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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Words of strangers can cut deeper then a knife, Negative feedback from those that are close can put a gash in your soul. The words that brake you are the ones you want to hear, but...
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    Understand now I'm grieving so don't you waste my time... cuz you have taken all the wind out from my sails... and I have loved you just the same....
    Sparkles24seven Sparkles24seven 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Isn't it wonderful when we can dress on the weekends and feel so wonderful for those two days. I adore wearing Pink and feeling so wonderful about myself. From casual to dressed up...
    Kittenkiss76 Kittenkiss76 61-65, M 4 hrs ago

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    ‘"Maybe we will meet again when we are better for each other" No, that line is such ******* bullshit I loved you with every inch of my ****** up heart and you couldn’t love...
    juju027 juju027 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    my closest friend, my soulmate, my love betrayed hurt she wouldn't care, not one bit
    shatteredglass378 shatteredglass378 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Yup I am and that's why I need to find a man that is loyal ! Well isn't that going to be hard :p
    dontknowww dontknowww 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    from everyone i talk to. i hate applying and learning the new skills. sorry for being negative. it's just a bear.
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    this really is a perfectly natural thing to worry about. I have trust issues beleiving anybody 100% even my husband the only person I know 100% won't cheat is me. I don't know my...
    loreto789 loreto789 31-35, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    ya! I guess maybe I am? one reason why I'm not big on relationships. all these men wanna cheat with me, so I'm sure they would cheat on me, too....
    morganza504 morganza504 36-40 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I am 32 and I have been cheated on 5 times but it hurt me when it was on my birthday on year
    Pittfan82 Pittfan82 31-35, M 7 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    my fiancé has been doing this to me for years now and lies to my face about it. he is talking to other women I just caught him the other day on some messaging app. he grabbed his...
    ashj567 ashj567 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    so apperantly my best friend didn't text me or call me for nearly a week.. the last time we spoke "properly" was on friday last week.. a friend of mine came from another city to...
    leyelaxx leyelaxx 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well the girl I like told me today that she's gonna meet a friend for dinner and after dinner there's no text from her. I suspect that was a date not just a normal friend.
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I cheated on my current bf with an ex 2 times and he keeps asking about it but I dont want to hurt his feelings, I told him one thing and he wont be quiet about it now and i feel...
    BreannaElizabeth98 BreannaElizabeth98 18-21, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I cheated on my current bf with an ex twice. He keeps asking about it, but I dont want to hurt his feelings.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    how do you forgive your lover when they cheated or you suspected they cheated but you chose to forgive them and move on. Its always on my mind and sometimes I bring it up because I...
    epain33 epain33 26-30, F 35 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want to get some things off my chest because I can't tell anyone in real life, especially about the plastic surgery. Here goes, put your emo shades on. (And for the love of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    It has been a month now, since I found out my husband cheated on me. We have been together for 20 years and have two kids. It was a co-worker and it lasted 6 months. He told me he...
    Amyc76 Amyc76 36-40, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    I raised my two children alone after a seven year marriage ended. I worked a job in retail as a store manager. I had to work 50 hour 6 day work weeks. I had no help raising my two...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was molested by another child (my adopted Aunt)and a man down the street. This has affected my sex life in three identifiable ways: 1 I was introduced to sex way before I should...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I really want to kill myself. My life is going on horribly. My mother has psychotic depression, she has been on an affair for 9 years & has just recently stopped after being...
    mangoseed mangoseed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I really have no idea what to do:/ A couple weeks ago I went on holiday with my dad and while I was away my mum went onto my laptop and she read through my conversation to my best...
    skyealexandra skyealexandra 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    He was my fiancé when he cheated on me... We're both 18 years old and we just got married on August 8th. I just found out a few days ago that while he was a Christian kids camp...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 21

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    I'm going through it right now. She's on a road trip with her ex-boyfriend because we had a fight together. She's not responding. I can already figure what she's doing. But she...
    NewNonsense NewNonsense 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Cheated on my ex for so many different reasons that don't even matter now with one guy. Still with the man I cheated on him with though. I don't regret my actions just that I...
    justfloatingby2day justfloatingby2day 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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