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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F May 30, 2013

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    I always have an irrational fear that I'm being cheated on and it scares me cause I don't wanna confront him and I be right
    hickksey hickksey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm so sad and depressed me and my girlfriend just broke up.Its been hell so far I can't stop crying and I feel like there is no one for me I feel like I'll never find anyone it's...
    AaronBennett AaronBennett 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm so done with it now. I'm not giving anyone a second chance ever again. I'm done giving a crap about peoples feelings, and being lied too. I'm 14, and I shouldn't be this damn...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    After the ignore me, block me ,i will never come back, now i got a missed call? What was that? Is he not over hurting me? What do you want multo? I am trying to get over so please...
    noxicillin noxicillin 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I'm done allowing the same person to hurt me. I may still cry over you, think about you, miss you but I will move on in life and find someone that appreciates me for what I do and...
    kns62 kns62 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    He doesn't even know it ******* hurts, this is so ******, I never want to talk to him again right now, but I probably will.
    victoriaalvarez victoriaalvarez 13-15, F Aug 9

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    These are my thoughts so apologises that it rambles on. All I want in life is to be loved to lay in bed to able to go to sleep with someone who loves me in my arms being able to...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    Sometimes the pain outweighs my desire to live. The depression is so strong. I think "Why did God even make me?" I'll cry for hours in sheer despair. I feel it in the core of my...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    When I was about 16 years old I ran away from home, I could not take the physical abuse anymore. Unfortunately a cop found me and returned me to my abusive home, once we were away...
    nephthysbaby nephthysbaby 22-25, F Jul 25

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    Wait who the hell said that >:( I do cheat in candy crush by changing the time
    usernameunavailabletrylater usernameunavailabletrylater 18-21, F Jul 30

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    I'm so sad I don't know if he likes me or not or if I'm his back up girl. I don't know what to do
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I'm not asking for much. I mean, I don't ask for a boyfriend who'd buy me chocolates or bring me flowers everyday. (But it would be a bonus tho) all I wanted is someone who would...
    ThePorcelainDoll ThePorcelainDoll 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Tired. Society is wrong. They lie for profit. And charge too much. And bully others. And call the caring or sad wrong. Posting barely helps. Most say thats...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    Is there a difference for men watching **** and playing virtual **** and porn0graphic games?
    Tanalic Tanalic 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I'm So Tired Of It... I Get Close To Someone, Then All Of A Sudden They Decide To Up And Leave Me. Like, **** My Feelings... I Don't Want To Keep Going Through This. It's Hell...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Im Done Making Friends Here... They All Just End Up Leaving Me Anyway. Save Me The Heartache Please. I Can't Keep Feeling Like This Every Time I Get Attached To Someone. =,{
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    As the school year is approaching, my life is falling apart. In order to return to school and be enrolled in the IB program at my school, I have to pay $500. I asked my mom at the...
    PoetGirl97 PoetGirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    God I'm crying so bad right now. Guess everything bad happens to me....
    Madi1000 Madi1000 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah. Just enjoy life. :))))
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 24

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    That everything here is like real life.Sometime back ,a new member had joined but he left soon after saying E.p. was not the place for him.For him ,it was not a place to have fun...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Believe me, forget those peple who hurt you. They dont even remember you. They will not come back and opologize. The most people who hurt others, never opologize. So u can dwell...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 52 mins ago

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    ~I have been cheated on several times in my life. By different people. The first time it happened, the guy I was with was a **** head and sleazy, and I didn't really care but I did...
    Starliteyes24 Starliteyes24 18-21, F Jul 24

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    After being cheated on by my last 2 relationships, I can only say i have become more afraid of getting hurt. The last guy that i was with was the one that hurt me the worst. I was...
    Alejandro1992 Alejandro1992 22-25, M Jul 21

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    Second experience with being cheated on. The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    My ex and I had an argument via text message, and when I came home from work i found a note saying her and our two children needed a few days away. She had ran away to her mother's...
    Ressalg Ressalg 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts. I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I was confused... Confused with the life here... Confused about things happening around me About my passion and my commitments... About the people surrounded me... About the...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I don't like being black. From my experience being black is the worst thing ever that happened to me. Black? What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    From a separated man who is being cheated onTo The Light Giver,I am wretchedI am fallenI am brokenI lie in liesI cover my wounds with my own broken glassI am ashamed and covered...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The past few years we've been through a lot - there have been tears and smiles, cries of joy, and cries of pain - there's been so much! Life has been one heck of a roller coaster...
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship for a past four years. The first year with him was so amazing filled with butterflies on my stomach (yeah I'm hopeless romantic so..) but the...
    arianeshane arianeshane 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I have been in a relationship for a past four years. The first year with him was so amazing filled with butterflies on my stomach (yeah I'm hopeless romantic so..) but the...
    arianeshane arianeshane 18-21, F Aug 11