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I Hurt Someone That Loved Me

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    I hurt the best thing

    that has ever happened to me. The betrayal, sadness anger she feels is a direct result of my selfishness. I'm disgusted with my self and literally pray that what she's going through could some how be put on me so that she could be happy again and find a man worthy of her love...
    paul440 paul440 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 5

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    ~ Myself ~

                      At least I'm pretty sure she loved me. I know I hurt her. I do that all the time & yet she keeps coming back for more abuse. Not sure why. She keeps trying to tell me how much...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    A Letter To Someone They Will Never Read.

    Hello K. As I write you this, it has been three months since we've talked. Three months I can never forget, because although you have moved on, and I'm sure you are very happy, I can't. I think about you every day; Wondering what your doing, hoping your having a good life, even...
    Draganta Draganta 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    Feel So Bad That I Hurt Him!!

    I made a friendship with this lovely man for about 6 months. He is 14 years older than me and i really didnt find him in any way attractive. I truly think that we are soulmates because our friendship was on such a deep level.  We understood each other from the...
    Angeleyes777 Angeleyes777 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    If I Could Take All His Pain Away.....

    I WOULD IN A SPLIT SECOND. I WOULD TAKE ALL HIS PAIN, CONFUSION, LONELINESS, AND SADNESS AWAY. I WOULD CRAWL IN A DARKER HOLE THAN IM ALREADY IN AND TAKE IT ALL ON MYSELF SO HE COULD LIVE THE DREAM HE ONCE HAD WITH ME. SO HE COULD BE THE DADDY HE WAS WHEN HE WAS COMPLETE. WHEN HE...
    SILLYLOVERGIRL SILLYLOVERGIRL 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    I Could Not Stop The Death Of The One I Loved

    this was back during the draft ihad joined the navy to avoide the army i nor others have ever understood how my wife got in the USMC other then her new step father played games and lied and others covered it up we know this on 1/13/1967 i was shoot down while inbound to a...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2011

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    I'm Sorry Daniel I Truly Am

    Another friend i made on this roleplaying site was my characters husband for a while... Ok so through this roleplay site i have made many friends many whom will be friends for life like the wonderful zack ^^ to name but one of the many but the point is i met a guy called daniel...
    auttyb auttyb 18-21, F Mar 13, 2013

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    You Win, You Lose, It's The Same Old News.

    This is an apology I never got to make. We ended on a bad, bad note and I can't take it back.  I'm not going to go over the things that I feel you did or didn't do that helped pave the way for my leaving.  I can only say I'm sorry for the things that I wish I had done...
    someblonderedhead someblonderedhead 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    It's A Shame To Tell...

    But I can't deny that I have indeed done this many times and I am certainly not proud of this fact. It just seems that I destroy everything in my path. I don't mean to, but it doesn't matter. Intentionally or not, I always hurt those that might love me one way or another...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    Wow Not Sure What To Say

    It was more of a miss understood more then anything I guess what you would call it, Trey got a call from the guy the other day we had for dinner they wanted to have lunch with us today so Trey call me and I said sure I can go, so he call them back and said sure we would have...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Fear

    I met O in the summer of '08. The first time I saw him, all I thought was how arrogant he was and that I didn't want to work with him. But just my luck, we always worked together, and as soon as we began talking, I realized he was not like I thought. We rapidly became good...
    curiosa89 curiosa89 22-25, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Around 7 months ago I hurt someone in a very bad way and I mean seriously bad. I hurt him and I was denied the chance to apologise to him, regardless whether he forgave me or not...
    GirlWithTheRedHair2013 GirlWithTheRedHair2013 16-17, F Aug 24

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    Apparently, I will be hostile even if someone try to hurt someone I don't know. So I was in my room changing when I heard a woman screaming, like someone was close to hurt her. I...
    danjgust danjgust 18-21, M Aug 26

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    I am not usually an angry or violent person, although if you want me to become one, the best way to do that would be to hurt someone I love (I wouldn't recommend it).
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Aug 21

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    😊😊😊 yep supernatural if you hurt me or my loves one you will be hunted😉😉😉 if u don't we can be friends😄😄😄
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Yet I get hurt by people Some men here don't know how to behave with women.It is our mistake that we trust such people.One of my friends here is deeply hurt and crying her heart...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    There were someone I cared about and still care I hurt. I didn't mean it, I am not looking for excuses, there are none. I made a huge mistake, I cried a lot because of what I have...
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F Aug 20

