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I How to Forgive When Cheated On

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Confusing story about my classmate. He is one great person and amazing friend, to be honest. So he was together with this girl ( our classmate as well) .. her ex boyfriend quite...
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    I'm a senior in high school and have been with my bf for over a year. We met on fb. He's an odd duck with a warm heart and I'm kinda the same. Of course his heart must not be too...
    tjindigo tjindigo 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was 6 months pregnant when I found out he was cheating. He accidentally butt dialed me at 4 in the morning when he was with her...I can still remember the pain building up in my...
    cnk2015 cnk2015 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted...
    gabe1982 gabe1982 31-35, M Dec 11

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    I'm so ashamed of myself jeez... I tried to tell 'em but I scares the heck out of me... What will he say... Oh god.... He'll never forgive me... I'm sorry dominos I cheated on...
    BrokenInnocence BrokenInnocence 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    I just found out my husband has been cheating on me for the past year (as far as he has admitted, anyway). Various women, random hook ups, no reason other than "he wasn't thinking...
    probablygoingtoregretthis probablygoingtoregretthis 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    It wasn't her that ruined us...it was you. I loved you unconditionally but you did the ONE thing I can't forgive. Swear I wanna forgive you but I know it will never be the same and...
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    He knows that I am leaving..... He told me last night, he could see it in my actions. That he doesn't know what he did that I can't forgive him. I told him flat out my reasons. I...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 10

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    my husband and i have been best friends for 20 years, in a relationship for 4 yrs and married for 1. I found out he was cheating on me just before we got married and was sending...
    mumofj mumofj 26-30, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    First, I know it's long, but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I knew that he did. I also knew that it ended. But last night when I was cleaning out his truck I came across something's that didn't belong and implications of him being with...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    first of, this doesn't mean I hate my mom.. its complicated in a way I love her for all the sacrifices, for taking care of me and my sibligs and providing for the family... but I...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    i have cheated on my husband multiple times. we have been married for 3 and half year and I started cheating since last year. It was an arranged marriage and I got married really...
    idontknowwhatiwant idontknowwhatiwant 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    Not much to say other than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    Or just in general, just cheated...For years i would try to tell myself"I would never be that type of person, I'm not that stupid" But I was...As years went by I just would never...
    Onlyoneme18 Onlyoneme18 18-21, F Nov 26

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    I m sure my story isn't the worst. He just cheated on me in ***** club, but I really have a problem seeing myself as loveable woman , I have a huge difficulty in accepting myself...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I forgive myself for having so much trouble moving on. I forgive the world for not being perfect. I forgive my love one for making the choices she continues to make. I forgive...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M Nov 29

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    You and I, we got hurt my screams of fear wander to the eternal ether a crime was done on me, one I thought I could never forgive and forget Anger raged through my cells and soul...
    stdan4978 stdan4978 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    It's actually funny cuz when I'm in a relationship I'm honest and open with the other person but yet I have always got cheated on in my past relationships which I don't think much...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Long story short, I found out about 9 months ago that my wife was cheating on me. I happened to go through her phone one day and found a pretty damning text message. She...
    donnie2419 donnie2419 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just think of all the times I needed forgiveness... I just made bad decisions or at times was not thinking. I know at times it was hard to forgive me but I am greatful to those...
    lake1107 lake1107 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    Yes and I'm not proud of it My husband (now ex) and I were together over 20 years. We had issues. I met a man online. I was falling for him. I asked my husband to go to marriage...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I've always been able to forgive others pretty easily. I'll probably be mad for the rest of the day, maybe till the next morning, but then I am fine. The problem I have is that I...
    BobbyClaude BobbyClaude 18-21, M Dec 6

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    So you snuck into my house, With a mask covering your face. You had your back turned to me, Then you left without a trace. You scared to death now, Cause you're headed for a...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 8

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    I love reading through my old journals. I was just reading a page I wrote when I was going through the rough patch.. To think it all started when I met you on sucha beautiful day...
    26andgoing 26andgoing 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    So my storys a little different. I fell in love with my bestfriend and after 2 years we started dating. We dated for 2years and our relationship was going great, he was the perfect...
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    My boyfriend Alan Richert cheated on me more times than I can count. He is addicted to having sex with as many people as possible. And he is accomplishing this goal with great...
    honestyisbest1960 honestyisbest1960 56-60, F Nov 24

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    Forgiveness makes your soul soar, those who forgive are the best people in the world! I need to forgive myself..
    prettyballerina prettyballerina 31-35, F Nov 26

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    The small things...I can forgive. But when someone lies to me, cheats on me, leaves me, etc...I'm not going to just forgive that person. I don't forget anything. I have tried to...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    Difficult, but sometimes vital. If I couldn't forgive certain events from my past I’d not be here. Feeling constant anger over something is incredibly draining, and incredibly...
    morea morea 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 8

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    Forgiiiiiiiive. Forgive and forgive. FORGIVE. Why is it so hard sometimes.
    kangaroo02 kangaroo02 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    my whole life you can say was pretty easy I understood things alot of other didn't from a very young age up until this day but when I started dealing with boys my first...
    sluttycapricorn sluttycapricorn 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Do you know what baffles me, I'm from the UK, I'm young 22. And I look into this because I'm so open minded, I find that I look at every single angle. I tell you as a young man - I...
    Interestedinsubject Interestedinsubject 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    He grew up in San Jose and went to St. Francis High School in Mountain View where he played basketball. At the University of California in Santa Barbara, he played intramural...
    William7035cob3 William7035cob3 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    He grew up in San Jose and attended St. Francis High School in Mountain View where he played basketball. At the University of California in Santa Barbara, he played intramural...
    Ethack826k7ix2 Ethack826k7ix2 31-35, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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