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I How to Forgive When Cheated On

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed home to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me up...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    She Wants Me To Take Her Back

    While I was deployed my wife of 20 years had an affair. She told me, via skype, that she met this person and had fallen in love and was thinking of leaving our family. I immediately rushed homte to try to save my family (costing my my twenty year career). When she picked me...
    Crazyape Crazyape 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    Bad Breakup

    I am gng through a bad break-up and i could say one thing, all of us who have been cheated are victims of our love and loyalty. It is very difficult to forgive and forget, but one has to let things go. Forgiveness is given to those who commit a mistake unknowingly not to those...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    He Cheated!

    Well i was talking to my bƒ ƒor a while n i thought i couls start trusting him and i was believing everything he was telling me.So we were working together and i truly believed he was being ƒaithƒul to me. We started talking about how we should move in to an apt. together and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    My Wife Cheated On Using Facebook, I Forgive Her But...

     Obviously there was more to it than facebook, I have a long term illness and she was not getting the attention she needed.  She was able to hook up with an old high school "friend" skumbag who listened and did whatever else it took to get into her pants...
    michael8686 michael8686 46-50 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Forgiveness

    me and my fiance had a beautiful relationship and i later found out that he cheated and produce a child from that affair. how do i forgive.
    lp05 lp05 31-35 4 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Cheating Wife

    My wife cheated with a co worker and got caught i the act by her other co workers that know me from other jobs
    jcarlisle15 jcarlisle15 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    My story will probably be the only one

    that has this ending. 7 years ago my ex joined the navy and I attended college. We did the long distance for about 3-4 years and then we moved to the same state. I have been faithful, with him all through two deployments and so forth. I just found out that the last 2-3 years...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 13

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    My Husbands Done Again,

    I had an arranged marriage aged 21.  I am now 36.  I have stayed faithful to my husband since we married even though i have never really been in love with him - I mean I never had the opportunity to fall in love or experience a relationship - he was my first.  At...
    indianrani indianrani 36-40 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have had people question me about forgiveness when I say that one major aspect to healing from being hurt is to forgive those who have hurt you. So I hope this will clarify and...
    lookingformyminnion lookingformyminnion 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    “I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but...
    xoxlovelifexox xoxlovelifexox 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I admit that I cheated on my ex wife. When she had our last child our babysitter started being at our house more often and I would pay her extra by having sex with her on the bed...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 43 mins ago

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    If You Are Being Cheated On: Get real. The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. What do you predict? If your partner has cheated on you repeatedly and now...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    People forget you reap what you sew. 1 you cheat on your partner and cry when they do it. Its all there fault they betrayed your trust no you did that all by yourself. 2 then you...
    silverreign silverreign 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Cheated on once again. Found a picture my ex bf posted yesterday of a wcw, didn't think anything of it until I saw "her" comment saying "thanks babe" and his reply "😘". I texted...
    TheHurting TheHurting 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I cheated on my husband 2 months ago with my ex. Here is the deal. I met my ex 6 years ago, we had amazing chemistry but for some reason we had a miss communication and we stopped...
    latinaBonita latinaBonita 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Like, a couple times. I don't even know how many times she cheated on me, I'm in a 3 years relationship with my girlfriend. But I always forgive her, I love her so much that I...
    Assianation Assianation 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I guess it's my karma.. I've cheated on every one of my boyfriends but I never thought he would do this to me.. For years I never labeled him because we were suppose to be a secret...
    KaiFyre KaiFyre 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    I recently found out my husband of 20 years and the father of my four children was having a 5 month long affair. It's the most god awful pain I have ever felt. i do not wish it...
    kerey kerey 41-45, F 13 Responses Nov 11

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    I've been cheated on :( I've been together with my common law spouse for 15 years. We have 2 amazing kids. A boy who is 12 and a girl who is 11 going on 18! I found out last...
    YOLO73 YOLO73 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 21

