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I Hug Differently Depending On Who It Is I Am Hugging

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    Me Too

    It depends with the way i know and love/like someone. Be assure if i like you, you will get a hearty tight hug:)
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Apr 14, 2012

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    A Hug Is Special

    I hug accoring to who it is.  A person I just met might get a quick hug, a family member a longer hug, a close friend body to body hug and a lover, a long slow hug.  I hug some of my clients because they are huggers like me.  Meeting other massage ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 12 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Different But All With Love <3

    If I hug my parents, I snuggle into their tall bodies and let them hug me. If I hug my friends (who are girls) I usually hug them and then pick them off the floor so that they squeal :D I don't hug my friend who's a boy cause he doesn't like being hugged and I accept that. My...
    BlackcatAsh BlackcatAsh 13-15, T Oct 8, 2011

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    Hugging My Fiancé :))))

    Awwwww I am constantly reminded of the first real hug my fiancé and I shared:) We had hugged several times briefly before and we have always been best friends so it wasn't abnormal for us to be seen hugging. Anyways(: So we had went to this camp meeting and it was pretty amazing...
    hisnaughtygirl69 hisnaughtygirl69 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    If I Met Anyone In My Ep Circle

    They would get a big fat warm bear hug.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Yes, I Do

    I will usually respond in kind to the person I am hugging.  Most times if its males, they tend to be more forceful and bodyconforming, but brief, depending on whether or not he is attracted to me.  Females, tend to be a more kind, delicate embrace and...
    2Shy 2Shy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Everyon Does ....

    The FAMILY hug - holds on for ever The BABY hug - pat back, rock back and forth The WARM greeting - squeeze them tight The Icky don't touch me hug - barely touch - you just want out ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    ((())))

    And it also depends on the situation. I tend to hug tightly and enjoy rib crushing hugs back If in sympathy, it is a gentle hug With acquaintances, it is a gentle and brief hug With not so close friends and relatives, a hug with a brief kiss on the cheek With those I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    My Love Of Hugs And Anything Huggable <3

    I love hugging, cuddling, and just generally being affectionate. Recently, I've learned to enjoy life more and, rather than refuse some experiences as I used to before, I have learned to experience and enjoy everything differently. That definitely goes for hugs! Here are a few...
    naranja naranja 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    He is this unique smarmy Cuban possessing a

    jump in perverted age mind to prolonged periods of time nails. He looked like a troll with limited number of redeeming traits may figure out if you've been primarily bold just enough on the way to coax him rid of plantar to link the places he was seen as smothering. he / she...
    classiekeneth classiekeneth 22-25, F Dec 12, 2013

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    I Received A Special Hug From My Relatives

    I got to see some relatives I had not seen since 1992. The hug and hand shakes where very special to me. We all cried and promised to stay in touch. I  have their addresses, now.
    Peter123 Peter123 41-45, M Sep 6, 2011

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    Some Are Warmer Than Others

    If I feel strongly about you I will hold on tight and give you a long embrace. If you are someone I am not comfortable with it will be a shorter and more gentle,awkward hug. Of course,if the person is very precious to me and giving me(or I them)comfort the embrace is more intense...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2009

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    It Totally Depends On the Person and the Circumstance

    I am not the person who goes around and hugs everyone just for the sake of it. I think that hugging someone is something personal and to me it has meaning. I hug close friends and family. If it is a good-bye hug it is often a one-arm hug and short. If the other person is going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    My Hugs Depend Both On The Situation And The Person.

    I'm the huggiest person you'll probably ever meet. If you let me, I'd hold on basically until I'm shoved off. But that's usually only if I genuinely like you. My usual hug chart goes something like this though. People I don't really know but are comfortable with hugs get a light...
    Bishie Bishie 18-21, M 2 Responses May 24, 2010

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    I'm a Hugger...

    I really have no problem at all with hugging people. I love to hug people, it makes them smile. Though it really depends on who it is, and it is really obvious. There's the people who are more aquaintances than anything else, and they get more of a quick light hug. The people who...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    It Definitely Depends.

    If I'm hugging somebody I kinda lean in with half of me, and I don't squeeze and I feel very awkward. If I'm hugging my parents I squeeze on and cling to them. If I'm hugging the babies then I pick them up and squeeze them and kiss them all over.  Lol! I live for those...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I honestly love when I get hugs.. I feel so loved! I know it's silly to think you're loved with a small generous hug but I do.hugging is something special.hugging is a way of...
    aliy14 aliy14 13-15, F Jun 29

