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I Hurt From Being Cheated On By My Bf

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    sick sick sick of this nonsense!! i want to be free from this for godsake! what in hell have i done. i cant remember giving pain to anyone even by mistake. its not fair. its just not fair
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2007

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    Heart Broken

    I've been with my boy friend for 5 years on and off. I'm in love with him but he has cheated on me for years. I take him back every time because he knows me inside and out. He gets me and understands me. He always calls and texts me that he loves me, needs me, misses me. He...
    megan545 megan545 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    Cheating Husband

    I've been with my husband for 9 years and found out a couple of weeks ago he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He didn't tell me..i found out on his email she had sent him saying she found his belt and to come back and get it..and she put 4 naked pics of herself wearing his...
    Gretcheness Gretcheness 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    I Guess It Doesnt Count As Cheating, But It Still Hurts

    I am newly engaged to someone I love more than anything, but he messages and emails other women, even ones he meets through his work, and tells them he is single and for them to give him a go .. The only reason I found out was he stupidly was messaging one of my friends (he...
    littlemissdemeanour littlemissdemeanour 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Ruined Again

    i dont know how many stories i'll have to share in this group. its hurting so bad. he tried to cheat on me again,two days back. its staying inside me..the pain. im tired of crying. i feel so humiliated i dont talk to anybody about it. i did everything contrary to my values,my...
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    Am Hurt From Being Cheated On My Bf

    hello i was going out with this guy for 1 year he was my first boyfriend that i took serious and all i took him to meet my parent and all i knew that he loved me so much that when we were bearly going out he tatoo my name and his name together i thought it was so stupid but...
    marisam marisam 16-17 Oct 23, 2010

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    My Perfect Man Of Six Years...has Betrayed Me :(

    My boyfriend was perfect. He treats me like gold and takes care of me. One thing in our relationship which was weak is that he never made the move on me for sex. I have to initiate most of the time; after this though we have sex although it is very routine and boring. I tried to...
    CrazyKitty03 CrazyKitty03 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Cheated On For The First Time

    Just a couple days ago I found out from my boyfriend of 4 years that he slept with another girl. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me out. I will tell u a lil bit about our relationship. So I was datin this guy since I was a freshman in high school. Our...
    Wasinlove02 Wasinlove02 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    The Worst Way to Hurt Some One!

    Three years ago I met and became friends with a guy named Jonathan.I eventually fell in love with him.Knowing how he was and being that I witnessed him cheating on three different girls,I was very hesitant to go out with him.He left them and we started dating.The things he said...
    sms1986 sms1986 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Trying To Get Through Being Cheated On

    My hubby and I have been married 5 years, together 6. A few years ago everything changed, we hit a rocky patch and things just never seemed to get better. Whenever we talked my hubby always had bad things to say about the way I carried myself. I really believed I needed to...
    susan2008uk susan2008uk 31-35 5 Responses May 14, 2011

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    It Hurts So Bad..

    God its hurts so bad. i feel so empty inside. ive been with my boyfriend for a year tomorrow. and he tells me 2 days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY that he had sex with his ex gf about 5 weeks ago. my hearts aches. this is the guy i wanna spend then rest of my life with. i wanna have a...
    WhatDoIDo WhatDoIDo 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    My Love...a Cheater!

    I hurt so much. Sometimes i think of him like a bad habit. Maybe an addiction. You know its killing you inside and yet you cant give it up.
    zecchini zecchini 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Hopeless

    well iam tired of being cheated and to discover his secrets and riddle life. my feeling tells me that there is sometihing wrong with him, and i know it for sure but iam hopeless cause i just can't find any prove :-( but there are lots of things that i've found on him which make...
    TruthSeeker888 TruthSeeker888 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Soooo I found out like a month

    or 2 ago that my boyfriend cheated early in our relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it. He feels like I shouldn't bring it up because we squashed it but it bothers me so much. Don't get me wrong I love him to death but it just eats away at me day and night...
    dannacabanna12 dannacabanna12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    In The Afternoon..... I Wait

    Its now afternoon and I'm numb, still everything is whirling round my head and the thoughts are fireworks that wount seem to go away. Am I going to find a point where I'm not going to question, where I'm not going to feel compelled to check? Where I can stop finding new things...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    I'm Pregnant And Now I Get My Heart Broken...

