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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F May 30, 2013

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    I always have an irrational fear that I'm being cheated on and it scares me cause I don't wanna confront him and I be right
    hickksey hickksey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm so sad and depressed me and my girlfriend just broke up.Its been hell so far I can't stop crying and I feel like there is no one for me I feel like I'll never find anyone it's...
    AaronBennett AaronBennett 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    You promised me everything would be ok. You kissed me on the cheek and whispered how much you loved me, I made you so happy. LIES! Bullshit lies! You fed me your lies right...
    xxlouisebaby xxlouisebaby 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I'm so done with it now. I'm not giving anyone a second chance ever again. I'm done giving a crap about peoples feelings, and being lied too. I'm 14, and I shouldn't be this damn...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm exhausted with being an outcast and not feeling like I belong anywhere yet. I'm tired of being sad almost all the time and disconnected from almost everyone and everything...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    After the ignore me, block me ,i will never come back, now i got a missed call? What was that? Is he not over hurting me? What do you want multo? I am trying to get over so please...
    noxicillin noxicillin 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    He doesn't even know it ******* hurts, this is so ******, I never want to talk to him again right now, but I probably will.
    victoriaalvarez victoriaalvarez 13-15, F Aug 9

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    I loss my mom and the same week loss my relationship only to find out he was playing me to get back to his ex girl friend . All three of us attend the same church . He told...
    Clarineclarice Clarineclarice 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    These are my thoughts so apologises that it rambles on. All I want in life is to be loved to lay in bed to able to go to sleep with someone who loves me in my arms being able to...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    This week has again continued my rough year. I lost one of my best friends this week. After being in a coma for two weeks, the man known as zvet or firemanscock to you here at EP...
    spitfirekitten spitfirekitten 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Learning to deal with a situation
    Lupusinignem Lupusinignem 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm So Tired Of It... I Get Close To Someone, Then All Of A Sudden They Decide To Up And Leave Me. Like, **** My Feelings... I Don't Want To Keep Going Through This. It's Hell...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Im Done Making Friends Here... They All Just End Up Leaving Me Anyway. Save Me The Heartache Please. I Can't Keep Feeling Like This Every Time I Get Attached To Someone. =,{
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    As the school year is approaching, my life is falling apart. In order to return to school and be enrolled in the IB program at my school, I have to pay $500. I asked my mom at the...
    PoetGirl97 PoetGirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Its just really fascinating how the people u meet will say such sweet kind words such as "I'll be there when u need me" "You have me to share your thoughts with" "I'll help you...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    When I'm alone the pain can be unbearable. It's this hollow and empty feeling that lives inside me like a curse. It's horrendous.
    mikewmc2011 mikewmc2011 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have learned that some people who seem "nice" are just back stabbing gossips. They stay friends with people they claim are treating them badly and claim are fakes, because they...
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Second experience with being cheated on. The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm gay. Last September, I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was confused... Confused with the life here... Confused about things happening around me About my passion and my commitments... About the people surrounded me... About the...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F Aug 19

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't like being black. From my experience being black is the worst thing ever that happened to me. Black? What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    From a separated man who is being cheated onTo The Light Giver,I am wretchedI am fallenI am brokenI lie in liesI cover my wounds with my own broken glassI am ashamed and covered...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    The past few years we've been through a lot - there have been tears and smiles, cries of joy, and cries of pain - there's been so much! Life has been one heck of a roller coaster...
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15 1 Response Aug 15

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    I have been in a relationship for a past four years. The first year with him was so amazing filled with butterflies on my stomach (yeah I'm hopeless romantic so..) but the...
    arianeshane arianeshane 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I have been in a relationship for a past four years. The first year with him was so amazing filled with butterflies on my stomach (yeah I'm hopeless romantic so..) but the...
    arianeshane arianeshane 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I'm so tired of being hurt and being lied to, it's almost like now a days you can't be a good person if you want to die in peace.
    endlessdreeamer endlessdreeamer 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Soooooo I'm tired of hurting and being let Down by men! Trust me if I was to go into detail it would never end! But there is this one guy I just really which he would commit to me...
    prettyeyes331 prettyeyes331 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I have suffered with the big D for 5 years now. It started with a car accident. An accident caused by a change in a disability. Epilepsy. Is it selfish to feel down because a...
    DelanaWenbe DelanaWenbe 46-50, M Aug 14

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    Getting real tired of it taking so long to meet minds like my own. Endlessly scrolling through experiences and profiles, scrutinizing every detail that a person shows of their self...
    MohnJarston86 MohnJarston86 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just had my second child, he was born last week. This pregnancy was specially hard on me, I was in and out of the hospital. I was sick constantly yet, I tried my best to keep my...
    Thinkpink87 Thinkpink87 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12