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I I'm An Army Girlfriend

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    I'm Gonna Miss My Man.

    We've been dating for probably close to three years now. He just went through boot camp for the army and then AIT, but he almost failed because he couldn't pass his PT. He finally passed it on his last chance, which was bittersweet because I was proud of him, but it also means I...
    LynnRawrs LynnRawrs 16-17, F Dec 28, 2012

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    Met A Soldier Online.....getting Smitten Already!

    Ok so i'll start by saying i'm not quite an army girldriend...not sure what i am tbh, a month ago i started talking to this guy on this site (my army friend told me to go and support the soldiers so i did lol) Since first talking we have spoken everyday (the odd day not when he...
    oldskoolrockchic oldskoolrockchic 26-30, F Dec 4, 2012

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    Deployment

    omg is one of the hardest things to deal with. im 18 still young and the love of my life left me on thursday morning.   i have been hurting inside since the moment he left knowing i wont be able to see him for a ehole year. i have never done something soo hard and i know...
    preppybarbie1519393 preppybarbie1519393 18-21 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    First Time Army Girlfriend

    Not really sure what to say.... I'm really new to being a Soldier's girlfriend. I have yet had to deal with him being deployed. I've been through the whole drill weekends. In October, he'll be gone all month for anual training. When I do get a chance to talk to him, he keeps...
    PrincessLovesHerSoldier72 PrincessLovesHerSoldier72 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    Hes Leaving

    So I met my boyfriend on myspace and we have only been dating for about two weeks, but honestly I fell inlove with him on our second date... He is leaving for his basic in the army for 11 weeks on Tuesday.. Idk how to deal with it, I already promised him I would wait but wow how...
    Sararene Sararene 18-21, F Jan 14, 2010

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    I Miss Him

    i am a young 20 years old and my boyfriend kyle brown is 23 and he is just been promoted to an NCO and is an E5 which is pretty bravo alpha :)  i have been an army girlfriend offically not that long but i have been there for him for over 10 months..he is over in afghanistan...
    chelsebermel chelsebermel 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I Miss Him Already.

    hey ladies!   alrite so my man left yesturday for basic and im already becomng a disaster, i miss him so much.. this really sucks.. hes gone till october ... how do i deal with this? i keep trying to find things to do to keep my mind away from this but its all i think about...
    ilovemysoldier907 ilovemysoldier907 18-21 4 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I'm A Soon-to-be Army Girlfriend

    My boyfriend is 16, I'm 18.. He's a junior, I'm a senior. We're both in JROTC at our high school, and he's top cadet in our corps. He wants nothing more than to join the military, and is thinking about signing up soon and going to basic this summer. I don't know where our...
    aritchie aritchie 18-21 Oct 8, 2011

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    I'm Loving A Stranger

    hi. i don't know how to start.. my boyfriend and i met here in kuwait. honestly, i don't know everything about him, but i really fall in love with him. it's my first time to be in this kind of relationship, i'm so afraid of losing him. i'm doing every adjustments needed to...
    simple1273 simple1273 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    New To This Site.... Kinda Shy.

    i want to start off by saying that I'm only 15 but please do not judge me by my age. i know alot more than most people think. and yea. but anyways, my bf is 19. we have been together for about 7 months hes in the national guard. hes done completed basic and he was in AIT for 5...
    emilyshantae emilyshantae 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have been an Army girlfriend for almost 7 months. In 2 days my boyfriend will be leaving for a two week training out of state (he's Reserves). When he comes home it will only be...
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Does anyone know if Army Reserves get leave when deployed? I'm not sure if it works the same way as active duty.
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I've never been so happy in my life! Tomorrow I finally fly out to Georgia to see my bf graduate from AIT. This has been a tough 3 months but I got through it. I wouldn't want my...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm new to the whole army balls, I think they are called battalion balls? But does anyone know when they are and does every state have one?
    lyssaraelou lyssaraelou 26-30, F Aug 18

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    Off we go to Fort Riley. The house is all packed into a U-Haul and the bird is in his carrier and very unhappy about it. We're camping our way there so that should be interesting...
    WOwifeLaura WOwifeLaura 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Went to church today and heard a good lesson. "We always hold back the gospel in worry that we'll offend someone , but at the same time what if you're offending Christ by holding...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 3

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    My whole day has been made. A letter from my soldier came today I'm the happiest girl alive❤️
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    My boyfriend finally will get his phone tomorrow. I'm too excited☺️
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F Aug 15

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    He called me 😍 he talked to his family before me so we only got to talk for 3 minutes. I'm still thankful though ❤
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Got a cute little necklace in the mail from him (: no letter today. hopefully one monday!!(: I'm so in love with my soldier<3
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Got two very long letters today! After 3-4 days of no letters. I'm happyyy(:
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I'm engaged!! I'm engaged!! I'm the happiest girl in the world!
    Georgiagirl86 Georgiagirl86 26-30, F Aug 1

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    My boyfriend left for basic training on July 9th. He's at fort sill ok. Graduates September 26, so proud of him! Might surprise him at graduation, he doesn't think I'm coming since...
    Armybrat02 Armybrat02 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    So my mom randomly got me a ukelele while she was out today (and I've wanted one for a while) and I think I'm gonna learn how to play it and write a song for my soldier(:
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Jul 31

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    So my boyfriend graduates from AIT at the end of August . I went to his family day almost 2 weeks ago and we got absolutely no alone time😔 now when I go at the end of this month...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Every night when I'm alone I wish I'd get a call from you on the phone Getting letters in the mail My love for you will never fail Whether you're 10,100, or 10,000 miles away My...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I got the cutest letter today, "my parents sent me a photo of us at graduation and it definitely made me happy." Awwwhh. And I get to talk to him tomorrow!! Even though it'll be...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Whew... what a week so far. I am starting a new teaching job which I am really excited about, but this week has been filled with meetings and policy discussions and I'm completely...
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F Aug 13

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    Another phone call!!!!! Omfg I can't handle my emotions. I was having such a ****** day. My depression just came over me like a wave and I was feeling so lonely. My cousins finance...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I am missing my soldier like CRAZY! Only 21 days (3 weeks from today to be exact) till I see him for family day(: ahhh! I'm so excited <3
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have one day left of texting with my boyfriend. I'm already crying and hyperventilating. I just can't take this. This is by far the worst thing I've had to go through. I have...
    aours aours 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm sad.. I didn't get any letter today I miss hiiiim!!! >.<!
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've went through a lot of trials this week testing my patience and I'm happy to say god gave me the strength to get through them!!(: so happy because I got two letters from my man...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I'm really hoping today or sometime this week I can buy my plane ticket to see my soldier in 24 days! Just about 2 weeks ago I drove 40 hours to see him it was so worth it but the...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    This is all new to me. I have known my boyfriend for three years, but we didn't live close to each other, long distance friendship. Our time to be together, after being friends for...
    ariyaple04 ariyaple04 18-21, F Aug 6

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    My boyfriend of a year and 10 months left for basic training in fort jackson SC two days ago. I feel like I'm starting to be depressed. Does it get any eaisier.? I talked to this...
    armygirlfriend2007 armygirlfriend2007 18-21, F Aug 6

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    My boyfriend of 1 year and 10 months left about 2 days ago for basic training. I'll get to see him for two days in October when he graduates. Then he goes to ait for 3 more months...
    armygirlfriend2007 armygirlfriend2007 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 6

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    My boyfriend and I have dated for 9 months. In 19 days our military journey will begin and he will leave for Basic Training, Infantry school, and then will be stationed somewhere...
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I just got to finally hear my soldiers voice after a little more than 5 weeks. Right after he bung up I just cried and cried and cried. The call was only 10 minutes but it meant...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 10

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    I don't think that my boyfriends family likes me, while he's away at basic I try to stay in touch with his family and they just seem like they have no interest in me. I don't know...
    sherilena sherilena 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I was super stressed out this morning about school, friends and my bf at bootcamp, but I prayed and God helped me through the day. Ugh I broke out bad on my chin though cause of...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need advice !! So my boyfriend and I have Been together for almost 2 years. I'm Currently not going to school or employed. While my boyfriend was in basic training he got to...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Well, my soldier left today for a two week field training out of state. It's the first of 5 trainings before he deploys. I'm actually coping a lot better than I thought I was going...
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F Aug 9

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    I miss him like crazy! Two letters today though. Ahh ❤❤❤ I wrote him in school and I'm sending him my ID photo so he can have a picture of me(: cause I don't have colored ink...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Aug 18

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    So my fiancé is home on leave, he got to come home Friday and is staying until the 27th. Well his parents who I am really close with, kicked me out today for no reason... They...
    MckaylaGrace MckaylaGrace 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    So since I don't have a state ID I need my school ID since I'm still in high school to attend my soldiers graduation..funny thing is I just literally mailed my ID to him yesterday...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Today was the greatest day I've had in awhile. Since my boyfriends been back from basic, today's the first day he's back to himself. We actually have never talked so much in one...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Once again he's been gone and I miss him. Sometimes I can't help but feel angered that he chose to do this. That he chose to leave. That he chose to leave me behind. And sometimes...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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