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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 19-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-18, F Nov 4, 2006

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    The first day we met... I didn't think I'd ever be in love with him lol but ..isn't that how all of the greatest love stories begin..with a surprise. The thing was sub consciously...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 Aug 3

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    It's funny how a boring conversation with nothing to really say between someone. Can turn into the most amazing best times of my life. I honestly don't know what i would do with...
    XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX 16-17, F Aug 6

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    Idk what I would do without him I honestly would love to be with him in a heart be, but with everything going on and my past. I just think its best we wait and just wait until were...
    XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX 16-17, F Aug 6

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    His feelings for me changed somewhere along the way. I stayed very much in love with him and he started just wanting to spend less and less time with me. He became more distant...
    Dovesery Dovesery 22-25, F a week ago

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    I get that a lot. I don't have many friends, so when I get ignored by them it hurts. What also bothers me is when we make plans and they say one thing one day and then the day...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F Aug 2

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    I was ignored all my life unless someone wanted something from me so I think everyone hates to be alone but for me it hits harder because of my past. My friends I feel are always...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    It really bothers me when I hear people judging other people. Who made you King? No one in this world reserves a right to judge anyone because no one in this world is perfect.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F Aug 11

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    There are so many people that judge me for being pregnant when they don't even know my story. 😒😔😞😣
    AllysaLee AllysaLee 13-15, F Aug 11

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    I have been chatting a lot lately and it makes me mad when people just leave and don't say brb or I'll be back in a little bit please just do something to say your leaving before...
    create1908 create1908 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know that's right lol.....no woman should have to ever depend on a man or guy just to be happy.....its more to life than just finding someone to be with. Just be happy, live your...
    XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I have a ep brother I met almost a week ago we talked bout our selves he is really sweet and everything after a week we were brothers we would talk everyday after I knew him better...
    AlexMafia15 AlexMafia15 13-15, M Aug 7

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    I would do anything to be in his arms right now....hate distance sometimes.
    XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX 16-17, F Aug 6

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    Those who help or target do. Those who care try to soothe. Me lives for pals who care. Because the rest steal my air.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Got told i looked angry all the time because i wear dark make up a lot,i mean really,and then i get told i'm intimidating because i am tall,5'7 doesn't make me a giant...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    A older guy.. Better or worse??
    BeauteFloue BeauteFloue 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    5 days left of freedom I will start school on Monday. Starting school means homework, people copying my work constantly, annoying teachers complaining about us, stupid people who...
    Missinghim99 Missinghim99 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    You're not the only one. I never met mine but I ain't mad at him because he believed i would be a better man growing up without him, without him I wouldn't be here. Don't get me...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Aug 6

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    It started in July. We met on tinder and we started talking non stop about silly things, like what we wanted to do when we got out of school, and where we wanted to live, and what...
    sarahbearrr51 sarahbearrr51 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    After months of feeling hopeless, I came across this cutie on POF. We began talking and I'm so thankful I sent him a message. I've never loved anyone the way I've loved him. And...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    I just ruined the most perfect relationship ill ever have. By saying I'm going to want to experience my life. All I want is to be with him. I can't see my life without him. And I...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F 37 mins ago

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    I read something sad today from a friend who is now in a similar situation as i was this time last year and my heart goes out to her. As it was a time when i myself felt so very...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I was younger I had a huge crush on this boy in my school. It was at that time when the boys hadn't hit puberty yet but some of the girls had, and I was one of the lucky few...
    dontyouforget dontyouforget 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My "real" father. When I was little. My father and me were very close. My family were. We are seen as a perfect family and i thought it is. My dad is Japanese and my mom is a...
    azyleak azyleak 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Turning 20 years old in a few days, my mom will be there, my half brother and half sister will be there, my step dad will be there, I mean they always have been. It seems like...
    jaycee3719 jaycee3719 18-21, M Aug 9

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    Until now, I have felt completely lost when it comes to understanding certain aspects of my significant other. We are in a committed, long-term relationship, and I love and care...
    nic225 nic225 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My situation is one I'm still coming to grip with. I met my boyfriend two years ago on a casual online dating site. My intention of joining and communicating was purely for...
    Baughb Baughb 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Kay so, it's not that I hate it when he talks to other girls, I just don't like it when it becomes an every day thing. Like if he's talking to a girl every single day then I think...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Hi...I have long history with my big time ex for about 5 years and still going on because we are working together... Here is my story in short before I need advises and comments...
    LongtimeEx LongtimeEx 31-35, F Aug 16

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    I feel so lost without him guys, I'm trying to stay busy I really am but every time I leave the house I think about bumping in to him I already can't wait to go back to school so...
    HiddenbehindMarilyn HiddenbehindMarilyn 13-15, F Aug 9

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    We've first met when I was a Grade IV student and since he's one year younger than me, he was Grade III at that time. I'll just call him V. Our families had been close since then...
    undeniablyMe28 undeniablyMe28 18-21, F Aug 9

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Its strange but it was so long ago. I met one guy at some social site in the year 2006. I fell in love in his foto. It sound naive but i really was very naive back then. I let...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Our 20 year old son has an autism spectrum disorder and was recently diagnosed as bipolar 1. I knew right away, at his birth that he was different. Instinctively, I started full...
    debbiedee623 debbiedee623 51-55, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago