I Im Having An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 106 People

    donnaaaa donnaaaa
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    This is getting ridiculous.

    I should change the title to I AM IN A SEXLESS AFFAIR. Am I that hard to have sex with, that unattractive, that difficult? I thought that having an affair would help meet my sexual urges and needs that my husband is unable to provide. But I am still the one initiating all the...
    Desire91 Desire91
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2015

    I have such a hard time with weekends

    as the other woman. Does anyone else experience this?
    Whowouldhavethunk Whowouldhavethunk
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    Just some vague/ random thoughts.

    ... Call me crazy but there is a twisted satisfaction at looking at your affair partners cheesy girlfriends FB page, of her ( dumb selfie ) and he as cover page and think , we just had mind blowing, movie quality sex last night and you think it's a fairytale. I understand...
    artangel3200 artangel3200
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2016

    I'M Falling In Love.

    My marriage..... It's a joke. It has been from the very start. I knew it in my mind. Let's be honest, we all know our own truths. But I wanted it to be different. I tried to make it different. Despite his cheating and breaking my heart over and over I've stayed. Sad and alone...
    gr1128 gr1128
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Nov 17, 2013

    I broke up with AP (again) today I hope this

    time,both of us will have the courage to do the right thing,its killing me
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    I'm a young woman stuck in a situation

    that has completely blown my mind. I never intended to have an affair at any point in my life but the affair i am currently having has become my life. He's a few years older than me and he's married. It started off completely harmless, just having the odd conversation here and...
    YourMissingPiece YourMissingPiece
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    Married 23 years, the last 5

    or so very unhappy. My husband is not a terrible guy, not abusive or anything, a great dad (now) to our 10 year old daughter. I've been carrying the financial load for years now while he can't seem to accept his own company is not getting the job done anymore and he needs to...
    janedoe227 janedoe227
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    I met him over a year ago

    and I just liked him; we could spend hours talking and laughing. He treated me with respect. We agreed that we didn't want to end our relationships but neither of us were happy in our relationships. My children are grown up and he has none. My friends say we should be...
    lizzyh1 lizzyh1
    46-50, F
    Apr 7, 2014

    Fed up hes away again

    and in been ignored not happy!
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I've been having an affair

    for 3 years now and my lover has told me she wants to end it and its broke my heart i love her so much its killing me not seeing her.She never wanted us to leave our partners and now she is saying its getting to hard to live with the guilt.I want us to leave our partners and be...
    hikk01 hikk01
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2016

    I've made such a horrible mistake.

    The young girl I've known her entire life came on to me and I let her. I have a wife and a son and I've been seeing a 19 year old girl. I'm so ashamed of myself but it's so exciting. That's hard to admit but it is. She's a beautiful girl. I know I have to end it immediately...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    I'm married with two sons

    and have recently met an amazing man 15 years older. We have amazing conversations and great sex. I think about him constantly and want to be with him but I am from a very religious family and I'm afraid that my family won't really be there to support me while I rebuild if I got...
    rw0908 rw0908
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2015

    I'm lying here on my bed thinking about Mr29

    and the amazing time we had 2 nights ago in a beautiful suit at the Four Seasons in Sydney.. And than remember I wrote something while I watched him sleep.. Which wasn't for long coz I was able to write what I was feeling but couldn't post it as he woke up... Here is what I...
    CougarKitty CougarKitty
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2014

    Need to make a him ive choice to leave country

    I'm in and leave my FB a thing that's going nowhere or back to otherside of the world to my adult kids hopefully start my life again.the pain of leaving him hurts so much:(((
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    Why did I do it... I am a 41 yr old woman.

    Married with a son 11. I met my mm 5yrs ago. A relative of his introduced him to my h. We all became friends, hung out almost everynite as a group at my home a few friends my h and I. Just a quick after work beer before everyone went home everyone lived I the neighborhood...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    Mr29 sent me a messages this morning.