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    I love hugs that are warm and really affectionate, especially ones that make me feel tingly inside. I love hugs that are tight, heart to heart, with both arms, not those crappy one...
    WolvessQueen WolvessQueen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I didn't grow up in an overly nurturing environment. I was raised in a reasonably practical manner, but wasn't ever given much in the way of physical or emotional comfort. So I'm...
    Avotica Avotica 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Okay here I go, I am 12 years old, and I am turning 13 in August. My parents love me to the moon and back, and they show it by getting me things and saying "I love you." And I love...
    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Hugging is the best way to make yourself relief. If you feel sad, happy, upset, or lonely then hug people that you really care most, it will heal you or cheers you up. So don't be...
    Misspuzzle Misspuzzle 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Alright, there is a lot of conflict going on, on this website about how people are being fake ect. I speak differently to everyone, so yes, it is something personal, but that...
    anotherpasserby anotherpasserby 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I love being squeezed really tight as I'm being hugged. I do the same to whoever I'm hugging. I might be a little too big for someone to wrap their arms around though =P
    Heartsu Heartsu 26-30, F a week ago

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    Hugs are so lovely :) Very good to be welcomed with and also to say farewell with, just remember to start saying goodbye a bit sooner if you know you'll have a round of hugs to...
    Karliya Karliya 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    It's complicated. I like hugs but I don't like them all the time. Sometimes it's better for me to give a handshake because i feel uncomfortable. Especially when it's someone that i...
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm only a semi-fan of hugging and I hate bear hugs! I think it's the squeezing. Oftentimes I can't breathe. And I don't think I've ever gotten a bear hug from someone I actually...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    You ever get that feeling of wanting to hug someone so bad your arms hurt? Ever have to leave the room or you're afraid you might blow? I have that feeling quite a bit, I always...
    DinosaurPie DinosaurPie 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I don't know why? But why not it just gets so warm and feels like someone's there to care for me Sometimes I just go to bed lay there awake hugging my pillow, crying, telling it...
    Lolbeansarefun Lolbeansarefun 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    14,000 are having sex right now. 25,000 are kissing. 50,000 are hugging. And you...well you're reading this experience. Trust me I'm now happy about if either ;)
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I spent most of my life with one woman, We raised one child together, built a house together and lived a very comfortable life financially for almost forty five years. She was...
    bjf102 bjf102 66-70 2 Responses Jul 5

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    My guy friend is from a poor family but he loved a rich girl who ended up insulting him and telling him that she can't go out with a poor guy like him and he should find girls as...
    Mwaidi Mwaidi 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I have severe depression, diagnosed. So when someone says they have depression but they just want attention and the "Awe, it's okay sweetie. You're a great person" act, it truly...
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    Trolling For Tresses I am one of those guys who love a challenge. I always believe you'll never succeed if you don't try. And if I fail, I brush off the dust and try again. As a...
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    When I was eleven I went to boarding school, leaving my three year old stepsister, Molly, at home. I had always been short for my age, and she had been rather tall but she was 3 so...
    betsy92 betsy92 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I don't really fit in with other who treat me like I'm a retard because I don't open up to people and have a social skill that I need to chat with them. I have hate when they treat...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jun 28

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    There are stupid things ive done and said and i just wish i didnt. Idk i feel like everyone all my friends and everyone looks at me like im stupid. Even now i just am annoying...
    personidk personidk 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I finally decided to go onto this site after a while of uncertainty. And I know I probably won't find the answer I'm looking for because there are so many people on the internet...
    AcrossTheMoonlight AcrossTheMoonlight 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I love wearing low rise jeans. The new "mom jean" style that is coming back just makes me sad b/c I think butt cleavage is just as sexy as boob cleavage (on the right person). I...
    NurseMJ NurseMJ 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yep. Am an unwilling playboy junkie. Who loves any who care like me does. Yummy is soul not body. Body may look yummy. But have disgusting soul inside. True...
    converted converted 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Anybody lives in NJ? Anybody interested in wedgiess or crossdressing? Depending on where u live maybe we can hang out and have some fun.
    Wedgiesinthongs Wedgiesinthongs 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 22

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    10 Types of Hugs There are so many different ways that you can hug a person. Obviously, each type of hug is going to have a little different meaning to it, and that is particularly...
    etd0718 etd0718 26-30, F Jul 8

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    I really do believe in the power of a hug and a smile. Like when you're sad are just down, a simple hug or smile can just make your day, especially that one person who's hugs are...
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I love hugs as much as the next person does. I think a simple hug sometimes is just what's needed, if you're having like a really sucky day, it's like that one person who hugs you...
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Almost everyone who knows me calls me "nice, sweet, so gentle, friendly" etc. but my mother she thinks I am like super bitchy or something she says I am always in a bad mood or I...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I think I could be included in this :) I'm a 34/36K depending on the brand of bra x
    titstowaist titstowaist 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 11

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    You know thise people who just give amazing hugs? Well ik someone who does and i want to hug her so badly and just hold her. We cried and held each other for an hour and it was the...
    carolineee0814 carolineee0814 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14