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I Hurt When I Know Others Are In Pain

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    Sad And Helpless

    I feel so sad and helpless when I know my friends are suffering for what seems to be selfish motivations on the part of others. It saddens me that there is absolutely nothing I can do to help or change the situation. Why can't people just be kind to each other?
    Zoranna Zoranna 61-65, F Dec 8, 2012

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    It may seem like your alone

    but I can tell what your feeling most of the time people say "you don't know what it's like" I do know I understand what is happening I don't know how but I can tell if someone is in pain or what kind of mood they are In even though I don understand how... I'm trying to figure...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F Nov 13

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    With Some Exceptions.

    If someone hurts me, I won't hurt when they do. When I say "hurt me" I don't mean saying something sort of mean. I mean when someone completely crushes you. I don't care if they get hurt. They had it coming. I wonder who I hurt to deserve to be in pain... Probably a lot of...
    bluecupcakes bluecupcakes 18-21, F Jan 12, 2013

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    Going through school to be a counsellor

    for Trans* people who have been abused or have addictions is something I really want to do. Though when people are in pain, I can't help but carry their burden with them.
    JadedCthulhu JadedCthulhu 26-30, T 1 Response Jul 27

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    There are so many people

    who are suffering. I hate to see them suffer and often feel helpless for not being able to help them in anyway. I wish I could take everyone's pain so that no one has to suffer. I get emotional reading about people who are depressed,suicidal, severely ill, poverty stricken...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    What Point In A Person'S Life Where Need To End It?

    I often wonder when I read stories about depression and PTSD and other disorders. Its a highly complicated situation where the one who is trying to sort this out has so many layers of pain, memories of things that happened in the past. Depression is something that stems from...
    redtailfree48 redtailfree48 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    My Brother Michael

    He was three years younger than me but we were in tune together more than we were with all the others. I don't know what it was, it just was. We were the only two with auburn hair, the others were all blondes. Maybe that was it.... No matter how far apart from each other we were...
    Zoranna Zoranna 61-65, F 4 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    Hurt When I Know Others Are In Pain

    I Hurt When I Know Others Are In Pain because either I caused their pain or they don't deserve the pain even though they might be the worst person ever.Pain is by far the worst feeling and I've felt it for a long time and it's crazy to see someone else suffer too.
    ApatheticWoe ApatheticWoe 13-15, F Jan 5, 2013

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    It Hurts Me More Than It Should.

    So I've realized that a very good friend of mine is having some issues. Then I noticed another good friend is also facing some difficulties. Then I notice someone else is facing adversities. It's just going on like this. Both online and off. I feel a strange ache when other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    My Loved Ones

    With the people I care about,be they friends or family,I share their sorrows as well as their joys. I cry when they cry,rejoice when they laugh and find love.
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F Dec 12, 2012

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    It's Had To Detach Myself From The Suffering Of Others

    Especially hearing about the suffering of innocent children and animals....I can't take it and some things make so upset I cry. The world that actually exists and the world that would have to exist for me to feel content couldn't be more distant from each other. I know there is...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2013

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    But i have to care first.

    And be listened to. Sad to have rules. Sad society made them needed.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 13

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