I Hold Grudges

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    Dont Trust Them

    I've realised not many people do hold grudges, they will argue and the next day they will be friends! I find this impossible. If someone upsets me we argue and they may try and talk to me later but I will ignore them. They need to know they've hurt me and should...
    Keelie Keelie
    66-70, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2009

    I hold grudges against someone

    until I've felt they've changed. And I've held really long grudges.
    jacithepanda jacithepanda
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    About six years ago, I said something really

    hurtful to this one girl I knew from high school Angel (then freshman). She's so talented, smart, had a lot of friends, kindhearted and whatever. I was SO freakin' jealous of that little beyotch. I couldn't stand it. In the school plays we were in, she NEVER talks to me at all...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 5, 2015

    Until Th Score Is Settled

    i wont let it go. i usually settle it, but when i cant one way i will another. until th other person willingly accepts me getting even i will "torture" him/her indirectly. ie slashing their tires (at night) killing their pets (at night) settin their family members house on fire...
    knucklez knucklez
    18-21, M
    May 13, 2009
    ACyanideSurprise ACyanideSurprise
    18-21, M
    Jun 5, 2014

    No one ever knows it

    because I have this cheery, forgiving disposition. No... if you gravely wrong me, and if I'm THAT offended by it, hell, I'll get offended every single time I even THINK about you. If I'm watching Jeopardy and someone shares your first name, I'll root against them. XD But...
    Boulier Boulier
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17

    One Chance Rule.

    This "rule" consists of me giving everyone in the world one chance.  If you hurt me, I will not forgive you.  The pain you caused me that lingers in the back of my mind is nothing more than a constant reminder of your mistake. I don't know why, but I've...
    oliveoil2007 oliveoil2007
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2008

    It's not a trait of mine I particularly like,

    but I feel more often than not, it's justified. The only way I don't hold a grudge is if that person is genuinely remorseful and doesn't use ****** excuses or tries to justify it in some way. If you're genuinely sorry, I can accept it and move on. But if not, I'll hold that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 16, 2014

    Unintentional

    I don't intend to hold grudges, and it's not like I go for revenge or anything. It's just if someone does something bad to me, I never forget no matter how hard I try. And whenever I see that person or even hear their name, all I think about is the bad thing they did to me. I'm...
    TakeMyHand688 TakeMyHand688
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2013

    So What? Sue Me.

    I hold grudges. If I’m kind to you and you treat me like **** for no reason, then consider yourself dead to me. No exceptions and no apologies. Once I’m done, I’m done! I can dislike you and forget why I do, but I’ll still dislike you just because I remember that me and...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2012

    It Might Kill Me

    But I'm damn stubborn and have this need to "win" It's pathetic, I know. This emotion comes from a really dark place, but I have no intent of getting rid of it :/ I hold grudges to save what's left of my dignity...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    9 Responses Oct 25, 2010

    Time to bury the hatchet.

    .. Inside of their skull.
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    Sep 16, 2014

    I Do, But...

    It takes a lot to make me actually angry. Quite a bit. The problem is when you do, you actually get to that point, more than likely you won't be forgiven. I can be a cold hearted b*tch like that x)
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 2, 2011

    I'm Weird Like That ..

    Yes i admit I hold grudges, its not a hate thing of anything like that, I just dont forget when someone has done something really bad to me.I dont base my entire life on revenge and making that person pay. In fact I just put them on the side and continue with my life because I...
    GG1234 GG1234
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2012

    Forgive someone once,

    but if they consciously ruin there chances then they clearly don't care or have respect for you
    maddieXxx maddieXxx
    18-21, F
    Jul 5, 2014

    You Just Blew It

    If you don't mean much to me and treat me like **** and phuck me over then you blow it. No more chances for your A**
    AscendedOne AscendedOne
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Sep 10, 2009

    People always think I forget the times

    when they've done me wrong. There isn't an expiration date on negativity and disrespect.
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer
    16-17, M
    Sep 23, 2015
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    Aug 21, 2015

    You're Never Empty When Holding a Grudge.

    This is a life-long habit I suppose.  I have to stifle the urge to relate life-long resentments from childhood when a related topic comes up with my husband or friends.  It all relates back to childhood, I know that, but I don't want to bother others with yet another...
    AmberwavessssofGrain AmberwavessssofGrain
    26-30, F
    Oct 25, 2007

    You can say I hold grudges.

    I don't flinch. I'll do anything to keep myself safe. There was an incident where I responded to a post a friend made. She said some unnecessarily harsh things to me, I defended myself about it. She went on to say something along the lines of "sorry if I'm too blunt for your...
    SPIDERLIMBS SPIDERLIMBS
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    It's bad. I know. But I am the type of person

    that holds long lasting grudges. When I get angry, really angry at a person, I will easily get annoyed with him/her. Every little thing they do seem to be immediately bad/stupid/immature/annoying... the list goes on. I would have the tendency to roll my eyes or disagree whenever...
    redlady23 redlady23
    22-25
    Apr 1, 2014

    I Can't Forgive People

     I just can't do it.  And it doesn't have to be with someone I know or someone who even knows me.  If I feel wronged then I'm not going to forgive that person.  If someone at church were to bump into me (even by accident) without saying excuse me, that person...
    lilskyy lilskyy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2008

    .....

    Unfortunatly i do... I won't hate the person or ignore them or something, but I never forget.
    WakingUp2Reality WakingUp2Reality
    16-17, F
    May 13, 2010

    It Has To Be Bad

    You have to do something really bad for me to hold a grudge, but when I do, it almost never goes away. There are only a few people that I currently hold a grudge against... And trust me. They deserve my stubborn rage directed at them.
    lightwolfmelody lightwolfmelody
    26-30, F
    Mar 4, 2012

    So I Dub Thee Unforgivable

    I just can't forgive people who have wronged me until justice is brought down upon them. I still fantasize about bringing down the mighty hammer of justice on people.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2008

    Revengeeeeee! (in The Nicest Way Possible.)

    When I was about 10 years of age, I got a rabbit toy, and then gave it to my cousin, and then hesitated, and asked for it back. Everyone on my mother's side at the scene of the crime automatically started saying these terrible things about me, that I'll remember for the rest of...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies
    61-65, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2012

    I Change My Actitude But Still...

    Well, i used to be depressed and everybody who came near to me make me angry, Why? well because i just want to be alone but they try to make me in, most only to mock me, few to make me change, then for those who mocked me, i hold an immense grudge. now i'm more social, few want...
    lost54 lost54
    16-17, M
    Dec 12, 2012

    Terrible. I know. But I'm the kind of person

    that, if you do something that hurts me, or anyone I care about, you're cut out of my life. Invisible to me. The only exception is if they take responsibility for what they've done and apologize. Otherwise, I'm not going to lose any sleep cutting you out of my life. No need to...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk
    22-25, F
    Jan 24, 2015
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