I Hurt For Abused Children

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 332 People

    Having Been Raised Abused, It Hurts Me To See Children Abused, Or Even Crying

    HI. MY NAME IS ARCHIE. COMING FROM A VERY ABUSIVE HOME, MY HEART BREAKS WHEN SEE I A CHILD BEING ABUSED, MISTREATED, YELLED AT, OR EVEN CRYING.    I HAVE THIS MENTAL PICTURE OF CHILDREN SUPPOSE TO BE HAPPY & ENJOYING THEIR CHILDHOOD. PLAYING & NOT WORKING. NOT BEING SOMEONE...
    LITTLEBOYINSIDE LITTLEBOYINSIDE
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 2, 2012

    The Worst Childhoods Imaginable

    Some victims of the worst childhoods imaginable never make it past their first few years, their living hells and untimely deaths often at the hands of their own parents. Little Lisa Steinberg of New York City suffered horrible abuse from her father, and because of him she never...
    eleanorssong eleanorssong
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Nov 20, 2011

    I Believe My Experiences Make It Hard For Me To Feel Empathy, And It Makes Me Sick.

    I've heard many atrocious child abuse stories in my short life. Most being from friends. It was never a 'my upbrinding was worse then yours'. But it did show me that abuse is so diverse that it is often hard to relate.So I won't go into my story. Its in the past.What worries me...
    KimEbbett KimEbbett
    18-21
    3 Responses May 18, 2011

    Yes I Do....because I Was One Of Them....

      I hurt for abused children, and its easy for me to understand their pain, because I was one of them. I was one of those abused children, that prayed for death, because it would be so much better, than what we had to deal with from our parents, a mother who didn...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

    Broken Little Gurl

    A man saw a little girl sit under the dark night sky, he could see a reflection of pain in her eyes. But he couldn't see what she was holding back, as she turns around he could see her eye is blacked. He asked her what happened, but she just turned her back to him. She grabbed...
    daddysgurl92 daddysgurl92
    18-21
    1 Response Mar 2, 2013

    The Pain Continues

    My story has two parts. I was first marriage to my two kids father was very violent. I was married six years. It ended when our daughter at the she of four then was thrown into a tv stand, trying to get her dad off me. In time, my son was kicked around by him because he didn't...
    Motherwhocares Motherwhocares
    36-40
    1 Response Oct 1, 2012

    Protective Services Says "its Severe Abuse"

    Our step son  has gone from bloody face starved, black lip and bruises in deep muscle wounds at the hands of his mother, To, a wonderful, caring, sweet child~ and not only that, he has almost straight A's. I still can't understand the consequences in the system ~  his...
    Neveah Neveah
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    NJReform NJReform
    31-35, F
    Jul 11, 2015

    Why I Hurt For Abused Children

    I was one of them when i was a child so i know just how they feel there was noone to help me not one person cared.
    tatra52 tatra52
    56-60
    1 Response Oct 7, 2011

    No Name

    The day started off slow with no rush and no pain.. Joyful, joyful that is his name... She looked down and look straight, When she realized to love, was her fate... Alone so she thinks. So alone that she sinks, Sinks inside her heart... Inside her soul She sure would like to know...
    Jaquelineorozco Jaquelineorozco
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2012

    Please visit: http://www.

    fclu.org/reform/
    NJReform NJReform
    31-35, F
    Jul 19, 2015

    Abused Children Step Up And Help Them

    Child abuse is more than bruises and broken bones. While physical abuse might be the most visible sign, other types of abuse, such as emotional abuse or child neglect, also leave deep, long lasting scars. Some signs of child abuse are subtler than others. However, by learning...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2011

    That Was Then, This Is Now.

    My life was doomed before it began...teen pregnancy, forced marriage...my parents were not successful in thier attempt to raise me.  I was separated from maternal family, and adopted by my dad's sister. She turned out to be riddled with issues of her own, and was very...
    forallkids forallkids
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Nov 9, 2009

    SUPPORT GROUP ON FACEBOOK - https://www.

    facebook.com/groups/312914168881814/
    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993
    18-21, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    I Was One Of Them.....

