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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-18, F Nov 4, 2006

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22, 2014

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 19-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I've never posted anything on here before, but at this point I simply don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 2.5 years now, and both of us are in...
    makitath makitath 18-21, F Jan 14

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    i love him cus we had each other for like 6 years.. but im not in love with him. i cannot feel the feeling of being "in-love". in fact, i never did experience that. i felt so sad...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    He always comes back and I always go out of my way to reach him. I need to let him go. I'm only hurting myself talking to him. There's been too much time between us now... Just let...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I noticed for years that if one of my dads siblings or one of my siblings who live elsewhere call him, he chats with them a good while. But for years now, if I call and he answers...
    compassionateear compassionateear 46-50 6 days ago

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    I feel like my friends and family each have so many reasons to hurt. My aunt died recently and although it was hard for me to lose her, it was even harder to watch my mom go...
    hdb5997 hdb5997 16-17 Jan 13

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    Well there is one in particular. She has a friend a little older than us, and whenever they are together, she ignores me. I just follow her and act really shy and hurt but she...
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 12

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    Laying here listening to music with my headphones on. I start to hear screams, scream that sounds from outside, there coming from a far, outside... I decide to pause the music so I...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F Jan 18

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    When people ask bribes , they build followers. When someone talks about rights, he or she gets ignored. Such people become wealthy, and the latter are asked questions " Is he/she...
    babitgurung babitgurung 26-30, M Jan 15

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a 5 month old baby. he works during the week so i understand that hes tired but he does nothing around the house or to help with...
    beccih90 beccih90 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    my 3 year relationship just ended. and its because my exbf cheated on me with a guy. ive known him as a straight guy since college, i dnt know what to do. i love him so much, but...
    orangeKiatkiat orangeKiatkiat 22-25, F Jan 2

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    we spent time together he bought me coffee we went out to a house he's building since he hasn't done things in a year he was a minute man but he's big i have a dancers body so he...
    carolinespecht4 carolinespecht4 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I FINALLY got my Visa and will travel in 10 days :) I just can't wait to start my new life with my love !! Yaaay !!!
    Beyrouth Beyrouth 22-25, F Jan 7

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    Hello, I am new here. I had something happen to me that I have never seen before and just wanted to talk about. I was beginning to heal from it because of reading other people's...
    Fresh1414 Fresh1414 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I need help with something. I cannot decide if my teacher likes me back or not, so Im going to go through all the events that have happened with me and him, and I would really...
    SilencesLullaby SilencesLullaby 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I really am hoping this is my last post on this topic... To continue off from my previous post, today I just dropped off his family to the airport. This vacation was the hardest...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I always thought that nothing else matters if 2 people love each other and they feel happy together... It doesn't matter if they are from different countries , speak different...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F Jan 8

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    When he looked at my eyes the very first time, I knew it was something different. I still can't explain that feeling-something so strong and different that I didn't have any...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F Jan 3

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    I am going to be 30 in 16 days. I have 2 wonderful children who are my world. I grew up in a rough home, moved out at 16. I felt I had to, or I was going to end up just like my...
    sohurtnow sohurtnow 26-30 Jan 15

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      Even I am 24, I am thinking about suicide. Maybe it is childish, but I have enough of my problems. I was with the guy, we are from Poland. He is .. I do not know... HE...
    Meisoun Meisoun 22-25 Jan 20

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    I feel very silly and awkward to post this, but it has been bothering me for a while now and when I found this group I was overjoyed. You all seem like such nice people and it...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    This is a lengthy post I am about to write and am doing so mainly out of desperation just to vent how I am feeling at this moment because I am drowning in a sea of unhealthy...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F Jan 6

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    Simply put.. I too am a victim of loving my best friend. For almost 6 years now.. I feel I'm too old for this but love has no boundaries.. he used to tell me about all..but...
    DrGeorgie DrGeorgie 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I want a boyfriend but tired of getting hurt. I just want a relationship in which the guy loves respects and adores me. Ride or die with me. Im always the one riding or dying...
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 Jan 23

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    **This is probably the longest, not even story, just recounting of my fondest memories of adoring the sky. I'm warning you now..** I was the kid who could remain fixated on the...
    SheSaidx SheSaidx 22-25, F Jan 10

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    My ex is coming tonight to get the rest of his stuff. I saw him yesterday and he told me he loves me and thinks about me every night. He said I'll always have a place in his heart...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm probably the most selfish person to have ever lived on this planet. I know that very well. I take advantage of peoples kindness but I don't do it to intentionally hurt them...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Jan 18

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    From 17 to 23, I was never alone for long, a 'serial monogamist' of sorts. When I and my most current ex broke up in 2013, I decided that it was time for me to work on myself. I...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F 2 days ago

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