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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Hi I'm 24yrs old, been married for 4yrs and 22wks pregnant with my first baby. I found out about a month that my husband has been trying to contact other women through a dating...
    Sweetks20 Sweetks20 22-25, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    hmm... well. between 4th and 6th grade I was regularly physically abused by 4 girls who had horrible home lives and were projecting their abuse onto me. at 12 I lost my virginity...
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    Last night my wife said she wanted to go watch 4th of July fireworks with her "friend". I asked her to come with me and our daughter as we're going to watch fireworks as well. She...
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    I never thought that John was the type to cheat, i thought he was a good man, i thought he was an honorable man, and despite that he dumped me over a stupid mistake and broke my...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    That old cliche - "we are our own worst enemy". Seems to be what's on my mind as I go into this. I have a history of poor mental health and emotional well-being, which has...
    SolitaryFriend SolitaryFriend 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A few months ago My boyfriend of 6 years told me he had gotten another girl pregnant. I was devastated because the last thing happens in my last relationship. During the time he'd...
    vibrantsoul vibrantsoul 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My Wife And I Were Married In 2005 After Being Together For 4 Years. We Were Married Almost 6 Years When I Found Out She Was Cheating On Me. She Had Used Her Cell Phone Along With...
    jeepman2381 jeepman2381 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I think I fixed your marriage It was broken ... You had been tossed aside for over a year ... When we had our first date When you said wow As you walked up my steps You were so...
    momacods momacods 36-40, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm so exhausted and tired of this life....I get to work today to find out my co-worker and shift partner is getting a new job else where for better pay and all doing the same...
    Lachdanan Lachdanan 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Today, the results of the final exam have been published and I didn't get a distinction! I got so mad and upset and now I feel really depressed. Education is the only thing that...
    ZAINna ZAINna 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i recently found out my gf was cheating on me with someone she met online. she'd sent pictures of herself and gone on webcam with him and told him she loved him. she was going to...
    lonelyandhurtguy lonelyandhurtguy 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    my boyfriend and I just recently got engaged we've been dating for over 2 years and I just found out that he cheated on me five months ago with his ex girlfriend and now she is...
    Tnlissa Tnlissa 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Being cheated changed my whole life and characteristics. I dunno what to love and who is lovin' me now. I am just a toy.
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    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F a week ago

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    from when I first had my boyfriend till last time I had a boyfriend every single one of my boyfriends have cheated on me so I don't trust that it won't happen again
    susananngoga32 susananngoga32 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have emotionally cheated on my lover. I was talking to a ex. I was confronted and I lied. Repeatedly. It wasn't until I knew I had hurt them did I change my ways. But change I...
    Killingcasper Killingcasper 31-35, M Jun 29

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    My girlfriend of 8 years, cheated on me last year. Kept the affair going for 6 months. We are trying to work it out but I sometimes can't shake it. Is the affair REALLY over? Will...
    oyveyagain oyveyagain 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    clapoff clapoff 36-40 Jun 29

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    It's a blessing to be a submissive but I screw up a lot, I have yet to be punished but I have disappointed my master, I lied to him about my location and I just told him last night...
    mastersonlygirl mastersonlygirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    June 12, 2015 I went to the movies with my sister & her 2 youngest kids the last thing I remember before coming too in the ICU. 12 hours later was watching the big dinosaurs play...
    msmarch13 msmarch13 31-35 Jun 27

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    I've been lonely in my marriage for quiet some time. I've been married for 15 years and while my husband is a good guy and takes care of me in every way, he neglects to important...
    abbydallas abbydallas 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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