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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People

    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    I have learned that I come accros as a person that lost the love of his life judging by the things I write and I don't mind people thinking that. I have lost a person I care a...
    GuiltBear GuiltBear 31-35, M Apr 8

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    I always fall for the wrong guy. My ex was the absolute worst. The fighting was damn near unbearable. The breakup drained me. It made me hard and jagged. I wasn't open to meeting...
    magz66 magz66 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Sometimes, being hurt very badly is life's way of telling us that we are better off without that which caused the pain.
    StubbornTiger StubbornTiger 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I just need a little room to break. A place where I can cry all I want without people asking why and feeling sorry for me. A place where I can break stuff when I'm mad, angry and...
    AverageGirl1k AverageGirl1k 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I've spent my whole life trying to hide the real me from everyone....in the end I'm just sad and lonely and full of scars
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I have learned that everyone makes mistakes but that the mistake does not defy who you are as a person, it's how you deal with it that defy who you are as a person. If you are...
    GuiltBear GuiltBear 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    This has felt like the longest couple weeks. In the last 2 weeks, I lost 2 great friends and my mother passed away. The loneliness feels overwhelming. I grieve for the lose of my...
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Move on... Move on... Move on.... There must be more to life that just having to move on...
    StubbornTiger StubbornTiger 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It is not always easy; but sometimes burning bridges is required for self preservation. Loving is a decision. Living is a choice.
    StubbornTiger StubbornTiger 41-45, F Apr 1

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    trying to move on and get out but it's kinda hard when I don't have a car and am stuck inside
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F Apr 1

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    And so the girl died. The End...
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I feel like everything I tought is a lie. Trust only yourself because two can keep a secret if one of them is dead.
    SADNG SADNG 18-21 1 Response Apr 7

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    I miss you so much, but I couldn't do anything else. I'm so sorry, but to cut you off was the only way to protect myself. I wasn't able to carry all the pain anymore. I love you...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    It didn’t sound like this would be the last time we actually talked to each other. Our last fight about whose internet connection sucked more. For the past seven months we’ve...
    FlyingMolly FlyingMolly 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    we dated for 5 months. Now I never thought in a million years that it would happen to me, I never thought that I would get cheated on. But...it happened and I'm going to tell you...
    sfausett33 sfausett33 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I am a married man, who has been having an affair with a married woman for 3 years. I am not leaving my wife, and nor is she leaving her husband. Neither one of us are IN love with...
    ChurchKei ChurchKei 31-35 3 days ago

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    I'm a fat ugly small boobs flat butt hoe I love being cheated on humiliated by superior woman called white trash ugly manly worthless cheated on n forced to watch made to lick asss...
    Misspiggy1234 Misspiggy1234 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I see you hurting from afar. I'm a stranger after all, and all of this is a bit creepy because I see myself caring most commonly for someone I don't even know so well. I can tell...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F Apr 8

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    I will seriously hug strangers. It's a hug you won't be hurt from it, it won't end your life, but it might just save someone's. You never know who's life you changed because that...
    Thespistx Thespistx 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I am almost 30 and I am a maladaptive daydreamer. For the longest time I'd never heard of this. I had a complete moment of disbelief, thinking,"There's a NAME for it?!" It really...
    theforeverstory theforeverstory 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Hey dear friends from around the word i wanna share a a story about the threading life harassment i being victim of verbal harassment since i came to live to this building at the...
    dontpanic777 dontpanic777 31-35, M Apr 4

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    Being forced to choose between the guy you love and who loves you, and someone that can physically hold you and temporarily make you feel loved... Even though I'm so unsure if i...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F Apr 4

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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