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I Hold Grudges and Am Fierce In My Anger

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    No One Worse Than Me

    I have held a grudge for 16 years against an x friend.When i get angry,people two blocks away heard me cussing. That's the truth.
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    Trying To Change

    Generally, I am very easy going...passive even. It takes a lot to get me really angry, but when I get there, I can't seem to find my way back easily. I tend to cling to my anger...focus on it...turn it over and over in my head. I can forgive easily the first time, but after...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    I Am Not Proud Of It...

    I have a hard time just letting things go that I should have a LONG time ago! Oh well! Ill be done being angry, when Im done being angry.
    GreenSkye84 GreenSkye84 26-30, F Dec 26, 2011

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    I Hold Grudges

    I hold grudges and ever forget them. When people say nasty things about me I withdraw from them and lash out to other people. When my feelings get hurt I obsess about what somebody does to me and I never forgive them unless they say they are sorry and they never do it...
    DanielleMaroney DanielleMaroney 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I Thought I Forgot About It....

    and i would forgive you for hurting me. and i guess it bottles up without me knowing, but if you over do it i can go berserk. turn into a person that i never knew i had in me. something violent, evil, dark, and i will blank out and those emotions will take over. so i warn you, if...
    lonewanderer lonewanderer 22-25, M 6 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    True

        i can hold a grudge and be very fierce in my anger.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 6, 2009

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    X-(

    Okay I guess the title alone shows my angry face lol :P I get irrationally angry for small reasons, when the other person is least expecting it. I am quite bashful in my anger but I hold it back the maximum I can and only give way to it when I can hold back no more. But then it...
    frootiee frootiee 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    For some reason I like to hold grudges.

    .? It gives me a sense of control on who I like and who I don't. Honestly I stop holding a grudge against someone when I feel they've received a similar amount of pain they've inflicted on me. I hold a lot of grudges for long periods of time and I kind of like it..? idk I think...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Just Sometimes

    People take my kindness for weakness and step all over me. I get really angry and start yelling. I yell really loud and I get to a point where I don't even hear myself I just feel the words come out. the times that it happens are few and far between. it takes me a while to get...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I hold grudges against someone until I've felt they've changed. And I've held really long grudges.
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    i hate that i do. but i do. i hold grudges. if a friend, or someone says something to me, or offends me, i get so mad. i never show it. but instead, ill jsut never talk to them...
    Johnny12333 Johnny12333 31-35 1 Response Aug 9

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    I don't like to hold grudges but I do sometime anyways Im trying to be a goodsport on 'ep' not that I dont get good feedback and make a new friend here and there but theres always...
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9

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    This is a really good example on how it's such a waste oh energy to be angry with people, especially when they don't even know it....
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Aug 8

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    He invited himself into my heart as he opened the door I looked up at his face as he walked into my life It was full of angles, of laughter and so much more Would he be gentle or...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have the heart of a small child. I love life. I LOVE to laugh. I love to have fun. I bear no grudges against anyone. But I'll admit: my greatest weakness is... I'm so easily...
    Rivalry0x Rivalry0x 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Basically I got into a huge fight with my best friend. We both said some mean things but I'm sure I said the meanest things. I brought up a guy she likes and said "that's why he...
    swimmer20166 swimmer20166 16-17, F Jul 29

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    It's like I have two settings. Calm, or intense rage. There is no gray area for me. There's a slight build up of annoyance at first, but then there's sheer anger. When I was...
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    For some reason, the anger I am feeling for my father increases every seconds of every day. It has progressed to a point that just hearing his habitual coughing irritates me. It...
    hopelessaddict hopelessaddict 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I listen to just as angry music like pantera to release my anger.
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F Jul 30

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    Wow. This is something I have realized about myself this year, and it's definitely something I am to change. Yes, maybe I don't yell like one of aunt's who very much so needs to...
    ColourmeAmb ColourmeAmb 18-21, F Jul 30

