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I I'm a Thoughtful, Generous, Lonely Person

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    They Take Kindness For Weakness......

    I am always thinking of other people, their needs, if they are okay, if they are alone, if they want something, if I can help, but when I need someone to be there for me, there is NO ONE.  I have been used so many times, and you would think I would learn finally, to not be...
    neworleansgirl neworleansgirl 22-25 5 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    I Want More Friends Who Will Like Me For Who I Am.

    I have had many ups and downs in my life but I have never had friends actually want to break down my walls and want to know me. I am a sensitive gentlemen, and I would rather chat to girls because my personality, I am very easy going, I enjoy almost everything, If you want a...
    Selflesswarrior Selflesswarrior 26-30, M Apr 23, 2013

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    Hi I'm new on here hope to find new friends on

    herewith the same problems I went through or I'm going through its nice to talk to people and read stuff that you have in common with others well I'll be waiting for friends
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 20

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    I Guess This Isn't a Very Active Group

    And I've already joined a lot of "I'm lonely" "I'm alone" sort of groups, but I liked the title of this one.  I'm a good person.  I'm a loyal friend, compationate, empathetic.  But the only friends I have are online.  Don't get me wrong...
    UndergroundMan UndergroundMan 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    Outside Looking In!!!!!

    In short, I am 2yrs divorced now!! I have 3 kids that my exwife and her new husband try their best to keep from me!!I should say not just me; she is alienated from her entire family!!  Her Mother and Father,her sisters and all of her relatives. It's a real mess, I am better...
    lincoln lincoln 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    I Am, But...

    I am a thoughtful,Generous, and lonely person, but I am because i want to be. Thoughtful yes I always I'm, I think of others before myself and I am so used to it that I cannot change my ways about that other wise i feel kinda bad about it. Generous yes I am with my family and the...
    sakura9 sakura9 18-21 2 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    Always Feeling Lonely And Carrying A Weight.

    Even tho in my past I haven't really had friends, My best friend would always beat me in high school to make fun of my sensitivity levels and even after that we never had a friendship, never spoke again. Now, I have grown to meet more friends. But they don't meet my emotional...
    Selflesswarrior Selflesswarrior 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    Despair

    I'm a nice guy, there is nothing fundamentally wrong with me aside from my inability to socialise on the same scale that the average person can, why can't I....whats wrong with me...God I hate myself and I wish there were a God or some all-powerful cosmic diety I could lean on...
    utterfool utterfool 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Confusing Feelings

    Today seemed like it would have been a pretty good, but it has gone downhill.I've been dating this guy for a while I've met online a year ago.I feel like I'm losing it.There's too many differences for me to accept lately.He's polymoric by nature and I'm monogamous by nature.He...
    Whatanaveragegirl Whatanaveragegirl 18-21 Aug 29, 2012

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    Abyss Bound, Lost Both Where Im Going And Who I Am. Lonely And Depressed. What Else Is New.

    Well........Life is rough and I honestly dont know what to think anymore at all :( I am good at hiding my wounds never letting the world see me for who i am and we live in a world to be who are is almost forbbidin in a way. We are so corrupt by media and eachother telling us how...
    brandoncan brandoncan 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2012

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    Far Far Away

    Iam a middle age woman living abroad . The country is beautiful ,but very different . And few people speak English . After being used to a fast- paced, public orientated  business life style, in a large  US city it's quite an adjustment. The people are very...
    Chisty Chisty 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2007

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    Luck's Not Fair!

    Story? That's what my life is now.. Just a story... and dat's it. People say that with time, we forget. But I say that, with time, we get more thoughtful about things... and at such a point that it acts as barrier. Anyways, if not for internet, then hell my life would be. If...
    Un4tun8 Un4tun8 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2008

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    That About Sums It Up.

    The title of this group just about sums it up for me. I find that I am a thoughtful and generous person because I give advise to people all the time who usually find my advise very helpful. I actually aspire to be a therapist so i can apply my human skills. It has actually...
    peachplumpear peachplumpear 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Lonely Person

    I am a  a good ,independent person who has few close friends.  I get lonely because of lack of socailizing  and not being involved in large crowds. I get loney and feel like a loner at times,but sometimes I would rather be by myslef.
    wisdom7 wisdom7 41-45, F Apr 21, 2009

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    Lonely For A Relationship

    "I am a thoughtful, generous, lonely person".  I've been divorced for over 8 years & lost my parents since then.  It took me some time to work through those losses.  I am active, outgoing, get out with friends, see my family from time to time, help others, have dated off & on...
    KindHeartedWoman KindHeartedWoman 51-55 3 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    Honestly

    I'm very lonely right now. I've moved far away from my hometown and for good reason. things were too hectic and it wasn't a healthy environment. I deactivated my facebook account. I've decided to take the year off from the distraction. back to the loneliness. I own a smart phone...
    MrSolodolo1 MrSolodolo1 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Hope This Is Not Forever

    I will always be thoughtful and generous, but just wish the loneliness will leave me someday.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jan 31, 2013

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