    ... My Beautiful Naaz. I woke up this morning and realized 10 more days and I will get to see you.. Hold you.. Show you how much I have missed you.. Your presence.. Ur smile.. The smell of your perfume.. Your soul gripping eyes.. Your soft touch and your seductive kisses.. I...
    CougarKitty CougarKitty
    36-40, F
    Jul 22, 2014

    I met my FB 2 years ago

    after I had a messy divorce and he made me feel wonderful we had been friends over 30 years and last era on is think of have an affair with.i ended up falling in love with him never loved anyone so much.he never promised me anything as had a partner.i ended up meeting someone...
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 12, 2015

    Now that I read this again,

    it sounds like it's all about the money for me. It's not. I forgot to mention that he is an ***. Ask anyone that knows him. His own friends will say the same. The few people I have told that we were having trouble all say they don't know how I've put up with him this long.
    janedoe227 janedoe227
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2014

    My AP and I are having a bit of

    misunderstanding,no contact for two days already,I just dont want to be emotionally dependent on him anymore,its so unhealthy and rightnow its killing me
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978
    31-35, F
    Apr 18, 2015

    I'm a very young mom

    who got married young! a year and half ago we lost house and moved in with his best friend! me and my husband have had his friend as a roommate for awhile he is older than me but gets me our affair has gone on for almost 10 months now and I have fallen for him and I think him...
    tlizzy531 tlizzy531
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2015

    NEVER thought I'd be in this position

    because I know it's wrong, but...I'm married & having an affair with a married man. It started out innocently enough---we just met standing in line for lunch one day & hit it off! He took my card, we kept corresponding and eventually met again...and it started. We've...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    32 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    So I finally got back home to Australia last

    Wednesday after being away for nearly 5 weeks.. And Friday evening we met for the most amazing 6 hours at Hilton Sydney!! I made sure we had Oysters.. Strawberry and Cherries with melted chocolate and Of course more Swiss chocolate and champers!! I can say that the distance and...
    CougarKitty CougarKitty
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    Love and hate relationship with my AP,

    will I ever get tired of it...Dammmm It!!!!
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    One minute hes so distant next hes messaging

    are you home I want to come round the roller coaster drives me nuts .found out big argument with his partner yesterday .
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    Jul 6, 2015

    No contact from my FB

    since ive been on my hols so upset!he has a girlfriend we always keep in contact it's me who's in love with him not other way round.ive gone away with a guy who's great is he my boyfriend I can't say as I love my FB .fb seems funny I'm away yet I feel he dosnt care.
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    Sep 20, 2015

    Ok ive left my partner of 7 months

    as just couldn't fall for him as so in love with guy I'm having an affair with,who's promised me nothing and will never leave his partner.i love him so much now my life has got tonget sorted I'm thinking of moving back to oz from the UK but breaks my heart to leave the guy i see...
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2015

    I need to let this out.

    Things got better for a while... but as usual. it's slipping back. He finally went to see the counselor... ONCE. like that is going to help ANYTHING. and now he is going back to his old excuses and attitude to get out of having sex with me. I am getting the urge to find my...
    Desire91 Desire91
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2015

    So when you all have plans with your affair

    partner ... Do you engage in mindless small talk or get right to business??? It's hard to " catch up" when so much has gone on in your every day lives.. What do you pick m choose to talk about ?
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200
    36-40, F
    Feb 8, 2016

    I'm 35 and have been married

    for 8 years and I'm having an affair with an attached 29 year old and ow my God!! The amount of fun we have been having is just amazing.. We r both happy in all other areas of our life except for the Sex part and that we fulfill with each other.. I have no guilt or remorse as...
    CougarKitty CougarKitty
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 12, 2014

    Please listen to me. Make your decision after.

    I've had 2 affairs. Loved them and they loved me. Guess what? Man don't leave their wives. Unless you are ok with being the other woman. They say they are not happy Are we? Who is???? They love you to a point. If they have to chose they'll. chose their wives everytime and...
    Marcela63 Marcela63
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2013

    I'm having an affair with a boy 10 years my

    junior, it's making me self conscious and literally feel sick daily as I want him so much, but it's just sex for him. How do I get over him? I can't give him up it makes me so sad :(
    readysteady23 readysteady23
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    I am having an affair.

