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I Hug Differently Depending On Who It Is I Am Hugging

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    And it also depends on the situation. I tend to hug tightly and enjoy rib crushing hugs back If in sympathy, it is a gentle hug With acquaintances, it is a gentle and brief hug With not so close friends and relatives, a hug with a brief kiss on the cheek With those I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    A Hug Is Special

    I hug accoring to who it is.  A person I just met might get a quick hug, a family member a longer hug, a close friend body to body hug and a lover, a long slow hug.  I hug some of my clients because they are huggers like me.  Meeting other massage ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 12 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Some Are Warmer Than Others

    If I feel strongly about you I will hold on tight and give you a long embrace. If you are someone I am not comfortable with it will be a shorter and more gentle,awkward hug. Of course,if the person is very precious to me and giving me(or I them)comfort the embrace is more intense...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2009

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    It Totally Depends On the Person and the Circumstance

    I am not the person who goes around and hugs everyone just for the sake of it. I think that hugging someone is something personal and to me it has meaning. I hug close friends and family. If it is a good-bye hug it is often a one-arm hug and short. If the other person is going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    My Love Of Hugs And Anything Huggable <3

    I love hugging, cuddling, and just generally being affectionate. Recently, I've learned to enjoy life more and, rather than refuse some experiences as I used to before, I have learned to experience and enjoy everything differently. That definitely goes for hugs! Here are a few...
    naranja naranja 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    Me Too

    It depends with the way i know and love/like someone. Be assure if i like you, you will get a hearty tight hug:)
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Apr 14, 2012

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    I Received A Special Hug From My Relatives

    I got to see some relatives I had not seen since 1992. The hug and hand shakes where very special to me. We all cried and promised to stay in touch. I  have their addresses, now.
    Peter123 Peter123 41-45, M Sep 6, 2011

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    My Hugs Depend Both On The Situation And The Person.

    I'm the huggiest person you'll probably ever meet. If you let me, I'd hold on basically until I'm shoved off. But that's usually only if I genuinely like you. My usual hug chart goes something like this though. People I don't really know but are comfortable with hugs get a light...
    Bishie Bishie 18-21, M 2 Responses May 24, 2010

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    Everyon Does ....

    The FAMILY hug - holds on for ever The BABY hug - pat back, rock back and forth The WARM greeting - squeeze them tight The Icky don't touch me hug - barely touch - you just want out ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    It Definitely Depends.

    If I'm hugging somebody I kinda lean in with half of me, and I don't squeeze and I feel very awkward. If I'm hugging my parents I squeeze on and cling to them. If I'm hugging the babies then I pick them up and squeeze them and kiss them all over.  Lol! I live for those...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    If I Met Anyone In My Ep Circle

    They would get a big fat warm bear hug.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    jump in perverted age mind to prolonged periods of time nails. He looked like a troll with limited number of redeeming traits may figure out if you've been primarily bold just enough on the way to coax him rid of plantar to link the places he was seen as smothering. he / she...
    classiekeneth classiekeneth 22-25, F Dec 12, 2013

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    I'm a Hugger...

    I really have no problem at all with hugging people. I love to hug people, it makes them smile. Though it really depends on who it is, and it is really obvious. There's the people who are more aquaintances than anything else, and they get more of a quick light hug. The people who...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I love hugs. I love hugs so much because Im a petite girl. Nothing better than a hug from someone who can wrap their arms around you and make you feel safe. I love to hug I love...
    aprylshowers330 aprylshowers330 26-30, F Apr 1

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    There are some people who come in your life, and then pass right through, like water through smooth river stones, leaving just cool mist of what they were, until even that dries...
    Loveisalive Loveisalive 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I think life is too short to live in someone else's shadow. Therefore, I respect people who are proud of who they are, and don't bother trying to blend in with everybody else. I...
    lifeisatest lifeisatest 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Ah hugs ♥ I loved them since my childhood. But who doesn't? Well, not everyone loves them... I think they are scared of that “weird” feeling they don't understand. Poor...
    TsukiyoChan TsukiyoChan 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    Dear Lord, Family anf i are oing through hard times. We are so scared. Its so dark tonight. Are expecting the worse. The weather is horrible, so humid. I saw my sisters hugging...
    Donotletmego Donotletmego 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love hugging people who I'm really close to. I feel the connection we have when I hug them. It is also my way of showing my appreciation to them, to make them feel how important...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    From getting the kiss that tells you so much more, but first comes the hug! There are friends hugs, mates hugs, mum hugs, dad hugs, children hugs and lovers hugs. Still they are...
    johnjw johnjw 36-40, M 47 mins ago

