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I Hold a Grudge Forever

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    Like Atlas

    I have always carried a grudge like Atlas. Once someone has caused me damage in some way I get so angry and it never seems to go away.I have been trying for many years to learn to forgive and forget. Let's just say that it's still a work in progress.I hope that one day I can...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Dec 16, 2012

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    I Never Forget...

    I hold grudges forever and never forget. My boyfriend cheated on me about a year ago with a girl that he knew from middle school. He and she saw each other again at my senior school dance. And they exchanged phone numbers. But I didn't know they were more than that. I went to...
    xXPsychochic56 xXPsychochic56 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    I Will Never Forgive My Father

    I think my father has been a huge contributing factor towards my general downfall. I never related to my father in anyway shape or form, he likes football I like video games, he like movies that are popular at the time I like obscurer films from all over the world and from all...
    LordNothing LordNothing 26-30, M 11 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    Warning!

    Warning!When I’ve a grudge,It’s not good,I can hold grudges,Forever and ever,You’ve been warned,WATCHOUT!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 6, 2011

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    Can't Forgive

    I just can't forgive people, ever. I remember things from way back that I just can't get over. I don't know why I do this. Maybe I don't have a forgiveness gene in my body.
    ThornsHaveRoses ThornsHaveRoses 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I Don't Accept Apologies.

    If I was nice to you and in return you mistreated me, I will dislike you for as long as I live. There are people who I had fall outs with from years ago and I still have harsh feelings towards them. Infact, some of these people I don't even remember what they did, I just know...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F Nov 16, 2012

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    I. Can't. Forgive. You.

    I forgave most people that have done something wrong and never brought up the incident again... Except my parents. My father sexually abused me at the age of six. So from that day onwards, my soul was already shattered, broken, never to be completely fixed back again. I...
    Kaslyne Kaslyne 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I Do

    I hold a grudge forever too" With something that happened when i was a kid or at school or growing up-i am still angry about. Some things i am more angrier than other things but a constant grudge. Some grudges make me clench my jaw and keep it clamped shut. Or the silent...
    wowpup wowpup 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Forgive someone once, but if they consciously ruin there chances then they clearly don't care or have respect for you
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    Good times last forever. The good memories never leave. You never leave. The bad memories never leave either. I cant sleep, I cant breathe and my heart feels like its going to...
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    I will for sure. forever and a day and a day after. And that's a promise! <3 <3 <3
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    1dayloneliness 1dayloneliness 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I'll like to latch on ya till I get old and you need to hold my old face into your bug cleavage just drinking like an old man :p
    Yomomma141 Yomomma141 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm a serial dater, but I'm awful at it. Three relationships, spanning from 10 months to 1.5 years over the course of 4 years. All three guys hate me, won't speak to me and have...
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    Forever is a very long time. How is it that people can talk so casually about a concept that we cannot even wrap our minds around? Sometimes, we have a friend and we sense that...
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    Indeed, I'm pretty sure nobody wants to stay single forever
    ItsAllMyFaultxx ItsAllMyFaultxx 13-15, M Jun 22

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    We've all said or been told "I'll be with you forever" and we've ended up by breaking up.
    LauraValdinski LauraValdinski 22-25, F Jun 25

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    We've all said or been told "I'll be with you forever" and we've ended up by breaking up.
    LauraValdinski LauraValdinski 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    AngelBornInHell AngelBornInHell 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I've made a lot of great strides this past two to two and a half years or so, but I'm still super single. I still have yet to meet someone that I can talk to and click with and can...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Jul 7

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    Been single for the past 5 1/2 years and i've come to the conclusion that i'll be single forever.
    evas1228 evas1228 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I've been single for as long as I've lived. Everytime I meet a new girl I keep thinking that she could be the one. I end up in disappointment all the time. I would never have the...
    jullunety jullunety 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Gonna do a hold sometime tonight -- I hate holding alone, though. Somebody hold with me?
    lurkerabove lurkerabove 18-21, M Jun 27

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    I love holding hands with every one. My friends are so used to it now. One time I was walking in a store with two of my friends and one knew that I was going to hold her hand so we...
    mymindsalivingnightmare mymindsalivingnightmare 13-15, F Jul 7

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    Post how much your bladder can hold. At the moment I'm training for a bigger bladder. I'm 20 now and can hold 2.04 litres. When I started training my bladder (at 17) I could hold 9...
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    "The Returning" A week ago, I broke up with my boyfriend whom I had lived with for over a year. I won't go into details, so lets just say we were walking different paths in terms...
    LilyLua LilyLua 22-25, F Jun 29

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    I love helping people out and holding the door open for them. If I don't hold the door open for someone I feel bad for the longest time. Once when I was little I held the door open...
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    My ultimate dream is to be laying in bed with you, grab you, and hold you in my arms. I want to be the one who can make you feel safe and the one you cry on. I want to grab you...
    Anonymous446 Anonymous446 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't like to talk about my feelings or what's going on in my life; it makes me feel stupid, and when I try to talk to people about why I hold in my feelings I get a lecture...
    oliviarosev oliviarosev 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm falling apart. Piece by piece. I can't stop the tears nor the whimpering. So just hold me. I don't want to talk or explain how I feel. I couldn't even if I wanted to. I...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Really have to pee now, i think i can hold it a bit more then it will leak out. Who wants me to hold it?
    ashybabe567 ashybabe567 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Probably wetting and holding soon. Anyone want to hold with me :) message or reply
    Delta465 Delta465 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    When I was younger my mum would force me to hold her or the carriage any where went so when now when ever I'm next to someone I start to hold there hand it's just a force of habit...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My own baby will be a different story, but when pushed to hold other people's babies I can't help but feel uncomfortable or scared of dropping it or something. It makes me anxious...
    saramatt127 saramatt127 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    My own baby will be a different story, but when pushed to hold other people's babies I can't help but feel uncomfortable or scared of dropping it or something. It makes me anxious...
    saramatt127 saramatt127 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 22

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    Safety......I always feel safe when I'm holding my Samantha's hand.... ....and loved.....and cherished....and respected. She's got such lovely hands; soft and smooth, and - this...
    KarenDurose KarenDurose 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    It is coming out like rains coming out of sky and it is heavily raining from my eyes...i tried to hold it and to stop myself from crying but no use as right now i am in the weakest...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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