    I was once one of those abused children, and I feel so much pain, and so much hurt for them, They DO NOT deserve that kind of pain, if I could do anything, I'd take their pain away. I hate when people ******* abuse children, its wrong. It shouldn't hurt to be a child. I wish...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2009

    Protective Services Says "its Severe Abuse"

    Our step son  has gone from bloody face starved, black lip and bruises in deep muscle wounds at the hands of his mother, To, a wonderful, caring, sweet child~ and not only that, he has almost straight A's. I still can't understand the consequences in the system ~  his...
    Neveah Neveah
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Oct 8, 2009

    M Best Friend And The Person I Love The Most Was Abused

    my best friend and the person i love the most was abused, i remember just a few days ago i found out he was hit, and punched alot and still is.... i came home crying my eyes out he is only 13, he is the type of guy with the wacky, sweet personality why are they hurting him...
    ihurt4joey ihurt4joey
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2009

    Helping Sorry Spelling Stuff Suck One To Many Bullets Bounced Around Inside My Head Years Ago

    if you really hurt for thee kids or children you need to contactthe courts and join one of the groups like CASA that fight for kids right or become a home and take one in to live i was there i was one of theose children years ago iwas the worst kind i use ,o;esters and used for...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    1 Response Apr 4, 2011

    Tell President Obama To Stop Killing Children

    The US Child Soldiers Prevention Act of 2008 prohibits the US government from providing military financing, military training, and several other categories of US military assistance to governments using child soldiers. The Child Soldiers Prevention Act went into effect in 2010...
    calebforaction calebforaction
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 18, 2011

    U ****! YOU NEVER HIT A CHILD,

    NOT FOR ANY REASON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was the last straw. You lost me. forever I love her more than u and shes not even mine, thats why I did it, to tell her: ITS NOT OK
    YesImStillHere YesImStillHere
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2015

    I Was Also Abused

    I don't think there is one person in my family who has no abused me in some way or another. Physical abuse, mental abuse, verbal abuse, sexual abuse. I had a very hard childhood. My mother died and I was sent to live with a aunt who hated her. I unfortunately looked just like my...
    ProTress ProTress
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    I've Been There.

    though there is not much i can do now, i still intend on helping victims of child abuse. no child should have to deal qith the horros and trauma becasue of the disfunction of another. it can really mess them up. at the moment, all i can do is listen to other victims and give the...
    monsterwithinme monsterwithinme
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2011

    Aandvforever

    Hi Im new at this website but i thought itll be good to share my stroy and present life experinces with people who are willing to stop and listen. So to begin let me take you back to the year and date September 7,1993. That is the date I was born. I was born into an abusive...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    Mommy

    I can’t see you anymore mommy, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t there. And it doesn’t mean I can’t imagine you’re still with me. I can’t hear you anymore mommy, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t singing to me. And it doesn’t mean I can’t imagine you’re...
    paranormaSPY paranormaSPY
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Aug 3, 2013

    Child Abuse Is My Pain Too

     this says it all dont you think?  
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2011

    isabella! https://youtu.

    be/Ctw2Bob7sH0
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 5, 2015

    It Happened In The 7-11

    My brother was a witness to this incident. He said it was"abuse" and I would have to agree. There was a mother in the 7-11 store with two children. One was about five, the other about three. Out of nowhere the older boy decided to have a tantrum over something. He laid down on...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2013

    News to Me

    I didn't know I was abused until I found out other kids' dads didn't treat them like this.
    florisotanc florisotanc
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

