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I Hold Grudges and Am Fierce In My Anger

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    I Am Not Proud Of It... - I have a hard time just letting things go that I should have a LONG time ago! Oh well! Ill be done being angry, when Im done being angry.
    GreenSkye84 GreenSkye84 26-30, F Dec 26, 2011

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    I Thought I Forgot About It.... - and i would forgive you for hurting me. and i guess it bottles up without me knowing, but if you over do it i can go berserk. turn into a person...
    lonewanderer lonewanderer 22-25, M 6 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    Trying To Change - Generally, I am very easy going...passive even. It takes a lot to get me really angry, but when I get there, I can't seem to find my way back easily. I tend to...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    No One Worse Than Me - I have held a grudge for 16 years against an x friend.When i get angry,people two blocks away heard me cussing. That's the truth.
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    X-( - Okay I guess the title alone shows my angry face lol :P I get irrationally angry for small reasons, when the other person is least expecting it. I am quite bashful in my...
    frootiee frootiee 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    True -     i can hold a grudge and be very fierce in my anger.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 6, 2009

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    Just Sometimes - People take my kindness for weakness and step all over me. I get really angry and start yelling. I yell really loud and I get to a point where I don't even hear...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2008

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    Don't hold grudges, hold boobs instated. Because boobs make everything better. Plus women like supportive men.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    It's bad. I know. But I am the type of person that holds long lasting grudges. When I get angry, really angry at a person, I will easily get annoyed with him/her. Every little...
    redlady23 redlady23 18-21 Apr 1

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    I really don't waste my time on those things, I find it much better to learn from them and not repeat my mistakes or my misfortunes.
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Maybe I should not complain? But I do feel like my life is on hold and I'm frustrated. My job is good and I have a good educational background; I'm thinking to get another master...
    viicky77 viicky77 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I have a problem and it's me. I hit my boyfriend of 3yrs over the weekend. we had gone out for St. Patrick's day and had to much to drink. I know that is no excuse. I hold...
    wtfsolost wtfsolost 36-40, F Mar 19

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie, but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Never knew there was anyone like me out there. My boyfriend is a very hard worker. While he is at work he works very hard. Problem seems to be that he lets everything that others...
    geminigurl595 geminigurl595 41-45, F Apr 9

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    Mark Twain: Let go of anger: “Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.” Anger is most of the time...
    SpiritQuest2014 SpiritQuest2014 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Since I turned nine years old, I feel as if my parents started to get a lot angrier and more aggressive towards life, people, and at just about everything. I was one of those kids...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 1 Response Mar 22

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    I had a battle against anger most of my life.It manifested slightly in primary, against people who i felt wronged me or disrespected me. I remember i also had bouts against my...
    Valtielislord Valtielislord 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I have very bad anger issues the littlest things set me off! I have gotten into many fights and in a ton of trouble because of my anger! I have been threatened to get sent to...
    Justanobody17 Justanobody17 16-17, F Apr 6

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    Having Depression is really hard when everyone expects you to happy when on the inside it feels like a empty hole of nothing. Most of the time I usually try to play it off as being...
    EienOfEve EienOfEve 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I just get really bad sometimes. It's probably becuz I hold everything inside
    allanpeter allanpeter 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Is it okay if I smash my head into my wall and possibly on a concrete wall at that? I'm sorry but I think that's they only way to take out my anger without harming anyone else...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Can we all agree to this? This happens the most around the ones we love the most. My family, my friends...I get angry at them for reasons that are completely silly. I am angry and...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I heard my parents talking about taking me to a therapist. My mom tried coming up to talk to me about my problems, but I got really mad and threw my pencil at her face. My mom got...
    Isurvived123 Isurvived123 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I have a really bad anger and dont know to keep it under control
    welch1995 welch1995 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I have no clue how to keep my anger under control
    welch1995 welch1995 18-21, F Mar 24

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    He said my anger was very scary. He's seen it. He knows. He said he's not scared for himself, but he's afraid for what I can do. What will I do to those around me who love me? What...
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F Mar 29

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    Sometimes it can be the smallest thing that sets me off. Anyone have any effective anger management techniques? o.O
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I often get so furious at people that I lock my self up in a room and cry with rage; I sometimes end up biting myself or punching things, or slamming my head against a wall. I feel...
    rtyuiopqwe rtyuiopqwe 13-15, F Mar 31

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    I have so much anger right now, that I may bang my head on the wall.... But I'll try not to... But I'm so mad at someone for saying I'm ruining their life technically, and some...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F Apr 2

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    At times I want to scream at the top of my lungs and destroy something - but I keep it all inside. I end up not addressing the catalyst to my anger because I'm afraid that further...
    Leighway Leighway 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I've been suppressing it for years and now it becomes a ticking time bomb and the anger is persistent and consistent toward certain situation. And I'm so angry I'd lost control and...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love Dierk's new song! It's just an old beat up truck, Some say that I should trade up Now that I got some jangle in my pocket. But what they don’t understand Is it's the...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Went shopping today and was playing the hold it game from when I woke up this morning . Had cereal and juice for breakfast, and head down the road. It's about a 45 minute drive to...
    ruemisty ruemisty 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    Rather than being unable to hold a relationship, I never seem to be able to get one. I've never held hands with a girl nor kissed a girl nor even been on a date. Although the last...
    ArtSparrow ArtSparrow 16-17, M Mar 23

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    I only hold hands with the man I love. Before we met I hardly let anyone touch me because I found human contact just overwhelming some reason. After we began to be come very close...
    acolleenw acolleenw 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I just do. I can't walk with someone without holding his or her hands. I feel secured and not alone and I just love people who'll hold my hand even though they're kinda sweaty :/
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Any girl the age of 14-16 wana have a holding contest if so send an email 2 icausekillcams123@Gmail.com I love 2 hold I'm a male 15
    peelover891 peelover891 31-35, M Mar 28

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    I had seen an old English couple hold hands and take walks together.They had come to India for some work and were friends of my dad.You hardly see any Indian couples,esp.married...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Just something that I've been doing since I was 16. Now I am 20 and still hold doors open for people. Whether they say thank you or nothing at all. I just like doing it. One time I...
    Ermacz Ermacz 18-21, M Apr 4

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    You are within me as I am within you,nothing can break this apart.We might not be together but the closeness our hearts share is so very rare, a treasure. My sacred possession I...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Apr 5

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    A hand to hold.... I love it when you simply hold my hand. I don't know what it is about it, but it makes me feel loved, cherished even. :)
    spade8517 spade8517 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    The people responsible for my upbringing were incapable of love From a small child no-one touched me No-one held me on their knee No-one picked me up when I fell No-one cuddled me...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    He hasn't hold it * cough cough * Brandon
    andreaxdrea andreaxdrea 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Being sad is one thing but having someone to hold you and make you feel better is all I want. I want the one person I can let go my emotions around and know that everything will be...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I so much love to hold hands with someone I feel close to it's very intimate while at the same time showing the world that you really care about this person and are proud to let...
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I would get offended if a guy doesn't hold a door open for me.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I don't think many women do. I certainly will hold the door open for a man or woman, especially if they're considerably older than me. It's not something I even really think about...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Can someone hold me while I cry myself to sleep? Please my head is at war, and I'm just about to lose it.
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Gonna try holding my pee who's joining
    idkifnormal idkifnormal 13-15, F 10 Responses Apr 2

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    The future is exciting but also scary. We are all unaware of what the future hold for us no matter if it is good or bad.
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Apr 6