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I How to Forgive When Cheated On

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13, 2014

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    It's just not easy to forgive.. When people tell me that they forgive.. I don't believe them. I just think we naturally carry grudges, not because we are bad people.. It's just...
    AAlD AAlD 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    So.. the whole thing is weird...we met and have been together for over 2 years and a half, however he has cheated on me at the beginning of our relationship and has been for about...
    alexxxboo alexxxboo 18-21, F May 10

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    So today I've cheated on my test, got caught. but surprisingly, I wasn't scared to face the consequences, when I went to speak to my teacher, she told me what will happen and that...
    tantinaaaa tantinaaaa 16-17, F May 8

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    I met a guy who got me very excited. I cheated on my boyfriend with him, only to find that he can't get it up. What a waste of sin.
    chxngme chxngme 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I was cheated on by my husband. He wants to come back home after having an affair and proposing to the girl. Just Recently, Josh Duggar resigned from his job amid him...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband of 11 years cheated on me. He actually even proposed to her, and we are still married. He filed for divorce, had a vasectomy reversal and set a wedding date for this...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses May 15

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    My boyfriend and I had been dating for about 5 months at the time. It was Friday and I was at work, afterwards I was going to sleepover his house. My friend who is also friends...
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 16-17 1 Response May 1

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    If you're in the situation of having to forgive betrayal, being cheated on in a relationship please me too "I am not the other woman" There's wives there who are forgiving their...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was in rehab, for 16 days. Someone told me that forgiveness wasn't for the other person, it for ourselves. I had so much trouble understanding this because I'm the type of...
    skinbaby69 skinbaby69 18-21, F May 10

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    a few days ago my mom went too far. ( warning. lengthy experience ahead!) to start off, she has always been the skinny one in the family. Always eating small portions of health...
    Lunawoofy Lunawoofy 18-21 May 11

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    When I way in college in 2004, I had my first real girlfriend. She was beautiful and funny and we got along really well. We were from different ethnic backgrounds but that never...
    grimfandango85 grimfandango85 26-30, M May 17

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    I do and not in the religious way either, but in the human, mortal way. I have forgiven many in my life who hurt me. Some meant to intentionally, some did unintentionally. That is...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble 56-60, F 1 Response May 15

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    There is no shame that your woman cheated. There is no blame. It does not make you less of a man. The shame and blame belong with her. You are more of a man than the sneek she...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    Another great week ! I have read that forgiveness is the highest form of love ,,,do you agree ? Thoughts on this .
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 6 Responses May 18

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    I feel guilty. Like I've cheated life. Taken it away from someone who hasn't even got a chance to even see what it's like. Now they will never know me and I will never know them...
    hannahashleigh23 hannahashleigh23 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    How can I ever forgive the man who killed my mom? How can I let go of the anger that weighs down my soul and keeps me from moving on and growing as a person? My kids will never...
    KarmaComedian517 KarmaComedian517 31-35, F 3 Responses May 14

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    Please forgive me for the things I've done. I didn't plan on falling for you. I was resigned to a life of being cold and alone inside my head. All the years and all of the pain I...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M May 15

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    I cheated on my girlfriend early start of our relationship. why? I was being plain selfish and dumb. we're two months into this relationship. she's basicially tells me every single...
    love1336 love1336 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Not recently, but it was more than once. All it really was was empty "revenge" for the things he did. For a long time, our relationship was pretty messed up - we never seemed to be...
    IzzzyD IzzzyD 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I cheated on my boyfriend. I'm not sure how I should tell him... :( I still love him, and I had no affection towards the guy I cheated with, should I call him and tell him or wait...
    throughourowneyes throughourowneyes 18-21, F 7 Responses May 1

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    I was cheated on by my boyfriend and what makes it worse is that he was the first boy i ever dated, my first boyfriend and he made me soo happy but when i found out he was cheating...
    Ilonalip Ilonalip 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    I've come to understand that "seeking forgiveness" involves showing some real guts, not towards anyone out there, but towards oneself. It is going through a process of deep...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    My parents and I never had a very close relationship. I will admit that it is partially my fault, but it felt it necessary since I was little to put a distance between myself and...
    Marchi Marchi 22-25 May 6

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    I never knew what to call them......bullies?.....I don't know if that's what I'd call them necesarrily cuz they never actually hurt me physically.....well they did but it never...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M 1 Response May 19

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    i smile when i mean it. i dont usually smile just for the sake of it. maybe that is why some people find me intimidating. i don't mean to frown either, but i guess that's how...
    omgkris56 omgkris56 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    A couple months after me and my girlfriend started dating, she cheated on me with her ex in which they were groping each other and making out Then, at the Valentine's dance, she...
    newprofile04 newprofile04 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Always forgive your enemies, they'll tell you in sunday school. "Always forgive your enemies. It's what Jesus would do." "Always forgive your enemies," my mom would always say...
    NarutoShippudenFanGirl NarutoShippudenFanGirl 13-15, F May 8

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    Probably the subject I didn't want to write about so here it goes... Who has the power over me right now? The guy at work who's just out to make my job harder? An ex wife who seems...
    StevieF8 StevieF8 41-45, M May 20

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    My name is Dave and I need help with something I need to talk to someone. I fell in love with someone on here, then we exchanged phone numbers, then I went to visit her. I loved...
    davideo1952 davideo1952 61-65, M Apr 29

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    We were 4-5 months in the relationship. I was the happiest girl alive because he was my crush for the longest. We were just perfect but than one week (worst week ever) was the...
    blv76 blv76 16-17, F May 2

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    Seriously, why must I forgive so easily!? Yet everyone else I know do not. I have way too much empathy to ever stay mad at someone for little things. I have an easy time...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M May 2

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    she cheated on me. I am lying next to her in bed right now. how can she sleep? she doesn't care, does she?
    Janish Janish 36-40, M 3 Responses May 9

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    So what I was talking about before about me being worried out of my mind for his tumor and he ignored my msgs.. He finally responded to me and said that he's not getting surgery...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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