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I Hurt My Friend By Saying The Wrong Thing

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    So Sorry, Bab!!!

    It as a thoughtless, flip remark ...and I regret even having thought it..so sorry, KM...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F Nov 27, 2009

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    You Were My Friend And I I Hurt You.

    I said the wrong thing. I wanted someone to talk to. You were there for me and I crossed a line with you. I didn't mean to and didn't realize it when I did. I am so sorry.
    LeoRojas690 LeoRojas690 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2010

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    And I'm So Sorry..

    I've just hurt my best friend, my better half, the love of my life, by saying that he only sees others'  tears.. I  don't know why  I did it. But I was so sad and lonely and wanted to talk to him desperately, and he was quite busy, he couldn't talk...
    zameen zameen 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2010

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    We Always Hurt The Ones We Care About

    Why is that? Some would say its because we are evil or mean. I think it is because they are the ones that are always there for us when times are bad. When we get upset or angry we tend to lash out and since they are there, they are the ones that get hurt. If they didnt care about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    Its Not Your Fault

    there are some things that get said that we don't intend to say. Many of them are towards friends that we really dont want to hurt. but it still does. I told my best friend that she was cold and heartless. I knew she wasnt but my anger got the best of me. 5-6 months later it...
    Dragon8370 Dragon8370 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2009

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    Well,I done it again,I seriously should just stop talking.Where do you learn how to say what you should,is it even something you learn?So frustrating,just as I think we are having...
    somerandomguyfromspace somerandomguyfromspace 31-35, M 1 Response May 14

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    Short version: I met my friend 5 months ago, we connected on this amazing level, and within the two months I ended up meeting him in person in his state. We realised there was more...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok i used to have this friend who i met in year 1, i met her through my mom because her dad worked with my mum, lets just called her Cathy for now, Now i used to be best friends...
    ScarletandRose ScarletandRose 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    URGENT! My friend hasn't been to school in six weeks, she deleted herself from all the websites she was on, and she won't respond to any texts or calls. She's one of those...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    My problems aren't extravagant or may not seem like much to someone else. But I am hurting. I am hurting. Especially this week, it's a really hard week to get through because it...
    lauriee1124 lauriee1124 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    So I am trying to figure out why I literally have three friends. Here is my story,I am a amateur jujitsu / muay thai practice and I like to work out daily work a full time job. I...
    xskug xskug 26-30, M 1 Response May 4

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    I don't see my friends as much anymore due to some situations I'm in. I remember two years ago, I had a friend who was so sweet and caring for me. She understood me and I really...
    caactas caactas 16-17, T May 13

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    Really want to make new friends! The only thing I do ask is somewhat close to my age since I am only 18 and still in high school.
    Waiting4Wings Waiting4Wings 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I feel lonely and want friends to share things with me...
    PuertoRican75 PuertoRican75 36-40, F 4 Responses May 10

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    I was friends with this girl…let’s call her N…for about a year, not a long time I know, but I thought we were really good friends and got along well. Obviously, I was wrong...
    chibikari chibikari 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I HAVE DONE A LOT OF BAD THINGS TO PEOPLE...... SOME DESERVED IT...SOME DID NOT......JUDGE ME IF YOU WILL...... My whole life has been one disaster after another. I was...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I slept with my best friends boyfriend, last week. Well, lets start this from the beginning. Last week was planed to be a double date to, but my boyfriend left earlier that day...
    DanicaRaven DanicaRaven 18-21, F 13 Responses May 9

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    eally don't know how to express this but I've actually feel comfortable enough to even post this! My life right now is not as pleasant as it should or could be! I'm a 28 yr old...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 25

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    Hi, I'm a 14 year old female. I don't know why but I have a tendency to mess things up. About 3 months ago one of my close friends instagram account was hacked. The hacker posted...
    polutedmind polutedmind 13-15, F May 3

