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    That Would Suck - the way things are going, i think me and mine will be just fine. after 7 yrs [i know thats not long to some people] we are just as happy as we were the first...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    I Hope Not! - Although sex is important to me when it comes to relationships, I know better than to base a relationship entirely on sex. Honestly, I believe sex goes hand in hand...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    Dont Ever Want to Be - So how do you end up in a sexless marrige?  Does everythig go strong and then it just goes downhill from there? 
    jess829 jess829 22-25 Aug 16, 2008

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    But It's So Wonderful -   F-U-C-K-I-N-G It The dirty Knock boots Do the laundry Shag Whatever you call it no one denies, it's FANTASTIC! People get mad when teens have...
    NeenaFlame NeenaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2012

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    **** That - just like i said in the title **** that should be legal grounds for divorce definitely isn't the life my Wonder and I will have
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Sex Is Good... - I don't mean that in nymphmaniac kind of way. I mean that marriage is about compatibility in all  departments...including sex. I hope that my future partner...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2008

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    I Don't Think I Could Do It. - First off I am not going to marry someone who isn't sexual, preferably she will be a bit more sexual than than the norm. Why would anyone stay...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 28 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Hard to Even Get to the Point of Having It - I'm sure it's not just me, but isn't it hard to find time for sex? My husband has a 40 hour/week job, is the percussion section...
    Sidereus Sidereus 19-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2008

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    It's Important - Sex is a very important part of a romantic relationship. The physical attraction and sexual activities, and such, that go on are what seperate romance from just...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Too Late For Me - I already did end up in the hell that is a sexless marriage!!!!!!!
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Bit of An Obsession... - (sorry to post/delete/repost, I had a ton of issues for some silly reason!)   I was in a long term "sexless" relationship for about 7...
    ConfusedKitten ConfusedKitten 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 11, 2008

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    Afraid Of Losing The Passion - My husband and I have been married for 2 years in Sept. We just had a baby a month ago. Before I got pregnant (which we wanted) our sex life was...
    caitg caitg 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2013

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    Connection - it is not enought to hope! keep the connection with each other happening. if you feel you are drifting, you probalby are. reverse the drift ASAP.  
    cuphalffull cuphalffull 46-50, M Jan 28, 2008

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    But It's So Wonderful -   F-U-C-K-I-N-G It The dirty Knock boots Do the laundry Shag Whatever you call it no one denies, it's FANTASTIC! People get mad when teens have...
    NeenaFlame NeenaFlame 18-21, F Sep 22, 2012

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    Don'T Know What To Think! - Is it possible to live in a sexless marriage without resentment? Without questioning yourself and your attractiveness, your desirability? Without losing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    I Found Out.! - I found out why sex and marriage is not what it was before you were married,  this is what my husband says it is... und it makes sense. Marriage changes...
    Leiza350 Leiza350 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    Never Again - Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. My last marriage involved about as much sex a porcupine has.  I am a passionate person by nature and I just could not be...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    No Sex? No Marriage! - My family are very open about sex, out of my girlfriends I'm always the first to mention something about sex, and in relationships the physical connection is...
    DarceySmile DarceySmile 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    I'm really scared that how sexual I get these days are going to affect how I am when I have a boyfriend and if he could meet my sexual needs, I'm confident I could meet his but...
    divababy divababy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Enjoy Your Lover Spiritually - http://s6.photobucket.com/editor?image=http%3A//i6.photobucket.com/albums/y231/coorocker/Image194.jpg&detailUrl=http://s6.photobucket.com/user...
    David1138 David1138 18-21 Jul 31, 2013

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    Plain and Simple: I'd Cheat - I want to marry someone i am intimate with, sex is part of that.  It's a physical manefestation of love.  I think I would seek the...
    alisheaskylar alisheaskylar 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    Remember the Peanuts cartoons where Charlie Brown tried and tried to kick the football held by Lucy? Charlie Brown would approach the ball, skeptical and questioning: "If I try to...
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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
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    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 1 day ago

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    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 26 Responses Mar 20

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    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 30

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    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 30

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    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    princessmaryjane4200 princessmaryjane4200 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    xobluebirdxo xobluebirdxo 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    gardinel gardinel 36-40, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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