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I Hurt When Im With Him And Hurt Without Him

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    When In Doubt Do Nothing, Instead Wait For A Natural Revelation To Help You!

    I have recently parted with a person whom I did enjoy for long.BUT...our defferences overcame us finally.He is a man of the world, and I am far more a recluse.Sometimes one has to set aside the desire that something should be - and we hurry and harass what will not change because...
    martigreciaodalyz martigreciaodalyz 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    He Broke My Heart

    it hurts when i see him andhe makes my confused. i just hurt b/c i know i deserve better and i do have better than him, yet i hurt withouthim, 
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Couldn't be more true.

    I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks. I saw this cute little area we could of sat on the sand together, gone on roller-coasters together, swimming, all that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22

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    What Do I Want?

    Well my husband and I split three weeks ago. I was certain it was what I wanted at first, I was strong and sure of what I wanted, now I miss him! When we were together we would always argue all the time, we would hurt each other so badly it was awful. Now that we are apart I'm...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    Separation Anxiety??

    So the past 5 years have been a roller coaster of emotions. My friends didn't like him, my family always thought I could do better too. I said that the next time will be the last time. The "last time" was last weekend. After my party had ended he started yelling again in a...
    bekahnz bekahnz 31-35 Oct 14, 2012

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    Nothing Makes Sense Anymore

    I just don't understand myself. Back in June, when I still had you, I cried everyday because I knew you were back with your ex, again. I knew I was going to have to leave and it took me nearly three weeks to finally work up the strength to leave you again. You've been gone since...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F Sep 8, 2012

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    I Never Meant To Let You Go

    My last boyfriend i had,we broke up because he just wasn't being a good boyfriend. we got into an argument because we had to do a project in class, and he just didn't like my ideas. so then i kept bringing up ideas about dates.(we were in drama class). he said,"why do we always...
    scenegirlz scenegirlz 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    My Husband Of 17 Years

    Even though we can no longer be together, he is still my soul mate. We are two peas in a pod, yet the tragic irony is we are no longer compatible together. I would give anything to feel the way I used to about him. No other man will ever compare. It hurts to be around him because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    He Makes Me Hurt

    Hurt without him: I miss him terribly. He was my best friend. Our friendship was the only thing good in my life, the only important thing for me. Without him there's a huge gaping hole in my heart, which aches constantly. All I want is to talk with him.Hurt when I am with him...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2011

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    I Want to Be Able to Be Around Him Without Hurting.

    I like being around this guy named M. I don't want to say his whole name. But he is the most amazinglyiest nice guy to be around but I have very strong feelings for him, and unfortunately he is married with children. So their is zero chance of being w/ him. So when I am around...
    darkdaisy25 darkdaisy25 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2007

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    Is It Over?

    Do NOT call him. Don't text him. Dont doubletake at every white SUV because it could be him. Dont shop at the grocery store where he works hoping to see him. He asked for a break, which must mean he wants it. And whether it's because he's really done or because his damn...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    DID He Or Didn't He? I Still Don't Know?

    HE ALWAYS SAID HE DIDN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.......HE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WITH ME.......... HE STARTED 2 CHANGE WITH THE SEASON......... STILL AROUND SPENDING QUALITY TIME.......... WHY DID HE STOP CALLING  AND COMING AROUND? DID HE LOVE ME OR DIDN'T HE?
    prettyintenseorange prettyintenseorange 19-21, F Sep 6, 2007

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    He Hurts Me In So Many Diffrent Ways

    like i said before me and my boyfriend started dating in a very young age. We have been through so much. Ive done some pretty dumb things in my life the couple times he left me. Going through a heart break while your at school is not easy. Everyone knows about it and they notice...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-18, F Nov 4, 2006

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    3 long years of ups and downs.

    when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no longer loved me and took it back months later. ever since then I've felt an insecurity I've never felt in my entire life. he got...
    js224224 js224224 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I Enjoy Talking To Him, Its More Than Intimacy

    we have a 7 yr old son together and i'm engaged to someone else, what am i doing? i feel excited and like i'm 20 again with him. i wish we could go back to when we were 20. but thats impossible. he has nothing to offer me and i'm miserable without him. i love him in my life. i...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    Its Kinda Gloomy Day

            Its kinda sad if we'll have somebody who dont know us best.Somebody who doesnt realized our existence. Someone that we have yet its out of our hearts reach.It's kinda frustrating to be involve in a certain relationship where you only be...
    juniene juniene 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    I love this guy since school days. We loved each other and i accepted him with all his good and bad qualities. He cheated me for others but still loves me. I cant forget him n cant...
    nrferns nrferns 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I really would be lost without him! At the beggining we hated each other but now we cant live apart!
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F Dec 4

