I I'm In An Open Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 297 People

    My husbands girlfriend is starting to show a

    very manipulative side. One night she text him (while he was with me), and said that if he didn't go and see her at that moment that she would sleep with someone else. Then she went home with a stranger and had unprotected sex. (She was tested and all methods of safety have...
    nyas28 nyas28
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Feb 22, 2015

    I was in an open marriage

    for 17 years, but we got divorced 3 years ago. The agreement was that I could sleep with whoever I wanted to as long as they were female. I still had my husband and had two beautiful daughters with him, but still got to be with many women throughout the marriage. Loved that i...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Why is it that we compartmentalise all of our

    lives but cannot seem able to do it romantically? Why is the assumption for our partner to be absolutely everything we could ever need?! That's a lot of unrealistic, unnatural pressure. We accept and encourage variety in so much else in life: in the foods we eat, in the...
    Beautifulpolyamory Beautifulpolyamory
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    My wife and I have been together

    for almost 20 years. We just recently opened up our marriage. We both have now had experiences outside of our marriage and it has some how brought us closer; this is not what I expected. We have a great sex life and are now looking for a couple we are both attracted to in...
    Ledjamm Ledjamm
    41-45, M
    Jun 30, 2015

    I'm in an open marriage

    and I love my wife, but I've also fallen in love with my girlfriend. They both mean the world to me and they get along great with one another. Why do O have this feeling that it's going to be short lived though?
    Kimahri Kimahri
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    I'm married to an amazing girl

    who I fell in love with 14 years ago. We are still in love eith eachother. For 12 years we had talked very little about relationships and opening our marriage. Two years ago we met the most interesting, fun, and attractive married couple on vacation. I was attracted to the girl...
    scottbrooks31 scottbrooks31
    36-40, M
    2 Responses May 19, 2015

    I love the fact that we have a open marriage.

    We have been married for 19 years and open for about 5 years if you count some 3somes we had it is a lot longer then 5 more like 12. I am both Poly/swinger. What I like the most is the experiences that I have had that makes me a better person. I bet is if you are strict vanilla...
    shakeydays shakeydays
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 1, 2014

    With Limits

    It was after a member here pointed it out that I realized we are in an open marriage but with rules We dont tell each other about going on a date, we just go and dont talk about it We are not swingers We dont go on dates often Dates are in the afternoon We never sleep over My...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

    What Was I Thinking

    My wife and I have been married for 14 years, Through out these years,I learned that she was a sex addict, she had 5 different affairs, some were the D/s lifestyle which I am not into, some were because I became a gaming addict and ignored her, about 3 years ago I moved to...
    justmephx justmephx
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Oct 16, 2013

    some do not understand

    but its only bi sex. thats why i am looking for a gay guy or closet gay.
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 28, 2015

    me and my wife are sometimes

    for bi sex only. she has let me meet alone with bi males to make sure they are bi. if the sex is good she is with us the next time. same for her but finding a woman into that is very hard.
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    I have been married about 10 years now.

    About five years ago she found out she couldn't have kids and stopped wanting to have sex. She told me she would be ok with me seeing other women she just didn't want to see it or hear about it. So for the past 5 years I have been having relationships with couples and other...
    lonelycaleb lonelycaleb
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2014

    Just recently my wife came to me with the

    request of opening our marriage. We have been married 24 years and she had reconnected with an old friend 6 weeks prior to her request. She did not want to cheat on me and wanted everything to be in the open. At first I was in shock and felt a great hurt but I couldn’t be a...
    lars51 lars51
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jun 13, 2014

    I told my friend not to get involved there is

    always a nosey ***** involved
    greatins51 greatins51
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    My husbands girlfriend just told him

    that she feels bad for me. That she's angry for me. That if she were in my position she would feel used, disgraced, and embarrassed. I feel bad for my husband. She has made him feel terrible. I love him. I'm a strong woman, and I know this lifestyle isn't for everyone. I don't...
    nyas28 nyas28
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2015

    My wife and I are very happily married .

    We enjoyed an open relationship before we married and continued after we married to enjoy an open marriage . Its worked for us for years , and still to date we're a very happy family and love our lifestyle ...
    mywifesacockwhore mywifesacockwhore
    56-60, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2016

    Society seems to accept cheating more

    than our decision for an open marriage. I hate that it's so taboo that I have to hide in order to not be horribly judged by most.
    HeidiD33 HeidiD33
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2016

    My wife had another experience with her lover.

