I Hurt Someone That I Cared About

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    Everyone I Care.

    I think this goes all with the people I care. I always hurt them the most when I shouldn't.Just whenever I try make it up for the hurt feeling,something would come out that would in turn hurt me.And it just goes round and round.But then, life seems to be that way.The good thing...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2011

    You know what really hurts here?

    It's coming here and reading all the posts where people are hurting and contemplating suicide - especially when I click through to profiles and see that these people are between 10 and 20 years old. No matter how bad things might seem right now, they are seldom worth ending...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls
    31-35, F
    Jan 2, 2015

    I have an issue I have been trying to cope with

    for about 6 months. I lost my best friend and it was all my fault! I have been friends with my best friend for about 18 years, since second grade. She met her now husband in high school and they have been married over 5 years. I became his friend when they started dating. I...
    Vettech1 Vettech1
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    It was the only choice I had sadly :( I know we

    could never be together irrespective all emotions and love. I also knew if this progressed, it would end very badly. I did what I was capable of. I hurt that person, so that finally they could move on and be with someone who could actually make them happy. It was not an easy...
    Buoyantwaters Buoyantwaters
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2016

    I Really Did Care

    I hope you will forgive me someday. Maybe you already have. I'm sorry for letting you down like that and for not being there when the time was right. I almost feel like in some way I've let you and myself down. For many weeks I hoped you would give me a second chance, after witch...
    celineberry celineberry
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2011

    I'm Sorry

    I'm sorry,I hurt you,Didn't mean to,I was angry,please forgive me,let's start again,Really,I'm not like that.
    startinover1 startinover1
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

    I am the one to blame I make light

    and jokes of things that aren't funny and I no the sacrifices you have made in life to have your beautiful children and I think it is brilliant you have done that for them and I don't mean to make light about what you have done and the decisions you have made so I apologise as I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    Dec 5, 2014

    I'm so sorry to my sister I shouldn't have

    shouted at you I'll have my and my sister view of what went on Mine: ❤️me 💜sister 💜lex hurry up plz lulu needs a bath ❤️stop getting moody or else 💜what did I do ❤️you know what you've done after you've given lulu a bath get in to my room and you know...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 29, 2015

    So I met this girl back when

    and i fell in love with her and she fell in love with me very deeply. she was there for me when i was feeling down, day and night she would stay up late at night just so she can talk to me since she lived across the country. She gave her all to me until one day this other girl...
    bliss1197 bliss1197
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2016

    I'm sorry inthehiddenshadows I never ment to

    make you want to die If I kill myself I wouldn't make you sad anymore Would that be best?
    Ashthewolf7601 Ashthewolf7601
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2014

    A Letter To Him..

    loves mad really aint it. how you can say you love someone. to others they dont really understand. but the feeling is mad. like butterflys for instance when i first met you and everytime i heard you name or seen your face i had the weirdest warmest feeling in my stomach. you used...
    dyinginsidebutsmilingstill dyinginsidebutsmilingstill
    18-21, F
    Jun 14, 2012

    When people used to talk about connecting with

    people online, I used to laugh at them thinking how could you become connected to someone you don't even know. But about a month or so ago just as I was about to delete my EP, I got an inbox from a girl. So I opened it and we started chatting. After 5 mins of chatting with her...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    To Ducrabmmm

    I hurt someone that I love very much this morning with very thoughtless words. I feel so horrible about it. I was trying to multitask, do my job, and focus on you at the same time. The words just came out. I am not making excuses only explaining what happened. ...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    13 Responses May 7, 2008

    I hurt someone I loved.

    I Ment to make things easier. They told me they were leaving me. It would have been harder for them to go than me. So I walked away. It washer that told me she was leaving, going to replace me.. And why? I found out.. Cause she wanted a reaction. Wanted me to care... I don't...
    venkel venkel
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    I broke up with him because I was too scared to

    tell him I was pregnant. & it turned into a lot of drama. Which is now screwing me over. He's moving on. I'm still here, I love him so much & he won't say one word to me.
    misscameron13 misscameron13
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2015

    Daddy was being mean to me

    so I threw my mirror and phone at him and he fell unconscious :( he's gone to hospital and mummy told me off. she never tells me off. no matter what I do. she locked me in my room and I'm too scared to scream and smash the window like I normally do. why is she so mad with me? I...
    kindaspoilt kindaspoilt
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Apr 20, 2016
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    I was trying to figure out some thought I was

    having. I made an EP account that was not entirely accurate, then I met her. She was such a great friend that I decided to tell her the truth. That's when I hurt her. She thought I lied to her in order to be able to be her friend. I guess that I did un a way. I want to...
    Maz3km Maz3km
    36-40, M
    Jan 16, 2015

