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I Hurt My Friend By Saying The Wrong Thing

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    And I'm So Sorry..

    I've just hurt my best friend, my better half, the love of my life, by saying that he only sees others'  tears.. I  don't know why  I did it. But I was so sad and lonely and wanted to talk to him desperately, and he was quite busy, he couldn't talk...
    zameen zameen 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2010

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    We Always Hurt The Ones We Care About

    Why is that? Some would say its because we are evil or mean. I think it is because they are the ones that are always there for us when times are bad. When we get upset or angry we tend to lash out and since they are there, they are the ones that get hurt. If they didnt care about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    You Were My Friend And I I Hurt You.

    I said the wrong thing. I wanted someone to talk to. You were there for me and I crossed a line with you. I didn't mean to and didn't realize it when I did. I am so sorry.
    LeoRojas690 LeoRojas690 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2010

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    So Sorry, Bab!!!

    It as a thoughtless, flip remark ...and I regret even having thought it..so sorry, KM...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F Nov 27, 2009

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    Its Not Your Fault

    there are some things that get said that we don't intend to say. Many of them are towards friends that we really dont want to hurt. but it still does. I told my best friend that she was cold and heartless. I knew she wasnt but my anger got the best of me. 5-6 months later it...
    Dragon8370 Dragon8370 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2009

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