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I Hurt Someone That Loved Me

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    Feel So Bad That I Hurt Him!!

    I made a friendship with this lovely man for about 6 months. He is 14 years older than me and i really didnt find him in any way attractive. I truly think that we are soulmates because our friendship was on such a deep level.  We understood each other from the...
    Angeleyes777 Angeleyes777 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    You Win, You Lose, It's The Same Old News.

    This is an apology I never got to make. We ended on a bad, bad note and I can't take it back.  I'm not going to go over the things that I feel you did or didn't do that helped pave the way for my leaving.  I can only say I'm sorry for the things that I wish I had done...
    someblonderedhead someblonderedhead 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    It's A Shame To Tell...

    But I can't deny that I have indeed done this many times and I am certainly not proud of this fact. It just seems that I destroy everything in my path. I don't mean to, but it doesn't matter. Intentionally or not, I always hurt those that might love me one way or another...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    I'm Sorry Daniel I Truly Am

    Another friend i made on this roleplaying site was my characters husband for a while... Ok so through this roleplay site i have made many friends many whom will be friends for life like the wonderful zack ^^ to name but one of the many but the point is i met a guy called daniel...
    auttyb auttyb 18-21, F Mar 13, 2013

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    If I Could Take All His Pain Away.....

    I WOULD IN A SPLIT SECOND. I WOULD TAKE ALL HIS PAIN, CONFUSION, LONELINESS, AND SADNESS AWAY. I WOULD CRAWL IN A DARKER HOLE THAN IM ALREADY IN AND TAKE IT ALL ON MYSELF SO HE COULD LIVE THE DREAM HE ONCE HAD WITH ME. SO HE COULD BE THE DADDY HE WAS WHEN HE WAS COMPLETE. WHEN HE...
    SILLYLOVERGIRL SILLYLOVERGIRL 31-35, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Fear

    I met O in the summer of '08. The first time I saw him, all I thought was how arrogant he was and that I didn't want to work with him. But just my luck, we always worked together, and as soon as we began talking, I realized he was not like I thought. We rapidly became good...
    curiosa89 curiosa89 22-25, F Jan 30, 2013

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    A Letter To Someone They Will Never Read.

    Hello K. As I write you this, it has been three months since we've talked. Three months I can never forget, because although you have moved on, and I'm sure you are very happy, I can't. I think about you every day; Wondering what your doing, hoping your having a good life, even...
    Draganta Draganta 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    ~ Myself ~

                      At least I'm pretty sure she loved me. I know I hurt her. I do that all the time & yet she keeps coming back for more abuse. Not sure why. She keeps trying to tell me how much...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 9, 2009

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    No one knows, not even me, what I would do if someone hurt someone I love!
    somedobutsomedont somedobutsomedont 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I have never believed in internet relationships, so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much...
    dorixoxo dorixoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    She didnt care about me anyways... So im not exactly sure why she was hurt
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M Apr 7

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    The truth is, that I don't love anybody. I care for people. And if you hurt them, you'll have to fear me more than you fear God.
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M Apr 11

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    But he could of done something different. He didn't have to leave me, he wanted to. And that's something I have to carry with me now. When I think of him, I think of giving up.
    heavyeyebags heavyeyebags 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I called my boyfriend a baby when he was mad at me for going out when he wanted to go home to his employee . Now he's mad and slamming things and ignoring me. Called me...
    suemagoo86 suemagoo86 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    This theory was recently tested by one of my old friends. But first some background information. I hate my family, but I'm protective over things that are mine. My family is MY...
    lostfollower lostfollower 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I am always afraid of hurting those who I care about, and those who care about me. I am always afraid that I am going to do, or say something that will hurt them, that is why I...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Why would you hurt someone on purpose? How does that make you feel better about yourself? I don't get it, making someone cry and self-harm, possibly commit suicide. How can you do...
    Thatbrokengirl1 Thatbrokengirl1 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Scared to be hurt and scared that I might be the one to hurt someone else.
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This is one thing that im proud of. I couldnt even hit my friend even if he asks me to. If i do happen to hurt someone i try to help, i cant stand seeing people in pain.
    admiral14 admiral14 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    As the title says...I recently fell in love with someone. Sparkles are in the air. He woos me and my feet is off the ground. I feel so excited to see him. Even talking to him gives...
    sleeplessin sleeplessin 31-35, F 1 Response 39 mins ago

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    I would just loved to be loved.
    areyoujoking202 areyoujoking202 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Its easy to say, that I am hard on myself, I always have been. Some say that I may be a bit too hard on myself, and that may be true too, but something that I am learning as some...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Hey David. I'm just going to pretend that you're going to read this like I'm sending it to you... but maybe I'll be more open, because I know you never will. So first off... I...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Part 4: sorting out feelings After my EP guy left my hometown, I knew that since we had an affair things were now real. Now he was a part of my life, I just needed to sort out...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    My life has been a constant battle in so many ways and i feel i will always have to battle to keep as stable as i can and to stay away from toxic people. I don't hate people that...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It was a 5 year relationship. Mostly long distance. I loved her. But I wasn't happy anymore. There was something missing. The sex was bad and little things started to annoy me...
    vanillasmile82 vanillasmile82 31-35, F Mar 28

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    I just broke up with a gf of 4 years. We lived together for 2 years. She is a bi and she has fallen in love with a guy at work. I am crushed when I caught her lying to cover up her...
    miknat miknat 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I think I've done really well Moving on with my life and being happy! I know I am so much better off but I don't think a day has gone by without thinking about my ex. That's hard...
    ccpass22 ccpass22 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    This feeling is heartbreaking. Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever...
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Clean for 1 week but I cut again. I can't do it, Come on try to build up my confidence but I'll stay the Same. Ever listened to Hurt by Johnny Cash? Well, "everyone I know goes...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    David, Sometimes I wonder what is is I’m supposed to do… what it is that would dull the pain I feel just being alive. It’s hard, going day to day without having the one...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F Apr 14

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    I sat with GG when no one else there on the morning they called us to come over; things were getting worse. It's takes her a while to breath about five seconds before she inhales...
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    So I started talking to this guy late June of last year. He was great and I fell for him very fast. I got into a very bad car accident and was lucky to get out of it with no severe...
    Rachellie Rachellie 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I still don't understand how it happened! So there was this guy in the military I meet him in December and we really got to know each other .. I ended up having sex with him it was...
    Gabydoll19 Gabydoll19 18-21, F Mar 25

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    So coming a couple weeks shy of our 3.5 year relationship we are separated due to court orders and hurt,embarrassment, anger n guilt and tragically, addiction. Life has become...
    Bdz24 Bdz24 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    But it's not supposed to hurt. Dissonance between the person I loved in my head and the real person who made me feel like I meant nothing at all. The end.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Apr 1

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    I loved her, she was the one I truly fell in love with. I thought about her every night, I had her countless selfies in my phone, I would scroll through her pictures, just staring...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    We were together for two years and I swear I've never felt this way about anyone else. He is the love of my life...I can't ever deny that. I fought long and hard for our...
    chescafrxn chescafrxn 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    My name’s John, and on January 2nd, 2014, I met the guy of my dreams. Yes, I said guy. Yes, I am gay. I’ve told quite a few people but haven’t really got around to announcing...
    hallasholm101 hallasholm101 18-21 Apr 11

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    She was my dearest friend and I loved her like I love all my close friends. We did everything together. She was like a sister to me. It still hurts me to know that while I'd have...
    engarde12 engarde12 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It hurts when see someone say i love you and never act it ever. I want to feel loved as hell why i am always the one who say i love you and even mention the name of the one i am in...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It hurts to love someone. And not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    This is hard because I never really was able to talk about it til now. In 2011 I received a phone call on the 4th of July. A mom who was outraged with me had thought her son ran...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6

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    Feelings fade away Memories stay Where I lay My head to say There's no such thing As missing a ring If it's truly an unruly thing No more attempts You get the hint Now...
    poundcake97 poundcake97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    When you love someone that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I met this wonderful woman online, she has two kids and I've been seeing her for a while. The more I get closer to her and the more I love her the more the little things that she...
    Casinova85 Casinova85 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they...
    abhisham001 abhisham001 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 25

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    3 long years of ups and downs. when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no...
    js224224 js224224 16-17, F Mar 26

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