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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F May 30, 2013

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    im 37 and he is 46. we've been dating for over a year now and he cheated on me with my best friend 8 months into our relationship. it's been 6 months since he cheated and I am...
    lifecanberough lifecanberough 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I can't help it and im so angry. He cheated on me with working girls spending $5+K And when he came home he'd tear me down to pieces with his angry demeanor and words I cheated 3...
    tir3dw0man tir3dw0man 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i have been with my current bf for only a month. he has literally cheated on me at least 10 or 15 times already. and its not just me think he is cheating on me i have a close...
    lovermaker21 lovermaker21 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    What do I do? What do I do? Each time I think I can only get hurt and angry....
    tir3dw0man tir3dw0man 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a few months, however he's been my best friend for over a year. We've always been very close, and I thought we were completely open with each other...
    wednesdayy wednesdayy 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Hurts to know that people choose to be stay away from me because they can't digest myself! Fml
    RaZorr RaZorr 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    For the past several months I have been hurting more and more. My close friends have been tearing me down. It is not their intent to hurt me, but they do not exactly help...
    Joshua1325 Joshua1325 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 18

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    im just going to vent for a minute...i dont handle things well. i have always made bad descisions and as a result im a high school dropout, ive been to jail twice and in general im...
    icantstop29 icantstop29 26-30, F Feb 21

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    When's it going to be my turn? I'm just wondering, you know? Because I thought I was doing everything right. What do you do, when you give all of yourself to someone, you try your...
    ifitellyouigottakillyou ifitellyouigottakillyou 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    AgeMeet.com is promoting the concept of age gap dating where older men can date younger women. The trend of older men younger women dating of getting popular day by day and the...
    norahmarlin norahmarlin 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to forgive him. But I can't bring myself to do so. During the times he was cheating he treated me so so very cruelly. Demeaned me. Making me feel like crap. Hating myself...
    tir3dw0man tir3dw0man 31-35, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Does it count that he was high on meth and steroids and ****?? Can that REALLY excuse his behavior???
    tir3dw0man tir3dw0man 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Pain just gets stronger so I am just going to tell you all,distract yourself in any way or you will eventually consider suicide
    2b5h 2b5h 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 19

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    shall I die?? YES!!!!!!!!!
    stafford158 stafford158 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 19

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    One thing I hate is when I sign up for a dating and you go all out on spilling your live to you profile than go message people never get a reply
    truck1013 truck1013 22-25, M Feb 20

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    My thoughts are ripping me apart inside and they seem to cause me physical pain. I feel like I can never be happy again.
    thequietone0307 thequietone0307 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Anyone want to just talk about anything under the sun? I could use a new friend...message me if you want.
    justwant2befree justwant2befree 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He calls for another, and another again. He says he drinks to kill the pain. What pain I think, I'm the one who's bruised. I'm the one who's battered and abused. At last he's...
    myfavouriteposition myfavouriteposition 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    but I don't think I'll ever be ok until I can get away but that is the hardest thing in the world to do....I know exactly where I would go but that even scares me a little even...
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    I honestly did not imagine myself being cheated on for the second with a different guy. The first time around I can feel my confidence level being torn into pieces. This time all...
    kaceeeytl kaceeeytl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I hate being cheated by people who say they are your friends but then want hang out and have fun behind your back. Ever since my best friend found out that I self harm he slowly...
    Cgyan Cgyan 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Being beautiful can b a curse as much as it is a blessing. Often I'm very lonely, girls hate me. Guys are too controlling wen I date them. I feel like a Barbie doll. I hve been hit...
    tahty1214 tahty1214 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I want to fall asleep in your soft, warm arms. Each night I want to lay snuggled close to you, close enough to hear your heartbeat, close enough to smell your sweet fragrance. I...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 1 Response Feb 20

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    My dad taught me many things. He's a great person for me in some ways. He took me fishing & hunting when I was little which was fun. He always says he's proud of me or say...
    woodenstrings woodenstrings 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I need a break from being a mom for just like 3 hours. I pointed this out to my daughter's father and he reminded me I got one yesterday. What an insult. My sister did pick up and...
    morrginme morrginme 31-35, F Feb 8

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    For the majority of the time..... I was sick earlier this week because of an allergic reaction that turned into a fever and chills and loss of appetite. Then loss of energy and...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Introspective poem by Woody Harrelson, Yes, by him. I sometimes feel like an alien creature for which there is not earthly explanation. Sure I have human form walking erect and...
    Strawberrryfieldsforever Strawberrryfieldsforever 16-17, F 22 hrs ago

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