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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 19-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-18, F Nov 4, 2006

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Today... Me and my bf were having sex and I kinda felt like I had to pee so JUST IN CASE I went to the potty and went potty and I went back to his room and sat there and said hang...
    FandJ15 FandJ15 16-17, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    God I love being with Tyler <3 I cherish everyday I have with him. He's amazing, I love everything about him. He's funny, he's smart , he's caring, he understands me and he's...
    Meganrosee Meganrosee 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    We are childhood friends, our families are really close and we used to see each other everyday. When I turned eight my family moved away. As I grew up I completely forgot about...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F Jul 21

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    I really do. Since he doesn't want a girlfriend and doesn't like me in that way then I told myself not to like him and just to be friends and it kinda worked for a while although I...
    musicislife00 musicislife00 13-15, F Jul 13

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    My boyfriend forced me to sleep with him i new i gonnq be able to push him off he went to the army he is 10 times stronger than me and at the time I couldnt get my head around it...
    marshmel marshmel 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just got home one month ago from seeing him 2000 miles apart. I just bought my plane ticket for my Jan. trip to go see him again....I feel so loved with him :-)
    foreveraway1 foreveraway1 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Well, there is this guy that has been staying by my side for about 4-5 years. Even when I was dating someone else. He's seen what they've done to me and he would do anything to...
    PikaLover13 PikaLover13 18-21, F Jul 10

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    This sounds pathetic, but I'm willing to admit.Yes, I'm sort of lost. And it's completely crazy.I will for sure find myself again.But at the moment I'm dwelling in that not so...
    TheWeepingWoman TheWeepingWoman 36-40, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I've been with my husband since I was 18. We met our freshman year of college and have been together ever since. I love him, but I feel like the relationship has gone on longer...
    ejb245 ejb245 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My Fiance and I have been together for 5 years. He has had his dog for 7 years. He's very protective and barks constantly, he doesn't like strangers and will bite and break skin if...
    lana089 lana089 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I dont hate you... I dont dislike you either. I guess i miss you.. Sounds silly huh? You had a way with ur words.. U said things that made those words come to life and it just...
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Going through school to be a counsellor for Trans* people who have been abused or have addictions is something I really want to do. Though when people are in pain, I can't help...
    JadedCthulhu JadedCthulhu 26-30, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    He makes my heart stop when he looks at me, when he's away I feel like part of me is missing. I never thought I'd ever feel this way about a man again but it's hit me hard, if only...
    inboots inboots 36-40, F Jul 21

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    And it's driving me crazy. Why won't he get out of my head?! I was at my wonderful friends birthday last night. She lives on a farm and it's such a beautiful place. We had a fire...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F Jul 13

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    sweet dream holding me with soft cloud arms, its grip so tight i can't move…but its alright. i can't breathe…but its ok. I'm floating…and my body is numb…but this is where...
    ADRASTEIA ADRASTEIA 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Just the other day , I had someone hit me up , pretend to be interested in chatting , even send a pic , and as soon as I gave them a compliment they ran and blocked me. People...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M Jul 17

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    Just glad and thankful i've got this everyday
    JassmineEvelynRoy JassmineEvelynRoy 16-17, F Jul 9

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    the one who came by and talked about where he grew up
    liberty2 liberty2 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love him and forgave him after lying and cheating. &He's hiding something from me for the past week. I sorta lost hope and gave up but i dont really mind. We made it this far in...
    xkLOVESjx xkLOVESjx 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    How do I end it with my MM? He's been a jerk lately. I've forgiven him many times. Last week I forgave him for his online searches...he actually has kept his promise but he also...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I am 19 years old. Two years ago, when I was 17, I met someone who would end up completely altering who I thought I was. I was a happy girl. I enjoyed being single and flirting...
    sheonlysighs sheonlysighs 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel inadequate in my attempts to convey myself to him. Even though I have a passion for writing, I can't seem to find the right words to tell him what I need. Furthermore, in...
    SunsetMoon SunsetMoon 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Hey guys did I told u guys about what happened when he came from the trip so we talked and talked and he told me what he did there .. he didn’t drank , didn’t went to that...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Derek surprised me today. He took half the day off to go to yet another dreaded doctors appointment with me. Seeing as things went relatively well, Derek thought it a good idea to...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F Jul 23

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    I am not married, not yet, but hope to be in the near future. My boyfriend is a retired infantry soldier who served two tours in Iraq. I have only known him since he was retired...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    He confuses me. Some days, I swear i see clear hints that he likes me. Other days, it's as if he's avoiding me. I can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing i think about...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I love gaming. I've always found it easier to hang around guys and I had grown up gaming since I was a kid. I made a Steam account a few months ago and I game on it almost everyday...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Why do I feel like this? Months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We had a strainful and failing relationship, a lot of it from the getgo. I was in shambles and in hell. I cried...
    ImmortalxApathy ImmortalxApathy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    my story is weird I know, but I really need help and advice cause no one that knows this story really gets what I'm going through...I hope you guys will :) I've been single for...
    Storyteller1234567 Storyteller1234567 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    So, I last saw my OM on the 4th and when he didn't reply my texts for 4 days, he does today for "I need 'it' " whoa. I know that we tease each other about using one another but...
    lonelysara1211 lonelysara1211 31-35, F Jul 9

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    My mum said something that really struck a chord with me. I have been really hurt by somebody in my past who has left a mark on me. I don't like to talk about it anymore. I just...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I am really sensitive when it comes to hate about my favorite celebrity Katy Perry. It really upsets me when people hate on her, and say negative things about her. For example...
    KPfan29 KPfan29 13-15, F Jul 22

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    I've never been like this before him, so ****** up I can't even sleep. But without him laying next to me it's like I'm not really complete. I used to be strong, nothing fazed me, i...