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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 18-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 22-25, F Mar 22, 2014

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-17, F Nov 4, 2006

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Okay I Met my boyfriend in January of 2013. We've been together for three years and sadly we are probably going to be ending things soon. If you read my other stories you'd know we...
    QueenCOLE29 QueenCOLE29 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel like I'm drifting away from him. Due to my heart condition, and the sound vibrations affecting me in band, I have to go to a different room within the building and do an...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It really does hurt. Especially the ones where you've talked nearly every day for months on end and they all of a sudden leave. You learn to get through it and you dont let it...
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I cant get over a guy I crushed on in the past. I still like him, but in society and my religion to god it would never be acceptable. I dont want to break gods rules, I would...
    figureskaterr96 figureskaterr96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am so in love with my boyfriend of 10 months, Kyle Lucas. I have known him since i was in sixth grade and am currently a senior. He is nineteen and I am seventeen. He was my...
    ikhfkef ikhfkef 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    here is my experience: I was in relationship with a person with NPD, fortunately i realized that he was a narcist in an early phase of oir relationship, when I was trying to break...
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Hi guys, I haven't posted in here for a couple of months so I thought I'd update you all on my life at the present moment! So since my last post, I had spoken with my teacher...
    BlackOpium BlackOpium 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I thought I would take a nap since I didn't sleep much last night Im almost asleep and feel empty. My dad is dead. No one seems to care. It's like his life never was. Like he...
    strawberyblond strawberyblond 70+, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm married and he's in a relationship. We met at work and ended up having an affair. He's everything I have wanted in a man. He's someone I waited my whole life for and I would...
    forlani000 forlani000 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    (LONG RAMBLING AHEAD) I met my boyfriend in September 2014 when the game Destiny came out. I was on facebook looking for a group to do my first ever raid with and he was one of the...
    Rosethewolf Rosethewolf 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My best friend keeps making jokes about how disgusting girls are who don't shave. I don't shave everyday or even every week, I only shave when I'm going out or going to be with...
    rainbro rainbro 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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     ... but of course I'd never tell him that. I met Luke junior year of high school. He and my friend Haley went to homecoming together and I was head-over-heels the moment I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    So basically, i already have a bf, long story short i kinda like his friend more than him. But i cant find the courage to break up with him, my friends keeps saying im lucky to...
    Maristelle Maristelle 13-15, F a week ago

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    Ok tonight is very hard. Just when I think I'm steady on my feet and feeling like I can catch a breath....BAM....I'm flooded with so much emotion. The pain and hurt and longing...
    ElephantSH0ES ElephantSH0ES 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm in love with him,we've been go through this hard time for the past two years,i love him more than I've ever loved a man.he's special he loved his wife,but he loves me too.we...
    Sallina71 Sallina71 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4

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    First post! Here goes... I fell in love with him the moment I met him. I knew it deep down, but couldn't bring myself to go for him. He is dangerous. Charming. Handsome. We are...
    MiniMeA MiniMeA 16-17, F Feb 3

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    As i write this, i am in an on-again, off-again relationship with a Scorpio man. it started back in june 2013 when we first met and we both agree it felt like we have known each...
    thisisjesso thisisjesso 22-25, F Feb 1

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    its me that complicates things i have serious trust issues i met a guy a few months ago and he seemed amazing we had such a laugh and we were gonna meet the next day after talking...
    nicholajns6 nicholajns6 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Taqiyya TaqiyyaTaqiyya is a concept and a reality that non-Muslims must bear in mind when reading or listening to the words of Muslims. Taqiyya (also spelled taqiya or taqiyyah...
    EugenielaBorgia EugenielaBorgia 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    i miss van13h so much i am ******* lonely without him and i loved him so ******* much i wish he would just talk to me again and be my boyfriend again i have had one boy break my...
    13bi123 13bi123 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    For some f*cking odd reason I always attract submissive males (not extremist subs, but the kind of guys who do whatever you say. No independent passion. And I'm sorry if I'm using...
    Maricopa Maricopa 18-21 4 Responses Jan 26

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    My husband and I have been married for 3 years now. We love each other dearly. There is some behavior I'm worried about though. He has always been a little on the antisocial side...
    scruffynerf scruffynerf 22-25, F Jan 26

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    This man I met in July '15 has basically built a friendship with me that lead to more in October (without commitment). Well I fell in love with him. This issue is, he is mysterious...
    melibear melibear 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    She fell in love with his courage, his sincerity and his flaming self respect. She loves him the way she loves the ocean, with pride and fear. She fell in love with how he...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    As of late, I got a boyfriend! He is simply amazing, with his simple features, amazing voice, and oh- his personality is favourite! I may be young, but already I can't wait to get...
    LovelyDonoght LovelyDonoght 13-15, F Jan 24

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