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I Hurt Someone That I Love and Feel Guilty About It

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    I Love Her But Keep Hurting Her

    I'm a failure. I love my girlfriend so, so much. She means everything and more to me. But I'm incredibly insecure and we tend to get into massive fights over it, and we both get hurt. I don't want to hurt her, but I always do. I hate myself for it, and I wish I could make it up...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    5 Am On A Tuesday

    There are a million reasons I am in this group. This is the one that has been keeping me up at night for the past two years.
    tarenava tarenava 18-21, F Mar 30, 2010

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    I Hurt Someone I Care About and still feel the gulit

    I hurt someone i really cared about. I was in a failing relationship, and used to drink alot because of it. I had done wrong in the past and cheated on my bf, also my father used to physically abuse me for falling in love with my bf. He was also a heavy drinker. SO i guess this...
    angelangie angelangie 26-30 Oct 21, 2008

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    Time For Me To Let Go

    I hope that one day I learn how to cope with my anger in ways that are not destructive. Every day there are teenagers and young adults everywhere who punch holes in walls and manipulate loved ones. I wonder what the cause of this anger is, and then I have to realize whatever...
    ibstraange ibstraange 18-21 Dec 13, 2012

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    A Best Friend

    i love this girl on a ridiculous level! all i want it is to nurture her and protect her for life from any and all disappointment. it's unbearable that i have become one of those disappointments because of my ******* weed habit. i legit don't know if i can ever covey how sorry i...
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F Sep 26, 2010

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    Ep Is Anonymous...Except When Someone You Love Reads The Hurtful Things You've Written...

    I recently asked a question...is it wrong to keep up a secret from my wife?...because she went into my fone and found out I was hiding this from her. I was upset at 1st that she went thru my fone, but I thought I wasn't doing anything wrong. I even gave her my password so that...
    ShatteredYouth ShatteredYouth 31-35, M Jul 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    well i once made fake profiles... and i hurt someone i love with them i didnt mean to he just got involved... but i didnt make it to hurt him you know... he has hated me for it...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    By hurting you I hurt myself. Timing has never been in my favour and I should have stayed quiet. I couldn't and didn't as I care and I want you to be happy and I know I can't do...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I feel so awful about my depression when there is so many people with so much less than me fighting for their lives when i am throwing mine away
    abby9305 abby9305 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    all i asked for was to be cared about.loved.and maybe a hug here or there.but i wasn't worth even that to a single person in this world. that's why i left it.
    ApatheticReject ApatheticReject 41-45, F 8 hrs ago

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    There were someone I cared about and still care I hurt. I didn't mean it, I am not looking for excuses, there are none. I made a huge mistake, I cried a lot because of what I have...
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I usually overeat when I'm angry or anxious. It soothes me. I think because both of these are times when my heart is pumping and I feel out of control. Then when I'm eating, I...
    aj2456 aj2456 22-25, F Jul 27

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    "Depression is a choice" that is what i realised when i was depressed . You can use to be depressed or make things better is all up to you
    keij10307 keij10307 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I feel guilty because I just don't want that relationship anymore. I don't want a woman who: 1. Has a face that has been ruined by drugs and a car accident 2. Is VERY needy 3...
    sociableTim sociableTim 31-35, M 5 hrs ago

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    It could be because I'm breaking a small rule that's not hurting anyone. Or I could be throwing someone under the bus. Truth is, I easily feel guilty and almost tell someone...
    KairiRune KairiRune 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've posted an experience here before, looking for advice, which was actually how I found this website. It was about some fight I had with my friends from class. Well, this is...
    Thebestofrita Thebestofrita 16-17, F Aug 8

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    I feel guilty for being alive. I feel guilty for being able to breath and walk and talk. I feel guilty for ruining my parents lives by being born. I wish they never met and got...
    sewshow sewshow 18-21 Aug 6

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    Basically I've always been a relationship person, I love being in a relationship. I just can't seem to be loyal. My current boyfriend and I have been together for a year, in this...
    Jin959 Jin959 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Last night I pressured my friend into agreeing to have s.ex with me.. I feel kind of guilty about it, but.. He can say no, right? He's his own person. But he's also a virgin, which...
    carry1love carry1love 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I will not react if you insult me. I will not even flinch if you betray me regarding little things. For those i simply avoid you and stop being your friend. But, betray my trust...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Even when I hurt someone unintentionally, I have trouble forgiving myself and living with what I did. Life is all about making mistakes - and that means hurting people is...
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    But unintentional hurt seems inevitable when dealing with human beings. It especially hard to face when you hurt someone you love and never get to apologize.
    popuptarget popuptarget 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I most certainly will. I can forgive people who hurt me, but if anyone hurts someone I love, they will get closely acquainted with the skillet.This one's for you L3 ;-)
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    If you hurt someone I love get ready for a beat down you lay a finger on my friend your toast
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F Aug 6

