I Iam Married

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    Happy Father's Day to me.

    Wife is being a selfish *****. I started drinking around 8 to get numb and started smokin around 10. Right now I feel none of the pain my wife is dumping on ne
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    Jun 21, 2015

    There comes a time when you have to ask

    yourself. "Is this person actually worth the heartache?" It's amazing you do everything you can for the one you love and they don't remember it. They just see their own feelings. Well people I've given all of me to my wife. And she's thrown it away like last weeks trash...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    I asked her to leave today.

    It hurts I don't want her to. But the hurt of her leaving is minor compared to her being so close but so far away. She forced me into this decision I gave it everything I had. I have nothing left to give except goodbye.
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jan 25

    Many of you out there will read this

    and shake your head at me. That I am still dealing with this BS. That I should have left long ago. Many of you would wonder what kind of fool is he? To be honest I probably think about those things more than anybody. I can only come up with two answers. The first is obvious...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    The saga continues. We are still talking.

    But only so she can try and make me out to be the bad guy. She came out swinging today. Even got to the point where she wanted to take the boys and go. But my oldest didn't want to go. So what does she do? Grabs him by the arm and drags him kicking and screaming till I stopped...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    You ever get tired of trying to figure it out?

    I the meaning behind words that don't match actions. Are. The words even important? Or are the actions what your supposed to work from. You ever just want to wake up from the nightmare you've been living? You ever wonder what would happen if you just didn't come home? Just...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    Feb 29

    Why is it that some women(my wife specifically)

    must make things so much harder on themselves than things need to be? Why is it that some women's " easy button" is located at the end of a proverbial fun house of obstacles. Why is it that any time some husbands open their mouth he runs a 50/50 chance between a fight and a...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    Aug 15, 2015

    I wish I could turn back the hands of time.

    Reset the clock to just before she started drifting away. I hold on like I am in the middle of a dark ocean kept afloat by a life ring. At times I miss her at times I resent her. But all the time I just want to hold her. I search constantly for a beacon in the darkness...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    Feb 27

    Wine is fine but whiskeys quicker.

    Suicide is slow with marriage.
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 18, 2015

    My wife just walked out on me

    and our sons 6 and 4.
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Jan 21

    I lay here and take stock of all thy had

    happened in the last year. I think about how my marriage has ended. How my two little boys have gotten caught up in my wife's mid-life crisis. How she has managed to sabotage our life together. I think of the lying the deceiving the projecting. I think of myself. I think what I...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 23
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