    Related Experiences

    This just happened today , i was standing in the street with my sis waiting for a taxi and a guy who was following us all day just walked by me and then he slapped my arse and said...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 21
    A few weeks ago I found myself chatting with a young woman in PM. Nothing inappropriate. A friend of friends, somebody that had orbited around our group but whom I never connected...
    JonE65 JonE65
    46-50, M
    Apr 21
    I got married with a divorced man with children who had told me before I move to lived with him that he has 2 children. When I come and live with him I found that he has 3 children...
    Jannat11 Jannat11
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    This isn't I like to talk about mainly... So I guess it began last year. I met her and tbh she seemed like she couldn't cause any harm. I was 14, she was a bit younger. We just...
    DamageKey DamageKey
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 20
    Children say and do such funny things most of the time. They are really just weird! It's so entertaining though, I love them!
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 18
    Parents please get your children vaccinated it can save their lives not to mention the lives of other children if you child gets an infectious disease. Vaccines do not cause autism...
    gregloa gregloa
    51-55, M
    Apr 17
    I saw him today after a long time, I didn't feel hate for him anymore he came over to help my dad. I avoided looking him in the eyes although I caught his eyes once and he still...
    zenii15 zenii15
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 17
    Isn't it interesting if the one who abused you (assuming someone close) chose to treat you normal afterwards, hoping you forgot about it, but then you tell this person about it and...
    smo0ch smo0ch
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 17
    Now that this site is closing i feel like i need to let him know something, I miss him. I miss him so much my heart aches at the thought of him, I don't know if he'll ever see this...
    Skeletonhat Skeletonhat
    13-15, F
    Apr 16
    I don't know of this is sexual abuse or not I'm not sure. I have a fear of men and boys I'm ok with my brother and dad but with others no. It's just mainly guys and men that are...
    Mariavampiremm Mariavampiremm
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 16
    Last question: I have been told that there are "spanking clubs" where parents meet and actually spank each others children Have you heard or witnessed this?
    micspankinmommy micspankinmommy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 15
    From community before other close people who did hurt me the most.
    joemane36 joemane36
    36-40, M
    Apr 15
    I really love kids. But I'm struggle with depression and anxiety too. I have some goals in life, and children would make me change those goals. I have really never felt an urgent...
    realcomplicated realcomplicated
    26-30, M
    Apr 15
    "If this is love, I do not want it. Take it from me please. Why does it hurt so much?" "Because it was Real..." ~Tauriel
    AmityLove AmityLove
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    Second question, have you ever attended or heard of churches which not only condone spanking, but actually spank children as part of the service?
    micspankinmommy micspankinmommy
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 14
    I will just say there is a special place in Hell for those who hurt children and animals!!
    clarktm1275 clarktm1275
    36-40, M
    Apr 14
    i really like children, their mindset and the way they see the world is something that i find to be pretty damn fascinating, simply because it's something ONLY children have, i...
    NitorTnT NitorTnT
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 13
    This past few days have been rough. This isn't a short story, be aware. Over a year ago, my mother had been going through changes in her life. She was aging, and had not been...
    Wudugat Wudugat
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    I managed to hurt my hand trying to perform a 'wheel' pose. I'm not flexible in the slightest and I was trying to see if I could do it. I half managed it. My hand hurts now after...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal
    26-30, F
    Apr 12
    Taught right, Act right, Do right, Be right, Been told this my whole life. Observe much, Look close, See beauty within the small things in life, Hold close o what's good, Let go...
    sillysweetgirl9 sillysweetgirl9
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11
    I love children. I think my face says it already. Haha. During my chorale practice, kids would go to me and talk about stuff like piano games and experiences in life and how are we...
    HeyGD HeyGD
    13-15, F
    Apr 11
    why did I let myself fall for her. it was so stupid and I knew it and now I'm just hurt. I need to give up on love altogether . I think I just might...
    SolGryn SolGryn
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 11
    I'm speaking about Aillin Wuornos(a serial killer) in this video. If you have little time,please watch this video. Thank you. https://youtu.be/58v4gZ0Fd4w She got excution and...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    Apr 11
    I think of all my experiences this one is the most difficult to discuss. I was sexually abused when I was a kid, for many years, but I don't want to discuss the abuse itself, that...
    AwakenEdge AwakenEdge
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 10
    And you'll never know how much I hurt.
    ToughKitty ToughKitty
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 10
    It breaks my heart when I'm hurting and he doesn't do anything to make me feel better... like just a few hours i told him "let's eat" and he just said he's not hungry and didn't...
    DeathThrone DeathThrone
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 10
    Today I'm happy for children. Because of them, one woman didn't use her sewing machine so it became mine. Yayyyy!!
    prettyprude prettyprude
    31-35, F
    Apr 9
    I have a friend on here that is in a very abusive situation with her husband and family. I realized about a week or so ago that her account here was deleted and just thought she...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    Apr 9
    I don't remember it, just what I heard about it. I am the last in a long chain. I don't have a great line when it comes to sexualy. it was normal. I didn't know how to stop and...
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld
    36-40, M
    Apr 9
    We are a married couple of girls 5 and 8 and we are very strict (that doesnt mean spanking) parents. We have lots of rules and strict about them. We love to be friends with other...
    StrictFamily StrictFamily
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 8
    I have ptsd and cptsd because of it all. It's been really difficult for me, but luckily I'm learning to manage the flashbacks and dissociation better. It's not all been suffering...
    MichaeltheChristLover MichaeltheChristLover
    18-21, T
    Apr 8
    my mom has soaped "both ends" and that is the worst, getting a soap suppository, having to hold the rest of the bar in my my mouth while I'm being spanked, then after it is even...
    typhoidmary typhoidmary
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 8
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