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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    So, this girl, she is my best friend. She is also my cousin, so we've known each other since we were born and stuff. She used to be kinda mean, so didn't like her. But then she...
    AvaRawr AvaRawr 16-17, F 55 mins ago

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    2 and a half years ago I was dumped by a male friend, who I would consider the best friend I’ve ever had. We connected on every level and I had never emotionally been as close to...
    iwannaLIVE iwannaLIVE 22-25, F Oct 15

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    I was blinded. The guy I really liked took advantages from me. I am a conservative girl but for him, I let him hold my hand. I let him hug me tight. I let him lay down beside me on...
    wreckedserenity wreckedserenity 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I have posted about this many a time before; truthfully I don't even know which category to post this in. Perhaps to get the most feedback I will just post it in more than 1. Is...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Two nights ago is when it happened. It still doesnt feel real. I was hanging out with my friend and drinking, someone who I trusted and always seemed to be one of the nice guys. We...
    SimplyEm SimplyEm 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    I am in my early 20's, recently graduated college and I am friendless. Unfortunately, this isn't something that just dawned on me now.. I have realized this for a while ...5 years...
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    It is such an odd thing to lose a friend. Even more so when your friend is around your age. When the memories you made with that person is still fresh in your mind because they...
    jshend jshend 22-25, M 1 Response 46 mins ago

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    It hurts to know that you used to be close to someone and created sweet memories. But now, when we see each other, its not the same anymore and when i make the efforts to rekindle...
    Rascalex Rascalex 16-17, F Sep 27

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    Dear Friend - I wish I could say this to your face, but I'm really hurt by the way you treated me.... And I think I'm done. I've been helpful and friendly every time you've...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    Preview I was 15 when I couldn’t handle it anymore, so I decided to go and talk to him. I told him it was great that they were such good friend, but that it was getting too much...
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F Oct 5

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    I met my BF 7 yrs ago. During our friendship i noticed that her daughter was very demanding of her mother's time. Many people have found that it is really disrespectful to them...
    Dragonlady2 Dragonlady2 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I think I have hurt someone.So I met this guy who called himself weird but that's okay becoz I liked weird guys since they were fun.And after some conversations he started talking...
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 13-15, M Oct 6

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    I've noticed with most of the male "friends" I had wanted to be more than friends (only two weren't like this but one is gay, so that is obvious. Three if you count the one who was...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    This is a long story, let me warn you! Six years ago when I started college, I had literally zero friends as I hadn't attended high school due to social anxiety issues. I met so...
    icecreamjunk icecreamjunk 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    So I go to camp for three days...then come back to see that Zack has been threatened, dumped AGAIN unfairly, that he has found that jay corey and drew were working together, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 29

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    Yes, I do and, I really care for them, This story is dedicated to a very sensitive hearted ep friend of mine... I feel so sorry for her to make her hurt over and over again, but...
    vjyr vjyr 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 13

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    I got in a big fight with a friend I rarely see, and will possibly never see again. I had invited her to a group chat with all my new high school friends since I had to go to a new...
    hcpefully hcpefully 16-17, F Oct 12

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    Love. 4 simple letters but the making itself isn't so simple. It has been said people come in and out of your life for many reasons and in still trying to figure out why he went...
    emilyewatson1 emilyewatson1 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    One of the girls I considered my friend has done me so much wrong. It all started on 9th grade...just because I was friend of the guy she liked. I believe this is an awfully stupid...
    simplyfuckit simplyfuckit 16-17, F Sep 27

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    My best friend of six years had sex with this guy I had a thing with. We weren't openly dating but everyone knew we were together, including my best friend. she told me at first...
    grace665 grace665 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    me and my ex broke up about a week ago weve been trying to stay friends (ive been trying to stay friends) and we play this pc game together so the night before last she told me...
    justashyguy87 justashyguy87 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 3

