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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    Time and time again, I have been hurt by ppl I believed in and thought were my friends. I have been hurt by someone who was stupid. I have been hurt by someone who is intelligent...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    Funniest thing about being hurt, you find out who your friends are... My best friend just so happens to be a stranger. He's always there to pick up the pieces and make me whole...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    So I have this "best friend" (even though I don't really think we're friends anymore) let's call her sarah. A couple of years ago sarah got thrown out of her home (since then she...
    lauramarie1995 lauramarie1995 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am going to be 30 in 16 days. I have 2 wonderful children who are my world. I grew up in a rough home, moved out at 16. I felt I had to, or I was going to end up just like my...
    sohurtnow sohurtnow 26-30 Jan 15

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    Okay so my story might be a complicated one, or maybe someone has been through the same exact thing. I really don't know, but I need some form of explanation and answers. Okay so...
    LadyDi95 LadyDi95 18-21, F Jan 23

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    I hate her, but I miss her.She was easy to talk to and fun to be around.She lost her sister when they were young and she still has a hard time dealing with it.She told me that she...
    vivad46 vivad46 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    Well, there are some things I can't say here, due to the fact that it would give some people my name or the name of my friend, but this is what happened. First of all...
    Alvinus Alvinus 16-17, M Jan 7

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    a long trip abroad, anger, misery for me, deliberate hatred and a u-turn. where to begin. my girlfriend said she was going to south Africa for a bit back in October 2012. like a...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    I'm so lonely and I have no friends to tell my troubles to. I just want a friend who's genuinely nice and would like to chat. It's a curse that I'm not good with making new...
    firedestroyer firedestroyer 18-21, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I am very loyal to my friends. I will defend them to the end of time. Even if they stop being friends with me I'll continue to be there friend.
    TiffanyRaven TiffanyRaven 18-21 24 mins ago

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    Razor blade Razor blade take my pain away. You make me feel better when I'm down. But you leave scars to show who i am, You leave scars to show what I've survived, You leave scars...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I can't wait to see what my stalker's psychologist says about me. It would be wonderful to see it posted. The verdict is in. It's my fault I have had a stalker. "I know you were...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jan 4

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    It started off with just an ear for each other. He was hurt. I was hurt. Me being me, not afraid of anything or rejection, sent him a msg and told him if he'd like to talk about...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Simply put.. I too am a victim of loving my best friend. For almost 6 years now.. I feel I'm too old for this but love has no boundaries.. he used to tell me about all..but...
    DrGeorgie DrGeorgie 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    i have about 6 friends that i talk to ever single day. two of them are super nice to my and are my bestfriends... i have two other bestfriends who treat me like sh.it!(hanna...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 19

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    I haven't had a girl best friend since I lost my 5 best friends gradually throughout middle school and high school. I lost the last one towards the end of 10th grade. I haven't had...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    My best friend broke up with me after 9 years of friendship...and here's an open letter to Her: An open letter to My (EX) Best Friend: Long time ago you have unexpectedly walked...
    juniperlittle juniperlittle 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Its funny how i remember days of us just laughing and pulling jokes and now it really sad to experience silence. Wow where do I begin so me and best friend met back in 7th grade we...
    scott2009 scott2009 18-21, M Jan 5

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    A last goodbye I can't stop crying I thought this friendship would be ever lasting I can't believe I thought for a moment that I was important A feeling of sadness devours me I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    I didn't mean to I was trying to bring my girlfriend and a close friend together. I talk to my friend about my girlfriend an it brought them together but then I told my girlfriend...
    robotredneck robotredneck 18-21, T 1 Response Jan 6

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    More accurately I am losing two. I have a male best friend who I've been close to for three years, and his girlfriend of a year I've been close to for most of that year. And I'm...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really want her back and I know I'm going to loose her and I just keep calling her my best friend even though we don't talk to each other or do anything together and I'm just...
    GirlInABottle GirlInABottle 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    I've got lots of acquaintances but no one that I am best or close friends with! I just started to drift away from my best friend and now we hardly talk! It's a bit sad not having...
    ultimateninja ultimateninja 16-17, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I would love to have many guy friends the only issue is....guys have their own agenda and any time a guy tries to friend me it's usually because they want down my pants.-_-
    ashley35189 ashley35189 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I would love to have many guy friends the only issue is....guys have their own agenda and any time a guy tries to friend me it's usually because they want down my pants.-_-
    ashley35189 ashley35189 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    We have 2000 scams against me tracked back too them...that's Enough Giovanni is a better choice for platonic friendship. ..he's not an angel...but he is not mean Too me...
    frizxplayer44 frizxplayer44 51-55, F 49 mins ago

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    1. Can't even describe the years of pain I went through during school. High school until I left at age 16 was one of the most painful times of my life. The depth of bullying and...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Dear the person who hurt me: thank you. I was your best friend of five years and you made sure to diminish my self confidence every day. Thank you for teaching me that people aren...
    QuietViolets QuietViolets 16-17, F Jan 16

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    Though I know they'd betrayed me, left me to rot, and squeezed me out of the group. But it still hurts, being that I now have them in my lunch period. just seeing them talk and...
    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    yeah i would be hurt and im about to lose one. he says no one cares about him that everyone keeps telling him to die. hes already giving up on life but i wont give up on him. hes a...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I didn't know that people can change so fast.. may be their priorities have changed.. whatever.. I lost my best friend.. I had a best friend who was THE BEST.. every time I was...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    Maybe by posting this I will feel better because I am getting things off of my chest and may find some type of closure. I said goodbye to someone that I truly cared for because of...
    Bittersweet73 Bittersweet73 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I feel friendship has less hurt than relationships. With friends you can forever be apart, but sit down over coffee and be happy, share ideas, experiences, news, and discuss life...
    BlueSkysAreCold BlueSkysAreCold 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I Belive i can be a great person and trust me I can be a great friend!! I can save secrets!! I can jump for u any time !! But seems the now this years people do t know what is...
    Marialz Marialz 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    this is the first thing I could post stuff on so that no one I know could ever find me. I need to let out this steam.. A couple months back, I was talking to this guy for 10-11...
    elenaaastewart1 elenaaastewart1 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I wish you would understand how much it's hurt me these past few years....as I see you forgetting me more each day, never making an effort to even say hello....I watch as I see you...
    AlyShine AlyShine 18-21, F Jan 11

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    I used to be. I used to be best friends with her. We'd tell each other anything and everything. She'd tell me about her day, what she did, and she'd tell me about anything that had...
    NotYourAverageAsianGuy NotYourAverageAsianGuy 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    A friend of mine gave his heart to me. I pushed him away hoping he would move on. But he just fell more in love with me. I knew that if I wanted him to truly move on I'd have to...
    BeautyInBlack BeautyInBlack 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I've had this friend since I was in kindergarden. I was in Puerto Rico at that time and left when I was 10, came back when I was turning 13 left again to Fl & now at age 17 I live...
    Kalel17 Kalel17 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    It hurts to know that nobody cares about you. It hurts to know that if you get hurt, no one will help you get through the pain. There's only you and darkness. It's the same way...
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    Well there is one in particular. She has a friend a little older than us, and whenever they are together, she ignores me. I just follow her and act really shy and hurt but she...
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 12

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    I hate those friends who only invite you to events that involve you giving money or a gift to them of some sort. Like, seriously. I know someone from an old job, who was always...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12