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I Idenify As Being Queer

fluid sexuality. freedom. sex is limitless! love is the truth. 207 People

    Not the Dyke Next Door

    I came out at 17, didn't have a relationship until I was 21. I worked as a bouncer in gay bars for years and pretty much adopted the ways of the queer boys I hung out with: cruising, doing drag. I only knew the bar scene and had one woman after another, nothing healthy...
    wheeldog wheeldog 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Labels Are Exhausting

    They are great for a general idea.. But really pointless beyond that and it's sad most people rely on labels so they can suss you out without having a decent conversation with you. My labels... I'm a lesbian, I bind my chest and wish I could have a mastectomy. Not that I wanna...
    dubsiren dubsiren 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    When I Was a Little Kid..

    there was this little boy and like he was my best friend his name was Cody and everyone did that show me yours ill show you mine but when me and my friend did it like i really liked it and then when i grew older i realized that i think i liked him like physical and then i...
    PunkRockPrincess PunkRockPrincess 16-17 1 Response Feb 26, 2008

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    Understanding

    I used to search for understanding of myself in a hapless and damaging manner. I knew who I was, I've always known who I was, but I felt like I couldn't possibly know myself, since I could not "define" it or give explanation of myself in many ways to...
    ambiguouscontradiction ambiguouscontradiction 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    My First Trans Experience

    my first trans experience was when i was hanging out at my girlfriends house and i was like ....um...i ..never mind she asked me what and i told her one of my deepest confessions and she said.. do u wanna try on my clothes?? and i looked at her expecting a weired reaction and she...
    PunkRockPrincess PunkRockPrincess 16-17 4 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    anhonestmouse anhonestmouse 31-35, F May 9

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    My Baby (insert Gender Here)

    i'll love you no matter what. everyone says that right? right? even my abusive ex who left me said that. But i ment it.   green grass, the middle of august, beautiful august. my heads on  your chest and i'm slightly exhilarated by the flatness of it cuz i've..i've...
    paws615 paws615 16-17 4 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    A Personal Explantion.

      the easiest way to label me would be as a lesbian. im quite comfortable being called a dyke. i encourage it; i feel no desire to be in a relationship with a man.   i feel not so much like a lesbian at times though. if i fell in love with a man, would i really deny...
    blazedNconfused blazedNconfused 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    Realization

    I woke up from a dream. I was inside a pretty, cute little cabin thing, near a window. On the lap of my best friend (who was the same gender as me), kissing her, leaning into her, our eyes closed and I'd never felt closer.        That was the first...
    paws615 paws615 16-17 Feb 26, 2008

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    Decisions

    I identify as being Queer. When a young man & into my early 20's, the worst thing possible was be labelled "a queer". The tone in which those words were said was always derogatory, hateful & pronounced in a "I'm better than you are" attitude. Much...
    dvdfg9 dvdfg9 41-45, T 4 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Queering The Spectrum

    i like boys with vaginas. put that on the gay/straight spectrum.
    outerblonde outerblonde 18-21, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I didn't choose the queer life. The queer life chose me!
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Queer doesn’t mean “don’t label me,” it means “I am naming myself.” It means “ask me more questions if you're curious” and in the same breath means “**** off.”
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 Aug 23

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    Fun thing about Hispanics, Cubans specifically is that they are perverted as hell but also weirdly religious. They curse and talk about their crotches but the idea of being gay or...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F Aug 19

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    My family, for the last few years, has treated me poorly. Sometimes as a child, I would get treated badly, I was obnoxious and loud, then again, what kid isn't at the age of 10? It...
    worromjw worromjw 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have had tons of disgruntled men threaten rule me out as fake from the simple fact I limit my conversations and exchanges here, pixellate my eyes and have absolutely no wish to...
    Dfletch Dfletch 18-21, F 1 Response 46 mins ago

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    Okay first off, I'm not homeless poor but I also struggle. I'm still in high school, and I don't have a job at the time being. I feel like expressing myself right now, so if I...
    sapphireveins sapphireveins 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My husband and I met a year and a half ago and fell in love super fast. When we started dating he said he was divorced and had a son who was 6. I found that cute. Being a teacher...
    expressmom expressmom 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24

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    Just because you may not like a person, or your opinions and beliefs differ doesn't mean you have a right to be disrespectful. There is plenty of ways you can express yourself to...
    oxzymoron oxzymoron 18-21, M Aug 26

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    Hi my names scummy girl I'm 14teen and a dirty lesbian girl, and I love being bullied by other girl's. I get bullied at school by older girls which I like a lot. They gave me...
    Bellathegorrilla Bellathegorrilla 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    University is both an amazing an incredibly scary place. It's a place where everyone questions themselves yet accepts everyone around them, which can make you feel very alone at...
    AlliterationAnonymous AlliterationAnonymous 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I'm exhausted with being an outcast and not feeling like I belong anywhere yet. I'm tired of being sad almost all the time and disconnected from almost everyone and everything...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Well, I was raised in NYC till the age of 38. Then I was being stalked but was unaware what stalking was. I have seen a difference in people, but could not place a finger on what...
    trustworthy444 trustworthy444 46-50 1 Response Sep 2

