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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F May 30, 2013

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    As you all know, I had my DUI and just recently I served my time in jail and now I am on house arrest! Thank god jail wasn't anything like I expected and it was actually better...
    RiseAbove222 RiseAbove222 22-25, F Jan 14

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    I wish there were an end to this. A real end. Now my head is pounding from crying so hard. Happy New Year to me
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    and I'm sick of living when no on really wants me around.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I've been different my whole life, and I'm not young any more! I know everyone here is somewhat different, we need several different kinds of people! my mom put me in panties by...
    mistysissy mistysissy 41-45, T 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I was getting so much better a while ago and then once again I feel really bad. It's like there's something missing in my life. I don't ever get surprised by anything and I don't...
    lanadorkhas lanadorkhas 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    this feeling just needs to go away....nothing is making it better.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I don't want to be a downer or anything, but I am pretty sad right now. I feel like a failure. I've worked hard my entire life and now I just feel spent, almost as if I have...
    liliuminterspinas liliuminterspinas 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm feeling very, very low right now. Probably the worst I ever have. It scares me.
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Andy you know nobody is gone and you a lying fraud right? Face up top your lies..m
    10minutestops123 10minutestops123 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    Why does my dumbass believe I have friends and that people like me? You'd think after 33 years I'd get it through my thick skull that they only want to contact me if they think I...
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Heck, it happened again. Sssssstop. I'm not actually here for this. I'm not obligated to fulfil whatever 'desire' a stranger reckons they have for me just because they approach me...
    3naturespice3 3naturespice3 22-25 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I am so tired of having to deal with all the backstabbing and lying my sons father throws at me. I'm just exhausted from being so emotional. We have been through a lot together...
    britlx3 britlx3 18-21, F Jan 4

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    Just still feel angry and hurt for being in love with someone who did not love me. When I needed them they just walked away. It hurts should be happy not feeling like this. Just...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Long distance relationships suck... it's really hard to adjust from being able to see someone everyday to only a few times a month... sleeping alone is awful
    xderailedfatalitiesx xderailedfatalitiesx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    To those mutants (including paranormals) who are lost and in need of help, hello there. My name is Dr. Adam LeTrexane, DSciFim. For those of you who are unaware, that degree is an...
    SupernaturalScientist SupernaturalScientist 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Am i supposed to fake that i don't know when my teenager lies ??? I'm far from being a control freak; I only insist on hygiene, manners around table and spend a little time with me...
    GroovyET GroovyET 31-35, M 8 Responses Jan 8

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    I miss my boyfriend so much. He was literally perfect. He was handsome, laid back, nice, happy and loved me for me. He had a really good job, like huge pay. 120k a year, which is...
    Connie999 Connie999 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have been with my bf on and off for 9 years I am still a virgin , he has cheated the entire time but I still love him…I wonder if Im too scared to have sex or if Im emotionally...
    Trixxy22 Trixxy22 22-25, F 19 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    The last time I cheated was when I was in high school. I had a girlfriend I had dated for a few months. She was trying so hard to fix me, fix my drug problem, keep me away from my...
    IngensImpetum IngensImpetum 18-21, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    WHY? I'm 23, to explain my story, I nearly got kicked out of college this time last year for innapropriate behaviour which in my eyes was like getting the death scentence for...
    hawaii50n1fan hawaii50n1fan 18-21, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    We've been together since I was 16. I'm 23 now, so that makes 7 years. For being so young being with this man has molded me into who I am today. I don't know my adult life...
    QLC23 QLC23 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am going to be 30 in 16 days. I have 2 wonderful children who are my world. I grew up in a rough home, moved out at 16. I felt I had to, or I was going to end up just like my...
    sohurtnow sohurtnow 26-30 Jan 15

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    I am tired. I grew up in a disfunctional middle class family. My mother is manic depressive bipolar, and my dad dealt with his problems by working and drinking. I never understood...
    EnglishBrand EnglishBrand 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Whenever i go closer to somebody...my love n expectation of its acknowledgment cross boundries n when they don't find their place..failing to handle..i get hurt..cry...n finally my...
    ridhima1029 ridhima1029 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Yesterday was the worst day of my life. I found out that my boyfriend - the love of my life and my whole world - cheated on me. How did it happen? Long story short, I asked him to...
    snorre snorre 22-25, F Jan 1

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    To Have and To Hold: The Boiled Frog"The story is often used as a metaphor for the inability or unwillingness of people to react to significant changes that occur...
    menrclueless menrclueless 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    Anathema - Ariel If found you, in the dark I found you, In the dark Don't leave me here, don't leave me Staring at the sun. A love so strong it hurts! Staring at the sun, a...
    Varjo Varjo 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    I am engaged to my partner (lesbian) her sister has recently had a baby we was all meant to be going to see her and baby together my partner assumed I was going with them arrived...
    kirsto22 kirsto22 22-25, F