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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 38 People

    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F May 30, 2013

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    i know what one feels being cheated . if you are an Indian you must be knowing about all this . the story of sant rampal which became the center of media and public attraction...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I m sure my story isn't the worst. He just cheated on me in ***** club, but I really have a problem seeing myself as loveable woman , I have a huge difficulty in accepting myself...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    I am to a point that the hurting and sadness are normal and any joy is frightening . I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life and many of the bad things I have caused , I just...
    chris121458 chris121458 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 15

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    So on Halloween 2014 I caught my boyfriend of 5 years naked in the bed with another girl. That has tail spinned me into unravelling years and years of deceit. He waves back and...
    dazedandconfused99 dazedandconfused99 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    yup, sometimes i wish i could just let go of everything that makes me feel like this, let go of everything that is making my every breath from now on harder and just excist with no...
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    Indeed I am. I tell myself it's over that I'm done with all the rubbish that people give me. People can't seem to accept me as I am and its starting to make me wonder whose wrong...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I think that i should just give up on my life but there is some er.. thing that will be hurt if i leave like this....I hate u for holding me so tight that i cannot leave...
    KLawliet KLawliet 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    I didn't even realized i was hurting till the tears in my eyes fell that's when i found out, it's too much. The Pain.
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    I'm not mad, I'm hurt. There's a difference.
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I've been different my whole life, and I'm not young any more! I know everyone here is somewhat different, we need several different kinds of people! my mom put me in panties by...
    mistysissy mistysissy 41-45, T 1 hr ago

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    I don't remember when it was exactly, but one day I woke up and said "Is this my life? What about all of the things I dreamed for myself? Where is the ease and comfort and love and...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 28

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    In this world there are those who is trying to drag you down and those who already did but still trying to take every single thing left of you. You might tell me 'What do you know...
    FloatingWithHope FloatingWithHope 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I hate you I hate me I hate what u were gonna do I hate the fact u told me u were going on a date with a girl whole I was dating you
    neonpinkcupcakelover neonpinkcupcakelover 16-17, F Nov 29

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    Hello Readers Out There, There was a time i used to feel depressed while trying to live up to the expectations of ppl....now i m completely done....i don't try to impress ppl as it...
    Andrieke Andrieke 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 13

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    and I'm sick of living when no on really wants me around.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Not much to say other than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    Being cheated on hurts like a *****
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    if you dont love them, leave them. it hurts less than being cheated on..
    lecksierae lecksierae 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    First, I know it's long, but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 17

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    Well, it'll be a year in January since everything went down. I think I'm finally over it. I don't miss him anymore, I'm not really angry...well maybe I have a little anger left...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I Am A Human Being.Not An object To Mistreat At Will-After years of being beaten by my mother's husband and even more time spent being an unpaid lackey for my mother I packed my...
    Serkha Serkha 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really hate being a stepmom...which knowing me you would find so hard to believe. Due to having endometriosis and losing the only baby I ever conceived to a miscarriage caused by...
    Maylissa Maylissa 41-45 2 Responses Dec 15

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    True, we all do it to some extent or another. I admit I sometimes judge a woman by how much make up she wears or how she's dressed. Or a man if he has "hate" tattooed across his...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M Dec 2

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    I am a survivor. I can adapt, assimilate, and overcome. I really wish I didn't have those abilities. Sometimes I wish I had just died there. But I am stronger. Maybe a bit...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M Dec 4

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    Worst Christmas ever. I sent my Christmas with my wife who at times felt like she was elsewhere mentally and emotionally. All I really wanted for Christmas was her being happy...
    wil137 wil137 26-30, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Im with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.I have never cheated on him and we both love each other very much. But recently the sex and generally our relationship got boring. We...
    adoreu12 adoreu12 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate it so much. Boredom quickly leads to frustration and if there's no way to let off steam, anger wells up inside, waiting for the smallest trigger to explode, the well of rage...
    vintervandraren vintervandraren 18-21 36 mins ago

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    I have one of the worst cheating stories there can possible be. Me and my girlfriend were in a long distance relationship living on opposite sides of the coast. She was in North...
    chris1923 chris1923 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So, this is kind of a long story, but I really just need to get it off my chest. I haven't had anyone to talk to about all this. This whole thing started with my boyfriend texting...
    TaeDD TaeDD 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I deserve the pain that comes. I deserve to feel the blade as it cuts into my skin. I deserve the pain from my lighter. I deserve the pain of loosing the people I once truly...
    DWIA DWIA 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I smile I laugh I enjoy the company of those around me They enjoy my mask For a while I live in a fools paradise Surrounded by those who love me My family One side heaven The other...
    srmc928 srmc928 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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