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    The more people I meet the more I'm starting to believe this. I'm not the kinda girl who holds prejudice against straight guys. When I want a serious relationship which I am...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    My friend and I are arguing. HELP Here is our conversation- Me: I don't mean to be rude, or ruin y'all's fun, but why am I always the last resort? You guys always send me...
    kittylova kittylova 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    just graduated from polytechnic. thinking back somehow or rather I made the right choice.Went into secondary school awkward and shy.tried to make friends.got bullied instead...
    late0 late0 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    EP has been great to gracious, she can be herself, but too much trusting can really hurt. Stay cool people! In such ambiance, the sharp ***** of yearn, pierce my being, something...
    graciousindifference29 graciousindifference29 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    1. My name is LisaMarie but people usually call me Lisa. 2. I'm a psychology major - shooting for my PhD and a 4.0 each year. ( Jeez - wish me luck! ) I'm looking into becoming a...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 27

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    I need to get this off of my chest, and even though no one might not read it I will had shared it. Its been festering and usually I can just shake it off like water on a duck but...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    Recently, I just ended my friendship with my best friend. During this period of time, it really was a difficult and painful experience. I couldn't believe that we actually ended...
    Megumi07 Megumi07 16-17, F Apr 28

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    and so I push people away.. I have lots of things I want to say, at the same time, I don't know what to say.. I am not good with poeple and so I NEVER had any friends, like 0...
    FallingWind FallingWind 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    I HATE GOD! What has God ever done for me? I’ve never killed anyone. I’ve never raped anyone. I’ve never robbed a bank or stolen a car. Yeah – I’ve hurt a few...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I know this sounds really stupid, but I have terrible issues dealing with guilt, and there have been so many times when I lay face down under the covers in my bed and think about...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Apr 24

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    There is a saying in a book "You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world...but you do have some say in who hurts you" Unfortunately for me I chose wrong, because i chose...
    Lyta22 Lyta22 22-25, F May 8

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    This is a difficult thing to write about. This is a vent piece and I'm just writing my thoughts as they come to me. Let me first tell you a little back-story so you can understand...
    EvolvingMirrors EvolvingMirrors 18-21, M May 8

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    I just need to rant right now, so my cousin (who is basically my bff) has this habit of going on these apps such as Plenty of Fish to hook up with guys. I've never been into this...
    HazzaBoo HazzaBoo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    Heyyy, just venting lbvs! I don't have any friends, nor family! is it by choice mmm yea in a way but not really! I tend to block people out and keep a tough guard! Why, because I...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    I read someone's haughty post defending the Duggar parents and am so appalled and upset that she cited jealousy as a reason people dislike the Duggars. She said God's been blessing...
    neverendingfairytale2 neverendingfairytale2 36-40, F 17 hrs ago

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    Ok lets see: 1) i am 18 years old 2) i am asexual, and easily made uncomfortable by things that are overly sexual. 3) i joined this site in hopes of talking to new people with...
    Dinosaurinthebigcity Dinosaurinthebigcity 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I have so many imaginary friends and one of them is a little girl named Karilee. She's two years old and she is the cutest thing with a little brown ponytail and bangs and she's...
    ImaginaryBFF ImaginaryBFF 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    Hello there, I need assistance please. Every month when I PMS. I have negative thoughts. However, there is one consistent thought that feels true, when my period ends, I am happy...
    orchidss orchidss 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I had no friends from 7th to 9th grade; I was bullied during those years, and the "popular" thing to do was to either make fun of me, or act like I didn't exist. I was like a...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    And it hurts. I know it's wrong to fall for a friend, but my heart and my mind keeps on saying "hey man, i always miss you, i always think about you". I don't know if i should...
    jcjoy jcjoy 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I have known my best friend for 3 years. We met through band, but our friendship didn't truly start until I sat beside him in biology on the first day of school. He was a freshman...
    Cheyenne555 Cheyenne555 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I am a young teacher who has moved rural. It's pretty lonely. I wish I had a friend.
    jasminemorris jasminemorris 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Fortnightly pub quiz... We often lose but you win biscuits when you lose so... Losing is better than coming second. We came last but one so no biscuits but a free round of...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 8 hrs ago