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I Im In Love With a Married Man

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    So Unlike Me - Its really such a long story and I will add to it as I go along . I got divorced after a 20 year relationship of which the last 11 years we were married . He had 12...
    rzeznik rzeznik 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Over Half My Life - I  began seeing my married man at the age of 19, he was 25 . He is on his 3rd marraige and I have just left my 2nd husband. Throughout our 5 marraiges we...
    Jodhi2 Jodhi2 36-40 5 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    Life Can Be Cruel. -  Here's the gist of it.... When I was 28 years old I met a fellow and we connected instantly. He was a pilot and so different from the same old, same...
    justysmom justysmom 46-50 5 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    He Reminded Me - I first want to say that I have been searching the web for a site to vent my story to people who share my pain, my joy and my utter confusion... My story begins...
    Penzi Penzi 31-35 7 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Madly In Love ! - Is it wrong to love someone? Maybe I should extend that. Is it wrong to love a man that is already married? I feel like it's completely wrong and that I'm a...
    LiveLoveLife18 LiveLoveLife18 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Revenge! - Two years ago my married man left his wife and came to live with me. For about 6 months life was wonderful waking up to him every morning and falling alseep in his arms...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Love Triangle - I'm completely in love with a mm.......its not something I'm proud of, I've tried snapping myself back to reality but its no use cause I'm already deep in love...
    mumzel mumzel 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    Little Things - Today I was working in the yard, mowing, weedeating, edging, etc. and I stopped for a moment to sit down and sip on some water. I sat there thinking about all the...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    In Waiting - He left her 6 years ago, but went back because of the children.  She is nasty to him, he can never do anything right, she doesnt take care of the children, they...
    NellysGirl NellysGirl 31-35 5 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Borrowing - The dictionary annotates that the definition of borrowing is taking and using something that belongs to someone else with the intention of returning it. We can apply...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Divorce Saga - I got a phone call yesterday from a number I didn't recognize. But since it was from his area, and we had been out of contact for more than 24 hours, I thought it...
    Georgiasgirl Georgiasgirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Madly In Love With A Married Man - Our relationship is 3 yrs old and its as if i met him yesterday. I knew from the 1st conversation we had that he was the man for me. He is the...
    mrsirving2 mrsirving2 36-40, F 21 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    Married Man Trouble! - I met this man and he was a very good and interesting freind but i started telling him things i couldnt tell anyone. My feelings bagan to change and i...
    lildonzforever lildonzforever 16-18, F 4 Responses Apr 2, 2007

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    When Is Enough Enough - Ive been in love with a married man for about five years now. We have known eachother for about 8 i fell for him quickly and didnt know he was married until...
    AforsakenLove AforsakenLove 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    My Bridges - “And in that moment, everything I knew to be true about myself up until then was gone. I was acting like another woman, yet I was more myself than ever before.”
    Georgiasgirl Georgiasgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2013

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    What Brought Me Here - Back in January, I was newly in an affair and I was surfing for a definition of a "dirty girl". That's how I found this place. Since then I have grown to...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I'Ve Loved Him For 5 Years - I met him at work and we became instant friends. We were always together getting breakfast and lunch and I was always helping him at work and in his...
    Stormyurges Stormyurges 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    I love my teacher but he's gotten married two weeks ago uggghhh
    lliivv31 lliivv31 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Love Lost Then Found - 28 years ago I was 19...in college.  Over summer break of my sophomore year I fell in love with a wonderful 23 year old man named Dale.  He...
    bmaduro1960 bmaduro1960 46-50 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Honesty - I spent the weekend with my MM and it was amazing. I really didn't want to see it end. I hate saying goodbye to him after we have spent some time together. The feeling...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    Does Trust Exist? - After two years of stolen moments I have found myself analyzing everything about what how he acts and what he says. He tells his wife that he is off a...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Valentine'S Day - I celebrated Valentine's Day with my MM and it was amazing. I was so excited to see him, after all it has been a month since I had seen him. A nice dinner, making...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    What'S Missing? - What I am missing because I am involved with him: 1. A kiss every night 2. A kiss every morning 3. To feel loved everyday 4. Someone I can call anytime...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Another Lonely Night... - I know that I should expect it but still after all these years I wait for him...No show no call.. At least I got a Text message. Yep.. A text message. I...
    johnnysgirl johnnysgirl 41-45, F 19 Responses Sep 20, 2008

