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I How to Forgive When Cheated On

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13, 2014

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I know we've all been cheated on .... sadly. By a show of 'hearts' , how many have cheated?
    savysue savysue 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 5

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    My husband (soon to be ex) cheated on me numerous times in the time we were together. I found messages just a month after we were married that showed he wasn't faithful, but I...
    TryAnStopMe TryAnStopMe 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my husband today.... I'm not proud of it but a part of me is. I love him with all my heart I would never intentionally hurt him. So this is what happened: I left my...
    spencer369 spencer369 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    And the b**ch ran away with his hoe a**. And when he turned abusive she thought she could just run back to me like I forgot how she hurt me. **** her. I told her a** that too...
    TrackStackz TrackStackz 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    Iam 16 years old and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months and I completely fell in love with her she means everything to me and I know I mean the world to her too...
    Qewwz Qewwz 22-25, M Mar 15

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    He cheated and denied it all. And I forgave him. But Idk if I should get back with him I mean he makes me so happy and he hasn't stopped tryng since we broke up 5 months ago but at...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 13

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    So my fiancé cheated on me with another girl...I am trying to decide if I should give him another chance. What do you guys think?
    JazzyBaby321 JazzyBaby321 18-21, F 36 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    In my current relationship and the previous relationship. Which completely dumbfounds me. In a relationship I spoil my guys. Cook. Clean. Massage. Very active sex life. And...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I found out recently that my wife of 18 years(together for 21 yrs) cheated on me about 12 years ago. The guy she cheated with was a co-worker of hers. I remember the circumstances...
    Buddhabee Buddhabee 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 17

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    So my ex destroyed me so bad I really liked him and I don't see myself w anyone else but I feel dumb if I forgive him for causing me so much damage. We talked yesterday and he said...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 2

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    What I Believe And Learned About Forgiveness At first the theory, the thoughts, the things I believe. Then one real example from life. --- I believe that there is no...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a few months, however he's been my best friend for over a year. We've always been very close, and I thought we were completely open with each other...
    wednesdayy wednesdayy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    My ex and I were in a long-distance relationship from April 2014 to June the same year, then again from September until January of this year. We took a break because his career...
    Mollywobbles225 Mollywobbles225 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I was very stupid and cheated on my husband and now I want to make things right with him. He says he forgives me but he can't get over it. He has asked for my help to help him...
    bonnief50 bonnief50 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    my 4 year boyfriend who has cheated on me numberous times n I don't understand why?? I'm expecting our 2nd baby together and I've always loved him so much!! I just can't forgive...
    georgieleah georgieleah 22-25, F Mar 8

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    Before I actually begin, I just want to say that this wasn't literal cheating. It was basically just tons of thoughts and emotions I couldn't mentally or physically handle. I still...
    Peytonvannseal Peytonvannseal 26-30, M Mar 16

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    My son's father cheated on me a few times I just found out a couple of months ago when he finally admitted it. at the point I had already been moved out for two months. I don't...
    butterfly1614 butterfly1614 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Dear Experience Project readers, I am madly, truly, passionately, genuinely just deeply in love with my best friend G and have been for the past 2 years. We just recently admitted...
    Sunnysan22 Sunnysan22 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    On the virtual gridiron there are specific plays that don't work as effectively as they should. Even though Madden 20120 has impressive realism, certain formations still aren't up...
    fastfifa15coins fastfifa15coins 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    But we did. Scented love letters and late night phone calls have been replaced by texts or worse.....just not giving a damn. Making love in the hot August night and then going to...
    rustyskills rustyskills 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

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    Please, to those who come across my post, I'm in desperate need of advice. Approximately 3-4 months ago I found out my boyfriend of six years cheated on me. "Always trust your...
    Jninety3 Jninety3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I have been cheated on and I have cheated. I met this guy named Ryan when I was in 8th grade. We got together after about a month of knowing each other and it was really good (we...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 Mar 1

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    I find it pointless ... have you ever walked in the rain and ever looked around and noticed how serene it was.. how it felt... It always seemed so peaceful like it could be a dream...
    Chibiiiii Chibiiiii 22-25, F 1 Response 36 mins ago

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    i have been with my current bf for only a month. he has literally cheated on me at least 10 or 15 times already. and its not just me think he is cheating on me i have a close...
    lovermaker21 lovermaker21 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    And wants to reconcile.....it will be a cold day in hell before I allow this man back into my life. He is now calling asking for forgiveness, can we work out our marriage, etc...
    flirtinglove flirtinglove 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    i always forgive people especially those who took my heart away then suddenly throw it away.. i dont know why and how i surpass thing is this situation.. they said im strong and so...
    exor14 exor14 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I have been cheated on repeatedly by the same partner. I have been cheated on by several men in my past and I believe they all did but just were slick enough to not get caught. I...
    fbizzle fbizzle 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Especially when these people are close to you, be it friends, or in-laws. In my case its the ol' bad in-law story. I've fallen in love with a very good man and he's in love with me...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I just found out my ex fiance cheated on me and went to florida to meet his ex girlfriend two days before my birthday ... I just need some help ive never been cheated on before and...
    alexmorales123 alexmorales123 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 1

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    I am beginning to think there is something wrong with me that my boyfriend has to cheat on me. Although he has not physically cheated on me, I have caught him on a dating website...
    creepinbeauty creepinbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    My friend was pretty bossy to me back in December 2014 before Christmas. It was around two weeks after my grandfather passed away. She invited me to spend the night so I can get my...
    maialove maialove 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    we dated for 5 months. Now I never thought in a million years that it would happen to me, I never thought that I would get cheated on. But...it happened and I'm going to tell you...
    sfausett33 sfausett33 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It takes a lot to forgive like that true story I've read about a priest who's life was terrorized by the place he went to build a church I can't remember the country. Those thugs...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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