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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13

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    Its not forgiving others... Its forgiving myself... Ive done something so terrible that its been a year and it still eats me on the inside. I will never forgive myself over...
    TeddyOrTeddie TeddyOrTeddie 13-15, M Sep 10

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    This story in particular goes out to one individual on EP, who has probably been my best friend on EP (and I hope he knows who he is). A couple days ago, I was chatting with him...
    therealjeric therealjeric 16-17, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So lately I have been working a lot on forgiveness. Forgivingthe person involved, fending off resentment, and most importantly, forgiving myself. Even though I feel like I have...
    justkeepswimming89 justkeepswimming89 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Everyone I have ever been with has cheated.. But you can't let it define your life.
    Jodyann1 Jodyann1 31-35, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    So my bf , well now exbf cheated on me. I had an emotional break down weeks ago , so I was kinda distant with him. First I took it well , I guess I didn't react at all, I just...
    AndyWTC AndyWTC 18-21, F 2 Responses 38 mins ago

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    My girlfriend was on holiday when a friend called me and said to me that my girlfriend cheated on me. We were together for about 4 months when i learned the news. The period when...
    Hitman21 Hitman21 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So I know what you're thinking. She cheated? Well I don't know for certain she swears she didn't. However she lied to me twice. First time she rode with some guy and evidently did...
    CuriousCausality CuriousCausality 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It really sucks. The day I found out it was still early he was sleeping in our bed and I was playing Poppit on his smart phone I did it all the time but that day pops up a new...
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I grew up without a father and yet I was never really one of those kids that questioned why. When I was seven, my mother met my step father. At first he floated into our lives and...
    Ditzstressed Ditzstressed 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Throughout the past year or so, I've been through a lot. My emotions have been everywhere. I've laughed, cried, and everything in between. And for what? One guy. I'm a teenager and...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got...
    angelsmile67 angelsmile67 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Should I forgive him? I found out my fiance has pictures of a naked girl in his comp in a saved folder. I looked at the date taken and it's while we were together, 3 months into...
    jellybeanie22 jellybeanie22 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    But. Omg. But when i try the pain hits. Or i succeed momentarily. Until i hear of jerks. Hypersensitive yes. Aware yes. Are they No. Never publicly...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    I've never cheated! I've been cheated on though. Cheaters never seem to get the concept of how much pain they inflict on others! Cheating is selfish... Just be single if you want...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have been married to my husband for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    Lol I don't know how many times I've been cheated on!! Every fn relationship!!! It's kinda sad when you start getting used to it. Maybe, one day I'll find a good partner, who won't...
    Kayloves060814 Kayloves060814 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I forgive everybody else, but your self is the hardest to forgive. I want to forgive me. Do you forgive me? Will you treat me better than I have been treated?
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Time does not heal all wounds...The key is to gain closure by starting a dialog with those who have wronged you in the past, accepting that not everyone is at the same level or...
    TabbyBD TabbyBD 70+, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Well I used to date someone and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Yep sadly ALL my girlfriends cheated on me! Why? Phew still not 100% sure about that, mostly they said that people cant fall in love with me. Strange cuz after weeks or months they...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Devon1739q Devon1739q 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Its been over a year since I found out my ex had been cheating on me and its been almost a year since I last heard from him at all. I have to start by saying I miss him every day...
    harlow8776 harlow8776 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    We were in a relationship for 4 years and she decided that one night with a random guy from the bar was more important then us. She thought she wouldn't find out but it was my...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M Aug 27

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    Just something I felt like sharing/talking about. My current bf and I had a fight and I guess this was his way of "getting back" at me. He began entertaining conversations with...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 30

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    We had been together nearly two years when I found out he cheated. He admitted what he done but lied about the whole truth which I found out later, it was a one time thing. He's my...
    karennxx karennxx 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I just don't know how. I have a list of people that I need to go down and try to forgive each one of them for myself.
    achantal achantal 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Some people enjoy being the thorn in your side. How do you forgive active malice?
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    Sandalwood3 Sandalwood3 41-45, F Sep 10

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    Cheated on again...when will I learn? I let the first time go by, because it hadn't even been for a week, and you didn't have feelings for that girl. And I thought you still loved...
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 26