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    *cyber hugs for everyone* hugging is great for everyone 😛 and it's a nice powerful way as healing as well. Hugging someone for an extended amount of time can lift ones...
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Well when l was 13 l had my first girlfriend and as you do you give them a hug but it was a bit awkward well... Seeing it was my first time hugging a other girl that is not family...
    kbdood kbdood 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Whenever I am in my IT and Networking class I spend every free moment hugging and cuddling one of the guys in the class. He already has a girlfriend, but I love how much physical...
    sweetdreamscutie sweetdreamscutie 16-17, T Apr 7

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    I remember people from my family, when I was little, they hugged each other. I probably was hugged as a baby, but I don't remember it. I have pretty good and clear memories since I...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I think I will love it. I don't receive hugs a lot so I'm kind of convinced it's as rare as real friends. And I don't mean just any kind of hug, I'm talking about the sincere ones...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hugging always brightens up my day. cx It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. :3It's awesome how hugs can make someone feel better almost instantly. :3 A hug can make someone...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am an avid giver and receiver of hugs. I am a very hugging and feeling type of female. I learned this from my mother and I am so glad that I have.
    barbaratownsend barbaratownsend 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I would like to start off by saying that I am so very greatful and thankful for everything God has given me and everything my mom is providing for me; with that being said, I enjoy...
    shoushou24 shoushou24 18-21, F Mar 31

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    And he hugged me back!! It was brief; nothing too intimate, but I enjoyed it! I enjoyed the thought of his arms being around me more than I enjoyed the actual hugging to be honest...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    buuut there's no one who would give me an actual hug. It bothers me.
    cindykaatt cindykaatt 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I love hugging beautiful awesome people <3
    jojo8026 jojo8026 18-21, M Mar 25

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    I will judge you on your hugging abilities. Seriously.
    isabelluvskake isabelluvskake 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I am happily with my boyfriend but his friend is like his complete opposite; shy, quiet, a different physique, very warm-hearted to EVERYONE, weird in his own way, and funny in his...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I guess I think differently from others. I thought joining EP would be a great place to share my writing (and other thoughts) and get feedback without being judged, ridiculed, made...
    Tball26 Tball26 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Well I'm new to all this... Just needed someone to talk to who is going through the same thing! My boyfriend is in jail, been in 10 months and still has 3-4 years to go depending...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am so many things to so many people. It feels like the only person who knows the real me is my other half and I don't dispute that that's right. What bothers me is that I have...
    typhoonfighter typhoonfighter 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    People who like you , are people who think the same way you do. People who hate you, think a different way. Haters don't matter anyway to me, they are people who think differently...
    sparkydream sparkydream 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I think this is a weird way to start writing here. Have you ever think about life and how every experience in our life is so strange? Like how people run away for their own...
    aestheticisms aestheticisms 18-21, F Apr 5

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    DAVID WILCOCK LATEST UPDATE : Flight 370: The Straw That Breaks the Cabal's Back? 7 APRIL 2014The secret powers running the military-industrial complex, the Federal Reserve banking...
    THEMADHATTERXXXX THEMADHATTERXXXX 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    My mother is amazing! Her sister ( my auntie) was diagnosed with a brain tumour and it was awful my family has already been struggling. It was tough on everyone especially her...
    Luce13579 Luce13579 16-17, F Apr 12

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    This Shawn an alpha wolf. What I really hate the most is when fake *** humans act like there wolves. And when you really see the real thing you run away. You fakers need to ducking...
    Blackwolf666 Blackwolf666 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Awww... This pains my heart! I wish these hugs were real.... I want everyone to feel my love transpire through my hug to them...I understand the hurt, sorrow, and pain oh so well...
    Virtualhugger Virtualhugger 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    There's something in a simple hug That always warms the heart; It welcomes us back home And makes it easier to part A hug's a way to share the joy And sad times we go through, Or...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    It's not that I have a horrible life - not anymore anyways. Sure I have a dark past and have my own secrets, but who doesn't? I just feel as if things are well pointless most days...
    SaveYourWords SaveYourWords 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I owe my History teacher big time. When I started to act differently (quiet and sad) he noticed. He talked to me one day after class to let me know that I can talk to him about...
    Kaptinkat Kaptinkat 16-17, F Mar 23

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    *You start life with a clean slate. Then you begin to make your mark. You face decisions, make choices. You keep moving forward. But sooner or later there comes a time where you...
    shafizri shafizri 18-21, M Apr 1

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    I am 14 years old, my life ahead of me my past behind me. I wish I could say that without lying. Honestly, I am a 14 year old suicidal, a picture of sadness painted with blood on...
    UnwantedShadow UnwantedShadow 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Hugs are special to me. When I'm comparing myself to other girls of my age, I'm getting less hugs than the others. I don't know why but I think it's because I can't trust people...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I love giving and receiving (no pun intended lol) hugs!!! I've been told my hugs are very soft and comforting! (Hug) lol. I hug the patients I work with all the time.
    Jc0322 Jc0322 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 4

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