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I Hurt a Friend

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    I Hurt a Friend About 2 Years Ago...

    I hurt a friend.  I chose my broken relationship over a good friend.  My late fiance used to fill my head with ideas about my friends and I was so blind that I believed everything he said.  Maybe he was jealous and wanted me for himself only. I am not blaming him...
    madambttrfly madambttrfly 31-35, F Sep 24, 2007

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    I Didn't Mean To!

    We all do things we wish we didn't do when we're angry. I've done and said things to my ex-girlfriend, who was also a best friend, that hurt her feelings and made her cry. Of course, I feel much remorse about what I did, which I won't go into detail about, and I want to make...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 30, 2011

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    I Hurt One Of My Best Friends. But Not On Purpose.

    Okay so here is my experience. So i have this friend, named Carissa.. we have been friends for about 5 years now. Well our husbands have been friends forever! and then we have a guy friend who just met a girl, named Joanna, about 9 months ago. Well he use to play in a band, well...
    bbrejo bbrejo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    I Did...

     i had this best friend in 4th grade named skylar...she was really my third friend in my life. i was super shy when i was younger...anyways..we really hit it off and played together a lot, one time she came over to my house and it was my mom's birthday and my brother was...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    There's this guy I was dating a while ago. One night he tells me that he does not like me anymore and that he feels bad but that he'd rather tell me the truth than lie. Nothing has...
    sharonvV sharonvV 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    No really, you seem like a wonderful guy. Trust me though, you don't really want to date me. Here's how it goes: everything starts out new and fun, as it should. We're both happy...
    yeg88 yeg88 26-30, F 22 hrs ago

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    but it'd hurt less if I knew why you're all of a sudden avoiding me. Friends come & go. I just thought we had been through enough to make you stay...
    LoveOverHatred LoveOverHatred 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    Everyone hurts someone unintentionally on occasion. That is one thing; however there are people out there who seem to take pleasure and/or pride in inflicting hurt and pain on...
    loanlee loanlee 56-60, M 5 hrs ago

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    I have decided to never ever like a guy ever again or at least for a very long time. I told him how I felt and he answered and everything was ok then it started to get weird with...
    MEGH0119 MEGH0119 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I am so used to being hurt. I don't want to lose him. But what if he does decide to leave. What if one day he wakes up and decides I am no enough. That I am not worth the fight...
    withpaincomesstrength withpaincomesstrength 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    Yeah..I've been betrayed many times for no reason. Just to use and hurt me I guess... ️I don't wanna be hurt anymore..
    FriendlyDragon FriendlyDragon 13-15, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I hate how she made me feel loved then now, she don't love me anymore. It hurts so much and I hate how this break up makes me feel. Everyday, I get to think about those sweet...
    guhint guhint 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    This has happened to all of Us at one point or other. It hurts for awhile.I choose to get over it.Its there loss.Things have a way of coming back to bite them. I will not let them...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I found who I am very early in life (im just 15). I had a few friends, including one or two boy friends. One of them became one of my best friends, Oskar. This was when i was 8...
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F Dec 2

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    True Friendship comes when you least expect it. Being a friend doesn't guarantee anything other than self-respect. I believe that people are hung up with the notion that people...
    CaptainRoberts CaptainRoberts 51-55, M 13 hrs ago

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    i actually miss her so much. She was the best best friend anyone could have. We told each other everything, her parents were fighting and she even told me she knew her dad was...
    cristinaluciana cristinaluciana 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am to a point that the hurting and sadness are normal and any joy is frightening . I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life and many of the bad things I have caused , I just...
    chris121458 chris121458 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 15

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    I guess it's the fact that he's everything I need. I don't trust easy and I know I can trust him, I have told him more then my best friends and he just listens, he doesn't judge my...
    MEGH0119 MEGH0119 13-15, F Nov 30

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    I dated this guy that was a little older than me and apparently my 'best friend' liked him before we dated. She never told me that she liked him, ever, and I even asked her for her...
    mouthyrage mouthyrage 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    Every time I make any kind of mistake- even just getting a bad grade on a test or saying something stupid- I feel like I deserve to be punished for it by hurting myself. I cut my...
    kaleidoscopic21 kaleidoscopic21 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 17

