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I Hug Differently Depending On Who It Is I Am Hugging

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    My Hugs Depend Both On The Situation And The Person.

    I'm the huggiest person you'll probably ever meet. If you let me, I'd hold on basically until I'm shoved off. But that's usually only if I genuinely like you. My usual hug chart goes something like this though. People I don't really know but are comfortable with hugs get a light...
    Bishie Bishie 18-21, M 2 Responses May 24, 2010

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    It Definitely Depends.

    If I'm hugging somebody I kinda lean in with half of me, and I don't squeeze and I feel very awkward. If I'm hugging my parents I squeeze on and cling to them. If I'm hugging the babies then I pick them up and squeeze them and kiss them all over.  Lol! I live for those...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    Some Are Warmer Than Others

    If I feel strongly about you I will hold on tight and give you a long embrace. If you are someone I am not comfortable with it will be a shorter and more gentle,awkward hug. Of course,if the person is very precious to me and giving me(or I them)comfort the embrace is more intense...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2009

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    Me Too

    It depends with the way i know and love/like someone. Be assure if i like you, you will get a hearty tight hug:)
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Apr 14, 2012

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    If I Met Anyone In My Ep Circle

    They would get a big fat warm bear hug.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    I was at a bar I normally hang out at,

    and one of the servers was sitting at the bar. Despite wearing a cardigan, she was shivering and complaining as to how cold she was. Feeling sorry for her, I wrapped my arms around her (hug like) and started transferring my warmth onto her. "This feels good," she immediately...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M Jan 22

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    He is this unique smarmy Cuban possessing a

    jump in perverted age mind to prolonged periods of time nails. He looked like a troll with limited number of redeeming traits may figure out if you've been primarily bold just enough on the way to coax him rid of plantar to link the places he was seen as smothering. he / she...
    classiekeneth classiekeneth 26-30, F Dec 12, 2013

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    It Totally Depends On the Person and the Circumstance

    I am not the person who goes around and hugs everyone just for the sake of it. I think that hugging someone is something personal and to me it has meaning. I hug close friends and family. If it is a good-bye hug it is often a one-arm hug and short. If the other person is going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    My Love Of Hugs And Anything Huggable <3

    I love hugging, cuddling, and just generally being affectionate. Recently, I've learned to enjoy life more and, rather than refuse some experiences as I used to before, I have learned to experience and enjoy everything differently. That definitely goes for hugs! Here are a few...
    naranja naranja 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    Hugging My Fiancé :))))

    Awwwww I am constantly reminded of the first real hug my fiancé and I shared:) We had hugged several times briefly before and we have always been best friends so it wasn't abnormal for us to be seen hugging. Anyways(: So we had went to this camp meeting and it was pretty amazing...
    hisnaughtygirl69 hisnaughtygirl69 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I Received A Special Hug From My Relatives

    I got to see some relatives I had not seen since 1992. The hug and hand shakes where very special to me. We all cried and promised to stay in touch. I  have their addresses, now.
    Peter123 Peter123 46-50, M Sep 6, 2011

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    ((())))

    And it also depends on the situation. I tend to hug tightly and enjoy rib crushing hugs back If in sympathy, it is a gentle hug With acquaintances, it is a gentle and brief hug With not so close friends and relatives, a hug with a brief kiss on the cheek With those I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    A Hug Is Special

    I hug accoring to who it is.  A person I just met might get a quick hug, a family member a longer hug, a close friend body to body hug and a lover, a long slow hug.  I hug some of my clients because they are huggers like me.  Meeting other massage ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 12 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Everyon Does ....

    The FAMILY hug - holds on for ever The BABY hug - pat back, rock back and forth The WARM greeting - squeeze them tight The Icky don't touch me hug - barely touch - you just want out ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Different But All With Love <3

    If I hug my parents, I snuggle into their tall bodies and let them hug me. If I hug my friends (who are girls) I usually hug them and then pick them off the floor so that they squeal :D I don't hug my friend who's a boy cause he doesn't like being hugged and I accept that. My...
    BlackcatAsh BlackcatAsh 13-15, T Oct 8, 2011

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    I'm a Hugger...