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    I have a big brother who has special needs and my mother gets really stressed with trying to care for him every day and takes anger out on me. she will also say stuff like "i think...
    megi06 megi06 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    man this is ridiculous I serious need to control my anger everywhere I go school out my own house anywhere even online I start fights and make enemies serious like a natural...
    greatbritain1707 greatbritain1707 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    My husband has anger issues... Sometimes it's unbearable:(...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F Aug 6

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    I wish i cud better myself.. I tried to supress my anger.. But one day it explodes.. During that time ill be confrontational.. I hate it.. I hate it so much.. I am hoping i can get...
    Chiscuit Chiscuit 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been given the first challenge since I joined EP, so I'll post it here in as much detail as I can. I'll be posting another story letting you know how it goes nearer the time...
    ChloePawson ChloePawson 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    yes any girls that like holding have kik my name on there is prettygr8buddy id b happy to chat while u hold u can hold both or just one up to u
    keeleysupremeawesumness keeleysupremeawesumness 26-30, M Aug 6

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    Simple Pleasures. Intimacy and physical affection have been in short supply in my world for the last few years and several recent health problems in the family have brought a lot...
    RealtaReoite RealtaReoite 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I would love to find some to hold with(I am holding right now
    Holdin4days Holdin4days 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I will hold doors open almost all the time (it's one of the reasons why I was always late for my classes in Grade 10) But a pet peeve of mine is when I am holding a door open for...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Aug 9

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    I'm holding it for 2 days I wonder how it feels after I let it out. I wanna see how long I can hold it.
    Mickey1280 Mickey1280 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've only held hands with boys but not by choice. I think I only have two times. 1st time it was as a kid and I was walking this little boy to his class. The 2nd time was as a teen...
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M Jul 23

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    Any females intested in a skype holding contest ?:D
    burstingbadly burstingbadly 22-25, M Jul 23

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    Any females intested in a skype holding contest ?:D
    burstingbadly burstingbadly 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    My mom is definitely one of them. She will hate someone forever and not know them or the actual facts. The truth is that I was in love with someone but I couldn't be with her...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M Jul 24

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    I wish I have gf to hold her arm
    xhmkq8 xhmkq8 13-15, M Jul 27

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    I could easily just go pee and go back to whatever I'm doing, but for some reason I just hold it until it's unbearable. I'm going to jack up my bladder and be all incontinent and...
    ModestNeptune ModestNeptune 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    So last night I drank 4 bottles of water right before I went to sleep and I woke up at 4 desperate to go, but I was so tired I fell back asleep. When I woke up at 7:30 I was...
    imthedaydreamqueen imthedaydreamqueen 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 30

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    Isn't it really sweet to find old couples who still hold each others hands tightly? Like they wouldnt want to let go of each other? I saw one when i was on my way home, sitting on...
    sayangeiram sayangeiram 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    Is it common for women to hold hands for the feeling of it?
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 2

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    I am married, have a mother, a sister, a brother, and a few friends, but when i cant talk to any of them about a deep dark secret, i just wish i had someone to hold me close when...
    Amb505 Amb505 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I didn't even know this was something that offends people,it's common curiosity for a man or a woman to do it . If I (a girl) am first through a door and there's people behind me I...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F Aug 8

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    I saw this old couple holding hands the other day and I thought it was so adorable that after so many years together they still love eachother the same way! I hope I have that...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Yes I do I've been holding for awhile let's talk about it
    jpkf79 jpkf79 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I am holding my pee right now and I need to go pretty bad anyone who wants to message me I'm not going for a few more hours
    poopingishot poopingishot 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Chat about it? Pee holding contest? Any one No Skype sorry
    monstergurl monstergurl 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    10 things consumers complain about the most What irks people most? New data show that consumers complain most about having to deal with cars — whether false sales ads or...
    jennyperry jennyperry 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I haven't peed for 3 hours. I want a pee holding contest. Need people to do it with. Anyone female or male, 13 yrs +
    monstergurl monstergurl 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm holding my poop if anyone wants to see I'm going to mess myself
    poopingishot poopingishot 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13