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    Yesterday, I got to see my boyfriend. We went to his parents house to eat. Then we went back to his sisters house( that's were he is living to be closer to me). We were watching...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F Nov 24

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    My master saved me from being alone and abused and I am unbelievably happy when I am at his side. I must say that I have become a much better person since he found me. I have...
    msharleenquinzel msharleenquinzel 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I'm seeing him for the first time a good two to three weeks. Oh how i've longed to feel his soft embrace and shrink into his chest. I long too feel him tighten his arms around me...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I think it's respectful to end a conversation with something along the lines of "goodbye". Otherwise, I sit there wondering if you're mad, if something bad happened to you, your...
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F Dec 3

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    And it just keeps happening... Another message in my inbox with that guy named deleted. Seriously? You couldn't take the time to say goodbye first? We just talked yesterday and...
    Lyssak Lyssak 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Yesterday my friend and I were at the library and he just left with someone else while I was bringing something up on the computer. :(
    spcufl spcufl 13-15, M Dec 10

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    Why is it, that when things are at their worst and when I really need him that he's never there..?
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I hope I can actually speak to him soon. I want him to be happy. He has no idea what he means to me.
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Nov 27

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    I sit with a group of people during lunch time, but only one is a close friend. My crush has the same lunch period as me, and every time I see him, I wish and hope and pray for him...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Every day I look at you tube and look at top fails in 2014 and I watch the show ridiculousness (a american tv show). I start cracking up and start crying because of laughter.
    woobert99 woobert99 13-15, M Nov 27

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    I'd rather have a goodbye than this excruciating silence
    EmmelineAnne EmmelineAnne 16-17, F Dec 10

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    It took me 14 days of struggling, questioning, googling, around-the-clock munching, napping, day-dreaming, self-hating, tear-shedding, and obsessing over all things marines to...
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    You know, I am tired of being alone. Or at least being alone in my head. I'm tired of staring at your Skype profile, internally screaming for you to call or text; for you to...
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I really do but.... He is taken. :(
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I'm crying because of this song because it reminds me of my crush 😢
    isabelamejia5562 isabelamejia5562 13-15, F Nov 30

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    i feel beautiful, happy,cool, better........ect
    oneheart1 oneheart1 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My dear stay wiv me coz u r all I need upls darling stay wiv me
    oneheart1 oneheart1 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    BRACELETS, TATTOOS, & LOVE Hey guys! I know it's been awhile since I've given an update about my former teacher, H. Now that I'm away at college it's been difficult not seeing him...
    PulpDiction PulpDiction 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    He has no idea how much he lights up my day. He has no idea how incredible I think he is. We don't talk and I feel my heart breaking. When I finally see him it's like we were never...
    Mandaryn Mandaryn 26-30, F Dec 8

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    It's December, soon it'll be January and once I realize it I'll be graduating. Soon I will have to say good-bye to him. I don't think I'm ready, but I know I have too. At the...
    twloha14 twloha14 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am the kind of person that expects nothing in return for the fear of being disappointed. In relationships I can't help but nip a problem in the butt by just saying sorry for my...
    crimsonfleur609 crimsonfleur609 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He is my every waking thought and my every late night dream. I see him in the beauty around me and being without him breaks my heart in two. He calls me when were far away and...
    silentscreamer24 silentscreamer24 22-25, F Nov 20

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    I don't even know what the hell I'm doing anymore. It's literally consumed me. I can't even hold a conversation with someone without thinking about him and what else I could have...
    26andgoing 26andgoing 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I left my home country to work somewhere looking for the better opportunity.I never imagine that I can find and still feel the love to someone in somewhere else.I have husband and...
    extremelyGirl extremelyGirl 26-30 1 Response Dec 4

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    I left my home country to work somewhere looking for the better opportunity.I never imagine that I can find and still feel the love to someone in somewhere else.I have husband and...
    extremelyGirl extremelyGirl 26-30 Dec 4

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    I Love Him Although I Shouldn't I left my home country to work somewhere looking for the better opportunity.I never imagine that I can find and still feel the love to someone in...
    extremelyGirl extremelyGirl 26-30 1 Response Dec 6

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    I feel like I can't breathe without him... When I'm around him I feel like I can stop pretending and just be myself because I know he isn't gonna judge... I feel like I'm walking...
    EbbyLeve EbbyLeve 16-17, F Nov 23

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    my life is a mess . I'm trying so hard but it's just so much easier to give up sometimes. my parents left me in India when I was 6 months old under the care of my grandmother for...
    leo1816 leo1816 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    Warning, this is long, but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9

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