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I Hug Differently Depending On Who It Is I Am Hugging

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    A Hug Is Special

    I hug accoring to who it is.  A person I just met might get a quick hug, a family member a longer hug, a close friend body to body hug and a lover, a long slow hug.  I hug some of my clients because they are huggers like me.  Meeting other massage ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 12 Responses May 5, 2009

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    My Hugs Depend Both On The Situation And The Person.

    I'm the huggiest person you'll probably ever meet. If you let me, I'd hold on basically until I'm shoved off. But that's usually only if I genuinely like you. My usual hug chart goes something like this though. People I don't really know but are comfortable with hugs get a light...
    Bishie Bishie 18-21, M 2 Responses May 24, 2010

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    I Received A Special Hug From My Relatives

    I got to see some relatives I had not seen since 1992. The hug and hand shakes where very special to me. We all cried and promised to stay in touch. I  have their addresses, now.
    Peter123 Peter123 46-50, M Sep 6, 2011

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    Hugging My Fiancé :))))

    Awwwww I am constantly reminded of the first real hug my fiancé and I shared:) We had hugged several times briefly before and we have always been best friends so it wasn't abnormal for us to be seen hugging. Anyways(: So we had went to this camp meeting and it was pretty amazing...
    hisnaughtygirl69 hisnaughtygirl69 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    ((())))

    And it also depends on the situation. I tend to hug tightly and enjoy rib crushing hugs back If in sympathy, it is a gentle hug With acquaintances, it is a gentle and brief hug With not so close friends and relatives, a hug with a brief kiss on the cheek With those I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    It Definitely Depends.

    If I'm hugging somebody I kinda lean in with half of me, and I don't squeeze and I feel very awkward. If I'm hugging my parents I squeeze on and cling to them. If I'm hugging the babies then I pick them up and squeeze them and kiss them all over.  Lol! I live for those...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    If I Met Anyone In My Ep Circle

    They would get a big fat warm bear hug.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Some Are Warmer Than Others

    If I feel strongly about you I will hold on tight and give you a long embrace. If you are someone I am not comfortable with it will be a shorter and more gentle,awkward hug. Of course,if the person is very precious to me and giving me(or I them)comfort the embrace is more intense...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2009

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    Different But All With Love <3

    If I hug my parents, I snuggle into their tall bodies and let them hug me. If I hug my friends (who are girls) I usually hug them and then pick them off the floor so that they squeal :D I don't hug my friend who's a boy cause he doesn't like being hugged and I accept that. My...
    BlackcatAsh BlackcatAsh 13-15, T Oct 8, 2011

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    Everyon Does ....

    The FAMILY hug - holds on for ever The BABY hug - pat back, rock back and forth The WARM greeting - squeeze them tight The Icky don't touch me hug - barely touch - you just want out ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    He is this unique smarmy Cuban possessing a

    jump in perverted age mind to prolonged periods of time nails. He looked like a troll with limited number of redeeming traits may figure out if you've been primarily bold just enough on the way to coax him rid of plantar to link the places he was seen as smothering. he / she...
    classiekeneth classiekeneth 22-25, F Dec 12, 2013

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    It Totally Depends On the Person and the Circumstance

    I am not the person who goes around and hugs everyone just for the sake of it. I think that hugging someone is something personal and to me it has meaning. I hug close friends and family. If it is a good-bye hug it is often a one-arm hug and short. If the other person is going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    Me Too

    It depends with the way i know and love/like someone. Be assure if i like you, you will get a hearty tight hug:)
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Apr 14, 2012

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    I'm a Hugger...

