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I Honestly Can't Stand My Ex Husband

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    Sociopath

    I am really having a hard time dealing with my ex-husband.  We split almost 9 years ago, have two children, now 11 and 12.  They were babies when I divorced.  He was mentally abusive at the time, a gambler, a drug user, financially irresponsible, etc.  Too many vices to list...
    jfer38 jfer38 36-40 2 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    It Never Changes...

      I have been divorced for quite a few years. My marriage was torn apart by the choices and horrible things my ex husband did during that time. He became a crack cocaine user and drug dealer, getting involved with all types of undesirable people. Long story short, he...
    Diamond427 Diamond427 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    Ugh

    I let him stay at my house for the holidays. I seriously cannot believe I lived with this person for 10 years. He is driving me, my boyfriend, and kids UP A WALL. 4 a.m. (Everybody's asleep and my kids are sleeping with their friends on the living room floor) *knock knock* Me...
    B0ssBitch B0ssBitch 26-30, F Dec 28, 2012

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    I Can'T Stand My Ex

    I can't breathe when He is around! I shake and can't think. What he has done I will never forget. He is a monster!
    Attie6 Attie6 46-50, F 2 Responses May 31, 2013

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    My Exh and I Are Not Friends.

    If I thought I could remain friends with him, I sure wouldn't have put my son through our Divorce.  He was (still is, I presume), a self-centered, lying, manipulative, cheating abusive bastard.  After 11 years of his torment, I just couldn't take anymore.  True to...
    Micksbabe Micksbabe 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I Hate Feeling This Way About My Ex Husband

    I really hate that I can't stand my ex-husband. It really makes me sad that I could have feel this way about someone. he doesn't want me in his circle and I sure don't want him in mine. He knows just how to push my buttons and that sucks big time. He knows just how to keep...
    freeatlast4 freeatlast4 36-40 1 Response Jun 3, 2012

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    I Despise You!!!!

    Forget that one day… I was yours, your breathe, your life, your being We only had eyes for each other. I was a part of you, your dreams and reality. we had plans and what we once wanted forget...Only forget!!!   I know you didn't get over it but when it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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