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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 19-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-18, F Nov 4, 2006

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Everyday I wake up and see his face, everyday we talk, everyday I learn more about him and he learns more about me. We have so many memories together and so many to come, I...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Even though we don't have a label on our relationship, I still want to have sex with him and kiss him and hug him and cuddle . I like the way he feels inside of me . I don't know...
    neuroticgal neuroticgal 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    His feelings for me changed somewhere along the way. I stayed very much in love with him and he started just wanting to spend less and less time with me. He became more distant...
    Dovesery Dovesery 22-25, F Aug 26

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    he ask me to go out with him there is one problem with that this is my first time going out on a real date with some one so i'm really excited
    yaoistuff1 yaoistuff1 18-21, T 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I used to chat with an older lady on here. We used to be friends and because she was much older i had more respect for her. Her kids were my age and older as well, so she was like...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I have been chatting a lot lately and it makes me mad when people just leave and don't say brb or I'll be back in a little bit please just do something to say your leaving before...
    create1908 create1908 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    Hate that. But better than other wrapons. Other types leave ptsd in me. Me deserves less bad memories.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M a week ago

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    A older guy.. Better or worse??
    BeauteFloue BeauteFloue 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    5 days left of freedom I will start school on Monday. Starting school means homework, people copying my work constantly, annoying teachers complaining about us, stupid people who...
    Missinghim99 Missinghim99 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    The talk with my boyfriend went very well about some of the fantasies I have. Feels good that I can open up with him without the fear of judgement.
    Callipygian99 Callipygian99 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Omg when I finally got to see him after so many months, i never wanted to leave him i felt like he was the one i am suppose to be with i love him with all my heart and every since...
    loveetimes2 loveetimes2 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I read something sad today from a friend who is now in a similar situation as i was this time last year and my heart goes out to her. As it was a time when i myself felt so very...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    When I was younger I had a huge crush on this boy in my school. It was at that time when the boys hadn't hit puberty yet but some of the girls had, and I was one of the lucky few...
    dontyouforget dontyouforget 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    My "real" father. When I was little. My father and me were very close. My family were. We are seen as a perfect family and i thought it is. My dad is Japanese and my mom is a...
    azyleak azyleak 22-25, F Aug 31

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    Until now, I have felt completely lost when it comes to understanding certain aspects of my significant other. We are in a committed, long-term relationship, and I love and care...
    nic225 nic225 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    Its a few days before school starts and I've been praying every night that i get my history teacher from last year again. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. i get...
    bellabee25 bellabee25 13-15, F Sep 3

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    Hi...I have long history with my big time ex for about 5 years and still going on because we are working together... Here is my story in short before I need advises and comments...
    LongtimeEx LongtimeEx 31-35, F Aug 16

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    I met my ex boyfriend four months ago. We met online and talked everyday for a month before actually meeting. We had very deep conversations and I felt like I already knew him even...
    confusedgirl01 confusedgirl01 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I was married for 13 years to the man I believed would be with me forever. For the first 5 years, everything was good - I practically fell at his feet every single day out of my...
    kmdogmom kmdogmom 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    So I am kind of rekindling with my ex of 6 years (well, we did try to reconnect 3 years ago but that didn't work out and then we had limited contact for the last 2 years). He lives...
    yellowtrees yellowtrees 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I didn't know how to tell him. Tell him that he was the only guy in the world that could make me feel so happy and sad at the same time. Sometimes I feel lost and out of touch, but...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Hey I just found this site. It sounds cliche but I thought I was alone. My man has 5 discs out had surgery and was paralyzed for three months after. We have only been together for...
    Onlythelonelt Onlythelonelt 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My coworker Tim and I became very close in the past month. When he first started working at my store, the security guard and I had a lot of fun at his expense because we thought he...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am so depressed because I'm in love with someone I can't have. It's my best friend... We hang out every single weekend and never skip one. Today he's going on a date with someone...
    lexijbd lexijbd 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    So.... s*** happens. Sometimes people make mistakes. Huge ones. Sometimes they get into things you've hated your whole life and fought against. And now it's part of your loved...
    rtvbvfde rtvbvfde 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    I don't even want to talk to him, I'm just craving his presence. I feel so alone without him I just want him to hold me and kiss me on the head and keep me warm.
    Ame101 Ame101 16-17, F Aug 30

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    I can't sleep or hardly even eat I keep crying myself to sleep the abuse started when I was 14 with guys I went to school with they would hold me down and touch me sometimes they...
    Kitten2514 Kitten2514 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    If you asked me a few years ago, I would tell you how horrible an affair is and I looked down on people who had affairs. Now I am the person on the other side, and it's true what...
    Yalaboo Yalaboo 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    It’s been a while since I’ve written here, but my heart is becoming unbearable again so I thought this would be a good place to work out my feelings. I made a real effort to...
    myownproblem13 myownproblem13 31-35, F Sep 7

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    It started after I fell in love with the love of my life at least k thought that before. He'd leave me in the dark for months and come back saying he's sorry. He claimed that he...
    Niinnaa Niinnaa 16-17, F Sep 7

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    I still am growing up without one. I can tell you that when I did have one, he was the greatest man I knew. I was really attached to him and loved him a lot. He was my hero. Some...
    Jessica4729 Jessica4729 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17