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I Hurt Someone That Loved Me

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    You Win, You Lose, It's The Same Old News. - This is an apology I never got to make. We ended on a bad, bad note and I can't take it back.  I'm not going to go over the things...
    someblonderedhead someblonderedhead 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    If I Could Take All His Pain Away..... - I WOULD IN A SPLIT SECOND. I WOULD TAKE ALL HIS PAIN, CONFUSION, LONELINESS, AND SADNESS AWAY. I WOULD CRAWL IN A DARKER HOLE THAN IM...
    SILLYLOVERGIRL SILLYLOVERGIRL 31-35, F Jul 11, 2012

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    I'm Sorry Daniel I Truly Am - Another friend i made on this roleplaying site was my characters husband for a while... Ok so through this roleplay site i have made many friends many...
    auttyb auttyb 18-21, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Fear - I met O in the summer of '08. The first time I saw him, all I thought was how arrogant he was and that I didn't want to work with him. But just my luck, we always worked...
    curiosa89 curiosa89 22-25, F Jan 30, 2013

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    ~ Myself ~ -                   At least I'm pretty sure she loved me. I know I hurt her. I do that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 9, 2009

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    It's A Shame To Tell... - But I can't deny that I have indeed done this many times and I am certainly not proud of this fact. It just seems that I destroy everything in my path...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    Feel So Bad That I Hurt Him!! - I made a friendship with this lovely man for about 6 months. He is 14 years older than me and i really didnt find him in any way...
    Angeleyes777 Angeleyes777 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    A Letter To Someone They Will Never Read. - Hello K. As I write you this, it has been three months since we've talked. Three months I can never forget, because although you have...
    Draganta Draganta 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    No one knows, not even me, what I would do if someone hurt someone I love!
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    I have never believed in internet relationships, so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much...
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    She didnt care about me anyways... So im not exactly sure why she was hurt
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M Apr 7

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    The truth is, that I don't love anybody. I care for people. And if you hurt them, you'll have to fear me more than you fear God.
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    I cheated on him because I felt neglected. I'm afraid he will never forgive me.
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    But he could of done something different. He didn't have to leave me, he wanted to. And that's something I have to carry with me now. When I think of him, I think of giving up.
    heavyeyebags heavyeyebags 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I called my boyfriend a baby when he was mad at me for going out when he wanted to go home to his employee . Now he's mad and slamming things and ignoring me. Called me...
    suemagoo86 suemagoo86 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    That person is myself of course, and my family members and friends depending on if I consider them MY PEOPLE or not. If I'm not in a bad mood maybe I'd let it go, unnoticed.
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I am always afraid of hurting those who I care about, and those who care about me. I am always afraid that I am going to do, or say something that will hurt them, that is why I...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I sat with GG when no one else there on the morning they called us to come over; things were getting worse. It's takes her a while to breath about five seconds before she inhales...
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 34 mins ago

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    I'm not looking for a relationship or silly online sex partner. I'm so confused and hurt right now. I just want someone to talk to, someone who can lend me a shoulder to lean on.
    sakura75 sakura75 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Its easy to say, that I am hard on myself, I always have been. Some say that I may be a bit too hard on myself, and that may be true too, but something that I am learning as some...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hey David. I'm just going to pretend that you're going to read this like I'm sending it to you... but maybe I'll be more open, because I know you never will. So first off... I...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ok, I have this list, you know? Of people I need to forgive who hurt me... Well, it suddenly occurred to me, that I also needed to make a list of people I may have hurt, some I may...
    SanitySister SanitySister 41-45, F Mar 21

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    Part 4: sorting out feelings After my EP guy left my hometown, I knew that since we had an affair things were now real. Now he was a part of my life, I just needed to sort out...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    My life has been a constant battle in so many ways and i feel i will always have to battle to keep as stable as i can and to stay away from toxic people. I don't hate people that...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    They never beat me in the face so that no one can see but my whole family hates me. They call me names and punish me. Like hitting me on my bum or giving me their leftovers cold as...
    SabrinaInTears SabrinaInTears 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It was a 5 year relationship. Mostly long distance. I loved her. But I wasn't happy anymore. There was something missing. The sex was bad and little things started to annoy me...
    vanillasmile82 vanillasmile82 31-35, F Mar 28

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    I loved you. But you liked her. You liked my bestfriend whom i always talk about you everyday. You didnt know how hurt i feel that day when you told me that you liked her. I tried...
    panda2323 panda2323 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    This is a long story, i'm not sure if i'll write it out in much detail. I'll try though. First of all, i'd like to say i'm not looking for advice or anyone to feel bad for me. I...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    This happen in high school (of course) we hung out a lot, we did mostly everything together. It was hard saying goodbye when i was accepted to my college and we were going to be...
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    I just broke up with a gf of 4 years. We lived together for 2 years. She is a bi and she has fallen in love with a guy at work. I am crushed when I caught her lying to cover up her...
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    I think I've done really well Moving on with my life and being happy! I know I am so much better off but I don't think a day has gone by without thinking about my ex. That's hard...
    ccpass22 ccpass22 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    This feeling is heartbreaking. Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever...
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    David, Sometimes I wonder what is is I’m supposed to do… what it is that would dull the pain I feel just being alive. It’s hard, going day to day without having the one...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My girlfriend relapsed. She has become a completely different person. We were working on building a life together. I've always been a strong hearted person, not letting a lot of...
    lefttomyself lefttomyself 26-30, M Mar 22

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    I still don't understand how it happened! So there was this guy in the military I meet him in December and we really got to know each other .. I ended up having sex with him it was...
    Gabydoll19 Gabydoll19 18-21, F Mar 25

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    So coming a couple weeks shy of our 3.5 year relationship we are separated due to court orders and hurt,embarrassment, anger n guilt and tragically, addiction. Life has become...
    Bdz24 Bdz24 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    But it's not supposed to hurt. Dissonance between the person I loved in my head and the real person who made me feel like I meant nothing at all. The end.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Apr 1

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    I loved her, she was the one I truly fell in love with. I thought about her every night, I had her countless selfies in my phone, I would scroll through her pictures, just staring...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    verylonely1 verylonely1 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 17

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    It hurts to love someone. And not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    This is hard because I never really was able to talk about it til now. In 2011 I received a phone call on the 4th of July. A mom who was outraged with me had thought her son ran...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6

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    It still hurts. The pain. Though its not physical pain, at this point I think I'd rather take the physical pain. At least that does not last long. This love story of mine was short...
    ceetasha23 ceetasha23 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Feelings fade away Memories stay Where I lay My head to say There's no such thing As missing a ring If it's truly an unruly thing No more attempts You get the hint Now...
    poundcake97 poundcake97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    When you love someone that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I met this wonderful woman online, she has two kids and I've been seeing her for a while. The more I get closer to her and the more I love her the more the little things that she...
    Casinova85 Casinova85 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    This experience has by far been the best thing that has ever happened to me, but it is also the thing that has caused me the most pain. I have known him for my entire life, but I...
    DeadZombiePerson DeadZombiePerson 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Despite that I am in a wonderful loving relationship, I am expecting it to fail, because good things just do not happen to me, and if something good does come along, it doesn't...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 21