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I Hurt Someone That I Love and Feel Guilty About It

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    I Love Her But Keep Hurting Her

    I'm a failure. I love my girlfriend so, so much. She means everything and more to me. But I'm incredibly insecure and we tend to get into massive fights over it, and we both get hurt. I don't want to hurt her, but I always do. I hate myself for it, and I wish I could make it up...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Time For Me To Let Go

    I hope that one day I learn how to cope with my anger in ways that are not destructive. Every day there are teenagers and young adults everywhere who punch holes in walls and manipulate loved ones. I wonder what the cause of this anger is, and then I have to realize whatever...
    ibstraange ibstraange 18-21 Dec 13, 2012

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    Ep Is Anonymous...Except When Someone You Love Reads The Hurtful Things You've Written...

    I recently asked a question...is it wrong to keep up a secret from my wife?...because she went into my fone and found out I was hiding this from her. I was upset at 1st that she went thru my fone, but I thought I wasn't doing anything wrong. I even gave her my password so that...
    ShatteredYouth ShatteredYouth 31-35, M Jul 16, 2013

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    A Best Friend

    i love this girl on a ridiculous level! all i want it is to nurture her and protect her for life from any and all disappointment. it's unbearable that i have become one of those disappointments because of my ******* weed habit. i legit don't know if i can ever covey how sorry i...
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F Sep 26, 2010

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    5 Am On A Tuesday

    There are a million reasons I am in this group. This is the one that has been keeping me up at night for the past two years.
    tarenava tarenava 18-21, F Mar 30, 2010

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    I Hurt Someone I Care About and still feel the gulit

    I hurt someone i really cared about. I was in a failing relationship, and used to drink alot because of it. I had done wrong in the past and cheated on my bf, also my father used to physically abuse me for falling in love with my bf. He was also a heavy drinker. SO i guess this...
    angelangie angelangie 26-30 Oct 21, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have never believed in internet relationships, so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much...
    dorixoxo dorixoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Like today I bought myself a burger from Burger King and I bought a KitKat bar. I feel so guilty when I eat junk food like what's wrong with me?! I can't help it sometimes
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F Apr 11

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    She didnt care about me anyways... So im not exactly sure why she was hurt
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I called my boyfriend a baby when he was mad at me for going out when he wanted to go home to his employee . Now he's mad and slamming things and ignoring me. Called me...
    suemagoo86 suemagoo86 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I cheated on him because I felt neglected. I'm afraid he will never forgive me.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I feel guilty, but don't know if I should. So here is my story. I am a married, working mother of a two year old little girl. Now I was a stay at home mom for the first year and a...
    Alexicutie Alexicutie 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    There were only three cookies left in the tin and I know someone in my family was eye balling them all day. I poured myself a tall glass of milk and walked over to the tin and...
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are so many people right now that are pregnant my best friend my teacher that just had her baby and my co workers wife when I think about this I think about what they gain by...
    Ginger387 Ginger387 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm under lots of pressure as my cousins parents and my parents don't speak... So I'm seeing my cousins tomorrow after so long, I don't know if I should tell my mum the truth and...
    Carlaab Carlaab 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I don't feel guilty that I had sex with a woman because my husband won't have sex with me!!!!! You think he is getting it from somewhere else besides himself in the shower?
    ob1knob1 ob1knob1 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    16 days ago I found out I was pregnant. A week later I finally told my parents. They shocked me and told me to get an abortion. I have never been one to not obey there advice...
    cowgirl4christ cowgirl4christ 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    No one knows, not even me, what I would do if someone hurt someone I love!
    somedobutsomedont somedobutsomedont 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I don't feel the emotion of guilt, no matter how bad the thing is i just don't feel bad about it. Specifically i lie to my parents a lot, and manipulate them and i am aware that...
    zackk124 zackk124 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    It's gotten really bad lately. I never use to have it but its developed over the passed few years. Its really bad and getting worse and I'm not sure how to handle it. Really...
    John992 John992 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I been watching too much love movies all day long tonight which was usual for me. I felt dead, bored, dull and ashamed. These movies reminded me a lot of my ex who we dated for...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I left him. It didnt work out,Things will never work out.l thats been established already. He's heartbroken and as a result almost died from a mild heart attack. Would have left...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    It's been four months since I had undergone the procedure and I think about it more and more everyday. When I first discovered I was pregnant I was so lost, the only thing I could...
    angelbaby4 angelbaby4 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I know why I did it. I was only 16, even with my boyfriends help I would still need help. My family said they would "support me" meaning, they would pay for my baby and me as long...
    BlooRae BlooRae 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I found out that someone who I thought was a friend went behind my back and really screwed up a budding relationship that I was starting. So last night I made out with her ex...
    penilane penilane 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I can't sleep, I can't eat. I think of things I didn't used to think about, like dying and being in darkness. I try to be happy but behind it all, when I am alone, I cry and I cry...
    jackkeee jackkeee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Help! I was broken up with a few days ago. I thought I was doing fine, then sometimes I'm caught with my guard down and this pain in my chest hurts all the more. I'd call myself a...
    aintthatinnocent aintthatinnocent 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I found out yesterday that my ex recently had a daughter. I'm happy for her sake but upset at the same time because the reason for our breakup was because she had an abortion years...
    yossarian1944 yossarian1944 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    And I don't know why.. This feeling sucks
    TearfulNights22 TearfulNights22 22-25, F Apr 3

