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I Hurt a Friend

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    I can't believe I did it again.

    .. I unintentionally hurt a friend when I was trying to help. I hate relationships. That's why I've been happier alone. I don't have the chance to put my foot in my mouth.
    nickrif nickrif 31-35, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I seriously have no real friends and i hate it. I had the same 'friends' from about age 6 till 14 but they always would hurt me, and i never had the chance to make other friends...
    thekittykat thekittykat 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Can't say I don't love him. Still I can't pretend that my heart is torn just knowing that I'm losing my bestfriend. If it's easier said and done then someone tell me why. I could...
    lightraydawn lightraydawn 18-21, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I've had 3 people who I have genuinely called my best friends. Each one has hurt me and each one worse than the last... Recently I moved to NYC, it wasn't a place I had planned on...
    luvzmusic89 luvzmusic89 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    Obviously I've been hurt many times.. but I'll never forget one of those times.. I still remember the pain as if it was yesterday.. I still feel the pain sometimes.. I used to be...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Okay, so probably a lot of people have some problems with friends. but maybe you can give me advice if you take the time out and read all this because it's gonna be a lot but i don...
    sarahellie9088 sarahellie9088 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I don't get how people can be able to have hundreds of friends... Most of the people I know are somewhere between acquaintances and friends. And there is a smaller group that I...
    Roccondil Roccondil 22-25, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I feel so bad for my husband and my family that I have left. I have been a little on edge lately and have had a rough time in my marriage. This all makes me think about what if I...
    BrokenWander BrokenWander 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I had a boyfriend who mentally and emotionally abused me, he called me names like ****, *****, *****, ugly, worthless, and nothing, for no reason at all. I stayed with him because...
    becswiggins becswiggins 16-17, F Sep 16

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    I have a friend who thinks she is carrying the whole world with her. I find her always haggard and very lonely. Later this morning, I saw her. Her eye bags were very big. Let me...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    It hurts to know that you used to be close to someone and created sweet memories. But now, when we see each other, its not the same anymore and when i make the efforts to rekindle...
    Rascalex Rascalex 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    To go from seeing someone everyday, spending hours of fun with them to suddenly not seeing them at all is pretty messed up. I dream about her every few days. She's my best friend...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Everyone's morning start with a smile, try to achieve something there goals with there significant one ... And smile on the faces of people who wake up with hope trying to find...
    Want2di3 Want2di3 22-25, M Sep 6

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    10 things I don't need in a friend. This is for those people who thinks that I am just dumb and easy to be bullied. Even though you call me your “friend”. BUT actually, no...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    Throughout life we make friends or acquaints ,many of which will fall away to nothing. How many actually stay beside you and can certainly rely on when your back is against the...
    blindfoldstacy blindfoldstacy 41-45, T 51 mins ago

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    I had this good friend who we were best friends for 5 years. About a 2 years ago, we stopped being friends because of some boy, but after a couple weeks of not speaking we were...
    limaha7 limaha7 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    My best friend, I've known her for about 13 yrs now and just this year she became so distant with me. It hurts. She went to a UC university and dorm there. About 2hrs away from L...
    janedoe9021 janedoe9021 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I've known my best friend, I guess I could call her Amber, from ever since kindergarten. She has been more than a best friend to me always, we've been like soul mates: I know...
    sunflowerheaven sunflowerheaven 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    Two friends Once two friends argued, and one of them slapped another. This man felt a pain, but telling nothing and wrote on the sand: — Today my best friend slapped me. They...
    TheShalottLady TheShalottLady 61-65, F a week ago

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    I used to have a friend a kind of people that uses everyone for her own benefits no matter how. I was too kind and too naive to face her with her lies. The day i was no longer of...
    thesunlover thesunlover 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    So I go to camp for three days...then come back to see that Zack has been threatened, dumped AGAIN unfairly, that he has found that jay corey and drew were working together, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    but I'm okay with that. I have 1 friend married 25 1 son she's a christian that lives and breaths for God. Been friends with her almost 9 yrs. Then I have another friend 32 2 boys...
    jbnj12 jbnj12 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    Sex seekers, please keep going. Wrong post! I'm at a point in my life where I've lost most of my friends. People say they weren't really friends, but that only makes it worse for...
    bettyajz bettyajz 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I hurt myself because it feels good to me and me and my best friend Alpha will continue to hurt other people see I like to make people feel my pain and my hurt that's why I hurt...
    dangerousperson dangerousperson 26-30, M Sep 1

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    I'm really ticked off. Okay so an adult I trusted I wrote about it in another experience (long story short I don't trust her anymore. She would literally ignore me and like cringed...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    Hi everyone i'll shorten my story as much as i can ... So me and that guy were in love but we didn't date he told me that he's not ready for a serious relationship and he can't...
    Myf95 Myf95 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    And I'm afraid of being hurt again. The sun continues to go up and down whether in here or not, stuck with fake parents and some "friends" that don't give a **** and a half. I'm...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    One of the girls I considered my friend has done me so much wrong. It all started on 9th grade...just because I was friend of the guy she liked. I believe this is an awfully stupid...
    simplyfuckit simplyfuckit 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My best friend of six years had sex with this guy I had a thing with. We weren't openly dating but everyone knew we were together, including my best friend. she told me at first...
    grace665 grace665 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I have one true friend in the area where I now live and she is moving away in one month. I am already feeling alone and sad because ever since we met we have both been each other's...
    ArdentLuna ArdentLuna 31-35, F 8 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Yet I get hurt by people Some men here don't know how to behave with women.It is our mistake that we trust such people.One of my friends here is deeply hurt and crying her heart...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I've been in this route before... Time after time, True love is so hard to find. I know this feeling is temporary just like everything in life. I am disappointed in allowing...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    Just let you know this may be a long story ( cos I keep locked a way and some the stuff I going to say the girl don't know about and the pic you see is her ) I try keep as short as...
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M Sep 6

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    'Listen' If a friend tells you their problem and you tell them don't feel bad or you just try to cheer him up it's like you're saying their feelings are wrong & to turn them...
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    No, you'll never realise. I keep the pain under lock and key. You'll never know how much your words have scarred me. I'll put up with the pain so you can be happy. I'll pretend it...
    OsyriaRose OsyriaRose 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    An open letter Dear Marie It's been 5 years now since you've past away. I still haven't seen your gravestone. I've heard it's beautiful - just like your soul. You might don't...
    Lindadk Lindadk 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    When I get frustrated or extremely upset or argue with someone I want to hurt myself. Its mainly when I argue with my close friends and mother. I feel so bad about things I said or...
    kleox7x kleox7x 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    We're good friends again and have been continuing to build up an even better friendship. But when I think about the time that he hurt me the most, I just can't help but ache...
    boomkimchaloy boomkimchaloy 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Tonight I just don't want to feel anymore it hurts too much. When a friend tell your their joyous and your news it throws your own situation into sharp painful relief. So happy for...
    1RedKing 1RedKing 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I use razorblades to hurt myself, 'cause, sometimes, I'm so sad I'm in real pain. I have scars all over my wrists, so I'm always wearing a hoodie or jacket. I live in one of the...
    mymasochismtango mymasochismtango 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    It seems like in every friendship I get myself involved in I'm always the one getting hurt , forgotten about just bc they found somebody better in their life and that really hurts...
    nadiarenee nadiarenee 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    She has hurt me over and over with things she has said but I laugh it off so no trouble gets started. But when I come out and say how I feel about a situation she blows up on me...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 19

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