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I How to Forgive When Cheated On

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13, 2014

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My girlfriend of 8 years, cheated on me last year. Kept the affair going for 6 months. We are trying to work it out but I sometimes can't shake it. Is the affair REALLY over? Will...
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    I don't think this is new, I think that the victims are just now be heard, unlike before; the volume of their cries and frustrations had been muted for a long long time and is...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    http://www.infidelityhelpgroup.com/2014/08/06/their-affair-was-your-fault/ I found I definitely blamed myself when I found out and in some ways still do. I waited too long to do...
    sp7799 sp7799 36-40, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    So my husband cheated on me a little over a year ago. I still have little trust in him. So today we were on our way out and I'm telling him how he makes me feel when we are out...
    CountryLife83 CountryLife83 31-35, F 33 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    FALL MADLY IN LOVE BUT DON'T BE A FOOL If you feel like being cheated by your wife get her underwear or other clothing and order any of the following test. these test identifies...
    clapoff clapoff 36-40 14 hrs ago

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    I discovered my boyfriend of 3 yrs cheated on me. I found out from a conversation on his phone where he was telling this girl that she looks very beautiful on the pictures she sent...
    Ilovejulie2000 Ilovejulie2000 31-35, F 15 hrs ago

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    Hi I would like to vent a little bit about a few things.I cant always express things on my mind.I try to explain a lot of to my spouse and few friends.But there is certain things...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 19 hrs ago

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    Cough !! Cough ....Aaaaachhhuuu Fair warning ....I am very contagious, you can come close at your own risk of course :) "Just when you think you are all grown up and you don't...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 7 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Family Affair-My paternal grandmother,who raised me,was and still is a very skilled seamstress for a living. Her husband use to be a tailor. Two of her 3 sons are tailors with my...
    MeritEun MeritEun 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

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    I really really genuinely do! I can't stand when a kindhearted person that only cares about other people, Someone that puts everyone before themselves and hates hurting others, Has...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    June 12, 2015 I went to the movies with my sister & her 2 youngest kids the last thing I remember before coming too in the ICU. 12 hours later was watching the big dinosaurs play...
    msmarch13 msmarch13 31-35 2 days ago

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a a hard time forgiving others for their mistakes. There are somethings I wonder if I can forgive. I know it is important to forgive others, but I just don't know how to...
    BrokenAngel38 BrokenAngel38 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    His ex girl was in my dorm. When they broke up she found a new guy within the week, and I started dating him a few months later. As soon as her relationship failed, she got jealous...
    sxphieds sxphieds 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Due to recent events in my life, forgiveness has been a reoccurring matter of thought for me. Not a long time ago, my mother said "Everything can be forgiven" Really? The way she...
    LilyLua LilyLua 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I did get my revenge. I picked at them here and there whenever and wherever I could. It amounted. It never felt like enough, though. I felt like I was never fully compensated. I...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me since day 1 with his ex-girlfriend! He is so used to us taking a break, or he would break up with me, and eventually I would find out he...
    gabssss23 gabssss23 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    we have been together for 10 years and last month, the week before Mother's Day, the other woman sent me a message on FB with a dummy account , stating that the lies stop here...
    Desert06 Desert06 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My first love i was with for god knows how many years and i had pretty deep feelings for her but on our anniversary i made a great dinner and she never showed. i ended up going to...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    i would do ANYTHING to take back that awful mistake. my fiance and i had been having problems. at one point, i'd almost convinced myself that i wanted to dump him and find someone...
    fadedphoenix fadedphoenix 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I've only had one real relationship in my life. He broke my heart and it took me years to get over it. I still have not given anyone my whole heart since. But... I forgive him...
    KingMarcray37 KingMarcray37 22-25, M Jun 21

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    You know what they say, forgiveness doesn't mean that you are giving a free pass to the people who hurt you. Rather, we forgive people because we deserve to be free from the pain...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Lately in Charleston South Carolina a shooting in a church killed 9 people, now Im not going to dwell over this but one things the family of the victims did is they forgiven the...
    twistex2015 twistex2015 18-21, M Jun 20

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    So lately I've been questioning if I should even be with my boyfriend. Mostly I think I am with him because we have a lot of fun and he's really good in bed, but I've never felt...
    serenabelle serenabelle 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    Ok so hear goes. So lately I've been questioning if I should even be with my boyfriend. Mostly I think I am with him because we have a lot of fun and he's really good in bed, but I...
    serenabelle serenabelle 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    TODAY.... Forget your past. Forgive yourself. And begin again. To forgive is to be at peace in your soul.
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 41-45, F 12 Responses Jun 18

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    It was before we got married we had been together bout three years had a son we was in process of moving to my hometown 30min away i stayed with family 30min away to find job n...
    Sonnier2013 Sonnier2013 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    A year ago my fiancee confessed he cheated on me while we were boyfriend and girlfriend, we fought we cried we talked and we fought some more, but we "overcome the trauma". He is...
    guira guira 22-25, F Jun 17

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