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    An Update: Still In Love With A Married Man - When I posted my story "I Im in Love With A married Man" i never expected so many comments and opinions. And I thank you all for your...
    mrsirving2 mrsirving2 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    “The heart dies a slow death, shedding each hope like leaves until one day there are none. No hopes. Nothing remains.” -Arthur Golden
    asphyxxiated asphyxxiated 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I Am A Mistress - i am myself a mistress.our affair will turn on its 7th yr this coming december.it's hard being in a discreet relationship.
    frozentears32 frozentears32 31-35 2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    I Was Afraid Of The Dark, But Now It'S All That I Want, All That I Want....(Is He Going To Leave Her?) - Tonight was groundshaking for me. Everything I have fought so hard to not...
    Georgiasgirl Georgiasgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2013

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    I Know He Will Never Leave Her.... - I am in love with a married man. I know this sounds corny but his name is "John". John and I met 6 years ago at work. We hit it off...
    johnnysgirl johnnysgirl 41-45, F 12 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Damned If I Do...damned If I Don't - I really can't believe I am in the midst of this mess.  I met this MM back in July online because we both visit the same chat room. ...
    DesperatelyTorn DesperatelyTorn 41-45 12 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Looking For Support... - You know, I joined this group to find support, encouragement and people who experience the same thing I do.  It amazes me how on these posts someone...
    Chloechloe69 Chloechloe69 41-45, F 13 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I Was Totally Unprepared... - I'm in love with someone I knew 30+ years ago. He lived across the street from me and I didn't like him at! Fast forward, he friended me on FB in 2009...
    greeneyes212 greeneyes212 46-50 Nov 10, 2013

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    It Just Happened. - I got engaged early this year, and my fiance moved into my house, I got a job and everything was fine for the time being. In my training group there was a man...
    IDontCareWhatYouSay IDontCareWhatYouSay 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    Just Shoot Me - Twice he's walked away. Not because he doesn't care, but because he feels guilty. It's been three months this time. I see him on Friday. It's always his idea to...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    A Better Week - Just wanted to share that this week is going much better than last week. Why? Who knows? Maybe it has something to do with me breaking down and telling my mm...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    The Hardest Part!! - The hardest part about seeing a married man is the effect it has on your confidence. When we are together he has a way of making me feel like I am the most...
    Centasional Centasional 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    SO Confused!?! - him and his wife used to be my roomates now he calls himself my boyfriend to my lil sister he calls me every day he texts hey beautiful every morning we go on...
    georgeous0913 georgeous0913 22-25 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    im 18 years old and the 'Married Man' that i currently love is 26 years old. He's a teacher, I can't help to have the biggest crush ever on him. The way he looks into my eyes and...
    Ashbanash Ashbanash 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    I love my teacher but he's gotten married two weeks ago uggghhh
    lliivv31 lliivv31 13-15, F Dec 31, 2013

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    Anxious - I think this has been the longest weekend ever.... I am so ready to talk and try to make some decisions as to what we are going to do. i need to know where we stand...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F Sep 22, 2013

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    Finally Found The Man I've Always Dreamed Of And He's Already Married.. - I'm a 45 yr old married mother of two. I have been married to my current husband 9 years. About 4 yrs...
    shysub65 shysub65 41-45, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Me Too - Its hell. Loving him so much and being #2. He says he loves me and I love him. But I know there's  no future. But to save my life I am addictived to him. I can't walk...
    silly1962 silly1962 46-50 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    Papers Got Served... - Thursday. She served him. It's been a little crazy the last few days. He's got a lot of emotions going on--shock, worried about his relationship with his...
    Georgiasgirl Georgiasgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses May 18, 2013

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    I have been dating a married man for 3.5 years! I have been divorced for 1.5 years. He has a 4 year old and my 2 kids are older. He is still living in the house with his wife. They...
    rainbowgirlz rainbowgirlz 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    well , hes my boyfriend ,but her husband . SHE now knows of our relationship .and surprisingly is only pissed at me . he tells her some bullshit she falls for it . He even got...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    Is This Love Between Us Real? - My story mirrors so many others. I never intended to fall for a married man. I was married and faithful to my husband for our entire marriage. He...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    How I Broke Free From The Torment Of Being The Other Woman - I had met what I thought was my soul mate. We were compatible intellectually, emotionally, and sexually. A real dream...
    Deborah2014 Deborah2014 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Loving HIM Hurts... - Im in my mid twenties and he is in his early thirties. His wife is in her early fifties. She was there for him during his incarceration and took care of him...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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