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    I've hitchhiked allot in Canada, I've been too both west coast, Victoria island, and all the way too the east coast, and let me tell you it is a wonderful and amazing experiance...
    ThunderBangs ThunderBangs 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Some-days, I feel that I am the loneliest person in the world. Now, that “in the world” feeling may be a bit of hyper-collegiate over-dramatisme, of latent-teenage psychopathy...
    Newydd Newydd 18-21 4 days ago

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    Being gay is not fun to me. I'm Muslim and I'm proud thank god but being gay has caused me nothing but troubles and misery. I wish I had a boyfriend but at the same time I hate the...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    Ok, I have a question and really need advice. My husband's ex-girlfriend and I have NEVER gotten along, and now it's to the point where we try to avoid each other at all cost. She...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Although I am a very private person I used to love sunbathing nude and skinnydipping when no one was around. Our swimming pool is very secluded and not visible from the street or...
    Anthony1962 Anthony1962 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    Before I was 13, I never thought much about being shirtless; I was only shirtless at the pool and at the beach. Everything changed when I was 13 because I went away to boys...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M Aug 22

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    Before I was 13, I never thought much about being shirtless; I was only shirtless at the pool and at the beach. Everything changed when I was 13 because I went away to boys...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M Aug 23

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    Before I was 13, I never thought much about being shirtless; I was only shirtless at the pool and at the beach. Everything changed when I was 13 because I went away to boys...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    For years I've been told that I'm admired for being a strong woman. Why? Because after my first husband I moved on and was a single mother? Because I had to find my own self worth...
    Phoenixsa71 Phoenixsa71 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    What's it like? As someone who has always fitted the ideal weight for my height/weight ratio, I've always been curious about what being fat is like. Recently I've put on about...
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I love being alone. I enjoy the peace and quiet. I enjoy being able to think without someone assuming I'm doing "nothing" and thinking it is okay to interrupt me. Most of all, I...
    ghostofacheerfulowl ghostofacheerfulowl 36-40, F Aug 25

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    Okay... I like being a girl sometimes.. But im gonna tell you what it's really like being a women... CONS/ Periods: don't even get me started<--- haha get it? Anyways... It...
    Angelwuvsyu Angelwuvsyu 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I just love being by myself. I have time to think. My friends keep trying to hook me up with thier friends. I hate it though. I love being able to have peace and quiet in my life...
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M Aug 26

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    I found these lines so apt for the time being.......... “He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 27

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    I am so happy being a forever single as a black woman. I can't stand being around men for too long because men have a natural need to control and hate hearing women issues. Men...
    inspirelove inspirelove 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I'm gay. Last September, I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Okay so im 14 and im 5"10 and i wear a size 10. Btw im a girl. I really hate my height. Like idky other girls are like being tall is so cool n blah blah saying they wish they were...
    imbeyonce imbeyonce 13-15, F Aug 31

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    Man this was so cool tonight I open up to my boyfriend and we talked about me being into diapers it was hard at first but as we talk it got easer to talk about diapers and he knows...
    Diaperdragon Diaperdragon 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I was in my late teens and I had gone out to an area that I had hiked several times. There was a Creek at the bottom of a slope and a cliff on the far side that had several caves...
    1naturist 1naturist 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I had a best friend. She was silly and crazy to be around. Most days she was depressed. It was always, "Why don't they want to hang out with me. I'm never included in the...
    HKT1993 HKT1993 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 7

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    Being barefoot is the best feeling ever! I enjoy not wearing any shoes and socks, and enjoying the freedom of being barefoot outdoors. I love having the earth beneath my soles and...
    countingtoesisfun countingtoesisfun 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Being barefoot is the best feeling ever! I enjoy not wearing any shoes and socks, and enjoying the freedom of being barefoot outdoors. I love having the earth beneath my soles and...
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    Being barefoot is the best feeling ever! I enjoy not wearing any shoes and socks, and enjoying the freedom of being barefoot outdoors. I love having the earth beneath my soles and...
    countingtoesisfun countingtoesisfun 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Being barefoot is the best feeling ever! I enjoy not wearing any shoes and socks, and enjoying the freedom of being barefoot outdoors. I love having the earth beneath my soles and...
    countingtoesisfun countingtoesisfun 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I lose interest in people fast, friendships are pointless especially when they realize they can't get any freebies off you. As I get older, I'm starting to become like my great...
    LadyOutspoken LadyOutspoken 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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