I Hurt a Friend

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    My only real friend and i've hurt her.

    ...idk what to do....idk what to say to fix that....i hate myself so much....now i'm lost ,guilty and worried about her...this is a nightmare...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 14, 2015

    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly
    31-35, F
    Sep 24, 2007

    I hurt a friend and didn't realize it

    because I'VE have been soooo preoccupied with my own problems I missed out on his last message. He had been wanting to do something for a very long time and hadn't had the nerve. After many many conversations he did it! He sent pictoral evidence. It was honestly one of the best...
    lindajam lindajam
    51-55
    1 Response May 29, 2015

    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2009

    I have just recemtly realized what a jerk I

    have been to my friends. Most recently: I knew that a friend really needed a ride home, and she lived close to me. I got a ride for myself and another friend, who was getting a lift from me after, and left the other friend with no one Second, another friend`s birthday was this...
    alottafeelings alottafeelings
    18-21, F
    Sep 5, 2015

    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303
    18-21, F
    Feb 20, 2010

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