    I really have no problem at all with hugging people. I love to hug people, it makes them smile. Though it really depends on who it is, and it is really obvious. There's the people who are more aquaintances than anything else, and they get more of a quick light hug. The people who...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    My Love Of Hugs And Anything Huggable <3

    I love hugging, cuddling, and just generally being affectionate. Recently, I've learned to enjoy life more and, rather than refuse some experiences as I used to before, I have learned to experience and enjoy everything differently. That definitely goes for hugs! Here are a few...
    naranja naranja 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    i'll hug u so tight i'll crush your bones :p or maybe not... i'll just hug u the whole day everyday :3
    deeyanah deeyanah 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 14

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    I am a hugger and very much addicted to hugging others. I love how I feel and makes others feel as we smile and hug one another. It sure brightens up my day and those I am...
    joan1976 joan1976 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It isn't that great. I am an F Cup. Which compared to the L's and M's you see around this group is not that huge but put me next to a D and you can see the different. They are...
    YeahIAmThatGirl YeahIAmThatGirl 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    I love naked hugs the feeling of skin on skin is so intamite and feels so good it just makes you feel closer to the person you are hugging . I wish I could get naked hugs from...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Well yeah I thought to write it in here cause I don't think I will ever work up the nerve to ever tell him. But yeah so I've known him for a year and a half now. Different...
    limitedless limitedless 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I go to asleep believing I'm hugging Akashi Seijuurou and wake up realizing A) He's not real B) He's literally a drawing C) I'm cuddling a pillow.
    nuwandaisaphony nuwandaisaphony 16-17, F Mar 26

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    So I just entered a relationship not too long ago. Thing is I'm 21 and she is 16. I feel so bad about this fact, but at the same time I'm trying to convince myself and trust that...
    ImRerfxTiDn ImRerfxTiDn 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    SHXJHSJ ***** HES HUGGING A COOKIE
    ApplejuiceLeeYum ApplejuiceLeeYum 13-15, M Apr 6

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    I'm so crushing on a girl at work. she actually started flirting with me just after I came back to work from being off a while. she goes out of her way to talk to me every day. is...
    M04hawaii M04hawaii 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I knew if anyone knew then theyed look differently at me so I kept my mouth shut as years went on and I knew by the age of 6 I wasnt normal ...the things about me arent normal and...
    lostbrokeheart lostbrokeheart 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I think of the various people who know me .. And those who think they know me. Most of them know one facet of who I am, maybe even a few different facets. But does anyone really...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 12 Responses Apr 1

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    So, I have always seen the world differently from others. People often think you should enjoy your life, and not care about things like education and money. I think it is a lot...
    JayP2000 JayP2000 13-15, M Apr 16

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    I feel like wherever I go, whether it be school, outside, my piano, I see it all differently. I just feel like I can constantly take pictures. I always tell my friends that I see...
    asinc5157 asinc5157 16-17 5 days ago

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    I wanted to share my story about my relationship with my ex-boyfriend, I'll call him Mark. We met at university, we were in the same friendship group. Mark was the shy, nerdy...
    drakewood drakewood 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    it's Good Friday, 2015. I am waiting at the train station for my oldest son. The pouring rain us beating off my windshield. Sunday is Easter. I am reminded of egg hunts I organized...
    DeniseDamico DeniseDamico 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    My church takes the instructions in the bible to care for widows and orphans very important. Many our families have adopted children. Also if something happens and children of a...
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I think one person could change your life depending on the person and the knowledge they carry along with the admiration you have for them or what key part they carry in your life
    caiseyi caiseyi 22-25, F Apr 13

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    From experience, I have dealt with pseudo-suicide cases originating from the attention-seeking mongoloids that plague our society. The natural response they seek from you is your...
    GSXMGE GSXMGE 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I absolutely love hugs. they show that you care, but they aren't necessarily for a love interest. it depends on how you hug and who you hug. one of my gf's friends was having some...
    Redmoon383 Redmoon383 16-17, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    i have different groups of friends and i am acting like this with 1 group and i act differently in another group. how?
    stinkyfaceA stinkyfaceA 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    Aren't we all? We never show our true form to anyone, because we behave differently to each different person.
    Airlangga Airlangga 18-21 3 Responses Apr 10

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    No need advices I don't need any advices please just hug me... it seems my voice is too small to listen for someone... i just want to find the one who admit who i am..not...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    In that moment of a meaningful hug you feel content and feeling like someone cares about how I feel. Our cheeks are touching, my arms are under yours wrapping around your back and...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 12

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