my father in anyway shape or form, he likes football I like video games, he like movies that are popular at the time I like obscurer films from all over the world and from all...
    LordNothing LordNothing 26-30, M 11 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    I Never Forget...

    I hold grudges forever and never forget. My boyfriend cheated on me about a year ago with a girl that he knew from middle school. He and she saw each other again at my senior school dance. And they exchanged phone numbers. But I didn't know they were more than that. I went to...
    xXPsychochic56 xXPsychochic56 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    I Don't Accept Apologies.

    If I was nice to you and in return you mistreated me, I will dislike you for as long as I live. There are people who I had fall outs with from years ago and I still have harsh feelings towards them. Infact, some of these people I don't even remember what they did, I just know...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F Nov 16, 2012

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    I Do

    I hold a grudge forever too" With something that happened when i was a kid or at school or growing up-i am still angry about. Some things i am more angrier than other things but a constant grudge. Some grudges make me clench my jaw and keep it clamped shut. Or the silent...
    wowpup wowpup 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    Warning!

    Warning!When I’ve a grudge,It’s not good,I can hold grudges,Forever and ever,You’ve been warned,WATCHOUT!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 6, 2011

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    Like Atlas

    I have always carried a grudge like Atlas. Once someone has caused me damage in some way I get so angry and it never seems to go away.I have been trying for many years to learn to forgive and forget. Let's just say that it's still a work in progress.I hope that one day I can...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Dec 16, 2012

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    its in the past, get over it. People who hold grudges are people who don't settle well with me because i fear that i'll somehow do something wrong and they'll never talk to me...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M Sep 25

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    Take your 'someone else' and go to hell.
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I can't find love 😔😔 I think I might be alone forever
    alishaemmorey alishaemmorey 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm not afraid I will, I know I will. My friends call me forever alone.
    QuietViolets QuietViolets 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I kind of have the need to pee, but now I'm going to check on my friends pets. To hold or not to hold?
    cec0692 cec0692 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Do you remember the day? I do, and remember it well. It was the night before your surgery, April 12, 2014. We stayed up all night not wanting to say good night, or good bye...
    Spicedpecan0617 Spicedpecan0617 61-65, F Oct 6

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    I'm desperate for a wee at the moment, any girls into it or need a wee too? I'm so bursting to pee, really struggling to hold it in!!
    Klotz1796 Klotz1796 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I was really depressed last November to the point that I didn’t believe I was depressed and told my 2 best friends I was bipolar when I wasn’t. I also told one of them I was...
    em27soccer em27soccer 16-17, F Oct 7

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    I'm not really afraid of singledom nor am I afraid to be a single parent but with my lack of experience I'm sure it'd drive any guy away. I try to think of the positives about...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I just think they are purely beautiful, maybe not aesthetically, to some, may only see wrinkles, a frail frame and silver hair. I see behind the eyes, I see the smile and I notice...
    LifeOfARoseCat LifeOfARoseCat 36-40, F Oct 17

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    She's agreed to take part in a series of challenges investigating how much her bladder can hold. They'll start off easy, lasting around 24 hours, before gradually expanding until...
    OliviaEP OliviaEP 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    To make you smile or laugh or make you feel good about yourself. I would like to do all that stuff for you :) I want to prove to you that you are special in every way and that is...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 30

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    A BOLD STATEMENT FOR TWO WOMEN IN THE SOUTH. It's late afternoon and Katie and I are walking in a city park, hand in hand. Two women holding hands in public may not seem like a...
    EmmaSylvester EmmaSylvester 22-25, F Sep 30

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    I hate the thought of this, but i know im most likely gona be alone forever. I got alopecia, i cant imagine no man loving me or wanting to be with me. It hurts so much. I feel so...
    AchingSoul AchingSoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 8

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    'Anchovies & Mushrooms On My Pizza Forever ' never again will the filthy pepperoni pollute my pizza. Pizza Prince where art thou? You were right! Sorry I was an unbeliever.
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    I am totally afraid of being single, forever...for once I thought that being in a relationship and marriage was a fantasy for me as I really cant imagine what life would be when I...
    Steve2186 Steve2186 26-30, M Oct 12

