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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I'm that friend that is always the second choice. No one ever thinks to invite me anywhere unless everyone else is busy. No one sees how much it really hurts, I wish I would be...
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    I hurt everyone I love and I don't mean to. I can't help it. but it hurts them to see me plagued with anxiety, panic attacks and depression. I cut myself and that alienates people...
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    I just hate seeing someone sad and upset. It breaks my heart each and every time. Usually if I see someone sad and upset I do what ever I can to cheer them up. I know I can't help...
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    I have decided to block my ex from everything that connect us. Now i feel that a part of me just died. Maybe with that part of me dying, a new me will immerge. Still trying to be...
    vers vers 31-35, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Hey everyone, it's my first time posting, so I will keep it short. It's also 3:45 am. I wanted to talk about my sociopathic, violent brother. This guy lied and told us in great...
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    I am a weird person. Everyone says that. Particularly because I make them laugh and smile with my weird analogies. But what I never tell anyone, is that I'm hurt a lot. I don't...
    AnonymousGK AnonymousGK 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I am so needing a really serious spanking. I have been like a train wreck for weeks. Two speeding tickets, texting while I'm driving, majorly bitchy to my bff and parents and have...
    bratgurl bratgurl 18-21, F 12 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 17 hrs ago

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    I didn't know that when your birthday's near you're suppose to be dealing with all the emotions and sadness in your heart for a whole month. February is my birth-month, yes I am...
    SaarahCarisse SaarahCarisse 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want some advise as my husband cheated on me after our engagement February 2015 and after our marriage September 2015. We are couple from 2005 until 2015 and all in all 10...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been with my husband since I was 16 .We have had our fights but everything always sorts itself out and we have a pretty good relationship although he is quite moody and...
    thinkb4uact thinkb4uact 22-25 3 days ago

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    I excel in multi-tasking. Lately, I've been required to do lots of things and it's reminded me of that special brand of demented skittering that can arise from being too focused on...
    LadyTea LadyTea 56-60, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    good afternoon every one. how are you today?
    KindofDOV KindofDOV 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    good evening. how are you today?
    KindofDOV KindofDOV 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I loathe when people see crying as a weakness. Sometimes when you cry it's not over one thing, it's built up anger and emotions that you've been harboring for too long.
    lexxrodriguezz lexxrodriguezz 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I actually feel jealous of my kids!!! That my husband who was my best friend, now hates me and left us, but he still sees the kids. They get texts saying he misses them, he loves...
    Mostfabdon Mostfabdon 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's kind of funny.. about 4 years ago in high school I was super skinny and the most athletic of my group of friends. I went from being able to outrun them to barely being able to...
    chubbyfrost chubbyfrost 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    When will it ever end? I need someone to hold me tightly and tell me it'll be okay. I need the guy who will treat me right. I need to fall in love with them. but how am I supposed...
    ashlenamya66359 ashlenamya66359 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    good afternoon. how are you today?
    KindofDOV KindofDOV 26-30, M a week ago

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    I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away I keep your photograph, I know it serves me well I wanna hold you high and steal your...
    KindofDOV KindofDOV 26-30, M Jan 29

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    good afternoon everyone. how are you today?
    KindofDOV KindofDOV 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Well can things get any worse. Can a person feel any more broken and when you feel like it cant get any worse...it does! My husband wasn't just having an affair... It was with a...
    Mostfabdon Mostfabdon 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    good afternoon every one. how are you today?
    KindofDOV KindofDOV 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 28