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I Hold Grudges and Am Fierce In My Anger

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    Okay I guess the title alone shows my angry face lol :P I get irrationally angry for small reasons, when the other person is least expecting it. I am quite bashful in my anger but I hold it back the maximum I can and only give way to it when I can hold back no more. But then it...
    frootiee frootiee 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    I Am Not Proud Of It...

    I have a hard time just letting things go that I should have a LONG time ago! Oh well! Ill be done being angry, when Im done being angry.
    GreenSkye84 GreenSkye84 26-30, F Dec 26, 2011

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    Trying To Change

    Generally, I am very easy going...passive even. It takes a lot to get me really angry, but when I get there, I can't seem to find my way back easily. I tend to cling to my anger...focus on it...turn it over and over in my head. I can forgive easily the first time, but after...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Just Sometimes

    People take my kindness for weakness and step all over me. I get really angry and start yelling. I yell really loud and I get to a point where I don't even hear myself I just feel the words come out. the times that it happens are few and far between. it takes me a while to get...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2008

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    I Thought I Forgot About It....

    and i would forgive you for hurting me. and i guess it bottles up without me knowing, but if you over do it i can go berserk. turn into a person that i never knew i had in me. something violent, evil, dark, and i will blank out and those emotions will take over. so i warn you, if...
    lonewanderer lonewanderer 22-25, M 6 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    I Hold Grudges

    I hold grudges and ever forget them. When people say nasty things about me I withdraw from them and lash out to other people. When my feelings get hurt I obsess about what somebody does to me and I never forgive them unless they say they are sorry and they never do it...
    DanielleMaroney DanielleMaroney 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    No One Worse Than Me

    I have held a grudge for 16 years against an x friend.When i get angry,people two blocks away heard me cussing. That's the truth.
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    True

        i can hold a grudge and be very fierce in my anger.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 6, 2009

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    For some reason I like to hold grudges.

    .? It gives me a sense of control on who I like and who I don't. Honestly I stop holding a grudge against someone when I feel they've received a similar amount of pain they've inflicted on me. I hold a lot of grudges for long periods of time and I kind of like it..? idk I think...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Forgive someone once, but if they consciously ruin there chances then they clearly don't care or have respect for you
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    Lemartes Lemartes 31-35, M Jul 18

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    I always keep it in it's becoming like some kind of reflex like I get mad and I instantly hold it in and it sucks I need to let it out.
    freedom16 freedom16 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have so much pent up anger that the smallest thing will set me off, and the next thing I know I am shaking and in tears because I am just SO ******* ANGRY!!! I don't know what to...
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    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    SuperblackSER SuperblackSER 22-25, M Jul 10

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    I'll go swim ,I'll swim over a mile I get a great work out and the anger is gone so is a win win
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    I've realised that my anger was the reaction to and not the cause of whatever was bothering me. I find it more easy to identify when this is happening, and I try to stop myself...
    mypath43 mypath43 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I get mad for little things and i hate it :( i ended up throwing something today bc of my anger and im scared it'll get worse
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    I listen to just as angry music like pantera to release my anger.
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Wow. This is something I have realized about myself this year, and it's definitely something I am to change. Yes, maybe I don't yell like one of aunt's who very much so needs to...
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    Post how much your bladder can hold. At the moment I'm training for a bigger bladder. I'm 20 now and can hold 2.04 litres. When I started training my bladder (at 17) I could hold 9...
    JasePee18 JasePee18 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I love helping people out and holding the door open for them. If I don't hold the door open for someone I feel bad for the longest time. Once when I was little I held the door open...
    mymindsalivingnightmare mymindsalivingnightmare 13-15, F Jul 7

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    The Elder Scrolls may be a series of action role-playing open world fantasy video games primarily developed by Bethesda Game Studios and revealed by Bethesda Softworks. The series...
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    My ultimate dream is to be laying in bed with you, grab you, and hold you in my arms. I want to be the one who can make you feel safe and the one you cry on. I want to grab you...
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    I don't like to talk about my feelings or what's going on in my life; it makes me feel stupid, and when I try to talk to people about why I hold in my feelings I get a lecture...
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    I'm falling apart. Piece by piece. I can't stop the tears nor the whimpering. So just hold me. I don't want to talk or explain how I feel. I couldn't even if I wanted to. I...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F Jul 17

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    Really have to pee now, i think i can hold it a bit more then it will leak out. Who wants me to hold it?
    ashybabe567 ashybabe567 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Probably wetting and holding soon. Anyone want to hold with me :) message or reply
    Delta465 Delta465 16-17, M Jul 20

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    When I was younger my mum would force me to hold her or the carriage any where went so when now when ever I'm next to someone I start to hold there hand it's just a force of habit...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    My own baby will be a different story, but when pushed to hold other people's babies I can't help but feel uncomfortable or scared of dropping it or something. It makes me anxious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 21

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    My own baby will be a different story, but when pushed to hold other people's babies I can't help but feel uncomfortable or scared of dropping it or something. It makes me anxious...
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    Hi I've been holding for awhile need someone to talk about it with
    jpkf79 jpkf79 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    i wanna hold my pee with a girl preferably lets do it
    rj666 rj666 16-17, M Jul 3

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    Sooo, For the 1st time in a while I've decided to hold my bladder with a lovely lady ^.^
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    I'm that guy who always holds the door for others. Even if I have to put myself in an awkward position that actually makes it more difficult for them to enter the door.
    BJoon BJoon 26-30, M Jul 7

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    I did this at lunch time in hs, and sometimes I would miss lunch because I was holding the door open -.- LOL
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am holding in my number 1 till morning. i want to be real messy
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    any girl wanna have a pee holding contest message me!!
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