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I Hurt Someone That I Love and Feel Guilty About It

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    Time For Me To Let Go

    I hope that one day I learn how to cope with my anger in ways that are not destructive. Every day there are teenagers and young adults everywhere who punch holes in walls and manipulate loved ones. I wonder what the cause of this anger is, and then I have to realize whatever...
    ibstraange ibstraange 18-21 Dec 13, 2012

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    I Love Her But Keep Hurting Her

    I'm a failure. I love my girlfriend so, so much. She means everything and more to me. But I'm incredibly insecure and we tend to get into massive fights over it, and we both get hurt. I don't want to hurt her, but I always do. I hate myself for it, and I wish I could make it up...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Ep Is Anonymous...Except When Someone You Love Reads The Hurtful Things You've Written...

    I recently asked a question...is it wrong to keep up a secret from my wife?...because she went into my fone and found out I was hiding this from her. I was upset at 1st that she went thru my fone, but I thought I wasn't doing anything wrong. I even gave her my password so that...
    ShatteredYouth ShatteredYouth 31-35, M Jul 16, 2013

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    A Best Friend

    i love this girl on a ridiculous level! all i want it is to nurture her and protect her for life from any and all disappointment. it's unbearable that i have become one of those disappointments because of my ******* weed habit. i legit don't know if i can ever covey how sorry i...
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F Sep 26, 2010

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    I Hurt Someone I Care About and still feel the gulit

    I hurt someone i really cared about. I was in a failing relationship, and used to drink alot because of it. I had done wrong in the past and cheated on my bf, also my father used to physically abuse me for falling in love with my bf. He was also a heavy drinker. SO i guess this...
    angelangie angelangie 26-30 Oct 21, 2008

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    5 Am On A Tuesday

    There are a million reasons I am in this group. This is the one that has been keeping me up at night for the past two years.
    tarenava tarenava 18-21, F Mar 30, 2010

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    I hurt an amazing woman. I wish she would forgive me.I realized too late that she meant the world to me. I would do anything to have her back in my life.
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    I deserve to die. I can't forgive myself.
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    I'm pretty sure my husband is pissed at me. He slept on the couch and now is ignoring me. I'm an *******.
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend loves me more than I love him... Should I feel guilty about this?
    jaasmine jaasmine 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    There is so much controversy over abortion laws in different countries and those in the mindsets of the people around. A woman is looked down upon if she has had sex in India...
    TheNextSin TheNextSin 22-25, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Although, I feel I tried my hardest to break up with someone and let go of them they wouldn't allow me to. I cheated two years ago and I still feel guilty. All my friends left me...
    ActiveHalo ActiveHalo 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I hate myself. Everyday I keep reminding myself that if I disappear, everybody's lives will get better. When I hear or read something about how other people die or how miserable...
    marc228 marc228 18-21 6 days ago

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    more later, in my spare time I will write more about this. -----I feel guilty because before my dad passed away . I felt helpless. like there was nothing I could do. I feel like...
    mjbutterfly mjbutterfly 41-45, F Jul 1

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    I'm in bit of a rut that's lasted about three or four years. Symptoms of this are narcissism, lack of empathy and anger/bitterness. I feel guilty because I'm not there for people...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M Jul 7

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    I snooped on someone I really care about. it is hurting and it is depressing me. I came clean to her but the hurt is too much, she does not trust me and she thinks am still doing...
    iwilllistenandhelp iwilllistenandhelp 26-30 1 Response Jul 7

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    Yeah I do,I have lots of fears,which I guess relationships tend to magnify more.One of those fears is losing people I'm close to,feeling they'll leave me and I'll be alone again a...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally. It's mean and unwise. I've been a victim of such sorts & I'm not angry with myself as much as I am feeling pity for that person. He'll be...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 1

