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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 26-30, F Jun 13, 2014

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    I just think it would be fun to learn how to ride a motorcycle. Would I actually own one? I don't know. On one hand, it could be really fun to ride a motorcycle during the summer...
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    I was 17. I was volunteering at a church camp. The Sunday school teacher early 40s maybe was working late and I was just getting the campers to bed. She said her neck was...
    Gws1269 Gws1269 46-50, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm a survivor, it's what I do. Even if I don't want to, if I push someone away it's because I don't trust them. Which means subconsciously I found an angle the person(s) is...
    Nmetb Nmetb 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    Stressed Out by Twenty One Pilots ~This isn't really how I'm feeling but I want to share...This song has been stuck in my head for 2 days! When my eyes open in the morning (for 2...
    soft0ne soft0ne 46-50, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I want some advise as my husband cheated on me after our engagement February 2015 and after our marriage September 2015. We are couple from 2005 until 2015 and all in all 10...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ...I'm sorry bae, but I cheated on you. This has been happening for probably 13 weeks now....I am so sorry. I just can't live with myself, but I love her so much....my second bae...
    SuspiciousCerealGuy SuspiciousCerealGuy 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been with my husband since I was 16 .We have had our fights but everything always sorts itself out and we have a pretty good relationship although he is quite moody and...
    thinkb4uact thinkb4uact 22-25 3 days ago

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    Forgive people when you can someday you will need someone to forgive you
    justmyself11 justmyself11 51-55, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    which isn't the reason why I'm still so bitter and angry. It's more because of his betrayal and countless lies. Why doesn't he see that? I told him I KNEW EVERYTHING and gave...
    ImNotTelling33 ImNotTelling33 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I keep trying to forget what I did. The night my dad died I left the room. He was on hospice and he was at home. I hired someone to care for him 24 hours a day but I gave him...
    omgomg123 omgomg123 70+, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi, my name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs old. In high school I was dating this girl when we were southmores in high school we lasted 3 years with in those 3 years I found out she...
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my wife. I do regret it. She knows...I told her.
    fferret fferret 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend cheated on me and I took him back. Now we live together, and I have caught him in several lies. Because of this I snuck into his phone (that he is so protective of...
    wantac1 wantac1 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I actually feel jealous of my kids!!! That my husband who was my best friend, now hates me and left us, but he still sees the kids. They get texts saying he misses them, he loves...
    Mostfabdon Mostfabdon 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm realizing now I can't forgive and forget easily because of what a guy did to me.
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    when I was 17, I lived with my dad. mom told me he wasn't my real father and made it pretty damn convincing and I moved back home. when I was 18, my sister admitted she was abused...
    girlonpause girlonpause 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    My ex boyfriend cheated on me, we broke up but since then have been seeing each other "as friends", everything kept fine for over 4 months, until monday when he answered a note...
    electraheartx electraheartx 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 28

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    NEED HELP!! Me & my boyfriend were hanging out with some friends last night. This one guy in our group of friends, John. My bf always accuses me of having a thing for him or...
    Bluee44 Bluee44 16-17, F 10 Responses Jan 27

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    ive been married 29 years and my wife has cheated on me hundres of times with atleast15 diffrent people in the last 4 years shesysshell stop andiwant to belive her but how can i...
    mondokahuna mondokahuna 51-55, M 8 Responses Jan 27

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    i think we all have at one point and time been cheated on, whether we know it or not. but the feelings that come with it are horrible.. the crying the feeling of not good enough...
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    So I'm the one who got cheated on AGAIN by my ex whom I was wit for 5 years and he got my name tatted and got another girl pregnant while we were together. While we were together...
    thatgirlvannesa thatgirlvannesa 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WL0269xbykQ&list=RDWL0269xbykQ "Oh you're a lucky son Lucky son of a gun You went away You went away .. You went away but now you're back.." I...
    Angelofthesilence Angelofthesilence 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My boyfriend cheated on me and after 6 months of removing him from my life I forgave him and recently I caught him flirting with a girl over messages and he says it's my fault...
    karrennn karrennn 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 26

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    I've gotten frustrated with news stories, youtubers, youtube comments, Yahoo comments, friends, Facebook comments, family members, random conversations, or etc. When someone feels...
    brownowleyes brownowleyes 31-35, F Jan 25

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    I got involved with a guy 2 years ago, then we lost touch, back in Sept of last year we reconnected and spent every weekend together... I thought we were dating... The thing was...
    ifollowmyownstar ifollowmyownstar 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I used to shut people out when I'm hurt.It was like I will stop communication with that person and avoid that person as far as I can.I held a hidden resentment and anger towards...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 23

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    Well,I often read posts here of those who have been cheated on.Those who cheat don't know how hurtful it is.It messes up your life big time.More when you have an affair with...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I feel like I have been cheated on by someone who I been with for the past almost 4 years. How could someone else just go behind my back and have sex with someone else without...
    agdnn agdnn 26-30, M Jan 22

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    I wanted to insult my cheating ex and release all my anger because he had betrayed me so much but if I do that it won't make the situation any better. I was professional on my last...
    loveandmisadventure loveandmisadventure 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    SONG ~ ALABASTER BOX~SUNG BY LILLIE McCLOUD Gosh wow I LOVE This incredible song :D!!!Also the woman is stunningly beautiful,I LOVE HER SPIRIT OF JUBILATION,FIRE, POSITIVITY...
    NyxInvictus NyxInvictus 41-45 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I feel empty and alone ever since my ex cheated on me. I loved him and his son with all my heart and did everything for them. He told me that he's been cheated on before and would...
    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    okay so. my boyfriend and i and have been together for 3 years. we love each other. other people are jealous of us as a couple. we hardly fight and always manage to talk things...
    adele08 adele08 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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