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    I love and appreciate my long distance friends, but I can't get too close. I've been hurt too much on the internet. Years ago, my therapist helped encourage me to get the internet...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response a week ago

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    This guy is my best friend, I love him but I'm done. He ignores me for the longest time then he comes acting all sweet I just want to go back to just being friends. ...we aren't...
    Justbeingmeok Justbeingmeok 18-21, F Nov 28

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    I get hurt by a different person everyday emotionally not physically whether Its A Friend Of Mine Or A Best Friend Or Heck Even My Boyfriend & I'm So Tired Of Being The 1 Girl Who...
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F Nov 28

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    I have heard the words, "f#€% you" more times than I could ever count. I have had those words said to me many, many times, and thought nothing of it. Today my best friend and I...
    sturmgewher44 sturmgewher44 18-21, M Dec 18

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    To be honest, I dont have any friends at all. no one to call and no1 to talk with when I need a shoulder.. but anyway I decided to open up to a girl tht my bfs friend is with (we r...
    dddd3333 dddd3333 22-25, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Friends who talk behind your back, friends who make indirect hateful comments, male friends who tell you they love you, friends who eventually start to show their true colours. I'm...
    Benni5 Benni5 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Excuse me while I ***** cry about how sad I am and tell a bunch of strangers who don't give a **** about why I'm feeling so blue. It sucks feeling so alone. It hurts when you go...
    kurioussubmissive kurioussubmissive 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I have a friend who's been my best friend for like 9 years and I know basically everything about her and we've been through soo much. We had huge fights before and there's an...
    Cornelia78 Cornelia78 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I met this really great guy over the summer. I had known him for a while actually but I never really thought about talking to him. One day he messaged me on Facebook and after a...
    pleasedonthugme pleasedonthugme 13-15, F Nov 28

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    I am having anxiety attacks because I am heartbroken. I'll try to keep the story brief. Started a new job in September. A guy at work likes me and we become good friends. He has a...
    classicslove classicslove 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    so my ex-BFF just totally destroyed me, just riipped me out of her life(besides the fact i see her every day at school) now i will refrain from cursing so i can post this but hes...
    DaveEatsToast DaveEatsToast 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    Okay, so I have maybe quite a few good friends, but two which I'm very close with. Let's call them Jenna and Olivia. So Jenna and I have been extremely close since preschool, and...
    celiapennington147 celiapennington147 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 12

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    Hi, my name is Laura and I'm 21 years old. Two years ago (start of 2013) I moved from my hometown in NSW, Australia, to South Australia to start university. I'm a musician and...
    Lesmall Lesmall 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I don't have any Friends. The last 4 years i don't have any friends, because i'm really shy. But now i Got Friends. But i'm only with Them in school, and talk to Them there. I'm on...
    SarahHansenCph SarahHansenCph 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    I do have a friend we become sexually active I enjoy him so much but at the same time I no want to hurt him I am no from this country tho . I was having a lot of faith in president...
    esoj80 esoj80 31-35, M Dec 2

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    please help me, i am 16 and so is my bf. We have been together for a year and a half. Lately he has been saying that he is **** and he's ugly, i tell him he isnt. and all of a...
    jenny646 jenny646 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    i want some true friends here i don't want large circle but true trusted friends , like some real friend with who i can talk in any way , can express , can share , discuss...
    r110 r110 22-25, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Just like it says in the title, I don't need to be one of these people who has to have over 200+ friends just to make myself look popular to others, all I need is just a close...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    There is a dimension that exists between me and other people. Some people may seem distance but some maybe close to my heart. There is what they called “magic” at every space...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F Dec 12

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    We dated for 2 years off and on. I still love him so much but he doesn't wanna settle down or get married. I also have kids now and he do want kids. I need someone who accepts my...
    chococatalatte chococatalatte 18-21, F Dec 14

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    Im not mentioning names in this post. Well actually this is the second time. The first time was a few years ago, a boy in my grade who killed himself our senior year, a month...
    cavemangod cavemangod 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 19

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    there's this guy whom I used to treat as a true friend... but eventually, I started to realize that he only comes closer to me when he's in need of my help... also my best friend...
    pitchy28 pitchy28 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi everyone, merry christmas. I am new on this but need an outlet to something that has bothered me all my life and perhaps get some advice. I was born to a single mom after she...
    PearlWhitey PearlWhitey 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago