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I Hurt My Friend By Saying The Wrong Thing

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    So Sorry, Bab!!!

    It as a thoughtless, flip remark ...and I regret even having thought it..so sorry, KM...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F Nov 27, 2009

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    And I'm So Sorry..

    I've just hurt my best friend, my better half, the love of my life, by saying that he only sees others'  tears.. I  don't know why  I did it. But I was so sad and lonely and wanted to talk to him desperately, and he was quite busy, he couldn't talk...
    zameen zameen 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2010

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    Its Not Your Fault

    there are some things that get said that we don't intend to say. Many of them are towards friends that we really dont want to hurt. but it still does. I told my best friend that she was cold and heartless. I knew she wasnt but my anger got the best of me. 5-6 months later it...
    Dragon8370 Dragon8370 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2009

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    You Were My Friend And I I Hurt You.

    I said the wrong thing. I wanted someone to talk to. You were there for me and I crossed a line with you. I didn't mean to and didn't realize it when I did. I am so sorry.
    LeoRojas690 LeoRojas690 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2010

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    We Always Hurt The Ones We Care About

    Why is that? Some would say its because we are evil or mean. I think it is because they are the ones that are always there for us when times are bad. When we get upset or angry we tend to lash out and since they are there, they are the ones that get hurt. If they didnt care about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    a song by a group called the J. Geils band. Expresses MY sentiments QUITE ACCURATELY. Why do you Hurt Me.....doing the things I Don't Like ??
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    He was my best friend in my childhood and in my primary school class too. He used to buy me hair clips and a ring with the love heart and gave me a mango through my concrete fence...
    Buon Buon 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I don't really have any. I never was any good at making friends and keeping them was an even bigger challenge. I used to have friends back in elementary and middle school but once...
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    I don't know it's so weird I couldn't imagine this.. I knew one friend here we were good friend we talked we chatted we called each other as best friend.. Nothing wrong right?? But...
    richardo789 richardo789 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I have a best friend. Me and him been friends for about 3 years. He is my other half. We share the same brain. We both have crushes on the same guy lol. He a really funny dude. We...
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    We had been friends for a few short months. I met him here on EP. We chatted daily and his friendship had the potential to make it to a true friend if he had not ruined it. A...
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    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F Mar 6

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    My parents are both practicing Satanists that love Satan very much and Jesus isn't there for me . I go crazy already. My mom and father curse me all day and love doing it . I...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    The person that was going to be my life long best friend slowly began to severely dislike me. I'd known him for 13 years, knew all the family ect. I was in love with him and it was...
    Christina916 Christina916 22-25, F Mar 19

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