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    Cheated on the receiving end I have given you every part of me Even parts I needed myself to survive I've sacrificed my heart upon your alter Set you upon a throne above all I...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    Hi, I really need your advice because I'm a bit confused and rattled. I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months when we first met everything was great, we laughed so much and had...
    Rainrebel Rainrebel 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    So.. I'm having the hardest time getting over this and I need help.. advice.. anything. my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. we met online while I was away at...
    mparks7 mparks7 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My girlfriend cheated on me and we broke up for two weeks. I went back to her, but I'm finding it very hard to trust her again. Honestly, I'm not sure that I'll ever trust her the...
    Radcheesytacos Radcheesytacos 18-21, T 4 Responses Nov 5

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    It is time to leave for the day. I have put in my time and it's time to head home but this evening I am going to do something I really don't want to do but I need to do, I am...
    johnettebcook johnettebcook 51-55, F 6 days ago

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    Now that's it's been a few days since we've broken up I am starting to see what happened from a different perspective. At first I just wanted to forgive and reconcile. Then I was...
    theresawallis theresawallis 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 4

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    When I found out my spouse of 18 years cheated on me I was devastated. The first thing I felt was a stomach ache. Then I had pain in my neck and shoulders. Had trouble sleeping...
    AloneRestless AloneRestless 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7

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    I recently broke off a 7 year relationship. He cheated on me with a coworker he knew for 1 year. She was seeing someone causally and she cheated too to be with him. He left me and...
    sdb2015 sdb2015 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't regret meeting you, because for the first two years what we had was a great adventure. For the many times you hurt me I want to say that I should have stood up to you. I...
    BlueZeo BlueZeo 26-30, M a week ago

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    Love doesn't exist. People figure if their partner doesn't know it won't hurt them. I don't care what you have to say. Everyone cheat. I cheated, he cheated, you cheated, your...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    For the last few days I've been doing some experiements in regards to how my sister treats me and everything I thought was correct. Not only does she expects and demands people...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    There is a girl I am deeply in love with and she is (or was) my best friend. I knew she had been seeing a guy but she told me they had broken up. Then she failed to mention that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    To whom this bell tolls,Come to me devilish troll.Who whispered in your ears,And then he stole your soul. Tick tock tick tock,Then the troll ran up the clock.And you are like...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 7 Responses Oct 22

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    To give up our ego and surrendering all of our expectation, I believe, forgiveness is the hardest things to do, which is why doing it is a strength to do. By forgiving we are one...
    DelonWulf DelonWulf 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 28

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    I'll be the first one to admit that I am not good at committing myself to a relationship, no matter how much I like and care for him. I guess my problem is that whenever I see a...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    Tomorrow October 21st I will be 47 year old. When I look back on the life I've wasted and the unforgivable things I did in the past it pushes me to make a fourth attempt at ending...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 20

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    I had nightmares for a week about his ex-wife. As he sleep in bed next to me, I would toss and turn from dreams of them re-uniting. It didn't make it OK for me to look, but I did...
    LittleSunbear LittleSunbear 22-25, F Nov 8

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    My parents divorced when I was 2. When I was 10 my mom remarried and also my dad did. I have 3 step sisters, a half brother, and a half sister. I hate how my dad moved states away...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    hes cheated at least 3 times once while i was having our child, everytime with someone i thought were friends, and friends knew but didnt tell me. How do you trust again, hes...
    dannielle80 dannielle80 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 25

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    I was with my ex for 10yrs and he constantly lied and cheated left me high and dry and then moved in with another woman how you up and do that i wish he would die
    nikka1985 nikka1985 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 9

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    Over the summer my boyfriend and I were visiting family so we were apart most of the time. We fought a lot but we still stayed together. We have been together for 4 years and I...
    Serenity369 Serenity369 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Message to China This is a cut an paste from another blog I hope you find this I have never met anyone that, I have felt this kind of connection with. I’m part of a bigger whole...
    4in1 4in1 36-40 a week ago

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    I have a bf who when we broke up sent his ex girlfriend who I caught him texting while me and him were together to my work and she gave me a knife I bought him for his bday back...
    doglovverr56 doglovverr56 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    In my life... I have had a lot of things taken from me, or have been hurt by people that was suppose to be there to protect me, has a lifetime of hurt with trusting the wrong...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 2 Responses Oct 23

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    Just thinking about typing this sent cold chills remembering it all and tears and a heavy heart to carry. When I met him, he was already glorified by everyone at college. I was...
    lovedtoomuchurtasmuch lovedtoomuchurtasmuch 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23

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