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    Every time I find someone I really like it always ends up bad. Either I get my heart broken, I get cheated on, or they lie to me about some dumb ****. I'm afraid that I'm going to...
    tay143 tay143 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    How can I come into acceptance that I will be alone forever? I know I am not beautiful, or pretty like everyone else. I lack this ideal image, and people stare at me, as if I am a...
    su05 su05 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    lol I probably will be single forever, I think that I will never find a person that I truly trust and want to be with. I think that I am not that complicated to person to be with.
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So the other day I woke up bursting for a wee. I decided to hold it for as long as I could. I was determined not to go for as long as I possibly could no matter what. And I had to...
    Diva1289 Diva1289 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 4

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    I'm a girl and younger than what my age says haha, someone please message me and be my bladder master? I want someone to help me hold for a looooong time. I love holding and I am...
    Diva1289 Diva1289 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 4

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    I'm not doing a hold atm, but if anyone out there is doing a hold and wants to chat about it and have someone help them hold.. Feel free to message me.
    cec0692 cec0692 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I think it's awesome. Just imagine being someone so long and still being together thru all the years and bullshit. Still together from sickness and in health may death do us apart...
    kickthewall kickthewall 26-30, M Sep 29

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    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1UMHUPPQ96c Interesting Ted Talk about how holding hands affects us and what goes on in the brain when we hold hands.
    nicoleblu nicoleblu 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I miss it. Yes I miss holding hands. I long for a kiss. But it not just any hand. Or any lips. There is a special hand. Her hands are special. There small and slender. Not to...
    Leeza1964 Leeza1964 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    I've been holding since 11:30am and now it's 12:35am (technically the next day). I'm maybe at a 7 or 8. Keep holding or go pee? Thoughts?
    cec0692 cec0692 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 2

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    I want to hold your hand. I want to reach down without looking and feel your hand meet mine in our perfect embrace that we have had since the first time 9 years ago. I want to...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M Oct 3

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    It is currently 2:04 am, tomorrow (or technically today)... I will go pee first thing in the morning and then hold my pee. Feel free to message me throughout the day. Also, if any...
    cec0692 cec0692 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Fingers intertwined holding on to one another is intimate and sometimes means more to me than and kiss or hug. For that moment in time you are inseperable. You have captured one...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I think it would be so nice. I would like to sit and talk and hold your hands. Or Walk down a street hand in hand... Hold your hand in a movie, or walking in the mall. People...
    ReallyBill ReallyBill 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    I don't even think about it or even if a woman hold the door for me I don't care if a man or a woman holds the door for me I say thank you I don't think too much about it
    liajip liajip 13-15, F Oct 14

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    What's the point in holding them in? What's the point in letting them out? No matter which one I choose- holding them in or letting them out, I'll still be hurt, I'll still be...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M Oct 15

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    I'm thinking of quitting my hold.. I'm at a 4.5 and have been holding for 6 hours. I'm thinking of just going pee though...
    cec0692 cec0692 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    Civility and counters should never be lost for the sake of an 'ism' even feminism. If a guy holds open the door he is not saying I'm weak, or that he desires anything of me, he is...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a problem with always holding in my anger, stress and emotions. Then one day someone pushes me to the edge and I explode, I just scream and cry. I'm sure there are a lot of...
    marilynnrox marilynnrox 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I think holding hands with someone you care about makes you feel even closer to that person. It's 1 of my favorite ways of showing affection.
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I work for a large nursing/rehab. center. we have this one lady in there whose husband of 53 years comes in daily and just holds her hand for the entire shift.
    mrmarine mrmarine 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 26

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    It's true I hold a lot of stuff in, and in a few week moments I'll vent in places like EP where I know no one I really know will see it. So much **** we keep bottled up inside, I'm...
    desy1 desy1 31-35, F Sep 27

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