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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    Friend of mine lost her job about six months ago . I told her to go to my old job and to mention me as a reference . She got the job because of me . Now I'm looking for a job and I...
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    Every girl deserves a guy best friend, one who understands her, listens to her when she's sad, doesn't judge her when she's rude, supports her in hard times, and most importantly...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I really don't know if anyone really knows. A few of my closer friends know what I'm going through, but honestly I don't think they could ever understand how useless I feel. I'm...
    lowellwolf lowellwolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    A couple of posts regarding infidelity on here reminded me of this: When I was a girl my mother kept telling me she had a friend, a woman, who she went out with at times. She said...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I don't even know if i should call them 'friends' or 'a piece of decoration on the wall' I really want close friends Someone who will care about me and will support me
    eriloves1D eriloves1D 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I did date my best friend. We had/have been friends for four years now. We always had a special connection. We dated for over a year, I thought we were okay, but then he suddenly...
    whispersweetnothings whispersweetnothings 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    But not "real" friends. I joined this site to explore and to get others' perspectives. I want to meet people. But only here. I already have a Facebook account that I use...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo 46-50, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    When the chips are down in your life and going through the storm- THAT is when you find out who cares and who your true friends are! Thank you to those who say they care and show...
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    My old best friend (let's call her Liv) spilled one of my secrets that she swore on her life she wouldn't tell anyone. So then at lunch when this happened I left my table and sat...
    xokekeox xokekeox 13-15, F Feb 14

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    I wonder how long it's gonna take to really get over you? I hate you at times yet at the same time i still miss you.. guess you finally cut off the endless loop.I never even got to...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    For the past several months I have been hurting more and more. My close friends have been tearing me down. It is not their intent to hurt me, but they do not exactly help...
    Joshua1325 Joshua1325 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 18

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    1-please don't be a 'leavdonteller' if we start talking and become friends just don't leave or disappear for days without telling me-2-i rather to slap by the truth instead of...
    Amirmohammad Amirmohammad 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today I found out that someone that I had once been close to had passed away. And while I may have lost this friend a long time ago because of a falling out, it just makes it hurt...
    jhnn0356 jhnn0356 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    sometimes I want a chance. I want to be loved cared for and respected I don't want to be called a freak I want people to respect who I am in the heart I want to have friend that...
    wintter54 wintter54 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Something really sad happened recently. One of my close work friends met one of my schoolfriend's. My work friend asked my school friend if she's friends with me and the school...
    mebe1996 mebe1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I meet this guy like 1 year and a half ago. He was new in school and I'm that kind of girl that always try to be friend of those quiet, lonely people so they can feel welcome or...
    roxyse roxyse 18-21, F Feb 11

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    The type of friends that are true and real and loyal. people who help with wan you need and not just what you want. true friends will be in your life as long as they are there to...
    stupendusdude stupendusdude 46-50 7 Responses Feb 18

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    I need a best friend? I have never really had one.
    laurenzerbe laurenzerbe 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    Hi electric guitarist n vocalist here :) Seeking for a friend Im kind and funny :D :) ^_^ Takecare all :) <3
    Rocksk8ergirl49 Rocksk8ergirl49 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I miss my best friend I feel like we slowing fading away from each other and it don't feel the same no more cuz we not together we did everything together
    tytiana1010 tytiana1010 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Very hard to find... It would be nice to meet a true friend. Hope one day ... 😔
    lovemedeep lovemedeep 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I really liked a guy from the UK. I can't forget when he sent me pictures of himself and they ended up in my spam mail. I retrieved them and he asked "Am I still spam?" He was an...
    DG2008 DG2008 31-35 1 Response Feb 5

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    I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months.. before we started dating I knew she had a male friend for over 20 years. they would go to the movies go to his house...
    ihavesomeissues ihavesomeissues 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    It hit me really hard as I was cooking supper. I truly miss my a friend I used to have here. I looked outside my kitchen window as I was cleaning up, and only thought to myself...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    I've been dealing with a guy for a year now "friends with benefits" and I caught feelings for him and I let it be known...but he does not feel the same. how can you not catch...
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Its been two mornings and two nights not talking to Tim ,I don't know if he is hurting but I am torn apart I cry all the time I miss his voice so much my chest hurts .I want to...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My girlfriend of 4 years dumped me recently and strung me along for a while while lying to me saying she only wanted me. I was totally head over heals in love with her and while I...
    JDNY1174 JDNY1174 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've had many friendships that I cherished very much that I just had to walk away from because it was all take and no give. It's not that I expect everyone to drop everything and...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Why does love have to hurt so much.. Maybe it's my fault because I'm stupid but we're together 20yrs, 3 children.. He was always the bad boy and I fell for him. He done the dirt on...
    Maynoothmeath1 Maynoothmeath1 36-40, F Feb 23

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    I took responsibility for any hurt I caused him - but he's not even aware of hurting me at all, and probably never will be. Especially take take responsibility for it. He's always...
    sbj120 sbj120 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    i know this sounds kinda stupid for those older than me maybe even those younger than me but i really feel like a failure. got wait listed to my dream college and i feel like...
    youngandinexperienced youngandinexperienced 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    okay so , i started talking to this guy and now i love him and he loves me and we got into a fight and broke up. and he spills that he is in love with his best friend. he did not...
    hsm1997 hsm1997 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    Quite recently my best friend of 11 years betrayed me and now I am finding it very hard to move on and forget about her. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and it was...
    bexx5 bexx5 22-25 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I was thinking this morning that I have had a lot of "best friends" but they always left. Or I don't see them until they want something. Until I found my Marine, I can tell him...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Why does it hurt so much when people leave you. My best friend from 2011 she like my sister left me. It wasn't her decision cause I know and she wanted to stay but her mom told her...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    "are you supposed to be in my life? I won't close the door if you're supposed to be, but... " i've had that struggle recently with an ex-friend. We started out really good...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Bella, She's a friend to everyone. Even to the wrong people. I don't know what to do! How can you tell a close friend that person they're friends with is a bad person? "Hey...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've had a couple of, I thought, very close best friends that I met online, here on EP. Both are men and they meant the world to me for about a year. With the loss of my best...
    chrissy1961 chrissy1961 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 13

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