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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 62 People

    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22, 2014

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 18-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-17, F Nov 4, 2006

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    So u met this guy on Instagram that lives down the street from me.. He has his own car, job, apartment..he's cute.. Everything I want in a guy. So sweet and precious..so we're...
    Victoria1212 Victoria1212 18-21, F Mar 2

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    A frequent thing to say around here. Mostly about women from a mans perspective. "Pff... women. Cant live with them, cant live without them" :D But it is probably also said by...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Mar 10

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    Cant Stand When People Judge Without Knowing You
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I have this one guy friend who I adore and used to have a crush on. We had a conversation one day about how he knows I liked him and wanted to have sex with him, and it was a very...
    VanityHorrorx VanityHorrorx 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Wow he is gorgeous! I saw him today and all I could think about was wanting to rip his clothes off and have my wicked way with him... Horny preggers doesn't even begin to describe...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F Mar 24

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    I've been enjoying this beautiful spring dry Texas heat! God I'm in love!!! But I hate to admit it I miss him. And I know I shouldn't.
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 26-30, F Mar 17

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    It's like one day we were talking on the phone, saying how we just couldn't wait any longer to hold eachother, to see eachothers face again without a computer screen holding back...
    pillsofdiamond pillsofdiamond 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I see so many woman who enjoy suffering. They hate and generate it out to everyone around them. Why do woman get turned by S&M? Just look at the sales of Fifty Shades Of Grey. Good...
    grgbyce978 grgbyce978 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    Why do you leave when I need you the most. I sill miss you even tho you broke my heart. I don't need you anymore but I still want you. I know you will never come back to me so this...
    nekozgirl nekozgirl 13-15, F Mar 12

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    Be the master of your petty annoyances and conserve your energies for the big, worthwhile things. It isn't the mountain ahead that wears you out - it's the grain of sand in your...
    MrsZacEfron MrsZacEfron 31-35, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    Falling in love ? What's the point if he doesn't even like you back. When you're so deep in love that you can't get up. When you think someone will catch you but there's no one in...
    holyteenobserver holyteenobserver 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    It's happening again. I'm slowly having to fight for my bf's attention. ANd I think he's lying to me about it too. If he would just say he's busy...but no,he thinks its cool to...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 17

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    I'm breaking up with my bf. I just know he doesn't love me at all. When you love someone, no one else matters. No other woman. You wouldn't be fantasizing about your past. You...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 19

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    I want to have sex with my best friend, but I have a boyfriend, and one of my friends likes him. I guess you could say it's pretty impossible.
    justlivingitup justlivingitup 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    im still wounded from all the times people have left me,, I can't even trust anyone
    toxicprincess101 toxicprincess101 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I hate it, it is very very rude.
    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Treasure7 Treasure7 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Treasure7 Treasure7 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I use to love to dance. I miss it.
    unreciprocated unreciprocated 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Me: tyler where'd u get the money to buy this*holds up the necklace* Tyler:thats not important just take it Me:tyler I want to know Tyler:its not important Me:tell me the...
    mythlover mythlover 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am 24 years old female married at age 21 got my daughter at 22, was happily living with my In laws well taken care of, My husband and i separate 16 months now for the past three...
    amandapersaud amandapersaud 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    It's funny how time flows fast. I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him...
    NayaSakura NayaSakura 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have a 1.5 years old niece.. My sister got her kidney failure while he was born. She gets three dialysis a week.. I live in distant city for the job.... I feel him every day and...
    khansalman58 khansalman58 26-30 14 hrs ago

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    I walked out in the living room and my dad was on the phone so I asked him if he minded if I played Xbox, he said ya go ahead. So I turned it on and I went back to my room and...
    Qwertyuijoe Qwertyuijoe 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I Am In Love With Twodifferent Men At The Same Time I need advice. I am in love with two different men at the same time. I am almost married but have been carrying on an 'on again...
    Vodkating Vodkating 31-35, F Mar 1

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    I need advice now more than ever. I recently found out that the former teacher I am in love with has a girlfriend (although he hasn’t confirmed this, I am 100% sure). I do not...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    I'm a very insecure person. I've been this way for as long as I can remember. I'm a sensitive person and get my feelings hurt very easily. When I was young, I would get picked...
    JennieThorne JennieThorne 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 1

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