    Im 37 and at that age Im sure everyone has done

    some things they regret or want to take back but one thing I failed to do was to come through for someone I really cared about when they really needed me too. I met a girl on this website and we started talking and to me she was just awesome. She lived on the other side of the...
    CharliesOnFire CharliesOnFire
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2015
    nomnommings nomnommings
    18-21, F
    Mar 1, 2015

    There were someone I cared about

    and still care I hurt. I didn't mean it, I am not looking for excuses, there are none. I made a huge mistake, I cried a lot because of what I have done. I hope I have still a place in their heart.
    Classjenny Classjenny
    46-50, F
    Aug 20, 2014

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him a lot but know we've broken up. We've decided that we'll both just keep going with our live and still keep each other in our...
    laxlife laxlife
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2015


    I hurt you all the time. I've heard you on many nights, crying in your room or crying to your sister about how much I hurt you. You set standards for me that I don't want to follow. I'll never be a cheer leader. I want to die my hair black. I want piercings. I don't have a club I...
    rayrae rayrae
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2011

    I Hate Myself.

    he helped me. i hurt him. god, don't deserve to live. i wonder why i didn't listen before. i knew i would hurt him. this always happens. there must be something terribly wrong with me. was i born during a satanic ritual or something? that seems pretty possible, give my...
    sayonaranow sayonaranow
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012


    This is the hardest thing I've ever had to write.. ______________________________ So I've known my best friend Kyle since I was almost four and he was five. We met in a church nursery in Dallas. My Nana said that she couldn't get me away from him, we both screamed and...
    jesse3 jesse3
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Feb 1, 2009

    I have never believed in internet relationships,

    so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much. As weeks, and months went by, I started to feel extremely uncomfortable, so decided to tell the boy. I thought he would understand it, and would...
    dorixoxo dorixoxo
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    Its been two mornings

    and two nights not talking to Tim ,I don't know if he is hurting but I am torn apart I cry all the time I miss his voice so much my chest hurts .I want to text him and call him so bad but I have to keep telling myself that this is better for him and me .I have this way of...
    monica0215 monica0215
    56-60, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I feel so bad because I hurt someone.

    I'm happy where I'm at now but I really hurt someone and this person stuck by my side and was always there. This was like in February but I keep thinking about it because I just realized everyone has feelings too. :(
    18-21, F
    Apr 25, 2015

    The Switcher. Back N Fourth

    ok. so I was with a guy named tom. thingd were up n down. he had sex with me weneva he wanted to. he was my first reall love. I had sex with him while my current bf alex is locked up. I keep switching one minite I want alex nxt I want tom I love them both but I keep destroying...
    shayeshaye shayeshaye
    18-21, F
    Jul 22, 2012

    I Love You To The Moon And Back.

    I didn't know I love you. I didn't know the feeling so I didn't notice the idea. I cheated on you. I made you cry over and over. I made you curse me and I just laughed. You ran after me but I just pushed you away. Then you left and all the realizations stoke me, that I can't see...
    moonlightraven moonlightraven
    26-30, M
    May 17, 2012

    I have never been given anything in this life I

    have always had to work for it and if I wanted something doing I have always had to do it myself from an early age, but then you came into my life the one person who wants to help who wants to support me through things and I throw it straight back into your face. I promise you I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 28, 2014

    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014


    Have you ever loved someone so much that they take your breath away, and after they are gone you can hardly breathe...?? I am not going to deny that i still love you...not even to myself. I am not going to deny that I miss you.... I can't even breath sometimes... I am not...
    blindhorse63 blindhorse63
    46-50, M
    15 Responses Aug 3, 2012

    I hurt my soulmate . I was a coward

    and could not leave my situation so instead of fighting for him I lost him completely . Now he is gone forever and will always think I didn't love him enough which isn't true at all . Loved him so much just timing was wrong . He'll be the one that got away.
    latinafairy latinafairy
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2015

    my friend is lesbian,

    and I'm bisexual. I like her. but I hurt her by having sex with a guy. I feel so bad because she's been hurting for awhile now...at the time I didn't know she had feelings for me like that...so I couldn't have known that would hurt her... *sigh* what do I do? :c
    brooketheunicorn brooketheunicorn
    16-17, F
    Mar 12, 2016

    You Dont Know, Dont Judge!

    Who said that if u hurt someone its because u dont love them or you dont care? I'd hurt so many people before, and i dont mind saying this! because it hurt me as well! You might say that if we really care for someone we'd do our best not to see their tears, but no one can know...
    LonelyGurlll LonelyGurlll
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jun 6, 2011

    I Hurt My Dad Over One Little Word.

