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I Idenify As Being Queer

fluid sexuality. freedom. sex is limitless! love is the truth. 206 People

    Realization

    I woke up from a dream. I was inside a pretty, cute little cabin thing, near a window. On the lap of my best friend (who was the same gender as me), kissing her, leaning into her, our eyes closed and I'd never felt closer.        That was the first...
    paws615 paws615 16-17 Feb 26, 2008

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    Understanding

    I used to search for understanding of myself in a hapless and damaging manner. I knew who I was, I've always known who I was, but I felt like I couldn't possibly know myself, since I could not "define" it or give explanation of myself in many ways to...
    ambiguouscontradiction ambiguouscontradiction 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    anhonestmouse anhonestmouse 31-35, F May 9

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    A Personal Explantion.

      the easiest way to label me would be as a lesbian. im quite comfortable being called a dyke. i encourage it; i feel no desire to be in a relationship with a man.   i feel not so much like a lesbian at times though. if i fell in love with a man, would i really deny...
    blazedNconfused blazedNconfused 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    My Baby (insert Gender Here)

    i'll love you no matter what. everyone says that right? right? even my abusive ex who left me said that. But i ment it.   green grass, the middle of august, beautiful august. my heads on  your chest and i'm slightly exhilarated by the flatness of it cuz i've..i've...
    paws615 paws615 16-17 4 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    Decisions

    I identify as being Queer. When a young man & into my early 20's, the worst thing possible was be labelled "a queer". The tone in which those words were said was always derogatory, hateful & pronounced in a "I'm better than you are" attitude. Much...
    dvdfg9 dvdfg9 41-45, T 4 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Labels Are Exhausting

    They are great for a general idea.. But really pointless beyond that and it's sad most people rely on labels so they can suss you out without having a decent conversation with you. My labels... I'm a lesbian, I bind my chest and wish I could have a mastectomy. Not that I wanna...
    dubsiren dubsiren 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    My First Trans Experience

    my first trans experience was when i was hanging out at my girlfriends house and i was like ....um...i ..never mind she asked me what and i told her one of my deepest confessions and she said.. do u wanna try on my clothes?? and i looked at her expecting a weired reaction and she...
    PunkRockPrincess PunkRockPrincess 16-17 4 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    Not the Dyke Next Door

    I came out at 17, didn't have a relationship until I was 21. I worked as a bouncer in gay bars for years and pretty much adopted the ways of the queer boys I hung out with: cruising, doing drag. I only knew the bar scene and had one woman after another, nothing healthy...
    wheeldog wheeldog 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Queering The Spectrum

    i like boys with vaginas. put that on the gay/straight spectrum.
    outerblonde outerblonde 18-21, F 2 Responses May 2, 2010

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    When I Was a Little Kid..

    there was this little boy and like he was my best friend his name was Cody and everyone did that show me yours ill show you mine but when me and my friend did it like i really liked it and then when i grew older i realized that i think i liked him like physical and then i...
    PunkRockPrincess PunkRockPrincess 16-17 1 Response Feb 26, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I didn't choose the queer life. The queer life chose me!
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Queer doesn’t mean “don’t label me,” it means “I am naming myself.” It means “ask me more questions if you're curious” and in the same breath means “**** off.”
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 Aug 23

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    Just in the fact that I have a very odd sexuality. Romantically, I identify as panromantic. I feel like I could be in a loving relationship with just about anyone, regardless of...
    Inadine Inadine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Fun thing about Hispanics, Cubans specifically is that they are perverted as hell but also weirdly religious. They curse and talk about their crotches but the idea of being gay or...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F Aug 19

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    Normally I don't like to indulge in self pity parties. I am not as important as others in my life but sometimes I would like to come first. I don't mind being the one giving advice...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    i hate being a twin. Im the ugly one. everyone choses her over me. imagine being IDENTICAL and people chosing her over you . it ****** sucks. hatebeing a twin
    whoami7 whoami7 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't like being black. From my experience being black is the worst thing ever that happened to me. Black? What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Everyone, even family members talk about how skinny I am. My mom and sister both have curves. Whenever I talk about trying to gain weight, my mother tells me I should be happy. She...
    Cinderellany Cinderellany 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Now I tend to find being alone all the time isn't as fun loving as some folks see it. Now the other night I was sat down at the pub bar, drinking vodka & coke. Now I ain't a beer...
    ilikenetflix ilikenetflix 26-30, M Aug 1

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    Here I am again complaining about being gay. Here I am again feeling like absolute ****. Here I am again wanting to die and end it all. Why do I like my own gender? Why do I find...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 5

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    I miss being young, in several ways. Part if me wants to be at the age of playing with cars was magical. But that brings back bad memories due to many stressors in my family life...
    UPSsux UPSsux 31-35, M Aug 12