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    I am not usually an angry or violent person, although if you want me to become one, the best way to do that would be to hurt someone I love (I wouldn't recommend it).
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    So, I've been trying to astral project for almost a year now. This morning at around two o'clock I'm pretty sure I finally pulled it off. Had sleep paralysis, vibrations, and I...
    ddiddi58 ddiddi58 26-30, M Jul 25

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    I Think Someone Loves Me But Has A Girlfriend. You confuse me
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Will try AGAIN to lose weight. My dad will help me and yeah, he really doesnt like how big i am getting.. Dont get me wrong i wanna lose the extra weight too.. You know, to feel...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Please oh please don't be rude to me ok? I feel soo guilty in so many ways I just need someone to talk to or hold me right. Here's why I'm guilty 1: I barely ate while I was home...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    It's eating and tearing me apart. I feel sick and anxious daily. Empty. Evil. Numb. I want to cry but I can't. What would it matter anyway? The past can't change. The guilt and...
    cutexmuffin524 cutexmuffin524 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    People are drawn to me, they call upon me, they often ask me for advice which I have no qualifications to give. I am very careful not to give advice, but to give factual accounts...
    Human0xymoron Human0xymoron 41-45, F Aug 1

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    I have lost the connection with my husband after dealing with his emotional abuse, alcoholism, and the affair he had. The emotional abuse and the disrespect was off and on, it wasn...
    Liz0143 Liz0143 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I hurt the person I love. The person I'd give my life for. I didn't do anything explicitly wrong, I suppose it's because I never gave enough time, even when I felt I was. I said...
    Beccyayresxxx Beccyayresxxx 18-21 Aug 10

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    I Almost Had Sex At Fifteen, And Told Myself I Wouldn't Until I Found The Right One Which I Thought I Had Found A Few Years Back. I Feel Extremely Guilty For This, Why?
    ihatemypclife ihatemypclife 13-15, M Aug 6

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    Guilty as charged! I just had a brownie o.O @4.40 am !!!
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    When I had the abortion I was married. My husband and I were fighting a lot and was going through a BAD rough patch. I found out I was pregnant and he didn't seem to care, He...
    BamaGirl1112 BamaGirl1112 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Okay sooo.....I'm feeling guilt. I emptied my used shampoo bottle so I can re-use it and store my homemade rice toner. (Rice toner is the liquid you collect from scrubbing the rice...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Ok this is long. Basically when I was 14 this boy liked me and I just wanted to be friends, then we were FWBs, then at 15 we became a couple. It only lasted for a month because I...
    NoAverageAngel NoAverageAngel 16-17, F Jul 26

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    I have a husband and 3 kids and I took the day to get my hair done. What is the worst is I enjoyed it so much I feel like I would be happy on my own but I love me boys.
    kreativebelle kreativebelle 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    If you hurt somebody I love, I won't hesitate you come after you. I wont hesitate yo hurt you in return.
    SilverEyedWolf SilverEyedWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I feel like I'm wasting money whenever I go and see a movie by myself or have a day out by myself. But I'm an introvert! What am I supposed to do?
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    It makes me feel like I'm being selfish.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 2

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    God is of love and I choose to follow in his footsteps. Hurting people that I love or people in General is never in my attentions.
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Nobody was "hurt" so to speak. The story is hilarious more than anything now. Wedding planning can bring out the worst in people, like parents. My then fiance and I were sat down...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Peter, if you hurt my best friend, expect hell to pay :)
    404Paint 404Paint 18-21, F a week ago

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    Ricky- US Navy Air Pilot .I was blessed to have my soldier for the time I did but it was his time to go and he did it serving our country I miss him everyday it hurts deeper than...
    ChandlerTitus1 ChandlerTitus1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I hurt some one willy bad so on October 26 2014 I am going to kill my self for them I want to do this in woods where no one can find me people and people want me to do things and...
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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