    And it's not my first time. I entered into a poly relationship that turned into an affair about 2 years ago and after getting pregnant I left. About four months ago I met a really nice man and we started dating, after a month he told me he'd been living with and in a...
    skywalkermama skywalkermama
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2015

    Gutted I'm off to the otherside of the world

    tomorrow for 3 weeks!Today I was hoping to see my FB but he made every excuse to see him only to go round once his partner home.i am heartbroken as wanted to see him on my own even just coffee.i don't understand him.
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    Feb 24, 2015

    Wow! That temptation runs deep.

    I've been told i am mentally strong but I feel so weak, I don't always surrender but I'm struggling with saying no right now. Be Strong ! Be strong!! Putting things into perspective works sometimes. Let me try that
    SonicLove SonicLove
    36-40
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    I have been married 12 years.

    ..it all happened so fast. ..I met him when I was 20 and I was living with my parents. . he's 32 years older than I am. we saw each other everyday fit the first 4 months. .. we got pregnant and when my parents kicked me out I moved in with him after only 4 months of "dating...
    mom2dotnjr mom2dotnjr
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2015

    2 more weeks and I will have u all over me like

    "white on rice".. I just got back to my hotel room here in Dubai after another long day of work.. And the first thing that came to mind was.. If only u were waiting for me naked wrapped in those hotel sheets... I wish I could face time u right now but it's after midnight in...
    CougarKitty CougarKitty
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    Could someone explain to me

    when my FBs partner goes away I hear and see from him less,I don't get it all!!i live 5 mins from him I look at it 100 hours she's away he can't slot me in,I know he would never stay over or take me out but can't see why we can't see each other.
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    Sep 12, 2015

    My affair is consuming me,

    deep in my heart I know I love my husband,Im begging my husband to get help,I want to be intimate with him,but he refused to accept he has problems,I have needs and my AP is my friend,we are seeing each other for 3yrs already,its not easy to say goodbye,aside from my husband,he...
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2015

    Why can't I wrap my mind around this 6 year

    affair. We are both are in relationships ( I'm married w kids, ( I love my little family so much, why can't I stop , it breaks my heart) my AP has a needy annoying girlfriend ) I can't stop seeing him. I've tried many times, the motivation to stop are obvious right...
    ScarletLetters81 ScarletLetters81
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 28, 2016

    When is it the right time to enter into "no

    contact" zone. I am struggling with the whole concept. Who decides?? We are both committed - his relationship is newer than mine. I'm thinking about dropping it cold turkey mainly because, when you really break it down, generally speaking, our only real benefit from...
    SonicLove SonicLove
    36-40
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    Mr29 is the word of endearment I use

    for the amazing guy I'm having an affair with.. I'm currently overseas for 3 weeks thanks to work and I'm missing him.. And his missing me..Although we FaceTime each other everyday I just feel the need to have him here with me physically.. Just Hug him and feel his breath on my...
    CougarKitty CougarKitty
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2014

    Well ****. You did it again.

    Every time I see you, our hands won't stop. We barely made it in the front door this time- I broke buttons off my blouse, and am still missing earrings. And a pen- but that's beside the point. ****- we were in the middle of round three- you were not letting up, and I wasn't...
    Calbie5 Calbie5
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    I saw my 'other man' today.

    I glanced around at work & there he was, eyes smouldering, burning into me.....I felt my heart leap. We had arranged to meet in my lunch break anyway, but seeing him standing there watching me stirred me inside! I have been having an affair with this man for 4 months. I didn't...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2014

    This fantasy relationship is depressing right

    now and I cant still let go....whats wrong me...I know I should but I cant.Im positive Im crazy,why I like pain so much
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I think I've lost my FB

    and gutted!messages are strained if any not seem him for fun for 5 weeks.i try and ask him if he wants to see me and ignores I miss him in my life😢
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    Do you consider a cyber affair / sexting with

    exchange of pics and cam sex cheating?
    Marcela63 Marcela63
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    My FB had been pulling away 2 weeks ago told

    him I didnt want to see him anymore as I deserved more and a guy who was just mine,told him I was sick of been used and I do everything a parter does looking after his house,dog,adult kids,clothes shop for him etc etc!hes coming round to my flat putting xx after texts letting me...
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    Aug 25, 2015
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