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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People

    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F May 30, 2013

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    So last week my fiance left his tablet open and I discovered a conversation he was having with an old friend of his from high school who lives in NY and we live in the south...
    stephanieleg stephanieleg 31-35, F Sep 23

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    This is my first post on EP Life! I don't understand it some times. People change. Situations change. A moment of happiness that seem to last forever goes away too soon...
    switchfooot switchfooot 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Basically what it says. I'm tired of being sad but I can't help it. I'm tired of feeling hurt all the time honestly it's affecting my life so much idk what to do..
    shariakugan64 shariakugan64 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    I'm a manager at a store. About a year ago I caught a customer stealing, he didn't come back so I thought all was done. Now he comes back in and tells my employees how rude I am...
    mandy241980 mandy241980 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I've been through a lot of heartbreak in my life. It seems I'm never good enough for anyone. It has been a long time since I have been in a relationship, and I have forgotten how...
    lostintranslation28 lostintranslation28 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I love someone who has been abused. He hides inside himself. He hurts me nearly every day. But I still love him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 5

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    I am so tired. These past few months it has gotten worse. I don't know how to behave around new people or people I barely know, especially those I feel inferior around. That counts...
    haroni haroni 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Oh geez... There is so much trash here on ep. All these girls from other countries looking for husbands... Beware of these scammers. Pretty girls just wanting to hook up with you...
    ChrisErizo1 ChrisErizo1 31-35, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Before I start, just want to say that nobody has to read this. I'm just venting a bit, and this will probably be long and boring, and the last thing I want to do is bore anybody...
    NinaBunny NinaBunny 70+, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    I really hate how my life is... I know there are people who have it much much WROST than me, and I should somewhat be thankful... I'm just tired of it....
    Whatsername21 Whatsername21 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I have started to get to the point, where I find it completely useless to try to become friends with anyone. All my friends act like I am really annoying, and they criticize me...
    dogsareCute16 dogsareCute16 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Do you ever feel like you're alone in this world? Never knowing where to turn? Feeling that everyone hates you? Doesn't understand you? It's like your trapped in sadness. You can't...
    areyouthereforme areyouthereforme 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Now has anyone ever had a joyful experience being cheated on? Hold on I can't hear you with all the *wailing, crying & shaking, sounds of hearts shattering like a fallen chandelier...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been cheated on by my partner of 6 years. To make things worse were married, have a child together, and I'm the bread winner. I would think my spouse would at least be nice...
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 24

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    We were dating pretty seriously for two years, and about a month ago I found out that ontop of all the stuff he had already done on purpose to hurt me, he cheated, with his ex, my...
    EllieAmazing EllieAmazing 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Honestly, I just want a hug. It's been a month since I started my whole recovery process and it's hard. I find myself questioning who I am and find myself a different person...
    achantal achantal 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    It's been a bad 28 hours. The guy I like just spent the night with his ex, my father moved me dead mother's things into storage without telling it asking me, my head hurts from...
    a14ray a14ray 18-21 Oct 5

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    I'm trying to keep myself From being extremely bored while I'm on fall break from school. I still hate being extremely bored and most times I feel like no one wants to talk to me...
    wmc1244 wmc1244 16-17, M Oct 9

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    ... I was in the middle of cleaning my room, and was about to clean off my desk. I saw something move. I found a 'LOVELY' wolf spider chilling on my desk. So I start freaking out...
    ShizukaRose ShizukaRose 18-21, F Oct 10

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    I never really had parents, my father was abusive and my mother was neglectful so I did my best to survive until 13 when I was place under the mental health team. So I can see the...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can se it now . For those who do me wrong . I can hear the PAIN in their cries . And when asked why cause them such pain I'll simply answer with an I didn't They did this to...
    prankqueen prankqueen 13-15, F Oct 1

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    Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and...
    rajbj rajbj 18-21, M Oct 10

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    Okay here goes. Recently I have been battling with social services and the police with an on going investigation. This is due to my dad. I don't know what person thinks it right...
    CuteLittleScrewUp CuteLittleScrewUp 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have learned so much fro my past two experiences. I always stayed away from younger men because of the misconception that they were less mature and more prone to cheat. I have...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so lonely I don't have anyone I can connect with in my life. I can't blame anyone but myself for being in such a lonely state because I have poor social skills I cant hold a...
    KnowMeOO KnowMeOO 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    Last year I took an initiative to involve myself in a programme that no body was interested in taking up. On my own I coordinated things with the organisers with no support from...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    Married 11 years,been with her for 15, never set eyes on another girl since marriage.I loved her, adored her,never had any problems between us.Just found out that she has been...
    vinnew vinnew 36-40, M 20 Responses Oct 6

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    Whilst I was busy working my *** off in the office starting a new business to come back from a financial catastrophe in 2005, I returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to catch my...
    TrentT TrentT 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am nearly 18, iv been with my boyfriend since i was 14 and i have never had feelings for someone the way i have him, i love him. Recently i found out he cheated on me, with my...
    hurtseveryday hurtseveryday 16-17, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I experience of being in love and I felt really deep with this person but figure out that he cheated on me and he put it like I am the bad person . Now I just fear finding love...
    thyu75 thyu75 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    I have been cheated on more times than I can count, I feel that person wasn't meant to be mine if he cheated on me in the first place. Yes it hurts but you know there is someone...
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 24

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    I'm 18 years old and I have just recently found out that my girlfriend of 6 months cheated on me 3 times In the past week. My girl friend is 15 and is known for being flirty. I...
    Bry4n Bry4n 18-21, M 7 Responses Oct 2

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    It's been nearly a year since he went to jail. It was a terrible time in my life. I would have panic attacks, and I couldn't be anywhere that he used to be. I loved him more than I...
    Greenadikt1 Greenadikt1 18-21, F 5 days ago