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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 18-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22, 2014

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-17, F Nov 4, 2006

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    My best friend who I lived with never said goodbye. I moved away and he never came out of his room...it's horrible being without him. I just want him back in my life. I am all...
    JaylynnDaereon JaylynnDaereon 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I wish the world was filled with rose colored glasses. I wish that everyone could find their own happiness in life. Emotional ups and downs take tolls on everyone. It makes me...
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    Okay so a little background information first... my boyfriend and I began seeing each other in June of 2012, right after I graduated highschool. right around the time I turned...
    meeeghanp77 meeeghanp77 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    Where do I begin? ? da da da da da da... NOT!! This ain't a love song and he drives me nuts with his childish frigging attitude! !!@#$$#@ I want to scream my head off and have...
    Anamazing Anamazing 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Omg did I say that?!?! :o oh yes I did, I admit it. I want it!!!! But I refuse to tell him :/ he'll be okay tho. What he doesn't know won't hurt him.
    DessyLove DessyLove 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I remember how critical my mother was of ME, all my life, but you know what I found out later? In fact, 50 years later? When people are very critical of others, it has NOTHING to...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F Apr 23

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    Sometimes you need to take a step back and find out who you really are.You wrote your own script and no one can play your role better than yourself.Know what makes you happy and...
    selfdiscovery101 selfdiscovery101 22-25, F Apr 6

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    Most people either stab me in the back or stop talking to me so im done getting hurt
    Bubblegum763 Bubblegum763 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    My past two relationships were like that. One day we were fine, no fights, no problems, nothing then one day they just stop talking to me. Lucas and Ken were my last two and they...
    ceceophie ceceophie 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just last summer my mother, my own flesh and blood, left. She just up and left. I had to find out the day before I was going to see her from a friend. She wasn't even going to tell...
    IAmAPainfulTruth IAmAPainfulTruth 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    You know that I like a boy and recently I found out that I actually dream about him.And everytime when I dream about him I can remember all the details from the dream.It's sweet...
    loveandmorelove loveandmorelove 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    A few nights apartTears at my heartI will miss himA game must be playedOne of deceitUntil I can have more of himA day is too long, an hour, a minuteWe are together in our hearts...
    KuriosityKills KuriosityKills 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Where to start :( I've been dating my partner for 7 months. We are very very different. If I tell him that the sky is blue, he will argue with me and tell me it's green. Lately...
    soConfused86 soConfused86 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    im kind of considering it. but again i love my husband so much. but i just dont wanna cry anymore. plus i dont want donnie not being able to do daddy things with his father...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Crazy but yet lost in his own thoughts
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I hate seeing my family in so much pain and I especially hate seeing my mother in so much pain, I'd so much rather it be me.
    ruthlessbitch13 ruthlessbitch13 22-25, F Apr 19

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    ...and then drop by every once in a while to make you feel it. :(
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Portuguese Dance;)
    Treasure7 Treasure7 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I don't know what the point is of my husband coming home from work in such a foul ugly mood and taking it out on us Spending my night fighting is no fun and not over anything just...
    Rena4 Rena4 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I've never loved someone so much... Ever
    heymad13 heymad13 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    My first post will have a brief explanation of what happened... Day 10 20/4 11:18am oh god, I miss him so much. Went through the photos of us I have on my phone and I miss the...
    odijay odijay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I am so confused. It was my first year there I knew no one. For the first couple days I sat alone didn't talk to anyone. Until he talked to me. Mr. J he was nice and mature for...
    tinygirlz tinygirlz 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I'm going through a break up and I'm trying to deal with my heart break by writing how I'm feeling in my notes... Just a background of what happened, my boyfriend had been going...
    odijay odijay 18-21, F Apr 20

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    I know I sometimes seem to make him jealous when I talk about my new boyfriend years after him but we broke up months ago for a good reason. Well, it wasn't my fault that my ex...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I fell in love with a guy not to long ago, whom is 23 and I'm 21...We met in early November, hit it off well. It was like we were made for eachother. We went on many dates, and...
    lovablegirlxo lovablegirlxo 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Day 11 21/4 8:09am it's pouring raining and I miss him more than ever... I miss hugging him and cuddling him from behind... I feel so depressed and miserable... What do I do? Why...
    odijay odijay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21