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    Okay first off, I'm not homeless poor but I also struggle. I'm still in high school, and I don't have a job at the time being. I feel like expressing myself right now, so if I...
    sapphireveins sapphireveins 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My husband and I met a year and a half ago and fell in love super fast. When we started dating he said he was divorced and had a son who was 6. I found that cute. Being a teacher...
    expressmom expressmom 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Just because you may not like a person, or your opinions and beliefs differ doesn't mean you have a right to be disrespectful. There is plenty of ways you can express yourself to...
    oxzymoron oxzymoron 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Hi my names scummy girl I'm 14teen and a dirty lesbian girl, and I love being bullied by other girl's. I get bullied at school by older girls which I like a lot. They gave me...
    Bellathegorrilla Bellathegorrilla 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    University is both an amazing an incredibly scary place. It's a place where everyone questions themselves yet accepts everyone around them, which can make you feel very alone at...
    AlliterationAnonymous AlliterationAnonymous 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm exhausted with being an outcast and not feeling like I belong anywhere yet. I'm tired of being sad almost all the time and disconnected from almost everyone and everything...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    In spite of how cruel this world can be, there are certainly truly kind people you can find. When you find them, keep them around you. Keep yourself surrounded with people who have...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I love being a mom because I love the smiles on my son & daughter faces. When they smile; my Heart smiles. I gave birth to three children, my first born/ late daughter who would of...
    Nefateria40 Nefateria40 36-40, F Aug 2

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    I have three children and gave up a career of teaching to stay at home with them. I did all the things a parent wants to do- I read to them, played with them, encouraged them, was...
    Hateisexhausting1 Hateisexhausting1 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    After my last relationship I think I will just wait until college before dating again. To me I don't see a point when most guys my age don't know how to treat a girl and how to...
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I've been recently trying to get out more so I can be more confident in public. Sometimes I feel like I'm being stared at by everyone.. I hope they really aren't, but then again I...
    riruxchan riruxchan 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I feel guilty for being alive. I feel guilty for being able to breath and walk and talk. I feel guilty for ruining my parents lives by being born. I wish they never met and got...
    sewshow sewshow 18-21 Aug 6

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    I too am tired of being fat, but no one can ever be the perfect weight. Being all muscly or super thin is over rated. Being you and feeling good about yourself is all that matters...
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M Aug 11

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    A guy dumped me because I was rlly weird. Nothing wrong with being myself, if they don't like "you", screw em. Being weird is the bomb. Being different is special. Almost everyone...
    rachel96826 rachel96826 13-15, F Aug 12

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    As an introvert, I enjoy being alone sometimes. Being around people for long periods of time can be quite exhausting. I like having time to myself to reflect on things and be alone...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I keep being ignored by people around me whether in skul ,home or public .I used to be able to talk cheerfully around ppl but ,after being ignored many times i became scared and...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M Aug 14

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    Well, most of the people that spend time being always online prefer meeting new online friends coz theyre a new person here and they are not judged here than in reality. I have...
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Being gay is not fun to me. I'm Muslim and I'm proud thank god but being gay has caused me nothing but troubles and misery. I wish I had a boyfriend but at the same time I hate the...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Ok, I have a question and really need advice. My husband's ex-girlfriend and I have NEVER gotten along, and now it's to the point where we try to avoid each other at all cost. She...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Although I am a very private person I used to love sunbathing nude and skinnydipping when no one was around. Our swimming pool is very secluded and not visible from the street or...
    Anthony1962 Anthony1962 51-55, M Aug 21

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    Before I was 13, I never thought much about being shirtless; I was only shirtless at the pool and at the beach. Everything changed when I was 13 because I went away to boys...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M Aug 22

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    Before I was 13, I never thought much about being shirtless; I was only shirtless at the pool and at the beach. Everything changed when I was 13 because I went away to boys...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M Aug 23

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    Before I was 13, I never thought much about being shirtless; I was only shirtless at the pool and at the beach. Everything changed when I was 13 because I went away to boys...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M Aug 23

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    For years I've been told that I'm admired for being a strong woman. Why? Because after my first husband I moved on and was a single mother? Because I had to find my own self worth...
    Phoenixsa71 Phoenixsa71 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    What's it like? As someone who has always fitted the ideal weight for my height/weight ratio, I've always been curious about what being fat is like. Recently I've put on about...
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love being alone. I enjoy the peace and quiet. I enjoy being able to think without someone assuming I'm doing "nothing" and thinking it is okay to interrupt me. Most of all, I...
    ghostofacheerfulowl ghostofacheerfulowl 36-40, F 6 days ago