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I How to Forgive When Cheated On

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    well Im not sure what most of you consider cheating but I think this counts. my boyfriend of almost two yrs send a video of himself doing stuff to another woman a much older woman...
    jessmd1 jessmd1 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've been cheated on :( I've been together with my common law spouse for 15 years. We have 2 amazing kids. A boy who is 12 and a girl who is 11 going on 18! I found out last...
    YOLO73 YOLO73 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 21

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    Woke up in good health next to healthy husband. I remember to pray in the morning before I got up. Shortly after found out that my youngest child had voluntarily put the tea...
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Cheated on the receiving end I have given you every part of me Even parts I needed myself to survive I've sacrificed my heart upon your alter Set you upon a throne above all I...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi, I really need your advice because I'm a bit confused and rattled. I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months when we first met everything was great, we laughed so much and had...
    Rainrebel Rainrebel 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Well, it was confirmed... Joe was right, and my boyfriend (now ex) did cheat on me with his ex. His girlfriend must've started attending the school after I left for the Summer, so...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I have learned so much fro my past two experiences. I always stayed away from younger men because of the misconception that they were less mature and more prone to cheat. I have...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    My boyfriend went out drinking with his buddies and called me from the bathroom of a ***** club to tell me how much he loved me and about a cute Asian girl named Emily. He then...
    Sh318y Sh318y 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 18

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    Please someone tell me how to forgive my ex. I suddenly remembered months ago: My ex asked me to make him some egg omelette in pita bread- my new invention, like a wrap switch...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Oct 4

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    we was in relationship from 1 and half year. one day she said me that she want to go for a moive with one of her friend ( a boy) i have no problem with it so i said yess... after 5...
    Annki777 Annki777 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    Listen guys... This will hurt a bit. One day, you will come to understand that parents are just adults and not perfect, you yourself one day, will be challenged in the same way...
    AidanMac AidanMac 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    I honestly believed that this man...no, scratch that..this boy would never cheat on me. We have known each other for roughly ten years which is most of our lives. We had our fair...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    Hey mom, it's been a long time since we've seen each other, and even longer since we've spoken. I was 17 when I moved out, you said nothing, when Chrystal died and you showed up at...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 4

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    http://www.familylifeeducation.org/gilliland/procgroup/CorrieTenBoom.htm http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMn0QNdiuGE Those two links both have to do with forgiveness. The top one...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F Oct 16

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    I am nearly 18, iv been with my boyfriend since i was 14 and i have never had feelings for someone the way i have him, i love him. Recently i found out he cheated on me, with my...
    hurtseveryday hurtseveryday 16-17, F 9 Responses Oct 17

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    It is very easy to judge others and to remain angry with them for good reasons but have you ever stopped to think how you feel when you hold a grudge against someone. I've been...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    Even you. I shut people out when they hurt me. It is how I manage to keep my head above water despite the chaos left in our wake. First was my mother. I shut her out at quite a...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I'm 18 years old and I have just recently found out that my girlfriend of 6 months cheated on me 3 times In the past week. My girl friend is 15 and is known for being flirty. I...
    Bry4n Bry4n 18-21, M 9 Responses Oct 2

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    To whom this bell tolls,Come to me devilish troll.Who whispered in your ears,And then he stole your soul. Tick tock tick tock,Then the troll ran up the clock.And you are like...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 8 Responses Oct 22

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    To give up our ego and surrendering all of our expectation, I believe, forgiveness is the hardest things to do, which is why doing it is a strength to do. By forgiving we are one...
    DelonWulf DelonWulf 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My brother was killed last year in a road accident, he was returning home after a trip He was traveling in a cab and was at the back seat There cab was crushed by an audi q7 which...
    deathdidusapart deathdidusapart 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've just been rejected harshly after trying to apologise to someone. At what point do you turn around to someone and ask him/her to forgive you for all the harm you might have...
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25 Sep 30

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    Tomorrow October 21st I will be 47 year old. When I look back on the life I've wasted and the unforgivable things I did in the past it pushes me to make a fourth attempt at ending...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 20

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    I don't forgive and forget easily is a misconception. I don't forgive and forget at all. I am sorry but this stop has but one chance. Life is too short, mistakes I can stand...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 5 Responses Oct 17

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    I figure if I can't forgive myself why not look at things on the bright-side. I've lost a lot of weight now I have to buy new clothes. Shopping spree, yay! My mom's happy I've...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F Oct 19

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    hes cheated at least 3 times once while i was having our child, everytime with someone i thought were friends, and friends knew but didnt tell me. How do you trust again, hes...
    dannielle80 dannielle80 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, I write 200 stories about my life, but had to erase them all because of negative comments made by people. I wrote about Indian Hindu genocides and how they murdered my...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My EX cheated on me with my 1st best friend . I forgave him and my best friend and then he cheated on me with my other best friend. That's why have begun to have serious doubts on...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 9 Responses Oct 1

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    He cheated on me with my friend and she knew he was cheated on me with her I wanted to kick his a** and burn him My friends I was mad at but were still friends
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    Not sure how to frame this but my wife has never been a eager giver of oral until about 5 years ago. She only gave a little as foreplay, never to completion. I returned one...
    Joboo6 Joboo6 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 19

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    Due to a mental disorder, I experience extreme mood swings, not unlike bipolar disorder. When these happen, I tend to lash out and hurt people, not physically but through words. I...
    angels16 angels16 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    In my life... I have had a lot of things taken from me, or have been hurt by people that was suppose to be there to protect me, has a lifetime of hurt with trusting the wrong...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 1 Response a week ago

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    Just thinking about typing this sent cold chills remembering it all and tears and a heavy heart to carry. When I met him, he was already glorified by everyone at college. I was...
    lovedtoomuchurtasmuch lovedtoomuchurtasmuch 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Mark 11:25 And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”
    lilyrose234 lilyrose234 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Forgive those who you have not forgiven as you are forgiven... Woo hoo JESUS is LORD!!!
    dashuria dashuria 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It seems like when I need someone I'm all alone. I'm always available when others need me but when I need someone there no where to be found. Yes, I'm a loner at heart but there...
    TheFusmicster TheFusmicster 26-30, F 1 Response 43 mins ago

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    Nearly 15 years ago in my last summer before going off to university I found out that my father was cheating on my mother on a regular basis for a number of years. My allegiance...
    Synapse81 Synapse81 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 13