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I I'm a Thoughtful, Generous, Lonely Person

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    Despair

    I'm a nice guy, there is nothing fundamentally wrong with me aside from my inability to socialise on the same scale that the average person can, why can't I....whats wrong with me...God I hate myself and I wish there were a God or some all-powerful cosmic diety I could lean on...
    utterfool utterfool 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    They Take Kindness For Weakness......

    I am always thinking of other people, their needs, if they are okay, if they are alone, if they want something, if I can help, but when I need someone to be there for me, there is NO ONE.  I have been used so many times, and you would think I would learn finally, to not be...
    neworleansgirl neworleansgirl 22-25 5 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    Hope This Is Not Forever

    I will always be thoughtful and generous, but just wish the loneliness will leave me someday.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jan 31, 2013

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    Outside Looking In!!!!!

    In short, I am 2yrs divorced now!! I have 3 kids that my exwife and her new husband try their best to keep from me!!I should say not just me; she is alienated from her entire family!!  Her Mother and Father,her sisters and all of her relatives. It's a real mess, I am better...
    lincoln lincoln 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    Lonely Person

    I am a  a good ,independent person who has few close friends.  I get lonely because of lack of socailizing  and not being involved in large crowds. I get loney and feel like a loner at times,but sometimes I would rather be by myslef.
    wisdom7 wisdom7 41-45, F Apr 21, 2009

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    Luck's Not Fair!

    Story? That's what my life is now.. Just a story... and dat's it. People say that with time, we forget. But I say that, with time, we get more thoughtful about things... and at such a point that it acts as barrier. Anyways, if not for internet, then hell my life would be. If...
    Un4tun8 Un4tun8 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2008

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    Honestly

    I'm very lonely right now. I've moved far away from my hometown and for good reason. things were too hectic and it wasn't a healthy environment. I deactivated my facebook account. I've decided to take the year off from the distraction. back to the loneliness. I own a smart phone...
    MrSolodolo1 MrSolodolo1 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Always Feeling Lonely And Carrying A Weight.

    Even tho in my past I haven't really had friends, My best friend would always beat me in high school to make fun of my sensitivity levels and even after that we never had a friendship, never spoke again. Now, I have grown to meet more friends. But they don't meet my emotional...
    Auricor Auricor 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    That About Sums It Up.

    The title of this group just about sums it up for me. I find that I am a thoughtful and generous person because I give advise to people all the time who usually find my advise very helpful. I actually aspire to be a therapist so i can apply my human skills. It has actually...
    peachplumpear peachplumpear 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I Guess This Isn't a Very Active Group

    And I've already joined a lot of "I'm lonely" "I'm alone" sort of groups, but I liked the title of this one.  I'm a good person.  I'm a loyal friend, compationate, empathetic.  But the only friends I have are online.  Don't get me wrong...
    UndergroundMan UndergroundMan 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    I Want More Friends Who Will Like Me For Who I Am.

    I have had many ups and downs in my life but I have never had friends actually want to break down my walls and want to know me. I am a sensitive gentlemen, and I would rather chat to girls because my personality, I am very easy going, I enjoy almost everything, If you want a...
    Auricor Auricor 26-30, M Apr 23, 2013

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    Abyss Bound, Lost Both Where Im Going And Who I Am. Lonely And Depressed. What Else Is New.

    Well........Life is rough and I honestly dont know what to think anymore at all :( I am good at hiding my wounds never letting the world see me for who i am and we live in a world to be who are is almost forbbidin in a way. We are so corrupt by media and eachother telling us how...
    brandoncan brandoncan 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2012

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    Confusing Feelings

    Today seemed like it would have been a pretty good, but it has gone downhill.I've been dating this guy for a while I've met online a year ago.I feel like I'm losing it.There's too many differences for me to accept lately.He's polymoric by nature and I'm monogamous by nature.He...
    Whatanaveragegirl Whatanaveragegirl 18-21 Aug 29, 2012

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    I Am, But...

    I am a thoughtful,Generous, and lonely person, but I am because i want to be. Thoughtful yes I always I'm, I think of others before myself and I am so used to it that I cannot change my ways about that other wise i feel kinda bad about it. Generous yes I am with my family and the...
    sakura9 sakura9 18-21 2 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    Far Far Away

    Iam a middle age woman living abroad . The country is beautiful ,but very different . And few people speak English . After being used to a fast- paced, public orientated  business life style, in a large  US city it's quite an adjustment. The people are very...
    Chisty Chisty 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2007

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    Lonely For A Relationship

    "I am a thoughtful, generous, lonely person".  I've been divorced for over 8 years & lost my parents since then.  It took me some time to work through those losses.  I am active, outgoing, get out with friends, see my family from time to time, help others, have dated off & on...
    KindHeartedWoman KindHeartedWoman 51-55 3 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    SHOWING YOU THE DARK! It was a small thing. A truly silly thing, really. A tiny little text I sent in a moment of Pain. The desire of wanting to connect.. connect someone who...
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