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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    My only real friend and i've hurt her.

    ...idk what to do....idk what to say to fix that....i hate myself so much....now i'm lost ,guilty and worried about her...this is a nightmare...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M Mar 14

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    ShineBrightLikeADiamond112 ShineBrightLikeADiamond112 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    First let me say that I am married to a woman that is dutiful to everyone but me About five months ago I started dating a coworker She also is married We ate dinners together...
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    When I have a bad day or I'm upset, I look around the room at all the things that I could use to hurt myself. A straightener, tweezers. I'm a strong believer in god and am too...
    BrokenW1ng BrokenW1ng 18-21, F 40 mins ago

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    I just need a little room to break. A place where I can cry all I want without people asking why and feeling sorry for me. A place where I can break stuff when I'm mad, angry and...
    AverageGirl1k AverageGirl1k 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    daddy just told me he has a girlfriend but threatened to kill me when I made a joke about having one and he expects me to be okay and continue on with the relationship what the...
    daddyslittleprincesa daddyslittleprincesa 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F Mar 6

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    When I say friend, I mean friend as in: Actual conversing with each other, not just adding someone for the sake of self-enjoyment. On the internet, that's basically all I get, just...
    Lunakicker Lunakicker 22-25, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I should not say that all men have hurt me. I do not think that all men are evil or blame everyone in my life but I have been hurt by a lot of men. I don't want to be bitter and I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    i have a very few. I'd rather have just a few friends that i can count on. not many people are dependable and worth the loyalty i show them. i have a best friend Stephanie. we...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    All my friends moved away and lost contact after high school. It's so hard to make friends at college. All the girls already know each other and aren't very friendly or open to...
    BrokenW1ng BrokenW1ng 18-21, F 2 Responses 35 mins ago

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    Today I found out that someone that I had once been close to had passed away. And while I may have lost this friend a long time ago because of a falling out, it just makes it hurt...
    jhnn0356 jhnn0356 18-21, F Mar 1

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    1-please don't be a 'leavdonteller' if we start talking and become friends just don't leave or disappear for days without telling me-2-i rather to slap by the truth instead of...
    Amirmohammad Amirmohammad 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    Last year I went out of my way to help a friend. A co-worker, but someone I considered a friend. Someone I care about. Well, I *thought* she was a friend. I campaigned for this...
    AlanFromHere AlanFromHere 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have some of the best friends in high school, but I have a better best friend. Who is also on EP, but we are always hanging out and cracking jokes, and I go to his house almost...
    Tak162015 Tak162015 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    I really would like online friends I just moved far away from my friends and family and lost them all so online friends would be nice...
    mlnoon mlnoon 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    You think your best friend is the best in the whole world and you think you will stay friends for ever but then that friendship disappears and you remember the good times together
    iqra765 iqra765 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Im really starting to hate weekends. Seriously. It used to be great, i would get home, grab some chips, a soda, put my favorite youtube gamer and then i would watch my favorite...
    Mikaela1920 Mikaela1920 16-17 3 Responses Mar 12

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    My girlfriend of 4 years dumped me recently and strung me along for a while while lying to me saying she only wanted me. I was totally head over heals in love with her and while I...
    JDNY1174 JDNY1174 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    This song describes how I feel about the best friend I lost Hey ole Friend, thanks for callin' It's good to know somebody cares Yeah she's gone, but I don't feel like talkin' It...
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M Mar 8

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    The person that was going to be my life long best friend slowly began to severely dislike me. I'd known him for 13 years, knew all the family ect. I was in love with him and it was...
    Christina916 Christina916 22-25, F Mar 19

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    I've been dealing with a guy for a year now "friends with benefits" and I caught feelings for him and I let it be known...but he does not feel the same. how can you not catch...
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Its been two mornings and two nights not talking to Tim ,I don't know if he is hurting but I am torn apart I cry all the time I miss his voice so much my chest hurts .I want to...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    FOR MY DAUGHTER ...Sweet words are easy to say, sweet things are easy to buy, but sweet people like you are difficult to find ... life ends when you stop dreaming ... hope ends...
    shaggynz shaggynz 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 7

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    it's hard . loosing your best friend . You think there there for you right ? Yea . I felt that way . Well my best friend is a guy . It started in 6th grade ... We had classes...
    charmainebowan71102 charmainebowan71102 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I learned that true friends are hard to find and that most people will do or say anything to make themselves look good, regardless of who they hurt. I can honestly say I have 6...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Back in January, I found out my best friend had sex with my ex boyfriend I had dated for 3 years. Yeah, we were broken up, but still... he was my first love and that's just NOT...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate it so much. I have a crush, but I'm never sure if he likes me back. I do know that one of my other friends likes me and if he were to ask me out I have no idea what I would...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I took responsibility for any hurt I caused him - but he's not even aware of hurting me at all, and probably never will be. Especially take take responsibility for it. He's always...
    sbj120 sbj120 18-21, F Mar 1

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    When I decide to develop friendships, I want to create a strong ties with that person. Soulmates. We should all be here to help and love one another and I've learned that's not...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Bella, She's a friend to everyone. Even to the wrong people. I don't know what to do! How can you tell a close friend that person they're friends with is a bad person? "Hey...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Once upon a time we were friends, as if a life time.....laughing, sharing, and caring,exchanging, communicating.....there was love...real love, dedication.....As the seasons change...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    all of my friends ask why im alone truth is i trust no one, and if i do the person hurts me in return i rage out and fire back. so the best way for me to help them is to just not...
    NomadxAngelx117 NomadxAngelx117 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    I told her months ago when she was in a broken emotional state that I'd be there for her, always. I said even if she offered herself to me I'd deny her because I cherish our...
    Oppositioner Oppositioner 18-21, M Mar 6

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    Ever since I was younger, I don't react to disappointing others very well. I had always been wary about how they see me and how I should act around them because I feel like no one...
    JalynArr JalynArr 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    *This is going to be a long post, so please bear with me, thanks :-) So, I have had a bit of a dilemma the last few months and would like some advice. I have had this friend, a...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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