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I Hug Differently Depending On Who It Is I Am Hugging

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    Hugging My Fiancé :))))

    Awwwww I am constantly reminded of the first real hug my fiancé and I shared:) We had hugged several times briefly before and we have always been best friends so it wasn't abnormal for us to be seen hugging. Anyways(: So we had went to this camp meeting and it was pretty amazing...
    hisnaughtygirl69 hisnaughtygirl69 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Different But All With Love <3

    If I hug my parents, I snuggle into their tall bodies and let them hug me. If I hug my friends (who are girls) I usually hug them and then pick them off the floor so that they squeal :D I don't hug my friend who's a boy cause he doesn't like being hugged and I accept that. My...
    BlackcatAsh BlackcatAsh 13-15, T Oct 8, 2011

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    My Hugs Depend Both On The Situation And The Person.

    I'm the huggiest person you'll probably ever meet. If you let me, I'd hold on basically until I'm shoved off. But that's usually only if I genuinely like you. My usual hug chart goes something like this though. People I don't really know but are comfortable with hugs get a light...
    Bishie Bishie 18-21, M 2 Responses May 24, 2010

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    ((())))

    And it also depends on the situation. I tend to hug tightly and enjoy rib crushing hugs back If in sympathy, it is a gentle hug With acquaintances, it is a gentle and brief hug With not so close friends and relatives, a hug with a brief kiss on the cheek With those I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    It Definitely Depends.

    If I'm hugging somebody I kinda lean in with half of me, and I don't squeeze and I feel very awkward. If I'm hugging my parents I squeeze on and cling to them. If I'm hugging the babies then I pick them up and squeeze them and kiss them all over.  Lol! I live for those...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    Me Too

    It depends with the way i know and love/like someone. Be assure if i like you, you will get a hearty tight hug:)
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Apr 14, 2012

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    It Totally Depends On the Person and the Circumstance

    I am not the person who goes around and hugs everyone just for the sake of it. I think that hugging someone is something personal and to me it has meaning. I hug close friends and family. If it is a good-bye hug it is often a one-arm hug and short. If the other person is going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I'm a Hugger...

    I really have no problem at all with hugging people. I love to hug people, it makes them smile. Though it really depends on who it is, and it is really obvious. There's the people who are more aquaintances than anything else, and they get more of a quick light hug. The people who...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    My Love Of Hugs And Anything Huggable <3

    I love hugging, cuddling, and just generally being affectionate. Recently, I've learned to enjoy life more and, rather than refuse some experiences as I used to before, I have learned to experience and enjoy everything differently. That definitely goes for hugs! Here are a few...
    naranja naranja 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    A Hug Is Special

    I hug accoring to who it is.  A person I just met might get a quick hug, a family member a longer hug, a close friend body to body hug and a lover, a long slow hug.  I hug some of my clients because they are huggers like me.  Meeting other massage ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 12 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Everyon Does ....

    The FAMILY hug - holds on for ever The BABY hug - pat back, rock back and forth The WARM greeting - squeeze them tight The Icky don't touch me hug - barely touch - you just want out ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    He is this unique smarmy Cuban possessing a

    jump in perverted age mind to prolonged periods of time nails. He looked like a troll with limited number of redeeming traits may figure out if you've been primarily bold just enough on the way to coax him rid of plantar to link the places he was seen as smothering. he / she...
    classiekeneth classiekeneth 22-25, F Dec 12, 2013

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Some Are Warmer Than Others

    If I feel strongly about you I will hold on tight and give you a long embrace. If you are someone I am not comfortable with it will be a shorter and more gentle,awkward hug. Of course,if the person is very precious to me and giving me(or I them)comfort the embrace is more intense...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2009

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    If I Met Anyone In My Ep Circle

    They would get a big fat warm bear hug.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    I Received A Special Hug From My Relatives

    I got to see some relatives I had not seen since 1992. The hug and hand shakes where very special to me. We all cried and promised to stay in touch. I  have their addresses, now.
    Peter123 Peter123 46-50, M Sep 6, 2011

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    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 19 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    It's not a cleanliness issue. I'm afraid that by touching others in even something as innocent as hugging, that I might offend them. I identify myself as heterosexual, but have...
    Shovelfighter Shovelfighter 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    All the people whom say they don't care are liers. Everyone cares to their own personal degree depending on who is judging them. & I'm gonna be honest I try to please everyone. I...
    flamedvelvet flamedvelvet 18-21, F Feb 5

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    I haven't been open to discussing this until recently - I realized that there are so many young kids going through what I went through and sharing my story and offering my advice...
    Kerryn2508 Kerryn2508 22-25, F Feb 16

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    I let go of my exwife today, she is seeing another woman and I am dating too many women right now. We had a convo and I said to her that we are both moving on and im happy for her...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I used to think that adults were born adults, and children were born children, and people change age but they do not age in appearance. I never drew the line, and always thought...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    hetty96 hetty96 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Who saw that Miss Universe pageant? Am I crazy, or should Miss Jamaica really should have won that? Miss Columbia looked so... usual.
    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T Feb 9

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    rolywynne rolywynne 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Wasted time...your time maybe worth it...depending
    UrOneAndOnly UrOneAndOnly 36-40, M Feb 24

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    MrHowl MrHowl 26-30, M a week ago

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    I used to be able to do simple tasks to forget about you for a short while. Maybe washing the dishes, organizing my bedroom, or doing laundry. Any small meaningless task, to forget...
    marieflorence109 marieflorence109 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    any girl ever wanted to swap bodies with a guy? for a week or maybe even longer depending on how we would feel about it id eventually want to swap back but its more for an...
    souldancer101 souldancer101 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    n___________________________n I waaant!!! I just feel so loved and appreciated by this simple gesture. It's like the person who hugged you is so appreciative of your existence and...
    trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I give amazing bear hugs... Anyone need a hug just ask and I give you nice big bear hug..
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M Feb 7

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    Someone told me that my outward displays of affection offended them... I very rarely show much emotion but I often hug people I am close to; this person's comment bugged me... hugs...
    KaylaVB19 KaylaVB19 16-17, F Feb 9

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    I was at this place tonight and met up with some friends that I didn't see for a while... I ended up seeing this guy who was at this conference I went to about a month ago. I wasn...
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    Sometimes your whole entire day can be improved by getting a hug from a friend or even a stranger.
    KillMeAlready KillMeAlready 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 15

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