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    Sometimes I say mean things when I'm mad but I don't mean to hurt people. I wouldn't want to physically hurt someone or something. We are all gods creation and he wants us to...
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    The past 30-odd years I've spent 'surviving' and not living. Now that I've finally woken up to the fact that I have no 'goal' in life I'm feeling nervous about the future. I have...
    MailTheGlobe MailTheGlobe 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I thought "there's no way I can be pregnant." I bought a pregnancy test so I could prove it to myself because my boyfriend was worried about it. People have late periods all the...
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I just yelled at my mom and I feel so guilty but it's almost like I'm too prideful to apologize. Since I don't really have any friends, my mom and my brother are like my best...
    ems350z ems350z 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I recently had an abortion. I did it for all the wrong reasons. My boyfriend wasn't ready for a baby and I felt pressured to do it. In reality, I am obviously at fault because I...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    When I was 15 I had an abortion on October 6, 2009. I thought I was at the most 8 week but I was a lot farther , the nurse at the clinic said at most I was around 4 months...
    xxbroken xxbroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    How do I forgive myself/get over it? I feel like I never will. I basically murdered someone and it's hard to face that fact about myself.
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I feel so guilty now......
    thefaultinmylife thefaultinmylife 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Today has been a really lazy Monday. I was depressed all weekend because I wasn't working when I felt like I should be. Now it's Monday and I really should be and I still can't. I...
    msborealis msborealis 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I am very protective about my family and my friends, even friends who are not really close to me. And I admire people who do so too. Okay, may be I cant be rude to the offenders...
    princessodette princessodette 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I will either not talk to you, or be the biggest b.i.t.c.h if you hurt anyone I care about.
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I am a thirteen year old girl, that kissed an 21 year old guy. We laid in bed together for the whole night, he fell in love.... But I didn't, awkward.
    liana10 liana10 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I have lived in Australia for 15 lovely years with my husband and 2 sons now 19-24.until 2 years ago my husband ruined out lives by having an affair it was hell for 2 years along...
    pommygirl pommygirl 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    My mother is always making me angry or feel bad she constantly criticizes mefor example today she told me she's going to church tomorrow and we had a talk and I told her my...
    joyismypain37 joyismypain37 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    He's not going to ruin this for me. I'M going to Warped Tour, and he can NOT make me feel bad for deciding to go. It was HIS choice not to go with me. Not mine. I invited him. Now...
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I never meant to hurt him. I couldent do a long distance relationship and I needed a break from him anyway, he was coming on wayy too strong. I hurt him so badly and I hate myself...
    jselena jselena 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I don't believe in hurting anyone at least not deliberately.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't know if I'm scared to get hurt, or if I'm cautious about hurting the other person...
    shlumbug shlumbug 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I honestly love hearing about someone's fantasies and also telling someone about my fantasies from turn on to turn offs. It's quite interesting to know someone else's view on...
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 23

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    I want to be fat but all my life my mother was fat and her sister and they hate it. They always talk about "how I should never get fat because they hate being fat." We'll I don't...
    Sugarcoatedfatty Sugarcoatedfatty 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I know it's weird I mean I'm 15 for Christ sake but I feel like I'll grow old ad die alone because no one could ever love me...
    KatieMxx KatieMxx 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    for a long time I've wanted to tell someone about this world I've created in my mind, but I just can't. No one will understand. But I really just want to get it out and write it...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Just recently. I am so sad, and angry, and..... Well i don't know what this feeling is. Loss i guess. I want them back but they're not coming back. 😞😞😞😞
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M a week ago

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    My girlfriend always says one thing and then by the end of the day it changes. This happens everyday. And more so the past month. I fear she doesn't love me any more and she is...
    allgirlfriendssuck allgirlfriendssuck 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I think I have literally been through a series of unfortunate events. Recently I have started to be able to recall them so I figured I might as well share them. When I was in pre...
    saraheve434 saraheve434 22-25, F Jul 13

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    Do you ever feel really awful about being sad. Like...I know that so many people are struggling through things that are so much worse and I'm getting teared up over this one thing...
    AnnaRose46 AnnaRose46 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Idk I feel good today 😎😂😊😉
    Vickychajon Vickychajon 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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