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    If I give you a bond, dont just throw it away because it takes alot for me too get close to you. If I give you a spot in my life dont turn away leaving that space empty because it...
    wickedone72 wickedone72 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    I shut myself out in general. I'm socially awkward, and really trusting. I let people get into my heart, just to rip it in the end. I don't HATE people, I just worry that either A...
    evie2001 evie2001 13-15, F a week ago

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    Last night my boyfriend and I were at a club with our friends. We had a couple of drinks, we were just buzzed. Something happened where he got jealous over who I was talking to and...
    lessonlearn3d lessonlearn3d 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Today my mum shouted at me, saying rude things and things that hurt me so much. So i tried to defend myself and trying to fight for myself. But I ended up being scolded and yelled...
    llamaxxi llamaxxi 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    There was this guy I was dating he was sweet and nice very understanding , he helped me with my depression in the beginning I didn't want to burden him I told him to leave me . He...
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Today I ask him, what did he say that day that made me feel hurt. He say: how old did you lose your virginity. This was actually the question. So I was really angry about it again...
    badromance96 badromance96 18-21, F Oct 14

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    I hurt the one I love the most and didn't even care until it all crashed down on me. I was cheating on him for six months and acting like I didn't have him around. I gave up on him...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 22-25, F a week ago

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    I used to have a best friend. Her name was Chelsea. She stabbed me in the back. I know I shouldn't be thinking about her at all with all the lies and sadness she caused me, but I...
    ChiMasta ChiMasta 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I guess I just want a friend I can talk about everything and nothing with. Used to have that. Gone now obviously. *sigh* I feel like the only one who I can really talk with...
    ChiMasta ChiMasta 16-17, F 1 Response 49 mins ago

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    People, I don't know what to do. My GF has pretty much cut most communication with me and given it to others. She claims it's because she's been so stressed, which I know she is...
    DiamondSeraph DiamondSeraph 26-30 1 Response Oct 2

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    Yesterday really. He was my very best friend and like me was 13 years old. We've been friends almost my whole life, we surfed together, skated together, played soccer together...
    AdamV13 AdamV13 70+, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Worst thing that could ever happen is not betrayal by our love ....I think betrayal by your best friends are more painful...It makes u to lose hope on everybody. The one who was...
    girlyoudontunderstand girlyoudontunderstand 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So today i decided to throw my gf a surprise party.. The problem with that is, she never wants to do anything. Not even leave the ******* house.. I told her my friend was going to...
    young4orce young4orce 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    Zack has officially left EP. He was hurt by Drew and CJ, betrayed by Jay and Corey and some other **** like that. Zack was a great friend and I lost him because he was hurt by...
    ChucktheLegend ChucktheLegend 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 30

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    Telling my family and friends what they don't want to hear as apposed to what they want to hear, hurts me way more than it hurts them. What kind of person would I be if I can't be...
    Lee124 Lee124 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Yes. I was hurt and at the time he probably laughed with his friends and family about me. Took my virginity, but didn't love me when he took it. He had a tattoo of his ex...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 12

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    This is Merle. I am Jennifer's now husband. have been about eight months now. I'm posting because I'm so damn pissed that I could shoot the freaking ***** who has caused my wife...
    IAMNUTSFORFREDDY IAMNUTSFORFREDDY 18-21, F Oct 13

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    I don't know what I did wrong in this life but I just can't stand my friends anymore most of whom I have known for over 5 years . I don't know why but I always end up alone and at...
    nanagirl95 nanagirl95 18-21, F Oct 15

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    This is what led me to ep. I need someone to talk to and understand how I feel. To say I have no family wouldn't be true. I have a husband and five children, whom I love dearly. I...
    ktjade ktjade 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    There was a girl I was friends with. I was 11 at the time. Let's call her friend A. A was bossy and controlling and I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. She could be mean...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Need advice... I started a very unexpected friendship with a teacher at my children's' school. It came completely out of nowhere; I didn't even see it coming. But it's light...
    ShouldntFeelEmpty ShouldntFeelEmpty 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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