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I Hope I Don't End Up In a Sexless Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 249 People

    Sometimes It Cant Be Helped...?

    I am in a relationship that is sliding down the slope to sexless. My wife has an ailment that is very surely taking its toll on our relationship. She is physically unable or unwilling to try new thing to prolong or intimacy before it goes completely. For those that are hoping...
    achilesforty achilesforty
    41-45, M
    Aug 27, 2013

    Enjoy Your Lover Spiritually[media_type]=image&sort=3&o=0 We were made to enjoy the voluptuousness of our partner. Sex is a...
    David1138 David1138
    Jul 31, 2013

    I'm really scared that how sexual I get these

    days are going to affect how I am when I have a boyfriend and if he could meet my sexual needs, I'm confident I could meet his but, mine are important too. I do however respect how far a man is willing to go like, when I was dating this guy two years younger than me and he is a...
    divababy divababy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2014

    Truer Words Were Never Spoken...

    Yeah I see the group's title, and I heard a lot of bad things about marriages well before I ever joined EP, and before seeing groups like this. How does it get to the point where there's little or no sex in the marriage? It makes me wonder if I would ever want to get married. I...
    bro4xxxfun bro4xxxfun
    36-40, M
    Feb 25, 2013

    That Would Suck

    the way things are going, i think me and mine will be just fine. after 7 yrs [i know thats not long to some people] we are just as happy as we were the first day we kissed. we still light up around eachother. sometimes my face hurts from my uncontrolable smiling when hes...
    antiyou antiyou
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2008

    But It's So Wonderful

      F-U-C-K-I-N-G It The dirty Knock boots Do the laundry Shag Whatever you call it no one denies, it's FANTASTIC! People get mad when teens have sex. Why? a number of opinions, (Not making these up) (1) They're to young (2) They'll get pregnant (3) They could be doing...
    PotPrincess PotPrincess
    22-25, F
    Sep 22, 2012

    Too Late For Me

    I already did end up in the hell that is a sexless marriage!!!!!!!
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2008

    Hard to Even Get to the Point of Having It

    I'm sure it's not just me, but isn't it hard to find time for sex? My husband has a 40 hour/week job, is the percussion section leader for the local symphony, teaches private piano lessons, and is in a jazz quartet that is often hired for gigs. He doesn't need to do it all for...
    Sidereus Sidereus
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2008

    No Sex? No Marriage!

    My family are very open about sex, out of my girlfriends I'm always the first to mention something about sex, and in relationships the physical connection is usually the best thing! I'm terrified that when I get married, it'll be a sexless marriage, like so many of them are...
    DarceySmile DarceySmile
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2009


    it is not enought to hope! keep the connection with each other happening. if you feel you are drifting, you probalby are. reverse the drift ASAP.  
    cuphalffull cuphalffull
    46-50, M
    Jan 28, 2008

    Bit of An Obsession...

    (sorry to post/delete/repost, I had a ton of issues for some silly reason!)   I was in a long term "sexless" relationship for about 7 years (thankfully never married him).  I'm still quite young, and while out of that relationship, I'm still obsessdly...
    ConfusedKitten ConfusedKitten
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 11, 2008

    Afraid Of Losing The Passion

    My husband and I have been married for 2 years in Sept. We just had a baby a month ago. Before I got pregnant (which we wanted) our sex life was HOT! About six months into the pregnancy, I wasn't "sexy" anymore. I was "maternal", "holly", and he didn't want to "invade" me. We...
    caitg caitg
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    I feel like my wife and I have been walking

    slowly down the path of sex and passion for the past 20+ years of our marriage. About 5 years ago, however, we came upon a fork in the road. One path was the path of adventure, the other a much safer path. I thought she was following right behind me when I stepped off in the...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 24, 2014

    Her Needs

    I read the aura of this one woman whose husband provides for her basic needs as in food, clothes, a roof over her head, and not to mention he cheats on her with other women, while she practically does everything for him cooking, cleaning you name it working like a slave or maid...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2012

    Plain and Simple: I'd Cheat

    I want to marry someone i am intimate with, sex is part of that.  It's a physical manefestation of love.  I think I would seek the feeling of being loved somewhere else.
    alisheaskylar alisheaskylar
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2008

    Sexless Not Yet But Getting There and Bored!!!

    I have tried everything to persue a more sexual relationship with my partner but her idea of a sexual relationship is having sex about once to two times a week and mine is more like twice a day.  I understand that may be asking alot but I feel there is something lacking and...
    cirishluck25 cirishluck25
    1 Response Dec 21, 2008

    I Am So Glad...

    That someone put this group up. Thanks h4nn4h! :D I have an irrational fear or anxiety of ending up in a sexless marriage or being the cause of one even when I've said I don't wish to get married or I am celibate. I know, it's illogical, forgive me! I still have this unusual fear...
    Neur0ticism Neur0ticism
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2008

    Never Again

    Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. My last marriage involved about as much sex a porcupine has.  I am a passionate person by nature and I just could not be in a marriage where I was lucky if it was once a month. I admit the affair happened and the marriage was ending...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Feb 6, 2008

    Sex and Me

    I believe I'm a nymphmaniac. I want sex every day, even if i'm tired or sick I still want it because I know its available for me. But my boyfriend, who I am living with, is not as sexual as me.. Especially since winter started. He calls it 'the winter blues', where his sex...
    Sexishedevil Sexishedevil
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2009

    Don'T Know What To Think!

    Is it possible to live in a sexless marriage without resentment? Without questioning yourself and your attractiveness, your desirability? Without losing hope? Is a sexless marriage one with no sex at all or very little? Is it relative to the length of the marriage? If so I'm...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 31, 2013

    I Found Out.!

    I found out why sex and marriage is not what it was before you were married,  this is what my husband says it is... und it makes sense. Marriage changes passion. Suddenly you're in bed with a relative. I belive he is right whats your thoughts.? Leiza
    Leiza350 Leiza350
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    Dont Ever Want to Be

    So how do you end up in a sexless marrige?  Does everythig go strong and then it just goes downhill from there? 
    jess829 jess829
    Aug 16, 2008

    Sex Is Good...

    I don't mean that in nymphmaniac kind of way. I mean that marriage is about compatibility in all  departments...including sex. I hope that my future partner, whoever he is, is someone that I can grow with sexually as well as emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. I also...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2008

    It's Important

    Sex is a very important part of a romantic relationship. The physical attraction and sexual activities, and such, that go on are what seperate romance from just friendship. I also think that people cheapen sex too much. They say that something is "just sex" or all...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 4, 2008

    It's All About Chemistry

    My husband and I have been married 21years and sex is and has always been great! I think as long As u don't lose the spark u will always have a great sex life.
    SweetnessNC SweetnessNC
    Dec 25, 2010

    I Don't Think I Could Do It.

    First off I am not going to marry someone who isn't sexual, preferably she will be a bit more sexual than than the norm. Why would anyone stay with someone who changes to the point of no longer wanting to make love to you. If it came to that then I am afraid the third...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia
    41-45, M
    28 Responses Jan 29, 2008

    **** That

    just like i said in the title **** that should be legal grounds for divorce definitely isn't the life my Wonder and I will have
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Jan 29, 2008
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