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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 63 People

    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 19-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22, 2014

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-18, F Nov 4, 2006

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    I'm still lost without him... God help me forget this man that has hurt me and battered me so, I don't understand why I still love him so... Life shouldn't be so hard to face...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 2 years and I have considered breaking up with him before. People tell me I can do so much better. He gives me **** for trying to get...
    kirbyparker kirbyparker 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I am miserable with him. We don't have any common Interest. What I find enjoyable he says is stupid and I can't even enjoy it, I.e., tv shows. I just want him out of my life. I don...
    krazykaylove krazykaylove 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we love each other. There is however an inbalance in our relation as he feels a lot stronger for me than I feel for him...
    Alexandra34 Alexandra34 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    if only we had more in common we probably would of still been together he was so nice and sweet to me but it just wasnt mean to be.......im so hurt but ill never forget him and...
    sweetwitchy sweetwitchy 26-30, F Feb 19

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    BOUND YET FREENo words to write you as they all fail to convey the deepest longing I have for you. No sounds to speak for you because nothing is as sweet as your voice in my ear...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    That hurting is a sample of the hurt going on in others. That sample is given to you so you can try to untie it and cure it. I do this whenever I realize it.
    cheesesausage cheesesausage 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    I can't remember to forget you I keep forgetting I should let you go But when you look at me, the only memory, Is us kissing in the moonlight I can't remember to forget you
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Is there anyone on here experiencing this? People laugh at me whenever I go out . No matter where I am or what I am wearing! It's been going on for quit sometime and I am a grown...
    karmicsouls karmicsouls 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a 5 month old baby. he works during the week so i understand that hes tired but he does nothing around the house or to help with...
    beccih90 beccih90 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    we spent time together he bought me coffee we went out to a house he's building since he hasn't done things in a year he was a minute man but he's big i have a dancers body so he...
    carolinespecht4 carolinespecht4 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Why is he texting me on valentines day and he got a whole girlfriend?? He should be with his girl not worry about what I'm doing he so weird.
    HisTrapQueen HisTrapQueen 16-17, F Feb 14

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    Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence and absence to value presence.
    mstv1112 mstv1112 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I don't have faith that my relationship will last.
    malishka123 malishka123 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 7

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    I miss him. It hurts more when he's around than my happiness being with him? I guess I feel negative emotions more? Or maybe I'm just weird. I miss him so much but know when he...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    I braved the chilly night in my warm Russian hat, Lana Del Rey singing sweetly to me all the while. I hadn't planned on going out, I never have to, but once I am out its hard for...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    I am in a heck of a situation. I am dating someone with aspergers. He recently decided out of no where he wanted to break up. When he breaks up with someone he disappears off the...
    littlemisspoe littlemisspoe 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm a gay guy in my sophomore year of high school. At the beginning of my freshman year in high school I saw a boy named Josh in my multi-media design class. I kinda liked him at...
    smellyfeetguy20 smellyfeetguy20 18-21, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    The Unfinished Story We both met each other back in college, which was like 12yrs ago. It was not at all love at first sight. I didn't like him at all initially. He was the most...
    desiredangel desiredangel 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I'm 16 years old and a tenth grader. I'm in love with my teacher of the same gender. She is in her late 30's and married with a single child. She was my class teacher in grade six...
    simz1209 simz1209 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    I know, I know, great right? Yet another confused teenager thinking their over hormone driven feelings mean they are in love. Typical right? Let me tell you my story maybe you can...
    camomeal camomeal 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    God, help me! I honestly have no clue about what to do anymore! The only thing that I'm sure of is, I am head over heels for a man and it's breaking my heart. I didn't know that...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I wonder why people think liking someone because they are nice is a bad thing? I tell people I love my bf because he's not only kind to me but to everyone else. It inspires me to...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    It was 15 months ago that we met on here and started talking. It was 14 months ago that I realized I was getting attached. It was 13 months ago in which I knew I was falling in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Feb 7

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    So two years ago (when I was still married to my ex) I sent a former friend, Lester a facebook message asking him how he was doing and if he was happy. We sent messages back and...
    winnhasmyheart winnhasmyheart 41-45, M Feb 14

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    I married my scorpio man 6 months ago and landed the catch of a lifetime !!!! It is No easy task dating a Scorpio Man . They like their love interest to have an air of mystery...
    christmasjones christmasjones 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 19

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    everyday is just another day of being without him. i keep falling more and more in love with him, and he loves me, so it should be a great thing- but there's a catch. we are more...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    we met online. I have known him for almost a year now but I got to know that he's married only a month back. he said that he couldn't lie to himself and me anymore. he said that I...
    heartonfire20 heartonfire20 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    She was cute and would come up to me give me kisses on the cheek and chat one night after seeing her there numerous times i got the nerve to push thing a lil further she was pretty...
    pantysnifa pantysnifa 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    I really regret pushing away that one person that was so important to me. We got to know each other via internet and found out we had quite a few things in common. Almost half a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    From 17 to 23, I was never alone for long, a 'serial monogamist' of sorts. When I and my most current ex broke up in 2013, I decided that it was time for me to work on myself. I...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F Jan 29

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