    The person I have mostly hurt the most is my parents..when I was about 13-14 I used to misbehave all the time like mostly I'd do stuipid things and me and my parents would always end up having a massive arguement and I used to think that they never loved me well mostly my mum...
    babeycupcake babeycupcake
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 20, 2012

    So It Goes

    I feel like a complete failure. I really don't think I understand how people perceive the things I say. I joke a lot, because it is easier than tearing down these ******* walls that I have been fortifying for 20 years. The irony of me being on EP is that I *should* be able to be...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 2, 2013

    Not A Day Goes By...

    Best friends since kindergarten, Inseparable, and before we started dating everyone already thought we were dating. Then, the day came, you asked, I said yes and we were happier then anybody could imagine. Months and months went by, day by day we were both happier with each...
    yourgirll yourgirll
    1 Response Mar 18, 2012

    Yet another story that I can share about my last

    and only relationship. I truly know what it means to hurt someone that you cared about. My ex-girlfriend and I, we were together for a total of 10 months. We were at the stage of soon to be engagement, when I decided to end the relationship. To sum it up, I ended the...
    NinjaGuide321 NinjaGuide321
    26-30, M
    Dec 20, 2013
    Jay9253 Jay9253
    36-40, M
    1 Response May 2, 2014

    that's it I had hurt someone

    that I care and cared for me right now I hurt anyone unintentionally when they are trying to be here for me. I am currently getting feeling torn those individuals that cared for me I've hurt them and pushed them away I pushed my friends away I doubt the one that I care will come...
    ErbiumbInTheEr ErbiumbInTheEr
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2015

    I did. I never want to hurt someone,

    but this time I did, not intentionally, but still. I feel so, so bad and I think I will not be able to mend the friendship. It will leave a scar. Something to remind me how stupid I was. Makes me sad, very sad. Forgive me for being an ignorant loser, my dear, dear friend...
    TheStoryman TheStoryman
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014

    I had another account on this site

    that has since been deleted..... but it's very existence and the things that I did on there, even-though it was before we met,hurt someone dear to me........ and I am hatting myself for it....
    Babygirl12296Daddy Babygirl12296Daddy
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 19, 2014

    I used to unconsciously perceive my husband's

    actions through an ideal that I had in my head. It would deeply hurt every time he didn't respond to me the way I expected. I tore down my own self-esteem but at the time thought he was the one doing it because he didn't react in the way I expected. I was so naive and so stupid...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    How Infatuation Destroyed A Friendship In 30 Seconds

    Infatuation for another person can be a desirable thing - even a good thing to some people looking for a partner in life.  It is one of the ways people meet and eventually fall in love.  But it is not a welcomed thing to a man who ...
    deleted deleted
    17 Responses Dec 12, 2009

    I really need directions here.

    Someone important I care about is crushed, Seems every word I say is really to blunt. I seriously don't know what to say to not be so mean it just seems like a put down to my friend. I really don't know what to say and way to desensitized to it
    f00dbarevaporating f00dbarevaporating
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2016

    We werr best friends

    since we were kids. I never dated anyone else. We were happy having fun, and got married young because my parents got sick. I changed, became depressed when they died. I developed a mental illness that I didnt realize and it kept getting worse being untreated for years. I gained...
    nuzzlefish nuzzlefish
    31-35, F
    Oct 29, 2015

    I told some horrible things to my dad today.

    I feel so bad. Is that why I put in this life for? To hurt others? And be ungrateful? I wish I wasn't so mean but I'm just unhappy with myself I wanted him to feel the pain I was feeling. I wanted him to know I hated him for making me with my mother. The two people that made me...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    A friend of mine gave his heart to me.

    I pushed him away hoping he would move on. But he just fell more in love with me. I knew that if I wanted him to truly move on I'd have to hurt him. So I did. Because he needs to save his love for someone who deserves it. We all just want to be someone's everything. But I can't...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 2, 2015

    I had a boyfriend in May

    that was so good to me. But I was in such a bad place I didn't appreciate him and treat him how he deserved. I cheated on him twice while I had been drinking, and because of it I haven't drank since, and I could if I wanted, but I don't because I end up doing dumb stuff. I...
    taylerraye taylerraye
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    Past the Point of Sorry...

    I hurt (many times) the person I cared about the most. She never did anything to me that warranted the things I ended up saying and doing to her. Called her names in a fit of childish rage, be it alcohol induced or steroid induced, or both! I never hit her or anything, but it...
    EricS EricS
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Sep 14, 2008

    I Hurt Somone I Love

    I hurt someone i love because i had becom like the people who hurt me.   I hurt  someone I love that treated me like a princecss, but because I held old offences I couldn;t see.   I betrayed him, he was my best friend. He trusted me. He trusted me to...
    adira adira
    Mar 19, 2010

    I just hurt someone I cared about

    and in doing that learned that they didn't care about me. I want to apologize but knowing they don't care is stopping me. I feel frustrated. I don't know what to do :(
    herealways2017 herealways2017
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014
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