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    The truth is, that I don't love anybody. I care for people. And if you hurt them, you'll have to fear me more than you fear God.
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M Apr 11

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    If you love me so much. Then how could you abandon me... Everyone leaves.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Just left...doesn't text me or want to talk. Anytime I try and be nice and see how he's doing he'll be short and just act like he doesn't care. Why did you even come in my life...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Ghosts/unexplained things. First story. Year’s back I was working in a house that was empty as a carpenter. There were a few of us there over the 6 weeks gutting it out and...
    13by13one 13by13one 56-60, M 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I try when I can to help aid people who are insecure and hurting inside because of it. Not that I am good at this by any means but live and learn; do no harm; do your best; So...
    crazynam321 crazynam321 36-40, M Apr 6

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    real love knows no distance, because you love that one person so much that it fills the space between you. weather it be with a friend, family....or someone very special to you
    kitkat2797 kitkat2797 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Omg I love hearing and reading about this kind of stuff. I feel like it is so interesting. I believe in the supernatural what about you??
    peacelovejoy123056 peacelovejoy123056 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have always struggled with how I look from a young age. I have always known I was different. I have dark, frizzy, curly hair. A big flat nose and I am hairy. I had severe eczema...
    babiboo babiboo 18-21 4 days ago

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    Ghosts/unexplained things. Sweetheart. I wrote sometime ago a short poem now posted here in my stories, called Sweetheart. It was a true poem, as kids we would go to this spot...
    13by13one 13by13one 56-60, M 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I m trying hard to exercise while maintains my femininity because I feel I lost part of me in the past year while studying my PhD. I felt not beautiful and not good enough
    rrmal88 rrmal88 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Every day I have been thinking about moving to Florida with part of my family because i have been asked to. I am skeptical because I haven't lived on my own before. I have a job...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    My name is Alice. Funny that? My nickname is AIW. It stands for Alice in wonderland. I can defiantly see it tho. I'm always dreaming and when I'm not I'm writing about my dreams...
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Sometimes out of no where I will start to day dream. No matter where I. Am, I will just start thinking about everything an anything. I have always made myself a life inside my head...
    KissesFromAngels KissesFromAngels 13-15, F Mar 29

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    Every time I look at the ones I hate, every time I am wronged, I imagine my own world. Inspired by the movie 2012, I created my own few imaginary arcs, capable of holding 8 billion...
    Yinnistic Yinnistic 16-17, M Mar 29

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    It's embarrassing to admit, but I do. I'm not very good at expressing myself in real life, and I don't speak up very often, so I have a sense that not a lot of people understand me...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I love to drift into my own little world. Something I should probably do less often than I do currently. When I pick up a new book (or one I've read 26 times) that is fixing to be...
    Ranchsavvy16 Ranchsavvy16 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I think I just meddled. Again.
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F Mar 22

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    That person is myself of course, and my family members and friends depending on if I consider them MY PEOPLE or not. If I'm not in a bad mood maybe I'd let it go, unnoticed.
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    But he could of done something different. He didn't have to leave me, he wanted to. And that's something I have to carry with me now. When I think of him, I think of giving up.
    heavyeyebags heavyeyebags 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I think bigger girls are very attractive. Message me if you want to talk and are bigger.
    MoaXing MoaXing 16-17, M Apr 10

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    I’ll be your everything… If ever you decide it’s time to settle, When you’ve nowhere to go but down, When you begin to see rust on the metal, When the cracks begin to show...
    ScreamingAlien ScreamingAlien 26-30, M Mar 29

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