    I just found out my ex has kept me in the dark....the whole time I've been pregnant (almost 4 mos) about what his true intentions are...and what his secret life is.  That's what I get for dating an ego driven "golded boy" musician... I have soo much hate....and...
    abioluminist abioluminist 22-25, F Nov 26, 2009

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    How people could just easily dispose you of their life.. After you have given them everything, they would still hurt you by calling you really mean stuff.. Then again youre the...
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    It's been 2 weeks and I still hurt, I miss him.. I was just watching videos of long distance couples who met for the first time.. I was supposed to have one, and I can't stop...
    Beast16 Beast16 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Ik I need help but I am scared . very scared of remembering stuff , of feeling . im scared of feeling anything because I spent most of my childhood being numb and so cold and not...
    devilgirl123zombie devilgirl123zombie 16-17, F 1 Response May 3

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    I recently caught my long term lover. We have been on and off again for over twelve years. We have a two year old beautiful daughter. I caught her a month ago having an affair with...
    insensitiveone insensitiveone 31-35, M May 5

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    I woke up and saw my ex's snapchat story.....and well....I want to text her or text one of her friends and see how she is doing.....I have been feeling this for a while and I have...
    MericaMan MericaMan 16-17, M Apr 29

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    Last night was a fun night with my ex with him starting on me which I didn't need I was stressed out about my dog on top of that because she's gonna have her pups soon I only got 4...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1

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    I can't take this sadness and stress anymore. I just want it to go away. Everything gets worse everyday. I feel like I'm trapped and suffocating in a dark hole that keeps on...
    SpaceGlitch SpaceGlitch 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    I don't know why I thought random strangers would care... People who tell me they love me don't give a ****... Why bother reaching out when no one is even there. My heart is broken...
    TreZ1 TreZ1 26-30, F 1 Response May 6

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    I feel so alone right now. I know it'll probably pass by morning but sitting here at 1:03am it certainly doesn't feel like it. I made the mistake of messaging my abusive ex today...
    SamanthaPeyton SamanthaPeyton 13-15, F 2 Responses May 8

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    When the person u thought loved you destroys your heart with a few words and you dont know how to fix it again .
    devilgirl123zombie devilgirl123zombie 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Since many years ago, almost every day, i feel exhausted, drained, to the point of feeling like everything i do is a chore. Sometimes, i go to bed during the day, and when i get up...
    PureBlueLight PureBlueLight 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    There is no shame that your woman cheated. There is no blame. It does not make you less of a man. The shame and blame belong with her. You are more of a man than the sneek she...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    I was in a 3 year long relationship with the love of my life, everyday ever since we got together I had to deal with him cheating. there wasn't a time in that relationship that he...
    ShysietheVampiric ShysietheVampiric 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I was born with a small penis, and after being cheated on constantly and told that I wasn't man enough almost daily by women, I've given in to my newest mistress by allowing her to...
    LoveWomenCheaters LoveWomenCheaters 18-21, M 2 Responses May 12

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    As soon as I get home from being out anywhere I take my bra off I hate them they hurt so much
    KaylaDem33 KaylaDem33 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 30

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    Because it's the easiest way to escape from any difficult situation.When I isolate myself my head starts hurting from all the possible things I could have said but don't. Somehow I...
    lifehack lifehack 16-17, F 1 Response May 19

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    I have two cousins (one a couple years older than me and one a couple years younger) with whom I was very close. Initially the older cousin and I had a very strong bond but we...
    LivLyfLuv LivLyfLuv 36-40, F May 19

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    So, met this guy in an xbox live game. After getting to know each other and literally talking everyday (texting or xbox) we both admitted to really liking each other. We live like...
    AriumBlack22 AriumBlack22 22-25, F May 11

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    From being attracted to guys I have learned to be who you are and to not hide it forever.
    chaoticscars chaoticscars 13-15, M 1 Response May 19

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    and it took me a while to understand that the anger I feel from being used is quite superior to the love I felt for him. do I feel dumb? yeah
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When I way in college in 2004, I had my first real girlfriend. She was beautiful and funny and we got along really well. We were from different ethnic backgrounds but that never...
    grimfandango85 grimfandango85 26-30, M May 17

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    This story is really pathetic and has turned my completely cold to the idea ever being with a guy. My brother passed away 2.5 months ago. He was 29 (suicide) and my best friend...
    finallyfree2fly finallyfree2fly 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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    You wrote enough letters to destroy me and build a man of your dreams. I thought perhaps I needed to write you one. Dear x, I met you and found the cloud of mystery above your...
    Ymfas Ymfas 26-30, M 1 Response May 20

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    I am only 17 and i always wanted a ford ranger because my grandpa always had one and let me drive it on his farm sometimes and i thought they were the coolest things around...
    Blackeye242 Blackeye242 16-17, M May 10

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    Still hurts me to this day. To figure out your first love cheated on you and got another girl pregnant. Even had older child by her ..like his own secret family and lied about his...
    beautifulsinsxo beautifulsinsxo 18-21, F May 18

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