    I really have no problem at all with hugging people. I love to hug people, it makes them smile. Though it really depends on who it is, and it is really obvious. There's the people who are more aquaintances than anything else, and they get more of a quick light hug. The people who...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    Dang I keep talking about this but I LOVE the way my belly just spread out over my lap. I had the biggest lunch ever and my belly expanded right over the top of my pants. I feel...
    rubmyenormousbelly rubmyenormousbelly 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Some people, esp the young things, (as i have said before in posts i love you all but ....) seem to think they have had more *experience* than someone much older.. this goes with...
    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever 51-55, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Here's a point. feminists are in favour of the pill (etc) and of women having free choice when and how to have sex.. they are free and even encouraged to be sexual beings and to...
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    Hi, my name is Amber, I'm eighteen years old and I have a crush on my professor. It was a hopeless case from the start. Class only started two weeks ago and already I'm head over...
    AmberTheShyGirl AmberTheShyGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love giving hugs and I love getting hugs! Especially big hugs or hugs that involve cute kisses :33 I always feel safe in a hug.
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a huggy person You also be a huggy person Because There is something incredibly settling about a hug. There is honestly little reason to say you’re not a huggy person...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    my friend gave me a t-shirt that said "free hugs" and all these strange people kept hugging me. I had to admit to myself that it was nice to hug someone. I have always be the kind...
    Drossi28 Drossi28 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hugging makes you feel completed and loved! And i really need one right now :P Lol *Arms spreaded out* Anyone needs a hug So here i hug you *big tight bear hug *
    Newbie2401 Newbie2401 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    This morning I got a hug and a "I love you" from my Dad in my dreams. He looked so happy while he was hugging me. It was wonderful to hear those words and have his arms around me...
    itsMaggimay itsMaggimay 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    There was someone who I performed with years ago; for the sake of this story, I'll call him Greg. Greg and I had performed in several community theater productions. Being near him...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have a disability but no one has ever made fun of me or treated me differently than regular people. for that I'm blessed
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    PRESS RELEASE: To address the need for custom crafted ((Hugs)) .. ... We have had the lab working over-time, to develop a Generation 6, level-12 hug .... This is a hug pushing all...
    questionWeaver questionWeaver 56-60, M 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I broke up with my boyfriend in December last year. But there's this guy in my economics class who resembles him so much and every time I look at him I'm reminded of everything...
    charicealpaca charicealpaca 18-21, F Feb 1

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    Promoting a Gender Reversed SocietyAs a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Jan 29

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    I'm a huge huger I hug every one I meet and every time i see one of my friends for like 10 seconds.
    DemiFrsr DemiFrsr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    "Your religion is against homosexuality, am I right?" she asked as she brushed her hair. "Yeah." I replied without paying too much attention. "Why do you ask?" I glanced at my...
    homeskilletx homeskilletx 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    I am totally a hugger!!! I love to hug and be hugged, it's nice to hug someone you know and trust and feel just for those few seconds that someone else cares about you. When you...
    Libraladyseeking Libraladyseeking 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    My son in law knew that i had noticed him. He took it upon himself to talk with him. When i went today, to pick him up from work, the man i had noticed weeks ago, stood before me...
    wnt2bneeded wnt2bneeded 41-45, F Jan 26

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    I always had loved them. Especially I had given big tight hugs in my early years to my childhood-best friends, two girls, who are sisters to each other. So tight that they couldn't...
    DragonSheep DragonSheep 22-25, F Jan 26

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    *HUG* Sometimes we all just need a Hug from someone who really cares, even when they're/we're not quite sure what would really make things better but just really wanna' help...
    FluttershyLabeouf FluttershyLabeouf 18-21, M Jan 26

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    Been wearing heels for about three years now. When I get home from work I like to relax with a pair of heels on. Sometimes I might go through 2 or 3 changes in heels depending on...
    Platforms Platforms 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 25

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