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I Hurt a Friend Who Loved Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 70 People

    He Told Me He Loved Me and I Ran Away

    Well... you see I have this childhood friend who I had contact with until a few years ago when he told me he loved me and wanted to start a relationship with me. Well the first problem I had with this is the fact that he lives in a different city then I do about half an hour away...
    girlinbackground girlinbackground 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    He loved me, I spent the last few weeks helping

    him. I had to use tactics that made clear someone will love him and he thought it meant me. I feel terrible. I had to reject him and he wouldn't give up so I blocked him. He is probably going to revert back to the way he was before I helped him.
    DragonSoul2875 DragonSoul2875 16-17, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Goodbye Robbie

    I had a great friend named Robbie up until a few months ago. We tried dating for a couple months, but it didn't work out. I hurt him when I broke up with him and several times after. He was the best friend anyone could ask for tho. He deserves better than me. He stuck with me for...
    sweetie1989 sweetie1989 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    Lonely Nights

     you know we all make mistakes,some big some small all regretful. recently im afraid i have hurt an EP friend very deeply and for that i am profoundly sorry.which will not bring them back to me,or excuse what ive done.in my ignorance i overlooked the worth of this friend,the...
    solopodal solopodal 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    I did, I screwed up and I fell in love,

    and then I picked someone practical instead, and when I regretted it that friend I loved refused to be second best, and they're not so they should of refused, but instead of accepting it I got hurt, really hurt, and my hurt turned angry at them and I screwed everything up and...
    TabbyLeeT TabbyLeeT 18-21, F Jan 30, 2014

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    He Had A Crush On Me

    One of my best guy friends had (has?) a crush on me. He walked me to my classes, we hung out outside of school. I sorta knew, but I was a little in denial about it because we were such good friends and I didn't want to lose him. Then one day, he called me (while I was on a date...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 Apr 22, 2011

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    I just don't know why but I have never kept friends that long. Friends I've had in the past were very judgmental and mean. So i just stopped talking to them and they just faded...
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    Today marks 3 months since my best friend past away in a car collision.....
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    He was such a good person- he'd answer question like. What's going on cousin? He'd reply 'sh't'. So chill. Ha! A good father of two boys. Always helpful at anytime. We'd sit and...
    111gadafy 111gadafy 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    Which is most likely one of the reasons I do not have many friends ....I'm really ok with that ....im really good at cutting ties with people I think are bad for me to know O.O
    Chernobylplayground Chernobylplayground 36-40 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's hard to find people who like the same things that you do. So if you like anything that I talk about on here, don't be afraid to hit me up and message me regardless of age or...
    beautifulanbroken beautifulanbroken 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    To all you lovely people I've had the pleasure to encounter here on EP, I thank you such a roller-coaster ride. Each of you have in the last few months, touched my life in one way...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    WE were together 20 years,never lovers.I'm lost without her.
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    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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    I miss her so much omg :'( She would have been 15 today ! I freaking hate guys that beat on their girlfriends. Like wtf /: Anyways.. Happy birthday and r.i.p Chloe <3 :')
    netflixfoodwifi netflixfoodwifi 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    The most memorable people in life will be the friends who loved you when you weren't very loveable xx
    Magdawoo Magdawoo 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    CaliforniaCobra CaliforniaCobra 26-30 Jan 1

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    I have a friend who's very close, who's opinion I value above others, who's pains and problems I would take away if I could, but the true problem is that I may be the only thing...
    YellowJay YellowJay 18-21, F Dec 28, 2014

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    Razor blade Razor blade take my pain away. You make me feel better when I'm down. But you leave scars to show who i am, You leave scars to show what I've survived, You leave scars...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I am writing this incase anyone else finds themselves in a similar situation . . . Please do not worry about me, I have been free of this relationship for 7 years now. I am a lot...
    elimarie7 elimarie7 31-35, F Dec 31, 2014

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    I am 15 and have loved one man who was older than me by 10 years and whom decided to ignore me. I got a makeup addiction because he said id never be pretty enough and depression. I...
    Loveyoulikealovesong Loveyoulikealovesong 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I didn't know that people can change so fast.. may be their priorities have changed.. whatever.. I lost my best friend.. I had a best friend who was THE BEST.. every time I was...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    Sentiphant Sentiphant 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I had a best friend who I met in high school, we became inseparable and would even accompany each other on dates with others on occasion. Somehow our friendship always remained...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I hate those friends who only invite you to events that involve you giving money or a gift to them of some sort. Like, seriously. I know someone from an old job, who was always...
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    I haven't written a thing in a month. I have had no words to say, just dealing with myfeelings. Yes, my feelings, are all over the place like an abandoned animal left to fendon its...
    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 56-60, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Being loved is an ongoing battle for me. My family never loved me while I was growing up. I never had friends who truely cared about me. Heck most of them vanished on me... My...
    itsul itsul 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    Where would I be without my best friend? We met freshman year of high school and lets just say, I didn't like her very much. I thought she was annoying and always gave her a quiet...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F Dec 26, 2014

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    Dlyz Dlyz 16-17, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I feel.. Horrible, I guess? At 14 years old, I'm too young to feel like this at all. I spend night after night awake, thinking terrible thoughts. I have never actually told anyone...
    Kkmsj2015 Kkmsj2015 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6

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