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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-17, F Nov 4, 2006

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22, 2014

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 18-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    This happened a long time ago. It's a long story, so bear with me. We were friends for 6 months. And we got together for 4 years. And then we broke up a little after celebrating...
    Lonely90s Lonely90s 22-25, M May 12

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    So I met this guy when we were 18. I kinda liked him, but I was on the fence about it, and in my snobby 18 year old wisdom, decided he wasn't worth another thought when he ditched...
    Supersyncsteph Supersyncsteph 31-35, F 1 Response May 19

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    My best friend who I lived with never said goodbye. I moved away and he never came out of his room...it's horrible being without him. I just want him back in my life. I am all...
    JaylynnDaereon JaylynnDaereon 26-30, F May 4

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    Where do I begin? ? da da da da da da... NOT!! This ain't a love song and he drives me nuts with his childish frigging attitude! !!@#$$#@ I want to scream my head off and have...
    Anamazing Anamazing 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    If you leave without as much as a word, it shows that you hold me in very little regard. If you care about me at all, you should tell me why you want to leave. It hurts enough to...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17

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    He is everything to me and I cannot see him in pain. We live apart and I cannot be there for him. If I were, I'd take him in my arms and let him know he's cared for. I can't make...
    KuriosityKills KuriosityKills 31-35, F May 5

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    So I have a boyfriend and he leaves ever Friday night and doesn't come back till Saturday night I have a lot of mental problems that he knows about but doesn't care it's weird when...
    CookieMonsta16 CookieMonsta16 18-21, F 1 Response May 16

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    I know you are hurting and I know there is nothing I can do to ease the pain. I love you and will always be by your side when times are difficult.My love, your heart will mend...
    KuriosityKills KuriosityKills 31-35, F May 9

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    I hate when you meet people on a social website like this and everything goes great at first. Then something happens totally out of your control and they get mad at you for...
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73 41-45, M 4 Responses May 12

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    My past two relationships were like that. One day we were fine, no fights, no problems, nothing then one day they just stop talking to me. Lucas and Ken were my last two and they...
    ceceophie ceceophie 16-17, F 1 Response May 3

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    A few nights apartTears at my heartI will miss himA game must be playedOne of deceitUntil I can have more of himA day is too long, an hour, a minuteWe are together in our hearts...
    KuriosityKills KuriosityKills 31-35, F May 1

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    He texts me still after years, he is not in a relationship anymore so why hasn't he tried to see me! He says he loves me! I still love him so much! I would give up every thing...
    notsoyoungandrestless notsoyoungandrestless 36-40, F May 19

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    Crazy but yet lost in his own thoughts
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 26-30, F May 1

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    ...and then drop by every once in a while to make you feel it. :(
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response May 3

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    I've never loved someone so much... Ever
    heymad13 heymad13 16-17, F Apr 29

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    This just happened and i'm so hurt about it :( Okay, so my best friend who lives across the country, we were supposed to hang out tonight (get online and watch Netflix together...
    WillowLily WillowLily 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    First of all I know I may be judged because of my age but I really need to share this with someone😓 Im 18 and I have just finished high school. I remember the first day of...
    18Unknown18 18Unknown18 18-21 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    It all started wen i got introduce to my gf's cousin (X). I knew he was married. X had this thing in him dat attracted me. He showered me with so much care & concern. He always...
    chocoholics chocoholics 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    There is a saying in a book "You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world...but you do have some say in who hurts you" Unfortunately for me I chose wrong, because i chose...
    Lyta22 Lyta22 22-25, F May 8

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    Well I did it again I keep doing it and I don't understand why. Every person that gets close to me I wait a while feel really strong about them then push them away . I am so...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response May 19

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    On this subject, a certain poster (along with friends of hers) continues to malign me, and when I challenge her claims, she deletes them. So, as the original thread is much too...
    PYWACKET PYWACKET 61-65, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    To be honest I don’t really know how it started or how it got to this mess. One moment I was waving awkwardly at him as he walked away from the front desk, the next I was below...
    Leaderkyuzizi Leaderkyuzizi 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    When was the last time you felt like the deepest part of your soul was in a tug-of-war? When was the last time you felt excited, yet sad? Angry, yet compassionate? Relaxed, but...
    IRealizedVienna IRealizedVienna 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    Short version: I met my friend 5 months ago, we connected on this amazing level, and within the two months I ended up meeting him in person in his state. We realised there was more...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    I met my soulmate when I was 18 years old. He truly is the love of my life. He completed me in every way possible. We planned our entire lives together and I could not see myself...
    S615 S615 18-21, F May 10

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    My husband of 32 years is addicted to meth. I had been away helping my parents. My stepmother was ill. She passed away & I stayed to help my Dad. My husband quit talking to me & I...
    Alphie01 Alphie01 46-50 3 Responses May 20

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