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I Hurt Someone That I Cared About

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    A Letter To Him..

    loves mad really aint it. how you can say you love someone. to others they dont really understand. but the feeling is mad. like butterflys for instance when i first met you and everytime i heard you name or seen your face i had the weirdest warmest feeling in my stomach. you used...
    dyinginsidebutsmilingstill dyinginsidebutsmilingstill 18-21, F Jun 14, 2012

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    not physically, but a friend of mine.

    .. we fell out. Regretted it for ages, still do now. I just feel like a terrible person. I let him down. :(
    misfitgemma misfitgemma 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    PorcelainGrenade PorcelainGrenade 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    I had another account on this site

    that has since been deleted..... but it's very existence and the things that I did on there, even-though it was before we met,hurt someone dear to me........ and I am hatting myself for it....
    lukanai94 lukanai94 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 19, 2014

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    I had a boyfriend in May

    that was so good to me. But I was in such a bad place I didn't appreciate him and treat him how he deserved. I cheated on him twice while I had been drinking, and because of it I haven't drank since, and I could if I wanted, but I don't because I end up doing dumb stuff. I...
    taylerraye taylerraye 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Everyone I Care.

    I think this goes all with the people I care. I always hurt them the most when I shouldn't.Just whenever I try make it up for the hurt feeling,something would come out that would in turn hurt me.And it just goes round and round.But then, life seems to be that way.The good thing...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2011

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    Past the Point of Sorry...

    I hurt (many times) the person I cared about the most. She never did anything to me that warranted the things I ended up saying and doing to her. Called her names in a fit of childish rage, be it alcohol induced or steroid induced, or both! I never hit her or anything, but it...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    I just hurt someone I cared about

    and in doing that learned that they didn't care about me. I want to apologize but knowing they don't care is stopping me. I feel frustrated. I don't know what to do :(
    herealways2017 herealways2017 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I'm sorry inthehiddenshadows I never ment to

    make you want to die If I kill myself I wouldn't make you sad anymore Would that be best?
    Ashthewolf7601 Ashthewolf7601 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    So It Goes

    I feel like a complete failure. I really don't think I understand how people perceive the things I say. I joke a lot, because it is easier than tearing down these ******* walls that I have been fortifying for 20 years. The irony of me being on EP is that I *should* be able to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    Its been two mornings

    and two nights not talking to Tim ,I don't know if he is hurting but I am torn apart I cry all the time I miss his voice so much my chest hurts .I want to text him and call him so bad but I have to keep telling myself that this is better for him and me .I have this way of...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F Mar 1

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    A friend of mine gave his heart to me.

    I pushed him away hoping he would move on. But he just fell more in love with me. I knew that if I wanted him to truly move on I'd have to hurt him. So I did. Because he needs to save his love for someone who deserves it. We all just want to be someone's everything. But I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 2

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    I'm Sorry

    I'm sorry,I hurt you,Didn't mean to,I was angry,please forgive me,let's start again,Really,I'm not like that.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    I hurt my soulmate . I was a coward

    and could not leave my situation so instead of fighting for him I lost him completely . Now he is gone forever and will always think I didn't love him enough which isn't true at all . Loved him so much just timing was wrong . He'll be the one that got away.
    latinafairy latinafairy 26-30, F Feb 25

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    You know what really hurts here?

    It's coming here and reading all the posts where people are hurting and contemplating suicide - especially when I click through to profiles and see that these people are between 10 and 20 years old. No matter how bad things might seem right now, they are seldom worth ending...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 26-30, F Jan 2

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    I told some horrible things to my dad today.

    I feel so bad. Is that why I put in this life for? To hurt others? And be ungrateful? I wish I wasn't so mean but I'm just unhappy with myself I wanted him to feel the pain I was feeling. I wanted him to know I hated him for making me with my mother. The two people that made me...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I hurt her in the worst possible way.

    It wasn't like a karate chop to the wind-pipe or anything like that; I hurt her soul.
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I have never believed in internet relationships,

    so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much. As weeks, and months went by, I started to feel extremely uncomfortable, so decided to tell the boy. I thought he would understand it, and would...
    dorixoxo dorixoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2014

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    I Love You To The Moon And Back.

    I didn't know I love you. I didn't know the feeling so I didn't notice the idea. I cheated on you. I made you cry over and over. I made you curse me and I just laughed. You ran after me but I just pushed you away. Then you left and all the realizations stoke me, that I can't see...
    moonlightraven moonlightraven 26-30, M May 17, 2012

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    There were someone I cared about

    and still care I hurt. I didn't mean it, I am not looking for excuses, there are none. I made a huge mistake, I cried a lot because of what I have done. I hope I have still a place in their heart.
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F Aug 20, 2014

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    But I was hurt more..

    It's that moment when you have to say that forced goodbye...When you have to step on your kind heart and "pretend" you don't care! No one can feel that pain unless the one who experiences it....it hurts more than any physical pain. When you care about someone so much, you'd do...
    hangonthere hangonthere 22-25, F Jun 23

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12 26-30, F Dec 3, 2014

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    sophiejadexoxo sophiejadexoxo 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2014

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    I broke up with him because I was too scared to

    tell him I was pregnant. & it turned into a lot of drama. Which is now screwing me over. He's moving on. I'm still here, I love him so much & he won't say one word to me.
    misscameron13 misscameron13 16-17, F 2 Responses May 26

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    I hurt someone I loved.

    I Ment to make things easier. They told me they were leaving me. It would have been harder for them to go than me. So I walked away. It washer that told me she was leaving, going to replace me.. And why? I found out.. Cause she wanted a reaction. Wanted me to care... I don't...
    venkel venkel 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I hurt an amazing woman.

    I wish she would forgive me.I realized too late that she meant the world to me. I would do anything to have her back in my life.
    ichanged ichanged 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    Mom

    I hurt you all the time. I've heard you on many nights, crying in your room or crying to your sister about how much I hurt you. You set standards for me that I don't want to follow. I'll never be a cheer leader. I want to die my hair black. I want piercings. I don't have a club I...
    rayrae rayrae 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2011

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    To Ducrabmmm

    I hurt someone that I love very much this morning with very thoughtless words. I feel so horrible about it. I was trying to multitask, do my job, and focus on you at the same time. The words just came out. I am not making excuses only explaining what happened. ...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 16 Responses May 7, 2008

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    Not A Day Goes By...

    Best friends since kindergarten, Inseparable, and before we started dating everyone already thought we were dating. Then, the day came, you asked, I said yes and we were happier then anybody could imagine. Months and months went by, day by day we were both happier with each...
    yourgirll yourgirll 13-15 2 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    How Infatuation Destroyed A Friendship In 30 Seconds

    Infatuation for another person can be a desirable thing - even a good thing to some people looking for a partner in life.  It is one of the ways people meet and eventually fall in love.  But it is not a welcomed thing to a man who ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Im 37 and at that age Im sure everyone has done

    some things they regret or want to take back but one thing I failed to do was to come through for someone I really cared about when they really needed me too. I met a girl on this website and we started talking and to me she was just awesome. She lived on the other side of the...
    CharliesOnFire CharliesOnFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I Hate Myself.

    he helped me. i hurt him. god, don't deserve to live. i wonder why i didn't listen before. i knew i would hurt him. this always happens. there must be something terribly wrong with me. was i born during a satanic ritual or something? that seems pretty possible, give my...
    sayonaranow sayonaranow 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him a lot but know we've broken up. We've decided that we'll both just keep going with our live and still keep each other in our...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 4 Responses May 18

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    Kyle.

    This is the hardest thing I've ever had to write.. ______________________________ So I've known my best friend Kyle since I was almost four and he was five. We met in a church nursery in Dallas. My Nana said that she couldn't get me away from him, we both screamed and...
    jesse3 jesse3 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    I am the one to blame I make light

    and jokes of things that aren't funny and I no the sacrifices you have made in life to have your beautiful children and I think it is brilliant you have done that for them and I don't mean to make light about what you have done and the decisions you have made so I apologise as I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M Dec 5, 2014

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't

    have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good friend but he then told her everything. I was angry so I said a lot of bad things. Indeed it was wrong but I couldn't handle it. I was hurt. so I...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I'm pretty sure my husband is pissed at me.

    He slept on the couch and now is ignoring me. I'm an *******.
    Livvy2 Livvy2 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2014

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    I was trying to figure out some thought I was

    having. I made an EP account that was not entirely accurate, then I met her. She was such a great friend that I decided to tell her the truth. That's when I hurt her. She thought I lied to her in order to be able to be her friend. I guess that I did un a way. I want to...
    Maz3km Maz3km 36-40, M Jan 16

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    I Hurt My Dad Over One Little Word.

    The person I have mostly hurt the most is my parents..when I was about 13-14 I used to misbehave all the time like mostly I'd do stuipid things and me and my parents would always end up having a massive arguement and I used to think that they never loved me well mostly my mum...
    babeycupcake babeycupcake 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I have never been given anything in this life I

    have always had to work for it and if I wanted something doing I have always had to do it myself from an early age, but then you came into my life the one person who wants to help who wants to support me through things and I throw it straight back into your face. I promise you I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 28, 2014

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    Palebattycat

    Have you ever loved someone so much that they take your breath away, and after they are gone you can hardly breathe...?? I am not going to deny that i still love you...not even to myself. I am not going to deny that I miss you.... I can't even breath sometimes... I am not...
    blindhorse63 blindhorse63 46-50, M 16 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't

    have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good friend but he then told her everything. I was angry so I said a lot of bad things. Indeed it was wrong but I couldn't handle it. I was hurt. so I...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F Mar 6

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    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I feel so bad because I hurt someone.

    I'm happy where I'm at now but I really hurt someone and this person stuck by my side and was always there. This was like in February but I keep thinking about it because I just realized everyone has feelings too. :(
    KayKay90210 KayKay90210 16-17, F Apr 25

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    I Am Sorry...

    This happened a while ago and even though I've apologized, I realize that I can never take back the harm & the hurt I caused you. I cannot bring him back to life, nor can I repair the damage done. I know this mistake cost me my one love, a son who will probably grow up never...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M Jun 6, 2012

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    I hurt my first girl love

    so much but I'm happy that she's happy
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo 18-21, F Jul 5, 2014

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