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I I'm An Army Girlfriend

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    I'm Loving A Stranger

    hi. i don't know how to start.. my boyfriend and i met here in kuwait. honestly, i don't know everything about him, but i really fall in love with him. it's my first time to be in this kind of relationship, i'm so afraid of losing him. i'm doing every adjustments needed to...
    simple1273 simple1273 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    I'm A Soon-to-be Army Girlfriend

    My boyfriend is 16, I'm 18.. He's a junior, I'm a senior. We're both in JROTC at our high school, and he's top cadet in our corps. He wants nothing more than to join the military, and is thinking about signing up soon and going to basic this summer. I don't know where our...
    aritchie aritchie 18-21 Oct 8, 2011

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    I Miss Him Already.

    hey ladies!   alrite so my man left yesturday for basic and im already becomng a disaster, i miss him so much.. this really sucks.. hes gone till october ... how do i deal with this? i keep trying to find things to do to keep my mind away from this but its all i think about...
    ilovemysoldier907 ilovemysoldier907 18-21 4 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    Met A Soldier Online.....getting Smitten Already!

    Ok so i'll start by saying i'm not quite an army girldriend...not sure what i am tbh, a month ago i started talking to this guy on this site (my army friend told me to go and support the soldiers so i did lol) Since first talking we have spoken everyday (the odd day not when he...
    oldskoolrockchic oldskoolrockchic 26-30, F Dec 4, 2012

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    I'm Gonna Miss My Man.

    We've been dating for probably close to three years now. He just went through boot camp for the army and then AIT, but he almost failed because he couldn't pass his PT. He finally passed it on his last chance, which was bittersweet because I was proud of him, but it also means I...
    LynnRawrs LynnRawrs 16-17, F Dec 28, 2012

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    Deployment

    omg is one of the hardest things to deal with. im 18 still young and the love of my life left me on thursday morning.   i have been hurting inside since the moment he left knowing i wont be able to see him for a ehole year. i have never done something soo hard and i know...
    preppybarbie1519393 preppybarbie1519393 18-21 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Hes Leaving

    So I met my boyfriend on myspace and we have only been dating for about two weeks, but honestly I fell inlove with him on our second date... He is leaving for his basic in the army for 11 weeks on Tuesday.. Idk how to deal with it, I already promised him I would wait but wow how...
    Sararene Sararene 18-21, F Jan 14, 2010

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    First Time Army Girlfriend

    Not really sure what to say.... I'm really new to being a Soldier's girlfriend. I have yet had to deal with him being deployed. I've been through the whole drill weekends. In October, he'll be gone all month for anual training. When I do get a chance to talk to him, he keeps...
    PrincessLovesHerSoldier72 PrincessLovesHerSoldier72 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    New To This Site.... Kinda Shy.

    i want to start off by saying that I'm only 15 but please do not judge me by my age. i know alot more than most people think. and yea. but anyways, my bf is 19. we have been together for about 7 months hes in the national guard. hes done completed basic and he was in AIT for 5...
    emilyshantae emilyshantae 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    I Miss Him

    i am a young 20 years old and my boyfriend kyle brown is 23 and he is just been promoted to an NCO and is an E5 which is pretty bravo alpha :)  i have been an army girlfriend offically not that long but i have been there for him for over 10 months..he is over in afghanistan...
    chelsebermel chelsebermel 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Back from Oklahoma . I am the happiest girl alive. I love him more than anything <33 it was good seeing him and his family. He got me a teddy bear with ACU's on it and he was...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Crazy to think that his bootcamp is 71 days and 58 days are already gone of that. After I see him at graduation and family day for two days it'll be a 140 day (or so) journey...but...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 29

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    I've never been so happy in my life! Tomorrow I finally fly out to Georgia to see my bf graduate from AIT. This has been a tough 3 months but I got through it. I wouldn't want my...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I'm new to the whole army balls, I think they are called battalion balls? But does anyone know when they are and does every state have one?
    lyssaraelou lyssaraelou 26-30, F Aug 18

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    Off we go to Fort Riley. The house is all packed into a U-Haul and the bird is in his carrier and very unhappy about it. We're camping our way there so that should be interesting...
    WOwifeLaura WOwifeLaura 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Army Girlfriend in need of advice and support! So my story is definitely different. My soldier and I have been dating for three months now. We met on an online dating site and...
    ashsager2012 ashsager2012 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I haven't heard from my boyfriend in weeks ever since he was shipped for BT in South Carolina. My friends don't know the pain or heartache so I hate talking to them about it... I...
    Harmonial Harmonial 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    If I'm just the girlfriend am I still allowed to go down for family day?
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    My boyfriend of almost seven months is going to F. Benning soon for Basics. I never knew this is what he wanted to do until the third month. I was and still am so scared and...
    awoolwineC awoolwineC 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    My boyfriend finally will get his phone tomorrow. I'm too excited☺️
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F Aug 15

