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I Im In Love With a Married Man

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    Does Trust Exist?

    After two years of stolen moments I have found myself analyzing everything about what how he acts and what he says. He tells his wife that he is off a motorcycle ride with the boys or he is attending training in another city. However, when I don't hear from him during the day or...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Ladies...NC days means what.

    ..that you don't contact him at all or he does not contact you during the weekend...I only ask cause, when the weekends do come around, I still send him shorts text telling him things like "missing you, wish you were here, thinking about you".....sometimes he responds and...
    luvhimtoo luvhimtoo 36-40, F Aug 24

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    well , hes my boyfriend ,

    but her husband . SHE now knows of our relationship .and surprisingly is only pissed at me . he tells her some bullshit she falls for it . He even got caught calling me on her phone ... that was 3 days ago he hasn't called since so is it over or what ? I tried to end it when she...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    Loving HIM Hurts...

    Im in my mid twenties and he is in his early thirties. His wife is in her early fifties. She was there for him during his incarceration and took care of him. She told him that she always wanted to be married so he married her. Doesnt sound like love to me?? So they've been...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Begging For Your Love

    Came by at your house, There stood a beggar before your door, You were washing your car and said no to the bum, his wife and child, Saying he wants money but don't want to work for it like washing my car for a dollar... I wonder then who was the beggar you or me? Was it not you...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2012

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    Looking For Support...

    You know, I joined this group to find support, encouragement and people who experience the same thing I do.  It amazes me how on these posts someone always has to chime in with some kind of name calling. Look, we know we are in love with someone who is not legally ours. We know...
    Chloechloe69 Chloechloe69 41-45, F 13 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    Yes I Am

    I've known this guyvforva longtime. He is 10 years older then me. I just can't stop thinking about him. Even more now that i found out he's not happy with his marriage. I never told him howvi felt. Weave never done anything sexually. I know if me and him would ever get together...
    darkangel6977 darkangel6977 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19, 2013

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    Love Triangle

    I'm completely in love with a mm.......its not something I'm proud of, I've tried snapping myself back to reality but its no use cause I'm already deep in love....we've been together for 3years now, I've had sleepless nights crying over the situation and wishing that I've never...
    mumzel mumzel 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    An Update: Still In Love With A Married Man

    When I posted my story "I Im in Love With A married Man" i never expected so many comments and opinions. And I thank you all for your different points of views. My married man and I are still together and happier than ever. My birthday is a few weeks away and he asked if i wanted...
    mrsirving2 mrsirving2 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2013

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    Over Half My Life

    I  began seeing my married man at the age of 19, he was 25 . He is on his 3rd marraige and I have just left my 2nd husband. Throughout our 5 marraiges we have constantly seen each other on and off, but in the past years it has become alot stronger, emotinally, physically and...
    Jodhi2 Jodhi2 36-40 5 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    I'm in love with a mm we have dealing with each

    other for 8 yrs off and on we have a beautiful 15 month old daughter together he never told me that he would leave his wife matter of i have never told him to leave his wife, he loves me he makes me happy but at times I get sad because I want him to myself but I feel that won't...
    MarieSy80 MarieSy80 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    He Reminded Me

    I first want to say that I have been searching the web for a site to vent my story to people who share my pain, my joy and my utter confusion... My story begins over a year ago on the ashleymadison website (a web site for attached people seeking affairs).  I was and am...
    Penzi Penzi 31-35 7 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Borrowing

    The dictionary annotates that the definition of borrowing is taking and using something that belongs to someone else with the intention of returning it. We can apply that same concept to the time being spent with a married man. The moments that we are together I am merely...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Another Lonely Night...

    I know that I should expect it but still after all these years I wait for him...No show no call.. At least I got a Text message. Yep.. A text message. I rushed home from work. Cleaned up my house. Arranged for the kids to spend the night at a friends house. I got a text message...
    johnnysgirl johnnysgirl 41-45, F 19 Responses Sep 20, 2008

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    Anxious

    I think this has been the longest weekend ever.... I am so ready to talk and try to make some decisions as to what we are going to do. i need to know where we stand.... good, bad or ugly. I feel like I've just drank 10 cups of coffee! I am so wired! I don't know how I'm going to...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F Sep 22, 2013

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    I Am A Mistress

    i am myself a mistress.our affair will turn on its 7th yr this coming december.it's hard being in a discreet relationship.
    frozentears32 frozentears32 31-35 2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    im 18 years old and the 'Married Man'

    that i currently love is 26 years old. He's a teacher, I can't help to have the biggest crush ever on him. The way he looks into my eyes and smiles literally gives me butterflies, he always messes with me and teases me like its some sort of game. Even though he is a teacher, We...
    Ashbanash Ashbanash 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 24

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    A Better Week

    Just wanted to share that this week is going much better than last week. Why? Who knows? Maybe it has something to do with me breaking down and telling my mm that I couldn't deal with no texting, barely touching and not being alone with him at all! (if you have read my...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    So Unlike Me

    Its really such a long story and I will add to it as I go along . I got divorced after a 20 year relationship of which the last 11 years we were married . He had 12 affairs of that I know of during that time . Yes , I'm so stupid ... I should have left him the first time or the...
    rzeznik rzeznik 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    The Hardest Part!!

    The hardest part about seeing a married man is the effect it has on your confidence. When we are together he has a way of making me feel like I am the most beautiful woman on Earth and when we are apart I feel like I am just a horrific secret. I feel like I am a naughty secret...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    Life Can Be Cruel.

     Here's the gist of it.... When I was 28 years old I met a fellow and we connected instantly. He was a pilot and so different from the same old, same old run of the mill blokes that I was accustomed to meeting. I was separated after six years in a bad marriage and a...
    justysmom justysmom 46-50 5 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    It happened 5 months ago.

    .. we were very good friends at start, from 6 months earlier. He was 40, me 18.. completely wrong. But I tragically fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. He always cares about me, never made promises that he knew he can't keep. We are sharing the same passions, we...
    bluesail bluesail 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    Love Lost Then Found

    28 years ago I was 19...in college.  Over summer break of my sophomore year I fell in love with a wonderful 23 year old man named Dale.  He was my boss during the summer and our relationship didn't begin until summer was over and school began.  We dated...
    bmaduro1960 bmaduro1960 46-50 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    I Was Totally Unprepared...

    I'm in love with someone I knew 30+ years ago. He lived across the street from me and I didn't like him at! Fast forward, he friended me on FB in 2009. I was impressed that he made a nice life for himself, he has a beautiful wife and 3 kids. He looked happy, but not the case. He...
    greeneyes212 greeneyes212 46-50 Nov 10, 2013

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    I have been dating a married man

    for 3.5 years! I have been divorced for 1.5 years. He has a 4 year old and my 2 kids are older. He is still living in the house with his wife. They haven't been intimate for almost 4 years but they do share a bed. I just got hit with something huge and I don't know how to deal...
    rainbowgirlz rainbowgirlz 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Finally Found The Man I've Always Dreamed Of And He's Already Married..

    I'm a 45 yr old married mother of two. I have been married to my current husband 9 years. About 4 yrs ago he decides he doesn't love me anymore and after a rocky couple of years realizes that he'd rather tough it out with me than divorce me. After finding myself in this...
    shysub65 shysub65 41-45, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Is This Love Between Us Real?

    My story mirrors so many others. I never intended to fall for a married man. I was married and faithful to my husband for our entire marriage. He was an alcoholic, took drugs and eventually I could not fight the alcohol anymore and filed for divorce. It was horrible to go through...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Just Shoot Me

    Twice he's walked away. Not because he doesn't care, but because he feels guilty. It's been three months this time. I see him on Friday. It's always his idea to get back together "for coffee" and I always agree. I've had other "relationships" in between but they never work...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    lliivv31 lliivv31 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Little Things

    Today I was working in the yard, mowing, weedeating, edging, etc. and I stopped for a moment to sit down and sip on some water. I sat there thinking about all the little things I am missing being with a married man. If I were in an actual relationship my boyfriend would be...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    Me Too

    Its hell. Loving him so much and being #2. He says he loves me and I love him. But I know there's  no future. But to save my life I am addictived to him. I can't walk away tried already more than once.  The pleasure I get just seeing him a little while. He keeps me...
    silly1962 silly1962 46-50 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    I met and fell in love with a married man about

    a year ago. I was also married when we met but now I am heading towards divorce. However he won't leave his wife. He says he loves me and we spend a lot of time together because she works away 5 days a week and he and I go away together on weekends. But he says he can't leave...
    cajingal13 cajingal13 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    How I Broke Free From The Torment Of Being The Other Woman

    I had met what I thought was my soul mate. We were compatible intellectually, emotionally, and sexually. A real dream boat until I slowly woke up to a nightmare! Dating for 5 months. My womans intuition and some signs started to question. I confronted him and he finally admitted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    It Just Happened.

    I got engaged early this year, and my fiance moved into my house, I got a job and everything was fine for the time being. In my training group there was a man who made me happy, above everything else, he made me smile (coming to terms with depression meant this meant more to me...
    IDontCareWhatYouSay IDontCareWhatYouSay 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    What Brought Me Here

    Back in January, I was newly in an affair and I was surfing for a definition of a "dirty girl". That's how I found this place. Since then I have grown to think of it as my second home. My friends live here. My dirty little secrets live here. I have fallen in love and gotten...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I Know He Will Never Leave Her....

    I am in love with a married man. I know this sounds corny but his name is "John". John and I met 6 years ago at work. We hit it off as fast friends and before you know it we were insepperable. I was in a relationship with a real jerk who was abusive to me at the time...
    johnnysgirl johnnysgirl 41-45, F 12 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    “The heart dies a slow death,

    shedding each hope like leaves until one day there are none. No hopes. Nothing remains.” -Arthur Golden
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 8

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    I'm in love with him.

    ..my mm is younger and seems to have more experience than I do....I saw a picture of him and his wife today....stared at it so long I started to get nauseated .....felt like my heart sunk to my stomach .....I don't understand...I know he's hers but he says he's mine too...idk...I...
    luvhimtoo luvhimtoo 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    What'S Missing?

    What I am missing because I am involved with him: 1. A kiss every night 2. A kiss every morning 3. To feel loved everyday 4. Someone I can call anytime, especially when I have had a bad day 5. A shared meal 6. Date night 7. Sleeping in on a Saturday all cuddled up with someone...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    SO Confused!?!

    him and his wife used to be my roomates now he calls himself my boyfriend to my lil sister he calls me every day he texts hey beautiful every morning we go on dates hes always giving flowers he treats me good he keeps talking about divorcing his wife i dont know what to do i love...
    georgeous0913 georgeous0913 22-25 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    Honesty

    I spent the weekend with my MM and it was amazing. I really didn't want to see it end. I hate saying goodbye to him after we have spent some time together. The feeling kills me a little more inside every time. He tells me that its not goodbye..that we will see each other again...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    Divorce Saga

    I got a phone call yesterday from a number I didn't recognize. But since it was from his area, and we had been out of contact for more than 24 hours, I thought it might be him. I answered. He told me no contact for a while period. No calls, no Email. She knows my name-first and...
    Georgiasgirl Georgiasgirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Madly In Love !

    Is it wrong to love someone? Maybe I should extend that. Is it wrong to love a man that is already married? I feel like it's completely wrong and that I'm a sinner for doing it. I don't know what to do though. I've had my feelings for this man since I've known him. We always hang...
    LiveLoveLife18 LiveLoveLife18 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Are You Flippin Kidding Me?

    As some of you my already know from previous stories... I'm in love with my married man. We met. We became friends. We fell in love. John moved out of the home he has shared with his wife for many years. He said that thy just couldn't live that way anymore. He moved in with his...
    johnnysgirl johnnysgirl 41-45, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    lliivv31 lliivv31 16-17, F Dec 31, 2013

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    I'Ve Loved Him For 5 Years

    I met him at work and we became instant friends. We were always together getting breakfast and lunch and I was always helping him at work and in his love life. He was engaged and to a controlling woman. I realized before he was married that I was completely in love with him. I...
    Stormyurges Stormyurges 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Madly In Love With A Married Man

    Our relationship is 3 yrs old and its as if i met him yesterday. I knew from the 1st conversation we had that he was the man for me. He is the perfect gentleman he has never made me feel 2nd. I see him everyday. I see him on Valentines Day, Christmas, his birthday. I just dont...
    mrsirving2 mrsirving2 36-40, F 21 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 19

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    I never ever thought I would be in this situation. I never thought I'd be the other woman. I initially went into this very selfishly. I went looking for a married man so that it...
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    My friend is married with kids. But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is...
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    I recently re encountered with my middle school boyfriend and who I think was and will always be the love of my life. He feels the same and I started seeing him a month ago...
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