    She has feeling anxious about her dates with him. She is nervous about really enjoying the time with him. We talked about how she feels the last couple of times she met with him. This time I said to her to really enjoy it she must do him like a **** star. So she did. She...
    Insouciance413 Insouciance413
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 5, 2015

    I think having an open marriage requires a lot

    of trust and I'm glad to say that my husband and I have had that trust for many years and it grows everyday.
    kasdnk kasdnk
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    I enjoy being open relationship.

    Any Texas females want to enjoy time together msg me.
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912
    41-45, M
    Jan 13, 2015

    Ever since my fiancé

    as I got together, we have casually talked about having sex with other people, attending swinger clubs or indulging in our fantasies. Last night our upstairs neighbors were so loud my fiancé could hear them (unfortunately I was asleep). When he told me about it today he...
    ladySoDivine ladySoDivine
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    Well, not yet I'm not,

    but hopefully all the issues can be worked out, so that I will be. When I posed the question to him about an open marriage, at first he was mad as hell. I don't understand why tho, because we're already swinging. There isn't much difference between that and open. He come up with...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2014

    I have been married since 2006

    and I am in a open marriage. It didn't start out that way my husband always had a wandering eye and our first year alone married he had had numerous affairs one of which lead to a pregnancy miscarriage. I finally came to the conclusion of a open marriage theoretically I had...
    navywife20111 navywife20111
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2014

    My sexy wife is only 27

    and has been with 11 diffrent guys this year some many times. This is a huge turn on .
    ctwstretch ctwstretch
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    I am 32 years old from Egypt looking

    for woman who accept swinger or open marriage seriously
    Kholio15 Kholio15
    31-35, M
    Mar 10, 2016

    my wife found her lover

    and had their first sexual experience. I am so happy for her..... we have come so far in our relationship. she is truly my best friend
    Insouciance413 Insouciance413
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    My wife and I have just had our first

    experiences outside of our marriage. We have been together for almost 20 years and both did very little dating before we got together. My experience happened in New Orleans and it went as great as I hoped for. My wife's and mine experiences have somehow brought us closer...
    Ledjamm Ledjamm
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    I'm currently in an open marriage my wife found

    someone right away to go out with and do things, I am not able to find anyone to go out with or do whatever. I'm from north east Ohio does anyone have suggestions on how to meet woman who like this situation on dating a married man. Thanks for any help.
    Adam3875 Adam3875
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    How does this work if this is one sided?

    I have no interest in other people and my husband has a girlfriend. I love my husband and don't want to destroy our family. reaching out to anyone who might have some insight on this.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    Me and my wife have just started this,

    I have had one fling with a girl a while ago and she had an encounter with a fellow coworker before that. Bug all in all we want to try more and expand out. IDE like to see first for myself I've there are any women out there who would like to chat to me or her? Maybe get things...
    abillawolf abillawolf
    31-35, T
    5 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    I woke up this morning next to my husband

    and my girlfriend, it was so beautiful. I wish it was acceptable in society.
    Veggieheart Veggieheart
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    I've been in an open relationship

    for two years but now my partner wants to form boyfriend/girlfriend relationships with the women he sleeps with.
    Deefa Deefa
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2015

    I'm looking for ideas.

    My husband and I have agreed to try an open Marriage. I've had a lover for almost 4 years already but we never put anything in writing. I think its time to do so. does anyone have a contract they would like to share. I'm also looking for like minded people to give me more ideas...
    mrsladydarque mrsladydarque
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    I have a great hubby

    and we are very open minded and like to have fun. I guess the main reason we are open is because I would it want him to miss out on any fun expérience and he the same for me. Life is short and full of suprises. We have been together 12 years and opening our marriage has done...
    kel25 kel25
    8 Responses Aug 19, 2014

    my (best friend) wife has found her lover on

    the side. I am happy and nervous all at once. we have been working towards this for some time now and everything is all coming together. I love her and I know she will definitely have a good time and enjoy herself.
    Insouciance413 Insouciance413
    41-45, M
    Oct 18, 2015
    openmarried openmarried
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014
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