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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    My only real friend and i've hurt her.

    ...idk what to do....idk what to say to fix that....i hate myself so much....now i'm lost ,guilty and worried about her...this is a nightmare...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M Mar 14

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    I hurt a friend and didn't realize it

    because I'VE have been soooo preoccupied with my own problems I missed out on his last message. He had been wanting to do something for a very long time and hadn't had the nerve. After many many conversations he did it! He sent pictoral evidence. It was honestly one of the best...
    lindajam lindajam 51-55 1 Response May 29

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    My best friend is a girl, and my ex-girlfriend. Literally everyone in our families think we're still dating or together in some way (if you know what I mean). But we're really...
    mattn95 mattn95 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Was bullied a lot in school but mostly by boys. I don't know. Girls are just usually kinder. Perhaps they're humoring us and telling white lies I don't know but it does make them...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    I thought we were really good friends. I had considered him my best of the best friend. I told him all things about me and there was total transparacy from my side. I though he was...
    knightstar95 knightstar95 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    The fact is, I don't have really a "true" friend to talk to about anything .
    Maroon16 Maroon16 18-21, F 11 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Just today I was at home with an Asian friend. She was wearing a skirt and doesn't know how to sit ladylike. I was able to snap a couple of pics of her panties. Message me if you...
    MrProdigy7 MrProdigy7 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    ~ It doesn't matter which part of the world you're living, who you are or what your belief is, as long as you need a friend, i'm here for you :) ~
    ideallover ideallover 22-25, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I don't even know where to begin. I feel lost. The man I was closest to for the past year was a wolf in sheep's clothing. He made me believe that he loved me. Clearly he is...
    SourSally2 SourSally2 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's again my fault. I wasn't a good friend to him. I am and was an idiot. I should have known. He is an amazing person. He is kind and sweet. He is very considerate. And most of...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I know I'm on here. I just came to post this. I decided it would be best for my best friend(online) and I to just stop talking. I told him today. Why you ask? Because I clearly...
    CyanideY CyanideY 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yet another story of thoughtless friends. There was the time Ansley and Daniela pestered me about the past. Throughout the years Ansley and Daniela teased me about my 9th grade...
    sabertigersab sabertigersab 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My ex-friends were like trackers: persistant and rude. In the middle of my senior year of High School, I tried so many tactics of avoiding my friends who didn't treat me like a...
    sabertigersab sabertigersab 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It's a fact actually. I've believed this for a long time as I've become close with my little circle but it's become more clear over the past couple days. We've become like a family...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know....reading all the stories here...makes me feel I was never really even friends with my best friend. I mean we never actually met. Except for once. Never before or...
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My friend was killed by a demon years ago.There was a demon inside their house.I stayed at their house for several months. The first night that we prayed for her something...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F a week ago

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    I haven't been able to find courage to tell my church friend about how hurt a dreamer left me. I think she has a hunch. The way I was squeezed & held. The time spent watching an...
    poiema poiema 36-40, M a week ago

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    I've been on EP for a month and am finding the budding growth of virtual friendships. It's not new to me, I've belonged to gaming communities in the past, but it's been a long time...
    jp20156 jp20156 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I wondered this years ago, and came to the conclusion that we are all changing and evolving in a multitude of ways. Demands change, life priorities change, etc. for everyone. Our...
    65Cadillac 65Cadillac 41-45, M Jul 26

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    I literally can't go an hour without being sad all the time. I'm a girl who doesn't swear but now life is just playing with me, i just want to swear so bad but I won't. I feel like...
    unknowngirlonline unknowngirlonline 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    long story short I fell in love with my best friend and made the mistake of sharing much of the process with my parents. I doubt he feels the same way but either way he sort of can...
    Elliearellano Elliearellano 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Someone Far Away There is someone, that is far far away, that someone is special, and we chat everyday. I know I haven't met them, but maybe someday, we will finally meet, and...
    btiny13 btiny13 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I met a girl one day on the playground in first grade and from that day forward she became my best friend. As time grew we became closer then friends. I considered her to be family...
    Curlygirly6 Curlygirly6 18-21 1 Response Jul 20

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    I've been feeling very hurt and disappointed lately. I've been feeling like i'm not important or essential in peoples lives. people that i really care about and think about almost...
    mistywillow mistywillow 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I am very lucky. I have some fabulous friends. This week a friendship healed. She fell silent when her husband destroyed me, The impossible situation. I was running an...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F Jul 19

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    I am so famous for this, & I think it has cost me quite a few friendships over the years. When I am hurt, when I am scared, and when I am depressed I shut people out. I have an...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F Jul 18

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    There was this girl i met on a party bus around 2 years ago. She started making out with my friend that i went with but at the end of the night of the night we exchanged phone...
    DragonKing223 DragonKing223 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I should've known something was wrong with him. He was like a second dad to me after my uncle that I was very close with died of cancer. Not even a year after that happened he...
    Cowgirl6140 Cowgirl6140 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    ...And one friend I technically still have, although it isn't the same. I wish some things didn't have to change. I met a man once, who taught me to fight. Not in all of the ways...
    TheWildling TheWildling 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I've ended a lot of friendships because most of the people I have associated with have taken me for granted. Personally, I'd rather have no friends than friends who treat me like a...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Today was a really tough day for me. I'm not depressed like I usually am, but I know I'm getting dragged back to it. A lot of things have been on my mind. Today, the first thing I...
    Whobody Whobody 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    My former friend messaged me after months of unofficial (yet real) no contact, to express how sad it is that we don't see each other or talk anymore. I sort of feel like that...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years now. last year me and my boyfriend had to move to different cities due to work assignments. here i became friends with a guy at...
    radhika90 radhika90 22-25, F Jul 14

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    I started this group because I don't think I'm the only one that thinks this is true. The anonymous format, the distances between us, all seems to allow for the "guards" to come...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 20 Responses Jul 14

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    An open letter...no, an open confession, to you, my best friend. You are the absolute worst person I know. You're selfish, secretive, and manipulative. You're a liar. You've made...
    agathapadua agathapadua 22-25 1 Response Jul 14

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    Loyalty is a big thing to me. I'd like to imagine that if a good friend of mine did something wrong that I'd help them no matter the consequences, but I cannot know that until it...
    Archerein Archerein 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    it's actually a few people. I don't think it'll make a difference if I clarify or not, not that any of them will see this and the one person who might really couldn't care less...
    LoveLessOne97 LoveLessOne97 16-17, F Jul 14

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    He says he wants a closer friendship with me... I don't know what my intentions with him are yet... but... I don't think he & I are compatible, NOT even as friends.... and that's...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13