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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    My only real friend and i've hurt her.

    ...idk what to do....idk what to say to fix that....i hate myself so much....now i'm lost ,guilty and worried about her...this is a nightmare...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M Mar 14

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    I've been hurt so many times in my life. I lost all of my friends due to them not thinking I was worth there time. I just want to be happy. I don't want to have to battle...
    lovebugg11 lovebugg11 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Both on EP and in real life. I try my best to see the difference between situations where I can be funny and/or sarcastic and situations where I need to be serious. Sometimes I...
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    Yesterday I made a new friend. My uncle's girlfriend. I didn't realize we'd talk at all but she's actually funny and nice to talk to. I hope the friendship lasts. Speaking of true...
    CyanideY CyanideY 70+, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Short version: I met my friend 5 months ago, we connected on this amazing level, and within the two months I ended up meeting him in person in his state. We realised there was more...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I HATE GOD! What has God ever done for me? I’ve never killed anyone. I’ve never raped anyone. I’ve never robbed a bank or stolen a car. Yeah – I’ve hurt a few...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This is for my friend whose light has guided me held me sustained me... when I was lost and drowning I could feel you like a lighthouse guiding me into the calmer waters. There...
    00FlyingHome 00FlyingHome 41-45, F 53 mins ago

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    and so I push people away.. I have lots of things I want to say, at the same time, I don't know what to say.. I am not good with poeple and so I NEVER had any friends, like 0...
    FallingWind FallingWind 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Here's why I consider myself to be a true friend. I don't mince words. I have a soft heart, am sensitive to other's needs, but if you ask me for advice, I'll tell you what I think...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I'm not friends with many girls because they all feel sorry for themselves, because of things THEY caused themselves. And most of them are compulsive liars who actually believe...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    This is the way to go not having one person as your best friend only. I find (have just learnt) that having one best friend could ruin your friendship later on and you can loose...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    Ok i used to have this friend who i met in year 1, i met her through my mom because her dad worked with my mum, lets just called her Cathy for now, Now i used to be best friends...
    ScarletandRose ScarletandRose 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    When someone hurts my friends I immediately want to hurt that person. I am patient and I will hold a grudge on someone way past the point of my friends forgiving them.
    imOddlyshy imOddlyshy 26-30, F a week ago

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    I played truth or dare with husband'sj friend. He dared to see my fruit bowls and then wanted to eat them. It was a win-win for both of us.
    sunnyup sunnyup 46-50, F 7 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm quite new here, and I really would love to make some new friends. I find it difficult to because of my anxiety and typing this is a bit scary but I thought I'd give it a try. I...
    LexiDoll LexiDoll 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 mins ago

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    I was born with empathy, passion, sensitivity and desire. These take their toll at times living so emotionally driven but its what makes me feel alive. I hate seeing my friends in...
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I'm hurting because I used to watch nickeloedoen in the 90s and my favorite show was ren and stimpy I think about that show all the time. I look on Google at pictures of ren and...
    sarahhoek sarahhoek 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    Heyyy, just venting lbvs! I don't have any friends, nor family! is it by choice mmm yea in a way but not really! I tend to block people out and keep a tough guard! Why, because I...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    It has been one of the most difficult losses for me because there is no reason and no conclusion. A close friend, who was like a sister to me, is now no more than a stranger. We...
    saltwaterrose saltwaterrose 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    At what point do you finally realize a friendship is over? Is it when you realize that through 25 years of friendship they have only been to your home twice? Maybe when you think...
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 5 Responses May 4

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    My best friend just lost his dad Last night. we were at a soccer game saterday and had lost. Then the next night his dad went on a motercycle ride. He crashed and didn't live to...
    MrPoolofsouls MrPoolofsouls 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    My friends don't really know the difference between me and them.. When they're hurt, they talk.. When I'm hurt, I hurt myself to the breaking point. Until I'm satisfied with the...
    PureLies PureLies 13-15, F Apr 28

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    There is a saying in a book "You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world...but you do have some say in who hurts you" Unfortunately for me I chose wrong, because i chose...
    Lyta22 Lyta22 22-25, F May 8

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    Recently, I just ended my friendship with my best friend. During this period of time, it really was a difficult and painful experience. I couldn't believe that we actually ended...
    Megumi07 Megumi07 16-17, F Apr 28

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    I really can't believe that I have to resort to this, but I'm going to give it a try. I'm 28, grew up in St. Louis, got a great education, was active in sports (still love to play...
    waitingforready waitingforready 26-30, F May 4

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    I was friends with this girl…let’s call her N…for about a year, not a long time I know, but I thought we were really good friends and got along well. Obviously, I was wrong...
    chibikari chibikari 26-30, F 20 hrs ago

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    I have known my best friend for 3 years. We met through band, but our friendship didn't truly start until I sat beside him in biology on the first day of school. He was a freshman...
    Cheyenne555 Cheyenne555 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I miss you. I wish I had more one chance, one more chance to talk to you, one more chance to hug you, one more chance to change your mind. I thought I was okay, I thought I was...
    HopelessWhispers HopelessWhispers 31-35, F 5 Responses May 1

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    In the past I have been betrayed a lot or people deliberately tried to hurt me. And because of that I have very little trust in people now. I have a serious problem with trusting...
    auroramemoires auroramemoires 22-25, F 3 Responses May 2

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    I thought we are friends. I thought we were close friends. Then someone said that he hates me. A lot. I don't know if it's true but I am hurting. I stay strong on the outside, but...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F May 5

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    So I've been dating him for about 9 months now but I see him as a besfriend more than a boyfriend. I feel like he doesn't put effort in the relationship at all. His family...
    jillianskylar jillianskylar 16-17, F 1 Response May 10

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    My ex was a pro at this. She spent our entire relationship manipulating my mental disorders and using them to abuse me (by pretending to be possessed, then cutting, beating, or...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 1 Response May 14

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    It might be because Im very over protective and dont like to see my friends hurt over stupid mistakes. But they just wont ever take my advice and end up hurt anyway. I just end up...
    92krosado 92krosado 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I'm not gonna say that I am mad.. because as you already know i don't get mad but what I am is disappointed... Disappointed that you didn't fight your feelings and I can't believe...
    DaOneandOnlyOne DaOneandOnlyOne 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I will sum it up mostly since it's very long, but here it is: I was introduced to her when I visited my dad's family, she was the girl that lived up the road. I can't remember...
    Saravegan2 Saravegan2 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    Okay. Let's talk about my previous best friend. I met her when we're are thirteen and we hit off really well and that's how we become best friend. I really do care about her, and...
    Anneharuko Anneharuko 18-21, F May 5

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    For the past few days my really good friend has had to endure seeing her love interest hang out with his new "prettier, more popular" girlfriend. On the outside, his girlfriend...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F May 12

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    So I met this guy when we were 18. I kinda liked him, but I was on the fence about it, and in my snobby 18 year old wisdom, decided he wasn't worth another thought when he ditched...
    Supersyncsteph Supersyncsteph 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago