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I Im Having An Affair With A Married Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 127 People

    So Confused.

    We worked in the same company before, about 10 years ago.  We already liked each other then but he already had a girlfriend, who is his wife now.  So none of us pursued what we felt before.  He got married in 2004 and I got married in 2005.  We didn't hear from each other in...
    dawnbreak dawnbreak
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 14, 2011

    An Beautiful Affair Ever...

    An affair with married man I am having affair with married man since 1 and 1/2 half yrs, knowing that he has 1 yr son. Thought many times to breakup with him, hell i cant, i don't know what stops me from breaking up with him. We met while working out in gym, was walking on...
    deleted deleted
    May 14, 2013

    An Affair With A Married Man. Don't Judge Till You've Been There

    Nine months ago I filed for divorce from my husband of 23 years.  We have two children, 18 and 22.  The marriage had been shaky for just about forever.  We had nothing to speak of as far a sex life for the last 8 years or so.  He's emotionally immature and...
    fay64 fay64
    46-50, F
    10 Responses May 11, 2010

    Married Wife Having An Affair With A Married Man

    I am so confused. Never did I imagine that I would be in this situation. Have been married for 15 yrs. My relationship with my husband is good. He has a good heart and responsible. I would say he is an excellent father to our children. We have grown apart as a couple he says...
    Kuzco9908 Kuzco9908
    Apr 26, 2011

    Yes, and I Plan to Again.&n...

    Yes, and I plan to again.  It was the only good sexual experience of my life.  I don't like to live with whom i love.
    AyeAye AyeAye
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2008

    Im Having An Affair With My Boss Who Is Married

    Ive been seeing this guy for 2 months now. He is married and has been for 3 months, we are in love although it has been difficult at times due to the fear that collegues will find out about us. He does not love his wife and will be leaving her after a year, when he can legally...
    Pinkisexi Pinkisexi
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2008

    It Does Nt Feel Healthy For Me,,,

    I have just ended an affair with a married man. I made the first move when we met, he told me that he was unhappy in his marriage and that it he had not been happy for sometime. At the begining this made it alright to have an affair, afterall marriages breakdown dont they! We...
    cruickshankt cruickshankt
    Jul 30, 2011

    He Needs Me More

    I'm 27, finally single after a 8yr relationship with my childs father. None of those 8yrs I took serious. I knew I would never be happy with him. Long story short. I'm not needy, I can handle a load of things. But this affair i can no longer handle. He needs me more, he makes me...
    lw8099 lw8099
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 7, 2008

    Falling For Him...

    Lets see where do I start? I started an affair with a co-worker almost a year ago. It started out with flirting and was pretty innocent. I had a crush on him since I first started but since he was married I backed off and stayed away. Then one day after I had been there about a...
    headed2luv headed2luv
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2008

    My Friend

    Just like others I am sure. He was my good friend. He protects me, cares about me and loved. Now we are involved. Yes I want him to leave her.
    NCLove NCLove
    51-55, F
    Dec 16, 2012

    We Love Each Other Deeply

    I have been married for 5 1/2 years but 4 months ago I started having an affair with a married man. We love each other very deeply.  when he is'nt with me I feel like a piece of my heart has been taken away. he feels the same. We started out as dance partners doing a fusion...
    hannah240982 hannah240982
    8 Responses May 27, 2008

    I'm Nothing But An Old Fool

      My affair with a Married Man was very different from other people’s experience. Firstly I was 46 (single never been married) and lonely when it began.  He was 51 and had only been with his partner for 18 months (but not actually married).   We were...
    Caro1959 Caro1959
    Sep 27, 2010

    Why Cant I Just Enjoy The Moments And Not Be So Attached?

    I am so happy that I found this website with no judgments cause I know what I am doing is so wrong. But even though I know it will end with me being hurt, I am still doing it. I met him online a few months ago. It started out innocent enough, just a MM looking for friendship...
    genniger69 genniger69
    36-40, F
    Apr 5, 2011

    I Never Would Have Thought.....

    I never would have thought that I would have an affair. I have been happily married for almost 16 years to my H. This past year was probably the worst of the 16. I re-connected with an ex of mine from way back, sometime in January. It started out as just a friendly hello how...
    lisaslobster lisaslobster
    31-35, F
    Sep 14, 2010

    I Had No Idea We Would Share Such a Connection...

    We met online and I knew he was married.  I'm recently divorced and I had found such new power in my sexual energy that I really had begun to abuse my body by sleeping with men, regardless of their status.  I had one affair with a married man that was completely sexual...
    jennaporter jennaporter
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Jul 28, 2008

    IM Heartbroken

    swtnsassy54 swtnsassy54
    1 Response Mar 28, 2008

    Having An Affair With Someone Who Shows No Emotion Towards Me

    Hello. I think I might feel better if I get this out. I have been having and affair with a married man. This affair has been going on for 5 months. He will never tell me he loves me or even that he has strong feelings for me. I have no idea why I am doing this to myself because...
    afoth afoth
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 16, 2012

    Wow...i'm So Not Alone

    Sigh.  So glad that I stumbled across this site.  It's heart-wrenching to see the similarities in all of our experiences.  I've been married to my husband for 11 years, been together for almost 14.  He's a sweet, wonderful man, great dad, well-liked by everyone...I love him...
    gem969 gem969
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 31, 2012

    Just Today

    I am 22 and met a 49 year old man a year ago handsome successful, when me and my husband split up and he and his wife split up so we started talking.  I got back with my husband and  he got back with his wife, we talked for a little while after  ...
    Billsbaby2010 Billsbaby2010
    Sep 19, 2010

    Emotionally Draining

    hi ive been seeing a married man for 3 year now, when we first met he was seperated from his wife, after 5 weeks he went back with her at first it didnt bother me as i wasnt all that into him at the time, i kept on seeing him and now have developed feelings for him, when we are...
    8hobart 8hobart
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

    In A Relationship With A Married Man

    tina3 tina3
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2010

    Married Man Hell

    I met A on a dating website, he told me from the off that he was married but him and his wife have "issues", we got together, he lives in London while I live in the North East so we can't see each other often.  He says he stays with his wife for the kids but in my opinion...
    lp75 lp75
    Apr 11, 2010

    How To Let Go?

    At first we were just friends then slowly but surely we started having deep feelings for each other so bad we couldnt fight it, Am in a long distance relationship which is going nowhere slowly and he is apparently stuck in a unhappy marriage well arent they all? He confessed some...
    Dolta Dolta
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2012


    I've known him for years but not well.  This thing started about six months ago.  For me it has escalated very quickly.  I'm absolutely wild about him.  I seriously feel like I've found my soul mate.  How could I have done this to myself?  It...
    Sueorsomething Sueorsomething
    36-40, F
    7 Responses May 26, 2008

    A Big Bundle Of Confusion... Is Love Worth It?

    I am 20. alot more mature than any average 20 year old and find myself in a serious situation and dont know what to do. I have been seeing a 58 year old married man and fell crazily inlove with him very quickly. He and i had the many discussions of him leaving his current wife...
    missg2b missg2b
    18-21, F
    Oct 1, 2010

    I Want to Break Free

    This affair started 11 months ago. the most upsetting thing is i know his wife. We actually met through an ex-boyfriend. He has had affairs before and I knew about them, i was told through his wife. It wasnt'e pre-empted by me. He instigated it,  and as I had a few wines it...
    tinkerbell3279 tinkerbell3279
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2007

    Ending My Affair....

    I have been married to my husband for almost 16 years, I am 36. I have been having an affair with an older, married man for the past 4 months. I honestly do not know how it happened. My husband and I have a fabulous sex life, have fun together, go out on dates together, take time...
    me123456 me123456
    8 Responses Aug 31, 2008

    Total New

    I have been married 18plus years to a great guy, with 5 kids...yes, all have the same Daddy!! I have never been with another man and seem to be the goody-to-shoes type. I was recently approached by a guy, married guy, looking to "hook up". I am flattered cuz it has never happen...
    Lavender29 Lavender29
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Aug 24, 2010

    So Confused

    It started off innocently enough... a leaving do for a colleague which gave us a chance to catch up as we'd both been moved to different departments and I had been promoted. By the mid evening it was just the guy leaving (lets call him LG), him (MG) and me. Money was starting...
    nythingoes nythingoes
    36-40, F
    Feb 8, 2011

    Sex and conversation

    When I started my affair I was in the process of getting divorced and out of a horrible relationship. I actually went looking for a married man because I did not want a serious relationship and needed to be discrete. My marriage had been lacking in intimacy for years and I...
    sugarpants8 sugarpants8
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2012

    My First My Only Real Love

    Have loved him for 44 years... We met when i was 13 and he almost 20. He was my first of everything. We were together on and off until i was married at age 19. He married another due to getting her pg. We starting seeing each other again after 18 mo into my marriage. and it...
    Pete0305 Pete0305
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    I'm Seeing A Married Man

    Over twenty years ago, my boyfriend cheated on me with his current wife. I moved on and he moved on.Twenty years later, he found me despite we live in completely opposite end of the country. I found myself drawn to him again. Now, he is cheating on his wife with me. I'm very...
    AffairMe AffairMe
    Apr 15, 2010

    I Get Annoyed Just Thinking About It

     I do not think it is ok to be doing what I am doing.I am living with a married man, waiting for his divorce so we can get married. I have never done this before and I REALLY hate sharing men. I simply dont share them.They have been separated for a year, but the divorce isnt...
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 10, 2007

    Love of My Life

    I have met him in August. He approach to me first, even though I was looking into a new relationship for a while. On our first date I told him that I'm married, and do this because want to change things, and   he said the same. I was very surprised, because in a club he said...
    bonitaa bonitaa
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2007

    It Is What It Is

    We started as acquaintances through the car club we are in. I'd seen pictures of him and thought he was gorgeous, and in all honesty, I wanted him! LOL. I knew he was married so I never expected anything to happen. He lives about 500 miles from me in another state.One day we...
    lyteyes lyteyes
    Apr 6, 2011

    How Hurt Would You Be?

    I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being hurt by an affair.   Check out the survey........ “What Would You Do With The Pictures Left Over From Your Affair...
    51-55, M
    Mar 29, 2010

    The Cold Hard Affair

    The problem with my experience is that there is no sugar coating it. There is no pretending that I am a victim or that we even have feelings for each other. He is married and has been married for three years. I don't love him, I am extremely attracted to him, but that is all...
    beem87 beem87
    26-30, F
    Mar 16, 2013

    The Perfect Man, Except He's Married

    I have known this man over a year. We know each other through a social avenue we both attend, playing sports. He actually works there. I am a very competitive person by nature, so is he :) When we first met there was an initial attraction on my part that I never acted on...
    Sunflower22 Sunflower22
    3 Responses May 25, 2008

    He Leaves Me Every Day

    We've been seeing each other for six months. He was a casual friend before it started, I was newly single, lonely. He's married, bored I guess. I'm a fool to have ever thought this was anything but a terrible idea.   In this time, I've discovered that he and I fit so well...
    Sueorsomething Sueorsomething
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 16, 2008

    The More I Love Him,the More I Am Hurting Myself

       I have been a single mum for almost 11 years now and never have given myself achance to date and just focus on my 2 boys.I met the guy as my patient and He invited me for a dinner but I refused until I GAVE HIM A CHANCE OR A CUP OF COFFEE.Welearn to know our life history and...
    jhenlac jhenlac
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2012

    So It Comes To An End...

    My two and a half year affair ended this week.  It has ended before, but I feel in my heart that this time we both feel that it is best for us to walk away.  He left his wife four months ago and moved into his own place.  I felt strongly that it was best for them...
    Sueorsomething Sueorsomething
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

    My Experience

    I am in love with a married man...and not later than 2 months of having this relationhip, we decided to live together. We are both working in Dubai which is one reason why we made a snap decision of the set up of living together. Until one day his wife finally knew about it...
    anne625 anne625
    31-35, F
    Apr 18, 2010

    For Sean

    I was in a happy place, my marriage was great family life was good, i was so happy with life. Then i met you, and now i cant move on. When we met i felt like time stood still for us. I loved being with made me feel things i never knew i could. You leave...then you...
    lbrst97 lbrst97
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2008

    I'm In A Longterm Lesbian Relationship And Having An Affair With A Married Man

    I've searched online for a story like mine, but I can't find one. I'm a 47 year old woman, in a committed relationship with a woman for 18 years. I've never been interested sexually in men. A few months ago, I developed a good friendship with a male co-worker. He works for...
    Jenny8888 Jenny8888
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Jan 8, 2011

    Affair At Work.

    i've been in a relationship w/ the father of my 2 young kids 5 yrs and 6 months since 2004. and its been a mess since the start. something keeps me with him but just im so miserable. we dont even sleep together in the bed anymore. which things got worse 2 yrs ago when i had an...
    lcgirl lcgirl
    Aug 9, 2011

    How It Begins.....

    I have known this guy for almost 6 years now and we have flirted in the past but he was my husbands boss and he is married also. We met a couple of time throught the 6 years but never had sex. It was more like make out sessions! My husband has never been a romantic man, I have...
    unpredictableinkc unpredictableinkc
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 20, 2010
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