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    I'm dumb. No one really wants to love me. Men lie. They don't loved you they just want to **** you and use you until he's done. I believed a guy once. And he became a monster...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hurt some one willy bad so on October 26 2014 I am going to kill my self for them I want to do this in woods where no one can find me people and people want me to do things and...
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    Oh well I would never do it.But not everyone is like me.I have been blocked twice by people for no apparent reason.People in my circle know I hardly fight with anyone here.This is...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Aug 26

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    not physically, but a friend of mine... we fell out. Regretted it for ages, still do now. I just feel like a terrible person. I let him down. :(
    misfitgemma misfitgemma 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    It was drummed into us in our morning Bible readings: 'Treat others as you would like to be treated'.
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    I had just bought a new home, my most triumphant purchase as a single woman in my early 20s The first day I was repainting the living room, I stepped out onto the porch and saw him...
    greeneyedlifenewb greeneyedlifenewb 26-30, F 1 Response 24 mins ago

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    I wanted to start this story hurting someone but i feel i should not do that .... there is always difference between me and them. Im hurt .... BUt im not crying ..... i just feel...
    iwantutoo iwantutoo 22-25, M Sep 7

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    It's just plain hurtful. To be sweet and kind to someone, to show them intimacy and let it go a little further each time, while not being pushy about it all. To show understanding...
    MasqueradeWaltz MasqueradeWaltz 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I always thought that I am an unemotional person who doesn't get too sad or depressed with whatever happens. But, recently all this changed with an incident where I hurt a person...
    amiabadguy amiabadguy 22-25, M 2 Responses 42 mins ago

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    Is he a bad person? Was it my fault? Did he stop loving me? Should i be smarter to keep him? Did he ever care? Did i love him more than he deserves? Did he mean to hurt me? Am i...
    dipressedban dipressedban 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    At about 4:30, July 12, 2012 my phone had 2 missed calls, but I was playing a competitive game of ladder ball with my phone charging on the deck on silent mode. It was boys against...
    nco706 nco706 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I read something sad today from a friend who is now in a similar situation as i was this time last year and my heart goes out to her. As it was a time when i myself felt so very...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    About 18 months ago I started a new job and I remember the first time I met my boss I couldn't forget him. I went home and he was all I thought about. He interviewed me said he...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion, "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Well let me tell you now, as you begin to read this my thoughts are not going to be in order. I like to call it Freestyle of the thoughts meaning whatever im thinking, or feeling I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I care to give the gift of love ...only to be fooled or hurt !!
    be4ilieilive be4ilieilive 31-35, F 1 Response 48 mins ago

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    I need to be with someone physically I crave human touch so much right now. I want someone to hold me and tell me it's all going to be ok
    Feistywizard Feistywizard 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    As I age, the lovers and "Friends with benefits" get bored and drift away. There simply isn't the glue that marriage, bearing children, perhaps adopting from birth...none of the...
    smudged smudged 36-40, T Aug 24

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    I have known my boyfriend for years. We finally got together approximately two years ago. Before we realised how we felt about one another we spent loads of time together because...
    K504lois K504lois 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 25

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    My wife of four years has told me as of now she doesn't like sex. Ever since we gotten married and had children the affection and intimacy has fell off the grid. She was pregnant...
    born2reign born2reign 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    It's really not how I planned it, but I think I wouldn't have wanted it any other way... It's not what I was looking for, but it still happened and I guess, that's the magic that...
    Chips007 Chips007 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't think people should be bullied or hurt by words! I think everything should be equal because war is not the answer. Yes I am a hippie and yes I am alone. But I am who I am...
    HopeBright44 HopeBright44 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Not able to connect with my own emotion, I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Aug 27

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I am going to get revenge on someone in my life, full blown life altering revenge, on just one person, I have been planning it since I was 15. They have no idea that I am going to...
    Xoxogossipgirlx Xoxogossipgirlx 18-21 2 Responses 54 mins ago

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    Yesterday was my birthday. I completed 19. My ex just messaged me, after leaving me for my cuts and calling me sorts of things, she said,"Happy Birthday, baby! Have a great time. I...
    scarredbutrelentless scarredbutrelentless 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 18

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    Dear You, I'm writing you to let you know what's on my mind. I'm not going to lie at one time I loved you, so much to the point It was suffocating me. I was crazy for you, head...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Some things are just impossible! It's impossible to stop from loving you , it hurts so much that you never loved me , and the worst you never loved me as a friend to! But I'll...
    Romyyy Romyyy 18-21, M Aug 19

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    I know you can never let go of your so called best friend. I know you still have feelings for her, I know you still love her. Why did you stay with me and see me get hurt? It's...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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