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I Hurt a Friend Who Loved Me

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    He loved me, I spent the last few weeks helping

    him. I had to use tactics that made clear someone will love him and he thought it meant me. I feel terrible. I had to reject him and he wouldn't give up so I blocked him. He is probably going to revert back to the way he was before I helped him.
    DragonSoul2875 DragonSoul2875 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    He Told Me He Loved Me and I Ran Away

    Well... you see I have this childhood friend who I had contact with until a few years ago when he told me he loved me and wanted to start a relationship with me. Well the first problem I had with this is the fact that he lives in a different city then I do about half an hour away...
    girlinbackground girlinbackground 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    I did, I screwed up and I fell in love,

    and then I picked someone practical instead, and when I regretted it that friend I loved refused to be second best, and they're not so they should of refused, but instead of accepting it I got hurt, really hurt, and my hurt turned angry at them and I screwed everything up and...
    TabbyLeeT TabbyLeeT 18-21, F Jan 30, 2014

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    Goodbye Robbie

    I had a great friend named Robbie up until a few months ago. We tried dating for a couple months, but it didn't work out. I hurt him when I broke up with him and several times after. He was the best friend anyone could ask for tho. He deserves better than me. He stuck with me for...
    sweetie1989 sweetie1989 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    Lonely Nights

     you know we all make mistakes,some big some small all regretful. recently im afraid i have hurt an EP friend very deeply and for that i am profoundly sorry.which will not bring them back to me,or excuse what ive done.in my ignorance i overlooked the worth of this friend,the...
    solopodal solopodal 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    He Had A Crush On Me

    One of my best guy friends had (has?) a crush on me. He walked me to my classes, we hung out outside of school. I sorta knew, but I was a little in denial about it because we were such good friends and I didn't want to lose him. Then one day, he called me (while I was on a date...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 Apr 22, 2011

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    I guess life is just the way it is supposed to be: unpredictable, good, bad, ugly and great all rolled up into one incredibly short experience and sometimes people can hurt you...
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    I want to play truth or dare with a female.
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    I shut people out when they hurt me! Who doesn't,is my question? I think that is a wise way of protecting yourself! Why would you let people in that hurt you? You have two choices...
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    Ya know, you neet some nice people. But most just want to see what I look like. Does that matter all the time?
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    I'm a single, caring, openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    but I would never tell him about this site.
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    But as a pal. While me loves them more. Dang attachment disorder. Thanks seroquel. You evil drug.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 17

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    I just got news that my boyfriend is going to be stationed overseas :(
    Dreamergirl07 Dreamergirl07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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