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    He called me 😍 he talked to his family before me so we only got to talk for 3 minutes. I'm still thankful though ❤
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Got a cute little necklace in the mail from him (: no letter today. hopefully one monday!!(: I'm so in love with my soldier<3
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Got two very long letters today! After 3-4 days of no letters. I'm happyyy(:
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    My boyfriend left for basic training on July 9th. He's at fort sill ok. Graduates September 26, so proud of him! Might surprise him at graduation, he doesn't think I'm coming since...
    Armybrat02 Armybrat02 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Crazy to think about how much life has and will change. One year ago I never would have thought I'd be a proud military girlfriend ! I believe in fate haha. My bf gave me the...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Sep 5

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    I got two lettersssss(: he's nervous about his PT test so I'm praying for him!
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Soo me and my boyfriend of 2 years only have about 2 full weeks left together before he leaves for basic training for 6 months and I'm starting to freak out... I know I'm not the...
    rachelmarie28 rachelmarie28 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Another phone call!!!!! Omfg I can't handle my emotions. I was having such a ****** day. My depression just came over me like a wave and I was feeling so lonely. My cousins finance...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I am missing my soldier like CRAZY! Only 21 days (3 weeks from today to be exact) till I see him for family day(: ahhh! I'm so excited <3
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have one day left of texting with my boyfriend. I'm already crying and hyperventilating. I just can't take this. This is by far the worst thing I've had to go through. I have...
    aours aours 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I'm sad.. I didn't get any letter today I miss hiiiim!!! >.<!
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I've went through a lot of trials this week testing my patience and I'm happy to say god gave me the strength to get through them!!(: so happy because I got two letters from my man...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    One week down. 13 more to go. I'm missing him like crazy and just want to hear his voice. I can't wait till December 12th when I get to have him in my as again
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    My boyfriend just left for basic yesterday. This is definitely the hardest thing I have ever had to go through! If anyone has any advice on how to get through this, that would...
    tanajo5 tanajo5 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm feeling emotions I don't want to feel. I'm going through a lot right now, stuff I can't deal with by myself and now I'm starting to feel mad at him for leaving. Even though it...
    armygf916 armygf916 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    So my fiancé is home on leave, he got to come home Friday and is staying until the 27th. Well his parents who I am really close with, kicked me out today for no reason... They...
    MckaylaGrace MckaylaGrace 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I don't think that my boyfriends family likes me, while he's away at basic I try to stay in touch with his family and they just seem like they have no interest in me. I don't know...
    sherilena sherilena 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I was super stressed out this morning about school, friends and my bf at bootcamp, but I prayed and God helped me through the day. Ugh I broke out bad on my chin though cause of...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Back in California...... These 2 days went by too fast. I'm very proud of my soldier! These 3 months have been hell from waiting to get an address, to getting an address, to...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Ugh just want to cry cause I miss him ! I haven't broke down since the first 2 days he left and I don't feel like I'm going to cry but I miss him sooo much, time to go read letters...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    My boyfriend was shipped to South Carolina a few weeks ago for BT. It's been the hardest thing ever. The day he left was all worry for me. I didn't know if he got there safely , if...
    Harmonial Harmonial 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I miss him like crazy! Two letters today though. Ahh ❤❤❤ I wrote him in school and I'm sending him my ID photo so he can have a picture of me(: cause I don't have colored ink...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 18

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    So since I don't have a state ID I need my school ID since I'm still in high school to attend my soldiers graduation..funny thing is I just literally mailed my ID to him yesterday...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Today was the greatest day I've had in awhile. Since my boyfriends been back from basic, today's the first day he's back to himself. We actually have never talked so much in one...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I am working up a care package to send my boyfriend. I have the essentials; food and such. I'm also going to send him a bundle of letters that say "Open when..." and then when he...
    ariyaple04 ariyaple04 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Had an amazing day! His family is so nice. Both our families live in Indiana. They drove me to Oklahoma to see my bf with them! The whopping 15 hour car drive was sooo worth it...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Im a 16 year old girl who pretends to be someone else in my mind. I started doing this when I was like 12 or 13. I pretend to be this really beautiful girl named Lily who has...
    ABB98 ABB98 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    My God I feel so broken, I feel like my insides are being turned inside out, sounds like what my son experienced , every day now i die and the relive over and over again and again...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Sep 5

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